Al-Adhab Al-Mufrad P. 361- 371 Hadith 542 – 557

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Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Sayidina wannabe now Mowlana Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi Ultramarine rubbish rainy Saturday uncle Emery. Well hello that Amelia Sandy of how do ya Allah in this morning in the status of an Adam and morfydd May you beautify our ethics grant as Adam Grant as ash Latvia Allah grant as he died and is the karma. Make us among those who learn the deen love the Quran? Love the Hadith and follow them strictly beautify our ethics yeah Allah beautify our ethics ya made the best of ethics. I mean,

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may Allah can she fair to my sisters who are not feeling well? May Allah remove any hardship from you? May Allah Subhana Allah feel your hearts and my heart with solace? peace, tranquility, and Eman and the Appian. Me.

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Okay, we continue with a wonderful book and other books.

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We read each page 361

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Bam, either have Barafu acervo, failure or limbo. What does it mean when a man or woman loves his or her brother in Islam or sister?

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He or she should tell them so when you love someone for Allah sake, you should tell him for you. You should tell her for us we should tell him

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so when you love someone for Allah sake unless you are very a big difference of age, and you love a brother for Allah sake, you tell him shave I love you for Allah sake. But you must be quite old. Don't tell him you are younger than him. And you are single. And you are

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I don't know what No, that make dua just make dua in environ rate without him or her knowing that you will love them for Allah sake. Okay. All right. We start with sister for more Adam, yella chapter 248 Bismillah

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Salloway Goshen, Malik. Instagrammer. How To Market Chapter Two for when a man loves his brother, he should tell him

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bye for to her this evening. Divide the Biet related from our MC them been mad de curry, who he had met that he said the prophets of Allah wa sallam said, when one of you who loves his brother, he should tell him a bit. Allahu Akbar. So that's the command the prophesies himself if you find love in your heart towards a Muslim, you should tell him or her

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I love you for Allah sake. That's it.

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In need or hippocampi Allah Hadith says say indeed I love you for Allah sake. Then the reply is this. I have back a lovey dovey May the one whom you love me in him, love you back.

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Or Allah loves you back.

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Brother I love you for Allah sake. Hit that brother should tell me and I love you for Allah sake. Or may the one you love me for love you back.

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That's a dua

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okay, but the point here is you must say it. You ladies when you love each other, you must say to one another.

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That is number one. That is a comment. Number two, that's the banner number three that is Pahala. That's a command of the province ISIL. And when you obey the command of the province, as Mallory was you, three to enter that to say to spread the words of love and the words of respect.

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Very important, we don't say that to one another.

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And that is under the eye our loss parent as I said we're all in Nessie who's gonna say good things to people. Part of saying good things is to express feelings

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of iman

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husband should tell his wife he loves her. She should tell him that she loves him. A father should say to his children, he loves them. They should tell him the same thing mother to her children, brother siblings and what means and the meaning.

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Why local farm they use this word more than us.

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Read the comment that is is that

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if somebody say I love you without saying, for the sake of Allah, do we answer

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Make the same net tell him tell him or her. You love me for for the sake of Allah. I mean the Muslims you mean they're Muslims? Yes they're Muslims. Yeah tell him tell him or her correct them say it would be better if you love me for Allah sake. Because that will last that love will last in shall rush it Yeah. And you will be together in Jannah together Mashallah. Yeah?

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Hold on please, just second just

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Yes, yes, go ahead. Documentary

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From the benefits of telling him of the love for him is that when he knows that he that he loves and is what is fond of him, he would readily takes his counsels and will not reject His words, regardless of regardless, regardless of faults, regarding a fault of his that he tells him about which he may ordinarily reject, and consider, as from jealousy or unnecessary rivalry. As for the one who informs his brother of his love for him, his first game is his obeying the order of the prophets. So the love when they send them that the one who loves his brother should tell him.

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Secondly, he benefits from the application

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application. The benefit is from the benefits from this application of the other for him that Allah should love him as shown in the next habit. Very good. So the point is, we must tell each other that we love one another for Allah sake.

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From time to time, a brother should tell his Muslim brother, brother I really love you for Allah sake, because that brother has maybe what you call certain qualities. That he's amazed that generosity. Taqwa Sobor shocker. You know forgiving forgetting big heart

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not only towards him towards others that's why he loves him. And same thing you like this sister is doing so much for Islam

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Why not love her? Why not tell her I love you sister is mashallah her doing so much. Whether you know or not, whether you know firsthand or somebody tells you sister never missing classes sister mashallah you you feel so good to see her. Whenever you meet you should tell each other

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very important.

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It brings so much positivity.

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positive atmosphere, inshallah into that very good. Thank you sister. Next Hanif. Oh, Mo she has one. Sister Fatma

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is Mila. 543 with the head say, one of the companions of the Prophet SAW Salem met me

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and took hold of my shoulder from behind. He said, I love you. I say May Allah for for Hussein, you love me. Love you. He said, If it had not been that the Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said, When a man loves another man, he should tell the theme of it. I will not have to told you. Allahu Akbar. Then continue the headset. Later he spoke of a marriage offer to me and say

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we have a slave girl but she is one i

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Okay, so he told him I love you for Allah sake. And if the prophesizing didn't tell us, I wouldn't tell you.

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But because Rasul Allah says him said, express your

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emotions to one another. Later on that man told him

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I have a slave girl for you. If you want to get married.

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Slave Girl, I will marry her to you. She becomes free and you marry her.

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But she was one I only one meaning she had one if she couldn't see it.

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Now what does that mean?

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When you love people for Allah sake, you can marry them later. You can

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offer your children to them for marriage. You can do business with them. Loving for Allah sake doesn't mean I have to do nothing with you.

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A lot of people think, like to be really pure pure love for Allah sake. We do we don't do business together we don't marry from each other we don't marry our children to each other. No

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loving for Allah sake can spring into other social activities. Here is an example, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam

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who loved him the most among the men Sahaba

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Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu Anhu then the Prophet married home his daughter, hi Aisha. Radi Allahu anha

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the love was so true that he gave him his daughter

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he didn't say no man we just love each other for Allah sake don't marry me.

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So it's okay if the love among us we for example, in the Muslims, the results to marriage result to business reliable result to bigger relationships, no problem. There is nothing wrong with that. Some people think if we love each other for Allah sake, we shouldn't do anything. We just see each other and say I love you for Allah sake. I love you. I love you. Like

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your daughter is mashallah age of marriage. And my son is age of marriage. And I love you for Allah sake. As a good student of mine. And tomorrow when I asked you to marry your daughter to my son, you'll be like me.

