Yusha Evans – Dawah Training Course Week 8

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The importance of knowing rulings and fasting in the month of July is discussed, along with the importance of researching and sharing experiences to achieve success in Islam. The use of cutting news stories and creating "hastag" moments is emphasized, along with the importance of breaking the ice to initiate a Conversation that will lead to a "hastag." The importance of learning the spiritual dialogue and making people live in better conditions is also discussed.

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			Zakat, pay zakat, pray salah.
		
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			The way Allah tells us to fast in
		
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			Ramadan, the same way Allah is telling us
		
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			U'du'u, and there is no, He's not
		
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			put any, it doesn't say, O Prophet, Ya
		
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			ayyuhal nabiyyin, call us the way of your
		
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			Lord, or this, it's a general order, because
		
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			some commands in the Qur'an are specific.
		
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			They're specific for men, or specific women, or
		
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			specific for the Prophet, or specific for certain
		
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			kind of people.
		
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			This command is known as a general command.
		
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			A general command from Allah Subh'anaHu Wa
		
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			Ta-A'la, giving us the order to
		
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			call into the way of Allah with that
		
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			we talk about, we'll talk about that inshallah
		
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			ta'ala, all the etiquettes of it, but
		
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			just like anything else is an order, then
		
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			what if I were to tell you, and
		
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			I said this in the very first seminar
		
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			for those of you, who was here the
		
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			first two or three on Sunday early in
		
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			the morning?
		
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			That's why I'm going over this again inshallah.
		
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			If I were to tell you, I have
		
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			been Muslim for 26 years, but I've never
		
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			prayed, and my excuse for not praying is
		
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			because I did not learn how to pray.
		
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			What would you tell me?
		
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			Am I excused from praying?
		
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			No, why not?
		
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			I don't know how.
		
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			If I don't know how, how can I
		
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			do something I don't know how to do?
		
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			Learn.
		
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			Learn.
		
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			Any, this is part of understanding the sharia
		
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			and asulul fiqh, anything that is a order,
		
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			knowing exactly how to fulfill that order is
		
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			also a command from Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala.
		
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			Just like praying is an order, right?
		
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			So therefore if you go to the very
		
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			basics of it, the rulings of tahara are
		
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			wajib.
		
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			You must know the rulings of tahara.
		
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			This is something that is known, by necessity,
		
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			you have to know the rulings of tahara,
		
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			because without tahara, you can't pray, right?
		
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			You need to know what is najis, what
		
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			is not najis, how to be clean, how
		
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			to make wudu, how to make ghusl, etc.
		
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			All of those rulings have to be known,
		
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			have to be known.
		
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			And then the arkaan of the salah, the
		
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			pillars of the salah, the things without doing
		
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			it, the salah is not valid.
		
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			You must know them.
		
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			You must know them, such as takbiratul ihram,
		
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			such as reciting surah al-fatiha and something
		
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			else, such as ruku and sujood and saying
		
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			you know, at least something.
		
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			All of these things are part of the
		
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			pillars of the salah that you must know.
		
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			Because you have to pray and not knowing
		
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			is not an excuse.
		
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			Therefore in da'wah, if da'wah is,
		
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			same way with zakat, zakat is an order,
		
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			right?
		
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			If I'm eligible for zakat, then I must
		
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			also, it is wajib for the Muslim to
		
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			know the rulings of zakat.
		
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			How much do I have to pay?
		
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			2.5% of what wealth over a
		
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			year that has been saved over one year.
		
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			Okay, what if I have gold?
		
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			What if I have silver?
		
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			What if I have livestock?
		
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			What if I have land?
		
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			What if I have properties?
		
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			What if I have stocks?
		
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			What if I have investments?
		
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			You know, there's so many different rulings.
		
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			But if you are eligible for paying zakat,
		
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			it is wajib for you to know these
		
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			rulings.
		
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			The same way fasting in the month of
		
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			Ramadan is wajib, knowing the rules of fasting.
		
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			We do this every Ramadan, right?
		
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			It's always right before Ramadan.
		
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			We have the, the, what is the nullifiers
		
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			of fasting.
		
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			Does this medicine break my fast?
		
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			Does the inhaler break my fast?
		
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			When does fasting start?
		
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			When does fasting end?
		
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			We're not going to get into when that
		
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			fasting starts and ends because that's a moon
		
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			war that we won't ever probably solve until
		
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			the Day of Judgment.
		
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			But regardless, you need to know the rulings
		
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			of Ramadan.
		
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			The same way about da'wah.
		
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			If da'wah is a general order from
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, every Muslim should
		
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			know how to fulfill it.
		
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			Every Muslim should know how to fulfill it
		
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			because it becomes wajib on them when the
		
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			opportunity presents itself.
		
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			When the opportunity presents itself, just like for
		
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			instance salah, one of the, one of the,
		
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			the pillars of salah is that it can
		
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			only be prayed in this time, right?
		
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			Like I'm not responsible for praying fajr at
		
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			3 in the morning if it hasn't come
		
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			in, correct?
		
