Zakaullah Saleem – 87 Riyad asSalihin
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bottlenose dolphin or salatu salam ala Rasulillah al Karim while he
was so humble ah mine my bad
and Abdullah hidden Yama lemme call.
Basil was a noble mocha.
We are going through the chapter of
the virtues ripping the bonds of relationship with the parents
first and foremost and then the rest of the relatives
is that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Lacell was
so you do Bill McAfee.
The one who keeps the ties of the kinship truly and sincerely is not
the one who treats his relatives
the way they treat him, true maintainer of the ties of the
kinship is the one who
keeps the connection with his relatives who suffers and faces
the hardship
of his relatives being rude and aggressive to him. But he remains
patient and he keeps the ties of kinship with them. And this is
what a Muslim is required. And this is what Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam has advised us in the eyes in Kerala who sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu salam said
a Rahim.
A Rahim or Allah katoon Bill Arash the coal man was Salani was Salah
hula woman Nakatani talk Katara hula,
the ties of kinship, the bond of an hola Darla, how is it? We
cannot imagine? We don't know. Because we have been given a limit
of thinking and reasoning and understanding, we have a limited
way of understanding things. A person may understand one thing,
but the other person ourselves within the creation of Allah, then
how can we even try to understand everything that is mentioned in
the Quran and the Hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wasallam. And especially when it comes to the matters of the unseen
when it comes to the matters of the unseen, we cannot come to the
Metro of the unseen. The principle is that you believe in whatever
Allah subhanho wa Taala has told you, and what are the Messenger of
Allah alayhi salatu salam has informed us
to certain extent the reasoning he is applied, that is why we have
chaos within the within the Sharia within fic. But when it comes to
the matters, semi or now what Altana whatever we heard the
Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu salam saying, we must obey, and
you must accept. And this is a general principle. We bear in mind
we need to understand when it comes to the matter of iman,
believing in Allah subhanho wa Taala believing in the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam believing in the matter of the
unseen because after that everything, all of those matters
that are related to the matter of the unseen. We accept the way that
also the way the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has
informed us
so in this hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
the bond of relationship is suspended from the Throne of Allah
subhanho wa Taala who understand is that the bond of relationship
has direct link to the Throne of Allah subhanho wa Taala
that is why the Prophet sallallahu sallam said the bond saves lives
his connection with him. Woman catani Katara hola and whoever
severs me and cuts me off. May Allah cut him vichara Siddiq Radi
Allahu Taala on Houma, Asmaa, the daughter of Abu Bakr, Siddiq of
the Allahu Taala and Houma.
She says Kadima Tala yo, homie, we're here Mushrik atone fee deal
Shreeka meaning she had not accepted Islam. She was a
disbeliever
and she came to me during the tours in Medina because she
migrated from McHale Makarova to Madina. Munawwara along with the
Allahu taala. On on who a she did not accept Islam yes Ma, about the
Allahu Taala and her and
She says, first of all they do rasool Allah He SallAllahu ala he
was in the mind or the medulla Yomi. While he or Alibaba or
messenger of Allah, my mother has come to me. The scholars of Hadees
has explained this word in two ways. They said the Rohingya rally
button fill Islam, she is probably willing to accept Islam all while
he or she is willing to make up with me. See to me, shall I keep
the ties of kinship with my mother? While he was salam said
nah, I'm silly omec Yes, you should keep the ties of kinship
with your mother. Although she is not Muslim. And this is the
general principle within the dutiful towards them, you must
keep the relationship with them. You cannot sever the ties of
kinship with them. This is one of the you're the parents who are
within the fold of Islam. They may be doing something wrong. They may
not be mean that you become and dutiful towards your parents. Does
this mean that you abandon your parents and you and you cut the
ties of kinship with your parents? No rather Sahiba Houma duniya
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Next hadith is the hadith of Xena but of the Allahu Taala and her
zeyneb Asaka FIEA in Raja Abdullah Hibino Massoud Radi Allahu Taala
zeyneb
The wife of Abdullah named the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu
salam said in one of his sermons, the sadhaka nya mashallah Nisa
wallow, Minh holy Yukon,
all women, you should give in charity even if it is from your
own jewelry. Meaning if you do not have any money, you do not have
anything to give in charity apart from your own person has mentioned
that this is this was the part of the hotbar of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam on the day of freed
and the deal free the Prophet sallallahu wasallam address the
whole congregation then he alayhi salatu salam after leaving the
house and he addressed the woman on the day of fried particularly
at a separate address and then in that hood Allah Islam gave them
was the Sadat Anna yeah mashallah Nisa wallow min Holly econ, or
women you should give in charity as much as you can even if it is
from your personal jewelry
zeyneb The wife of Abdullah who was rude or the Allahu Taala and
Homer said to Abdullah and was rude in the garage alone fee for
that aliens, or Abdullah I know you are someone who do not possess
much meaning you have a little weld. You're now a very well off.
