Zia Sheikh – Tafseer of Surah AnNahl Ayah 125 4142016

Zia Sheikh
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The importance of fulfilling Prophet's actions, including inviting people to join holy days and calling for strong and strong personal growth, is emphasized. The responsibility of Islam is emphasized, along with the need for everyone to think positively about their actions. The speakers stress the importance of gentle communication, treating people in a way that is soft and gentle, and avoiding harms' feelings. The need for good education about Islam is emphasized, and the importance of avoiding insulting people in a way that is not offensive is emphasized.
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A'udhu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem.

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Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.

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Ud'u ila sabili Rabbika bil-hikmati wal

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-maw'ithati al-hasanati wa jadilhum bil-latihi

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ahsan.

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Inna Rabbaka huwa a'alamu bimaa dhalaan sabilihi

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wa huwa a'alamu bil-muhtadeen.

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We are going through the tafsir of Surah

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An-Nahl.

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And inshallah today I'm going to be starting

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from Ayah number 125.

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And this Ayah, as you may have noticed,

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I only read the one Ayah.

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And the reason that I'm keeping it only

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to one Ayah is that this particular Ayah,

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it requires a lot of detail and a

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lot of information.

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And the reason behind it is that it

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is talking about the very important work of

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Dawah, calling people towards Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta

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'ala.

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And why is that important for us?

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Because we being in the Ummah of the

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Prophet, the responsibility of inviting people has been

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put on our shoulders.

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Why?

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Because our beloved Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, is

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the last Prophet.

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There is no more Prophet to come after

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him.

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And yet the work of Prophethood or the

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responsibility of Prophethood, it will continue.

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And that has been placed on the shoulders

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of his Ummah, which is basically you and

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I, all of us, collectively are responsible for

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calling people towards Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, has been described

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as Rahmatulil Aalameen, mercy for the world.

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And he has been described in another verse

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as being Kaafatulil Naas.

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He has been sent for the whole of

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humanity as Bashirun Munathira, as one who gives

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glad tidings and as a warner from the

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punishment of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Yet, his life of Prophethood was simply 23

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years.

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And if we keep in mind that Nuh

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Ali, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, sent for a limited

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amount of time for a limited group of

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people, yet he was given 950 years to

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give Dawah to people, it doesn't seem logical

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that the Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, is given

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only 23 years for the whole of humanity,

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for all of the world, for the jinn

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and the human beings, all the way until

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the Day of Judgment.

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It doesn't make sense.

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So the only conclusion that we can come

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to logically is that it was not simply

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his responsibility, but rather it was the responsibility

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of the people around him and we as

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an Ummah.

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And that's why Abu Bakr Siddiq, R.A.,

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as soon as he became Muslim, the thing

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that he asked the Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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was that, what's my responsibility now?

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The Prophet, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, told him that

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whatever my responsibility is, it's also your responsibility.

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Immediately, Abu Bakr Siddiq, R.A., started calling

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people towards Allah, S.W.T., and started

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inviting them and within a matter of days,

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he had made many people Muslim, many people

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and many prominent Sahaba actually became Muslim at

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the hands of Abu Bakr Siddiq, R.A.

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So this responsibility is the responsibility of this

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Ummah.

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And that's why Allah, S.W.T., addressing

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us, he said, كُنتُمْ خَيْرَ أُمَّةٍ أُخْلِجَتْ لِلنَّاسِ

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تَأْمُرُونَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَتَنْهَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنكَرِ وَتُؤْمِنُونَ بِاللَّهِ

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O Ummah of the Prophet, S.W.T.,

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you are the best of nations, you've been

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sent for the benefit of mankind, you order

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people to do good and you forbid them

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from evil and you have Iman in Allah,

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S.W.T. So all of these verses

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and all of these indications, they tell us

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that it's our responsibility to call people towards

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Allah, S.W.T. About this last verse

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that I recited, Umar, R.A, used to

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say that the person who does not fulfill

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what this verse says in terms of أَمْرُ

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بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَتَنْهَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنكَرِ he has no right

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to claim that he is in the best

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of nations.

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So the fulfillment of what that verse says

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results in being a person who is regarded

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as from the best of nations and if

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a person is not fulfilling that, then he

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has no right to claim that he is

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from amongst the best of nations.

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So that's a very stark warning for all

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of us that we should take it upon

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ourselves to think about this responsibility very very

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seriously.

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So this verse, it falls straight out of

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the verses in which Allah, S.W.T.

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told the Prophet, A.S. to follow the

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millah of Ibrahim, A.S. If you remember,

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we talked in detail last week about Ibrahim,

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A.S., what his millah was, what his

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specialties were and how we need to follow

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in his footsteps.

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So one of the most important things that

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Ibrahim, A.S. did was of course the

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work of dawah.

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So keeping that point in mind, Allah, S

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.W.T. addresses the Prophet, A.S. and

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says to him, اُدْعُوا اِلَىٰ سَبِيلِ رَبِّكَ بِالْحِكْمَةِ

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وَالْمَوْعِظَةِ الْحَسَنَةِ وَجَادِلْهُم بِالَّتِيهِ أَحْسَنَةً And remember,

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whenever Allah, S.W.T. is addressing the

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Prophet, A.S. directly, indirectly he is also

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addressing us.

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Directly he is talking to the Prophet, A

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.S. but indirectly he is also talking to

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us.

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So throughout the Quran sometimes Allah, S.W

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.T. uses the word singular second person as

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if he is talking to just the one

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person and that one person obviously it is

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our beloved Prophet, A.S. But that is

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an indirect address to all of us.

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So this is no exception.

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So Allah tells the Prophet, A.S. اُدْعُوا

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اِلَىٰ سَبِيلِ رَبِّكَ بِالْحِكْمَةِ وَالْمَوْعِظَةِ الْحَسَنَةِ

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وَجَادِلْهُم بِالَّتِيهِ أَحْسَنَةً So there are a lot

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of important points here.

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Firstly, Dawah has to be done towards the

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way of Allah SWT.

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There has to be no hidden agenda.

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There has to be no motive, no, you

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know, conflict of interest.

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And that is why all the Anbiya'alim

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, Allah SWT describes them and

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they used to tell their people, وَمَا أَسْأَلُكُمْ

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عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَجْلٍ إِنْ أَجْرِيَ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ

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that we do not ask you for any

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type of reward for this Dawah that we

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are doing to you.

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Our reward is with Allah SWT.

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He is the one who is going to

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reward us.

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So, this is what it is meant by,

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أُدْعُوا إِلَىٰ سَبِيلِ رَبِّكَ The second thing is,

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بِالْحِكْمَةِ Okay, so, بِالْحِكْمَةِ which means, literally translated,

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it means with wisdom.

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And the scholars say that what does wisdom

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mean?

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وَضْعُوا الشَّيْءِ فِي مَوْضِعِهِ الْمُنَاسِبِ This is the

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definition of Al-Hikmah.

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Okay, so, you can think of that from

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so many different perspectives.

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So, when you are giving a teenager Dawah,

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for example, you have to talk to him

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like a teenager.

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When you are giving an older person Dawah,

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you have to talk to him like an

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older person, like a more mature person.

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When you are giving a Christian Dawah, you

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cannot give him proofs which are related to

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Hinduism or Atheism.

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You have to give him proofs that are

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related to Christianity.

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When you are talking to a Jew and

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trying to give him Dawah, then the proofs

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have to be related to Judaism and so

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on and so forth.

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So, this is what wisdom is about.

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To really use a person's common sense in

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realizing the person that he or she is

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talking to and making sure that the points

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are made according to the person's understanding.

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The Prophet, peace be upon him, in so

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many examples, he used to change his dialect,

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even, according to the person who was talking

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to him.

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For example, a person came to the Prophet,

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peace be upon him, and asked him in

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a dialect which has Meem inside it.

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So, he asked the question, which basically means,

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Is it good to fast while a person

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is traveling?

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But the dialect that the person was using

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had Meem, the letter Meem in every single

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letter.

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So, he said, The Prophet, peace be upon

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him, responded in his dialect.

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There is a Hadith which talks about how

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the Prophet, peace be upon him, was very

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particular about talking to the people in front

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of him, according to their level of understanding.

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So, this is what wisdom entails.

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Another aspect of wisdom is to make sure

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that a person does not push the person

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that he is giving Dawah to, push him

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away.

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Why is that?

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You know, one of the most difficult things

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that a person has to endure is taking

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advice from people.

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This is one of the most difficult things

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that somebody advises you, even though the advice

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is good, the advice is true, but to

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accept that advice, it is a huge burden

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upon a person.

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Even from the person who is close to

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him, like a person who loves you very

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much, a father giving his son advice, for

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example, it is burdensome, it is heavy, to

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accept that advice, even though that advice may

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be correct.

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The wife giving the husband advice, the husband

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giving the wife advice, the brothers giving their

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brothers or sisters advice, you know, and so

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on and so forth.

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So, the most difficult thing is to accept

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advice, even good advice, from people that mean

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well.

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So, when this is the case, when a

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person is advising, he has to make sure

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that he is advising in a way that

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is not pushing the person away or hurting

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him.

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The other thing is sometimes a person is

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forced to advise a person who has gotten

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used to committing sins.

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He has gotten used to enjoying the committing

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of sins.

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So, taking a person away from the commitment

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of those sins, it is a difficult enough

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you know, task.

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And on top of that, to make it

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in such a way that you are also

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hurting his feelings, that makes it easier for

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him to stick to the sin, rather than

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make him repent and turn to Allah SWT.

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So, it is very, very, it is a

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very, very delicate situation when advising somebody what

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to do.

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And advising him, making him repent, making him

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turn back to Allah SWT, it has to

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be done in such a way that the

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person really feels that you mean well for

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him.

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And that is why, I mean, if you

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look at what Musa A.S. was instructed

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by Allah SWT, where is he going to

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give dawah to?

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Who is he going to invite?

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He is inviting Fir'aun.

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Who was Fir'aun?

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That person who claimed to be God himself.

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He used to say, I am your highest

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Lord.

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Or even your Lord.

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I am your highest Lord.

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So, he used to make people prostrate to

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him and worship him.

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But, Allah SWT, when he sent Musa A

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.S. and Harun A.S. to invite Fir

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'aun to Allah SWT, he told them both,

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Say gentle things to him.

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Say soft things to him.

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Maybe he might take a heed from it

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or he might fear Allah SWT through that

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advice.

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So, when this is the case with the

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biggest tyrant and the one whom we curse

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until this day for being what he was,

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by being, because of the fact that he

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was a tyrannous ruler and he killed so

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many people, even killed so many babies, this

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person, Allah SWT instructed Musa A.S. to

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be gentle with him.

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So, what do you think about those people

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that are already Muslim?

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How gentle must we be with those people

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when we are giving them dawah and inviting

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them to Allah SWT?

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This is very very important to understand.

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So, when we are inviting people to Allah

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SWT, we need to make sure that we

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say gentle words to the person.

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We must not make it look like that

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we are acting like we are better than

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the person that we are inviting.

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We should not treat him in a way

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that we feel that he is beneath us,

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rather we treat him in such a way

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that he is better than us.

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Also, it is important to make sure that

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we do not admonish him publicly in front

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of everybody in such a way that again

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this will push him away.

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The Prophet A.S. he used to see

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people engaging in wrong acts and instead of

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admonishing them there and there, he used to

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address this issue in lectures and khutbahs.

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And when he used to give those khutbahs,

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he did not mention the people by name.

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He used to say مَا بَالُ قَوْمٍ مَا

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بَالُ أَقْوَامٍ يَعْمَلُونَ What is wrong with some

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people that do such and such actions?

