Zia Sheikh – Ramadan 2015 Khatira Day18

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The speaker discusses various types of blessings received by Allah, including cure for humanity, various blessings for humans, and even a wall or tree. They also discuss the various types of clothing and shades used during war, including animal skin and leather. The importance of protecting oneself from heat, sandstorms, and sandstorms is emphasized, along with the need for protective clothing during warfare. The speaker emphasizes the importance of policy implementation to avoid harmful behavior and fasting to improve one's health.

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			And as we know, Allah SWT mentions in
		
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			great detail how He commands the honeybee to
		
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			go round to the mountains and the trees
		
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			to collect nectar, which is then turned into
		
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			honey, about which Allah SWT declares, فِيهِ شِفَاءٌ
		
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			لِلنَّاسِ There is a cure for humanity in
		
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			that honey.
		
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			So this surah actually, from the beginning to
		
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			the end, it talks about various kinds of
		
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			blessings that Allah has blessed us with in
		
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			terms of the fact that He has given
		
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			us so many different things that are under
		
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			our control.
		
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			Animals and sheep, camels, goats, even elephants, they
		
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			are all under our control and they are
		
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			under the service of the human.
		
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			In addition to that, Allah SWT mentions other
		
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			blessings, which I'm going to be referring to
		
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			right now.
		
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			There is a riwayah in which the Prophet
		
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			SAW, this riwayah is in Ibn Kathir, a
		
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			person who was a Bedouin, he came to
		
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			the Prophet SAW and started asking him many
		
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			questions, and the Prophet SAW, he started responding
		
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			to the questions using these verses, which were
		
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			revealed to him.
		
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			And they were specifically about the blessings that
		
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			Allah SWT has blessed the humans with.
		
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			So Allah SWT says, وَاللَّهُ جَعَلَ لَكُم مِّن
		
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			بُيُوتِكُم سَكَنًا Allah SWT, He made for you,
		
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			from your houses, a sakan, a place of
		
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			living.
		
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			Now the strange thing is, the word sakan,
		
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			in Urdu we say sukoon, what does sukoon
		
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			mean?
		
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			Sukoon, what does it mean?
		
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			Comfort, peace, right?
		
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			So in Arabic, the word sakan basically means
		
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			a place to live.
		
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			So when you ask somebody in Arabic, أين
		
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			تسكون?
		
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			Where do you live?
		
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			The actual literal translation of أين تسكون is,
		
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			where do you find peace?
		
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			Where do you find peace?
		
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			So maskan, maskan also means your dwelling, it
		
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			really means a place of peace.
		
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			And the reality is, we have so many
		
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			sayings in English, right?
		
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			There's no place like home, alright?
		
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			The reality is, that when a person comes
		
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			to his home, he finds the most peace
		
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			there.
		
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			So he may go for a vacation, and
		
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			he may stay at the most expensive of
		
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			resorts and hotels, 5-star, 6-star, 7
		
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			-star nowadays.
		
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			But yet, the feeling of peace and tranquility
		
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			a person gets, when he gets to his
		
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			house, is completely different.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			He may have a bed which is 10
		
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			years old, but he feels more comfortable sleeping
		
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			in that bed, than in any other expensive
		
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			bed that he might find anywhere else.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			So this is why the place of the
		
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			house in Arabic is called sakan, it is
		
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			from the word sukoon, because a person finds
		
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			peace there.
		
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			So however humble that house may be, it
		
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			may be just a one bedroom apartment, or
		
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			a two bedroom apartment, but still, the home
		
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			is the home.
		
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			So he finds peace there.
		
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			So Allah SWT said, Allah SWT has made
		
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			for you, from your houses, peace, or sakan,
		
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			or a place of dwelling.
		
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			And the Arawi, the villager, when he heard
		
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			this, he said, Yes, that is true.
		
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			And the Prophet SAW continued, and he said,
		
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			Allah SWT made for you, from the skins
		
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			of animals.
		
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			And again, something we take so lightly nowadays,
		
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			the fact that an animal gave its life
		
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			for us.
		
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			An animal gave its life for us, and
		
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			we eat the meat of that animal, and
		
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			we use the skin of that animal.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			So, Allah is mentioning here, that he made
		
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			for you from the skins of the animals,
		
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			the leather of the animals, houses, meaning, we
		
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			use those skins for tents, and so on,
		
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			that you can carry around easily.
		
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			You find them very light.
		
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			Whether you are in travel, or whether you
		
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			have stopped your travel, and you are residing
		
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			at a place, but those tents that are
		
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			made from animal skin, they also, they give
		
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			you refuge.
		
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			And then, on top of that, those same
		
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			animals, you use the wool, the hair, and
		
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			the other components of the animal, the hair
		
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			and the wool, etc.
		