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You'll see a lot of people fail when it comes to practicing the law of love is very easy to say.

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But when it comes to really natural rate promoted, evolved mates

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most of us fail

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I'll give you an example.

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Let's say there is a black sister with us. Black sister in class where the black black black from Africa. I love you sister. Where are you from? I'm from Kenya and Tanzania. I'm Nigeria. Okay, very good. The same Sister You told her I love you for Allah sake. She asked you I would like to marry my son to your daughter. See?

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I just love you for Allah sake for your son to marry my daughter I don't know.

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You see what I where we most of us fail.

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May Allah forgive us. But let's now just talk about when we feel each towards each other good feelings we should express to one another. Ah, but ladies with ladies and brothers we brothers I stress upon that. Very good.

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Continue with commentary sister Fatma.

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It demonstrates the sincerity of the early Muslims owing to his love for him. He offered to marry a young girl to Him.

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The word Outre translated as one I could also mean a female without a brother or sister from her own father and mother. This may be the meaning referred to in this narration. I think yeah, and I think that is even stronger our our in Arabic beans one I also it means a girl who has who has no brother, no sister from the same father. Meaning meaning she she is on her own. So there are two meanings of the word our if I tell you if I tell you in Arabic have he? Imagine our who

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this woman is our

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not our the out of the private no our our our our

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our our means two things in Arabic. One Eye she has only one eye meaning she can have two eyes but one she can see with the other one she cannot or one already injury

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have blind our means have blind Okay.

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The other meaning is that she has no brother. She is learning.

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He is learning she has no system

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do you understand what does it mean Emma our I think I strongly believe it's not the blind that girl

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it's the girl who has no one so he's he's like telling her brother if you truly love me here is this girl I have slave. I free her for Allah sake and you marry her. She has no one

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that's how much they love each other.

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You saw him poor he has nothing it's not like he's rich and he wants to marry him. He has nothing he's doing in favor

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you understand? What does it mean? I love you so much when Allah sake you have nothing I'm ready to give you one of my slave girls for marriage and you have nothing

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that is helping

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that is helping sisters. Someone who has nothing and you give him a girl to marry

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that's a big help

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in order to marry has to save I don't know what how much he has nothing. He has nothing now they have each other

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Did you understand?

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They have each other? This man now has someone to wait for him after work she has someone to love her and take care of her.

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You understand? Because most of you think like like from your from your point.

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If you are quite well off you think how come no.

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Think at this hadith in its context. The man has nothing his brother loves Him for allah sake. He wants to give him a girl who also has no one isn't that beautiful? That is really what we need to do help each other

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you know boy, you know limited and there is a governor nobody is coming to marry her.

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Join them Buccos them together.

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Tempo jumper then Hamdulillah

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I know some ladies used to do that my mom my late mom may Allah have mercy on her she has so many people to make. And I was like

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she did it. never gone to school.

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She's doing better job than so many counselors and matrimonials may Allah have mercy on her? Yeah, they just had your heart and they they wanted goodness to people. Can I find your girl

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in no time all the girls of the neighborhood were married. Whoa

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Yeah, so do that my sisters

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Do you add I love you for Allah sake. Occasionally or every time you meet the brother or sister whenever you feel

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okay. When when the feeling is strong. Do you say to him or her?

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Yeah, say is very good.

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And you are obeying the Prophet shaytan will come and say hey, you just said it two weeks ago. Why you want to say it Fatma? What's wrong with you say it.

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Because that shaytan doesn't want you to get more Pahala

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Japan Allah,

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very good. yella are more Harris next Hadith.

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And that's it. The Prophet SAW salem said, when two men love each other, the better of them is the one who has the strongest love for his companion. Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. Ah, when two people love each other, who has more Pahala

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The one who loves the other one more?

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And I think you ladies you always win in this you always love your husbands more than they love you I'm sure

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I love him I don't know I need the evidence

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that we hear all the time

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No, no serious. I do feel women are more

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more I think into mom.

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I don't know. But I feel the ladies are mashallah more genuine.

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You're what else? Whatever.

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When two brothers love each other when Two Sisters in Islam like you, you my students, you love it. Whoever loves the other one more.

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has more. So compete

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compete in loving each other. How cheer as soon as I sell them said this is how you compete in love. He said exchange gifts.

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To had to to have boo.

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Beautiful had these two words.

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They said there's

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hadith of two words to have to do to have exchange gives you a loved one that

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sort of whoever gives a better gift to the earth.

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then one

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is clearly loves the other one more. But pay attention. Some people are poor. When they give you something, that's all they have, so that is too much for them. I'll give you an example.

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Once a hobby brought one the Prophet SAW as needed, needed money for jihad. He told the Sahaba and people donate we need money to fight. Once the hubby brought one kilogram of days, the hypocrites made fun of him

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while people were donating gold and silver, this Sahabi may Allah be pleased with him from the unser brought one kilogram of date

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and put it near the professor's and he said they are so glad that's all I have.

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To Hippocrates May Allah Kurzeme said,

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Look at look what is gaming, they made fun of him the prophets as we looked at them very angrily, and he said this other path

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in Allah has scale more than all what you have donated because he donated it sincerely and that's all he has.

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So what matters to Allah is not

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the value of what you gave, but the condition you were in when you gave.

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Somebody may give an apartment

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delights Allah but he has a whole

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what to call that area. He owns the whole time and don't He gives one apartment

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and somebody has only one apartment he gives it who has given more.

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You understand? Somebody has a million ringgit, he gives 1000. Ringgit.

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Somebody has 2000. Ringgit gives 1000. Ringgit, one day 50%. The other one I don't know how to get 1%

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Did you see so do not look at the person when why he or she is giving you a gift. Who is that person? I mean? I mean, how much he can afford how much he can afford.

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very good. Another somebody may go and buy your gifts. Somebody he was given so many gifts he is giving you

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he has so many of those things.

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That doesn't mean it's not he doesn't love you or she does love you but please appreciate whatever is given to you and never return a gift. When a gift is given to your ticket you use it or not but don't injure the heart of someone who loves you

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he or she brought you a gift take it you don't you don't like it is to die is too large is whatever

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it doesn't matter.

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Show them that you accepted thank them and when Allah gives you a chance give them something even better later on.

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But don't say no, this is not my my style this is not my type

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in what you are doing. The prophesy has never returned Hadiya

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but from from Hippocrates from people who are trying to look good in front of people by giving you you know you know who so

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I'm talking about someone who truly loves you for Allah sake he or she brings you gifts even if it's a date, take it to exam and this acceptance to make them feel good inshallah

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continuous sister

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Zarina one more Hadith

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chapter 249 When someone loves a man, he should not quarrel with him, not as about him.

