Zakaullah Saleem – 81 Riyad asSalihin
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The importance of spending one's money on one's dependents is discussed, including the need for rewarding spending on one's own financial needs. The history of Islam is also discussed, including the responsibility of men to provide security and reward their spending. The importance of giving in charity and helping poor people is emphasized, along with the need for rewarding spending on one's own family and individuals. The speaker emphasizes the importance of not spending on one's own wealth in order to achieve Allah's teachings, including the responsibility of dependents and the importance of not spending on one's own wealth in order to achieve their teachings.
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the chapter 36 of the book Riyadh or Saudi Hain title enough aka to
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sustenance or provision or spending on those who are under
your care
as usually a mom and now we Rama hola begins the chapter by quoting
some iron out from the book of Allah azza wa jal, the first one
of them being the iron ore the part of the ayah from Surah Al
Baqarah, in which Allah subhanho wa Taala says while mohu the level
this ohana, workers were to nibble models, and the father of the
child or the children, he has the responsibility and obligation to
spend on his family, to provide for them and to provide clothing
for them. build models in a good Manna according to his financial
ability and whatever is known as a custom within the society. Allah
subhanahu wa taala also says the young field producer at him in
society, the one who has enough provision or someone who is well
off, he should spend according to his ability. Woman Cody Riley here
is volume fifth commandment, Thou hula and whoever has his provision
restricted by Allah subhanho wa Taala meaning someone who is
financially struggling or someone who is poor value and Mima Allah,
he still has the responsibility to spend from whatever Allah
subhanahu wata, Allah has given him now you can live for Allah Who
nevsun Ilana Allah subhanho wa Taala does not burden anyone
except with that which Allah subhanahu wa taala has granted
them the law the generic rom also says only in Allah be of so
tourists Kali mania SHA omen or Eva D ye aka the ruler, say O
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam verily my lord expands the
provision. And there is whomsoever He wills from amongst his slaves
while the ruler and he restricts the provision for whomsoever He
Subhanahu wa Taala wills wama unfuck Dohmen che as for you,
whatever you spend, on your family and on those who are your
dependents, for who are your colorful then Allah subhanahu wa
taala will replace you with something better. Well, who will
Pharaoh was 18 and he will gel and reclaim is the best of those who
provide.
The purpose of this chapter is to highlight the significance and the
importance of spending on your dependents. Meaning someone who is
responsible of the household he has an obligation to spend his
money and his wealth on those who are under him and those who are
His dependent. You remember last week, we mentioned we went through
the chapter of Coco Coco. Coco gradually added Mara the rights of
the man over the wife. And we quoted the Ayah from certain
design which Allah subhanahu wa taala says original Pawan Munna
Island Nisa, the men are responsible. They are responsible
over women. And then Allah subhanahu wa taala gave two
reasons for that. First one is Bhima football Allah because this
is how Allah subhanahu wa taala created men and how Allah subhanho
wa Taala greeted woman. So Allah subhanahu wata, isla. Naturally he
did not place the burden of spending, earning or spending on
women rather this is the responsibility of men.
And when men are responsible for providing they have upper hand and
they have authority and they have responsibility. And the second
reason that is mentioned within the same as wobm
And for whom and why they're here. And because they spent the wealth,
and obviously anyone who spends his money and his wealth, he has
the responsibility and he has the authority as well.
And it is the Mercy of Allah subhanahu wa taala that whenever
he will challenge you, crime has ordered us with anything he did
not simply obliged us to do rather he will generally Crom connected
some kind of reward and he has promised us some kind of reward as
well. Although he is our creator, He's the one who created us, he's
the one who gave us life. He has the old authority, to order us and
to say you have to do this as my slaves as my servants, and we
would be obliged to do so. But within the deen of Islam, you will
not find one single obligation way Allah subhanahu wa taala or the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam have instructed us to do something
without telling us that he wrote
and this is the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa Taala was simple when
it comes to the prayer. We have to offer five times daily praise, but
with every single pray, there is a vote. When it comes to the month
of Ramadan, we have to fast May Allah subhanahu wa taala could
have simply ordered us or instructed us to fast during the
month of Ramadan to stay hungry and thirsty for 29 or 30 days.