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			When, when the opportunity presents itself and fajr
		
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			has entered, I am commanded to pray until
		
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			that time has ended.
		
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			I want you to look at that when
		
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			you interact with people.
		
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			That when you interact with someone and you
		
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			have an opportunity to give them da'wah,
		
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			that's like the window of order for you.
		
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			Am I going to fulfill it or am
		
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			I not going to fulfill it?
		
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			And you will be questioned.
		
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			You'll be questioned about every opportunity you had
		
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			to give da'wah.
		
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			You will.
		
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			If you don't think you will, then trust
		
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			me, it's, it's, it's gonna happen.
		
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			It's gonna happen because can you imagine?
		
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			You live next to someone for 20 years.
		
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			Not Muslim.
		
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			Live next to them, 20 years, like literally.
		
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			Now, neighbors, you know, a lot of us,
		
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			well, if you have land, mashaAllah, may Allah
		
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			bless you.
		
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			Maybe you don't have neighbors, but most of
		
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			us, we live in these boxes that they
		
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			built where you literally can hand, you know,
		
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			sugar to your neighbor through the window, right?
		
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			But you can talk to each other through
		
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			the kitchen window.
		
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			You have someone's lived within that proximity, which
		
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			is very close to the proximity of what
		
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			would have been at the time of the
		
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			Prophet ï·º.
		
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			And they don't know anything about Islam.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And you don't say nothing.
		
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			Come and go and live your business.
		
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			You both die.
		
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			And on the Day of Judgment, that person
		
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			stands in front of Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala, knowing that they don't believe, knowing that
		
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			the end of them.
		
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			But knowing then that you were Muslim living
		
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			right next to them and complains about you.
		
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			Do you think you're going to be free
		
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			from that?
		
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			Do you think that Allah is not going
		
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			to bring you up and ask you?
		
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			You knew this person.
		
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			This was your neighbor, a responsibility.
		
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			The Prophet ï·º said that neighbors, that Jibreel
		
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			came to me and he emphasized the rights
		
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			of neighbors so much upon me that I
		
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			thought he was going to make them inherit
		
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			from one another.
		
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			He thought I was going to make, he
		
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			thought Allah was going to make neighbors inherit
		
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			from each other.
		
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			That's how much the rights of neighbors were
		
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			emphasized.
		
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			So do you think they're going to live
		
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			next to someone for 25 years or do
		
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			business with them or be a co-worker
		
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			of theirs or interact with them on a
		
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			regular basis, say nothing to them about Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala, introduce nothing to them,
		
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			not even like just take a pamphlet and
		
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			take one of these, let's just say this
		
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			is one of the Da'wah pamphlets, go
		
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			and just hand it to them, say look,
		
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			just please look into this religion.
		
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			It'll benefit you.
		
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			Nothing, and you think Allah is not going
		
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			to hold you responsible.
		
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			He will, because all of the Prophets will
		
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			be brought before Allah on the Day of
		
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			Judgment, right?
		
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			And they will be asked about their conveying
		
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			of their message.
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			Every one of them will be brought.
		
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			The Prophet ï·º said every single Prophet will
		
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			be brought and asked by Allah did you
		
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			convey your message?
		
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			And they will all say yes, and then
		
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			Allah will ask the nation of those people,
		
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			did a messenger come to you?
		
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			A lot of them will try to get
		
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			away from it and say no, and then
		
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			that's where Allah will honor this ummah.
		
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			We will testify that every messenger did their
		
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			job because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala conferred
		
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			it in the Qur'an.
		
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			But if that was the responsibility of the
		
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			anbiya, what do you think the responsibility of
		
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			the ummah that is the end of Prophethood
		
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			is going to be?
		
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			Where the Prophet ï·º said, no Prophet will
		
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			come after me, but those of you who
		
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			are here today convey this message to those
		
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			that are not here.
		
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			That is our job.
		
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			That is our responsibility.
		
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			We have to bear it like a responsibility.
		
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			We have to see it as such insha
		
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			'Allah ta'ala.
		
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			It's not a pastime.
		
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			It's not a hobby.
		
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			It's an order from Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala and we are seeking to fulfill that
		
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			order insha'Allah.
		
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			Now, Today this we're getting, section one was
		
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			all about sifat al-du'a, the qualities
		
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			of the du'a, the qualities that a
		
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			person should have in order to be successful
		
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			at da'wah.
		
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			We went all the way from ikhlas to
		
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			planning in a very like strategic manner insha
		
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			'Allah ta'ala.
		
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			Now section two is going to be now,
		
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			okay, now that we know what the sifat
		
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			are, how do we go about presenting the
		
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			message?
		
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			This is where we get into the nitty
		
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			-gritty of how do we present the message?
		
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			How do we, this is the number one
		
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			thing that people ask me all the time
		
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			is how do I break the ice, right?
		
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			How do you break the ice with someone
		
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			about Islam?
		
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			The number one question I've been asked in
		
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			da'wah is, you know, I have a
		
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			neighbor how do I tell them about Islam
		
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			or I have, you know, a co-worker
		
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			or whatnot?
		
