Yousef Bakeer – A Dua when anxiety or sadness strikes

Yousef Bakeer
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The conversation covers a range of topics, including the importance of finding balance and balancing emotions, struggles with loss, and struggles with finding guidance and finding love. Examples include struggles with a woman who lost everything and struggles with finding guidance, a woman who wants to be a meanie, and the use of a stick to protect one's body and show one's emotions to others. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a new video.
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Clearly he was asked me to sell him to Sleeman kathira. One time

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amagno Hata scholem and Su blommer hottub. He was asked, How can we

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always see you smiling? How come? You're always regardless of the

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situation? You're always, you know, hopeful will always see you

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happy. You're always excited. What is the reason behind that? What is

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the secret? How do you do it?

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And then he answered, He said, You know, I always channel my

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emotions. So the Sahaba told him, What do you mean by channeling

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your emotions, he said, when things go tough. When things go,

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you know, hard on me, I'm going through hardship, I'm going

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through a really hard time.

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I know for a fact that this is going to last, this is not going

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to last, this phase will come to an end. So I don't let sadness

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take over. And the same thing would have when it comes to

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happiness, when everything is going well in my life, you know,

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healthy family, good time with my spouse, with my children, having

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my job, everything is going great. I also channeled my emotions,

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because I know it's a phase and it will come to an end. So I always

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find that balance, balanced of my emotions, and this is how I always

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keep that hope. Subhanallah This is a summary of the life of

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Prophet Musa alayhis salam. If you look at Prophet Moses life, it's

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always like this going up all the way up, and then going downhill

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and then back up again. It's like a roller coaster. It's like going

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up and down, up and down. At first, he was at the Palace of

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frown, he was treated like a king. Right? Sleeping like a king waking

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up as a as a king eating as a king. He is from that royal family

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streets just like them. So is that was amazing time for Prophet Musa

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alayhis salam. So that was up. And then all of a sudden, when he

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reached that peak, things got really tough. He was he was, you

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know, accused by murder. He was, he was forced to escape his people

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his land. All of a sudden he was jobless. He was homeless.

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Everything that you can possibly think of no money, no sustenance,

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no family, no spouse, no job, and getting lost and his family, you

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know, he's distant from his family. People are going behind

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him. He's wanted right now. This is the worst that can that anybody

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can get. And then in that moment,

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you know, hope hit Prophet Musa alayhis, salam, he was offered

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now, a job, not only just a normal job, but it was a years job secure

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job. And in fact, he was offered even 10 years if he wishes. And

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now he started to build a family. He got married, and listen to the

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father of you know, his father in law. He's doing what he told him.

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You know, like coming scared and scaping from the people of Egypt

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and the soldiers that they're looking for him. All of a sudden,

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he he was offered this hope and security and safe. The father and

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love Prophet, Musa SLM told him, latter half. Don't be scared, now

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you're good. Now that phase come to an end. Now it's a new

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beginning. So Prophet Musa alayhis, salam, God, that hope

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back back again, Hamdulillah. But after a little bit, life, from all

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the way up, goes down again. Now he's lost in the desert.

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Not only him, it's actually get even worse, because Prophet Musa

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At first he was alone, as a single man, you can handle it, no matter

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what, you know, going through hardships. At the end of the day,

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it's it's only you. But now there is more pressure, you know, on top

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of it. And that is what that's his family now. So him and his family

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and the desert in the middle of nowhere. And he's just there

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trying to find that guidance. And he didn't know how now it's the

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worst situation that can somebody can be at,

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and then life from all the way down, back up again. But this time

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was the peak that he would never think of in his life. Something

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crazy happened to Prophet Musa alayhis salam that he was not

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expecting whatsoever. He just saw that fire from very far. And it

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was like, in the US tonight. I was like, I see a fire

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Her that might be you know, a light at the end of the tunnel.

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Like that might be a little hope right there. I don't know how but

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let me just go and see what's going on Lolly attic men have been

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hovering. Yeah, it's like maybe they're good news there. I'm not

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sure I'm just gonna go and see what's gonna happen. Now he went

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there.

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Prophet Musa alayhis salam reached to the fire.

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And over there there was an incident historical moment for

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Prophet Musa alayhis salam historical moment. something great

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happened to Prophet Musa he just heard this voice yeah Musa

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acapella took off. Yeah Musa just come closer, don't worry.

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And then Musa sang was shocked land in the middle of nowhere in

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the desert. There's absolutely no human being supposed to be there

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any no create creation should be around there. And all of a sudden

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he heard that voice. This voice was very firm, and he cannot doubt

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it like it is a voice. And then after this, Allah subhanho wa

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Taala spoke to Prophet Musa alayhis salam. He told Musa

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alayhis salam in the UN Allah La ilaha illa NFR Boustany is like, I

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am your lords, I am your Creator. In the UN Allah Allah is

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introducing himself to Prophet Musa alayhis salam in the ANA

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Allahu La ilaha illa Anna there is no God worthy of worship except

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me. Far Bodine, that's the first command Prophet Musa is just

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trying to process this what's going on? No, this is this is your

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Lord, and I am giving you the first command. First he told him,

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Atlanta like in NACA, been worded muqarnas itoa Take off your shoes.

