Zakaullah Saleem – 85 Riyad asSalihin
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Silla de la homme showing your kindness towards your parents and
also the significance and importance of keeping the ties of
blood relationship. Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran wobbu
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worship Allah will generally crime and do not associate any partners
with him. So Hannah, who were to Allah and be dutiful and kind
towards your parents will be the Cordoba and fulfill your duty
towards your relatives towards the orphans, towards the needy towards
the neighbors, those neighbors who are related to you and the
neighbors who are not related to you. And the Wayfarers and their
and and also your slaves Allah subhanahu wa taala also says in
certain Nisa, we're talking Allah Allah de dasa Luna be, while our
ham, fear Allah have the Taqwa of Allah subhanho wa taala. Allah,
little generic Quran, the one by whose name you asked one another
while or harm and have the fear of the or harm the relationships.
While at the island Allah subhanahu wa taala also said we'll
let you know yes, we do. And I'm Amara Allah who will be a new
solid and those who join that word Allah subhanho wa Taala has
ordered and Allah subhanho wa Taala has instructed to be joined.
And
Allah says we have shown the home and those who have the fear of the
Lord where your heartfulness who will hisab and they have the fear
and the hope of the evil reckoning. Allah says in the final
is Jana to Adenium Toluna for such people,
the Garden of Eden, Allah subhanahu wa taala also says in
Surah Al Kabuto. So in and in Santa BYD, they host now we have
ordered in sun and human being and mankind to be dutiful towards
their parents. The law also says in Surah an extra hour called Aura
book Allah taboo. Illa iya Your Lord has ordered you and he has
decreed for you that you must not worship accept him subhanho wa
Taala alone. What will validate any Santa and you must be dutiful
towards your parents? In my Ablon nine Dhakal Kiba Raha Duma okay
Allahumma when both of your parents or one of them attain the
old age fella taco Lahoma off you do not say any single word of
disrespect to them. Wallet and Houma and do not shout at them.
Wakulla Houma colon Karima rather, speak to them with kind and gentle
words. Warfield Lahoma Jana has do lemonade Rama and lower the wings
of humility and humbleness out of mercy for them will rub your
humble Kamara biani Selita and you must make dua for them asking
Allah subhanahu wa taala Oh my lord, shower you mercy on my
parents as they brought me up when I was young. Allah subhanahu wa
taala also says in so to Lachman, overseen an insanity why the day
we have ordered the mankind and human being and in son to be
dutiful towards his parents harmala to one and Allah one. And
this is due to the fact that his mother carried him
for a couple of months for a few months for nine months in her
room. What Hernan Allah won with weakness upon weakness, hardship
upon hardship
If you saw Luffy I mean, and then his period of weaning was for two
years. And Allah says Anushka Anish called Lee one day we have
ordered in son that he must be grateful and thankful towards me,
the Lord and the Creator and He must be thankful towards his
parents as well. So these are the ayat some of those ayat from the
book of Allah azza wa jal, that Imam interviewed him Allah as
quoted at the beginning of this chapter as he rahamallah You know,
us usually usually does at the start of each chapter. The purpose
of this chapter is to highlight the significance and the
importance of being dutiful and kind towards the parents, as well
as the importance of keeping the ties of kinship, keeping the ties
of blood relationship and the virtues of of these actions, as
well as the severe punishment of those who are not dutiful towards
their parents and the sphere punishment of those who cut the
ties of kinship.
