Zohra Sarwari – Safiyah Bint Abdul Muttalib 2A

Zohra Sarwari

Women Around the Prophet(SAW)

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The first lady, Sofia de la legislation, had a strict rule and used her son with her. Her aunt, La Ilaha, was born in the same house as the first lady. The importance of learning from parents' actions and hard work in learning from them is emphasized. The speaker also discusses the conversion of someone to Islam and how they have made a positive impact on their children.

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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh My
dear sisters and brothers, we are now on module two. And this is module two a and this module is all
about Sophia bent Abdullah Matalan but at the Allahu Anhu Sophia bent with Abdullah telepathy Allah
and inshallah we'll get started and Alhamdulillah Hina Ahmed who has the you know when I started
when I would be lying when Shruti and fusina women say add their Molina Maya they laugh along with
Allah or my your little fella hottie Anna was shadow and La Ilaha in the law Lashley a shadow anna
muhammadan up the horror story. Amanda rubbish, actually sadly. Well, yeah, certainly Andy Wildman
		
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			of the the melissani Yashka, who called rugby Sydney in,
		
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			in the name of Allah, the Most Gracious the most magnificent. All praise is due to Allah, Lord of
the universe. We praise Him and we seek His help and his forgiveness. And we seek His protection
from the curse Satan, whomever Allah guides will never be misguided. And whoever he allows to be
misguided will never be guided. I be witnessed that there is no daddy worthy of worship except Allah
whose one alone and has no partners. And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam is His
servant and Messenger. May the blessings of Allah be upon him, his family, his companions, and the
righteous will follow them until the day of judgment and mean.
		
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			All right, who wants to be a bit Abdulmutallab. So I'm going to start off with a little bit of
background on her Inshallah, and then we'll go into her early life and all of that. So severe bit
Abdulmutallab was a companion and the paternal aunt of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. She was also
the cousin of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam from his mother's side. She was the daughter of Hola,
which is the sister of the Prophet Silla lessons, Mother Armineh. She was a year older to the
Prophet sallallahu sallam, and was bought up by Abdulmutallab. Just like the prophets, Allah ism
was. She was the most similar to the privacy laws and in all aspects of upbringing. And first they
		
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			were both raised by a bill metallic and then after his death by his son, I Bhutan, and she was among
the first few Muslims who accepted Islam.
		
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			Okay, let's talk a little bit about her early life now. Now Sofia Radi Allahu Anhu. She was the
daughter again of Abdulmutallab and Hala bint wave bin abd Manaf been Zahara, hence the full sister
of Hamza, the Allahu Anhu. And she was the aunt of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and I believe that
the Allahu Anhu she was about 10 years old when her father passed away. She and her first marriage
was to have it had been had, and their son was Sufi had been hunted. They were apparently divorced
by 593. Now her second husband was aware of and hoilett, which is the brother of Hadiya, that the
Allahu anha, who was the wife of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam who live next door to them. Sofia de
		
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			la Juana and awam had three sons zubaid, I sat aside and Abdul kava aware of died while their
children were young. So this is her second husband and she had three kids with him. She had one
child with the first husband, three with the second and her husband passed away while her children
were young. Now, let's talk about her a little bit as a mother What kind of mother she was. They
said Sofia the last one. He was a very strict mother. She used to beat her son as debate severely.
The neighbors used to protest about this. They used to say you killed him. You wrenched his heart
Will you destroy the boy? Sofia de la Hana replied, I beat him so that he will be intelligent, and
		
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			he'll be bold in the battles. She was a very strict mother wanted to discipline her son to make him
strong and capable. She used to beat him despite the interference of her in laws. She would tell
them that she wanted to make us debate a man was invincible in suppressible a man would never
surrender to any of Allah's creatures, and she did achieve what she wanted with her son. For as the
bed grew up to be a strong man, whose body noon know whose body knew no weakness, and his soul was
not familiar with sluggish or lassitude. Subhanallah and definitely a strict mother. Definitely. And
we hear stories of this with lots of different women out there, Marcia Barbra sahab yet and then
		
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			others from different generations. And we see these children's Paula became amazing. MashAllah
Byculla.
		