That's it without even promising us any devote because he has
authority he is our Creator, He is our Lord. But out of His mercy He
subhanho wa Taala promised us that he would as well. Likewise, when
it comes to giving zakat, paying our Zakah an obligatory charity,
this is something that we have to give in the way of Allah subhanahu
wa taala according to the rules and regulations of the Shetty and
the deen of Allah will generally come when yet with Zeca. Again
Allah subhanahu wa taala has promised as reward as well.
Likewise when it comes to performing Hajj, so again as Allah
says Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah nasopharyngeal bathe, it is Allah
was right upon his slaves, that they make the Hajj of his house,
that he did not simply ordered us to perform Hajj rather he
Subhanahu wa Taala promises that he would as well. Likewise, when
Allah subhanahu wa taala has said in the Quran, while mohu de la who
responded our kids who are tunable maruf. The head of the household
has the responsibility to provide for his family and to provide them
the clothing according to his ability. According to the custom
within the society. Allah subhanahu wa taala did not simply
obliged the men or the heat will challenge you Crum promised that
he would as well
and this is what is discussed in this particular chapter. And that
is why Mr. Manabi Ramallah has quoted some Hadith in this
chapter. The first one is the hadith of Abu Laila or the Allahu
taala. Who says Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
the Messenger of Allah Alayhi Salatu wa sallam said, The now on
factor houfy sebelah there is one dinar that you spend in the way of
Allah subhanahu wa This is one type of Deena that you get from
your wealth, whatever Allah subhanahu wa taala has blessed you
with you spend Adina in the way of Allah subhanahu wa taala in order
to please Allah will cherica for example giving in the masjid
What do you now don't unfuck the who feel Acaba and you have
another dinner that you spend in order to free a slave.
This also in order to see the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa
Taala what Deena the South Dakota V Isla miskeen. And you spend
another dinner and you give in charity and you help the poor
needy with that one dinner. What Dina and fucka who Allah Alec, and
there is another dinner that you spend on your own family on your
Apple. Apple includes your wife and your children, the dinner that
you spend on your own family.
So there are different types of dinars that you spent one dinar
you spend in the way of Allah, one dinner, you give to a poor and
needy, another dinner you spend in order to free a slave. All of them
are the good causes by which you seek the pleasure of Allah
subhanahu wa ATOD the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
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La Vie and factor who Allah click. Out of all of these dinars. The
greatest in reward is the dinar that you spend on your family.
The money that you spend on your own family, for the betterment of
your own family, for the provision of your own children,
so that they live the life of dignity and respect.
So Subhanallah if you look at this hadith, it may change your
perspective completely your perception of giving in the way of
Allah subhanho wa taala.
And we see some time people do not spend enough on their own family
on their own children. We have amongst us people who give a lot
in charity in the way of Allah subhanahu wa Milady reward them
for that. May Allah subhanahu wa taala accept their child. But when
it comes to their own family, their own children, they suffer.
Sometimes a person may spend a lot of money, when he goes out with
his friends, to a restaurant or for holidays, for any day trip, he
may end up spending hundreds of pounds. But then when it comes to
his own children, he does not have time for them and he does not have
money for them. His own family, his own wife, they complain how
many times we have received these kind of complaints from the wives
from our sisters, saying my husband, he's okay. And he's very
happy and excited when he's around his friends. But when it comes to
us, me and my children, he barely spends anything on us. And
sometimes the husband even leaves the responsibility of paying the
household bills on the wife.