We're in Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam after the Amana
be sadaqa and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam has
ordered us and he has advised us to hyleri Come I know that you are
not well off and the prophets of Salaam has ordered as he has
advised us to give sadaqa so I I suggest that you go to the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam and ask him this question. That if it is
permissible for me as your wife to go, I can do that. Otherwise, I
will have to give sadaqa to someone else.
Abdullah Abdullah homeless Rudra the Allahu Allah Allah Allah who
was one of the servants of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he
used to sallallahu alayhi wa sallam observing his practices
observing his night pray observing his practice of reading the Quran.
And during the worship of Allah subhanho The Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wasallam he used to set his bed. So Abdullah homeless are all
that are the Allahu Taala and who he was known as Sahiwal. Now Lanie
always had the the servant of the Messenger of Allah and His salat
wa salam, the K sighters of the Quran the change of the Quran
by which the Quran has reached as many chains go through Abdullah
who was Rudra the Allahu Tang, and he was the one he was blessed with
the beautiful voice.
So much so that Rasulullah sallallahu Abdullah Abdullah
Abdullah had been miserable. Whoever would like to recite the
Quran as the Quran is being revealed fresh now. He should try
to copy Abdullah who was Rudra
of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. So he felt shy asking this
particular question Rasulullah sallallahu Sana. So he said to his
wife, I'm not going to go from my own wife, so I can't do this. So I
suggest that you yourself, go to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and
ask him this question. She says, From Pollak
I went to the house of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for either a two
minute anisotropy Barbie Rasulillah he Salah Listen, when
he reached the house of the Prophet salallahu salam ala Salim
to come out. And she had exactly the same question. She wanted to
ask the same question.
So we stood there, and she says,
For Harada, Elena, Wakamatsu, Allah He sallallahu alayhi salam
AlTi Italia Hill marhaba So myself and another woman from amongst
Sansa, alayhi wa sallam was given some kind of special dignity from
Allah subhanho wa taala. That out of extreme respect for the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, you would feel shy to speak to him
directly and to evolve Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam for
coolala. And we
we requested Milan and we said to Bill and go on to Rasulullah
sallallahu Sallam and asked him that there are two women standing
by your door. And they are asking this question. And the question is
a to do sada to and Houma Allah as Wajima were either either aka to
their husbands, as well as the orphans that they are in charge,
the orphan that they are under the kg, as well as it has been can
they give sadaqa and don't let the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
who we are.
So just ask a random question. And he was a Prophet salallahu Alaihe
Salam, the question, the Prophet alayhi salatu salam said Man,
Houma, first of all, is now in between two, on one hand, they
asked Bilal, not to mention their name, but the prophets of salaam
directly asked because he understood that obeying the
messenger of Allah accepting the call of the Messenger of Allah and
replying back to the Messenger of Allah Alayhi Salatu Salam is
compulsories watch him.
So beloved of the Allahu Taala and the other lady is Zeynep so it
seemed that he did not know the name and Zainab
again, the the answer
so many women within Medina with the same name, the prophet Salah
salem said, which Zainab and then beloved the Allahu taala. At this
point, he had no choice but to make it clear, he said zeyneb
Emirati Abdullah Zeynep, the wife of Abdullah and Miss Ruth,
and then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replied and he
said Lahoma Iran, and if they do so, they will get double reward,
the reward of charity as well as the reward of strengthening the
relationship amongst themselves.
