Yaser Birjas – The Fitna Of Dunya And Of Women

Yaser Birjas
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The speaker discusses the pride of Islam and the hesitation of men and women to fulfill their desire. They also mention the importance of women in their deeds and the danger of distraction from men. The speaker emphasizes the need for men to fulfill their desire and avoid distraction from women.
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

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Alhamdulillah rabbil alameen, salallahu alayhi wa sallam wa

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barakatuhu anabiyyan wa muhammad wa ala alihi wa

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sahbihi wa sallam wa tasliman kathira thumma ma

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ba'd.

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Ma minnahu wa rahimahu Allah wa ta'ala.

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Continuing in the chapter of Taqwa, Piety and

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Righteousness.

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Hadith number 70.

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In this hadith the messenger of Allah is

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saying, the life of the world is sweet

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and green.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala appointed you as

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khulafa, which means like a representative on earth.

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So that he may try you in respect

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of your actions.

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So beware of the fitna, which means here

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the attractions of this dunya and the attractions

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towards women.

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The first trial of Bani Israel was through

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women.

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What does that mean?

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Let's begin with this hadith from the very

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beginning.

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Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam says, This dunya,

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which means sweet in terms of its taste.

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Like if someone experienced that dunya, it's so

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hard to forget that taste.

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If someone tasted the sweetness of money, the

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sweetness of luxury, the sweetness of pleasure, the

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sweetness of intimacy, all these things that are

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considered sweet, it's hard to forget that.

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So in terms of experiencing it, it's hulwa.

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Khadira, green and lush.

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What does that mean?

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To the eye is also very appealing.

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Sometimes you see many, many beautiful things out

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there and they're all very appealing.

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But you can't taste them.

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You have no ability to fulfill that desire

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at all.

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But still the attraction is there through the

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eye and of course through the experience.

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But not everybody who watches can experience that.

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Still though, the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said, That's the dunya.

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The dunya is very sweet, very lush, which

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means it can be very deceiving and very

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dangerous.

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Then he says, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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is going to leave you on earth as

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representatives.

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Meaning to do what?

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To generation after generation, to take care of

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this creation of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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To live here, procreate, and take care of

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this creation of Allah azza wa jal.

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And He will look into your actions.

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Like He wants to see how you're going

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to do that.

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How are you going to be fulfilling Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala's commandment and being the

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representatives on earth?

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Therefore, beware of the trials of this dunya,

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which means the temptations of this dunya.

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Beware of that.

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And out of all the temptations of the

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dunya, he said the inclination towards women.

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What does that mean?

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It also means the temptation and also the

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inclination of women towards men.

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But he specifically mentions the subject of the

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temptation of women here because the fitna of

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Bani Israel began there.

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Yes.

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Now, is that something, exaggeration?

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Is that real?

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Look, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, He knows

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best.

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He created us and He knows best subhanahu

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wa ta'ala how we operate as human

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beings.

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Naturally, the inclination of men towards women and

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women towards men, it's a ni'mah, it's a

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blessing in itself.

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Otherwise, without that inclination, there would be no

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people motivated to get married, have children, procreate,

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and produce, mashallah, magnificent scholars and ulama and

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heroes, and you name it.

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It would never happen.

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So that inclination itself is a blessing, is

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ni'mah.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala mentioned in the

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Qur'an, It was made beautiful for them.

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It was made beautiful to them the love

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of shahawat, of desires of women and children

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and having this and that and so on.

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All these things.

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So it was made beautiful for us.

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For what reason?

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To fulfill that commandment.

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So in itself, that inclination, it's not haram.

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It's a blessing from Allah subhanahu wa ta

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'ala.

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Now, what is required from us is to

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make sure we safeguard that desire, we safeguard,

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obviously, that ni'mah, and making sure to fulfill

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it in the right way.

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Otherwise, if we don't, that inclination can go

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out of control.

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And if it goes out of control, we

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know what happens.

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And throughout the history of mankind, we've seen

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how men, women, unfortunately, when there is no

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bearer of hayaa, when there is no bearer

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of taqwa Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, how

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would they behave?

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When the boundaries are all gone.

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And Allah azza wa jalla is warning us,

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as he mentions in surah al-A'raf,

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about the very first fitnah that happened to

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Adam and at that time, his Hawwa as

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well.

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When he says subhanahu wa ta'ala about

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the shaitan, what did he do?

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He

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said,

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So it's one of the biggest temptations.

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There is no doubt about it.

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And we see that so many, every now

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and then, when you talk about politics, talk

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about even, unfortunately, in clergy life and so

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on, there is always scandals.

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And these scandals involve what?

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The illicit relationship between men and women, the

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inclination to women in this scenario over here.

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So the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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Look, beware of the dunya, beware of the

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dunya, because there's going to be fitnah for

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you.

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And of all the fitnah, beware, of course,

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from that inclination, the temptation that could happen

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between men and women.

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That's the most dangerous thing that will take

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people away from the deen of Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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We have seen a lot of people, unfortunately,

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because of the fitnah of looking at the

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women or looking at the opposite gender, watching

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even *, they lose their iman.

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They lose their deen.

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So they start with maybe just one look,

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second look, and then eventually they get addicted

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to it, and fix their deen and their

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iman.

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It's extremely dangerous.

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And that's why the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam says, Beware of these two fitnahs, the

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dunya and the nisan.

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He says, Because the fitnah of Bani Israel,

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it all started from there.

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May Allah protect us, O Rabbul Alameen, and

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our household, our families, O Allah, from all

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this fitnah.

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Any questions, jama'at?

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Assalamu alaikum.

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The masjid will be closing in five minutes,

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inshallah.

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