Yasir Khan – Weekly Seerah Lecture Journey into the Life of Beloved Prophet

Yasir Khan
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The story of the prophet sallali Alaihi wa sallam is relevant to today's conversation, as it is a similar story to the prophet sallali alaihi wa sallam. The importance of finding a gap in the way the prophet sallavi alaihi wa sallam talks and fostering a small community is emphasized. The program is designed to help children grow in their communities and foster a good father, teacher, leader, and student. Tar cessation is also emphasized as a way to put love in their children's heart.
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In New Jersey area.

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And then, over there,

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after that, he finished his, high school or

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while he was studying over there. He joined

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at very early age. We know,

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Al Hasanayn Seminary,

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which is in Indiana.

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So where he did his ALIM course,

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and towards the end, he finished his things,

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his scholar program

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in, Darussalam, Chicago. It's a very well known

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institute.

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And after that, he went to Turkey. I'm

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going very brief. I have a long thing.

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And he

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joined Jamia Fala Adeen

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Darnein.

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And over there, he was, as a teacher.

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He was a dean of student affair over

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there, and then he is,

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I mean, he he actually worked as a

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community over here in different places. And then

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he also studied with,

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as I said, in Turkey,

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with lot of, scholars. I mean, very well

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known scholars over there. One of them is

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Sheikha Wama, I said, who is one of

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the famous scholar right now for the hadith

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and, many other scholars.

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He he is has done his things in

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fiqh, in Arabic,

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in hadith,

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tafsir, and Islamic theology, and also Islamic jurisprudence,

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which is the fiqh, actually. So, inshallah,

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I'll not introduce or anything more further. Inshallah,

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we'll go ahead and we'll have this program

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every Tuesday

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from Maghreb to Asia.

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So

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encourage that we are introducing this kind of

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programs.

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We are asking our guests to come from

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outside. They take their precious times and all

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these things. So we ask our

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brothers to bring their children who are, like,

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you know, 12 and above, and everybody should

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come and join this kind of

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Over here, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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he tells us that indeed in the prophet

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there was

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there is

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an example

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for every single person.

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Right? There's an example, but specifically for those

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people who

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have hope in Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and

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have hope in the hereafter,

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and that specific group that remembers Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala.

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And this is a very important fact, very

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important

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thing to consider because

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everybody wants to follow the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. But it's those people who actually

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take out time,

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those people who try to learn

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of what he came with, how he lived,

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and the message of the Quran and the

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Sunnah,

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those are the people who actually find

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a very beautiful example, a very beautiful role

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model in the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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You know, we started this Sira Halakha

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last year in Center Masjid

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in Arlington.

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And when we started, we had a few

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people,

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and then the Majma grew little by little.

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There was one person who used to always

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sit.

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Brother, his name is Saeed Abu'issa.

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Old age, he used to sit and participate

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in this halaqa,

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and after the halaqa, he used to come

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to me and ask me questions.

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And he used to tell me, okay, can

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you bring me

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the this quote that you mentioned and that

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quote that you mentioned? And subhanAllah, he started

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to live a very attached to the prophet

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam life. He started to

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say, oh, this is why you guys do

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this. We have the same exact practice in

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Somalia. For example,

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one time I mentioned about the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam's

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father, Abdullah,

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when he his father, Abdul Muttalib, vowed that

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he's going to slaughter him.

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But then they went to the soothsayer and

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the soothsayer said that, okay, if you guys

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go through the process that eventually you guys

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slaughter 100 camels, guys won't have to do

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it. So when I told him, he's like,

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yeah. We have the same exact practice in

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Somalia. I didn't know that this came from

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the seerah of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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So he became engaged,

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and you could tell that the seerah of

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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became

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for him,

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became a role model. The prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam became a role model where everything

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that he was already doing in life, he

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was either referencing it to or he started

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to live a life in which he started

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to say that, okay, I'm going to do

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this and I'm going to do that. And

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a few months into this program, subhanallah, he

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passed away.

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Hanallah, he passed away. So you see, we

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don't know when we're going to die,

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but it's best

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that we get connected to the prophet

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sooner than later. Why?

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Because when we die, you know, the kabar

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were going to be asked 3 questions,

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which means each question is worth 33 points.

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And one of those questions

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is going to be about the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam.

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What do you say regarding this person?

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And if we don't know much about him,

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how can we claim that we love him?

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How can we claim that we follow him?

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And today, I'm going to mention one story

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to you guys to kinda get an idea

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that how did the companions of the prophet

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salallahu alaihi wasallam do it.

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It's not like the companions of the prophet

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salallahu alaihi wasallam, they all

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fell in love with him by spending years

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with him. No.

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Some of the companions of the prophet salallahu

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alaihi wasallam

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fell in love with him before they even

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saw him.

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We're doing the book Surah Al Minhat Sahaba

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with the students in the alum course.

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And the first story that the author brings

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is the story of Anas ibn Malikin radiAllahu

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anhu.

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Anas ibn Malik radiAllahu anhu was a young

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boy.