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			It's It's a very hard question to quantify
		
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			because No two individuals are alike, right?
		
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			Because if I were to tell you, oh,
		
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			well go and tell them Jesus isn't God
		
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			and why he isn't God What if they're
		
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			not Christian?
		
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			You know, I mean, that's not very wise
		
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			way to go about it If I were
		
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			to call you, do we have any doctors?
		
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			Anybody in the medical field here tonight?
		
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			No, but if I were to call a
		
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			doctor and say I have a friend who
		
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			is sick, what should I do?
		
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			What do you think the doctor is gonna
		
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			say?
		
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			I have a friend who's sick, what should
		
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			I do for him?
		
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			Yeah, he's gonna say what what's what are
		
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			some of the symptoms?
		
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			What's what's going on with him?
		
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			When you go to the doctor and you
		
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			say doctor, I don't feel well Does he
		
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			just start just writing out prescriptions?
		
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			No, he needs to know he needs to
		
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			know more a little bit more information like
		
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			they take your vitals They're gonna take a
		
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			temperature.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			What are your symptoms?
		
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			You know, how long has it been going
		
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			on etc?
		
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			He's gonna diagnose your issue and then give
		
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			you a treatment tailored to that That is
		
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			why da'wah is a specialized field.
		
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			That's why people go to college Put it
		
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			to da'wah at the University of Medina
		
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			Specializing in the field of da'wah because
		
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			it is very similar to medicine If you
		
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			don't hand the right prescription, you might not
		
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			have the best results in the end I
		
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			mean, that's like me going and debating The
		
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			Trinity with someone who's a Hindu like they
		
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			don't really they don't care about Jesus or
		
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			Jesus being God or whatnot So you you
		
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			need to know people but there is general
		
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			things that I've always given to people that
		
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			look the easiest way if you don't know
		
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			what Anything anybody's about and you have a
		
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			very short amount of time just tell them
		
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			that you were created by God alone to
		
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			worship him alone and You should research the
		
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			religion of Islam because it is the only
		
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			one true religion still left on the planet
		
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			earth That was from the time of Adam
		
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			until now 15 seconds.
		
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			I've left that person with something.
		
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			That is what you call elevator conversation, right?
		
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			Like I am going three floors in the
		
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			elevator.
		
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			I got 15 seconds 30 seconds and maybe
		
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			with this person simple.
		
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			Have I done that way in that point?
		
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			Yes because the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			you say even just tell people who la
		
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			ilaha illallah took me from Say that there
		
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			is no God but Allah and I guarantee
		
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			you success So that way can't be simplistic
		
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			or if you know someone more personally, you
		
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			can get very detailed with it It all
		
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			depends and that's what we're gonna go through
		
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			We're gonna go through simplistic to the most
		
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			detailed that we can get into a long
		
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			time and I'm not an expert on all
		
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			religions I'm telling you that right now I
		
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			there's some I've done enough research on Other
		
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			isms in in religions to know where the
		
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			fault lies and that's all you need to
		
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			know but for sure Christianity, which is probably
		
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			the the majority of what you come in
		
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			contact with here in America, especially in Texas
		
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			is More or less my specialty.
		
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			That's why I will get very deep into
		
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			Christianity because not every Christian is the same
		
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			either You're not gonna talk to a Baptist
		
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			to say the way you're gonna talk to
		
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			a Lutheran You're not gonna talk to a
		
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			Methodist the same way.
		
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			You're gonna talk to a seventh-day Adventist
		
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			etc.
		
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			Like they believe different things about Jesus.
		
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			They believe different things about the Bible, etc
		
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			We'll get into that shama but easiest way
		
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			to get One of the easiest ways to
		
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			break the ice and get your foot in
		
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			the door is using the Sunnah of the
		
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			Prophet alayhi salatu wassalam one of his most
		
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			Used teaching methods to the companions.
		
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			Anybody know what it was?
		
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			teaching method methodology Questions there it is questions.
		
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			He used to ask questions.
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			Just read the hadith of his interaction with
		
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			the companions when you want to tell them
		
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			something a lot of times He would start
		
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			it with a question This is a beautiful
		
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			psychological principle as a matter of fact because
		
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			rather than telling you something because how many
		
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			of your children?
		
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			Oh I mean how many of you know
		
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			that when you tell your children something it
		
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			goes in one ear and right out the
		
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			other like There's nothing in the middle, right?
		
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			I've learned when I ask my kids things
		
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			They look at me like, huh?
		
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			Like I'm I have their attention, right?
		
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			Like normally I'm just speaking out of them
		
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			ask them questions because when you ask someone
		
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			a question It causes it's something in their
		
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			brain to open right because then they have
		
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			to process like wait a minute What was
		
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			what was I just asked rather than saying
		
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			go clean your room?
		
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			I'll look at my son's room and be
		
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			like why is this here?
		
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			Why is that there?
		
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			What because then they how he has to
		
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			answer right?
		
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			He has to answer me right then say
		
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			go and clean your room Okay, he didn't
		
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			hear what I said then 20 minutes later.
		