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545 more admin Jabara yellow and to say, where you live your brother Muslim, neither quarrel with him nor treat him badly. Now ask questions about him. It may be that you meet an enemy of his who will say something untrue about him, and thereby cause a split between you. Allahu Akbar,

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aren't we doing this?

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Aren't we doing this?

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Many of us we claim we love each other. We don't ask about them.

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Did he come? What did he say?

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What are you doing brother? You may need someone who doesn't like that brother or sister and stop saying bad things and then now create doubt in your mind or in your heart and that's it.

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So when you love someone, trust him or her

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and give them only the benefit of the doubt.

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Always give them the benefit of the doubt. If you truly love her

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Why don't see why he says so? What she said. So, what does he mean by this? What does she mean by that?

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Why is he late? Why is she late? Don't say that.

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Give them the benefit of the doubt.

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If you love someone, if you don't love them, that's up to you but when you love someone,

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here is what the Prophet SAW Selim said and what I've been Jevon students of the Prophet so I sent him said when you love your Muslim brother or sister neither quarrel with that so don't quarrel or argue it's okay. It's his opinion or opinion better any? Because sisters and brothers when we love each other, Allah put love between the hearts Allah didn't put the love between the minds.

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Are you looking at me? Here Here? Here? You have a different thinking than I do.

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It's okay to have different opinions

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different opinions that's got that heart no

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people have different opinions.

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There is nothing wrong with that. But hearts no we have to have the same heart meaning the same table ah, the same love will of Allah We love the messenger slice that's a matter of how how we think.

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Yeah, you think you should have taken this road to this destination? The other side you see I told you we have that. It's okay. But we don't want we don't argue

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because there is no point especially when things that I've done. That's it done. Where we are doing about it. It's finished.

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I give you an example.

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You're going to somewhere

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and Masha Allah, you suggest that you take the highway you suggest to your husband and he says no let's go jail. Angela and I want to see the old road nostalgic he wants to remember the compound where he will used to stop with the bus.

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But a fragile look at all the asana

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training Greencore and wedding sarung spiritual you end up

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arriving late very late Hallas you already arrived Hamdulillah you think your husband who took that road he's not

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you say huh, I told you we should take the highway you see we wasted three four or five hours

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and you don't know the joy your husband had you don't know the joy now you are making a big problem with him

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just because you wanted to arrive early

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while he remember something is us

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you know what I mean? Same thing for you. Sometimes it's you who likes those things so but we already arrived why are we all on I'm told you I told me I told you that shape and dance in between

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so Muslims shouldn't quarrel with another Muslim he loves a Muslim ah shouldn't quarrel with another Muslim she loves Okay, nor treat him badly. Don't treat badly someone you you you claim your love. You claim you love someone you treat him or her badly and currently

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don't do that.

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And then he said, may Allah be pleased with him.

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No more asked something about him. Don't go inquire behind the back of your brother or sister whom you love.

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You go inquire from the back. Why not to him or her? Like what happened during my last journey? Why not straight to me come straight to shake and ask why you go behind his back.

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That's not love. That's not love. Allah expose many people

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who claim they love. If you love you talk to the person directly directly and with her small one with with

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good, good thoughts.

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Not with as if there is something

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that you don't have any longer.

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I hope I clarified this hadith to all my sisters. So if someone loves a man

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if a sister loves a sister, he or she

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should not weren't with him or her and should not ask about him or her.

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What does it mean ask about him or her? Not ask how are they doing? Are they okay? Do they not go behind their back and try to find about them that's not right. If you love someone you ask him or her directly not copy line that's not love.

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That is not love.

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Is this clear my sister's a lot of Muslims do this, fall into the opposite of this hadith

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that's not added no manners whatsoever. When you claim you love someone and you will inquire about them from third party and that third party could be enemy and then the person tells you wrong things, then you lose that good friend. And this is exactly what is happening. Subhan Allah

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Subhan Allah Allah this is I will show you all know about this. This is exactly what's happening in our Muslim community, especially here in Malaysia.

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Malays are very good people, but they have a major problem. They backbite

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and that's a major sin.

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If the Malays gives up, give up on the on backbiting Allahu Akbar

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there will be majority of people of paradise inshallah.

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I hope I am drilling few things inside your mind this morning.

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If you love someone, he or she, if don't quarrel with him or her give them benefit of the doubt. And if there is anything ask them directly.

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Don't go behind their backs.

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Thank you, Sister sestina next Hadith

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psycho che when it comes to Rama, not Allah he'll Baca spiller who had it five or six. Abdullah bin said the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam said, Whoever loves his brother in Allah for the sake of Allah and says, I love you for Allah, they will both enter the Garden. The one who loves for Allah has a higher degree because of his love over the one whom he loved. Allahu Akbar.

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Ah, both of them will go to generic see, you see the benefit of loving one another for Allah sake.

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So we all go to Jana when we love each other, but one will have more Pahala because he loved the other one more or he started it. He initiated it. He came first and say Brother I truly love you for Allah sake.

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continuous system commentary.

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The whole this hadith is graded week by Imam Alban Avani as mentioned above, Rahim Allah as mentioned above, he said it has in his chain of the rough man and he is in Ziad been an

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if free for a week reporter that If,

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however, in the foreword of his checking and editing on sharks and unbeatably Majan by Imam allowed in Muay Thai Rahimullah, she might even be a nun have a perfect example law. Refer to the extensive discussion on the status of this reporter, Abdul Rahman if free T by Imam Al mobile pay. He cited the comments of eminent scholars such as Ben Sollee Aliss V. Al Bukhari, and we'll work our evening a bit out Abdullah bin Mohammed al Maliki, and even an NGO in and Imam Hassan Rahim Mahoma Rahima Humala was extolling the virtues of our everyday declared as being a trustworthy reporter and defending some of the issues raised by those who grade him weak amongst the stars. Most of these

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comments by these colors according to shape, A, A B A nine are also are only found in the works of Muay Thai, who concluded that the most correct opinion is that of the Rockman If Ricky is a reliable reporter, in that case, the Hadith anon spin Malik above is will not be lesser than Hassan sound along those that's very good. It's just technical technical discussion of this hadith is that is the Hadith week or Hadith sung Imam Al Albani. Rakim Allah one of the greatest modern scholars of Hadith says this week because of this man called Abdul Rahman Al is ready.

