Yusha Evans – The End of Everything

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The speaker discusses the temporary nature of life and the impossible nature of existence until everyone refuses to accept their existence until they realize that everything is impossible until they realize it. They also discuss the value of the world and the importance of settling for the right way to avoid war and make peace among people. The Qantarah is a promise from Allah and the speaker emphasizes the importance of not letting go of things for the sake of Islam.

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			فَإِنَّ أَسْدَقَ الْحَدِيثِ كِتَابُ اللَّهِ وَخَيْرُ الْحَدِّي حَجُّ
		
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			مُحَمَّدٍ صَبَّ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمْ وَشَرَّى الْأُمُورِ مُحْدَثَاتُهَا
		
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			وَكُلَ مُحْدَثَةٍ بِدْعَةٍ وَكُلَ بِدْعَةٍ دَلَالَ وَكُلَ دَلَالَةً
		
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			فِي الْنَّارِ The end of everything, the end
		
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			of absolute everything will happen one day.
		
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			Allah ﷻ says in the Qur'an, Everything
		
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			will be destroyed.
		
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			Everything will be perished.
		
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			Everything will come to an end except for
		
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			His face.
		
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			There is coming a day.
		
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			There is coming a day where Allah ﷻ
		
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			will command Israfil who was created with a
		
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			single purpose.
		
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			He will command him who has been waiting
		
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			for a very long time to blow his
		
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			trumpet.
		
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			And when he blows his horn, everything that
		
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			has ever been alive will be dead.
		
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			Everything that has ever existed will stop existing.
		
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			Everything that has always been temporary will come
		
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			to its final end.
		
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			And it will be the beginning of everlast.
		
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			This is the breaking point.
		
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			Because everything that has ever existed, everything that
		
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			is created now is temporary.
		
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			It's temporary.
		
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			It was never meant for permanence.
		
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			It was never meant.
		
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			Life shows us this.
		
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			Allah ﷻ gives us many signs about the
		
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			impermanence of life.
		
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			One of them is simply death.
		
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			You see many people coming and going.
		
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			But Allah ﷻ shows us through the changing
		
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			of the seasons.
		
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			Allah ﷻ shows us through the growing of
		
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			plants and the dying of plants, the growing
		
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			of stars and the dying of stars, the
		
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			growing of galaxies and the death of them,
		
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			etc., so on and so forth, that nothing
		
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			ever created was meant to be permanent.
		
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			Nothing that was created is meant to be
		
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			permanent except for two creations of Allah ﷻ.
		
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			Those two creations that are meant to be
		
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			permanent were Al-Jannah and Jahannam.
		
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			Those two are permanents.
		
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			And when that day comes, when Allah says
		
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			everything will be destroyed, it will be the
		
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			end of everything temporary.
		
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			After that day, the only thing that will
		
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			be left will be permanence.
		
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			And that permanence will only be in one
		
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			of two positions.
		
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			Now we look at ourselves in life, we
		
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			find ourselves in many positions.
		
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			You can find yourself in a good status
		
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			in life and that can change in bad
		
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			status.
		
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			You can find people in horrible status.
		
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			There's so many different stations in life we
		
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			can find ourselves in.
		
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			And we find that as we grow as
		
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			well, we enter into different phases and stations
		
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			in life.
		
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			We start out as a baby and if
		
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			you live long enough, you'll end up in
		
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			the same type of position when you get
		
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			old.
		
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			But the station after that day when Allah
		
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			ﷻ says, قُلُوا شَيْءٍ حَالِكُمْ إِنَّا وَجْهُمْ After
		
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			that day, the only two stations will be
		
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			the people of Al-Jannah and the people
		
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			of Al-Jahannam.
		
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			And the people of Al-Jannah will only
		
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			be those who believe in La ilaha illa
		
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			Allah.
		
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			That's it.
		
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			There is no doubt in the mind of
		
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			a Muslim whose amfeedah is sound.
		
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			That there will be no people who will
		
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			enter into Al-Jannah except for the people
		
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			of La ilaha illa Allah.
		
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			And I have been asked many times.
		
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			It's a question that pops up a lot.
		
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			What about the people who never heard about
		
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			La ilaha illa Allah?
		
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			What about the people whom Islam never even
		
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			was presented to them?
		
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			You think Allah ﷻ doesn't have knowledge of
		
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			everything?
		
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			You think when Allah ﷻ says He is
		
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			Al-'aleem, He does not know?
		
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			He does not know if He brings that
		
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			person in front of Him on the day
		
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			of judgment and He knows exactly what they
		
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			would have done if Islam was presented to
		
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			them?
		
