Zakaullah Saleem – 86 Riyad asSalihin
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This is the fourth Hadith of the chapter. Barrel validation was
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significance and importance of
kind treatment towards the parents, as well as the relatives,
the people who are related to you and your kinship.
So last week, we went through some ayat of the Quran, and some a
Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that Imam and
novi rahamallah quoted in this chapter.
So we come to the fourth hadith of this chapter that is rated by say
you don't Abu Huraira or the Allahu Taala Han, who says that
the Messenger of Allah and His salatu salam said, in Allah to
Allah holla call Hulk atta EDA Farah Amin whom Kamata Rahim
Verily Allah subhanho wa Taala created all creatures had that
either father I'm in home when Allah subhanho wa Taala completed
the creation of all creatures, Alma del Rahim. Then a Rahim, the
ties of kinship, stood up for call it and it said hada Muqaam. Allah
EDB communal Korea. Oh my Lord, right now I seek refuge with you
from severing me.
And as a Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, A Rahim the ties
of kinship stood up. How did it stand? We do not know we cannot
imagine.
We can only believe in the statement of Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam. And this is the level of Eman that is required
from a Muslim from a believer. Whatever the messenger sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam says you have to accept and you have to believe in
it.
The main point in this hadith is that the ties of kinship set to
Allah subhanho wa Taala Oh Allah you have created me, but right now
I seek refuge in you. And I beg you that you protect me from those
who are going to cut me those who are going to seventh me.
Allah subhanahu wa taala replied and he said, Nam, yes.
I give you protection. I provide you refuge Amata dying and assalam
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will you not be happy by the fact that I will treat with kindness
everyone who treats you with kindness. And I sever and cut
those who cut you and those who seven
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The ties of kinship replied, they said, why not? Oh my Lord. Then
Allah subhanho wa Taala said further Alika luck, then this is
yours, meaning this is something that is confirmed. Whoever
strengthen the ties of kinship, Allah subhanho wa Taala will.
Allah subhanahu wa taala will shower His mercy on him and Allah
subhanho wa Taala will treat him with kindness and whoever severs
the ties of kinship, he will be caught
From the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala and then Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said it Kuru in Cheatham read if you
want the ayat of the Quran, from Surah to Muhammad in which Allah
subhanahu wa taala said for Allah say tune into our Latham and to
see do fill out do to cut through our hammer comb, would you people,
if you are given any kind of authority authority, would you
people then do or cause mischief in the land what to cut through
our hammer comb and you will go ahead and you will sever the ties
of kinship if you have any authority
hola equal Latina hola Anna Humala in the following ayah Allah says
such people are those who are cursed by Allah
and the cursing of Allah subhanho wa Taala means that these people
are deprived from the Mercy of Allah. Allah subhanahu wa taala
does not show his mercy towards them. Although it can lead in
Alana hula, they are the ones who are cursed by Allah for Osama whom
they are cursed by Allah to the level that Allah subhanho wa Taala
made them death. Well, I'm I saw him and Allah subhanahu wa Tada
has blinded this site.
And this is from these are the two I had from Surah Mohammed,
he were to pay attention to the meaning of this ayah Allah
subhanahu wa taala is calling those people who cut the ties of
kinship as the mischievous people,
those who cause mischief in the land, the facade and corruption in
the land. We talk about all other kinds of sins and corruption. But
the biggest mischievous are those people who cut their ties with
their own kinship. Do who sever their ties of kinship,
and they cut their relationship with their relatives. They are the
ones who actually cause the facade and the corruption and mischief in
the land. And they are cursed by Allah subhanho wa Taala for Osama
home, they are cursed by Allah. And then the sign of the curse of
Allah upon them is for our summer home that Allah subhanahu wa taala
made them deaf. What does it mean? That Allah made them deaf? Meaning
they recite the eye of the Quran, they recite the ayat of the Quran,
they read, and they hear the ayat of the Quran. They hear the Hadith
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with regards to the
significance and importance of keeping the ties of kinship. And
they also here and they do understand the severity of, of the
sin of cutting the ties of kinship, yet
they are so heedless, and they do not want to change themselves. For
Osama whom it is as if they are deaf.
It is as if they never heard anything. What are my Apsara whom,
and Allah subhanahu wa taala has cursed them so that Allah has
blinded the sight. Meaning, although they recite the Quran,
they read the Quran, they read the Hadith, but nothing goes into the
heart and nothing affects them and they do not rectify the problem.
And they do not rectify the mistakes and they do not repent to
Allah subhanho wa Taala
and this is a sign of the curse of Allah Azza wa Jalla the kalam upon
them,
which shows that severing the ties of kinship is one of the major
sins. And in the next chapter in mama now we will Rama Allah has
quoted some a Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam that highlight the highlight the sin of cutting the
ties of kinship.