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If raping is African

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Dr. Madden every day to Imam Al Albani was not trustworthy in certain Hadith. That's why he, he doesn't want to really take this hadith as strong. But other odema like Ebola is a heavy local law still another great score, he said, No, there is nothing wrong with this abdominal every day. He is a very reliable, we studied him, we went to his biography, and we found that he is very good man and him.

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Some people didn't like him and you know, have spread rumors against him. So the Hadith, at least is some if not authentic, it's some which is close to the other a hadith we have seen.

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That if you love someone for Allah sake, and you love him more than he loves you, both of you will be in Jannah but you have more Pahala than him or her

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so span Allah you see the religion of love.

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You see Islam is the religion of love is really religion of love to the moment in when we love we love one another first before we go local foreign leave the Muslims hate the Muslims and find the Muslims. That's not Islam.

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We need to love one another for Allah sake.

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Not because you are a rich woman you come to my class or because that brother is a tangent No, no, no that has nothing to do with that we love each other for Allah sake.

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Very important sisters.

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Very good. Thank you sister Ceci yella system Azaria.

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We are in page 364 For those who just join us and the cluster 1030 You keep telling me share be on time when I'm on time most of you are not on time

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a binding

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JSON Can I ask hold on hold on the poster my

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Minister of Interior Affairs is is correcting me

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okay the poster says 11 A and may Allah forgive those who put the poster

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you know that way? Okay. Hallas May Allah forgive us on the class the classes from now on are 10:30am to 1230

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Insha Allah okay morning and night 9pm Inshallah, okay, yes asks Is that who wants to ask?

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Me is a Padma?

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Let's see if you want to say I love you for our steak too. You're not your I mean brother. Not your blood brother blood sister. For example, not your siblings. But if you want to say I love love you. Like for example, say I want to say I love you sisters do not do I say I love you for our sake or I love you. Because it's my sibling. Okay, if you mean if you mean for Allah sake, no need to say it. But better better.

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I love two siblings, even two siblings. Yes, because because there must be love between brothers and sisters anyways but I am not loving you because of that. That's already there. So when you tell sisters all in our home I know you love for Allah sake and she loves you for Allah sake and Hamdulillah you tell us Janina I love you for Allah sake. Meaning I'm not loving you just like a sister. Because you go with me to classes because you are very helpful because you care about me because you You understand me when I have I am upset you suffer on me. Things like that.

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So use the word Allah

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and then Allah will bless that love and that statement because brothers and sisters we must love them anyways.

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But I am Zarina Fatima sestina Azaria Alia who are whatever you I love you for Allah sake not as my students

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not only as my sister in Islam as my students as my sisters who care about me don't believe rumors

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just like that verify

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things like that. So must use the word for Allah sake better always use for Allah sake

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Thank you very good. Jana sister, Azaria

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radical got set up McCullough chapter 250. The intelligence is in the heart. Are these five seven? Yes, correct. Correct. Okay. Are these five

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For seven ally may Allah be pleased with him said Siffin the intelligence is located in the heart. Mercy is located in the liver. Compassion is located in the spleen. The endurance or breathing is located in the lungs

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are they you know, are they are the Allahu Anhu was very wise. This is how they are they not have different debates Lamesa what is the intelligence? The intelligence is not in the brain. Intelligence is in the heart.

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Let's see the commentary. So the intelligence according to Imam Ali or the Allahu anhu, is hottie

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and then the Rama the mercy is in the liver.

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And the compassion is in the spleen.

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Let's see these three organs how important they are. And the endurance, it's truly in the land.

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You see someone walking and doesn't find

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the means in us His lungs are strong.

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While you are me if we just climb one step

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10 steps

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because in humans, the lungs, the lungs don't have enough exercise.

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So what is the relationship of this with intelligence in that so we finished the love the love for Allah sake. Now let's see something about

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beautiful where is the intelligence? Let's see. cometary

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mentary the trials and tribulations that befell the Muslims at Siffin were over 50,000 Muslims lost their lives is well known, perhaps earlier on in the address implied by his saying that intelligence is in the heart that says the heart is the muzzle of flesh in the body, which when sound, the rest of body is upright, and which when bet the rest of the body goes bad likewise. So when the heart is sound, the intellect and its contemplations will be some, likewise, the character and their opponent, mercy and compassion will have their right places. If Conversely, the heart is sick, the intellect is contemplations will be sick and character will be bad, leading to further shedding of

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blood among the people. Very good. So earlier, the Alon was was commenting on the war that happened between him and Maria, may Allah be pleased with them both. Were 50,000 lives lost. So he was like, Oh my God.

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What is this? What led the Muslims to

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50,000 Muslims were killed between the camp of Satan and God or the Allahu Anhu and the camp of Satan and why we are the Allah and who clashed over caliphate, who should be the Caliph

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that led so meaning.

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The hearts were blind in Safin.

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The heart couldn't see the there was nothing what call in if we were not intelligent enough that's why we went to war.

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That's why we went to war. Yet the son of Cena Ali or the Allahu Anhu and Hudson, the first son it hasn't been Ali or the Alon renounce leadership

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when why we wanted it he said oh yeah come and take it. I don't want I don't want black bloodshed among Muslims. And why we became Calif.

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So what did he do? He used the intelligence of the heart. He didn't want leadership. No doubt it was the real scary fan.

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It was the real challenge.

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But problems happened. So war started. As a result, how many lives were lost 50,000 or more

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in the Battle of Safin

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and then the son of Ali or the Allahu Anhu after he was called by some people to be Calif. He said no, I don't want

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as a result, there was no bloodshed

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because Maria was not going to give up. He had strong army and they were obedient to Him.

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He said I don't want blood between the Muslims.

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Although I was really the Calif because people gave him he didn't ask for it. He said Leave Leave your tickets.

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The point we are not discussing a historical issue. We can see that in the Sierra after the Sierra that Sahabas life Abubakar

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marksman I think what happened between it and Malia, may Allah be pleased with them both and this and that. We are saying,

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intelligence is in the heart, when you have a pure heart, you are very intelligent.

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And if you want to look, where is the Mercy, the place of it is the liver?

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And the spleen, the place of compassion?

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Sure, you mean physically? Yes, physically, you think you think they didn't know?

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Animals intelligent or not?

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They are

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very intelligent animals are very intelligent. But their intelligence is where can they go to school.

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So going to school doesn't make you intelligent.

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You may go to the top top top school of the world. Yet when you see an old woman having to sit in the bus you don't get up.

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We're talking about spiritual intelligence. We're not talking about IQ.