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			Allah knows every, I've told you this, Allah
		
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			knows every third thread of every possible reality.
		
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			He will show that person and know that
		
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			if I had presented Islam to you, if
		
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			someone had presented this tawheed to you, you
		
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			would have accepted it?
		
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			So you're a person of Jannah, or you
		
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			would have refused it?
		
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			So you're a person of Jahannam.
		
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			And how could anyone argue with the Almighty
		
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			Allah ﷻ and His wisdom?
		
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			That is the only permanence that will be
		
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			after that day.
		
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			The reason why I want to remind us
		
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			of this temporary station of everything else that
		
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			exists is that we have concepted in our
		
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			minds and we live our lives as if
		
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			the opposite is true.
		
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			We live our lives as if this world
		
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			is permanent.
		
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			As if this life is permanent, it's everlasting,
		
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			it's never going to end.
		
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			We build our lives here like we will
		
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			never leave them.
		
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			And we treat the akhirah as if it
		
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			is something that is temporary, something that is
		
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			a maybe, something that is a possibility, something
		
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			that might even be a fairytale.
		
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			I've had these conversations with people, with Muslims.
		
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			When you treat this life as if it's
		
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			permanent, as if it's everything, the end all
		
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			and have all, it causes the problems we
		
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			see in the world today.
		
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			It causes the greed that we see in
		
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			the world today.
		
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			Fighting and killing each other over something that
		
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			does not even belong to us.
		
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			Something that we will never even truly possess,
		
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			never even truly possess.
		
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			And we will find ourselves dealing with one
		
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			another in the manner that we deal with
		
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			one another.
		
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			That is if this is the end all
		
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			have all.
		
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			This is temporary.
		
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			How are we going to feel?
		
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			How are we going to think?
		
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			How is our position in our hearts and
		
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			minds going to be on the day when
		
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			the true realization comes to us that this
		
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			was temporary?
		
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			And we look back at everything we've done.
		
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			How much?
		
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			There is a reason Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala calls the day of judgment, the day
		
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			of regret.
		
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			How much will we regret?
		
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			Because there is going to come a point
		
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			in every single one of our lives.
		
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			When that will happen, no one knows.
		
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			But there is going to become a point
		
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			when the angel of death will present himself
		
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			to you.
		
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			You will take your last final look at
		
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			this world.
		
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			And as that last final look is being
		
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			made, when the veil between this and the
		
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			akhira, between this and the barzakh begins to
		
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			be lifted.
		
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			Because when a person, when the angel of
		
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			death presents himself, that veil becomes lifted.
		
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			The things that we can't see now, you
		
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			start seeing them.
		
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			You start seeing the angels.
		
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			You start seeing all of these things.
		
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			When you take that last look at your
		
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			life, when you take your last look at
		
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			your family, when you take a last look
		
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			at the world that you built around you,
		
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			you will realize that none of it was
		
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			worth it.
		
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			Not a single bit of it was worth
		
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			anything if it doesn't end in the pleasure
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			If it does not end with Allah saying
		
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			that He is pleased with you, you'll realize
		
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			it was worthless.
		
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			You'll realize none of it mattered.
		
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			You'll realize that the argument that I had
		
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			with my brother was so stupid, so meaningless.
		
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			The arguments I had with my children, the
		
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			way I treated them, the way I treated
		
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			my parents, the way I treated my siblings,
		
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			the way I treated my brother or my
		
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			sister in faith, the way I took this
		
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			one's rights, the way I spoke ill against
		
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			this one, the way I backbite this one.
		
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			All of it, you'll be like, it was
		
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			worth nothing.
		
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			It is such a shame and a waste.
		
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			But it'll be too late.
		
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			It'll be too late.
		
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			Wise is the man who takes heed before
		
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			it's too late.
		
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			Wise is the man who takes lesson before
		
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			the lesson is taken on him.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ, when talking about the value
		
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			of this world that we fight so hard
		
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			over, and kill each other over, and are
		
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			willing to wreck relationships over, and wreck people's
		
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			lives over.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ was once walking with his
		
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			companions, and he picked up a dead carcass,
		
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			picked up a dead carcass of an animal,
		
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			held it by his ear.
		
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			And he said, which one of you would
		
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			buy this from me?
		
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			For a dinar or a dirham, I can't
		
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			remember which one was, but very cheap, like
		
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			a penny.
		
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			Which one of you would buy this from
		
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			me for a dollar?
		
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			They said, Ya Rasulullah, we wouldn't even take
		
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			it from you if it was free.
		