And he tends to forget that whatever he spends, in the way of
Allah building a masjid, building water well, helping the poor and
needy, helping an orphan giving the way of Allah subhanahu wata in
any form or shape. The best of all these type of charity is the
charity and the money that the person spends on our own his own
family because your children are your future. So if you are not
spending your money and your wealth on your own sons and
daughters, it means you are not really pleasing Allah subhanho wa
Taala the next Hadees is a similar
that is reported by underrated by Sovann Ben Bucha de Mola
Rasulullah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who says Allah rasool Allah
He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu
salam said of Badu Dena unifocal who Rajul the best of the Dena
that a person spent is the dinar that the person spends on his
family and on those who are his dependents. What dinar on unifocal
who Allah but he sebelah and after that is the dinar is the dinner
that the person spends on his riding animal the in the way of
Allah subhanahu wa Tada What do you now don't feel to who either
as Harvey sebelah and then after that is the level of the dinner
that the person spends on his companions on his friends in the
way of Allah, those who are his friends for the sake of Allah
subhanho wa Taala and he spends on them. See in this hadith the
prophets Allah Allah Salam has given us the levels of the devote
in terms of spending the charity, or spending your money.
Another Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
explain this further, the Hadith that is rated by OMA selama Radi
Allahu Taala and she says, Call to ya rasool Allah, and remember
almost Salama or the Allahu Taala and her is the wife of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She was a widowed of Abu salah, Radi
Allahu Taala both of them, they migrated from McCallum aka Rama to
Madina, Munawwara and they sacrifice literally everything for
the sake of Allah. They sacrifice the house, they sacrifice the
agricultural land, they sacrifice the even animals, they sacrifice
everything, both of them together. They migrated from Mecca to Medina
for this for the sake of Allah subhanho wa taala. And when they
arrived in Madina, Munawwara Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam asked Abu Salah Abu selama what
Have you brought with you from McHale Makara Rama? He said O
Messenger of Allah, nothing at all. I have lost everything. The
Prophet sallallahu sallam said to Abu selama Abu selama In fact, you
did not lose anything.
You did not lose anything. Because you have done all of that for the
sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala so Abu Salama Radi Allahu Allah,
Allah and who, three years later he passed away. When he passed
away,
almost Salem out of the Allahu Taala and Ha, she became a widow.
And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam sent someone with a
message to her, advising her to read the DUA in LA he was in LA he
Raji rune, Allah Who Jordan the female see but he was actively
hiring minha Prophet sallallahu Sallam advised her to say this to
her in Nadi Allah he were in it Roger. Verily We all belong to
Allah subhanho wa Taala and we all want to return back to Allah Azza
wa Jalla Li kromm Allah Who matches your name female Siva T. O
Allah, reward me in this calamity of mine. Well actually flee Hiram
minha and oh Allah grant me better alternative Musella Mara the
Allahu Taala and who says that when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
advised me to read this to her I started reading this too. But I
used to think mice I used to say to myself, no all do I'm making
this to our to Allah gleefully Hiram in her will Allah in this
calamity that I have lost my husband, I will sell him out of
the Allah Hutan Oh Allah, grant me better alternative. I used to
think to myself who can be a better husband, then Abu Salam. I
cannot see anyone within Madina Munawwara better than Abu salah.
But she says because it was the advice of Rasulullah sallam, I
continued reading this to her. And when she completed her ADA, the
ADA, the ADA period or waiting period after the after the death
of the husband for a widowed woman is four months and 10 days when
she completed the ADA period. She says, I received a message from
the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam as a proposal and the Prophet
Salah Salem proposed me for marriage. And then I realized that
Subhan Allah, no doubt, Muhammad Rasulullah Salam is far better
than Abu Salah model the Allahu Taala and the scholars have taken
many many lessons from this hadith one of them is that whenever you
study and you learn the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam whether your mind comprehends or doesn't comprehend,
you start acting upon it. You don't question the hadith of
Rasulullah Salam, and you don't question how how it would happen.