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IQ have PhD in robotics. But when you saw that old man you pretended

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you're supposed to get up and give him uncle cam said, now you are intelligent in your heart.

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So when I forgive you, when you forgive me, or overlook our mistakes, we are intelligent, but when we go to each other's throats, where is intelligencia?

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You got it.

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That's what he's trying to say.

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But study this hadith. And you'll be amazed that many scientists took this hadith of Sedna, Annie and they are now looking what's the relationship of the spleen of a human being with being too compassionate? The liver

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the liver,

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and mercy

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and the heart and intelligence

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that's why Oregon people are Bordeaux

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which is our subject now. Bordeaux Bordeaux. You want to see a Bordeaux person look at an Oregon

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Oregon people have a big problem. They are really stupid. If they just let go a little bit of their arrogance. They look very intelligent. They can fit around for fear around so that portion open I mean the C open is still followed. Are you out of your mind? At least stop here with your horses stopped here. No, you said let me go. Okay, that's exactly what Allah wants you to do.

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That's exactly what Allah wants you to do.

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So which intelligence he has?

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You got it because his heart was full of arrogance.

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Although his his mind was telling him no, this is si Tambo.

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Some people are like that, until they ruin themselves. Let's see the next Hadith

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with Sister

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Farah Zabeel.

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Do you have the Hadith to five one? Yes, no. Mikoshi moto Lavaca chapter 251 Elegance

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48 Abdullah with mercy. We were shooting with the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and a Bedouin men wearing a green robe approach until he stood before the Messenger of Allah. So overhauling Salam, he said, Your companion has debased every horseman or he said he intends to debase every horseman and elevate every shepherd, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to call out the falls of Israel and said, I see that you are wearing the clothes of someone who is without intelligence. Then he went on, when the Prophet No, this be upon him, was close to death. He said to his son, I will give you some instructions. I commend you to things and I forbid you to things. I

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command you to say there is no God but Allah. If the seven heavens and the seven earth were to be placed in one skill, and Kalama La La Ilaha ie there is no God but Allah was placed in the other, it would weigh them. If the seven heavens and the seven earth were a dark ring, they would be cut by La ilaha illallah II there is no God but Allah, Allah subhana wa Morbihan V IE, Glory be to Allah and by His grace. It is the prayer of everything. And by it, everything has its provision. I forbid you to associate the

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is with Allah and I for a bit right? I said, it was asked messenger Allah, we know about shoot ie to associate something with Allah. But what is pride? Is it that one of us has a role, ie a knife, Claude nice cloth, which he wears? The Prophet replied, No, it was us. Is it that one of us has a pair of good sandals with two bootstraps? He replied, No. He was asked, is it that one of us has a particular animal that he writes? He replied, No. He was asked, is it that one of us has companions who come and sit with him? He said, No. He was asked messenger of Allah. What is pride? Then? He replied, It is to ignore the truth and to hold people in contempt.

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Should I drive a Bentley?

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Should I drive a Maserati share of Lamborghini share? I drive Range Rover, seven seater is

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like a bus. Chef. I wear the best cloth.

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Louis Vuitton bag.

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Although I have problem with that.

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Shoes, very expensive. Does that make you arrogant? No. Shame I have so many people who know Me Love me come to my house. That's not That's not arrogance. Arrogance. is an action of the heart. Look at me sisters. Somebody shows you you around. You still don't want to listen to

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you. You said you said

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the capital city of Indonesia is Kuala Lumpur. Somebody corrected you and said, Jakarta.

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You look at him or her like, Who are you to correct me?

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Example I'm just giving you example.

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You were wrong about something and somebody showed you you were wrong.

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You don't want to accept from that. That is arrogance. Arrogance also, is to look down at people.

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You look down at people you go to the campaign. Look at me, you go to the campaign and you start shaking hands like this with the camp of people. You know, you know, yeah, that.

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If you ever do that, if anyone does that to me, Allah, for example, give me a hand. What is this?

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hand like this. So systems when you see people who don't forget who you are, where you are. Don't don't think you are beyond. be humbled. When you sit, sit down with people, when you talk give full face when when when you smile, smile. When you are angry, show your anger. Well Don't Don't be have have not gone to Allah doesn't like that. You got it what I mean?

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So, the Prophet, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam advice, this bedwin, who came wearing green robe,

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and he was arrogant.

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It was not the way he was wearing. It's the way he addressed the Prophet sallallahu Sallam Who amongst you hear

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the prophets has noticed that then the promises you set with him, Okay, what is it? Can I help you? And he started the of course talking, the Prophet says, hold him from here

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and told him you are wearing the cloth of an arrogant man. He doesn't mean the green. He means the behavior. The way you are talking brother is not right. That you are bringing green or black or white. That's not it's not the clothes that makes you arrogant. Although there is a relationship, but it's your own. So Allah subhanaw taala if you were very expensive cloth, you were a nice guy. You drive a nice car, you live in a big house doesn't make you arrogant. But what makes you arrogant is your attitude.

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Is your attitude sisters, be careful of that place is how we talk to people. If upon three talks to you, you give her all full face if somebody else you know had for you. No, don't do that. Sir. So it is to ignore the truth. So when people show you the truth, you ignore it. You don't want to correct yourself when you're wrong. And you look down to people, some people you look down at them.

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Don't do that. That is arrogance. That is pride. So and then the prophets I'm told that between the story of

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Prophet Noah had a son when he was dying, he called his son. And he told him I commend you of two things. And I forbid you from two things. I commend you with it.

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Hola Hola. My son never stopped saying like Rahim Allah, and Subhan Allah who will be handy.

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These two that is secret about them, all your problems will be solved with La Ilaha illa Allah Subhana Allah who will be handy. Remember that, that he told him I forbid you have two things. Shake, and pride.

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Don't come to check my son after I'm gone. And don't be arrogant not because your son of a prophet, you start her.

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I can see it in the attitude of some of us.

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Sisters and Brothers very dangerous.

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A kid talking to

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to the driver as if the driver Hey, the driver works for your father and mother doesn't work for you.

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Watch the behavior of your kids. And tell them not to be arrogant.

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These kids of today most of them don't understand they think they have to smile. They think everything is logical. They think everything can be because they want to university that may be more than you.

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Want your children for Allah sake.

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Thank you, Sister.

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and I asked you a question.

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How do you react to an arrogant person who look down on you? What is the best way for for, for example, somebody looked down on me and I how do I react to that person? Give him or her first time benefit of the doubt. And ask them.

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I tell them I didn't like the behavior you did with me on a one on one. Would you please don't do that again. If they apologize, it means they were really not in a good day.