So in this particular chapter, Imam unknown rahamallah has gone
through the Hadith
of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam highlighting the
significance and importance of keeping the ties of kinship.
And as you mentioned previously, that when it comes to keeping the
ties of kinship, those who deserve it the most are your parents. That
is why in this chapter Imamura hum Allah has quoted various Hadees
that Hadees that highlight the significance of fig of keeping the
ties of kinship, as well as the significance of showing your
kindness towards your parents and being dutiful towards your
parents.
And that is why Mama Mama novia rahamallah is quoted next Hadith
which is also
underrated by say you do not have whatever the Allahu Taala and who
says da Raju Lune. Ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
a man came to the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu salam and he
said yeah rasool Allah, man or helpfulness if you sneeze or
Huberty or messenger of Allah, Who amongst all the people
is the one who deserves the most of my companionship.
And this is the wording of the Hadith. Usually we translated as
who is the one who deserves the kindness or my fine treatment or
best treatment. But the actual word in the hadith is be
hoarseness about personal Sahaba. And we all know the word Sahaba.
Sahaba means what companions and this is the word that we find in
the Hadith, that this person asked a messenger of Allah, who deserves
my best companionship. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
Oh, milk, your mother. Then he said foreman, then after my
mother, the prophets, allah sallallahu sallam said, Oh, milk,
then again, your mother, they said for my man. Then after my mother,
he said, again, your mother, three times he said, your mother. And
then he asked for some time for mom. And then after my mother, he
said, some book, then your father, and then the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam stopped there. Another version of the hadith is that this
person asked me he said, Man, I help Kunis if you're hosting a
search bar, who amongst the people is most deserving of my best
companionship, the prophets, Allah Salam said, oh more from milk from
your mother, then your mother, then your mother from Abba, then
your father from back then after your father, the then after your
father, the one who is nearest to you and the one who is nearest to
you, amongst your relatives. And then in this, according to this
hadith, you see way the friends come actually.
And the reason i Hi, I emphasize on the word companionship here is
that Unfortunately, nowadays we find people who are more close to
the friends then they parents, people who are close, they have
the closer relationship with the friends or other relatives,
perhaps cousins, or other relatives, then they own parents,
they own father, they own mother.
And also another common misconception we find nowadays in
our community is that people think that if my parents are not in need
of my financial support, then it is okay. I can you know, and and
because of this people basically end up abandoning their parents,
they do not visit them.
And the whole focus is on their own family,
the spouse and the children and friends, they have people have
time for their friends, they have time for the maids and colleagues,
and they have time for everyone apart from their parents.
We as a Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam reply to this person,
the one who deserves your best companion shape is your mother.
And when it comes to showing your kindness and your fine treatment
towards your parents, is not only supporting them financially,
rather, it is to spend time with them, sit with them.
And spend some time with them. Even if they are not in need of
your financial support, even if they are Al Hamdulillah. They are
physically fit and well.
You still have the responsibility and obligation towards them and
you have to spend your time with them. And bear in mind the time
you spend with your parents. And particularly according to this
hadith, the time you spend with your mother is the best time after
the worship of Allah. As you mentioned last time, Allah
subhanho wa Taala mentioned this in the Quran. In so many ayat,
after making the mention of his worship, he highlighted this point
and this very important issue, which is the kindness and
dutifulness towards the parents after the time yet that you spend
in the worship of Allah, offering your Salah, reading Quran during
the Dhikr of Allah fulfilling your duties to Allah subhanho wa Taala
the time you spend with your parents are the most precious time
nothing can replace it.
And that is why the Scholars have even said
seeking knowledge is fourth, the basic knowledge by which you can
worship Allah subhanho wa Taala properly by which you can prevent
yourself from falling into shake, that is compulsory knowledge you
have to seek it as for any additional knowledge, any
knowledge that is in addition to that that is not forced upon you.
If your parents do not allow you to seek that additional knowledge,
it is okay. You have to spend your time with them.
Because serving your parents and listening to them and obeying them
and being at this service is more important than anything else.
After the worship of Allah subhanho wa Taala that is why
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, he replied to this
companion when he asked who deserves my companionship the most
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said your mother, your
mother, your mother and he repeated three times and then he
said, then after that your father and then after some dinner, then
those who are near to you, those who are close to you.
Next hadith is also the hadith of Abu Huraira the Allahu taala. And
that talks about the again the that highlights the significance
of, of keeping the ties of kinship. And this hadith is very
important in order to understand the standard that the Islam that
the religion of Islam has set for keeping the ties of kinship.