Rather, you have trust and toward Quran Allah subhanahu wa taala and
believe in the statements of Rasulullah Salah Salem, this part
of your iman in the Messenger of Allah alayhi salatu salam, and if
you do so Allah subhanahu wa taala will open up the doors for you. So
I will only sell them out of the Allahu Taala and her she accepted.
She accepted that proposal. And she married the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa said,
but she had children from Abu selama from her ex husband. So she
asked the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam this question and she
said Yasuda Allah Halle agilon Fie Burnie, Abu Salam, and onfield
Carlene or messenger of Allah.
Is there any reward for me if I spend any of my money, any of my
wealth on the children of Abu selama, meaning her own children,
but now because she's the wife of a surah allah sallallahu sallam,
she understood that she cannot spend anything without the
permission of her husband. That is why she sought the permission from
the prophets of salaam not only permission she asked the prophets
of Allah Solomon question, Hallie, Andrew, is there going to be any
reward for me if I spend anything on my children, the children of
Abu Salah Wallace to be Tarika to him haka Wahaca. In the humble
name, I cannot leave my children like that.
So, meaning that I cannot leave them begging or asking other
people for help.
In fact, they are my own children. So all messenger of Allah is going
to be any reward for me. And also there is another reason for
another reason for her asking this question, because she knew that
spending the money spending the wealth on children is the
responsibility of the husband and the father, not the mother, but
because the father has passed away now, and she's asking Shall I
spend on them and it is there going to be any reward for me? The
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said no I'm lucky agile
Roma and fuck the I lay him. Yes, definitely they will be reward of
for whatever you spend on them. It means that the Prophet salallahu
alayhi salam encouraged her to spend on her own children.
Another Hadith in this chapter is the hadith of Saudi of noble cause
or the Allahu Taala Anhu. That was mentioned right at the beginning
of this book in the chapter Bible near the chapter of the intention
or having the sincere intention, and the Hadith that is long
Hadith. In that hadith it is mentioned that the long Hadith
says that Saudi Arabia will call sort of the Allahu Taala and who,
once he fell ill, and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went
to visit him
and to see how he was doing and the Prophet sallallahu Sallam when
he visited him, he saw that side of the Allahu Taala and he was
quite ill, to the level that sad Radi Allahu Taala and who himself
he told me that he would not survive. And he said, O Messenger
of Allah, I think I'm not going to survive in this sickness and this
illness. So I will like to give all of my wealth in charity.
Prophet sallallahu sallam said, No sod, you cannot do this. You can't
do this. In fact, Sal said, almost none of Allah, I want that. I want
my wealth, all of my wealth to be given in charity, after I leave
this tuning it, meaning he was making a Will he Oh, he wanted to
make a will, for his wealth, all of his wealth to be given in the
way of Allah subhanahu wa taala after his death, the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said, all aside, this is not permissible. Rather,
you may give something in charity from your wealth, not all of it.
And Sodre the Allahu Taala said, O Messenger of Allah, what about
half of my wealth? What if I will? What if I make a will that half of
my wealth is given in the way of Allah after my death? The Prophet
sallallahu sallam said, No, you can't even give half of your
wealth in the way of Allah after your death.
And he said, O Messenger of Allah, what about 1/3? Can I give Can I
make a will for 1/3 of my wealth to be given in charity after my
death, the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, A photos were voodoo
suka see, yes. 1/3 is is acceptable. But in reality, even
1/3 is a lot.
Another Hadith says that the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam
recommended him to give only 1/4 in charity, to make a win for one
for two of his wealth to be given in charity.
And then the wording of the hadith is also that the prophets Allah
Salam said in Naka, and tada Raha taka Alvernia how you roam men,
and yes, Allah nurse.
It is better for you to leave your children,
rich and wealthy.
It is better for you to leave your children wealthy and rich, then
leaving them poor so that they end up begging people. So what's the
point of giving this kind of charity in the way of Allah? If
your own children end up in poverty, and they end up begging
people?