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			For what?
		
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			For other things.
		
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			For clothing, and for weaving, and so on.
		
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			Sweaters are made from the wool of the
		
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			animals.
		
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			Again, that animal, it's giving up part of
		
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			itself, so that you can benefit from it.
		
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			Another blessing of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			you made from these things, goods and benefit
		
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			until a fixed time.
		
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			And the ayah continues.
		
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			And all the way, the Bedouin continues to
		
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			say, to the Prophet a.s. Yes, yes,
		
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			that's true.
		
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			That is true.
		
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			The ayah continues.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made for you
		
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			from what He created, shadows, meaning shade.
		
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			So again, whatever the form of that shade
		
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			is, whether you're underneath a tent, or whether
		
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			you're in an air-conditioned house, or whether
		
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			you're in an apartment, Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala gave you shade.
		
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			So, many forms of shade that Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala gave you.
		
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			Some people who live in mountains, Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala blessed them with caves, so
		
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			that they could take refuge within the mountains
		
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			also.
		
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			So, even people have found refuge in caves.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala made for you
		
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			garments, that protect you from the heat, and
		
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			made you garments that protect you during the
		
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			time you fight.
		
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			So, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala again, He
		
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			gave us different types of garments.
		
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			Sometimes you have garments for the heat, we
		
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			have cool cotton clothes nowadays, and also we
		
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			use, nowadays we have new technology, which, you
		
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			know, the sports manufacturers make, to make their
		
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			shirts and so on, that even though that
		
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			shirt gets wet, it still stays dry.
		
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			This technology was, the intelligence for that technology
		
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			was given to us by Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			And then we have that, we have clothing,
		
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			which protects us during the cold months.
		
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			The wool and the leather, and the thick
		
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			clothing, the padded clothing, Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala enabled us to make those things, for
		
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			the cold months.
		
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			But in this ayah, Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala only mentions the heat.
		
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			Okay, why?
		
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			Because obviously, in those days, the people used
		
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			to use, and even nowadays, in the hot
		
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			desert, you protect yourself from the heat, and
		
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			the sandstorms, by covering yourself completely with the
		
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			clothing.
		
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			Okay, so that's why, when people are in
		
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			the desert, they have the, obviously the jalabiya
		
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			that they're wearing, but they also, sometimes when
		
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			the sand is blowing, they have to cover
		
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			their whole head, with the scarf, so that
		
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			the sand which is blowing, doesn't hurt them.
		
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			And at that time, the wind that is
		
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			blowing, is very, very hot indeed.
		
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			And that can also scorch the skin, it
		
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			is so hot.
		
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			So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala mentions specifically
		
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			the heat.
		
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			And also, He gave you the ability to
		
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			make armor, to protect yourselves, during warfare.
		
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			Nowadays, we even have bulletproof vests, which protect
		
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			a person from bullets, made out of kevlar,
		
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			right?
		
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			So again, that intelligence was given to us,
		
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			by Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And all the time again, this Bedouin kept
		
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			on saying, yes, that's true, yes, that's true.
		
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			At the end, Allah says, This is how
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala completes his blessing
		
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			for you, so that you would submit.
		
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			After pondering over these blessings that Allah has
		
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			given us, what else can we do but
		
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			submit to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala?
		
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			And say that, oh Allah, you gave us
		
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			all of these things, you gave us protection,
		
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			you gave us our houses, you gave us
		
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			shade, protecting us from the heat and the
		
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			cold, you gave us comfort in our homes,
		
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			you gave us comfort in our families, the
		
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			least we can do for you, is just
		
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			do what you want us to do, and
		
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			lead our life in your obedience.
		
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			That is the least that we should do
		
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			for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			But at this point, the Bedouin, he got
		
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			up and walked away.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala revealed the verse,
		
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			If they turn away, then oh Prophet of
		
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			Allah, your responsibility is just giving the message.
		
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			Openly giving the message.
		
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			So, we have to do the same thing
		
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			to everybody.
		
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			Give the message, try to explain to them
		
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			the blessings that Allah has created, and hopefully
		
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			they understand, and they submit themselves to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			Many people will not understand, they may turn
		
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			away and not accept Islam.
		
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			يَعْرِفُونَ نِعْمَةَ اللَّهِ ثُمَّ يُنكِرُونَهَا وَأَكْثَرُهُمُ الْكَافِرُونَ
		
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			They recognize the blessings of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala, and yet they continue to deny
		
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			them.
		
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			And most of these people are kafiroon.
		
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			Kafir can have two connotations.
		
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			One, they are disbelievers, or they are ungrateful.
		
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			In both cases, basically, they can be actually
		
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			synonymous with each other, both words.
		
