Zakariyya Harnekar – Pearls of Wisdom #04

Zakariyya Harnekar
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The hikam is designed to motivate individuals to use the means they need to achieve their goals, but it is not a suggestion to pursue anything. The speaker emphasizes the importance of sustained health and not letting oneself become in a situation where they want to leave all the means. The speaker also gives advice on maintaining a healthy lifestyle, setting goals, and learning to be smarter than the other person. The importance of understanding one's state and surrounding people is emphasized, and advice is given on achieving goals and learning to be smarter than the other person.
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We said alhamdulillah, Allah has granted us another

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day in the masjid,

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in this,

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very peaceful masjid in fact.

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Alhamdulillah.

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The time of Asr changed

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today. So Asr was at 4 o'clock.

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And

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I think the jama'ah started about quarter past

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4. So from tomorrow, class will be about

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half past 4, maybe 25 past 4 and

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so on. Right?

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They forgot to inform me today.

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Yesterday we were discussing

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a very short hikma from the hikm of

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Ibnu Atha'illah.

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Alright?

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Ibn

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is telling us, if you want to walk

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this path of, you know, the friends of

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Allah, if you want to walk this path

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of attaining closeness to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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then you must know that your intentions or

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your desires,

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they cannot

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pierce the high walls of the decree of

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Allah

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Right?

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And today's hikmah, he he he somewhat carries

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on with that discussion,

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but we'll get to in a moment because

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there were some questions yesterday

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which I said I will defer to today.

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So,

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the one question I recall or the one

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that I will address that we had yesterday

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was

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if we know that everything is in Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala's hands, actually the question pertain

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to the hikma, today's hikma.

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So we'll discuss it a bit later inshallah.

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Alright.

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And I think perhaps the explanation of the

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hikma itself will answer the question.

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Let's see.

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So yesterday, we had

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that prior intentions or desires for yourself that

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you had, they cannot pierce the high walls

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of decree. If you want something for yourself

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and Allah doesn't want it for you and

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Allah has not decreed it for you, no

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matter what you do, you're not gonna get

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it.

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Alright?

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So

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in today's Hikma, he says what?

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Right? We we read it at the end

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of yesterday.

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Rest yourself

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from.

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Means to

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tadbir means to plan something or to to

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try and order everything in one's mind.

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Some translations have it as self direction.

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But when we say

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and we say like Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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is the one that sets things out.

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So

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means to set things out.

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So even though

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Allah

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tells

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you, Rahimahullah

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ta'ala, he tells you, arrest yourself. Don't don't

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become burdened by this thing. Arrest yourself

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from trying to set everything out,

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from trying to plan too clinically.

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Why does he say

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so?

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Because

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so on account of resting yourself

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from from resting yourself from trying to set

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everything out, he says,

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what other than you

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has taken has undertaken to you

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has undertaken to do for you

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on behalf of you.

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Don't try to do it yourself.

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Don't do it for yourself.

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Don't undertake to do it for yourself.

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What other than you

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has taken upon themselves

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to do on your behalf,

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you don't do it for yourself.

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You don't do it for yourself.

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Right.

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Now

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this like I said yesterday, this hikmah

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can seem like an extension of a pre

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of the previous one, and it can also

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seem like a contradiction of the one before

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that.

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It can seem like an extension of of

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the one just before this, but like a

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contradiction of the one before that. Because in

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the one before that, Allah was telling you

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what?

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That if Allah placed you in a situation

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where you must use the means,

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then that's what you must do.

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He in fact said that it's an unvirtuous

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thing

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to desire to be out of that situation,

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if Allah placed you in that situation.

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Remember?

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If Allah placed you in a situation where

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you must use the means,

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where everything is is no it seems normal,

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you use the normal means, you have to

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go out to work, you must take medicine

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when you seek, all of those things.

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Right? When Allah placed you in a situation

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where it's possible for you to use all

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of those means,

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then you must use those means. And if

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you desire and if you tell yourself, no,

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I don't want to be in this situation.

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I want to leave all of these means.

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I just want to go sit and pray

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and divorce the dunya, then that's actually from

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your own desire.

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So he was telling you to use the

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means.

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But in this one, he's telling you, look

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here,

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rest yourself from tatbir.

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Rest yourself from planning everything up,

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from trying to order everything.

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Why?

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What is the advice that follows on from

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that? What other than you has undertaken to

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do for you? Don't do it yourself. And

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this other than you that he's speaking about

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in this, hikmah is Allah.

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What Allah has undertaken to do for you,

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don't try to do it.

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Don't try to do it yourself

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or don't undertake to do it yourself.

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So now he's almost telling you look what

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is Allah undertaking to do for you? Has

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Allah undertaken to sustain you?

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Yes, Allah is undertaken to sustain you.

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Has Allah undertaken to cure you when you

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are ill? Yes, Allah does that.