And then another version of this hadith is what is collected in
this chapter? That Imam no Ramallah is quoted here that the
Prophet SAW Selim advise sada of the Allahu Taala and he says we're
in Gulen tune field by NEFA button. The Li be Howard Hala,
Illa OTTB ha and sad Remember, there is nothing that you spend by
which you seek the pleasure of Allah subhanho wa Taala except you
will be rewarded for that. Anything and everything that you
spend for the pleasure of Allah in order to seek Allah's pleasure,
you will be rewarded for that. Had Martha gyla Hatha Mata Alfie
fibrotic even more
morsel of food that you place in the mouth of your wife, you will
be rewarded for that as well.
If your intention is that you are fulfilling your responsibility and
your intention is to seek Allah's pleasure to that level, the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam encouraged the men to spend
on their families. Another hadith of this chapter is the hadith of
Abu Musab al battery, or the Allahu taala. And who says that
the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, either unfocussed Raju Isla
de naffaa Cotton Yetta, Cebu ha for he Allahu sadhaka. When a man
spends anything on his family, on his dependents, whatever he
spends, with the intention of seeking Allah's pleasure, for he
Allahu sadaqa, it is written as sadhaka for him, so anything and
everything that he spends on his family, obviously, for Halal means
for Halal things, not anything that is haram. You can't take this
hadith to apply on something that is impermissible. For example, you
are planning a wedding of your son and daughter. And you say that in
order to spend, you know my wealth for the sake of Allah in order to
help my son and daughter and to arrange a wedding or marriage home
where there's going to be free mixing, there will be music, this
will be dancing and this and that. Because the Hadith says whatever
you spend on your family, you will get the reward of no no, this is
not what Hadees means. Anything that is halal. Anything that is
permissible, anything that is going to be beneficial for your
wife or your children, anything that is going to be beneficial for
them in the dunya as well as in the Orfila for example, a father
helps his son to study the deen of Allah.
A father purchase and buys a car for his son, so that he can go to
the masjid and he can attend the weekly lectures, he will get the
reward for that every single time. The son and daughter they use
their car, the father will be getting the word for this. So this
is what the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam means
the next Hadees of Abdullah Hypno I'm are being asked for the Allahu
Taala says, Allah rasool Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the
Messenger of Allah Alayhi Salatu was Salam said Kapha Bill model
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it is enough sin for a person to neglect his responsibility by
withholding the provision for those who are his dependents.
Meaning if the person has the ability has the financial ability
to spend on his wife and his children, and he does not do so,
then it is enough sin for him, meaning, if he does not commit any
other sin, this is great or big enough sin for him.
And as he just said early on, they are some people unfortunately,
after getting married, they do not give their wives they do right and
they do not spend on their family they do not spend on their
children, to the extent that we have seen, we have seen a families
we have seen people and person and men who even after getting
married, they always keep sending money back home, they own brothers
and sisters and cousins and uncles and whatever, whoever asked them,
because this is where he gets all the pride and everyone praises him
whereas his own family, his children, they are suffering here.
And it is something that is not permissible. Yes, if you have
responsive direct responsibility towards anyone, if you have any
dependents. For example, a person has the responsibility of his
young siblings and his own father has passed away he has a
responsibility towards them. After even getting married, he has the
responsibility he's the responsibility has increased. So
he has responsibility towards his wife and children as well as
towards his siblings. But if the person has his siblings, and
unfortunately this is a reality that those who are here especially
those who come from the poor background from other countries
and they arrive here, what happens the rest of the siblings, they do
not think they don't do any work. Why they completely rely on the
brother as someone who is here. They say some
One hour brother, he will be sending us the money every month.
So we don't need to even do any job.
And he ends up spending on them and he neglects his own family.
This is well, this is haram This is not permissible. This is what
Rasul Allah Allah does and I'm sending this hadith GAFA Bill
model if man I know though Yeah, I'm in your hold another Hadith
the prophets, Allah Salam said kuffaar Bill Maher, Eastman, and
yeah, Visa, ammonium Lakota. It is enough sin for a person that he
withholds His provision from those who are under his control or some
Oh those who are those who need those who need those who are
dependent of his world.