Okay, so there are a number of rulings that we understand from
this hadith. And the fuqaha have used this hadith extensively to
derive Slav who Allahu wa sallam addressed women, separately on the
day of eat. And on the day of read to have a special speech or
reminder for women particularly, it is permissible.
The second lesson that we learn from this hadith is that women
should time to time be reminded to give sadaqa in the way of Allah
subhanahu wa Tada. Why is this important? Because especially
household or especially the housewives, they don't have much
money. So the Prophet salallahu Salam encourage them that even if
you do not have any earning you do not have any job you doing sadaqa
in charity in the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala which also
indicates that when it comes to giving sadaqa in the way of Allah
subhanho wa Taala you should not look at your earning and the type
of job you have and the type of business you have no, give
whatever you can. Because what Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala
looks at your heart.
Allah subhanho wa Taala will reward you for your intention.
That is why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said subaqua
dyrham
it given
more reward than 100,000 did.
And when the companion is one Lahinch mine heard they said they
said almost new for law How is it possible a person gives one they
come in the way of Allah and other person gives 100,000 did him and
the one who gives the one that he gets walk he possesses only two
different
he has only two dyrham in his possession. And when he gives one
that I'm in the way of Allah it means as if he has given us and
out of so many millions that he possesses. So, look here, the
quality the quality is what is valued, even if it is from the
person from the personal jewelry. Another lesson that we learn from
this hadith is that Abdullah the wife of Abdullah whom was rude or
the Allah she shared the message with her husband. And this is a
clear evidence that it is the duty of women
of any family of any household that whenever they hear something
in the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala they should, they should
inform the rest of their family members learn something new in the
deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala they should also they should also
teach men they should also within amongst the Muslims.
The next lesson that we learn from this hadith is that, that Abdullah
and Massoud who was her husband, he had responsibility towards her.
He had the responsibility to spend on her to fulfill her need. That
is why she wanted to ask this question the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam if it was permissible for her to give sadaqa
to her own husband, because she is not responsible to financially
support her husband.
way Who are they responsible, and you have duty towards them to
support them financially, you cannot give your sadhaka you
cannot give us aka or sadhaka to them, for example, Father, Father
and to give sadaqa although he's rewarded, although he's rewarded
for every single penny that he spends on his children, that is
separate matter. That is mercy from Allah subhanahu wa taala. But
with the intention of giving sadaqa if you want to take out a
sadaqa from your wealth, and you want to give in charity, then you
can't give to your own children. Likewise, the children the
children are able to earn it is their duty to look after their
parents. So it has become the duty and the responsibility. So the
general principle here is that anyone who is in your care from
amongst your relatives, particularly you can't, you can't
spend your sadaqa you can't give them sadaqa as found obligation or
responsibility upon yourself, then it is permissible for you to give
sadaqa to them. For example, for example, a as it is mentioned
within this hadith, that when the wife of tau alpha Abdullah and
Ebola on the shoulder of the Allahu Taala and Huma, she went to
ask the Prophet Salah Salem question about her husband, but
she added, is it permissible? And the prophets Allah Salam said yes,
it is permissible. So the orphans that are under your care, whether
they are related to you or that they are not related to you, okay,
you can give them sadaqa and you can spend your sadaqa on them. So
this next lesson that we learn from this hadith, another Prophet
salallahu Alaihe Salam, the respect that the companions of the
Diwan Allahu Allah Germain had for the Prophet sallallahu Sallam as
it is mentioned, in the hadith of Anis Radi Allahu tan who says that
no one had the ability or the courage to look and concentrate on
the beloved on the blesseth face of Rasulullah Bennigan's and the
friends of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, as it is mentioned,
another Hadith, the long Hadith way it is mentioned that the ones
of once the Prophet sallallahu Sallam led either vo harasser and
he forgot and instead of leading for God, he's a congregation where
Abu Bakr and Omar and no one had the courage to get up. And to ask
the prophets of Allah Allah send them question, but there was
someone else who asked the prophets of Allah question when he
was leaving the Masjid. So out of Allah and the Sunnah and another
woman to enter into the house of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and the way today and below the Allahu Taala and who he
was, again, one
Have the semblance of Rasulullah sallallahu Allah He was
beaches under the evidence that it is permissible for a person to ask
someone to ask a person of knowledge, a question on their
behalf. It doesn't, you know, elaborate or explain the way you
can explain to your close friends, that it is permissible that you
ask them to ask the imam or a person of knowledge before he
replied, He made a clarification of Allah Alyssa lemon they asked
this, this question the Prophet saw them before replying back to
the question. He Allah His Allahu Taala and who he replied and he
answered, he mentioned to the prophets for them, the name of of
the wife of Abdullah and Masada, the Allahu taala, which is an
evidence that it is permissible for a scholar for Imam or person
of knowledge, when he's asked the questions on the situation of the
person, or the answer may vary from person to person.