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			Why didn't you clean your room?
		
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			You didn't tell me I clean your room
		
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			Yeah, I did 20 minutes ago, but if
		
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			I ask questions and you answer them, I
		
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			know you heard me, right?
		
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			I can know you were heard.
		
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			So asking a question is a actual proven
		
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			psychology Psychological method to open the brain to
		
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			information It's been proven by science and by
		
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			psychology the questions and this is why if
		
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			you if you've ever been to a psychologist
		
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			You'll know they ask you a lot of
		
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			questions even if you say This is my
		
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			problem.
		
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			Maybe they'll even ask you.
		
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			How does that make you feel?
		
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			Because now it automatically flips you to now
		
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			having to analyze and process the information you
		
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			just said So it's it's it's a proven
		
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			fact and it was the son of the
		
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			Prophet.
		
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			Alayhissalaatu was salaam Like for instance if you
		
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			were to ask someone what is the purpose
		
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			of your life?
		
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			That is something they're gonna have to really
		
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			think about.
		
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			What is the purpose of my life?
		
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			And a person really has to ponder and
		
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			consider that what is the purpose of your
		
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			life?
		
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			And if they don't know what they say
		
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			an answer other than a right answer This
		
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			is where you can say well, if you
		
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			want to know the purpose of your life
		
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			the real purpose of your life It is
		
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			in the Quran.
		
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			God says he did not create mankind except
		
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			but that they worship him the true purpose
		
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			of human existence is to worship the fashioner
		
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			who made them and Islam is the only
		
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			Truth that is left on the planet earth
		
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			and it is actually the only truth that
		
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			has ever been So if you want to
		
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			know more about Islam, here's my card or
		
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			here's a website you can go to here's
		
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			a pamphlet here You see you start that
		
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			conversation and get that person thinking inshallah Or
		
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			asking someone did you know and I've had
		
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			a lot of people look at me very
		
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			funny when I said this Did you know
		
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			one in every five people in the world
		
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			is a Muslim?
		
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			One out of every five people in the
		
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			world is a Muslim So if one out
		
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			of every five people in the world is
		
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			a Muslim Don't you think that is a
		
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			religion you should know a little something More
		
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			than what you heard on the news or
		
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			more than what the TV's told you or
		
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			more than what you've heard at church or
		
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			what?
		
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			not Don't you think you should know what
		
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			one in five people on this planet believe?
		
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			Here's some information on that.
		
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			So you see asking these questions breaking this
		
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			ice is a good way to get into
		
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			the door inshallah or making a comment Break
		
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			the ice by making a comment or statements
		
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			often followed by a question This technique works,
		
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			especially well when you're the group of people
		
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			sharing a similar experience you can also make
		
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			comments about your surroundings or by making statements
		
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			about surroundings or events to establish a common
		
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			bond and read easily and promote dialogue making
		
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			a comment such as Anybody think look I
		
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			have a couple written here But what do
		
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			you think would be a good comment that
		
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			you could make that would there would be
		
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			a door open?
		
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			Ice breaker to tell someone about a snap.
		
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			What comment could you make?
		
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			I Guess it you could say.
		
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			Yeah, if you if you were if you
		
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			knew this person was a Christian you could
		
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			say Did you know that Muslims love Jesus
		
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			Christ?
		
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			Peace be upon him and he is one
		
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			of the most honored prophets in our religion
		
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			That's a comment and most Christians would be
		
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			absolutely shocked I was I was I thought
		
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			that you guys were the Antichrist like Legitimately
		
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			and a lot of Christians believe the exact
		
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			same thing Did you will did you know
		
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			that the Quran is the only book that
		
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			has survived in its original form over 1
		
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			,400 years No other book nor the books
		
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			ever survived in this original format like that
		
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			never been altered never been tampered and ever
		
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			been touched So making these type of comments
		
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			that are true statements that are Also in
		
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			a question format are another good way to
		
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			break the ice or did you know that
		
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			so and so whoever they might be?
		
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			you know Putting on the news.
		
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			They don't do it as much then but
		
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			10-15 years ago Do you know so
		
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			-and-so does not represent the religion of
		
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			Islam?
		
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			Because that's who they associate all of us
		
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			with right like these guys and running around
		
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			and do you know these people don't represent
		
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			the religion Of Islam the word Islam means
		
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			peace the word Islam means to submit to
		
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			the creator of the heavens and the earth
		
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			With submission and obedience to obtain peace in
		
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			this life and peace in the next life
		
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			anything other than that's not Islam So things
		
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			like this very short very brief statements can
		
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			help break the ice and open the door
		
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			to present Islam to a person stating an
		
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			opinion This can be a little bit more
		
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			tricky But also it can be a bit
		
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			fun opinions work better in social situations when
		
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			you're with a group of friends or group
		
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			co-workers you might be at you know
		
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			some function at work or some function with
		
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			Outside of your work this works also for
		
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			Converts who have to go to family, you
		
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			know functions That's what another thing I get
		
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			asked a lot by converts is you know
		
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			that can I go to my dad's birthday
		
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			party?
		
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			Or can I go to my family's Christmas
		
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			dinner, or can I go to our family's
		
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			Thanksgiving dinner, etc so on and so forth
		
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			Opinions work better social situations You can state
		
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			an opinion about a current event work or
		
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			the or where you are at the present
		
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			moment You can also bring up current events
		
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			and situations that are beneficial to the subject
		
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			matter You're trying to bring forward for instance
		
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			today the Gaza crisis is something that is
		
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			a very easy conversation to open to present
		
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			Islam with what's going on in Palestine what
		
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			is going on in Palestine and and and
		
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			the atrocities that are happening for instance, you'll
		
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			find soldier situations like the the the brother
		
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			that they just Sentenced to death yesterday for
		
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			a crime that DNA proved that he did
		
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			not commit by the way How many of
		
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			you were aware of that that case that
		
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			that happened?
		
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			Yeah, the brother was proven He accepted Islam
		
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			after going to prison.
		
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			Yes, but still Facts are facts right like
		
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			DNA evidence proved He was not the person
		
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			who murdered this woman but the governor decided
		
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			not to grant him clemency in any way
		
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			or a retrial and he was Put to
		
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			death yesterday and his final statement.
		
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			He wrote his very final statement.
		
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			Alhamdulillah Allah That's all he wrote all praise
		
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			be to Allah in all situations praise be
		
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			to Allah the Lord of the worlds in
		
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			every situation Sorry wrong So using current events
		
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			using things that are happening looking for ways
		
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			Put your foot in the door for that
		
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			way This is what's called being in the
		
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			tower mindset being in a doubt or mindset
		
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			like always thinking of what is an opportunity
		
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			that I could use to present Islam to
		
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			a person and sometimes people give it right
		
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			to you, especially if you present yourself like
		
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			It's a Muslim and you walk around like
		
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			with with a stove or a short of
		
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			commies for our sisters like you're gonna get
		
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			negative comments sometimes right and have people say
		
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			things and sometimes that's that's that's That's a
		
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			that's that's an opening to the door to
		
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			be able to do it.
		
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			Just make sure That you do it with
		
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			the Hikmah as Allah Subhanahu wa'ta'ala says
		
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			with wisdom.
		
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			I remember one story Just just to break
		
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			it up and make it not monotonous.
		
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			I 2003-2004 I would always wear a
		
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			though Everywhere everywhere.
		
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			This is when I was in my, you
		
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			know, I'm out of now face, you know
		
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			Even when I traveled for speaking I'd wear
		
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			it though.
		
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			Can you it is a white guy?
		
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			Well, you know at that point when you
		
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			wear a though nobody thinks you're white But
		
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			I you know beard though at the airport
		
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			in 2003.
		
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			I Was at the airport and of course,
		
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			I always Used to get the the four
		
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			s's on my boarding pass It doesn't happen
		
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			as much now to handle you left How
		
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			many of you got in the four s's
		
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			on your boarding pass before that means you
		
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			get super super special security Right, you get
		
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			those four s's bro It doesn't in everything
		
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			even if you can have a connection flight
		
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			are you about to get the whole thing
		
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			again before you board?
		
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			It's just gonna happen.
		
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			So I had the four s's and I
		
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			was boarding.
		
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			I think this was in Newark, New Jersey
		
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			Right and That a special line for us
		
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			for SS people So they called me over
		
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			like oh, please come over here You know
		
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			special line because they had one of these
		
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			things set up where they're gonna they're literally
		
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			gonna search you And I remember one of
		
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			my fellow Southerners, you know full-on redneck
		
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			He said make sure you search that they're
		
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			Muslim real good.
		
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			I don't feel comfortable getting on a plane
		
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			with him all right, he was talking to
		
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			his buddies thinking he's being big and I
		
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			don't remember what it happened What it happened
		
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			before that?
		
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			I think I was tired I've been doing
		
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			a long weekend of traveling whatnot, but you
		
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			know, there's just we all have our moments,
		
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			right?
		
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			We all have we all have our home
		
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			where enough is enough Right.
		
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			So right there and hum to me that
		
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			I'm I'm not on the the ban list
		
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			for this than a no-fly list.
		
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			I Stopped and I put my suitcase down
		
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			and I said in front of everybody.
		
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			I said there will come a day Where
		
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			you will bargain?
		
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			Everything you've ever owned your children your grandchildren
		
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			your parents your brothers and your sisters To
		
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			stand here in this line with me looking
		
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			like the people who look just like me
		
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			So I said laugh all you want today.
		
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			I was born and raised in the South
		
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			just like you I said, you know the
		
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			Southern statement that they say laugh now cry
		
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			later laugh all you want laugh Laugh I'll
		
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			stand here and let you laugh at me
		
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			all day I said because I promise you
		
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			after the day of judgment when God is
		
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			done with each and every single one of
		
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			us the only People that will be laughing
		
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			after that day are the people who look
		
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			just like me the people in paradise Walter
		
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			You know, I'm doing that one.
		
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			There was no there was no altercation He
		
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			was he was very shocked that I said
		
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			anything that first he was shocked second He
		
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			was shocked that I spoke perfect English and
		
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			third I whipped out my South Carolina accent
		
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			He's very shocked at that and then just
		
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			walked off.
		
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			So I'm not saying that's with Hikmah But
		
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			there are times where as a lot at
		
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			the end of the verse Where Allah says
		
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			if they are obstinate with you or if
		
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			they are challenging you then you can argue
		
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			with them But you still do it with
		
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			Ihsan like I didn't cuss and scream and
		
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			yell, but I gave him I gave it
		
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			right back to him.
		
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			Don't do that all the time.
		
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			Trust me.
		
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			There are people who are crazy out there
		
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			You know, at least I know in the
		
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			airport.
		
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			There's no guns, but he's not gonna shoot
		
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			me But do it with wisdom, but look
		
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			for those inshallah to add using a cliche
		
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			Sometimes these are used so frequently because they're
		
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			effective and because they usually work Well, you
		
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			can use them just about any time in
		
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			all cases be honest and steer as a
		
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			saying the saying goes What you say isn't
		
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			as important as as you say it just
		
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			like I just said I use the cliche,
		
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			right?
		
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			Laugh now cry later cliches are called cliches
		
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			because they've been used for so many years
		
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			But they have that ring of truth to
		
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			them Just like I said in the football
		
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			not too long ago.
		
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			Every dog has his day, right?
		
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			That's a very southern saying every dog has
		
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			his day meaning that no one escapes Justice,
		
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			no one escapes justice No And even though
		
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			that's a statement here that's used by non
		
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			-muslims a lot It has even more ring
		
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			as a Muslim that no one escapes Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa'ta'ala Allah is the compeller right
		
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			like you're not going to escape Allah all
		
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			of us are going to return to him.
		
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			So sometimes using cliches Can help you open
		
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			the door You know Fortunately all Muslims are
		
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			terrorists became a cliche for a very long
		
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			time, right and I've even used that at
		
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			time like All Muslims are terrorists and you'll
		
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			see a person be like, yeah, but what
		
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			made you believe that?
		
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			I'm a Muslim by the way Now I
		
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			wasn't talking about you.
		
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			I was talking about the other one.
		
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			There's no other ones You know, I mean
		
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			like we're Muslims are Muslims And and the
		
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			word terrorism is actually a counter It's a
		
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			counter word to the religion of Islam is
		
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			a counter word to the meaning of Islam
		
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			It's a counter word to the meaning of
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			They don't go together It's like trying to
		
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			mix oil and water there can be no
		
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			such thing as a Muslim terrorist There is
		
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			either a terrorist or a Muslim There's no
		
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			such thing Even the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		
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			said that a Muslim while committing the act
		
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			of murder is no longer a Muslim While
		
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			he's committing that act he's no longer Muslim,
		
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			right?
		
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			Like he has removed himself from Islam at
		
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			that moment So I said that that's a
		
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			way to open up the door and get
		
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			people's mind thinkings and things of that nature
		
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			inshallah ta'ala and Sometimes if you're the
		
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			type that knows how to use humor well
		
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			use it wit sometimes goes a long way
		
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			humor goes a long way If anybody's watched
		
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			my story about how I came to Islam
		
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			I tried to be very pointed in the
		
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			way I did that where there are some
		
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			very serious parts I try to be humorous
		
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			even though I wasn't it wasn't funny the
		
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			day I was in the masjid and thought
		
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			they were gonna kill It is quite humorous
		
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			now being Muslim for 26 years and thinking
		
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			you know that Every time a new Muslim
		
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			I comes to listen to something I think
		
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			about myself on that day And I if
		
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			I'm given the hook by I try to
		
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			make sure that I'm like sometimes you'll hear
		
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			me I'll say and I'll translate right away
		
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			because I'm like I don't want anybody thinking
		
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			that they get me about to kill him
		
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			after This prayer, but it that that humor
		
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			sometimes Opens up because the laughter is is
		
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			medicine Even though the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam said laughing too much Then's the heart
		
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			that means if you make everything a joke
		
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			because life is not a joke But we
		
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			also know the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			used to laugh He used to laugh when
		
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			he found something funny He would laugh in
		
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			in sometimes the companions said that he would
		
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			laugh so much that we would see his
		
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			molar teeth So that's that's a real laughter
		
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			in a trouble if you found something genuinely
		
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			funny But there are some people out there
		
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			who just think everything is funny, and if
		
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			you think everything is funny Then you're probably
		
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			not a very serious person and you're not
		
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			taking very seriously.
		
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			Everything is a joke that you become the
		
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			joke That's what my grandfather taught me about
		
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			laughing way too much He said if you
		
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			think everything's a joke, then you're probably the
		
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			joke Old old southern men have some statements
		
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			if you ever meet an old southern man
		
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			on the rocking chair somewhere on the front
		
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			porch Sit down to have a conversation like
		
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			they they have some things for you.
		