Above whatever the Allahu Donna says and Nara Julen Colorado suit
Allah, a person came to the Prophet sallahu wa sallahu alayhi
salam and he said, O Messenger of Allah in Nellie and Cara button
also you to whom we are torrone or messenger of Allah. He was
complaining about his relatives, he said almost immune of Allah, I
have some relatives also you know whom we have our own money I treat
them with kindness and they always cut the ties of kinship with me
we're all sinners ala him when you see owner LA's or you always show
my kindness towards them, and they are always bad. They are always
bad to me.
Well, I Hello more unknown wage. Hi Luna, Eilish. And I show my
gentleness and I'm always gentle towards them, and I have patience
towards them. Were Aluna ILA, and they are so rude and rough and
tough towards me.
This was his complaint.
So what do I do?
I'm dealing with these type of relatives. There are so bad. I
always try to be good to them. And I have a lot of patience towards
them. But they are always aggressive and rude, and rough and
tough. What do I do? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did
not say if they are rude to you, it is your right to be rude to
them. If they are aggressive to you, it is your right to be
aggressive towards them. If they treat you with kindness, you treat
them with kindness. If they are harsh towards you, it is okay that
you are harsh towards them. No, no, this was not the reply of the
Prophet sallahu Salah because the prophets of Allah Allah Salam
wanted to set the highest standard highest standard of o'clock,
because this was the core purpose of His coming as messenger as a
prophet of Allah as he said, worth to leave me Mama caramel of luck.
I have been sent by Allah subhanahu wa taala. So that I can
take the humanity to the peak of the mannerism and o'clock so I can
perfect the o'clock.
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi salam set a very high standard of
the o'clock and he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam replied to him
and he said, Let in Kunta Kumar called if it is, as you said, if
it is true,
as you said, then fucka anima to see for whom will man then you
should know that it is as if you are feeding them, the hot ashes.
What does it mean?
It means that if you are treating them with your kindness and
gentleness and you are good to them, and they are bad to you, you
are
you are doing a favor to yourself and you are allowing them to face
the punishment from Allah subhanahu wa
because of your treatment
You continue treating them with kindness and gentleness and they
are always bad you and your action actually will lead them to face
the punishment of Allah subhanahu wa Tada to see for him will melt
as it is if you are feeding them hot ashes.
And the scholars have also explained this word and they have
given another explanation they said for kendama to see formal
means, that it is obviously if you see someone eating hot ashes, you
see the person is crazy.
The person is crazy is denying his sound state of mind, then, it
means that this person will be disgraced.
Anyone who sees such person, he will be disgraced, he will be
disgracing them, degrading them. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi
salam said to him, if you are the way you said if you are if it is
true, then you are basically humiliating them, you are through
your actions you are disgracing them, so you don't need to worry
about
because you are showing your kindness and your gentleness
towards them you are good towards them. And the people who see you
the people who see your attitude and your treatment and your
behavior towards them, they will obviously appraise and they will
they they will appreciate your behavior and your and your
attitude. As for them, everyone will dislike and people will
disgrace them. So through your actions you are disgracing them
and you are humiliating them. And then the prophets Allah Salam also
pseudo Allah Azza Luma aka mean Allah He Allah He you don't I lay
him. Madam Tala daddy. In addition to this, bear in mind, no matter
how harsh and rough and tough they are towards you. You will be
protected by a divine protection from Allah subhanho wa Taala Lai
Azhar Luma, aka here on Ali him in Allah, Allah subhanahu wa taala
will always provide a sport or for you, amongst the people, they will
definitely will always be someone who will support you because of
you because of your attitude towards them. Let's imagine if
that person does the same towards them. Who is going to support him?
No one people will say okay, your relatives are bad to you and you
are also bad towards them. They are harsh towards you and you are
also the same. So what's the point? If there is any conflict
between you and your relatives, you will find no sporter but if
you continue showing your good attitude and your love towards
them and your kindness and gentleness towards them, you will
always find support amongst the people from Allah subhanho wa
taala. And the scholars have also said this Hadith also refers to
the sporter from the angels of Allah subhanho wa Taala that the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam kind of gave him glad
tiding that as long as you continue expressing the same
attitude towards them, Allah subhanahu wa taala will protect
them no matter how harsh and rough they are towards you the on the
you know, your relatives they cannot harm you. Rather you will
be protected by Allah subhanho wa Taala they may verbally abuse you,
but they cannot physically harm you. Rather you will be protected
by Allah will Jalali kromm Because of your kindness and because of
your o'clock
next hadith is the hadith of Anna sort of the Allahu Taala and who
says, another suitor Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam icon,
the Messenger of Allah Alayhi Salatu was Salam said, man I have
but I knew without Allah Who furiously when you insert Allah
who feel sorry for Leah Salah Rahim. Whoever loves that Allah
subhanho wa Taala expands his provision, that Allah subhanahu wa
taala expands in His provision that Allah grants baraka and
blessings in His provision, when you insert Allah houfy or 30, and
whoever would like to have a prolonged life with good deeds
than failure, so Allah Rahima, then he should keep the ties of
kinship.
