Yasir Qadhi – Post Ramadan Blues

			I wanted to just have a very frank and
		

			a very honest conversation about
		

			what I would call here in Texas would work the post Ramadan blues
		

			the post Ramadan blues maybe some of you don't understand this Subhanallah here we are. Some of us
every single day, mashallah we're coming to the masjid. Some of us are spent spending 234 hours a
day. And these last 10 Nights, maybe half the night or the full night. We have 100 people in here to
take off, right? And there is no question and we feel it already, even though there's four days left
of Ramadan, that our iman right now is probably the highest it's been in the last year. Is that not
correct? We already feel it now.
		

			And we're already understanding that a week from now we won't be in this state
		

			Subhanallah the day of read will come. And for the first time after 30 days, the minute of mockery
would come and go, you're not even going to recognize it. Remember, I said this, on the day of your
ad, you will see it yourself. When Margaret Medan is called you will not even realize it until maybe
510 20 minutes later, Inshallah, at least that then you say, oh, central model is good for a Muslim,
you're not going to be counting down on that particular day.
		

			What happens after Ramadan is our iman. And our level of worship has a nosedive.
		

			It goes down.
		

			And
		

			we wonder what can we do to maintain a similar level. And this is where I'm going to give some
advice to myself and all of you in sha Allah, Allah and we can try to work on this. First and
foremost, we have to be realistic, we have to just call a spade a spade. It is not possible to
maintain this level post Ramadan. That's what makes this Ramadan. Let's be honest to ourselves, we
cannot maintain this pinnacle. I mean, tonight is the 27th we had better be not at 100% at our 200%
we had better be doing something we never imagined we could do. Right? So yes, it's good that we're
at a pinnacle. And we should recognize that this pinnacle is not going to last. But and here's the
		

			frankness that comes in. Even if we're not going to have that level of iman,
		

			we need to make sure that we maintain a higher level than free Ramadan, as I've said multiple times,
that is our realistic goal. What should happen to us post Ramadan, when we come crashing down is
that the crash is still an overall success compared to pre Ramadan. It's like the stock market,
which is now crashing May Allah protect and help all of us. It's like the stock markets, right? If
you invested 100 You went up to 200 You're so happy when it crashes to 150 Yes, you feel
disappointed, but you're like, you know what Hamdulillah I gained 50% That should be our overall
game plan or philosophy for Ramadan. Because we have given our 200% Tonight, inshallah the next year
		

			27 If we're still here, we're gonna give our new 200% which is going to be more because our capital
is more you understand what I'm saying here, right? We have a higher capital going in. So we're
going to reach a new Pinnacle next 27 And then it's going to come a little bit more down but we're
still going to be at that 1.5 Or one for however many percentage right. So my purpose of the talk
today What are three practical because you know my talks I like to be like down to earth. I like to
give some advice that is just something we can do not just theoretical, three practical steps that I
want myself in all of you to think about and implement about how we can maintain a higher level
		

			posts from Oban. Then we had preroll Bob Ramadan, point number one and I began with this point
		

			must do the attendance.
		

			Masjid attendance
		

			do not trivialize the role that the masjid plays in fortifying and protecting and increasing your
iman.
		

			I mean, this month has proven it hasn't it right? This month has proven it. Our coming to the
masjid, our coming here this frequently, our interacting with our brethren, our listening to the
recitation of the Quran, seeing everybody even if you're lazy, right, like everybody else is doing
it. You're going to be motivated. Okay? You wouldn't pray this length of taraweeh at home, unless we
were doing it here. You wouldn't gain the spirit and the whole shore unless we had mashallah officer
job and our Imams and Shijo reciting the way that they do
		

			So these masajid are the houses of Allah.
		

			And that means they're supposed to be fortifications of iman. They're supposed to be places and
oases of calm in the hustle and bustle around us. The dunya hardens the heart coming into this
masjid, coming into this facility. And being in this ambience, it softens the heart. So this month
we've got an extra boost a dosage this month we were high on halaal high on coming to the masjid.
Don't wean yourself off. I don't know how much want to take this metaphor completely have some
levels still have attachment to the masjid. So whatever your level of attachment was pre Ramadan, I
want you to go up 150% increase it, okay. However far or close you are, be able to increase that
		

			frequency and quantity.
		

			So Natalie Aisha and Serato Fajr. In particular, see if you can make those because I know the hood
is almost impossible for almost all of us. Also, it might also be difficult, you know, most of them
were at home but understandable, but they'll hurt I mean Fajr and Isha. And these are the most
blessed prayers to pray anyway. Make it your regular routine to come here to listen to the tilava
Subhanallah these nights and it's with 3am and our Masjid is packed we already have people sitting
in the hallway and it's a week day mashallah week night. Why then why wonder Milan is over and Asia
and you can go home and sleep easily on time is our Masjid only half full or less than half full?
		