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			Because ungratefulness leads to actual disbelief of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			So, in any case, what does Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala want us to understand from
		
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			this?
		
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			Look around, think about the blessings that Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala has given us, and
		
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			be grateful to Him, and gratitude entails that
		
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			we spend our life in obedience to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			The next verse I want to talk about
		
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			is a verse in which Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala talks about, first of all, the
		
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			verse before that.
		
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			There's a story that Uthman ibn Mat'oon
		
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			was a sahabi, he came and sat with
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ in the masjid one day,
		
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			and while he was sitting with the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ, the Prophet looked at him, and he
		
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			looked up at the sky, and then he
		
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			looked back down again.
		
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			And then he did that a second time.
		
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			So, Uthman is wondering what's going on, and
		
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			he said, Ya Rasulullah, I saw you doing
		
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			this, what happened?
		
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			He said, while you were sitting here, this
		
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			verse was revealed to me.
		
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			And it's a verse that probably each one
		
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			of you is familiar with.
		
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			Whenever we have the Jumaa khutbah, at the
		
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			end, the khatib, he says this verse, Inna
		
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			Allah ya'muru bil adl wal ihsan wa ita
		
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			'i dhil qurba wa yinhaa alil fahsha'i
		
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			wal munkari wal baghri Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala, He orders people to do justice, and
		
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			to make ihsan, to do good for people,
		
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			and to give to the relatives, and He
		
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			prevents from immorality, and evil, and transgression.
		
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			Ya'idukum la'allakum tadhakkaroon Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala is advising you, so that you
		
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			may take heed.
		
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			So there are different points that we need
		
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			to think about.
		
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			First of all, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			used the word adl first.
		
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			First and foremost is justice.
		
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			And then after that is the word ihsan.
		
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			Justice comes before ihsan.
		
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			When a judge passes a judgment in a
		
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			case, he doesn't put across the ruling of
		
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			ihsan.
		
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			He gives the ruling according to what the
		
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			Islamic ruling is.
		
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			And then after that, the victim of the
		
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			crime, he decides whether he wants to do
		
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			ihsan or not.
		
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			This is what Islam teaches.
		
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			First is adl, then after that comes ihsan.
		
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			Similarly, in the case of inheritance, many people
		
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			think that, okay, I have a good relationship
		
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			with my brother, if I take his share
		
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			of the inheritance, he's not going to mind.
		
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			Well, that's not how it works.
		
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			First, you have to be just.
		
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			You have to distribute the inheritance first, and
		
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			then after that, if he wants to be
		
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			kind to you, and he wants to give
		
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			his share of the inheritance to you, then
		
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			that's up to him.
		
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			Justice comes first.
		
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			In the case, for example, of capital punishment,
		
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			a person murders somebody, the judge will pass
		
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			a judgment.
		
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			If the person is guilty, that he is
		
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			going to get capital punishment, and then the
		
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			option is given to the victims that you
		
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			can either take blood money or you can
		
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			forgive the person completely.
		
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			But first, the ruling is that the person
		
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			has to be killed for the sin of
		
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			committing a murder.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			After that, the choice is given to the
		
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			relatives, whether they want to do ihsan or
		
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			not.
		
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			So, adal comes first, and then ihsan comes
		
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			after that.
		
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			And sometimes we flip the equation, okay, we
		
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			flip the equation, and we say, okay, somebody
		
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			does bad to you, well, first you forgive.
		
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			No, you need to know what your rights
		
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			are, and then after that, after knowing what
		
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			your rights are, then you forgive, and actually
		
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			that may be even more rewarding for you,
		
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			that despite knowing what you could have got
		
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			from that case, you were forgiving, so that
		
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			is something that is more pleasing to Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And then after that, Allah says, wa ita
		
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			idh alqurba, to give to the relatives.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala wants you to
		
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			give to the relatives.
		
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			And sometimes that's even more difficult than giving
		
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			to strangers.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because in whichever family you are in, there
		
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			are always going to be some form of
		
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			politics.
		
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			Okay, some kind of history.
		
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			You did this to me 10 years ago,
		
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			and I've never forgotten it.
		
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			You never came to my son's wedding.
		
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			I've never forgotten it.
		
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			Okay, we hear this all the time in
		
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			our families, right?
		
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			Now that same person who has a grudge
		
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			against you for 10 years, now he needs
		
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			something from you, and he comes to you,
		
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			you say, ha, now you want to take
		
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			something from me, and ask something from me,
		
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			and ask a favor from me, and for
		
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			the past 10 years, you've been bothering me
		
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			about that wedding that I didn't come to.
		
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			Okay, so, wa ita idh alqurba.
		
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			That's where you have to step on your
		
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			nafs, and give that person whatever he wants,
		
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			and fulfill his need.
		