So this is the reward of having good ties of kinship, keeping the
ties of kinship, that by this action, Allah subhanho wa Taala
will increase your risk. Obviously, part of keeping the
ties of kinship is that you spend on your relatives, and especially
those who are in need of your sport.
As Allah says in the Quran, we develop Kuba haka gave those who
are later to you there right. If you know amongst your amongst your
relatives are those who are financially struggling
And they need your support you should support them this is their
right. And by doing so, Allah subhanahu wa taala will grant
baraka and blessing in your risk. Allah subhanahu wa taala to
increase your risk. And likewise, if you are good towards your
relatives, obviously they will always remember you with good
words and they will be making dua for you. And even if they do not
make dua for you, you will get the reward from Allah subhanahu wata
Allah and Allah subhanahu wa taala will allow you to have a long life
with righteousness and piousness.
With piety Allah subhanahu wa taala will grant you prolong life
and obviously as a human being all of us who want to live
long life by the permission of Allah subhanho wa Taala the long
life with the piety and Taqwa with righteousness, may Allah subhanho
wa Taala give us toll free accountability. So, if you keep
the ties of kinship, if you are good towards your relatives, then
these are the two immediate benefits in this dunya obviously
your reward will be with Allah subhanho wa Taala immense reward
on the day of judgment, but immediate reward in this dunya is
that Allah subhanahu wa taala will increase your risk and Allah
subhanho wa Taala will prolong your life.
Next hadith is also a hadith of Anasazi Allahu Taala No, and a few
weeks ago, we did go through this hadith and this hadith of Abu
Talha, who was the stepfather of of Anessa, the Allahu taala. And
who says, I will tell how the Allahu Taala and who he was the
richest amongst the people of Medina, amongst the unsought and
he had so many, he had many,
many farms of the palm trees, and what kind of a habit am Wiley he
lay he by Iroha. And the and the dreariest of his wealth of all of
his farms, palm tree farms was was the was a particular farm that was
known as bio Raha. And that farm was right opposite the masjid of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam and the prophets of Allah
Allah salam after used to go to his farm and he had his salatu
salam used to drink the pure fresh water from the well that was
inside that farm. Fella manners Allah Tala when Allah subhanahu wa
taala revealed the Ireland tunnel durata don't matter a boon you
people can never achieve that true righteousness until you spend from
the most beloved wealth to you. When this aisle was revealed a
beautiful heart of the Allahu Taala and he stood up and he came
to the prophets of Allah is telling me he said O Messenger of
Allah. I've heard this idea that Allah said Lenten Irun burrata
don't matter a boon we're in a hub Bommali in a year by Raha a
messenger of Allah, the dearest of my wealth towards me is this
particular farm beta Ha, we're, we're in the HA sada cotton Lulu
and I give this whole farm as a sadhaka as charity in the way of
Allah subhanho wa Taala or do bhairahawa Hara Hara and Allah
seeking reward from Allah subhanahu wa taala and hoping that
Allah subhanahu wa taala accept this charity from me and Allah
subhanho wa Taala Allah subhanho wa Taala ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada
Allah Allah subhanho wa Taala returns in many fold to me on the
day of judgment for the IRA so Allah Haydock Allah, Messenger of
Allah, then I request you to spend this farm amongst those who are
needy and those who are poor, according to your opinion,
wherever you think it is suitable where it is most needed. So you
can spend it and you can, you can distribute, you know, amongst the
poor and needy. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
back in Dhaka alone, Robbie will tell her Wheldon Subhan Allah this
is that this is a very profitable, you know, charity and the wealth
that you have given in the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala because
you are going to get in return many fold on the Day of Judgment.