			Why? It's the same Rob is the same Eman we need. We want every Masjid on Earth to be packed in
capacity specially for the Salawat were able to do and especially in this land your brothers and
sisters were nothing reminds you of Allah throughout your day. Remember this point as well, nothing,
you know, the corporate office, you know the quote unquote real world we all occupy in the daytime.
Especially for us who have no other mechanism of reminding ourselves of Allah subhanho wa taala.
Really, we have to make an extra effort and point we have to put in the time for the drive. We have
to realize what and then massage you that Allah these are the houses of Allah azza wa jal, Allah
		

			blessed us by the way, massage it didn't exist for all of human history. Allah blessed our father
Ibrahim with the first Masjid before that point in time, by the way, there was no dedicated house of
God. There was no church there was no synagogue there was no mosque right in our beta and will the I
did not see little the DB bacchetta Mubaraka the first Holy Land, the first consecrated area that
Allah said this is going to be permanent for worshiping Allah is Maccha and we thank Allah it's
ours. hamdulillah it's ours Mecca is our heritage, even though was founded by Abraham and Islam. All
legacies claim him but he is rightfully ours. so mcuh was the first masjid and then Allah subhana wa
		

			Tada allowed for our own in particular, otherwise before our Ummah, other Omers they were not
allowed to worship anywhere. Again, I don't wanna go down that tangent. We are the only OMA that
Allah that the process has said, the whole world has been made a message for me, we can build a
messenger anywhere, we can pray anywhere hamdulillah other faiths have very strict conditions. What
not we don't have any of that. So now in Hamdulillah we have Masjid in the furthest of lands, you
know people outside of our countries and Muslim lands. They are shocked when they come to masajid
like epic and in this month I've had at least half a dozen a dozen people come from the Middle East
		

			for the first time for bucks not from you know Qatar. They've come here they can't believe what
they're seeing. We they said we never thought in America 1500 Every single Mike coming 3000 gonna
come in over the Hudson they can't believe this over here And Alhamdulillah the baraka and the peace
that comes they sense it
		

			when they come to this land, how about us we need it to mashallah through our day life. So point
number one. And by the way, it's not a trivial point coming to the masjid. It's a huge action in and
of itself. Our Prophet system talked about the seven people who will be sheltered by Allah, one of
them. Why don't you do l boo hoo Mala combien masjid, a person whose heart is attached to the masjid
one of those seven his heart is attached to the masjid. And sitting in the masjid is one of the
highest actions of worship, just simply sitting waiting for sada doing vicar. It is one of the
highest actions of worship. This is our version of Halal meditation, other faith traditions that
		

			have their meditations for us. This is our meditation, waiting and sitting for Salah. That's why
it's a calf is so blessed because what are you doing? You're sitting in the masjid Otherwise,
everything you're doing an attic up you can do outside
		

			You can pray you can use Zika you can read Quran you can do vicar you can make dua what makes it
tick off the so special and blessing is because you are literally Hubzu knifes if you're locking
yourself you're by yourself in the masjid. So, stick to the masjid, increase your master attendance
have a routine to come. And I suggest humbly that it should be a routine don't make it random. My
dear brothers, my dear sisters, our lives are based upon routines. Our jobs have schedules, they
have routines, we our schools have routines and schedules we wake up at a time we go to sleep at a
time. So put into your routine regular Masjid attendance, you know best what is feasible, what is
		

			realistic, so number one point number one, increase your Masjid attendance sitting in the masjid
waiting for Salah is one of the highest deeds of worship, the angels come and send their Salah on
you they send their Salah when you're waiting for the masjid your doors are accepted simply waiting
in the masjid in one Hadith the process and called this this is a version of robots of jihad visa
vie Allah sitting here no danger to your life, no enemies, no swords and you are in the liberal arts
in Jihad visa Videla simply because Allah knows you're only here because you want to pray. You have
cut off from the dunya you've cut off from your risk you've cut off from your your your corporate
		

			life, and you are just sitting and when you're sitting do zikr think contemplate reassess your life
this is our halaal meditation. So point number one and again the topic today is practical advice
about how we can maintain higher ima not the same level Lima. Point number one that's by the way,
one of our reasons why our iman is so high right now we're coming to the masjid regularly. Point
number two. Now this is going to be more difficult. One of the reasons why a man is so high with
Hamdulillah. And this month is because of the baraka of the whole of Islam.
		

			Having good companionship.
		

			Yanni. When you're sitting here and you're surrounded by people who are reading the Quran,
		

			you're not going to be taking your phone out and playing chess or something or whatever it was, what
is a candy crush? or what have you guys? I don't know, right? I hope you're not doing this at least
Okay? When everybody's reading Quran when everybody's listening to a lecture. Even if you're not
that motivated, you get into the spirit. And this is the baraka of Hawa.
		