These This is the purpose of this chapter. So Mama Novia Rahimullah
is quoted few is from the book of Allah azza wa jal and if we were
to look at the, at all these ayat, we find that Allah subhanho wa
Taala has made the mention of the dutifulness towards appearance
after his worship, in number of ayat such as in the IRA also to
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Allah subhanahu wa taala says Worship Allah and do not associate
any partners with him subhanho wa Taala and be dutiful towards your
parents. So after the worship of Allah, after ordering us to
worship Him Subhanahu wa Taala alone without associating any
partners with him, he Subhanahu wa Taala state after that made the
mention of the dutifulness of parents. Likewise, in Surah Al is
Roy he says what called ora book Allah taboo Allah iya were beloved
in a sunnah Your Lord has decreed for you and he has ordered you
that you must not worship accept him Subhanahu wa Taala alone and
you must be dutiful towards your parents. And the ayat in solemnly
swear particularly go into a bit of detail. And Allah subhanho wa
Taala
explains what does dutifulness or kindness and gentleness towards
the parents mean? And if you were to truly understand that can be
summarized in one word that Allah subhanahu wa taala used in this
ayah Allah Taku Lahoma off do not say a word off to them as some of
the scholars of the Quran and the fsid they have said the word of
Allah subhanho wa Taala used in the ayah only to basically make us
or enable us to understand why otherwise, it actually means that
you are not allowed to say anything towards your parents. And
Allah says in my Ablon, nine Deckel Keba when both of your
parents are one of them, your father or mother or one of them
attained the old age and they reach the age when they mindset is
different to your mindset their thinking is completely different
from your thinking, you have power you have energy and you have
everything okay you are you are of sound mind, they are old, and
there is a big gap in age between you and them. So, they think
thinking is completely different. And if they ask you to do
something, if they try to stop you from doing something, then you
even if you do not agree with them, you must so your you must
show your obedience to them. You must be kind and gentle towards
them. Even if you want to refuse the order or the instruction you
cannot shout at them. You cannot raise your voice against them.
Rather, Whitefield. Lahoma Wakulla Houma. Kolon crema whenever you
speak to them, you must use kind words, and you must not hurt the
feeding. In within this chapter later on.
We'll come across the hadith of Jurij that we previously also went
through and we highlighted some of the important points that we learn
a lesson that we learn from that particular Hadith. The main point
that we understand or main lesson that we understand from that
particular hadith is that regardless of your righteousness,
and no matter how
pious and righteous you are.
When it comes to dealing with your parents when it comes to
interaction when it comes to your interaction with your parents, you
must be kind and gentle and you cannot and you can never use harsh
words and you cannot do that can hurt the feeling. Allah subhanahu
wa taala said in an iron so to look man after he Subhanahu wa
Taala said what was final inside and bhiwadi and the end of the IRC
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that you must be dutiful towards me and towards your parents in the
following I Allah says we're in Tjahaja Karla and to Shrek hubby
Melissa Lockerbie here and fala Tutera, Huma if your parents
encourage you the order you or they try to impose on you to
associate partners with Allah do not obey them. Because this is
general principle within the within the deen of Islam law.
Attorney McLachlan females with alcoholic you cannot obey the
creation of Allah at the expense of disobeying Allah Allah Jalla
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this is a general principle if your parents are asking you to
commit to share or commit and innovation or do something that is
against the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala you can't obey them. But
does it mean that you become aggressive to them? You become
disrespectful to them know straight after Allah said to Allah
for Allah to tell him I do not obey them, he said was a Guma for
doing Mr. Ufa saw him Houma for dunya model for that you must stay
with them the word as far hate means you must stay with the
meaning you can't abandon them.
You can't leave them.
You must stay with them in the matters that dunya with kindness
and in good manners
is pay attention to desire beginning of the ISA if your
parents asked you to commit Schilke with Allah, can a Muslim
parent asked their children to commit check with Allah? No. Which
is an indication that those parents who asked you are their
children to associate partners with Allah to commit share,
obviously they are going to be non Muslim.
And if their parents are non Muslim, they do not believe in
Allah. They ask their children to commit shoot with Allah subhanho
wa Taala or to disbelieve in Allah ghulja Quran you cannot, you
cannot obey them. But when it comes to the matter of the dunya,
Allah has ordered you saw him whom I've been doing amount of even if
your parents are not Muslims, you still have to be kind and gentle
towards them.
What about Muslim parents? And unfortunately, this is something
that has been
seen and experienced that those brothers and sisters who are
guided by the mercy of Allah subhanho wa taala, towards the
deen of Allah azza wa jal, you kromm And they start practicing.
They start establishing their five daily praise Allah subhanho wa
Taala gives them toffee and the ability to learn the deen
and they parents are probably ignorant. They don't have much
knowledge of the deen of Allah. Or perhaps they are not practicing
the deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala the way the son and daughter
are practicing.
