Zia Sheikh – Types of Dreams 5192016

Zia Sheikh
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The concept of diss variable dream, scary, and evil is discussed, with diss variable dream being the scariest type. People need to filter out what dream is to avoid it, and "offering" in Arabic means not being like the victim of jealousy and not planning and plotting against others. The shaitan is a closed enemy, and planning and plotting against someone is "offering."
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There are two types of dreams that humans

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have.

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One type is something that is from his

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own psychology.

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A person is worried about his job being

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laid off.

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So he's thinking about that all the time.

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So at night he's going to have a

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dream about it, okay, that his boss is

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telling him, you know, pack up your things

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and leave and he wakes up thinking, oh,

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it's just a dream, it was a nightmare.

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So this is a person's psychology, his mind

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that is playing tricks on him and is

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making him have these dreams at night.

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The second type of dream is from the

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shaitan, okay.

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So this would be scary dreams, dreams of

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snakes and dogs and so on, you know,

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monsters, things that a person is scared of,

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a person will get that type of dream

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and these types of dreams are from the

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shaitan or erotic dreams where a person is

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engaging in illicit things in his dream, something

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that he is not held accountable for because

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he's sleeping but, you know, illicit dreams, illicit

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relationships that a person has in his dream,

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that is also from the shaitan and the

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third type of dream is a dream from

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Allah SWT where it's a message from Allah

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SWT.

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So again, you have a one in three

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chance of the dream having any meaning at

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all but a lot of people, they take

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this issue of dreams so seriously, they think

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that, you know, anytime I have a dream,

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it has to have some kind of message

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behind it and that's not necessarily the case

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all the time.

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Sometimes it will have a message, sometimes it

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will not be a message, so a person

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needs to filter out what the dream is,

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whether it's from his psychology, whether from the

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shaitan or it's from Allah SWT.

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Now the Prophet SAW, he forbade people from

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telling people about dreams, especially when those dreams

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are related to, when those dreams are bad

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dreams or scary dreams.

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The Prophet SAW said, إذا رأى أحدكم ما

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يحبه فليحدث به when a person sees something

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that he likes in his dream, then he

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can tell people about it.

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وإذا رأى ما يكره فليتحول إلى جنبه الآخر

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but when he sees something that he dislikes,

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then he should turn his back.

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Basically what it means is, that when he's

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sleeping, he's sleeping to the right, he saw

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the dream, go face the other direction, and

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he should وَالْيَتْفُلْ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا he should

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face the left direction of the bed and

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make a spitting action, like this.

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And say أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ وَالْيَتْفُلْ

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عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا وَالْيَسْتَعِذُ بِاللَّهِ مِن شَرِّهَا and

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he should ask Allah SWT to protect him

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from the evil of that dream.

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أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ وَالْيَتْفُلْ

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عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا وَالْيَسْتَعِذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ

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وَالْيَتْفُلْ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا وَالْيَسْتَعِذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ

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الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ وَالْيَتْفُلْ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا وَالْيَسْتَعِذُ

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بِاللَّهِ

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مِنَ

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الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ He used to tell people to

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hide the blessings from people until they had

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occurred.

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And this is because people tend to become

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jealous of a person who is being blessed

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with things.

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He said, اِسْتَعِينُ عَلَىٰ قَضَاءِ الْحَوَائِجِ بِكِتْمَانِهَا Seek

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the help of Allah SWT for fulfilling your

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needs by hiding them.

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فَإِنَّ كُلَّذِي نِعْمَةٍ مَحْسُودٌ Because every person who

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is blessed with any blessing, he is محسود.

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Meaning he is, people are jealous of him.

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So, to avoid that jealousy, to avoid عَيْن

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a person should try as much as possible,

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especially if the people around him don't have

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the same blessing, don't have the same thing

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that he is blessed with and maybe can

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never afford to get that thing, a person

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should try to hide it and not become

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the victim of حَسَد the victim of jealousy

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by doing that.

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But then somebody might question, وَأَمَّا بِنِعْمَةِ رَبِّكَ

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فَحَدِّثِ Allah SWT says in surah Duhha, then

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you should proclaim the نِعْمَةِ of your Lord.

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So sometimes a person, so this is basically

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the two extremes.

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One extreme is that you are blessed with

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blessings and you just make an open show

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of everything that you have.

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That's one thing.

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And the second thing is or a different

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type of attitude is that Allah SWT blesses

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you with money, then wear nice clothes, wear

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nice shoes and be presentable in society.

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Do not dress in a way that is

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not befitting of the status that Allah SWT

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has given you.

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This is what وَأَمَّا بِنِعْمَةِ رَبِّكَ فَحَدِّثِ means.

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That the blessing that Allah has given you,

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proclaim it by benefiting from it in this

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world.

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And again not to the extreme that instead

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of wearing a thawb or a pair of

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clothes that you could get for a hundred

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dollars, you go out and spend six hundred

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dollars on a sweater or a thousand dollars

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on a sweater.

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This is the other extreme.

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And this is not, this would be regarded

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as israf, extravagance.

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إِنَّ الْمُبَذِّرِينَ كَانُوا إِخْوَانَ الشَّيَاطِينَ تَبْذِير This is

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another word for extravagance.

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Allah SWT says that those people that make

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tabdheer are the brothers of shaitan.

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So the thing is that تَحْدِيثِ بِالنِّعْمَةِ which

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means to proclaim one's blessings, it's good.

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But at the same time not to the

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extreme that you are just showing off every

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single thing that like people tend to do

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nowadays on Facebook and Twitter and Instagram and

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Snapchat, everything.

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You get a new piece of jewelry, a

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new handbag, a new pair of clothes, a

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new car, everything is out there on social

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media.

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So again this is not appropriate but what

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تَحْدِيثِ بِالنِّعْمَةِ means is that use the blessings

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of Allah SWT that you've been blessed with

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and don't try to kind of act poor

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when Allah SWT has given you blessings that

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you could use.

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Finishing off the ayah inshallah.

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Yaqub AS said to Yusuf AS, do not

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tell your brothers about this dream.

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فَيَكِيدُ لَكَ كَيْدًا Otherwise they're going to make

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a plot for you.

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So the wording here is very unique.

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In Arabic it's supposed to be فَيَكِيدُكَ كَيْدًا

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that they're going to make a plot against

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you.

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But this لَمْ here it means, لَمْ generally

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it indicates benefits, منفع.

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So the real meaning of فَيَكِيدُ لَكَ كَيْدًا

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means that they're going to make a plot

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that is going to ultimately benefit you.

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So this is the meaning, a very special

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meaning that you can derive from the wording

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that has been mentioned here.

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فَيَكِيدُ لَكَ كَيْدًا instead of فَيَكِيدُكَ كَيْدًا So

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it will ultimately benefit you and then we

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find at the end of the surah what

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happens is Yusuf AS gets this position in

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society, becomes royalty and so on.

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So ultimately that planning and plotting against him

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worked out for his benefit.

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And then right at the end, Yusuf AS

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says إِنَّ شَيْطَانَ لِلْإِنسَانِ عَدُوٌّ مُّبِينٌ Indeed the

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shaytan for the human being is an open

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enemy.

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Open enemy, the shaytan is an open enemy

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for the human being.

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So the shaytan obviously pushes him away.

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