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Is Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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Is Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala the one that

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sees to all of your affairs,

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raises your children, sees to their sustenance,

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ensures that you have a place to stay.

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All of that Doesn't Allah do all of

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that for you?

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Allah does it for you.

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So now if you know that Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala is the one that does that

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for you, is he telling me, okay, I

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mustn't

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go get the house for myself. I mustn't,

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you know, seek reason for my family, for

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myself. It seems contradictory to what he just

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told us

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before. But here's the subtle the subtle difference.

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You see in the in the

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the hikmah,

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before the last one, he said,

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Iradah Tukat

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Tajreed.

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Right?

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In this one, he said,

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Can you see there's a different word there?

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Rest yourself from

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rest your nafs

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from teddbir.

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Right.

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So now

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to harmonize, to understand that there's no contradiction

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between this hikman

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and the one where he tells you to

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use the asbaab, we have to understand the

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difference between tadbir

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and asbaab.

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We have to understand the subtle difference between

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asbaab

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using the means

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using the means

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and tadeebir, which is plotting everything out or

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trying to order everything.

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And perhaps I'll give you a little hint

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that may unlock the whole thing in your

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mind without before the explanation is even given.

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He didn't say

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He didn't say, arrest your body.

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He said, arrest your nafs.

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He didn't say, arrest your body.

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He said, arrest your

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nafs.

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Erase yourself.

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That might unlock it for you.

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But if it didn't, let's see an explanation.

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Asbaab

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using the means

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is that when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala in

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the normal order of the world

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that He created and He set out for

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us,

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when normally He created a relationship between two

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things,

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like eating and being sustained,

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or taking medicine

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and attaining cure,

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or going out to work and attaining

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wealth,

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or,

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you know, entering a building and finding shelter

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from the elements. All of those things Allah

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created

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relationships between them. That's what creates the normal

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order

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that we perceive in the world around us.

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Whenever we Allah

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has made something either incumbent upon us or

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desirable for us, like being protected,

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being sustained,

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then using the means

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that you must do the action

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that Allah

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has assigned the relationship with the outcome that

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we desire.

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Do you understand that? So I said before,

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Allah created a relationship, for example, between eating

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and being sustained.

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It is our responsibility

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that Allah placed upon us to look after

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our bodies

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by sustaining it.

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So what is our responsibility?

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Our responsibility then is to do the action

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that Allah created a relationship

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with being sustained, and that is what? Eating.

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Right?

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Eating,

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consuming nutritious things.

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So using the asbaab means that if Allah

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made it your responsibility to be sustained,

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you can't sustain yourself.

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But what you can do is you can

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eat the food.

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So you must eat the food. That is

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what it means to use the means.

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Right?

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That is a physical action.

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It's the action of your limbs.

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Whereas tadbir

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is not the action of your limbs.

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Trying to order things, trying to plot everything

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out is not

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an action of your limbs.

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That's something that's fickety. It's something thought related.

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It's something internal,

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and it is not connected

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to the first thing in that relationship

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of cause and effect.

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Tadbir is not connected to the cause like

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eating.

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That's connected to the effect,

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being sustained.

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You understand?

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So for example, if I say, look, I'm

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gonna do this.

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I'm going to eat. It's gonna cause me

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to be sustained. Then with that sustenance, I'm

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going to

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run so long and it's gonna cause me

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to gain muscles.

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And, you know, then I'm gonna use my

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muscles for x y

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The.

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Did you see what that I planned out?

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A number of things. The

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plotting everything out and ordering everything. It depends

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not on the action that you undertake, but

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it depends on the outcome of that action.

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It depends on being sustained

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and having the energy to do in a

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run. It depends on building the muscle through

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running.

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It depends on, you know,

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whatever the outcome is the thing that of

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the thing that you want to use your

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muscles for.

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Right?

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So the terribir is connected to the outcomes,

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not to the inputs.

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So he's telling you, look here.

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All that you can do is

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you can do the inputs.

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The

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outcomes

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is in the is the work of Allah.

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The inputs

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are within yours within your sphere of responsibility,

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but the outcomes,

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Allah has taken that upon himself.

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So to give you a simple example,

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where if I'm sick,

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must I take medicine or must I not

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take medicine?

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I must take medicine.

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But when I take that medicine up when

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I I'm feeling pain,

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and I go when I take that tramadol,

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when I put that tramadol in or the

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Panadol in my mouth, I know tramadol because

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of the broken arm, no, I had to

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take a lot of that

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stuff.

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When I put the tramadol in my mouth

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and I swallow it,

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I tell myself, you Allah, relieve me of

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the pain.

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Not you tramadol.

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You understand?

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So you do the action.

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You do the action,

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but you rest assured that Allah is in

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charge of the outcome.

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Right?

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And that's why he says that internal process

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of of, you know, thinking things through and

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trying to plot everything out

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and almost living your life as if you

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are assured

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of the outcomes of your inputs,

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of the effects of the causes that you

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employ,

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then that's problematic.

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But what you should do is

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rest yourself, man.

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Be easy.

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Do the work.

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Tear your limbs,

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but don't worry about the outcomes.

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Don't worry about the outcomes.

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That's what he's telling you.

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And, you know, it sounds like a crazy

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thing, but many people have unlocked this.

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Many people have unlocked this.

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And, look, I can I can't speak for

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everybody, but in my little, you know, anecdotal

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experience of the world, many,

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they live like this?

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I'm not even talking about the Uliya.

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I'm not even talking about the Uliya.

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I'm talking about many Uliya.

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And oftentimes that's because, you know, they are

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placed in the position of Tajrid.

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They are put by Allah

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in the position of Tajrid where they must

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divorce themselves from the dunya. Once I was

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sitting here,

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I was

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actually going to tuition

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yet at at the building you're connected to

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the Masjid al Yipseh.

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And a friend of mine at that time,

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he wasn't we weren't really familiar with each

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other.

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But a good scholar of the Quran,

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He told I heard him saying to the

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guys around him, you know what?

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I knew when I decided that I'm going

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to his father had a booming business that

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he was well set to take over.

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But he said to the those around him,

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you know,

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I knew when I took this path

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of divine knowledge,

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I'm I'm likely gonna be a pauper,

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but it's okay.

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I went in it knowing that, and it's

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fine.

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That's what being lazy. Because he still goes

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out and does his work to earn his

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living.

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He still does all of that.

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But there may be a time where, look,

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a deal falls fall through.

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He took the I mean, he took the

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effort to do the deal that should have

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brought the desired outcome. I did enough work

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for what would normally bring the sustenance that

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would sustain my family.

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But somehow, the guy on the other end

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of the deal, he just

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he didn't pull through.

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He didn't keep his word.

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So now I'm I've fallen short.

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But he recognizes, you know, I'm in this

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position perhaps because I didn't choose a different

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career path or whatever it may be. But

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you know what? Alhamdulillah.

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He's not

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worried.

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He's not worried.

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In fact, what I found is

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that many of my

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many of my graduate friends,

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and, yeah, I'm speaking about university graduate friends,

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They live very,

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like, restricted difficult lives,

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whereas my friends

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who studied,

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they live very chilled lives.

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Their standard of living might

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differ greatly,

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or the expectation of the standard of living

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might differ greatly.

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But these guys

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are so

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burdened, and these guys are so chilled.

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It's like a it's a crazy thing.

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Because this guy who has 2 degrees,

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he's thinking to himself, you know, I have

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to get a degree in this field of

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work, and

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that's what I studied so long for, and

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then he tries, and he puts his CV

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out to all of these companies, and he

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doesn't get the job, and then he feels,

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like, depressed about it. And, you know,

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he's sitting there and and and you're worrying

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all the time, you know, if I don't

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get into this career path now, then I'm

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gonna be too old to, you know, meet

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the outcomes that I had set for myself

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and all of those things.

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But on the other hand, you get this

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guy here. He knows, look here, my objective

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is I'm devoted to worshiping Allah. I'm devoted

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devoted to teaching this Deen and all of

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this stuff. What I'm gonna do is whatever

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means of risk comes my way, I'm gonna

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employ it. If it means today I'm selling

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cars, today I'm selling cars. If it means

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tomorrow I'm selling crayfish, tomorrow I'm selling crayfish.

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If it means the next day I'm,

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you know, running a cleaning business, I'm running

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a cleaning business.

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As long as I'm earning a halal, the

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risk come earning halal, the risk. And and

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I'm not like, I've seen this so many

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times.

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As I said, these guys have just unlocked

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the secret to life.

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And the reason for that is because they

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know Allah's gonna sustain them,

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but they're not lazy on account of that.

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They use the means,

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and they know that Allah is gonna be

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responsible for the outcomes.

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I've seen many Imams

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because of, you know, a committee being bad

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with him. They walk away from the job

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easily,

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And they'll tell you, no. This is what

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the, you know, the Izzah of the deen,

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the honor of deen requires of me at

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this moment in time. What are you gonna

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do tomorrow? Are you gonna look after your

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family? I don't know actually now.

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But look here, Allah is not gonna desert

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me.

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So I'm gonna see tomorrow what opportunity

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presents itself to me.

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I'm gonna see tomorrow what opportunity presents itself

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to me, and I'm gonna take it whatever

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it is.

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Even if I have to go do some

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work for somebody for that day, it's fine.

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I'm gonna employ, and Allah's gonna look after

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everything.

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But here on the other hand, this guy

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who procted his life out so clinically,

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he's constantly

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burdened.

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I mean, even when he's in his job,

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and he and he hates his job,

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he's sitting there doing somebody's accounts all day,

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and he's just he doesn't find any pleasure

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in life doing it.

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In fact, it makes him miserable, and he

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goes home, and he's bad with his family.

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He just can't see himself leaving his job

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to go do something else.

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He can't

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because it doesn't fit in with the plan

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that he has for his life.

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Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam told us.

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If only you had placed your trust in

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Allah,

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as it is Allah the right that you

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place your trust in him.

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He would have sustained you like he sustains

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the bird.

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He goes out in the morning empty, and

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he comes home in the night full.

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He goes out in the morning. He doesn't

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stay in his nest.

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He goes out in the morning to seek

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his risk,

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and he comes back in the evening sustained.

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Does he have a fridge?

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He doesn't have a fridge,

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Let alone a freezer

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to keep things for a longer period of

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time.

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So Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi wa Salam is telling

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us, Umar radiAllahu anhu narrates to us,

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if you place in Allah, if you place

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your trust in Allah as it is Allah's

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right that you place your trust in Him,

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as you're supposed to place your trust in

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Him, He would sustain you like He sustains

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the bird.

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It goes out in the morning empty bedded,

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and it comes home in the evening

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full bedded,

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enough for itself and for its family.

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That's the easy thing. But

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it's something that that I I promise you.

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If you just look to many of the

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scholars in the community, you will find

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it something that is that is true.

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They never worried.

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They never

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they know, alhamdulillah, Allah is gonna sustain me.

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And on the other hand, you find the

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person whose life is so well clinically plotted

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out,

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Difficult burden life.

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So that's what that's what is

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telling us.

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And it's not like a I'm not making

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a stigma against people with degrees. I have

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a degree as well.

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The point is

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not to not to plot out everything clinically.

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I went to do my degree. To be

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honest with you, I went to do the

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degree just because I wanted to get married.

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So I thought, okay.

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You know,

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let's go get married even.

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Everybody thinks I'm ready to get married, so

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then I'm ready to get married. But I

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knew, actually, once I'm done with the degree,

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I wanna go study Dean.

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So,

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though I was going to do the normal

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means, I'd rather my plan in my mind,

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it was very

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crazy.

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So, anyways,

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I never worried.

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I did my thing. In fact, I got

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married.

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In my 1st year of study, Islamic studies,

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I got married.

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I think I lived a good life.

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There was never a moment when I didn't

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have food. There was never in fact, it

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was my

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I religiously, every week, we used to have

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date night. I was very busy that time.

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I saw, yes, must be laughing because he

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was with me.

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I was very busy.

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Monday in the morning, I go

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study deen, come home 5 o'clock.

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After that, I go

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do some teaching.

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Once I'm done with that, after Isha, somebody

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asks a question. Now you sit another half

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an hour hour with him.

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Then after that, you,

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you know, maybe you must find time for

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whoever,

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you know,

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has a right to your time. Then you

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go sleep, tomorrow repeat.

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The only free time I had was

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Thursday night

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Sunday night.

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So it was known date night is gonna

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be either

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Thursday night. Don't criticize me.

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Thursday night or Sunday night.

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Right?

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But

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there was never a time when

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when there was nothing.

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And,

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God just takes care of everything always.

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You just have to trust the process.

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So,

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Rest yourself from plotting and planning too much.

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What other than you has undertaken to fulfill

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on your behalf, that's the outcomes

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of the means that you employ.

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Don't try to

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don't try to force it yourself.

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Don't try to force it yourself.

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Allah will always give you enough.

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But now the question is,

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how much is enough? Like, how much must

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I be employing the means?

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How little

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must I employ in my life?

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So he says, arrest yourself from having this,

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but it's I promise you, for many for

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most people, it's too difficult.

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They can't foresee themselves living

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without having some degree of planning,

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without without having some degree of security and

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assurances in place,

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without having the freezer full to some degree,

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without having the fridge full to some degree.

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Some people need to have a 500 liter

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chest freezer full to the brim.

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Some people need to have their pantry an

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entire room.

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Some people can suffice themselves with a pantry

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in 1 cupboard

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and a 200 liter chest freezer.

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Some people can suffice themselves

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with just a simple stand up freezer,

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fridge on top, freezer at the bottom.

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There's assurance in that. You have enough for

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tomorrow, the next day maybe,

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but different people are at different stages

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of that.

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So where do we look to

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to decide? Yes. We know we must employ

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the means,

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and we know that this that bead is

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something that we should actually find the rest

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from.

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We should actually find the rest from.

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And I can assure you, you know, the

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world we're living probably in in in the

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time in the world where people are most

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distressed,

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where people are most burdened, even though

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in history we're probably more affluent than any

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generation before us.

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People are still more burdened.

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People are more distracted.