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			Believe me I'm a grandfather taught me you
		
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			can fix up.
		
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			He's like you can in school Cuz I
		
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			used to I was I used to get
		
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			into fights, etc He was like, I know
		
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			you're not stupid and I want you to
		
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			understand this.
		
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			He's like there is a fix For everything
		
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			in this world except stupid You can't fix
		
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			stupid.
		
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			He's like and I know you're not stupid.
		
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			You might be ignorant You might be doing
		
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			dumb things, but don't be stupid because there's
		
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			no fix Most importantly we need to be
		
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			aware of the intent of breaking the ice
		
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			is to initiate a Conversation that will inshallah
		
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			leader that lead to Darwin and opening a
		
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			person to tarheed and an invitation to Islam
		
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			Now lastly, this is where we're in this
		
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			part about breaking the ice.
		
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			And this is a lesson that I Would
		
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			say 90% of Muslims need in the
		
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			world today What is something that is Very
		
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			easy to do the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		
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			said is sadaqa that we don't do enough
		
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			He said to blank in the face of
		
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			your brother is sadaqa smile Smile, I swear
		
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			to you.
		
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			I I am an observer right and I've
		
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			traveled around the world Muslims I I I
		
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			can understand our stereotype right because a lot
		
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			of us look like the The world has
		
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			already ended and we've already been told we're
		
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			going to * and we're just living in
		
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			it right now Like we always look angry
		
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			We even though yes, you could find a
		
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			reason to be angry right like we have
		
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			so much there's so much happening There's so
		
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			much going on in the world.
		
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			There's so much evil, right?
		
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			Yes or no, like the world is so
		
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			evil right now Do you think our Prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wasallam did not deal with evil?
		
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			Did you think he didn't deal with evil?
		
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			He dealt with people trying to assassinate him
		
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			He dealt with people calling him a madman
		
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			a magician a soothsayer a sorcerer his own
		
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			family turning on him, etc, etc, etc But
		
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			it is said about him you read the
		
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			Shema and it is said about him he
		
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			never passed anyone without a smile Never passed
		
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			anyone without a smile.
		
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			Yeah, am I right or wrong?
		
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			This is known from him that he passed
		
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			no one without a smile Look at that.
		
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			This is our Prophet.
		
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			Alayhissalatu wasallam who went through so much had
		
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			so much pressure you like I'm stressed I'm
		
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			worried our Prophet.
		
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			Alayhissalatu wasallam carried the weight of The world
		
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			literally on his shoulders Literally the weight of
		
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			the world because the Hidayah of the world
		
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			was sitting on his shoulders For the entirety
		
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			of his life from the age of 40
		
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			to the age of 63, but he never
		
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			passed anyone without a smile And he commanded
		
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			us to smile.
		
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			He even told him he said that smiling
		
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			at the face of your brother is sadaqa.
		
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			It's charity It's sadaqa.
		
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			It's an easy thing to do now Sound
		
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			like I'm sorry We just we just look
		
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			like what like our life is completely miserable
		
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			and half the time I look at you
		
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			and I'm like Why would anyone want to
		
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			be like us?
		
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			If we look so horrible and happy all
		
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			the time.
		
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			Why why would I tell someone to come
		
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			to my way of life?
		
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			Oh, it's amazing.
		
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			It's beautiful.
		
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			It's gonna sell all your problems.
		
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			It doesn't like it's solving any of yours
		
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			You understand what I'm just just by the
		
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			way you present yourself, but there's not like
		
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			you were happy at all Why would I
		
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			want to be like you?
		
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			You get me when I can go to
		
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			the church and everybody looks so happy.
		
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			They're dancing.
		
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			They're screaming They're flipping depends on how deep
		
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			you want to go in the southern church
		
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			They're running and screaming up and down and
		
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			shouting.
		
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			Just make sure you don't go in the
		
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			snake on the churches How many of you
		
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			heard of those?
		
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			Don't go in those.
		
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			They're throwing rattlesnakes around And usually it does
		
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			not end well, and that's based off of
		
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			Jesus is one of his supposed statements that
		
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			he could catch section from from from venomous
		
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			This is quite a few people have died
		
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			being that stupid don't do that Anyway, I
		
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			think they've out they pressure about Texas doesn't
		
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			outlaw anything But they've been outlawed in a
		
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			lot of states But mine smile before you
		
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			even open your mouth to tell someone else
		
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			about Islam Make it look like you are
		
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			happy to tell them what you're going to
		
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			tell them because if you were to get
		
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			a brand new car, right and You go
		
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			to show it to someone you'd be grinning
		
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			ear to ear.
		
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			I know I see you guys show me
		
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			You know like you're smiling get a new
		
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			phone right how many the iPhone 16 just
		
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			came out if you've ordered it as soon
		
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			as It comes in the mail, you know
		
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			shows about the new features.
		
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			You're smiling.
		
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			We're talking about the religion of a most
		
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			important I remember of the Rahim Green one
		
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			time saying That you would not serve a
		
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			guest a fine meal on a trash can
		
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			live You would not invite a guest over
		
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			to your house and serve them a fine
		
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			meal on a trash can That is how
		
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			we are.
		