Next hadith is the hadith of Abu Huraira, the Allahu Taala and
whom, in which he says that the prophets of Allah Salam said, mom
in Yeoman used to be Hola, Eva dou fi Illa Mala carne and Zylon there
is no single day
in which the people wake up except two angels descend from the
heavens for your kulula huduma One of them says Allahumma Ottoman
Farrakhan Khalifa will Allah give the one who spends in your way
better alternative or or Allah give him better, give him better
in place of whatever he spent, where your code will offer where
as the other angel says Allahumma Ultimune Seacon Talofa wala the
one who read homes and does not spend what I was do and he does
not spend on his family or he does not spend way it is needed to be
to be spent Allahumma optimum second telephone Allah anyone who
does not spend destroy his wealth, and this is this is something that
happens every single morning. Every single morning, two angels
come down, one of them makes the dua for the person who spends
continuously spends, and the other angel makes the DUA against the
person who will alls and he stingy and he does not realize his
obligation and his responsibility and he does not spend the reason
Mr. Minogue rahamallah quote in this chapter is that the first and
foremost, you need to spend on your family, before you spend in
the way of Allah subhanho wa Taala before you spend in the masjid or
in charity, or building a water well or helping a poor and needy
whatever. The very first people who deserve your health and your
financial support are your own family.
And this is what is confirmed in the next Hadith that is also
Narrated by Abu Huraira the Allahu tanto who says that the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said Alia douleur Olia Quran mineralia This
souffle, the upper hand is always better than the lower hand.
upper hand is always better than the lower hand meaning the hand
that gives is better than the hand that begs will that be Manta rule.
The Prophet SAW Selim says always begin with those who are under
your responsibility meaning your own family, your own children. Why
Rosada Fatima can and body Lena and the best form of charity is
that is given out of richness meaning after you have fulfilled
your responsibilities, then you give in the way of Allah subhanho
wa Taala warming your staff if you're a for hola and whoever
seeks Allah's help in order to stay away from begging Allah
subhanahu wa taala helps him and Allah subhanho wa Taala Allah
subhanahu wa taala protects him from begging one minute Stafanie
you only Hilah and who our six Allah has assistance for His
richness and being wealthy and financially stable. Allah subhanho
wa Taala makes him independent. Meaning that if you have sincere
intention to spend your wealth on those who are your dependents
Allah subhanho wa Taala will help and this is what Allah said in the
Quran. Leone field Calusa team in Saudi woman booty Riley he is
spoofer Yun Mata hula, those who are given wealth by Allah subhanho
wa taala. Those who are financially strong, they should
spend according to their ability for a purpose.
For example, if you can afford a big house, a three bedroom or four
or five bedroom house for your family, it will not be permissible
for you to force your family to stay within two bedroom house.
If you can purchase a bigger car, it is not permissible for you if
you are financially stable and you can easily purchase, then it is
not permissible for you to force your family to have a smaller car
where they face difficulties. Leon feel Calusa it means
the person who has enough wealth he must spend according to his
financial ability. Woman Cody Riley, he is Ufa, Yoon figma Allah
and whoever has his provision restricted by Allah subhanho wa
Taala meaning someone who does not have a lot of wealth, but he has
enough then he should spend according to his ability, but he
still has the responsibility for you and figma Allah, he should
spend from what Allah subhanho wa Taala has granted, he cannot
escape from his responsibility with the excuse that he does not
have enough. Whatever Allah subhanho wa Taala has given him he
has to fulfill his responsibility and his obligation towards his
family by it. May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us our feet and
ability to understand our Legion May Allah give us our feet and
ability to fulfill our obligations to him will Jalili crumb and to
the creation of Allah subhanho wa Taala in the hall Serena Mooji
Subhana Allah will be handy. Eyeshadow Allah Allah He learnt us