Zia Sheikh – Tafseer of Surah Yousuf Ayah 4 onward

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The speakers discuss the significance of the Prophet's desire to be the most houses of Islam, and the potential for parenting rivalry between siblings to harm children. They also touch on the history of the um pencil and its potential for evil, and the importance of shelling people from dreams and blending blessings and negative emotions to achieve a positive life. The speakers emphasize the need for parents not to allow anyone to be in a relationship, and the importance of not disclosing dreams and avoiding harming children. They also discuss the "we" meaning in Arabic, which refers to "weating off" and "hasad."

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			I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed
		
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			Satan.
		
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			In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,
		
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			the Most Merciful.
		
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			When Yusuf said to his father, O my
		
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			father, I saw eleven planets and the sun
		
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			and the moon, and I saw them prostrate.
		
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			He said, O my son, do not relate
		
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			your vision to your brothers, for they are
		
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			plotting against you.
		
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			Indeed, Satan is to man a manifest enemy.
		
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			Today's lesson, this ayah, ayah number four, is
		
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			where the actual story starts.
		
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			Where Yusuf a.s. comes to his father
		
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			and tells him that he has seen a
		
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			dream.
		
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			And what is the dream?
		
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			He says that he sees the moon, the
		
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			sun, and eleven stars, all of them prostrating
		
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			to him.
		
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			So this is what the first ayah says.
		
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			First the translation, and then inshallah we'll go
		
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			into the explanation of it.
		
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			If Qala Yusuf, and remember, O Muhammad s
		
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			.a.w. When Yusuf a.s. said to
		
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			his father, Ya abati, O my beloved father.
		
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			The word abati, it is a way to
		
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			address your father.
		
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			You can say, Ya abi, Ya abata, Ya
		
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			abat.
		
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			So there are various ways in Arabic that
		
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			you can say, my father.
		
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			And Ya abati is one of the ways
		
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			that you can say it.
		
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			And it indicates, O my beloved father, a
		
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			sign of respect.
		
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			He says, O my beloved father, Indeed I
		
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			saw eleven stars, I saw them
		
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			prostrating to me.
		
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			So the word ra'aytu has been mentioned
		
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			twice here.
		
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			So first he says, I saw eleven stars,
		
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			the sun and the moon.
		
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			And then again, Yusuf a.s. mentions the
		
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			word ra'aytuhum, I saw them prostrating to
		
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			me.
		
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			So the scholars say that the reason for
		
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			repeating ra'aytu, I saw, is to stress
		
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			the point that he is not making this
		
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			up.
		
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			It is something that he actually saw, and
		
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			the vividness of the dream indicated that he
		
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			felt that he actually saw what he was
		
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			seeing in real life.
		
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			The other thing that is mentioned here by
		
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			the scholars is that the sun, the moon,
		
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			the stars, these things are known in Arabic
		
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			as, That means that they do not have
		
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			their own sense.
		
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			Meaning they are regarded as senseless objects, like
		
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			any other object.
		
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			Table, chair, house, etc.
		
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			Those things that do not have any type
		
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			of intelligence, they are known as, And the
		
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			ruling in Arabic for them, is that when
		
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			you bring the plural of these objects, you
		
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			use feminine terminology.
		
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			You use singular feminine terminology.
		
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			So the real wording should have been, I
		
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			saw them prostrating to me.
		
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			But Allah a.s. has used wording here
		
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			that indicates that those objects that Yusuf a
		
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			.s. is referring to, they actually had a
		
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			sense.
		
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			When they were doing what they were doing,
		
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			when they were prostrating, they had a sense.
		
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			So the scholars say the reason behind this
		
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			is that when Yusuf a.s. is seeing
		
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			these objects in the dream, and they are
		
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			prostrating to Yusuf a.s., they are not
		
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			doing this prostration as mere objects.
		
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			Rather, they are fulfilling the command of Allah
		
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			a.s. And from that perspective, they have
		
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			a sense.
		
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			And therefore, Allah a.s. used the terminology
		
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			of sense, things which have sense, for those
		
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			stars and the sun and the moon, as
		
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			if they have sense.
		
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			And there is another thing that we should
		
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			keep in mind, that Allah a.s. says
		
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			that everything in the world, it actually makes
		
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			the tasbih of Allah a.s. It glorifies
		
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			Allah a.s. There is everything in the
		
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			world that Allah a.s. created, it makes
		
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			the tasbih of Allah a.s. Everything.
		
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			But we human beings cannot understand their tasbih,
		
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			their glorification.
		
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			Except when Allah a.s. allows for certain
		
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			humans to develop certain powers, only then that
		
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			is possible.
		
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			Otherwise, normal human beings cannot do so.
		
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			And that's why Sulaiman a.s. he was
		
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			given the ability to understand the language of
		
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			animals.
		
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			The language of the ant is specifically mentioned
		
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			in Surah An-Naml, and also the language
		
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			of the birds is specifically mentioned, also in
		
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			Surah An-Naml, that he could understand the
		
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			language of these creatures.
		
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			So Allah a.s. can bestow this knowledge
		
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			to certain individuals, but the point is that
		
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			when these objects or these things, animals, the
		
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			creation of Allah a.s., that we usually
		
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			deem to have no sense, when they are
		
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			doing the action of obeying Allah a.s.,
		
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			when they are doing the action of making
		
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			the glorification and the tasbih of Allah a
		
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			.s., they are in fact doing it with
		
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			full consciousness, and they are listening to Allah
		
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			a.s., and therefore they are obedient, so
		
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			from that perspective Allah a.s. has given
		
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			them a certain type of sense.
		
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			So that's why the word, has been used,
		
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			terminology that is used for things that usually
		
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			have a sense.
		
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			The fact is Yusuf a.s., he is
		
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			coming to his father, there is a hadith
		
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			that is mentioned about this beautiful family tree
		
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			of Yusuf a.s., that who they were.
		
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			It is mentioned, Abu Huraira a.s., he
		
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			says that the Prophet a.s. was asked,
		
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			which of the people are most gracious, meaning
		
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			they have the highest honor, they are the
		
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			most honorable.
		
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			He said, so from a general human perspective,
		
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			the people that have the most respect, the
		
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			most dignity, in the eyes of Allah a
		
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			.s., are the ones that have the most
		
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			taqwa.
		
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			So this is how the Prophet a.s.
		
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			responded, that the most noble amongst you, is
		
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			the one that has the most taqwa.
		
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			They said, we are not asking you about
		
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			this old Prophet of Allah.
		
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			So then the Prophet a.s. said, Then
		
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			the most gracious and the most noble, is
		
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			Yusuf a.s. who was the son of
		
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			the Prophet of Allah, meaning Yaqub a.s.,
		
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			who was the son of the Prophet of
		
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			Allah, which was Ishaq a.s., who was
		
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			the son of Khalilullah, meaning Ibrahim a.s.,
		
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			four generations of Prophets, subhanAllah.
		
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			Four generations continuously of Prophets.
		
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			So if you can imagine, the honor that
		
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			Yusuf a.s. has been bestowed with, that
		
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			he is the fourth in the line of
		
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			Prophets, and his great great grandfather is who?
		
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			None other than Ibrahim a.s., the father
		
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			of Ibrahim a.s. So from that perspective,
		
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			obviously Yusuf a.s., he is the most
		
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			noble of humans.
		
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			So the Sahaba, they went on to say,
		
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			that we are not asking you about that.
		
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			So the Prophet a.s. understood, that they
		
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			were asking about their own people.
		
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			Are you asking me about the tribes of
		
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			the Arabs?
		
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			So they said, Then the Prophet a.s.
		
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			said, That the best of the people in
		
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			Islam, are the ones that were the best
		
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			in Jahiliyyah, once they understand.
		
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			So this is against a general rule that
		
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			we have, that people that become Muslim, they
		
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			came with certain habits, certain traits, certain things
		
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			that they used to implement in their lives,
		
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			and they used to practice in their lives,
		
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			that were part of their culture, or part
		
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			of the religion that they were practicing, and
		
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			there is nothing wrong with that, as long
		
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			as there is no shirk or anything like
		
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			that being committed.
		
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			So Islam is recognizing those qualities, that those
		
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			people had even prior to becoming Muslim, and
		
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			sometimes those same qualities actually lead a person
		
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			to Islam.
		
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			So the Prophet a.s. said, that the
		
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			best of the people in Islam, were the
		
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			best in Jahiliyyah, once they understand.
		
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			Once they understand meaning, they understand the concept
		
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			of Tawheed, they understand the concept of the
		
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			obedience of Allah a.s., they understand that
		
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			the Prophet Muhammad a.s. is the last
		
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			Prophet, then obviously those same attributes, those same
		
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			habits, they bring them over to Islam, and
		
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			they benefit Islam, they benefit the Ummah, and
		
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			obviously they benefit themselves.
		
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			The other thing that we should understand here,
		
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			is that the dreams of the Prophets a
		
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			.s., are a revelation from Allah a.s.
		
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			Ibn Abbas a.s. said, that the dreams
		
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			of the Prophets a.s., are a form
		
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			of revelation.
		
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			So what was Yusuf a.s. seeing in
		
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			this dream?
		
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			He was seeing 11 stars, the sun and
		
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			the moon, and the Tafseer of that was,
		
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			ultimately we find at the end of the
		
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			Surah, that 11 of his brothers, and the
		
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			sun and the moon meaning his parents, they
		
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			all prostrate to him, at the end of
		
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			the Surah.
		
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			So the question is, that why can a
		
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			human prostrate in front of another human being?
		
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			Isn't that a form of Shirk?
		
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			So the answer to that is, that before
		
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			this Ummah, before the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad
		
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			a.s., people used to make Sajdah to
		
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			other people, and that was permissible, and that
		
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			was known as a Sajdah of Takrim, Sajdah
		
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			of Respect, not a Sajdah of Ibadah.
		
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			But because this Ummah, it has closed all
		
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			doors of Shirk.
		
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			Anything that could be comparable to Shirk, or
		
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			could be understood as Shirk, could be understood
		
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			as polytheism, the doors of that has been
		
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			closed for this Ummah, and we are not
		
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			allowed to do anything, that could lead us
		
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			down that path.
		
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			So this Ummah, our Ummah, has been forbidden
		
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			from doing that type of thing.
		
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			But prior to our Ummah, people used to
		
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			make Sajdah to each other, as a sign
		
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			of respect, as a sign of honor, and
		
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			it was perfectly permissible for them to do
		
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			that.
		
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			The next Ayah, Yaqub a.s. said to
		
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			Yusuf, Oh my beloved son, do not tell
		
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			this dream to your brothers.
		
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			So Yaqub a.s. being a Prophet, he
		
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			understood exactly what this dream meant.
		
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			And obviously the brothers of Yusuf a.s,
		
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			even though they may not have been Prophets,
		
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			but they are the sons of Prophets, and
		
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			it is quite possible, that they also can
		
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			understand what this dream means.
		
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			So Yaqub a.s. said to Yusuf, do
		
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			not tell your brothers this dream.
		
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			Because he already knew, that there was some
		
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			kind of sibling rivalry between the brothers, they
		
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			were jealous of Yusuf a.s, and therefore
		
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			there was a possibility, that they could have
		
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			harmed him, and done him wrong, because of
		
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			this dream, that Yusuf a.s. had seen.
		
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			So he said, do not tell anybody this
		
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			dream.
		
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			Especially your brothers, do not tell them this
		
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			dream.
		
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			And I am going to talk about, Hadith
		
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			which talk about, how we should regard dreams.
		
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			I will talk about that in a minute.
		
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			But the question is, that Yusuf a.s
		
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			brothers, were they that mean, were they that
		
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			bad, that you know, that they have been
		
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			kind of regarded, as the evil brothers of
		
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			Yusuf a.s. So the Prophets say, that
		
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			they were not bad, in the sense, that
		
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			they wanted to actually harm Yusuf a.s,
		
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			or do him a great deal of harm.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because the discussions, that will be mentioned next
		
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			week, they started off with the mention of
		
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			killing.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And then they said, okay, we will not
		
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			kill him, let us just put him in
		
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			the middle of the desert.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And then, it went from, putting him in
		
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			the middle of the desert, which was also,
		
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			a sure form of destruction, to putting him
		
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			in a well, from which, he could be
		
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			ultimately rescued, because tribes are passing by, and
		
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			they would be, going to this well, to
		
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			get water out for their animals, and for
		
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			themselves.
		
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			So, for sure, somebody is going to pick
		
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			him up, and take him away.
		
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			So the discussion went from, one, extreme, two,
		
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			at least, okay, put him in a well,
		
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			where he can be saved, and he can
		
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			be taken up.
		
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			So from this, we can understand, that they
		
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			were not really bad nature, in a way,
		
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			that they wanted to actually kill Yusuf a
		
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			.s, or destroy him in any way, shape
		
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			or form, because they came to that conclusion,
		
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			that they are not going to kill him,
		
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			they are going to leave him in such
		
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			a situation, where he can be ultimately rescued.
		
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			And this is actually, a sign, that they
		
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			were obviously, the sons of prophets, and the
		
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			fact that, they had this thought, was because,
		
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			their nature, inside them, was not the nature
		
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			of, evil people, they had in them, this,
		
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			good natured quality, that they didn't really want
		
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			to kill him.
		
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			So, what about sibling rivalry?
		
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			We understand from this, that is something, that
		
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			is very natural, amongst siblings, brothers, sisters, especially,
		
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			the older kids, when a new addition comes
		
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			to the family, a new baby, the olders
		
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			become jealous, or if the father is giving
		
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			priority, to one over the other, then the
		
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			others become jealous.
		
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			So this is something, that is completely natural,
		
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			and this happens.
		
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			But as parents, we need to try to
		
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			make sure, that we don't allow that to
		
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			happen, we should not show impartiality, between our
		
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			children.
		
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			There is a Hadith, in which the Prophet
		
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			SAW, he was approached by a Sahabi, who
		
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			said, Ya Rasulullah, I gave one of my
		
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			sons, a gift, and I would like you
		
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			to make, a Dua of Barakah, for the
		
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			fact that, I have given him this gift.
		
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			The Prophet SAW, asked a very simple question,
		
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			he said, did you give any of your,
		
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			other sons the same gift?
		
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			He said, no Ya Rasulullah, I didn't.
		
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			So, then the Prophet SAW said, then why
		
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			are you making me, a witness to, Vuln,
		
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			oppression.
		
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			So, this shows that, when you are giving
		
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			favor, displaying favoritism, to one sister, or one
		
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			brother, over the others, then this is a
		
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			form of Vuln, against the others.
		
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			Okay, so favoritism, we have to, obviously there
		
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			is always an inclination, towards loving the youngest
		
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			one, of the family, because it's a new
		
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			addition, the baby of the family, but it
		
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			should be done, in such a discreet way,
		
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			that the others don't feel, that they are
		
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			being rejected, or being ignored.
		
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			This is a very important principle, that we
		
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			need to keep in mind.
		
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			Going back to the issue of, the dreams,
		
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			there are three types of dreams, that humans
		
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			have, and many people, email me, and ask
		
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			me questions about dreams, I'm not an expert
		
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			on dreams, but, this is something that people
		
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			have, dreams that they see.
		
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			There are three types of dreams, that humans
		
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			have.
		
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			One type, is something, that is from his
		
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			own psychology.
		
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			Okay, a person is worried about his job,
		
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			being laid off, so he is thinking about
		
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			that, all the time, so at night, he
		
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			is going to have a dream about it.
		
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			Okay, that his boss is telling him, you
		
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			know, pack up your things, and leave, and
		
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			he wakes up, thinking, oh it's just a
		
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			dream, it was a nightmare.
		
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			So this is, a person's psychology, his mind,
		
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			that is playing tricks on him, and is
		
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			making him, have these dreams, at night.
		
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			The second type of dream, is from the
		
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			shaitan.
		
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			Okay, so this would be, scary dreams, dreams
		
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			of snakes, and dogs, and so on, you
		
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			know, monsters, things that, a person is scared
		
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			of, a person will get that type of
		
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			dream, and these types of dreams, are from
		
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			the shaitan, or erotic dreams, where a person,
		
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			is engaging in illicit things, in his dream,
		
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			something that is, he is not held accountable
		
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			for, because he is sleeping, but, you know,
		
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			illicit dreams, illicit relationship, that a person has
		
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			in his dream, that is also, from the
		
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			shaitan.
		
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			And the third type of dream, is a
		
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			dream from Allah SWT, where it's a message
		
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			from Allah SWT.
		
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			So again, you have, a one in three
		
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			chance, of the dream, having any meaning at
		
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			all.
		
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			But a lot of people, they take this
		
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			issue of dreams, so seriously, they think that,
		
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			you know, anytime I have a dream, it
		
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			has to have some kind of message behind
		
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			it.
		