So it is not always one standard answer for every single instances,
depending on their situation and depending on the knowledge of the
person who is answering the question as well. So the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam made that clarification. And when he was
clear about this, then he alayhi salatu salam answered, because he
and he wanted to understand what was and who was who was asking the
question, because he knew the financial situation of Ebola on
this route.
So he did not wrong and well off then in this case, it is not
permissible for wife to again, the clarification was made to the
prophets of salaam he replied in he said Lahoma agilon, those would
both women, they will get the reward of the reward of karamba of
relationship and the reward of charity.
And the law, it is not always amongst your close relatives.
Rather, it includes all kinds of relationship, your uncle's arms,
not only them other than them as well, okay, it may be, you know,
as someone who is related to you, but not closely, okay, they also
have right upon you, and you must keep the relationship and the ties
of, of kinship with them. The next Hadees is the Hadees of I will
Soufiane suffered and how are the Allahu Taala and whom Allah long
Hadees when Abu Sufian not the Allahu Taala before accepting
Islam, he went to Rome and he met with the emperor of the Rome, the
Byzantine Empire.
Reckless and he met him and
you know, this king, he asked, I will Soufiane with the Allahu
Taala and who a few so whatever the question he asked, I will
Soufiane replied back, and you know, telling the truth. And one
of those questions was about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam and he asked about Sofia and Maya Morrow can be the person
who claims to be the Prophet of Allah, referring to our NABI
SallAllahu Sallam the person that in Arabia asked you to do, what
does he advise you to do? Abu Sufian although he had not
accepted Islam, but he knew there, the Tao of the prophets of salaam
the message of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he straightaway
he said you're not alone and not to associate any partners with him
go to jail and become What Raghu Maya Kulu abou come and he also
advises us to discard and neglect and ignore what our forefathers
have been doing or saying.
Well, your orders us and he advised us to be truthful. And he
also advises us of being chased and was Sufian to the king. And
then these qualities are the qualities of a true prophet and
main point in this hadith is that of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, and the message of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam
included along with the message of Tawheed of ALLAH SubhanA Woodfall
so all the matter related to the Lok Sabha Soufiane or the Allahu
Taala he understood that and he told the truth to the king in the
concert of Termina urban youth God will feel a lot he the prophets of
a Salam predicted to his companions with en la humane and
he said and soon humans the currency of Egypt that time and
there is another ration that says tough tough I'm gonna miss it all
when he are gone you some mafia okay a lot. You are going to
conquer Mr. Egypt. We pay you
RT is well known for those who says oh, this was this was a sign
that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam relayed to his companion
that particular regional land festivals will be ugly have a Euro
treat the inhabitants of that land the people of that area with good
and with kindness for inshallah whom the mat and water Hema
because those people Han of the Hadith says for either for either
for either for either of them to move for in another home the
mutton Rahima or the mutton wasa because those people have
relationship with you the blood relationship and the relationship
through marriage as well. And that the scholars have said as Imam
Allah will be rahamallah explained after quoting this hadith the
blood relationship with the other of the people of Egypt was through
the wife of
so you do not Ibrahim alayhi salatu salam, the mother of Ismar
Isla de Salaam. And as for the relationship through the marriage
with the people of Arab was through Maria, the mud in Salem,
married Maria Oh, she was the
slave of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam but his son,
Ibrahim was the son of Maria so she gave birth to the Son of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who passed away at the age
of 18 months only have relationship to them. So just
imagine how far the prophets of Allah have gone and he said, You
have relationship with those people so be kind and gentle
towards these people.