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			Sometimes presenting the religion of Allah subhanahu wa'ta
		
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			'ala It is the most beautiful way of
		
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			life mankind for mankind Hands down.
		
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			It should be presented as such.
		
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			I should Show this person through not only
		
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			what I'm telling them but through my own
		
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			character through my own Disposition that Islam has
		
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			changed me.
		
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			It made me a better person that look
		
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			at where I came from Yes, I spent
		
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			four years in prison.
		
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			I should have been on the road to
		
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			prison or death, etc But look at me
		
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			now, you know, I mean, I'm having the
		
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			left family and father for children I have
		
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			you know, I've been all over the globe.
		
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			I've done so many things, you know, Islam
		
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			saved me and I'm happy I have peace
		
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			inside my heart.
		
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			No matter how much turmoil goes around me.
		
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			I get upset.
		
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			I get a frustrated Everybody does this human
		
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			emotions, but the core of me is at
		
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			peace because I know that Allah subhanahu wa'ta
		
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			'ala is matter That's the core The core
		
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			of me is always going to be at
		
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			peace because I know Allah subhanahu wa'ta'ala
		
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			is matter And no matter how shake everything
		
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			gets around me sometimes you have to reset
		
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			to that core But a lot of people
		
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			don't have that core.
		
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			They don't have that Center the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wasallam said Charity is prescribed for each
		
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			descendant of Adam every day.
		
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			The Sun rises He was then asked from
		
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			what do we give charity every day?
		
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			so he basically said charity is due upon
		
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			you everything so the fuck is obligatory on
		
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			Every person the Sun rises every single day
		
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			and that he didn't just say Muslims.
		
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			He said all the descendants of Adam Everyone
		
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			is owed charity.
		
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			They owe charity.
		
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			He said the doors of goodness are many
		
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			enjoining good Forbidding evil removing harm from the
		
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			road Listening to the death leading the blind
		
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			guiding the ones object to his object of
		
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			need Hurrying with the strength of one's leg
		
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			to one in sorrow who is asking for
		
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			help and Supporting the feeble with the strength
		
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			of one's arms All of these are charity
		
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			prescribed for you.
		
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			And he also said the smile and face
		
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			of your brother is charity.
		
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			So we have to remind ourselves of What
		
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			it is that we are trying to accomplish
		
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			we are trying to show people that Islam
		
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			is the correct way of life and what
		
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			I'm going to be doing through the rest
		
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			of this is the Ideological that one right
		
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			like that's what we're learning for the next
		
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			section is ideological that one this you can
		
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			learn Like Zachary Knight, right like a computer
		
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			the man's a computer, you know, I remember
		
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			I saw him in Malaysia normal bond You
		
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			know, I mean nothing's changed, you know his
		
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			son just like him, you know They literally
		
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			can quote anything from anywhere from any page
		
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			any reference They remind me of the scholars
		
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			of monotony Who are they very much similar
		
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			that they never use books like I've never
		
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			seen one of the great scholars of monotony
		
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			ever have a book in front of right
		
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			like it's all it's all right up here
		
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			the Ideological that way is easy.
		
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			All it takes is is is learning the
		
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			holistic dialogue is what we will Spend the
		
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			in part on because that's the part that
		
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			really makes the biggest impact like I have
		
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			had so many people Tell me that they
		
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			are ideologically convinced That Islam is correct I've
		
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			actually had this happen a number of times
		
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			or people and my father was one of
		
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			them that Ideologically, I agree with you Islam
		
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			is correct But what does being a Muslim
		
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			benefit?
		
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			Right, they don't see the benefit.
		
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			They don't see any reason to become a
		
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			Muslim Why why would they want to become
		
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			like us on half the time?
		
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			We're we're subjugated to where we're you know,
		
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			when you become like a second-class citizen
		
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			becoming a Muslim This is where we have
		
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			to be able to show them how Islam
		
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			improves their life how Islam improves their life
		
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			and Makes it better and makes the world
		
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			a better place and can make the world
		
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			a better place and make society a better
		
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			place inshallah So that's where the last two
		
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			sections are gonna be broken up to section
		
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			two is very long because it's gonna go
		
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			through all the religions Etc, so on and
		
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			so forth the other logical tower and then
		
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			section three will be the holistic tower.
		
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			How does Islam?
		
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			Help the world because that is the method
		
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			of The entire religion is to make the
		
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			world a better place That's the whole this
		
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			whole point of it because if not, it's
		
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			literally rules for no reason, right?
		
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			No, they have a purpose behind them and
		
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			that is to make human beings live in
		
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			better conditions with themselves And with others and
		
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			with society and with the world that we
		
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			live in inshallah to have any questions about
		
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			what we covered so far Oh Okay, inshallah.
		
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			I'll see you guys on Friday for Juma
		
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			and then on Saturday We are continuing on
		
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			with the life of Ali even a bit
		
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			wallet inshallah to Anna covering the last part
		
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			of it