Yousuf Raza – How to find fulfilment in life

Yousuf Raza
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The speaker discusses the concept of fulfillment and how it can lead to a state of complete satisfaction and peace. They give scenarios where people may need help, such as in the hospital or in a retirement plan, and how it can affect their behavior. The speaker also discusses the potential for compromise in a healthy life and how it can lead to conflict.
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But we also do a lot of things

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to achieve a sense of fulfillment.

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For this, people do a lot of things.

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They go on a tour of a country

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or go skydiving.

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People do a lot of different things just

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to get some kind of sense of fulfillment.

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A lot of people want a new and

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big house.

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They want a nice car and stuff like

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that.

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Just to have that feeling.

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So my question is, while living in this

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world, can we achieve that level of fulfillment?

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See, if fulfillment becomes our goal, that we

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achieve a state of complete satisfaction and peace,

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then what?

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Then what will happen?

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Let me give you a scenario.

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There is somebody who is suffering.

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On the road, in the hospital, anywhere.

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And that suffering person needs help.

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Okay.

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And for that help, two people look at

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him and say, this person is in need.

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This person requires help.

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Okay.

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One of the people who sees him, that

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person is also restless.

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Okay.

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He has a pain inside.

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I'm not satisfied.

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I need to do something.

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I need to get out of this state

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that I'm in.

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I need to...

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He is restless.

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He needs to do something.

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He needs to achieve something.

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The other person is in peace.

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Relaxed, chill.

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Which of them is more likely to help

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the person in need?

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Yeah, I think the one who is already

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suffering will tend to help the other one.

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Yeah.

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He knows, yeah.

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He has the...

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He knows how it feels.

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He knows how it feels.

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He has something to, you know, look forward

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to give.

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Okay.

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Versus someone who is absolutely fulfilled.

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That's sort of a retirement plan.

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It's...

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I don't know.

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Some sort of a vacation resort.

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It looks good in their advertisements.

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According to Allama, According to Allama, And

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in this, okay.

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We want...

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We alternate between...

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See, a healthy life, right?

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A healthy, mentally active life.

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We need to alternate these two states.

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Restlessness to do something.

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To get somewhere.

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And then satisfaction with achievements.

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With a relaxation.

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Some break.

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Some, of course, happiness.

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We need both of them to be alternate.

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If one of the two becomes absolute, then

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our functionality compromises.

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What we can do for the community will

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compromise it.

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See, there is so much potential in the

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human being.

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Some of which cannot come out.

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If there is no experience of something.

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You pick up history and see.

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The people who have done any significant work

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for humanity.

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They are people who have suffered.

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Yes.

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Right?

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They didn't do anything.

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They kept chilling.

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And everything was easy for them.

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And they were sitting comfortably.

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And no one ever pinched them.

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You don't find them as having contributed.

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