Next, buckle up carabin in the early days of the worry of
Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, Allah subhanahu wa taala revealed
the ayah and Allah said one that I show you that could have been
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam stand up and Woon your
close relatives, warn them of the punishment of Allah, meaning
advise them and encourage them to accept Islam and to declare the
whole tribe of Quraysh Fatima will farm our house so the whole big
tribe of Quraysh and within the tribe obviously, they were clans
within within within that tribe and Louis or the children of
abductions the children of carbon Louis the children of more Robin
calm the children of abdomen of the children of Bani Hashim. These
were all branches within the same big tribe. The Prophet sallallahu
Sallam addressed them all and he said until and full circle Mina
nah, although you are you are all Quraysh and I belong to destroy
and he will your own cell from the fire from the punishment of Allah
subhanahu wa taala you have to you have to safeguard and protect and
save yourself from the punishment of Allah subhana wa Tada and then
at the end we'll save your own cell from the fire from the
punishment of Allah in Nila Emily Kula coming Allah he she bicone
uncommon Allah Isha. Yeah, I cannot benefit you with anything
on the evidence, important issue related to our aqidah that no one
would be able to save anyone on the day of judgment and those who
deceive people by saying that if you give me the bow the Pledge of
Allegiance and you promise that you will that you know, we know
will protect you in the grave and will protect you on the Day of
Judgment SallAllahu Sallam has explicitly said to his own
daughter and who else can help her anyone on the day of judgment
before Allah subhanho wa Taala and then he's Allah says, I have a
relationship with you. You are my relatives in the dunya while I'm
alive, I will continue to having and keeping and maintaining the
ties of kinship with you. But when it comes to the matter of the Day
of Judgment, I will not be able to help you
which is another evidence that is your rhythm when it comes to the
matter of religion, yet definitely you say look I'm Dino come Walia,
Dean. You practice your religion and I practice my religion. If
your father your mother, they are non Muslim and they don't want you
to go to the masjid to offer the salah even if they are Muslim, and
they do not allow you to practice the deen then in this case you do
not you do not obey them.
If they're trying to
encourage you or they force you to not to practice the deen of Allah
in this particular matter. You must not obey them, but he does
not mean that you get the you know it does not mean that you abandon
them completely and you cut the relationship with them completely
nowadays again reported by overrated by Abdullah him no I'm
gonna be honest about the Allahu Taala anima who says similar to
Rasulullah sallallahu Allah he was suddenly he said in the ALA bunny
Fulani lace will be Alia that particular tribe and he was
indicating towards the family of Abu Talib
Abu Talib, but unfortunately he did not accept Islam. So the
Prophet sallallahu sallam said he's not he's and Allah subhanho
wa Taala wala Killa hombre Haman Abu Habib Milania but despite
this, I have relationship with my uncle did not sever his ties
kinship with his uncle, although he was not a Muslim. Next Hadees
is the hadith of Abu Khalid bin Laden and Saudi well the Allahu
Thonon who says another Julen Colorado suit Allah Akbar Nabi I'm
telling you, that can enter me into Jana, and can take me away
from the fire of the * for HANA hooter. Allah Allah to show you
could be he che. And in the worship of Allah, you would not
associate any partners with him, or to clean Musala and you
stablish the five daily prayers, what the setup and you have to do
all these things. Next Hadees Hadees of salamander Bina Ahmed,
who says that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said is that
after ah do come, follow up to Allah tomorrow when one of you
breaks his fast he should break his fast
by in the date for ylim aged Tamra and if the person does not fit in
the hula hula because the water is a means of purification. And then
the Prophet sallallahu sallam said in the same Hadith or sadaqa to
Allah miskeen is sada the sadaqa the charity is of various types,
these type of sadaqa that you give to the poor and needy. Were
another Rahimi, Cinta and blah, what Allah de Rahimi is not done,
and if you give charity and sadaqa to your own relatives, then you
get double reward. I do Rosada What are you Silla, the reward of
the charity and there are no Huhtala that he till July cron
gives us trophies and ability to understand his religion and may
Allah subhanahu wa Tada give us all faith and ability to improve
our flock in the whole Semyon Kareem Najib Subhana. Allah Moga
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