Yousef Bakeer – The Prophet’s Dua At Taif

Yousef Bakeer
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The speaker discusses the story of Prophet sallalContinental, including his loss of family members and chaos caused by his actions. They also talk about the lack of support and negative impact on his business, as well as the importance of listening to people and finding feedback to improve self-esteem. The speaker gives a brief recap of the three main reasons for this behavior, including turning face towards Allah, asking for help, and seeking validation from others. They also discuss the importance of seeking pleasure from others and turning one's own self into the only one who should seek pleasure.
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Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam you're selling to Sleeman Kathira

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and my dad,

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one of the most beautiful dies of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam was in a life.

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And to give you a little background about this, the Prophet

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sallallahu wasallam was going through a very difficult time of

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his life. That year we call it arm will host the year of sadness. And

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this year Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was going through a lot of

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hardships, multiple events happened, multiple life events

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happened throughout this year. He lost some family members. His

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Sahaba that was status was not at the best. They were struggling as

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a minority of Quraysh. In Mecca, his Sahaba were tortured, he was

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mocked. He was actually you know, he got tortured as well. It was

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rough time. It was very rough time. So his own people, his own

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family, actually are the ones who put him through that painful

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journey in Mecca in this year.

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So Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam figured that he can

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actually seek help and seek assistance outside of his own town

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outside of Mecca. So he decided to go to a thought, which is a town

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or a city that's very close to Mk.

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Now Prophet sallallahu Sallam had high hope, is carrying the message

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of Allah subhanaw taala. And he had high hope that the people of

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thought if eventually accept his message, eventually accepts his

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Dawa and give him that support and help that he seek.

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But what happened is the total opposite people of Fatah if we're

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more aggressive, were more cruel towards the prophets of Allah

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Allah isn't. So imagine just you running a business and you're just

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opening up a business, you're hoping in your first day for for

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your business to arise for you know, people to be excited about

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your own product, and you're opening that business and your

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first day people are totally diminishing, all of the effort

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that you have put, people are, you know, not very satisfied with your

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message. People are putting you down about your own product that

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you have been working so hard to achieve.

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Prophet was carrying something more precious than just business.

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He was carrying that the seller of Allah subhanaw taala.

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So not only that, they rejected his message but he actually sent

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even the children the slaves to chase out the Prophet sallallahu

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Sallam to throw him with stones and to humiliate the prophets,

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Allah, Allah Allah who was the Prophet sallallahu Sallam at some

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point, he felt helpless and hopeless with these people. He sat

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down under a tree. And then he made a very powerful, beautiful

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dua. He just turned his face to Allah subhanho wa Taala and he

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started speaking to Allah subhanaw taala and he said, very beautiful

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words, powerful, beautiful words that we all need to memorize in

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sha Allah Tala. Maybe today, I will just explain the very few

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first words of that dua, he said. Allah Houma. Inni Asch qu e Lekha.

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Botha Kuwaiti

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what kill like a healty. Well, when he alumnus and terrible

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Mustafa Athene Isla min tacky loony Illa Caribbean Jetta

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hegemony am Illa Isla Eden Malacca who Emery ylim yaku laka as other

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Buddha Allah yeah fella who barely lacking Rama taka wasa Aquila

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shine,

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Ya Allah. He said yeah, Allah I am very powerless, helpless. I

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complain to you, Ya Allah, Ash, Gu la cabeza, Kuwaiti, I complain to

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you, your Allah, the lack of my power, the lack of my Cova

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I need your help, I need your assistance. And then he said,

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buffer Kuwaiti working letter Haloti. I got no more strategies.

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I've tried everything. It's not working.

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Couldn't let a healer at will when he alumnus and the feeling that

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people have I am insignificant in the eyes of those people. It hurts

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because they're not seeing any value in me. They're not

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acknowledging me. So he said he started out with three things.

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Kill letter. Tell letter Kuwaiti, escuela for Kuwaiti the lack of my

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own power and power less and you are powerful. And then Basa

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olam in Yashka Laker Botha, who were T were killed, let the heal

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it. I have no more strategies. Well, when you're Elena's how I am

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insignificant in the eyes of those people. Now to give just quick

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reflections about these three things,

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three things that we can unpack from this beautiful, number one,

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if you truly

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running out of options, turn your face towards Allah. Ask Allah for

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help. He is all hearing. And he's all saying he's the one who is

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always going to listen to you regardless how much you're talking

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to him, how much complaints or how many complaints you have towards

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him. He's gonna listen to you.

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Eventually, people you know will get tired. You have many

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complaints, you speak to somebody who you trust, or you think, you

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know, that person loves you. And you start complaining, they will

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listen to you one day. And then eventually, as humans we have

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limited capacity will turn off.

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Allah subhanaw taala would actually listen to you regardless

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how many days you want to talk to him, just open your heart and talk

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to Allah subhanaw taala. So that's the first first thing. Second

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thing he said, you know, how any Arlen Ness Allah, it's beautiful.

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Because some of us we constantly seek validation from others. Some

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of us we're constantly seeking recognition from others. Some of

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us will only feel good about ourselves when we hear good

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feedback about you know about ourselves from others Rasulullah

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sallallahu sallam, he is shifting this, he's telling us Listen, the

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only one who you should please is not the people is Allah subhanaw

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taala because you're when you're constantly seeking validation from

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others, it will actually lead you to feelings of low self worth, and

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anxiety and depression, always thinking about what people think

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of you. It's very tiring. And the Prophet sallallahu sallam was

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telling Allah, Allah, Allah, I am a noble person, I'm a prophet. I

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am aristocratic from Quraysh. And they're humiliating me. But you

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know what, you are the only source you are the only one who I should

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seek pleasure from. And if you're pleased with me, I am good.

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Regardless of what people think of me, because I'm carrying the most

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precious message, which is your message. And what matters at this

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point is the pleasure of you Allah.

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Will the salah Salah Salem was showing the human side of him here

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Subhanallah it's really a learning moment. When we shift our thoughts

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from constantly seeking validation from others, and you're only

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seeking validation from Allah subhanaw taala will actually be in

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a state of getting the pleasure of people as the Prophet sallallahu

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sallam said, so you're the Allahu Allahu Akbar Ali calmness, you

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only seeking pleasure from people, Allah is the One who has control

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over people's hearts. So if Allah is pleased with you, he will

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actually make people pleased with you with you as well.

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That's the beauty of this dial. So again, few words, I want us to

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remember at least this the beginning of the art because of

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Allah, it's beautiful. And we should all always, always, always

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putting this in the back of our head, once we go through, through

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hardships or difficulties. Again Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam

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said, Allah who met in the ash code like Ya Allah, I complain to

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you Basa pulwarty, the lack of my power, the lack of my coworker I

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school, like above a Kuwaiti were killed, let her heal it. I have

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put everything all the strategies, all the plans, and it's not

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working out. I want you to help buffer who what you were

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collected. Haloti Botha Quwata Killa healty well when you're

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alumnus how, how am I insignificant in the eyes of Allah

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in the eyes of the people and I want to be recognized by you your

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Allah I'm seeking only your pleasure. Yeah, Allah. Allah

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subhanaw taala make us some of those who internalize this

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