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Not mentioning by names but saying the action

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and saying in general what the people were

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engaged in so that they knew that he

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was referring to them but not admonishing them

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in such a way that they were embarrassed

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in public.

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And this was actually a tradition that used

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to take place amongst the Arabs of old.

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If they used to find out that a

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property of theirs had been stolen from them,

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they used to announce it amongst the people

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and then they used to say that in

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front of the people the house of the

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person whose property has been stolen we are

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going to نَرْمِي أَكْتُرَاب We are going to

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throw soil in front of the person's house

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whose property has been stolen.

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So what does that mean?

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So what they used to do, the public

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announcement was made that such and such a

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thing has been stolen from such and such

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a person and at his house we are

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going to throw soil.

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So the person who stole the object he

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knows that he is the one who stole

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it.

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So everyone from the community they used to

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take a pot of soil and they just

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put it in front of the person's poured

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it in front of the person's house.

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Including the person who had stolen the object

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and he would hide that object inside the

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soil and pour it in front of the

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person's step so that nobody knows who the

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thief was and the person he gets back

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his property.

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So this was what people, the old Arabs

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used to do in villages and so on.

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So this was a tradition that used to

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take place and the purpose of that was

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again not to admonish the person in public

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rather let him repent and let him return

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the property without any kind of persecution any

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kind of prosecution.

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There is a beautiful story of the grandsons

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of the Prophet Hassan and Hussein.

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And they saw one day that a person

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he was making wudhu but he was making

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wudhu incorrectly.

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So they hatched a plan to correct this

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person in such a way that they didn't

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want to hurt his feelings.

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So he was an older gentleman and they

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were young boys.

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So they said to him, uncle we are

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having an argument amongst ourselves and we want

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to know who makes the best wudhu from

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both of us.

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I think that I am making the best

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wudhu and he thinks that he is making

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the best wudhu so you be the judge

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of who is making the best wudhu and

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tell us who is actually the one who

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is making the best wudhu.

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So first Hassan he makes wudhu and obviously

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he does it in a perfect way without

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leaving anything.

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And then Hussein he does the same thing.

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He makes the wudhu in a perfect way

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without making any type of mistake.

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And then they say to him can you

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tell us who made the best wudhu?

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And then he realized his own mistake and

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he said that you know you, both of

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you made the wudhu beautifully but I am

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the one who has been making it incorrect

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all this time.

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JazakAllah Khairan for actually correcting me.

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So indirectly they corrected him without you know

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without admonishing him without embarrassing him because he

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was older than them.

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And then what about the story of the

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person that came to the Prophet and said

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Ya Rasulullah I wish to commit zina.

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You know I, give me permission to commit

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zina.

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I am a young man and I have

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these urges and I cannot stop myself, I

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cannot prevent myself, I cannot control myself so

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allow me to commit zina fornication.

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So the Prophet A.S. sat him down

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gently and started talking to him.

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Now just imagine that if somebody comes to

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us and says I want to commit zina.

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You know how would we react?

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Astaghfirullah How dare you talk about these kinds

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of things in front of me.

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Get away from me otherwise you know your

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effects are going to rub off on me

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and I am going to be a bad

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person because of you.

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What did the Prophet A.S. say?

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He sat him down and started talking to

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him very gently.

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He said do you have a mother?

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He said yeah I have a mother.

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How would you like it if somebody committed

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zina with your mother?

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He said I wouldn't like it at all.

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Do you have a sister?

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Yes I have a sister.

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How would you like it if somebody committed

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zina with your sister?

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He said I wouldn't like it.

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And then so on and so forth counting

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all of the female relatives of the person

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and ultimately the Prophet A.S. put his

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hand on the chest of this person, made

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dua for him and the person walked away

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saying that from that point on zina, adultery,

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fornication became the most despicable thing to me

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and prior to that I was attracted to

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committing this very vile sin.