			That's why our Prophet system encouraged us to see who are we hanging around? Who are our friends.
We all know the Hadith or Raju, Allah, dini. Halevi. The person shall follow the methodology and
religion of his close associates, then the Prophet has said, examine who your associates are. Frank
question to you. When was the last time you actually examined? Who are my closest associates? When
did you go down the list and really think who do I hang around? Who do I enjoy their companionship?
Because those people tell you everything you need to know about yourself? The people whom you enjoy
being with your company, is literally who you are. So examine who your closest friends who do you
		

			invite? Whose house do you go to? And the fact of the matter? This is brutally honest here? Are they
a bad or good influence on you? This is where I'm saying, raise the bar, raise the bar of the people
you associate with? Because one of the reasons why are you man is so strong right now is because of
the companionship we have because people all around us and hamdulillah are helping us. So once this
collective effort ceases in Ramadan, we need to create our own mini collective efforts and
Alhamdulillah in this month, I have no doubt that every one of you who is coming regularly has
formed new bonds of friendship with people in this community. Is that not the case? Right has killed
		

			two birds with one stone or maybe it should not diverge? Right metaphor but you resurrect to what
was a good metaphor here are revived. Yes. Where's our revive? Mashallah, Habibi, Shanna, Habibi, so
revive a Hawa
		

			interact with the brothers or the sisters or interact with the sisters that you came to know. And
form a genuine muhabba Fila a genuine whorfin That
		

			this is again you're getting multiple Ledger's, you're getting better associates you're going to
help one another in the way of Allah subhanho wa taala. And you all know the famous Hadith of the
Prophet says that the example of the good companion is like that of the one who sells perfume. Even
if you don't buy from him, he'll gift you even if he doesn't gift you being in his presence. You
will smell the good perfume.
		

			So find your perfume sellers, and start associating with them. And inshallah that will be one of the
ways. So every Ramadan, look at your closest list of friends, and frankly, start distancing those
that are a negative impact on you, those whose gatherings are nothing but riba nothing but waste of
time, nothing but maybe even haram going on. And I especially especially, speak frankly, to the
youth, the teenagers, Allah, He will live in times when alone was done, I can't even imagine what I
will do, if I were your age, with all that you have Alhamdulillah Hi, Hamdulillah, they are fine
with me, Allah save me from that generation, I don't know what I would have done Allah is testing
		

			you. But you know, that means Allah has chosen you for what he has chosen me for. Because Allah is
only going to test you know, you can pass the test. So the fact that you're being tested with so
much of the internet and social media and whatnot, and the ease of access of every type of evil, you
see, again, you youth don't understand, I will go down this tangent, we couldn't do the types of
things you can do easily, even if we wanted to do them, right. We couldn't even do them if we wanted
to. We didn't have that type of access. Allah has given you a huge test and trial, because Allah
knows you can pass that. But one of the biggest causes of failure is not even going to be you, it's
		

			going to be whom you associate with, and will like, every one of you knows this, no matter how young
or old you are, you know this, your friends are going to dictate much of your failure or success. So
maybe you cannot control what your friends do. But you can control who your friends are. You can
control who you associate with, you can control who your closest peer and associations are. So look
at your closest group, and choose wisely and find people that love Islam want. And again, I mean
hamdulillah one of my own causes for me being who I am today Alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah, Allah
blessed me with an amazing group when I was at University of Houston, my MSA, right, getting
		

			involved with that MSA batch getting involved with that, doing Dawa being Allah knows where I would
have gone to what I would have done, but those four years of activism, it made me change the entire
course of my life. And here I am now, and I thank every one of those brothers from Adela, they are
going through their different ways, but we're still in touch with my point being number point number
two. Point number two, choose your friends wisely. You can't choose what your friends do, you can
choose your friends. So based on what your friends do, choose your friends based on what their
inclinations and and and likes and dislikes are. choose those that genuinely want to be religious.
		

			Even if you're all struggling but Allah azza wa jal knows you're going to help one another. So
that's point number two that will help you in this path. Point number three very simple, very easy.
		

			One of the reasons why our iman is so high right now is the daily dosage of Quran and zikr
		

			we are immersed in listening to the Quran every single day we are doing our Afghan making dua before
break our fast and we're doing more than usual. Because we're doing more than usual obviously, our
iman feels at an all time high. Now once again after Ramadan, maybe we're not going to read a whole
juicer, five juice a day or whatever how much we're doing. But my sincere request to myself in all
of you.
		

			The Quran needs to be in your daily routine. This is my humble request to myself and all of you
don't let a single day go by
		

			without opening up the book of Allah and reading Wallahi even if it's five lines, if you're doing
nothing, start with five lines, no big deal something something is better than nothing.
		