This is how Allah subhanahu wa taala made them but as his son and
daughter, does it give you any right to be aggressive and rude
towards your parents. Now oh the bill let him in.
It's not permissible for this not allowed.
That is why all those brothers and sisters, those sons and daughters,
who are blessed by Allah subhanahu wa taala to practice the deen of
Allah. Always bear in mind the story of Jurij great lesson. drage
was someone who was known for his worship within the community, but
he neglected his mother. And Allah subhanho wa Taala literally
humiliated him.
Allah humiliated him
through the community, and they became against him.
And this was a punishment for him from Allah subhanahu wata, which
shows clearly, no matter how righteous and pious you are, if
you're rude and aggressive towards your mother and your father, you
will be punished by Allah subhanho wa, you should have the fear of
the punishment of Allah to Jericho. The rights of the parents
are so great that Allah subhanho wa Taala as mentioned in his final
book of Quran Majeed after the right of him subhanahu wa taala.
After his right
the ultimate right of Allah subhanho wa Taala is what
that we that we must worship Him because this is the sole purpose
of our creation. After making the mention of his own right straight
after that Allah subhanahu wa taala made the mention of the
rights of the parents. How can you neglect that?
How can you be proud of your practicing the deen of Allah Allah
jerami Quran?
Yes, your parents, they do not have knowledge,
the lack of knowledge they may be they perhaps be committing some
innovations, but it does not give you any right to be rude to them.
Or when it comes to speaking to them that use harsh words. And you
heard the feeling. Rather, Allah says Sahiba, whom I've been tuning
our model, you must stay with them and be kind and gentle towards
them and treat them with kindness and gentleness and always be
dutiful towards them. That Allah subhanahu wa taala says Warfield
Lahoma Jana has do lemonade Rama, you must always lower the wings
out of mercy, the wings of humility meaning you must stay low
before them.
And unfortunately nowadays, we have all discussion about equality
and the you know, it goes so far. Then the parent is the father and
mother and the children are all equal. Yes, they are equal in
being human being and they are equal in so many rights. But when
it comes to the relationship, the parents and children they are not
at the same level. According to deen of Allah subhanho wa Taala
the parents have more right? Yes, it is true, that sometimes parents
they are neglectful towards the rise of their own children. And
they are examples of that. There are so many examples. The parents
they become sometimes even oppressive.
But as a child as a son and daughter, you must fulfill your
obligation and your duty towards your parents. Because you will be
held accountable before Allah subhanho wa Taala with regards to
with regards to your duty and your responsibility, and if your
parents are not feeling just towards you, you must have
patience.
Make dua for them. Allah subhanahu wa taala orders in the Quran are
called Rob Durham Houma, Kamara baya Neisseria, no matter how
oppressive and unfair and unjust your parents are. And your mother,
particularly when you were young, she's the one who gave you the
birth. She's the one who gave you the birth. And she's the one who
fed you. She's the one who stayed awake, who lights some time. She's
the one who has been looking after you when you knew nothing. She's
the one who sacrificed her sleep, her food and so many things for
your sake. And now it is your time to repay her.
And when it comes to repaying her, you can't be rude and aggressive
towards her.
That is why Allah subhanho wa Taala has highlighted the
significance and importance of being dutiful towards the parents.
In mama no Euro Mala has then mentioned some Hadith of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in this chapter. The first
one is the hadith of Abu Abdul Rahman Abdullah had been the most
rude Radi Allahu Allah, Allah and who says the ultra Nabi sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam I asked
the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a question and he
said a EULA Imani. Habu it Allah heeta Allah, the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
which good deed or good action is most beloved to Allah subhanho wa
Taala the Prophet sallallahu sallam said a Salah to Allah was
the most beloved of the deeds towards Allah subhanahu wa taala
is the prey within a proper time. Another version of the Hadith says
a Salah to feed a woolly bacteria, offering the Salah in his earliest
time, meaning as soon as the time of the pray has started, the
commandment of Allah subhanho wa Taala for you is the Allah has
ordered you to offer the Salah as soon as the time of failure has
started. This has become an obligation upon you and you must
hasten towards fulfilling your obligation and your duty towards
your Creator. When the time of the whole assert McGreevy starts, you
should try to offer the Salah as soon as possible. That is why one
of the best deed is to offer the salah within its earliest time
apart from a Shah pray as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam
am said the best time or the most rewardable time for the Shah pray
is a
bit later not right at the start rather you should be a bit later.