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Prior to the Prophet A.S. making me

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understand the gravity of it that if I

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was in the shoes of a relative of

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the victim of zina then how would I

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feel?

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So really this was the wisdom of the

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Prophet A.S. in advising and admonishing the

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person that made the person repent and turn

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back to Allah SWT.

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So when we say when we say entails

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that you know we use wise words do

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not hurt a person's feelings do not admonish

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him in public and use such wording that

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makes a person come closer to you rather

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than pushing him away.

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This is what hikmah is about.

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And this also goes back to the issue

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of inviting non-muslim towards Islam.

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A lot of people get hung up on

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these issues of a woman for example a

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non-muslim comes into the masjid without hijab

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and people go crazy how dare she come

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into the masjid without hijab but she doesn't

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know any better okay she doesn't know any

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better so you know why are you making

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it a huge issue why are you making

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a big fuss out of it and scaring

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her away and this happens that people come

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to the masjid with true and sincere interest

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in learning about Islam and somebody says something

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to them and they get scared and they

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never want to come back to the masjid

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again.

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So this has happened on many occasions just

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last week we had a huge group of

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people about a hundred people came to the

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masjid early in the morning around 8 o

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'clock and you know pictures were posted on

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our whatsapp groups and people just raised that

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same issue again that why non-muslims are

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in the masjid in the musallah they shouldn't

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be in the musallah area and so on

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you know there are so many examples of

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the Prophet allowing non-muslims into the masjid

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the people group of Christians came all the

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way from Najran to have a dialogue with

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the Prophet the Prophet had a dialogue with

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them in the masjid, in the masjid and

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then on top of that when the time

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came for them to pray, he even permitted

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them to pray inside the musallah so the

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issue is here that when a non-muslim

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is coming to sincerely learn about Islam our

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actions sometimes push a person away from Islam

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rather than get him close to us very

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very sad situation and many people that actually

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became muslim they say that that when we

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initially came to the masjid we used to

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get bad treatment from people we were sitting

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in the masjid listening to lectures, listening to

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talks you know becoming more and more interested

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and suddenly somebody tells us oh you are

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not a muslim you have to step outside

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the masjid and stay outside the masjid very

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very sad situation and not something that we

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should tolerate we have to be a little

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bit more lenient when it comes to these

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issues there is a ruling for a woman

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who is in her menstrual cycle which is

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a state of impurity that when she needs

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to when she needs to make arkan of

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hajj or umrah and she has no other

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choice but to make tawaf around the kaaba

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in that state of impurity then she is

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allowed to do so there is a dam

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which has to be given basically a penalty

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that has to be given but the point

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is that even in the state of impurity

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she is allowed to make tawaf around the

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kaaba, the holiest place in the world so

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you know this should give us an indication

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of that impurity is not something that is

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transferable in the sense that we look at

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it so especially being a non-muslim non

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-muslims are not mukallaf meaning they are not

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held accountable by Allah SWT for their actions

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so therefore the state of impurity that they

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may be in it is not an issue

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especially when we are trying to invite them

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towards Allah SWT the next thing that Allah

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SWT says is call people to the way

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of your lord with hikmah we have talked

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about hikmah already and which means good speech

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good speech means that don't let any joe

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just give the lecture if the person doesn't

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know what he is talking about ok don't

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let a person who has no knowledge of

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the subject try to advise people who are

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in need of good advice the person who

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is talking must know what he is talking

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about he has to have the correct knowledge

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before he gives dawah so al mu'ibat

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al hasana means that whatever dawah whatever type

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of dawah he is giving he needs to

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know what to do he needs to know

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what to say when he is talking to

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muslims he needs to know what to say

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when he is talking to christians he needs

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to know what to say when he is

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talking to jewish people he needs to know

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what to say so depending on the situation

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the expert in that particular field needs to

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be brought forward and he is the one

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that should be given the lecture not any

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person the person who knows what to do

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he is the person that will give dawah

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after that allah says and dispute with them

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in a way that is the best jidal