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			Even if you're offering it to us for
		
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			free, none of us wanna take this stinking
		
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			thing home.
		
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			He said, No.
		
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			That this world and everything that is contained
		
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			in it, is more repulsive, more meaningless, in
		
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			the sight of Allah ﷻ, than this is
		
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			in your eyes.
		
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			That is the value of this world, it's
		
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			nothing.
		
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			Once the Prophet ﷺ was sitting with his
		
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			companions, and he asked them a question.
		
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			If you were here for Wednesday, during our
		
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			da'wah training session, you'll realize that questions
		
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			were a sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ, in
		
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			teaching, and they are a psychologically proven way
		
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			to teach people things.
		
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			He asked his companions, Who is the faqeer?
		
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			Who's the bankrupt person?
		
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			Who's the poor person?
		
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			Who's the real poor person?
		
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			They said, Ya Rasulullah, it's the person who
		
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			has no money.
		
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			Right, that's the way we look at it.
		
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			He's poor, he has no money.
		
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			He said, No, that's not a poor person.
		
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			He said, The bankrupt one, the real poor
		
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			person, is the person who has a vast
		
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			amount, a great amount of good deeds in
		
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			this life.
		
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			They come before Allah on the Day of
		
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			Judgment with a good deeds size of a
		
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			mountain.
		
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			But because they took the right of another,
		
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			because they back bit another, because they slandered
		
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			this one, because they oppressed that one, they
		
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			took that one's right, they did not honor
		
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			the word of this one or that one,
		
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			then Allah will begin to take away from
		
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			their good deeds and give it to those
		
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			whom they wronged until they run out of
		
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			good deeds.
		
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			And then the evil deeds of those whom
		
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			they have wronged will be put on their
		
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			backs and they'll be dragged into the fires
		
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			of *.
		
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			That is bankruptcy.
		
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			To live your whole life doing good, only
		
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			to see it turn into dust on the
		
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			Day of Judgment or be given to others
		
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			because you treated this world like it was
		
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			permanent.
		
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			You treated this like it was everything.
		
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			There is a station on the Day of
		
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			Judgment.
		
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			We know about, and I've talked about the
		
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			Day of Judgment is past, but we know
		
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			about when we're resurrected and Allah is destroying
		
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			everything.
		
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			He's starting all over, only Jannah and Nahr
		
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			after that.
		
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			We know that our books will be given
		
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			to us.
		
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			We will get our deeds.
		
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			After that our deeds will be weighed because
		
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			it just doesn't matter about the amount sometimes,
		
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			it's about the weight.
		
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			Some people will have very little that will
		
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			weigh very heavy.
		
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			And you'll have some people who have a
		
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			whole lot that will have very little weight
		
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			to it.
		
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			After the deeds are weighed, the people of
		
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			Al-Jannah, the people who are supposed to
		
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			go to Paradise, the people whom Allah has
		
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			weighed them and found them that they are
		
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			good, they will cross the Sirat, a bridge
		
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			that is so thin, it's like a hair,
		
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			and it's sharper than a sword.
		
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			Some of us won't make it.
		
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			There will be people will be falling off,
		
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			people will be getting dragged down to *.
		
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			Some of us will fly across like lightning.
		
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			Some of us will crawl.
		
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			I don't care how I get across, but
		
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			some of us will make it across.
		
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			Then when we make it across, and we
		
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			think everything, you know, we're good.
		
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			No, it's not over.
		
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			Then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala calls for
		
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			the Qantarah.
		
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			After that, Allah will call all of us
		
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			together and say, now it's time to settle
		
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			the affairs amongst yourselves.
		
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			Those who wronged each other, those who harmed
		
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			another, those who backed another, those who owed
		
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			another, those who did wrong to another, those
		
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			who oppressed another.
		
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			Now is when the deeds are really taken.
		
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			And the Qantarah happens.
		
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			How many of us will be sitting there
		
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			thinking, I wish I would've never even said
		
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			that.
		
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			I wish I would've never even done that.
		
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			I wish I would've never even taken that.
		
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			It wasn't worth it.
		
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			It wasn't worth it, we've made it this
		
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			far.
		
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			And now because of our problems, because of
		
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			our silly egos, and our silly thought processes,
		
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			and our silly worries of this world, and
		
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			things that don't matter, now we have to
		
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			solve our affairs on this day.
		
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			How silly will we all look.
		
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			That's why I say, if you have a
		
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			problem with your brother or sister, solve it.
		
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			Fix it.
		
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			Make it right.
		
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			End it.
		
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			Let it go for the sake of Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			If you have a problem with your family,
		
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			fix it.
		