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People are more depressed than ever before. People

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have more anxiety than ever before,

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despite having oftentimes more affluence.

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Like, if you just think,

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for for most of us, we can just

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think, okay. How is my parents living?

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We live

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5, 6 people in the same house, and

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my parents live 20, 30 people.

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But they were never like this. They were

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never burdened and distaste like this.

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Now even now in that time, maybe 2

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people in the house had a degree or

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whatever. Now, all the children have a degree,

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but they're still burdened.

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It just doesn't make sense.

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Something else must have changed.

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Before you could have, you know,

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you have your functions. The entire family comes

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to the function, everybody,

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and the food is there. No complaints. No

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fighting about it.

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Now you want to have

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a simple eat supper, and everybody's asking, who's

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gonna make the food? Who's gonna do this?

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Who's gonna do that?

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Like, it's a chore.

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It's crazy. Something

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changed.

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Something changed.

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And it can't be the means because now

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we have more means.

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It's something internal that changed.

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It's our understanding of what our standard of

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living should be. It's out that beer for

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our own lives. That's what's changed.

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That is what has changed.

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But, anyways, back to the point I was

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getting to.

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How much

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rest must we find from this tiddebir?

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It depends on your level.

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It depends on your level.

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And, Imam Ghazali

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he taught us about this.

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For some people

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for some people,

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they plot and plan and store and set

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away things

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that's enough

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for the entire year.

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Some might even do more than that. Imam

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al Ghazali was living in a time perhaps

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of much more pious people.

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Now a person sets enough still for the

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entire life.

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Right? We had the question yesterday,

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pension funds, retirement annuities, that setting

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the the thought in that is

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setting away enough for your entire life.

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And

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the circumstances in the world may necessitate that.

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Maybe

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a person knows, look here, I don't have

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any children that's gonna look after me.

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Maybe I have children, maybe they'll I can

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see these guys are not gonna look after

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me.

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That's a problem in and of itself because

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then you must work on something else actually.

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But, you know, if that realization is there,

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some people are in that circumstance, maybe to

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them, yes,

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it it's actually it would actually be recommended

00:30:46 --> 00:30:47

for them in the Sharia

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to take that step of having that pension

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fund.

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As long as, obviously, that pension fund does

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not, you know it's not like a haram

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pension fund. It's Sharia compliant

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or the retirement annuity Sharia compliant.

00:31:01 --> 00:31:03

Right? Because you're not breaking the law of

00:31:03 --> 00:31:03

Allah.

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

So it might even be recommended for some

00:31:06 --> 00:31:07

people in that situation.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

But let's take an ordinary person.

00:31:13 --> 00:31:15

If Imam Al Ghazali says for some people,

00:31:16 --> 00:31:17

they must

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enough for them is enough for the entire

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

year. We say now enough for the entire

00:31:21 --> 00:31:22

lifetime.

00:31:23 --> 00:31:23

Right?

00:31:24 --> 00:31:26

Lesser than that may be enough for 10

00:31:26 --> 00:31:26

years.

00:31:27 --> 00:31:29

Some people, on account of their spiritual statement,

00:31:29 --> 00:31:31

what they're ready to bear

00:31:32 --> 00:31:34

without being constantly worried about things,

00:31:35 --> 00:31:36

is that they can sit away enough for

00:31:36 --> 00:31:37

a year.

00:31:39 --> 00:31:40

Some people,

00:31:41 --> 00:31:43

they need enough for a month,

00:31:45 --> 00:31:47

and many people live like that.

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

It's only the middle class who middle class

00:31:49 --> 00:31:52

who can't fathom that. How can I only

00:31:52 --> 00:31:53

have enough for a month? No. No. There's

00:31:53 --> 00:31:54

many. Like,

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there's many, many in our society,

00:31:58 --> 00:31:59

the most unequal society.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

One of the most unequal society. I'm not

00:32:02 --> 00:32:03

sure exactly, but I think we are the

00:32:03 --> 00:32:04

if I think we are the most unequal

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

society in the world.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

There's many people who live like that.

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

And if you've never seen that,

00:32:11 --> 00:32:14

then, you must get around a little bit.

00:32:15 --> 00:32:18

You must take a drive around town and

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

speak to people,

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

not only rich people.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

Right? Some people,

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

they need to set away enough for a

00:32:27 --> 00:32:29

month. They need to have that stored. They

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

need to live at least a month in

00:32:31 --> 00:32:31

advance.

00:32:33 --> 00:32:35

Some people live a week in advance.

00:32:36 --> 00:32:38

Some people, they can live with enough for

00:32:38 --> 00:32:39

the day.

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

And there were companions like that.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:45

But even amongst the companions, that wasn't the

00:32:45 --> 00:32:45

norm.

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

Even amongst the companions

00:32:49 --> 00:32:51

that wasn't the norm. And you might go

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

to do the verse before.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

They ask you, oh Muhammad

00:32:56 --> 00:32:57

what should they spend?

00:32:57 --> 00:32:59

Say to them, oh Muhammad

00:33:02 --> 00:33:03

they should spend what is surplus.

00:33:05 --> 00:33:06

So even the companions

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

differed in what is surplus.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:11

Some of them

00:33:11 --> 00:33:14

felt that, you know, you to have your

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

needs for the entire year, that's fine. What

00:33:16 --> 00:33:18

is over and above that, that's surplus.

00:33:20 --> 00:33:21

And there was a time in the latter

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

part of the life of Rasulullah

00:33:24 --> 00:33:25

We know Rasulullah

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

generally

00:33:27 --> 00:33:28

to be have been poor.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

But in the latter part of the life

00:33:32 --> 00:33:32

of Rasulullah

00:33:33 --> 00:33:34

it's recorded in

00:33:35 --> 00:33:37

the Mu'azam Sahih of At Tabarani

00:33:39 --> 00:33:39

that Rasulullah

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

SAW, would give his wives

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

a certain amount

00:33:44 --> 00:33:48

because remember when Muslims would conquer places etc,

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

then they would get booty

00:33:51 --> 00:33:53

And a certain amount of that booty was

00:33:53 --> 00:33:55

specifically for Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam. So

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

when Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam would get

00:33:57 --> 00:33:59

it, he would give it to his family.

00:34:01 --> 00:34:02

And if you actually

00:34:02 --> 00:34:05

visualize the amount that's mentioned in the hadith,

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

It's like an

00:34:07 --> 00:34:07

entire

00:34:08 --> 00:34:08

room

00:34:09 --> 00:34:09

full

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

of staple foods.

00:34:12 --> 00:34:13

It's quite a lot.

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

It's an entire room full.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

So, Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wa sallam would give

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

that to his wives and it would be

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

like what is enough for an entire year.

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

So we know that it's permissible to do

00:34:25 --> 00:34:26

that. Certainly.

00:34:27 --> 00:34:28

Look

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

what our mothers did with it.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:33

Is a different thing.

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam would give it to

00:34:37 --> 00:34:37

them,

00:34:39 --> 00:34:40

and it was these,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

but they were generous women, pious women. They

00:34:43 --> 00:34:44

would in turn give it away.

00:34:45 --> 00:34:46

We know of Aisha

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

when she was given things like that, she

00:34:49 --> 00:34:50

would sit for the entire day and give

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

away and give away and give away until

00:34:52 --> 00:34:52

she had nothing.

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

But the fact that Rasulullah SAW

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

gave it to them shows that it's okay

00:34:59 --> 00:35:00

to have.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

The fact that they gave it away shows

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

their level of piety.

00:35:08 --> 00:35:08

Right?

00:35:09 --> 00:35:10

So, Imam Al Ghazali tells us people are

00:35:10 --> 00:35:11

at different levels.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

Right? At different levels and stages in their

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

journey to Allah, stages

00:35:17 --> 00:35:18

in the degrees of tawakkul.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:23

So you must as Imam as, Ibn 'Atha'ala

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24

is telling you, you must your nafs must

00:35:24 --> 00:35:26

find the rest. If your nafs find the

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

rest after having a year supply, fine. Be

00:35:28 --> 00:35:29

be satiated.

00:35:30 --> 00:35:32

But we oftentimes find people who have enough

00:35:33 --> 00:35:35

for 2 or 3 lifetimes,

00:35:37 --> 00:35:38

living lavishly,

00:35:39 --> 00:35:40

and then they still want more,

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

and they have no purpose for them more.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

It's a crazy thing. We should actually be

00:35:47 --> 00:35:47

striving

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

to be of those who require less security

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

and less assurances.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:54

That's why, you know, there's one parable that

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55

comes to mind.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

Once

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

a person, a traveler, he went to meet

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

this pious person,

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

and so

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

he knocked on the door. The pious person

00:36:07 --> 00:36:08

let him in,

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

and he saw that the house was fairly

00:36:10 --> 00:36:11

empty.

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

Not much furniture.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

So the person asked him, look.

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

Where's your furniture?

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21

So the person told him

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

asked him,

00:36:23 --> 00:36:24

where's yours?

00:36:30 --> 00:36:31

He went to the purse the pious person's

00:36:31 --> 00:36:32

house.

00:36:32 --> 00:36:34

The pious person you asked him, where's your

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

furniture?

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

The pious person asked the traveler, where's yours?

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

So he said, I'm a traveler. I can't

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

carry my furniture with me.

00:36:44 --> 00:36:45

So the pious person told me told him,

00:36:45 --> 00:36:46

well, I'm also a traveler.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

The dunya is my journey.

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

So why must I carry my furniture with?

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said,

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

Be in this dunya as if you are

00:37:06 --> 00:37:06

a stranger

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

or a wayfarer or a traveler.

00:37:11 --> 00:37:12

Be in this dunya

00:37:15 --> 00:37:16

as if you are a stranger

00:37:17 --> 00:37:18

or a traveler.

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

Travelers don't need too much.

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

But, again, even in that journey, some people

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

travel lighter than others.

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

Right?

00:37:28 --> 00:37:29

So

00:37:30 --> 00:37:31

I don't want to I don't want anybody

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

to leave with an irresponsible

00:37:33 --> 00:37:33

thought

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

that they must give everything away.

00:37:39 --> 00:37:41

You have to assess your state.

00:37:42 --> 00:37:43

You have to assess what you can handle

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

and what your family can handle.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

And then, if you so desire to be

00:37:49 --> 00:37:52

of that elect view, you can work towards

00:37:52 --> 00:37:53

meaningless.

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

Right?

00:37:57 --> 00:37:57

Look,

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

some people you can get in a heightened

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

state in your adikaf, but we don't want

00:38:01 --> 00:38:02

effervescence.

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

Right? We don't want you to go home

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

and give away everything.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:08

Right?

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

And remember the other this is now

00:38:12 --> 00:38:14

we after talking a lot about this, Hikma,

00:38:14 --> 00:38:15

I must tell you about the other one.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

Right?

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

You must use the ezbab.

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

But rest your nafs. Don't even worry.

00:38:30 --> 00:38:31

Don't even worry.

00:38:32 --> 00:38:33

Don't worry.

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

Use the means but don't worry.

00:38:38 --> 00:38:38

So may Allah

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

guide us to,

00:38:40 --> 00:38:43

you know, to to attain the correct understanding.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:44

It's a fine thing,

00:38:45 --> 00:38:46

and I can't sit here

00:38:48 --> 00:38:51

and say how it applies to every person's

00:38:51 --> 00:38:51

life.

00:38:53 --> 00:38:54

I can sit here and tell you what

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

the virtue is.

00:38:57 --> 00:38:59

You have to assess. You have to introspect

00:39:00 --> 00:39:02

and reflect upon your circumstance in your life

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

and see how it applies to your life.

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

And if you are smarter than that,

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

you need to get somebody who has attained

00:39:10 --> 00:39:11

these states,

00:39:13 --> 00:39:14

who knows how to guide other people in

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

this regard,

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

and ask them, look here, man. Help me

00:39:18 --> 00:39:19

do a life audit.

00:39:20 --> 00:39:20

Nowadays,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:23

people use the word, you must have a

00:39:23 --> 00:39:23

life coach.

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

You must have all of these things. In

00:39:26 --> 00:39:27

the past, what we called is you must

00:39:27 --> 00:39:28

have a Sheik.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:33

Now I'm serious. That is that's what it

00:39:33 --> 00:39:34

is.

00:39:35 --> 00:39:36

Right?

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

So if you want a life coach, okay,

00:39:38 --> 00:39:39

by all means, but, hopefully, you get a

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

life coach that can guide you properly.

00:39:43 --> 00:39:43

Right?

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

Previously, it was called getting a share, but

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

I'm not saying you have to. If you

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

have chance that you want, let it be

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

a friend that has

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

that has insight that can help you.

00:39:57 --> 00:40:00

And, if it what I'm saying is, actually,

00:40:00 --> 00:40:01

before that, before a friend, if it's not

00:40:01 --> 00:40:04

a sheikh of of of of of Tasgir

00:40:04 --> 00:40:06

that has walked the path completely,

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

then let it be a sheikh of Elmi,

00:40:12 --> 00:40:14

a sheikh who knows the Sharia, etcetera,

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

who might know these things theoretically

00:40:17 --> 00:40:19

and who can help you then, you know,

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

make decisions.

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

There's many of them. You can speak to

00:40:22 --> 00:40:25

Mawlana Muhammad Khan. He's somebody that I view

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

to have that insight.

00:40:27 --> 00:40:28

He's not a,

00:40:29 --> 00:40:32

you know, he doesn't position himself as a

00:40:32 --> 00:40:32

sheikh of Tarbiyyah

00:40:35 --> 00:40:36

or anything like that. He doesn't position himself

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

as a sheikh of Tarbiyyah, but he's somebody

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

that I deemed to have

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

the wisdom and insight to guide people in

00:40:41 --> 00:40:43

their life. There's many others. Maul Muhammad, many

00:40:43 --> 00:40:45

others. And you'll find them in every community.

00:40:45 --> 00:40:46

I'm sure this community

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

is people who I deem to be very

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

divorced from the dunya who perhaps can help

00:40:51 --> 00:40:51

you as well.

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

But seek out those seek out that help.