			And I have a simple request, you know after Ramadan or Iman is still mashallah good. We can last a
little while right, have a simple request. Put the recitation of the Quran into your routine the
first week after Ramadan at a time that can be consistent. So suppose you go to work, you know, you
leave your house, let's say 6:30am, right? Say you know, from 615 to 630. I'll wake up a little bit
earlier, those 10 minutes before I leave, I'm just going to open the book of Allah and whatever how
much I can read our read. I have a simple ask of you. Do that for one week. And see how it impacts
your psyche and soul. See how you feel for the rest of the day after you've done that? The reason
		

			I'm so confident is very simple. The Quran is the breakfast for the soul.
		

			Right now you don't understand
		

			And you're missing breakfast, because you haven't had that in your routine. Right now you're going
to work without any breakfast for the soul.
		

			Once you start feeding the soul every single day,
		

			the day you're not able to do that, you're going to feel spiritually empty. You're going to feel I
didn't feed my soul the way it's supposed to be fed. So my humble ask of all of you is again, very
simple, very practical, every single day, whatever time and preferably in the morning because that's
when the baraka is our prophets. Assam said, Allah has blessed my ummah, in the early mornings of
the dawn, this hadith, right. Boudicca, the Almighty, Hebrew Korea, in the early morning is baraka,
that's when there is the most Baraka but if you're not able to, and you have to read evening after
that's also not a problem, but the best time is the morning time, right? And Allah says in the
		

			Quran, the Quran Alpha God in the Quran and for God, what is it gonna mush Houda reciting the Quran
at Fudger time means at late night and early morning fetch it means any before and after fajr that
early time well Quran is featured in the Quran Olajide Karna Masuda, the Quran recited at federal
time Dawn, pre Dawn post Dawn could be tahajjud could be actual budget could be read after fajr.
That is the recitation that the angels themselves are paying attention to. They witness that
recitation. So Alhamdulillah this last 10 days we're spending most of the night awake we're doing so
much better than what not my simple request of all of you once Ramadan finishes Yeah, we're not
		

			going to spend the whole night away. Yeah, we don't end let's be real, even the Profit System, the
only time of the whole year, he spent the whole night awake was the last 10 How do you throw out
issue? The only time he spent the whole night? Well, so yes, after Ramadan finishes, we're not going
to be spending from Asia to Fajr worshiping Allah, we understand that. But surely, once we've shown
Allah that for a whole month, we can fast the whole day for a whole month, we can come for pm two
hours for a home last 10 days, we can spend five hours once we showed Allah that surely we can give
15 minutes extra surely we can increase a little bit. And here's the point.
		

			Small consistent X is how we make it to the finish line with flying colors. Not quick spurts that
doesn't work that way. Small, consistent x. That's the goal. Here we be practical, we come down to
reality, we're not going to have this level of demand after Ramadan, but we focus we improve in key
areas. And every Ramadan we improve in those key areas or maybe other key areas such that Ramadan
acts as our cleansing mechanism such that Ramadan is our spiritual gym. Every year we go to that one
month routine, we come up bigger and better gotta go a little bit down next Ramadan comes we are
better than we were the first Ramadan and then we're going to be even higher than we're going to
		

			keep on having that cycle until the goal being our best Ramadan ever should be our final Ramadan.
Because I'm out we will have a team Allah will judge us based upon the finality of our lives. Only
thing is we don't know when that finality is. So we have to make sure that's where the DUA was the
Imam makes I made it today and the Imams make it and it's in the prophetic as well make our best
deeds, the last deeds and make the best time of our life, the last time of our life. There's only
one way to do that. And that is we strive to get better and better every single month and every
single year. And that's the goal of Ramadan. Ramadan is the primary boost that should make every
		

			year better than the previous one final point in my time on cello that'd be up. Also thank Allah for
what He has blessed us with,
		

			with giving us Ramadan and Laila to other no other OMA has been given a little cuddle. No other OMA
Hadith isn't the multiroom Amharic that the Prophet system complained to God and said, How does my
own man have a chance against the other owners when the other owners live for so many centuries?
Like it's not fair, my ummah doesn't have a chance compared to the other Omus. So Gibreel said,
Allah has sent me to you to tell you,
		

			Allah has gifted you a perk that can make up for those other chances. You have what no other OMA
has, you have one night every single year that shall give you more than a lifetime, more than 80
plus years of pure worship. Remember, it's not 80 years of living. It's 80 years of worship, one
night shall give you all of this. That's basically multiple lifetimes every year you get. So this is
how we are balancing the equation. Allah has blessed us with this night. Let us make the most of
this night Let us increase our EVA our tahajjud our Quran let us make sincere dua to Allah so
		

			And I would rather that he allows us to be praying on each other the night that God Himself comes
down. Let us be of those of the Pharisees of this month shout out and use akmola who was set on why
they can Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh long
		

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