The prophets Allah Salam then said what God seminary toma called, I
have heard what you have said, you have asked me to spend and to
distribute the trees, the palm trees of your farm amongst the
poor and needy, but we're in the era and the other half will occur
Robin but my advice to you is that you spend it and you distribute it
amongst your own relatives. I will tell her the Allahu Taala said a
Fallujah rasool Allah, I will do so oh messenger of Allah salAllahu
Alaihe Salam, then focus on Maha Butel haffi Akari Biggie were
burning me. Then I will tell how to the Allahu dal and we acted
upon the commandment of fasudil
Last Allah Salem and he divided and distributed his his his uh his
farm amongst his relatives and his cousins who were in need of that
which shows that when it comes to charity as you mentioned
previously, you should never forget your own relatives and give
them preference always look after your relatives and see if there's
anyone amongst your relatives who in need of your support and
financial health. You should help them next Hadees is the hadith of
Abdullah bin Hamad bin Rs are the Allahu Taala Andrew
on Houma, who says Aquila Rajendra, Liliana de la he
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, man came to the Prophet of Allah
Alayhi Salatu was Salam and he said, Oba eurocon Allah He gelato
will Jihad Abdullah Abdul Rahman Allah heeta ilo messenger of allah
sallallahu sallam, I swear allegiance to you for Hijra and
jihad in the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala seeking reward from Allah
due to genetic rom this is my sole intention. The Prophet sallallahu
sallam said for Hala coming Wally, they take her don't hike. Buffy
salatu salam asked him, Is any of your parents are alive? Is any of
your parents alive? He said none bulky Lahoma Yes, rather my own
messenger of Allah both of my parents are alive. The Prophet
sallallahu sallam said the will German Allahu Taala you truly want
to get reward from Allah subhanho wa Taala he said yes, I'm missing
you know for Allah. That's why I said that I say the legions and
they give back out to you so that I can gain idea from Allah
subhanahu wa, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, If this is
true, then further Illawarra headache for us in Bahama. Go back
to your parents. Go back to your parents, and treat them with
kindness so that you can gain pleasure from Allah subhanho wa
taala. And this hadith shows that being dutiful towards the parents,
and again, the wording in this hadith is saying about the Houma
asked him for him Adama be excellent in your companionship
with your parents.
And your companionship with your parents is, is nothing less than
making Hijra in the way of Allah it is not less than having an
doing or participating in jihad in the way of Allah subhanho wa
taala.
And this hadith is collected by Imam Al Bukhari Muslim Rahim Allah
and there's another version of this hadith which says that a man
came to the Prophet salallahu Salam and he was seeking His
permission for taking part in jihad. The prophets Allah Salam
said, Hi Yun valley that are your parents alive? He said, Yes, the
prophets of Allah Islam said for fee Hema Fauja Hey, you should
consider you you should consider serving them as jihad in the way
of Allah subhanho wa taala. And the next Hadees is also the hadith
of Abdullah bin I'm going to be asked what are the Allahu Taala
anima who says that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said lay salwaar
so you know Bill McAfee similar to the previous Hadith, similar to
the previous Hadith, in which he said that a person came and he was
complaining about his relatives
and, and they attitude and their treatment towards him. And in this
hadith, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, Les salwaar. So you
know, Bill McAfee,
the person who keeps the ties of kinship truly is not the one who
treats his relatives the way they treat him.
Lay Sal Watson, Bill McAfee. The one with Watson Watson is the one
who keeps the ties of kinship the prophets of salaam said, keeping
the ties of kinship is not by treating your parents by treating
your relatives the way they treat, you know, this is not keeping the
ties of kinship, rather, wala Kinal Walsall, Allah the either
corpath Rahim who was Allah. The true meaning or true essence of
keeping the ties of kinship is that when your relatives cut you
off, you join them and you are good to them. Which is not easy,
which is not easy. It's very difficult. That is why the
prophets of salaam call it jihad.
We talk about the jihad other types of jihad this is true jihad.
Jihad against your own self, your own knifes that your own
relatives, those who are so close to you, and perhaps your own
siblings. And this is something that happens among the siblings,
your own brothers, your own sisters. They do not treat you
well. They are so aggressive and rude and harsh towards you and
They even cut ties with you.
But you are someone who is guided by Allah subhanho wa taala. If you
think that you are practicing, you are acting upon the religion of
Allah subhanahu wa taala. You follow in the footsteps of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then be true and be
truthful in your statement and your claims, then you have to be
you have to be the harshness and the rudeness and have patience and
keep your ties of kinship with your relatives and never treat
them the way they treat you. They treat you badly, you treat them
with gentleness and kindness. May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us
Toll fees and ability to increase and better our clock. And may
Allah subhanahu wa taala grant us patience towards our relatives.
May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us all faith and ability to be
kind and gentle towards those who are harsh and rude and aggressive
towards us. May Allah azza wa jal kromm Forgive our mistakes and our
sins in the host Amir and Claudio Mujeeb Subhana Allah Mohammed
Asha, do Allah Allah heyland A self