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			This is what is meant by giving to
		
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			the relatives.
		
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			Okay, so, the relatives, and of course the
		
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			Prophet A.S. said, that when you give
		
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			to your relatives, it is a double reward.
		
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			You get the reward of sadaqa, if the
		
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			person is needy.
		
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			You can even give zakat to your relatives,
		
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			except for your parents, grandparents, parents, children, grandchildren,
		
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			etc.
		
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			Other relatives, you can give zakat to them,
		
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			if they're needy.
		
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			But, when you give zakat to them, you
		
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			also get the reward for silatul arham, which
		
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			is in joining good relationships with your relatives.
		
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			So, you get a double reward, when you
		
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			are doing this with your own relatives.
		
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			So, wa ita idh alqurba.
		
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			wa yanha anil fahsha'i wal munkari wal
		
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			badr Allah A.S. forbids from fahsha.
		
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			Fahsha means immorality.
		
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			And immorality is a specific type of sin,
		
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			which is related to lewdness.
		
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			And nowadays, we can just sum it up
		
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			in one word, *.
		
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			Which is prevalent everywhere, on people's computers, smartphones,
		
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			everywhere.
		
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			We need to understand, that this is becoming
		
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			pandemic, to a point that people are becoming
		
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			addicted, and it's creating huge problems in families,
		
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			it's creating divorces.
		
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			So, this is something that we need to
		
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			understand.
		
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			We have to get out of our systems,
		
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			if we are involved in something like this.
		
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			It is...
		
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			It contaminates our hearts, it contaminates our connection
		
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			with Allah A.S. and it destroys our
		
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			households.
		
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			It destroys our Islam from within.
		
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			We don't develop any khushu and connection with
		
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			Allah.
		
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			We don't feel like making dua to Allah
		
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			A.S. So, this is all as a
		
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			result of a person being involved in this
		
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			type of activity.
		
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			So, this all falls under the word al
		
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			-fahsha, immorality.
		
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			And then Allah A.S. then, He talks
		
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			about sin in general, wal-munkar.
		
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			Allah A.S. forbids you from munkar also,
		
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			and al-baghi, transgression, is also a type
		
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			of sin.
		
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			Ya'ibukum, Allah A.S. is advising you,
		
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			so that you may take heed.
		
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			After that, there is a mention of a
		
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			woman, who used to be in Mecca, and
		
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			what she used to do, she used to
		
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			weave a cloth, all day.
		
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			And then at the end of the day,
		
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			what she used to do, she used to
		
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			unravel the whole thing that she had woven.
		
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			Okay, so, for example, we have our grandparents
		
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			or old people in our communities, you know,
		
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			they like to knit, right?
		
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			So, just imagine that the woman has been
		
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			knitting the whole day, she made a piece
		
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			of cloth or a sweater or something for
		
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			you, and then at the end of the
		
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			day, she takes it, and she basically unravels
		
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			it all, and she's left only with the
		
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			thread.
		
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			So, what does Allah A.S. want to
		
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			tell us from this story?
		
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			Allah says in the following verse, don't become
		
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			like this woman, who does the weaving all
		
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			day, and then at the end of the
		
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			day, she basically unravels everything.
		
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			What does it mean?
		
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			What it means is, that we do so
		
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			many different types of deeds.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			We go out of our way, for example,
		
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			to wake up in the morning to come
		
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			for Fajr prayer.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And we go out of our way to
		
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			make sure that we fast the whole day,
		
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			and we are hungry and thirsty.
		
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			But as soon as we pray the Fajr
		
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			prayer, we go outside and start backbiting about
		
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			somebody.
		
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			We start slandering somebody.
		
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			The whole effort that we made, basically, becomes
		
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			unraveled just like that.
		
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			Just like that woman, who unraveled that cloth
		
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			at the end of the day.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			The same thing, we fast all day, and
		
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			then we engage in haram after breaking our
		
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			fast.
		
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			Or we eat something, which is from haram
		
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			means, or haram sustenance, or at the end
		
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			of the day, or during the day even,
		
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			we backbite, we look at something wrong, we
		
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			listen to something wrong, and the whole reward
		
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			of the fast, basically, becomes unraveled, just like
		
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			the cloth of this woman.
		
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			Specifically, Allah SWT mentions in these verses, the
		
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			issue of fulfilling promises and covenants.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			That's a specific wording that Allah SWT uses,
		
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			but in general, you can say, for any
		
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			deed that a person does, it's just like
		
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			that unraveling of the cloth.
		
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			Basically, all the effort goes to waste.
		
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			So, this was towards the end of Surah
		
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			An-Nahl.
		
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			I pray that Allah SWT gives us the
		
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			tawfiq to understand and practice what has been
		
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			said and heard.