00:40:58 --> 00:41:00

You know, sometimes you can do a DIY

00:41:00 --> 00:41:00

job,

00:41:01 --> 00:41:02

but you might end up with some

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05

funky walls, skew, etcetera.

00:41:06 --> 00:41:06

Right?

00:41:10 --> 00:41:10

But

00:41:11 --> 00:41:14

the the desire must be there. To have

00:41:14 --> 00:41:14

rahatulbal,

00:41:15 --> 00:41:18

to have rahatul to have our nafs rested.

00:41:19 --> 00:41:20

Our hopes in Allah.

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

The reality that the outcomes are in Allah's

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

hands. We tie our bodies

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

like I said before,

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

your limbs

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

work and your heart

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

they rest

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

in the knowledge that everything is in Allah's

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

hands.

00:41:40 --> 00:41:43

But again, don't run away with ourselves.

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

People are at different levels. They can they

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

they can live with different degrees of rest.

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53

So do your own introspection, your own life

00:41:53 --> 00:41:55

audit and see where you are, where your

00:41:55 --> 00:41:57

family is and then you can work from

00:41:57 --> 00:41:58

there.

00:41:58 --> 00:41:59

Then you

00:41:59 --> 00:42:00

can move from

00:42:01 --> 00:42:01

there.

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03

Right? That understood?

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

So I think that also answers your retirement,

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

annuity, pension fund question.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:09

First thing is that Sharia compliant. If it's

00:42:09 --> 00:42:11

Sharia compliant, then it's off the table.

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

Because now you want to do planning

00:42:15 --> 00:42:16

that Allah is telling you is haram. You

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

can't do that kind of planning.

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

That's not the asbaab. That's you must make

00:42:20 --> 00:42:22

the jirid there. You can't use that asbaab

00:42:22 --> 00:42:23

at all. It's off the table.

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

But if there's a Sharia compliant option,

00:42:27 --> 00:42:29

then you can take it, by all means.

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31

Sometimes it may even be a wise thing

00:42:31 --> 00:42:32

to do.

00:42:33 --> 00:42:35

But some people, they might not see the

00:42:35 --> 00:42:36

need for it.

00:42:37 --> 00:42:39

Some people might not see the need for

00:42:39 --> 00:42:39

it.

00:42:41 --> 00:42:43

And there's not a problem in relation to

00:42:43 --> 00:42:44

them not seeing a needful

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

as long as they're not expecting handouts, etcetera.

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

Right? So I hope that's understood.

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

Rest yourself from too much plotting and

00:43:00 --> 00:43:02

planning. What other than you has undertaken to

00:43:02 --> 00:43:03

fulfill on your behalf?

00:43:06 --> 00:43:08

Don't you try to undertake it yourself.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:10

May Allah Subhanu wa Ta'ala guide us.

00:43:11 --> 00:43:13

Make us people of ease, make us people

00:43:13 --> 00:43:15

of rest, make us people of,

00:43:15 --> 00:43:16

you know, contentment.

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

And may Allah Subhanu wa Ta'ala see to

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

all our needs. Right.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

Well, this all end for today Insha'Allah. Are

00:43:24 --> 00:43:25

there any questions?

00:43:29 --> 00:43:29

No?

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

That's clear? Alright. We will carry on tomorrow

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

Insha'Allah with the next one. Let's see. Let's

00:43:34 --> 00:43:35

read it.

00:43:36 --> 00:43:38

You can think about it.

00:43:38 --> 00:43:39

Ichdihaduka

00:43:40 --> 00:43:41

female duminalak.

00:43:44 --> 00:43:45

You're exerting effort

00:43:46 --> 00:43:49

in what has already been guaranteed for you.

00:43:53 --> 00:43:55

And you falling short

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

in what was requested from you.

00:44:03 --> 00:44:04

Is a sign

00:44:05 --> 00:44:07

that your insight is being blurred,

00:44:09 --> 00:44:10

that your intellect

00:44:10 --> 00:44:11

is being blurred.

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

The ability to use your intellect and insight

00:44:14 --> 00:44:16

is being taken away from you.

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

Right? I'm gonna say it again.

00:44:21 --> 00:44:23

You exerting effort in relation to what has

00:44:23 --> 00:44:25

been guaranteed for you.

00:44:28 --> 00:44:30

And you falling short in what has been

00:44:30 --> 00:44:31

requested from you.

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

Alilun is a sign or is a proof.

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

Alam tumaosil basiratimink

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

is a sign that your intellect and your

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

insight is being taken away from you.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

So may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

00:44:45 --> 00:44:46

not let our intellect be taken away from

00:44:46 --> 00:44:47

us.

00:44:47 --> 00:44:49

Make us intelligent people but we'll talk about

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that more but a bit more about that

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tomorrow

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Insha'Allah.

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We're in there for now.

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