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Very young.

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5, 6 years old.

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And his mother started to talk to him

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about the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Started to mention that, you know, there's a

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prophet.

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He lives about 6, 7 hours or in

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that time, he lives this distance away from

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us, And he's this and this and this.

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Fell

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in love with the prophet salallahu alaihi wa

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sallam

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before he even saw him.

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He fell in love with the prophet salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam before he even saw him.

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The author

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says, perhaps sometimes the ears they fall in

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love before the eyes.

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So his ears were filled

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with the love and the stories of the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam.

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Now this young man has never seen the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam, but he began to

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think that wow, I want to be like

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this guy.

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I want to be this person. I want

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to meet this person. So every day and

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every night he used to be longing. Can

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we go to the prophet so we could

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see him?

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Can we go to, you know, can can

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam come to

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us? And, subhanallah, this is so beautiful.

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The other day my sister messaged me and

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she's like she started to teach her

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younger son, Idris. She's like, I started to

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teach Idris

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about the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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And today, the whole day, he's like, can

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you call the prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam? I

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wanna talk to him.

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Can you call the prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam?

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I want to talk to him. So it's

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not something that's only relevant

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all the way at the time of Sahaba.

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Even today it's relevant. And she said, I

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started to talk to him about Jannah, and

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she's like, come on. Let's pack up. We

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gotta go to Jannah. My sister's like, wait

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up a little. Right? Let's go to Jannah.

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So the idea over here

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within ICI,

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the purpose of this halakah is to foster

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a environment, to foster a small community.

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Right? In which we become

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such that we long for the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam.

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We are always thinking about the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam.

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Subhanallah,

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even some of the students they come to

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me and they tell me I saw the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam in my dream telling

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me this and that. I'm like, subhanallah, it's

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a beautiful dream. You're seeing the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam in your dream like this. We

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know that Shaitan can never come in the

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form of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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to anybody's dream. So if he comes in

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your dream, you know that that's him for

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sure.

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So we see that what needs to be

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done is that an environment

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needs to be created in which we talk

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about the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam in

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such a manner

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and bring such beautiful examples

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that we all, not just by name,

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not just by the tongue fall in love

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with him, but by heart.

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Where our heart is longing for him. We're

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thinking like we become like those companions of

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the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam. Where he's

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like, oh prophet of Allah, when I'm with

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you, I'm relaxed, I'm calm, I'm happy. But

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when I go to my home,

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I get an anxiety.

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I get in this distress,

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and I can't stay with my family, and

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I have to rush back to come and

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see you. Oh, prophet of Allah, what's going

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to happen when we go to Jannah?

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And in Jannah,

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you are the prophet.

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You will be at one level

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and we are going to be all the

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way at another.

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam tells

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him,

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a person will be with the one who

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he loves.

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Today, we ask ourselves a question.

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If we want to be with the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam in Jannah, then ask about

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our love.

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Is it

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sincere?

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How many times a day does the thought

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam come

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to my mind?

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Why do I have to have

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a whole entire fatwa

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to tell me that this is how the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam dressed, and this

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is how the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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ate, and this is how the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam talked.

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I should be striving.

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I should be working hard

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that where can I find a gap that

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is not according to the way of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, and I make

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that my way as well?

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This is the simple difference between us and

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the Sahaba.

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They looked at what can I possibly do

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to become more like the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam?

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And today, we look for

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reasons to say that this is not fard.

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This is only the sunnah. So

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the the purpose of this halaqa

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is to go into the life of the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam. To become in

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love with him.

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To lose ourselves in the love of the

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prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Where it's

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on our tongue. It's his sunnah on our

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body.

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It's the character that we portrayed to others.

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Whether it's our dealing, whether it's our talking,

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whatever it may be. It's all about how

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to become like the beloved.

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And so first of all, I want to

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congratulate everybody who's sitting here.

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It's because of your love

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for the prophet

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that you're sitting over here.

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It's not because of me. Majority of you

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don't even know me.

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It's because you heard that the journey into

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the life of the prophet

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And you're like, you know what? I want

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to learn about the prophet salallahu alaihi wasallam.

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So congratulate yourself on this step and ask

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala that what can I

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do now

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to not only make my own sitting over

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here

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persistent,

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but also make this a means of and

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bring other people? Especially, youngsters and parents.

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Parents need to learn how to do of

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their children according to the way of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Anas ibn Malik radiallahu alaihi

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wa

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sallam

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was coming to Madinah,

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every morning the kids would go and they

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would be waiting

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to see when is the prophet going to

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come.

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The girls would climb the roofs. The young

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boys would climb the trees

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and the men would go and be waiting.

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The prophet is coming now and the prophet

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is coming now.

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And when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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one day they saw that he's coming.

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Everybody started to sing.

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Everybody singing that the moon has come up

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and we are seeing the moon

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like, shining like the moon was the face

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And

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now all of these guys are gushing to

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Oh, prophet

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of Allah, you come and stay in my

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house. Another person is, oh, prophet of Allah,

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you come and stay in my house.

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And everybody's going and giving a gift to

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And at

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that time,

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the mother of Anas ibn Malik, the Allah

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one,

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she

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did not have any gift to give to

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. So she

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takes her young child.

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She said, oh, prophet of Allah, here's Anas.

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This is the only thing I have. Let

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him become your Let

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him become your servant. Let him serve you.

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And from there on

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grew up

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in the company of the prophet

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Here today we can learn

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how to put the love of the prophet

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in our children's heart.

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Today, subhanAllah,

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running an institution,

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the biggest thing that we get is calls

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from parents.

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My child is gone. My child is destroyed.

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When was the time to do of your

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child? It was the the child it was

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the lap of the mother

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when she was supposed to be talking

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about the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam. It

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was the lap of the father when he

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should have been talking and sending salawat to

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the extent that the child comes to him

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and say, oh, Abba, oh, Amma.

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Why are you saying Allah

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Muhammad?

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And you take the time to explain to

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him what that salawat means. You take the

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time to explain to him why are you

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continuously busy in that. That is the time

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of tarbia. To make them fall in love

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such that you don't have to tell them

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to come and pray salah.

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You don't have to come and tell them

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to dress a certain way, to talk a

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certain way, to be with the specific people.

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They themselves will be like, I need to

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find out how the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam did it, and I want to do

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the same exact thing.

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Just like Khumai Sa'adhi allahu anha. So when

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Khumai Sa'adhi allahu anha did this, what happened?

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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam now starts to take

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care of Anas ibn Malik radiAllahu anhu. Anas

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ibn Malik radiAllahu anhu for

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years years over a decade stays with the

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prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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And he said, in 10 years,

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the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam has never

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told me, oh, Anas,

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why did you do this? Why didn't you

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do this?

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How did the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam

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do

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Today, a child does something and they're like,

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Terry, Bob, go Terry, you go, you go.

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We go off.

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Right? So how did the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam

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do that?

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The Allahu an who once was sent by

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam to go

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do something,

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and he became very late. He didn't do

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what he was supposed to do. The prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam went to see him,

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and he was playing with kids. He went

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to him from the back.

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He told him, what

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happened?

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He said, oh, I I'm going right now.

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I was on my way. He didn't say,

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look at what time I sent you. Look

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at what time it is right now. I

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told you you're supposed to you know, a

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whole entire lecture.

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SubhanAllah.

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Today we ourselves catch ourselves

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being so harsh,

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being so stern, being so rigid, and sometimes

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that is the reason why our kids leave

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us. When I was in Chicago studying, one

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of the fathers, he took me to his

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house and he told me to go sit

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with my son and talk to him,

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and I sat with his son and I

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was talking and his son is like, I

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don't wanna listen.

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And then his father's quick trip telling me

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try with him. I kept trying. He's like,

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I don't I Look, let me tell you

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something. Let me not waste your time. Let

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me not waste your my time. I don't

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believe in Islam.

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I don't believe in Allah. I don't believe

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in any of this.

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And I just became a friend with him

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like it's okay, fine, this, that. Started to

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talk to him like, hey, listen, if you

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ever need anything let me know. 1, 2

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times he needed something I helped him out.

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Developed a relationship.

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One day he came, he's like I wanna

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talk to you. He came to me and

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we sat down.

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When he started to talk,

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he said, do you know why I'm in

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this situation?

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Because of the way my dad treated my

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mom.

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He was so rigid with her. He was

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so tough with her that I said if

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this guy has appeared this land and he

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claims to be a Muslim and he claims

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to be the follower of the prophet salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam. This is not who I

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want to be.

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SubhanAllah.

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We don't realize that we push our own

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children off the cliff.

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We put them into the fire, and then

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we're like please do something.

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So,

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it's really a the the seerah of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam is really a

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class,

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is really a course of tarbia.

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A a course of how to foster, how

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to be a good father,

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how to be a good child,

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how to be a good teacher,

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How to be a good adviser? How to

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be a good leader? How to be a

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good commander?

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The prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam, subhanAllah,

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had all of these qualities in him. And,

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subhanAllah, I don't want to lengthen the time

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anymore. But Insha'Allah, next week, we will talk

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about how the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

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brought the quality of generosity,

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the quality

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of mercy,

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the quality of bravery,

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the all of these beautiful qualities.

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How one person had it in him and

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what can we do to bring all of

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those qualities

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and into our own lives. May Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala allow us to be connected to

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the sunnah of the prophet

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I'm deep.

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You know, brothers,

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this program, you are starting and few more

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things we will be bringing. You can invite

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other people, and they can bring their children

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also.

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And this will be going throughout the entire

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year. So, inshallah, it's a very good program

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that is started

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from this Tuesday and every Tuesday after Maghrib

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will have it. So you can all there

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who have their teenagers and things, we can

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understand the life, his, attributes and things. This

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is a program that's, you know, will help

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the children to grow in our communities.

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