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			So Subhanallah, you know, obviously, I'm not a big fan of beating, but, you know, I have seen many,
many different areas and different times where parents have beaten their kids and they've gotten
amazing
		
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			thoughts. So far, this was definitely something, you know, that we were raised in. But at the same
time, I feel like, you know, I love the PixelSense approach, you know, in being gentle and kind with
the kids and teaching them. And I think each child has their own personality, and there's so many
different ways we can raise them and teach them. But definitely, I think hard work and discipline
and in different ways. Nowadays, in the, you know, in 2020, there's so many different ways we can
discipline our kids and teach them more than anything, I think we can be an example for them, and
the better example we are for them, Inshallah, the better that they can be, as well. So, this was
		
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			just one of those areas where, you know, she was a very strict mom.
		
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			And she did and as the way did become an amazing Sahaba mashapaug law, and it is as the base who
married Esma with Abu Bakr, and we're talking about her biography in module one. Alright, so this
one, I will talk a little bit now about her conversion to Islam.
		
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			Now, her conversion to Islam when the process and began preaching in public, he gave a special
warning to the members of his immediate family, he actually had a get together, and he invited all
of his family and he told them, you know about this, you know, and he told them about Islam and all
that. And this is a Hadith of his, that when he said, Oh, Quraysh by yourself, I cannot say be from
Allah. Oh, Abbas ibn Abdulmutallab, I cannot say be from Allah. Oh Sofia with Abdulmutallab, I
cannot save you from Allah. Oh, Fatima bint Mohammed, ask for what you wish for my property, but I
cannot save you from ALLAH. So he was very vocal, the Prophet saw some with his family, he went to
		
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			his family first to tell them that listen, you know, this is the truth. This is what's here. I mean,
I can help you the dunya. But if you ask me for the accurate I cannot. And if the Wrath of Allah
comes then Subhanallah you have nothing, you have nothing left. And so it's so important that we
understand that and Sofia de la hub, she became a Muslim, and she took the oath of loyalty to the
Prophet sallallahu sallam, and she emigrated, you know, to Medina as well and 622. So she did become
a Muslim worship about UCLA. And she did come to this path and they did you know, go and to Medina
and to start their life over there. Now, let's talk a little bit about her life to Medina.
		
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			Right, what happened her life at Medina? Well, she had a very strong personality, mashallah, she was
a brave woman, He was intelligent, she was courageous. She was patient. And she was clearly, you
know, when we look at her, when we look at her in the battles, she was in the Battle of Ohio, as
well as in the Battle of the Trench, spamela, in the battle of words, she was attending to the
wounded soldiers. And not only does she do that, but she was also seen as a figure who marched past
the armies of the enemy, when the others retreated. Sophia DeLonge, she was a brave woman. And she
is believed to be the first Muslim woman to bear been killed by a police officer, by Mushnik. So
		
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			when we look at her migration to Medina, is we see her going over there and becoming strong. And
for, you know, standing strong for this faith with our Ilan, and doing what she had to do, by
standing by the prophets of sun and as a Muslim woman, as she didn't, you know, sit there at home
and say, Oh, I'm busy, I'm gonna do the cooking in the clinic. No, she wants to do the battle she
helped. She did whatever she was capable of doing martial demonic law, something which a lot of us
don't do nowadays, something which a lot of us have forsaken, we don't do our best even in our just
mediocre work in our prayers, and our reading our Quran, and our commitments, in our honesty, in
		
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			taking care of our parents, taking care of our kids. And these are the examples of these women,
where they were not only amazing mothers and amazing wives, but they're also amazing, you know,
Muslims went out there and did whatever they could for their communities. And, you know, we don't
get to hear all of their details and inshallah module won't be I mean to be, you know, go over a bit
more, but it's just something to really reflect on this amazing woman. Alright, so with that being
said, we are done with Module Two a does Aquila Hayden Subhanak Allahumma will be hamburger
eyeshadow and lai lai la Stafford aka our blue lake. How perfect you are, oh Allah and I praise you.
		
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			None has a right to be worshipped except you. I seek your forgiveness and I turn and repentance to
you as Salaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh