Zakaullah Saleem – 20 Riyad asSalihin Chapter of Patience
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The transcript describes a dispute between strong and weak individuals over controlling one's emotions and anger. The speakers stress the importance of proper anger management and provide insight into the use of shay APIs, actions, and weapons. They also emphasize the importance of forgiveness and control of anger in Islam, and advise against the use of words to convey one's feelings. The importance of remaining patient and steadfast in dealing with difficult situations is emphasized, and listeners are encouraged to trust in Islam.
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Smilla Rahmanir Rahim hamdulillah Hello Bill Alameen with ultimate
routine wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Karim while he was so
happy he he marine and my bed and Abu Hurayrah total the Allah who
won another suit Allah He sallallahu alayhi wa sallam I'll
call Lisa Shadi to be surah in machete, Allah de m li kunafa who
were in the lab of Hakuna Li.
We are still going through the chapter of sovereign and having
patience. And as you mentioned previously that they are different
types of sober and part of sober is to control your emotions and
control yourself. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has
said with disregard in the Hadith that is reported by saying you do
not bow down to the Allahu Taala and who says that the messenger of
allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said Lisa Shadi do this surah the
strong men strong person is not the one who wins in wrestling.
The one who wins in wrestling is not a coup in in the sight of
Allah subhanahu wa taala or according to the teachings of
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam such person is not classed
as strong person who is stronger than he saw Salam said in the
Masha did Allah the Yom Liko NAFSA who are in Delgado,
the real strong person or the man is the one who can control himself
when he has the fits of rage
when he's angry, and he can control himself, that he's the one
who is really strong person because it is easy to defeat
others to overtake others, but to control yourself. Control your
desires, your emotion, your anger, your wrath, this is a real
challenge. If you cannot control yourself, then there's no point in
defeating others overtaking others, because you are not then
in the sight of Allah subhanho wa Taala you're not in reality a
strong person. The real strong person, a strong man is the one
who can control himself even if you have a weak body, but you can
control yourself, then you are Shadi than strong in the sight of
Allah Bucha Allah LiveLeak Rama Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam said, I will move mineral Calvi hydro mineral minute drive,
a believer who is strong. The one who has power and his strong is
better than the believer who is a weak and the Hadith of the Prophet
salallahu alayhi salam refers to the strength and the weakness of
the body and physical strength as well as well as this as well as
the strength and the power of controlling yourself. This is the
real power and this is the real strength a Shadi the lady I'm
lucky enough so who I am the love. So obviously in order for you to
control yourself, what you need, you need patience, a suburb that
is why a mom and never we Rahim Allah, He has quoted this hadith
in this chapter. And there are further Hadees related to this.
One of them is what is reported by Sulaiman bin Saud Radi Allahu Anhu
says, going to jail Listen, man Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
once I was sitting in the gathering with the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. whare Giuliani is the ban. There were
two individuals who started the argument and they had very heated
argument and they quote, well, I had the Houma Mara watch who to
the extent that one of them had his face turned red. One tougher
hurt, I will die and the the veins of his throat was swollen out of
his rage and anger for Hala Rasulullah he sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam said, in Nila
Allah will Kalamata lokala have an homage it by Allah I know one
short statement a word. If he were to say this, all of his anger will
vanish and it will go away. And then he Salah Salam said lokaal
Arruda bIllahi min ash shaytani R Rajim the hub I mean who am I
Ajit? If he were to say are all the bIllahi min ash shaytaan
regime I seek refuge and protection in Allah subhanahu wa
taala from the shaytaan the accursed, then his anger will
vanish. And then some of the companions approached him and they
said this is what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
saying that if you say our will we live in a shaytaan regime, you
enter will vanish. So
Oh Do it then he did and he set out will administrate ology there
are a number of lessons that we learn from this hadith one
obviously is the reason for which a mama no Rama, Allah has quoted
the Hadith in this chapter Sabra in order for you to have Sobor or
in order for you to be really patient, you must control your
anger if you cannot control your anger, it means you do not have
sovereign
it means you cannot control yourself you cannot have sovereign
patients and Unfortunately, nowadays, we find every other
individual saying I have anger problem Subhanallah this new kind
of problem, anger problem, anger problem means, I cannot control
myself, if you cannot control yourself, this is a this is a big,
this you know, this is something that is that is you know, that is
seen in the sight of God as something dangerous. Because if
you cannot control your anger, it means you cannot control your
emotions, you cannot control anything. If you cannot control
yourself, then in times of hardship and difficulties, you
won't be able to control your emotions and difficult and you may
end up losing your iman and unfortunately this what happens to
many of the people who say that I have anger problem, they do not
show the anger towards the people around them towards their spouses
or their family members, their siblings and their relatives
rather, unfortunately, I have seen myself some people who go beyond
this and they and they start showing the kind of anger towards
Allah subhanahu wa Neruda, we live in Derek saying Allah is not just
with me, Allah is Norfair naroda belimbing done. And this is all
because of not controlling yourself at the first point. So
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So these two individuals
who are having heated argument, and he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
said, I know a statement. I know a word. If he was to say this, his
anger will vanish.
Another lesson that we learned from this hadith lesson is, this
is the Wisdom. This is the hikma of Rasulullah sallallahu he was a
prophet, he was the Nabhi he could have approached this person
directly. He could have called him over. But he saw Selim did not do
this. He said to people around him, he said, I know the anger he
is going through the anger he is facing and suffering from I know
the treatment of this anger. And he advised his companion with one
Allah which may if He is Allah Salah was to go towards him and
advise him directly, then what about the rest of the company they
would have not taken in lesson. So he's hola hola Salam said to his
companions, those who are sitting in his gathering he is much less.
And that is why the Scholars say those who sit in the gathering of
a scholar of any imam or someone who advises they deserve more in
seeking knowledge than those who do not pay any attention.
So this is what we learn from the Syrah of Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wasallam. To the extent that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam gave importance, and he would give significance to those
who are around him for the purpose of seeking knowledge. And this is
the duty of the teacher, that those students who are serious in
seeking knowledge he must pay attention to them, he must not
neglect them. So this is what Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam did, those companion who were sitting around himself in
Salah Salem, he advised him, he said, I know you know that you see
this person, he's very angry, and he cannot control himself as his
face has turned red. But I know if he were to say our bIllahi min ash
shaytaan regime, his front will be sorted. The companion with one
Allah Allah image Marine, they learn this advice from the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and this another lesson that we
learned from this Hadees they went to this person,
they went to this person and they advised him and they conveyed the
message. And this is the whole purpose of attending the study
circles and the lectures. It is not for us to just simply sit and
listen to some of the Hadees election that go away and do not
convey the message to anyone. Even if it is smallest advice. You
should try your best to advise them and convey this advice and
this message to others as Rasulullah Salallahu Alaihe Salam
said ballyhoo on the wire convey from me even if it is one idea, if
no, if you know the meaning translation and the understanding
of one single is conveyed to others. Whenever you sit in a
gathering, unfortunately, nowadays, whenever we have a
gathering, we waste our time in useless talks. But very rarely we
make the mention of a Hadees or
With the eye of the Quran, or a story of the prophet from the
Quran, or any lesson when installing from the seed of
Rasulullah sallallahu Alison hardly mentioned this. Most of our
gatherings are around backbiting, making fun of others, talking
about worldly matters, everything. But when it comes as soon as
someone brings up a religious issue or someone talks about the
eye of the Quran, the whole gathering becomes so serious and
people start feeling bored.
Because you know this we are gathering and we have gathered for
fun. But now for listen the ayat of the Quran.
So Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam advised companions, and they
immediately fulfilled their responsibility, and they went to
this person and they advised.
Another lesson that we learn from this hadith is that when a person
gets angry, he must say, oh do bIllahi min ash shaytaan rejean
Are all the bIllahi min ash shaytaan rejean and our od Lahaina
shaytaan Rotimi is the treatment for those who have whispers of
shaytaan now, obviously anger is one of the types of whisper
because you get angry when Chapin whispers your mind and the Chapin
entice you against your opponent and say you know you have to say
that you have to do this you have if you don't say it will mean that
you are defeated you are weak to show your power your strength that
you are stronger than him say whatever you can. So these are
these are the whispers of Shavon and the other day last Friday's
Yahoo somebody the foot pound is the big problem with swas and the
whispery, the one of the biggest problem that we face nowadays, and
in order to tackle this problem are who do bIllahi min ash
shaytani D this is a weapon against shaytani R wudu bIllahi
min ash shaytaan. Even in your Salah, the Prophet sallallahu
sallam was asked by one of his companions or messenger of Allah
salAllahu Alaihe Salam as soon as I as I begin salah I started
receiving whispers from Shaytaan all types of Biswas What should I
do? He SallAllahu sallam said say oh do bIllahi min ash shaytaan
regime in your Salah. While standing with raccoons you say oh
the bIllahi min ash shaytaan Ricci, and if you have more Biswas
say more I would be lying to generally
keep saying it constantly frequently are audibly. lemniscate
Banerji. Why because the we swas verb and the anger is caused by we
swas by the whisper of Shavon and it's caused by shape on the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said In another Hadith that
a hubbub and the anger is when you have usually we use the word
heated. It comes from heat because your blood pressure goes up, you
are heated. And heat is from Chapin. Because shaitan is created
from fire. And fire is what heat. He SallAllahu sallam said of love
and the anger is from Shaytaan. And because shaitan is created
from fire. So what do you do in orders to put the fire off? What
do you do?
Use water. Use water. And this is another treatment that the Prophet
sallallahu wasallam advised the person who is angry he should say
our bIllahi min ash shaytaan OG and he should take some sips of
the water. If a person is standing, he should sit down.
And obviously now the science has proved that this is one of the
practical and most practical methods of controlling your anger
will if you're standing, your blood pressure's high when you sit
down, it slows down.
And the Prophet SAW Salem has even said if you're sitting down and
you still angry, lie down.
In order to control your blood pressure you heat and say out
we'll learn the Shakeology but unfortunately, those again those
who suffer from anger problem. They fail to do any of these when
they're angry when they are angry.
But we need to try our best to follow the teachings of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi salam in order to better ourselves in order to
improve our flock and in order to do Tobia to ourselves. So he
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said if the person was to say are
bIllahi min ash shaytaan regime, his anger will go away. And the
companion one Allah Who LMH Marine, they went to this person
and they advised him and he accepted that advice.
Next hadith is the hadith of Murad bananas.
Or the Allahu Taala and who says and then the BIA sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam on Khan, that the Prophet sallallahu sallam said,
Man kava, ma Yvonne wa who were called they don't Allah Yun Fida.
The Hula Hoop SubhanaHu wata Allah. Allah goosal Holla at yo
multi Yama he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says Whoever gets angry but
he controls his anger
for the sake of Allah Allah Tala Luca solely purely for the sake of
Allah. He presses his anger. Well who are called you don't wanna I
known feeder, although he has strength and power to unleash it
to give it to effect. He can do whatever he wants, he has power,
he has strength, yet he controls his anger. Then he said Allah
Salam said the Allah Who Subhanahu wa Taala allow Lucifer live on the
Day of Judgment. Allah subhanahu wa taala will call that individual
by his name Allah will call him Allah Goosen who live in the
presence and the forefront of all mankind. And he will say that you
hire a home in a hotel arena Mr. Shah and Allah subhanho wa Taala
will give him the choice of selecting any of the hold of Jana
he would like
this is the present. This is what Allah subhanahu wa taala has
prepared for you if you were to control your anger.
Allah subhanahu wa taala says in the Quran, in Surah Ali Imran
Allah the meaning of your corner fissara You will got a beautiful
passage of surah and Ramadan, Allah begins this passage saying
sorry, oh Allah Mothra Team Rubicon wa Jana try to compete one
another compete each other towards the forgiveness of Allah subhanahu
wa taala and towards the Jana or the three moutain the Jana that
Allah subhanahu wa taala has prepared for moutain for the
righteous people and then in the following ayat Allah subhanho wa
Taala gives and he makes the mention of the characteristics and
the qualities of a luta clean. The first one is Allah Dini on Falcone
officer rah, rah, the pious and the righteous and moutain are
those who spend in the way of Allah subhanahu wa taala not only
in times of prosperity and ease rather, they also continue
spending in the way of Allah subhanahu wa taala in times of
hardships and difficulties. You will feel Coronavirus serraj with
Dora wild card the Meenal vase and the second. The second
characteristic that Allah mentioned here is alcohol the
meaning of A's those who control the anger
while our Fein and the nurse and the pardon people, they forgive
others Wallah who you have been martini and Allah subhanahu wa I
love those who excel in the HELOC and in the ethics and their
mannerism. And then Allah subhana wa Taala makes the mention of
other characteristic and then he says Hola, Iike Jessa Oh mafia.
These are the people that they reward is what Mark FIRA to pay
him. The Lord's forgiveness was or not, and Allah has prepared for
them. The gardens have been filled those antennae.
So, in this hadith Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam has given
us this glass hiding and he said whoever controls his anger, if
you're a husband, you control your anger against your wife. If your
father you control your anger against your children, whoever you
have power and authority over if you are able to do whatever you
can get you control your anger and you do not harm them. Rather you
forgive them for the sake of Allah. Bear in mind this hadith of
Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and the ayat of the Quran, then he
Salallahu Alaihe Salam has given you the glare, tithing and just
imagine the honor that you will be receiving on the Day of Judgment.
Before the whole mankind Allah is going to call you with your name,
and he will say also and so this is your present, because you
forgive others on in duniya for my sake, and you control your anger
for my sake, although you had power and you have strength to do
but you control it and you forgive them. So now this is my present
for you. And this honor will be given to this person on the Day of
Judgment. Next Hadith says the hadith of so you do not Abu
Huraira the Allahu Tahnoon says and Nara Jhulan Allah Nabi
SallAllahu Sallam that a man came to the prophets of Salah Salem and
he said, I will see me or messenger of Allah, please advise
me, advise me with something useful, something beneficial. He
SallAllahu sallam said, Love Bob.
He advised him he said, Don't get angry for a damn Iran. He repeated
he said O Messenger.
If Allah gave me more advice he said la Tambo Don't get angry. He
said again O Messenger of Allah advised me with something more
beneficial he said Allah Tala Do not get angry. Each time he
repeated all overseer for Allah give me advice. He saw Salam said
lotta blood, the plateau.
What was the result of this? The other AHA the similar holidays,
where we find that a companion approaches the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam and he sees the advice of the, of the prophets, Allah Salam,
and he Salah Salem gives each individual a different advice. And
this again from the wisdom of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, the wisdom that Allah subhanahu wa taala gave to our
NABI sallallahu alayhi salam had the gift and also the Hickman, the
wisdom that he Salallahu Alaihe Salam has taught us
so he SallAllahu Sallam would not give one single advice to everyone
because he would advise every individual according to his
personal circumstances. And this particular person who were who
applied the prophets, Allah Solomon, he sought his advice, the
Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam, he knew that he needs advice on this
particular matter.
Because the Prophet SAW Selim knew that he's the one who gets angry
quickly,
very quickly, and he kept saying Latin, this is the only rule if
you were to act upon this advice, all of your matters will be
sorted. And this is a reality for some people.
You may find a person who says I have only one problem. And in
reality, there are people out there who are very good in the
falafel Hamdulillah. When it comes to their philosophy, they are very
good. When it comes to their worship, they are good, they have
they are regular in their five daily prayers, they attend the
masjid regularly. When it comes to fasting in the month of Ramadan
and Ramadan, they do fall they read Quran they make the God of
the morning and evening they do everything and hamdulillah
religious practicing person, but when it comes to his anger, he
cannot control
and this is the only shortcoming he has so the advice for such
person would be laptop, this this is the only thing that you need to
work on. If you work on your anger, and if you can control it,
then all of your fears will be sorted
for another person, maybe another problem. So the person should be
advised according to his personal circumstances. This was Rasulullah
salAllahu alayhi wasallam
next Hadith says the Hadith of the Union Abu Huraira the Allah Hutan
who says the messenger of allah sallallahu sallam said Ma Yesod
will Bala will be minimal minute if enough See he will wala D
formerly had title Allah Allah wa ala hottie. This is similar to
what we said last week. With regards to the calamities and
hardships when you are afflicted by calamities and hardships, trial
after trial, test after test problem after problem. Then
shaitan finds this no opportunity to attack your iman to weaken your
iman in Allah subhanho wa Taala
and you start thinking that Allah is not fair and just to you and
you should bear in mind these type of Hadees of Rasulullah Salah
Sunday he SallAllahu sallam said my Azad will Bala will be meaning
while minute if enough See he will wala de were muddy, I believing
men and believing women they continue facing trials and test
and tribulations within themselves. Within the family the
children within the finance they weld they continue having problem
one day you have problem within yourself. You have the for example
you have the anger problem the other day you have problem with
your children. The next day you have problem with your job and
your business problem after problem. He Salah salem said when
a believing man or woman continuously faces problem problem
after problem it continues but the person and the believer remains
firm and steadfast and he remains and she remains patient
and the past the whole life like this facing problems and
calamities and arches and difficulties. They continue facing
and spending your whole life until the point comes when they leave
this dunya girl Kola now is the point to meet Allah subhanho wa
Taala they are departing this dunya
what is the situation of the law what what are they going to
achieve? What is going to be the outcome of all those problems they
have faced in this dunya he Salah salem said wama i Li he has three
such persons such believer meet with Allah in the state that there
is no one single send recorded in is registered
of deeds.
He has no skill left.
Why? Because Allah subhanahu wa taala decided for him to wipe out
all of his sins through these difficulties and these problems
within dystonia.
And because the person remained firm and steadfast and patient,
Allah subhanahu wa taala devoted to him with complete forgiveness.
And to the extent that he meets with Allah, and there is no one
single sin recorded in his register at all.
That is why he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has encouraged us to
have patience.
As you said last week, no matter how great your problem and your
difficulty is, always put your trust in Allah. Bear in mind that
the life of dystonia is very short. We just pray that Swati
Jana has, it must give a must give us great reminder that sooner or
later, we are going to leave this dunya and people will gather like
this gathering in order to perform our janazah
the problem that you are facing in this dunya they are only for a
short period of time, very short period for a number of weeks or
months or even even if it is four years, compared to the next life,
eternal life endless life. This is nothing the people who have passed
away about a year ago, how many of us will remember them? Forget
those who passed away 10 years ago, we forgot them. And 50 years
ago, no one would remember us. So what is the point of having too
much anxiety and stress about all these problems that you are
suffering from in dystonia? Leave your face with Allah.
Have strong belief and Iman in Allah that Allah is but Allah
subhanahu wa taala is the best of the planners. Whatever Allah
subhanahu wa taala has decreed for you there is always wisdom.
If you cannot understand anything, then bear in mind this hadith,
that through these problems and difficulties Allah subhanho wa
Taala is wiping out all of your sins in this dunya isn't it better
for you? Rather than for you to have a luxurious life, having no
problem happy
and enjoying all the blessings of Allah? Yes, it is. And Hamdulillah
we need to ask Allah for His mercy for his forgiveness and for his
protection. But for the person who does not face any of the problem
in this dunya then he should be worried according to the hadith of
Rasulullah Salam that this might be the case that Allah has decided
for him to punish him on the day of judgment. That is why he's not
facing any kind of punishment any kind of trial and tribulation in
this dunya.
So, ultimately, for a believer, the advice of the Prophet
sallallahu Sallam is to remain firm, steadfast and remain patient
have suburb all the time. Have suburb in order to control
yourself, have suburbs in the in the color of Allah subhanahu wa
taala have suburb in times of hardships and difficulties and
calamities. And Allah subhanho wa Taala has promised in the Quran
Wallah who mas RBD wala who ma sabe Allah subhanahu wa taala is
with those who are patient, Allah is with patients. If you are
patient that Allah's mercy, Allah is assistance Allah is Allah as
* is always with you. May Allah subhanahu wa taala give us your
feet and ability to understand the Sunnah and the Hadith of
Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and may He will generally Crom give us
your feet and ability to act upon whatever we hear whatever we say,
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