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They were really wrong. They see that mistake and hamdulillah if they continue ignore them. You know when you see them think they are transparent.

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Because arrogant people

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cannot understand things unless people ignore them, the more attention you give them, they will never stop being arrogant to you. So ignore them completely as if they don't exist. When you see them as if you didn't see them.

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That's it.

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They say salaam say Welcome Center. But no more than that. Until they learn a lesson.

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And that doesn't make you arrogant, that makes you giving them the same medicine

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that they will realize

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is this clear? Thank you

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completely ironic people Allah doesn't love them and you're sitting with them, talking with them. Allah says in Allah Allah you hit one moto can be read. Indeed Allah doesn't love the Quran but a couple and you're sitting with them, you're interrupting them or maybe Allah will guide them. No.

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If you talk to some for example, you see someone ignoring you or who to say please take them on the site to show them you are better than them because they may have done that to you in front of people

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salamati consisted

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May I know why you did this or said this? I really didn't like it you hurt me.

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You fix it I'm sorry. What Allah He give them benefit.

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If they do it again.

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You see plastic plastic.

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Like that even plastic you realize that this plastic

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ignore them. Then they realize they start feeling why they are not talking to me why they Yes, because you are arrogant.

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Okay, Allahu Allah. Says that Farah Surya Go ahead.

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Salam aleikum?

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Wa Rahmatullah 549 IGNOU. Mar said, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Whoever behaves in silently or walks with arrogant gate will meet Allah, the mighty and exalted, who will be angry with him.

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Allah, I don't want my father to meet me angry. I don't want my husband to meet me angry. I don't want some my share to meet me angry and angry at me. And he meets me once and based on that meeting, he decides

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why you are His cloth. You forgot that arrogance is the cloth of Allah.

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Who are you to be arrogant.

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When you already have one kilo or half kilo of poop inside you.

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What are we carrying right now in our intestines? Poop and urine. How can I be arrogant now as a biller, and who am I who am I? Who

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What am I

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I beginning sperm. What's my end? Stinky body.

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So we come from Subhanallah look what from when we come as babies and look what will happen to our bodies if they don't quickly very as and now what we carry?

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Yeah Allah we forget that when I don't think that you be humble and I lose nothing by being humble.

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Did you see that humble people? Everybody loves them?

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Did you see the arrogant people even animals run away from them?

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Animal cats may run away from

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Subhan Allah

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May Allah save us.

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I mean, so what I'm saying sisters here menta of llama Fein FC, who whoever feels inside himself he behaves in sovereignty or walks with pride. You know some people walk as if they are or drive their cars or whatever. As if the road is just for them.

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These people now the biller

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especially in wedding ladies, when you're wearing something nice and you go look at me, Princess Diana of Malaysia has come

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like where? Why sit down says that you have been invited to a wedding. Sit down, eat, come and notice and go unnoticed.

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Come and noticed and go into this say congratulation to the bride and the groom.

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It could be even like

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so Okay, put put some of your beautiful clothes. That's not arrogant, but don't like hey, here I am. Hey, here I am

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I know some of you are laughing now.

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Who will be angry with him? He will meet Allah human piano who will be angry with him.

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Oh Akbar because you did something Allah doesn't like doesn't like you to do. It's only his it is Allah who has the right to be to be our when big grades. It is Allah who has the right to be arrogant.

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Yet no one sees him. Yet no one says in

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his arrogance Subhanallah no one's easy. But not arrogant like you and me because you and me arrogance is evil is wrong for Allah is right because he's king. King of Kings.

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Knocking beside him so it's fine and sees him anyways.

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You and me.

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Other than then you're on to the toilet diarrhea. What type of arrogance is this?

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In the toilet, the toilet you are humble.

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Like they're

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laughing laughs sisters laughs Vidya is full of problems.

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It's a good

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continuous sister Farah Surya with the commentary. Let's see commentary. The insolent shows overbearing pride over others, considering the favors of Allah on him as only from his own knowledge, assets and rights. The people are ordinarily displeased with such persons and the arrogant will meet Allah the Exalted while he is angry with him. Thus, arrogance brings about loss in both worlds. We ask for Allah's protection from his anger. I mean,

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ask Allah to keep you humbled.

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No matter what you become. You marry a rich man. Stay humble. You become rich, stay humble.

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You become powerful you become I don't know. Minister or deputy minister or director of company or stay humble, stay humble. You look good by being humble.

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Wallah You look beautiful and humble.

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But you are arrogant now it would be nice to have just like a shape that

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yeah, don't don't.

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Very good.

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Sister Bina 550

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Santa Monica. When it comes to life, I boomerang I say the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam said someone who's seven is with him, writes a donkey in the marketplace and ties up his sheep and mills. It is not proud. Alhamdulillah the Comment Commentary? I had this sir

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towards the actions that help to pro purify the soul and remove arrogance. Very good. One way to purify your soul and remove arrogance, do things by hand.

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Sister code, you have a maid sometimes you cook,

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Sister You haven't made

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clean the toilet.

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Didn't Imam Al Ghazali do that? The famous great Abrahamic God has any imagined sisters. Do you know who isn't Roselli in 505

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as that he was the top scholar of the Ummah, when he felt a little bit of arrogance because people praise him shave you are shaved you are chef J, what Islam?

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Islam, Islam the proof of Islam. He started feeling a little bit the nerves. So what did he do? He took a leave from Baghdad. He went to Damascus. Nobody knows him in Damascus. They know him by name by fame, but not by face. So by name He is famous, and was early on as early as the whole Muslim world new anniversary, but very few people know his face. Because there was no social media in December.

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So he was hiding. What was he doing? cleaning the toilets of Mozilla Moe, the Mozilla Moe, he came there to take a break from the fame, the life of fame and he started cleaning the toilet.

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How do they know it was him?

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He heard the man

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asking the the Imam of the masjid in mov the famous Masjid in Syria. Damascus is called Al Jami, Al Moe. The Almighty atmosphere very important as yet if you ever go to Damascus, you must go there for all of history.

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That was good.

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He's like one of the oldest masajid of the world. God our sisters

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and brothers visit insha Allah imagine I when I went there, I imagined the Imam Al Ghazali. Hearing this man asking the email, a question. The Imam said this question is very difficult. Only Imam as Eddie can answer. This is the wicked brother. I'm sorry. I don't know the answer.

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Emmanuel has said he was sitting there. After cleaning the toilets. He followed the men when the men left the message. He told him brother come because it's haram to hide knowledge, you know that? If you know an answer to an Islamic question and you hide it you Allah will radio

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if you know the knowledge, you have to say so he told him.