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actually means to fight but here this is

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jidal in the sense that you have a

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dialogue with a person so when you are

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having a dialogue with a person it should

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not be in an insulting way do not

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talk to the person in an insulting way

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do not talk to him in derogatory terms

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and that is why the concept of debate

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in islam where a person tries to put

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the other down this is not really something

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that is appropriate in islam a dialogue is

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a better word to use rather than debate

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in a debate you try to prove the

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other wrong using his own proofs and so

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on sometimes that is counterproductive you are insulting

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him in a way that you are pushing

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him away allah says in one verse of

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the quran do not curse those that

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call to other than allah otherwise they are

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going to curse allah in return so if

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you curse a statue that a person worships,

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he loves that statue he loves to prostrate

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to the statue he thinks highly of that

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statue and you insult that statue, you think

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that he is not going to insult allah

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or insult our religion of course he is

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going to so means dispute with them in

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such a way or dialogue with them in

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such a way that is good that is

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not making the person down and not insulting

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the person specifically allah says in surah al

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ankabut ...

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when talking to the people of the book

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then talk to them in such a way

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that is the best and tell them that

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we have iman in what was revealed to

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you and what was revealed to us, we

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believe in the books that were sent to

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your prophets, we believe in the torah, we

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believe in the injeel that in their original

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sense they were books sent by allah and

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our god and your god is the same

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and we submit ourselves to him so talk

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about the things that you have in common

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rather than talking about the differences so this

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is what is meant by ...

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dispute with them in such a way that

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is good and then finally allah says ...

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...

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...

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...

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it's a very very profound ayah that allah

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finishes off this verse with so half of

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the verse is associated with people calling people

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towards allah giving dawah inviting people towards islam

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but then the warning is given to every

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single person who gives dawah that don't forget

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about yourself Don't forget about yourself.

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You know, you focus on other people and

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focus on inviting people, but you yourself must

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not be led astray and you yourself need

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to work on yourself.

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So, do not think of somebody as being

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worse than you and do not think of

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somebody as being a person who is impure

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or a disbeliever or a person who is

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not a good Muslim.

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Ultimately, that person may make Tawbah and you

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may become misguided.

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And there is a Hadith Khudsi in which

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Allah SWT says in this Hadith Khudsi, Who

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is the one who dares to say that

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I am not going to forgive such and

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such a person?

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I have forgiven that person and I have

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put all your deeds to waste.

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That's a very scary Hadith that when people

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become judgmental about other people, you, Allah SWT

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is never going to forgive you.

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The way that you act with Allah and

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the way you don't pray and you don't

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come to the Masjid and you are involved

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in such and such sins, Allah will never

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forgive you.

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Nobody has the right to say that.

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Nobody has the right to say that.

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We really need to think about ourselves that

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which way we are heading and to work

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on ourselves, to work on our character, that

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is the thing that we should be focusing

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on and not looking at other people's faults.

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So, there is a saying that I heard

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from my teachers that Allah SWT has given

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us two eyes.

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With those two eyes, one of them should

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be used to look at the good in

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others and the other eye should be used

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to look at our own faults.

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Our own faults, we look at them and

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look at the good in others.

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So, this last portion of the verse, it

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says, Inna rabbaka huwa a'lamu biman dhalla

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an sabili Indeed, your Lord, He has more

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knowledge of those people that are astray from

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His path.

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Wahu a'lamu bil muhtadeen And He has

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more knowledge of the ones who are guided.

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So, that in a nutshell tells us that

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you who are giving dawah should not think

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that you are more guided than anybody else.

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You should focus on yourself also.

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You should focus on your sincerity.

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You should focus on building your own character.

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At the same time as giving dawah, but

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don't forget about yourself.

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Make sure that you are focusing on your

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good deeds and your relationship with Allah SWT.

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So, inshallah we will stop there and we

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will continue next week.

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I pray that Allah SWT gives us sufiq

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to understand and practice what is being said

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and heard.

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