Depending on the circumstances or other than Orisha, the rest of the
praise you should try to offer the Salah as soon as possible as soon
as the time starts, you should offer so the prophets Allah Salam
replied, He said a Salah to Allah. Then Abdullah and this Rudra the
Allahu Taala and he says, I asked for my age, or messenger of Allah,
after this good deed,
which good deed or which good action is most beloved to Allah,
after offering the Salah in earliest time, the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said, the rule validate again Salah is what is
who is the best form of worship of Allah subhanahu it. So the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam also, bear in mind the order that Allah subhanho
wa Taala has kept in the Quran after his worship, he made the
mention of the rise of the parents. The same thing the
prophets Allah Salam said, the first thing is that you offer the
salah worship Allah subhanahu wa taala on time, don't be you know,
lazy in this Don't delay it. And after this, the next best deed is
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you have your duty towards Allah your Creator. And then amongst the
creation you have your utmost duties and your responsibility
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dutiful less and kindness towards your parents. And then he said for
my age, I asked all messenger of Allah then after that, he said
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striving in the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala and hadith is
collected by Imam Al Bukhari Muslim Rahim Allah next hadith is
the hadith of Abu Huraira the Allah Hutan who says that the
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Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, no son can repay the
Father,
in any form or shape in any circumstance, except one that he
finds his father, that his father is slave to someone, and he pays
and he purchases and buys him his father. And then he emancipated
him and he frees him busy.
He lets him free.
This is the only way that you can repay your father other than that
there is no any other way that the son can repay his father. This
only again pay attention to this hadith is only for the Father.
Not the mother. Is there any way to repay the mother? No way. No
way whatsoever.
You must have heard the hadith of Abdullah Hypno Omar, the other
that Abdullah Muhammad or the Allahu Taala to me he was
approached by someone was carrying his mother on his shoulder on his
on his back while he was doing the power off of the house of Allah
subhanahu wa taala he was carrying his mother on his back and after
completing the wifey approached Abdullah who no matter the Allahu
Taala and OMA and he said, Oh, Abdullah, these tell me if I have
repaid my mother
if I have fulfilled my duty and my obligation towards my mother
completely Abdullah ignore Omar Radi Allahu Tanga, he replied, He
said, You have not even repaid for that one single pain that she felt
at the time when she gave birth to you.
This was an understanding of the companionate one Allah Redmayne of
the hadith of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam when it comes to
the rights of the parents. So Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said this is the only way that his son can repay obviously
nowadays as we know, even this option is not available. Even this
option is now available. Okay, which means that you can never,
you know, say that you have fulfilled your rice towards your
parents completely. All you can do is continue continue showing your
kindness and gentleness towards them and make dua for them that
Allah subhanho wa Taala showers His mercy upon them. The next
hadith is the hadith of Abu Huraira. The Allahu teilen was
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in the last day, he must say something good. Oh, if he does not
have anything good to say he should remain silent.
So the reason that Mr. Manoli rahamallah is quoted this hadith
in this chapter is the middle part of the Hadith men cannot middle
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in Allah. And in the last day, he must keep the ties of the kinship
and when it comes to keeping the ties of the kinship and keeping
the ties of blood relationship who can deserve that more than your
parents. First and foremost, your parents, obviously your siblings,
you have your relationship with your ship siblings, because of
your parents. You have your relationship towards your children
because of your parents. You have your relationship with your uncles
and aunts because of your parents. That is why the parents comes
first. So you must be kind and dutiful towards them. There will
be many other a hadith that Imam and Nova mandala is caught in this
chapter inshallah we'll be going through those Hadees and next week
May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us our faith and ability to
understand the Hadith of the prophets of salaam fully and May
Allah enable us to act upon whatever we hear and whatever we
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