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I would like to answer your question, but with one condition. You don't tell anyone that he was me.

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He said okay, what is the answer? He said, I heard you saying same thing this, go and do this and this and this.

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That man out of happiness. He went straight to the Imam. I told him

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I think I know the answer.

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The Imam said the answer to the question you asked me. He said yes. He told him he should know.

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Only a great add in like Amazon, he can answer this question. No, no, no, I don't think who told you this?

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He said I promised I will not tell him to tell who he said for Allah sake. Tell me because this must be great. Alan. We all have to sit down in front of him. He said Do you see that man that? Oh, that man that cleaning the messy Masjid now? Is that cleaning the messy

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share? Imam must be the one to him by Allah tell us who are you.

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Now when somebody tells you by Allah sorry. You have to

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he told him he looked at that man. Didn't I tell you? He said I am Abu Mohammed.

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They were shocked Mohammed was cleaning toilet? He said yes. Because the next little bit arrogant, so I needed to bring it under control.

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This is the story of one island. Another added Imam tell me

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so now Abrahamic rosary, humbling himself

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so that he doesn't get our organs doesn't get to his mind and heart. Imam tell me the Rahim Allah great Adam of Hadith. Imagine sisters, I'm teaching you and suddenly

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I just stop like this and be like this.

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You see my lips

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for more than five minutes until you start saying chef we don't hear you. Chef is

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are no problem. Are you mute? Are you? Is your mic mute?

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For five minutes you were quiet. He said, I was making stefarr Because when I saw the 1000s of students shaytan came to me and said, How great are you? Or even Timothy, look at people coming from all over the world to seek knowledge from you. He said, I was asking Allah forgiveness is still for five minutes and seeking refuge in Allah from China. He came to this video in the class

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greater the humble ones.

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At least they had knowledge.

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These people they don't even know Hadith. And they are arrogant. Don't talk to me. Talk to my secretary. Oh.

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So I gave you two that's how so for ladies, one way insha Allah to bring yourself to control is to do things with your own hands my sisters

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and that doesn't take from you the status of being the lady of the house sometimes just you know the floor with your hand masala says was doing that.

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You when You wash dishes, to three dishes, wash them.

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You take the trash outside.

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Trash, you carry it, you take it outside

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to the dustbin.

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There's nothing wrong with that.

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That will keep you humble.

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but doesn't mean you take your beautiful baju cat hits, make holes and go out and say I want to be humble that you're not humble. You're crazy.

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Allah gave you a beautiful cloth you go. No. Okay, visit the Masjid. Sit with children. Sit with that Auntie that is on board sit with her. Now your humble sit on the floor. In our sofa everyday so far on the floor, little bit massage

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massage to yourself. I mean when you sit on the floor, that's what I meant massage. Because some of you say she told us go do massage. I didn't tell you about myself.

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I said sit on the floor.

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Very important.

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Now pay attention to this hadith

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that sister Dena read. The Messenger of Allah Azza wa sallam said someone who servants eat with him

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rides the donkey in the marketplace and ties up his sheep and means it is not proud.

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So if you eat with, with your mates, if you drive your own car, you drive your own car, your donkey your car.

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Although you may have driver but sometimes you drive your car

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and you make meaning you cook. You do things with your hand one one day burn a cake sister. It's okay to burn.

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It's okay even if you burn it, but you do it yourself.

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You know what I mean?

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You prepare a cup of coffee for yourself or your husband. What is the problem?

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Some of you Oh, I brought the maid she's paid for what? Yeah, he let her rest he she already did a lot of things you go things like that.

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I hope it's not too much. I'm not asking you too much. Very good.

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System mostly

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by five one.

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Assalamu alaikum Sheikh are they concerned? I don't have the book shake sorry, masha Allah and you always attend. That's very good. Okay.

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Sister, are you from Malaysia? No, I'm from Sri Lanka Sheikh I am messaging you know saying that my mom is not feeling well. So yeah, you are the one How is she she? She is progressing very slow.

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Because it's a dialysis patient. So inshallah che please say no include many of us. I'm traveling on Wednesday to Sri Lanka to see her. May Allah be with your son, our Salah May Allah grant has Shiva.

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An E is I noticed things in Sri Lanka were nasty for Muslims. Yes, exactly. I know because they are Muslims. They let them suffer even if you have dialysis they use COVID

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For a while we don't know COVID What is this? Everybody's hiding behind COVID Now, I want to see my mom I want to see

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you know what my wife was dying may Allah have mercy on her system. I told them come here I tell you something. You have no right to stop. My wife is sick she needs someone to visit her. Do you understand that? That's difficult to stop someone from seeing someone sick. I don't care about your COVID patient it's as OPI said I don't you have your SOP I have my sop. How about that now? Then they says okay come at what is coming down

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they'll tell them yes and sue them if anything sue them so that I mean it Muslims have to stand up now for what they believe is right. Because I'm asking just to be with my destiny i don't have COVID I need to go Yeah, that's the reason you know I'm I'm traveling back. Yes of course is the boss is the main lobby with you and with your mom may Allah grant has she Faryab Inshallah, when she sees you she will be much happy and she can recover inshallah. Allah.

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May Allah bless you and your manager.

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Does that. Why your younger sister Jeanne, go ahead.

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Bismillah Sally, the garment seller related from her grandmother, that she said, I saw I leave at the Allahu Anhu by dates for Durham and carry them in his cloak. I said to him, or a man said to him, I will carry it for you Amir I mean, he said no. The father of the family is the one who is most entitled to carry on.

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Weak chain are no weak chain, the Sahaba do this. Look at me sisters. You see this lot here. My homies.

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He bought some dates. I made more money in the place of believers.

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He was not just the hobby. He became the leader the top leader. Imagine imagine the suntan does that when he buys some Dorianne or some Rambo tan? A boat says here on his cloth. And when people say Sir, Your Highness Your Highness, he says no. The father of a family should carry his things

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Sahiba shake it I have Bobby Hanlon in wondery way am

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I supposed to carry my things because they belong to me.

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Allahu Akbar.

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They were humbled my sisters emerged. Today our leaders carry anything. Everything comes to their house free free, not even they buy it.

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No little I carry my mind my bag. Small bag is not heavy. Why should I let people carry it for me?

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Today they even give them the pen, the pen to sign

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because here if the pen is here sisters, like this cup,

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always heavy. Or

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what is this?

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Big problem big problem today. And then you asked me why are we lazy? Look at it.

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Look at Sedna idea of the hola Juan.