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Now you are in a sacred place sacred daily. Take off your shoes

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and listen to what I'm about to tell you. In the Annaleigh first

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command, I am your Lord Falguni second command worship me welcome

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Salah telepathically and if you want to remember me if you want to

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find me if you want to have this connection with me then pray to Me

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in this in the Salah. You will find me Alchemist solitary victory

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in Osaka add to it and he gave him a couple of commands. And then he

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told him see the tone has changed a little bit. While Mathilde can

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be a mini carrier Musa it's like at first one of the scholars said

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reflected on the ego beautiful reflection about this he said at

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first he told ya Musa so like when somebody calls you by your first

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name at first you feel like this is this is serious matter. He's

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it's a tonne of feminist strictness, Musa Mohammed Ahmed is

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like, Okay, what's gonna what's gonna happen afterwards right? You

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feel this, that serious matter right there. But Allah has changed

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that tone with Prophet Musa alayhis salam to give him that

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tranquility, that peace in his heart. So he told him, what am I

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till can be a meanie KR Musa? Like, what are you holding in your

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right hand Musa it's like that's a whole different tone when you

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actually call somebody by his name at the end of the phrase, it makes

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a big difference. Just give you that, you know, idea of intimacy a

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little bit like peaceful so gonna take me I mean aka Musa what what

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do you have in your right hand Musa Musa Ali Sam got so excited

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and now he started to feel that's not this not a dream anymore. This

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actually real I'm actually talking to Allah subhanho wa Taala so he

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told him color here saya that's that's actually my stick. It's

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like, but that's a short answer. When you love somebody, you want

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that conversation to stay longer. So you don't have the ASA at what

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what Allah and I use it to actually you know, be able to walk

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and helps me walking and he just wanted to you know, make the

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conversation a little longer. I tobacco Allah were a who shall be

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Hallahan me i Oh, I also use it to protect my shapes and forms sheets

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sustain lean, and so I use it for that purpose as well. Where li hum

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Addabbo okra, he said, like, I also use it for multiple purposes.

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You know, like Subhanallah just want the conversation to be as

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long as possible. What do you if you have my auntie Bokhara then

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Allah told him alcohol Yeah, Musa. It's like now I want to I want to

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teach you something. Okay, hi yah Musa. Just throw it.

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Musa alayhis salam

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Car like he definitely listened to Allah's command through the stick

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for either he or her yet on Tessa, now, this stick became a huge,

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huge snake. Call the hood ha ha ha just take it, don't worry. And

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don't be afraid. Just take it. How a lotta craftsanity Are you do

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hasira Tallulah it will become a stick back. Now that's the, you

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know the climax of happiness that Prophet Musa can ever think of

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getting to know Allah subhanaw taala getting to talk to Allah

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subhanaw taala so he was at the peak, now life will go back down.

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What happened after this? Now, on reality on the ground, he has the

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hardest mission ever. He needs now to go and to face frown. It's

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like, Hold on What's going on here? I don't know how to even

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speak like I struggle with my speech a little bit. And I don't

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want to go too far on now. It's, it's a nightmare.

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And then Allah subhanaw taala told him listen, I'm going to teach you

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something. I'm going to teach you something in life. I want you to

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understand this, this up and down. latter half, latter half, both of

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you. Don't worry you and your brother and take your brother, do

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your means do your effort. Do your pursuit. Right. Take your brother

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with you. Let him talk because he has a better way of talking. Yes,

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speeches is more firm. Let him handle this. Go with him. And

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don't worry.

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Now prophet, Musa alayhis salam faced that challenge. And now life

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back up again. He was able to defeat for our own a moment of

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victory. Now I'll Intisar Alhamdulillah so excited. So many

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people believe the Prophet Musa alayhis salam became Muslims,

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everything is amazing. Now the last theme of Prophet Musa alayhis

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salam look at this, because things were supposed to scare Prophet

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Musa alayhis salam, his old mindset. But Allah has changed

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that mentality of Prophet Musa alayhis salam. Now the last thing

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what happens is supposed to go down by didn't go down. When he

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was right in front of the Red Sea, right in front of the sea.

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And the soldiers that frown

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on his back. He has very few people with him, not equipped

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whatsoever, and there's a huge army on his back. Well equipped.

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Pharaoh is leading the army by himself. Facing Musa chasing Musa

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Musa and his people the seas in front of them, the armies in their

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back

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is terrifying.

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Now the people of Musa told him in nella mudra Kuhn

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that was supposed to be a down moment. You know what, the goddess

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they are going to kill us. Every and you know, each and every

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single one of us will be murdered today. They were telling Prophet

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Musa alayhis salam they were given Prophet Musa al Islam this

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message. But Prophet Musa learned by them, Hollis, Allah has showed

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him how to channel his emotions, how to channel his emotions. Now

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he said Kela that would never happen. That's not going to

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happen. In Maya Rob bisa Dean, Allah is going to be with me.

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Allah will show me a way out. I have certainty. I have your cream,

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that Allah subhana wa Taala will take care of me. I know it's

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supposed to be a down moment for me and for the believers. But you

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know what? I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I know for a

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fact that Allah will take care of me. Allahu Mahna Mahna Elena, for

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Allah is with you who is going to be against you? Why you're afraid?

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Why you're sad. This phase will come to an end.

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Always be hopeful that Allah subhanho wa Taala is going to show

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you a meet a way out just like what he did with Prophet Musa

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alayhis salam, I ask Allah subhanaw taala to always instill

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this Tawakkol and this hope in our hearts arable Alameen desert

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Kamala Highland was Salam alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh

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