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			And that's not necessarily, the case all the
		
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			time.
		
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			Sometimes it will have a message, sometimes, it
		
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			will not be a message, so a person
		
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			needs to filter out, what the dream is,
		
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			whether it's from his psychology, whether from the
		
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			shaitan, or it's from Allah SWT.
		
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			Now, the Prophet SAW, he forbade people, from
		
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			telling people about dreams, especially, when those dreams
		
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			are, related to, when those dreams are bad
		
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			dreams, or scary dreams.
		
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			The Prophet SAW said, When a person sees
		
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			something, that he likes in his dream, then
		
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			he should, he can tell people about it.
		
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			But when he sees something, that he dislikes,
		
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			then he should turn his back.
		
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			Basically, what it means is, that when he's
		
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			sleeping, he's sleeping to the right, he saw
		
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			the dream, so he should go, face the
		
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			other direction, and he should, he should, he
		
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			should, face the left direction, of the bed,
		
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			and make a spitting action, like this.
		
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			And say, A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem.
		
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			And he should ask Allah SWT, to protect
		
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			him, from the evil, of that dream.
		
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			A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem.
		
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			And he should not, tell anybody about it,
		
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			and Inshallah, this will not harm him.
		
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			And the other thing, in another hadith, the
		
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			Prophet SAW said, The
		
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			dream, it's like a bird, that floats on
		
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			top of a person, and as long as,
		
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			those dreams are not interpreted, by anybody, they
		
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			cannot harm a person.
		
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			But once they interpreted, then they could, become
		
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			true.
		
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			So when you tell a person a dream,
		
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			and that person interprets it, then that, according
		
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			to that interpretation, it could become true.
		
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			This is according to, this hadith.
		
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			And there's another thing, that we should keep
		
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			in mind, that the Prophet SAW, he used
		
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			to, tell people, to hide, the blessings, from
		
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			people, until they had, occurred.
		
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			And this is, because people, tend to become
		
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			jealous, of a person, who is being, blessed
		
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			with things.
		
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			He said, Seek the help, of Allah SWT,
		
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			for fulfilling your needs, by hiding them.
		
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			By hiding them.
		
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			Because, every person, who's blessed with any blessing,
		
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			he is, meaning he is, people are jealous
		
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			of him.
		
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			So, to avoid that jealousy, to avoid, a
		
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			person should, try as much as possible, especially,
		
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			if the people around him, don't have the
		
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			same blessing, don't have the same thing, that
		
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			he is blessed with, and maybe can never
		
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			afford, to get that thing, a person should
		
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			try to, hide it, and not become the
		
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			victim, of hasad, the victim, of jealousy, by
		
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			doing that.
		
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			Okay, but there's, somebody might question, Allah SWT
		
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			says, then, you should, proclaim, the ni'mah, of
		
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			your Lord.
		
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			So sometimes, a person, so, this is basically,
		
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			the two extremes.
		
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			One extreme is, that you, are blessed with
		
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			blessings, and you just make, an open show,
		
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			of everything, that you have.
		
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			That's one thing.
		
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			And the second, thing is, or a different,
		
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			type of attitude is, that Allah SWT, blesses
		
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			you with money, then wear nice clothes, wear
		
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			nice shoes, and, be presentable, in society.
		
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			Do not dress, in a way, that is
		
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			not befitting, of the status, that Allah SWT,
		
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			has given you.
		
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			This is what, the blessing that Allah, has
		
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			given you, proclaim it, by, benefiting from it,
		
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			in this world.
		
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			And again, not to the extreme, that instead
		
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			of, wearing a thawb, or a pair of
		
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			clothes, that you could get, for a hundred
		
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			dollars, you go out, and spend six hundred
		
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			dollars, on a sweater, or a thousand dollars,
		
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			on a sweater.
		
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			This is the other extreme.
		
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			And this is not, this would be regarded,
		
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			as israf, extravagance.
		
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			This is another word, for extravagance.
		
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			Allah SWT says, that those people, that make
		
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			tabdheer, are the brothers, of shaytan.
		
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			So, the thing is, that, which means, to
		
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			proclaim one's blessings, it's good, but, at the
		
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			same time, not to the extreme, that you
		
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			are just, showing off, every single thing, that
		
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			like, people tend to do nowadays, on Facebook,
		
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			and Twitter, and Instagram, and Snapchat, everything.
		