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			Make it right.
		
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			Make it right now.
		
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			Don't want to stand in front of Allah
		
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			on the Day of Judgment when you've gone
		
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			through all that hardship and then try to
		
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			find a way to make it right.
		
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			Make it right now.
		
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			If you've broken relationships and family, fix them.
		
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			It's one of the best things to do
		
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			is to fix and put back kinship and
		
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			ties and bond relations.
		
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			And to make peace amongst people.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, it's one of the
		
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			greatest deeds you can do is to make
		
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			peace amongst brothers, or peace amongst sisters.
		
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			We all want peace, we want to live
		
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			in peace.
		
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			The only way we're going to do that
		
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			is to understand that this world is not
		
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			permanent.
		
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			That there's nothing here that's really meant for
		
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			us.
		
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			It's here for a reason, and that reason
		
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			will come to an end.
		
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			Take as much as you need, help as
		
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			many people as you can, try to do
		
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			harm to none, and when you do, forgive.
		
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			And when they ask for forgiveness, forgive.
		
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			Let it be.
		
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			For the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala.
		
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			أقول قولي هذا واستغفر الله أولاكم فاستغفروا الآخر
		
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			الرحيم الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة
		
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			والسلام على رسول الله وعلى آله وسحبه أجمعين
		
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			نعم بعدهم Yes, please, everyone move up.
		
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			We're running out of space, inshaAllah.
		
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			I want you to think about it for
		
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			the rest of the day.
		
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			The end of everything.
		
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			Because it is coming.
		
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			It is coming.
		
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			It is a promise from Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			And that day is coming for us faster
		
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			than we know it.
		
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			The end of our everything will be the
		
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			day we meet the angel of death.
		
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			And after that, it's too late to fix
		
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			anything.
		
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			It's too late to fix anything.
		
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			The biggest regrets will be the people of
		
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			the day of judgments.
		
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			They will have regret like no other regrets.
		
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			Let us be a people who try to
		
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			inshaAllah ta'ala fix our problems and our
		
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			matters before they're fixed for us.
		
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			Let us take account of our own lives
		
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			and the lives of the people we interact
		
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			with before Allah takes the account.
		
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			Because that day is going to be a
		
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			grievous day.
		
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			And nothing will be permanent.
		
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			Everything is temporary.
		
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			Everything you see around you now is temporary
		
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			except for Jannah and Jahannam.
		
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			And all of us want to go to
		
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			Al-Jannah.
		
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			That is what you should want for every
		
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			single believer.
		
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			I said this in a fuqbah before, I
		
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			don't care if they're your worst enemy.
		
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			If they're a Muslim, you should still want
		
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			Paradise for them.
		
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			You should still want Al-Jannah for them.
		
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			That is the way the believers are.
		
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			I don't care how much wrong you've done
		
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			to me.
		
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			I don't care how much you've harmed me.
		
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			Yes, I may want my justice, I may
		
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			want it back, but I still would like
		
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			you to go to Paradise.
		
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			If Allah gave me the option of forgiving
		
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			or getting my justice, and it was up
		
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			to that for you to go to Jannah
		
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			or not, Wallahi, I would want you to
		
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			go to Paradise.
		
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			I would want you to go to Jannah.
		
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			Nothing should ever harm us in that manner
		
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			that we should not wish Paradise even one
		
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			another.
		
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			I even tell couples, and I'm gonna end
		
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			with this.
		
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			One of the hardest thing that you find
		
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			in the Muslim community is divorce.
		
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			It happens.
		
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			It's a permissibility.
		
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			It is something that is not liked, but
		
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			it is sometimes a necessity.
		
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			There's a reason why it's halal.
		
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			But I always, even in my couples counseling,
		
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			when I've counseled couples through divorce, I tell
		
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			them that no matter what's happened in your
		
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			marriage, no matter what's going on, you have
		
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			to remember at the end of the day,
		
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			you both are Muslims.
		
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			You both are Muslims.
		
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			You married each other for the sake of
		
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			Allah, you should divorce each other for the
		
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			sake of Allah, that's okay.
		
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			But remember, you are both Muslims, you should
		
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			treat each other like a Muslim should treat
		
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			one another and have love for one another
		
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			for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala.
		
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			Be willing to let go of things for
		
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			the sake of Allah.
		
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			I know there are certain things that we
		
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			can't let go of.
		
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			But as Muslims, we should always want the
		
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			best for each other.
		
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			The best for each other.
		
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			Because that is the true meaning of Iman.
		
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			BarakAllahu feekum.
		
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			Jazakumullahu khair.