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He said I saw him carrying

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dates that he bought with his own Durham. There have is silver currency

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on his clock taking it to his family.

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This is what he was Calif of the Muslims. Yes, meaning the Sahaba never change after the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when the Prophet died, so they were not doing it for the profit they were doing it for Allah.

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Once the Prophet hasn't died, they continued being like when they were with him.

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You see?

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That's it. Lastly later.

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Very good.

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Sister Hamidah next Hadith.

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So I'm going to share some widecombe setup Matala high five two, I will assign our country and Abu Hurayrah said the Prophet sallallahu sallam said Allah the mighty and assorted said, mighty, my repper and pride is my clock. I will punish anyone who contends with me over either of them. Allahu Akbar,

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Allahu Akbar. How do you go to see the Prophet sallallahu sallam said on the authority of Abu Zeid Padre or the Allah Allah that Allah says. So the Prophet says that Allah said this is called Hadith Bootsy

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What is it might

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Is my rapper

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might is my isa you know is that like hatch when we go we met when we go to Hajj report is our

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Allah says might is my rap rapper

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rapper not rapper of America rap music no and pride is my clock my cloth is arrogance whoever challenges me in them I will split him into two not physically meaning I will split his life he will never be the same

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Have you seen some people suffering suffering a lot although they have money, they suffer they they they, they they even commit suicide that you suffer they have money billions their private jets they have about half of Malaysia maybe even the mountains

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not happy because they acted something only Allah has the right

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way or you can be humble.

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This is somebody that if I am let's say the

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suntan or the prime minister or the president of Algeria and I stopped by a coffee shop to have some coffee

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like the people who are drinking coffee might get

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by Allah if they see me I stop and I order coffee and I pay for my money my money I'm not even the girl bodyguard and bodyguards. I tell them stay far. Stay far. Leave me alone and have some coffee like everyone

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when people see that some of them they be social that they freeze in their face. They just freeze out of respect or fear but they will see she also there is that the present Yes. Santa Monica. Yeah it's me coffee. Somebody may come and say sir what law he is okay here it take his number. Call him he will bring me or I make sure he will talk to me about your things like but I just want to show my that I'm normal. I stopped by restaurant like everybody know protocol protocol. What is protocol? When that comes deaf comes to every one of us. Let me enjoy my Kampong food way or whatever I grew up with.

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what it means I will punish anyone who contends with me. Very good. I will punish any human being who becomes arrogant or becomes proud.

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That's what it means. I will punish anyone who contends with me over either of them. Either. Might you behave like a mighty guy or girl or lady? All you are so proud.

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So proud. So Aragon. Allah says I will punish you. In another Hadith, I will split him.

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I will split him or

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is this clear?

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There's a collage. Why are you? Why your

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Shireen, Shireen Ozy? Go ahead

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Why the call center we don't need your sister come close to your mic. Okay.

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Do 553 Correct. I'm not mind being Bashir seat on the member. Eaton has snares and traps. The snares and traps of Satan are two XL ungratefully in the in the blessings of Allah to boast about the gifts of Allah to be proud to assist slaves of Allah and to follow passion for other reason than for the sake of Allah.

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O Akbar, very good. Shape on Normanby the shape of the Allahu Anhu set on the member he was making hotbar shaytan has snares and traps. Be careful.

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traps to catch

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the snails traps of shame or to exalt ungratefully in the blessing of Allah. Be careful when Allah blesses you when Allah blesses you with money, with position with, with wealth with Be careful with knowledge also, don't misuse the gifts of Allah the blessings when you start attributing them to yourself.

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You were born were praying Socrates says What are you talking about? You found yourself.

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We should take pride actually in things that you achieved and still

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You say have metal neurotic? Like Ernie. Hey Bill the whole damn he damn be

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the greatest building in history is the damn off yeah Julian magic yet what did he say? This is a Mercy of Allah, mercy from Allah but I didn't attribute it to him shall

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some of you build a Jacuzzi in the house they think they have built a I don't know what and you didn't even build it that Chinese guy will literally

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what I'm talking about. What I'm saying is this When Allah gives blessings, that's when the shaytan is going to put his straps and snares where he gets you.

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So don't attribute those Alhamdulillah this is from Allah.

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It's from Allah.

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Or sister, your daughters mashallah and sons have all graduated. This is Rama from Allah. Not yaka. You see, I work very hard with them. What are you working with? Algorithm? See you are attributing now success yourself? So Alhamdulillah Allah has been so nice to me. Masha, Allah, your husband has been promoted to serve serve. Allah has been nice to me and I hope it's not trial for my husband. That's how we should be talking. Not Thank you. Thank you. I thought you will never congratulate me.

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Huh? Okay, to boast about the gifts of Allah.

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Here you start boasting.

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Don't it's, it's a gift from Allah. To be proud towards the slaves of Allah. You start now being proud and showing people they have nothing

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and to follow a passion for other reason other than for the sake of Allah.

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Now we start following

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things not for the sake of Allah. Look at me sisters, you might become the Patreon of

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me mental health in Malaysia,

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the positron have an AI team in Malaysia, the positron of

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gamma in Malaysia, a gamma studies for ladies something Allah bless you. And you're not doing it for Allah sake. You're doing it so that people say wow, I met careful. That's what the shape and puts his snares and his traps. He traps you there.

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You know what shape and we'll wait for you in the NEMA.

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Sisters in the NEMA. When you get something good. That's what shaytan is. May Allah

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curse him and May Allah save us from me. When things are going well, Chapin is there.

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You think shaitan is going to wait for you only one things I'm not good. No.

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I show you this story. This brother. Never miss another parent

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She said I will. I will stop him.

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He was going to the man and message he felt. He went into the ditch. His dirt became dirty. So he went home change. Second that three times Shaytan was tripping him from his lap he felt

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when he thought he said Why? Why? You know

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he went home, he thought of not going anymore. Then he went you know what happened? The next morning shaytan himself came and woke him up

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gave him sunlight in the kampung walked with him to the message.

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So he told him what Come Come with me. He said he said no. I don't pray. He said why not was a biller UK knew what woke me up. And you gave me a ride meaning with with the lights, he had the candle because kampung you know they didn't have lights. So the man was always falling into the ditch. You know what? Who was that guy? He was the shape and

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now the shape pattern because he doesn't want to mess it. He said Why did you do that? He said remember yesterday, when you were going to the masjid and you fell. Allah forgive you the second time when you fell, Allah for gave your family

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the third time Allah forgive the whole campaign.

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I don't want Allah to forgive the whole world because of you