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			You get a new, piece of jewelry, a
		
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			new handbag, a new pair of clothes, a
		
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			new car, everything is out there, on social
		
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			media.
		
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			So again, this is not appropriate, but what,
		
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			tahdheer ibn ni'mah, means is, that use the
		
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			blessings, of Allah SWT, that you've been blessed
		
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			with, and don't try to, kind of, act,
		
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			poor, when Allah SWT, has given you, blessings,
		
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			that you could use.
		
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			Finishing off the ayah, inshallah.
		
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			Yusuf, Yaqub AS, said to Yusuf AS, do
		
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			not tell your brothers, about this theme, otherwise,
		
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			they're going to make a plot, for you.
		
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			So the wording here, is very unique.
		
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			In Arabic, it's supposed to be, that, they're
		
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			going to make a plot, against you.
		
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			But, this laam here, it means, laam, generally,
		
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			it indicates benefits.
		
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			So, the real meaning of, means, that, they're
		
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			going to make a plot, that is going
		
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			to, ultimately, benefit you.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			So this is the, meaning, a very, special
		
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			meaning, that you can derive, from the wording,
		
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			that has been mentioned here.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			So, it will ultimately benefit you, and then
		
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			we find, at the end of the surah,
		
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			what happens is, Yusuf AS, gets this position,
		
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			in society, becomes royalty, and so on.
		
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			So ultimately, that planning, and plotting against him,
		
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			worked out, for his benefit.
		
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			And then, right at the end, Yaqub AS
		
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			says, Indeed, the shaytan, for the human being,
		
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			an open enemy.
		
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			Open enemy, the shaytan, is an open enemy,
		
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			for the human being.
		
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			So, the shaytan, obviously, pushes people to argue,
		
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			pushes people to fight, pushes people to become
		
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			jealous, and this is what, I'll just finish
		
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			off with this, Allah SWT says, describes how,
		
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			the shaytan, he addressed, Allah SWT, when he
		
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			was condemned, to, and being rejected, by Allah
		
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			SWT, he said, I'm going to come, from
		
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			in front of them, and from behind them,
		
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			and from their right, and from their left,
		
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			all directions, except, top and bottom.
		
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			Okay, so why, why did the shaytan not,
		
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			mention, these two directions?
		
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			The scholars say, that when a person, is
		
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			engaged in, worship, to the one that is
		
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			above, then the shaytan cannot approach, that slave
		
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			of Allah SWT.
		
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			And when he's engaged in, humbleness, and thinking
		
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			about, what's going to happen below, meaning in
		
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			the grave, then the shaytan cannot, you know,
		
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			hurt, or, make the human being, slip up.
		
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			So this is again, something that we should,
		
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			keep in mind.
		
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			The shaytan is there.
		
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			The shaytan will try, his best to do,
		
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			what he, wants to do, in making us,
		
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			slip up.
		
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			But he has, very limited power.
		
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			He will put, wasawis in our hearts, he
		
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			will put thoughts, into our hearts, but he
		
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			will not, twist our arm, and make us
		
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			do things.
		
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			It is us, ultimately, that listen to the
		
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			shaytan, and do, what he wants us to
		
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			do.
		
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			The wasawis, that he puts in our hearts,
		
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			the whisperings, that he puts us in our,
		
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			puts into our hearts, is something that we
		
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			do, so we'll be held, accountable for that,
		
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			on the day of judgment.
		
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			And this is what, the shaytan says, many
		
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			places in the Quran, he will, on the
		
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			day of judgment, he will throw up his
		
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			hands, and say, I didn't do anything to
		
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			you.
		
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			I didn't have any, control over you.
		
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			You listen to me.
		
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			I called you, and you responded.
		
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			That's all I did.
		
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			I called you.
		
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			So, we need to make sure that, we
		
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			control ourselves, we do not fall prey, to
		
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			the shaytan, who is putting these, wasawis in
		
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			our hearts, at all times.
		
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			And with that, inshallah, when we do that,
		
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			we will be protected, and, in the hereafter,
		
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			we will not become, the victim, of the
		
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			shaytan's tricks.
		
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			I pray that Allah SWT, gives us tawfiq,
		
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			to understand, and practice, what is being said
		
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			and done.