Yaser Birjas – TaSeel #56

Yaser Birjas
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The importance of good manners and character in Islam is emphasized, along with the need for loyalty and hate towards individuals. The three ten commandments for Islam, including being kind to one's parents and not killing out of poverty, are discussed. The importance of avoiding certain words and not using them is emphasized, along with the use of shara's to describe actions and crimes and the language used in the transcript. The shara's are used to describe actions or crimes, and the language used in the transcript is provided.
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Ready Omar?

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Okay.

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Bismillah.

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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

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Alhamdulillah rabbil alameen, wa salamu alaykum wa barakatuhu,

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wa nabiyyina wa muhammadin, wa ala alihi wa

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sahbihi, wa salamu tasliman kathira, thumma amma ba

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'ad.

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So, in the Book of Imam al-Qudam,

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wa rahimahullah wa ta'ala, mukhtasar minhaj al

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-qasideen, which speaks on the subject of, right

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now, which is on part two, the refinement

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of character.

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So, if you remember the first sections we've

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been studying together for the past few weeks,

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were related to your relationship with the Creator,

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Observing halal and haram, what is considered shubuhat,

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doubtful matters, how do you define them, why

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do you need to stay away from them,

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or what is related to stay clear, so

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that when you meet your Lord, subhanahu wa

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ta'ala, alhamdulillah, you have a clear conscience,

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you have a clear record, bin Allahi azza

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wa jal.

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So, that was the first part.

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Now, Imam al-Qudam, wa rahimahullah, is moving

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us to another part, which is the ethics

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in companionship and brotherhood.

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Kitab al-adab al-sohbati, wal-ukhuwati, wa

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ma'ashirat al-khalqi, wa nahmi dhalik.

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He speaks about the interaction, the code of

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ethics right now, or rule of engagement, you

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could say, with the creation of Allah, azza

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wa jal, and of course, starting with the

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people.

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So, what is the etiquette?

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And subhanallah, if you guys notice this, just

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a couple of nights ago, I had a

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conversation with one of the brothers, we were

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talking about how amazing our deen, our shara'

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is, subhanallah, is that it gives you instructions

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and almost details to everything in the aspect

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of your life.

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Leaving you no room for anxiety, for wondering,

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and for guessing, or how should this be

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done, how should that be done.

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Almost everything has been organized for you, including

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how to interact with the people around you.

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So, this chapter, insha'Allah ta'ala, is

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about that matter.

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What's the essence of the good companionship, and

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the essence of brotherhood, and of course, meaning

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also, sisterhood as well.

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What's the essence, what's the base to this,

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insha'Allah, azza wa jal.

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And then he's going to divide the people

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to different categories, and what should be our

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way of dealing with them, insha'Allah.

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So, bismillah, let's begin with that.

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Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Rahim, As-salatu was

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-salamu ala rasool Allah, Imam Ibn Qudamah, rahman

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Allah, he says, Know that harmony and union

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is the fruit, thamr, of good character, character,

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husnul khuluq, while disunity stems from bad character,

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sul, sul khuluq.

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You see this statement?

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This statement is just like the summary of

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everything.

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The summary of everything.

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He says, you need to understand that harmony

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and union between people, like if you like

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to find peace and tranquility in your relationship

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with the people, what is the base to

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this, he says?

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Our good character.

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As simple as that.

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The simple message.

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You want to have good relationship with the

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people, what do you need to work on?

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The people?

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You work on yourself.

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And which aspect of myself that I need

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to work on the most in order for

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me to have that sense of peace and

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tranquility with the people?

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Your manners, your akhlaq.

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You manage your akhlaq.

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Who defines what khuluq is, the jamaat?

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What's right and wrong for us?

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Our deen, right?

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Coming from the Quran and the sunnah of

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the Prophet, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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But sheikh, people are different today.

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They're very bad.

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They're not like they used to be before.

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Who cares how people change and differ?

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What cares is that the rules of akhlaq

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and manners are actually here to stay.

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They don't fluctuate.

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They don't change.

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If you remember when we talked about how

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the rules of sharia, some of them are

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considered thawabit, which means they are fixed matters,

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don't change regardless of the circumstances.

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And others, yeah, they're flexible to the time

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and the change in time.

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So when it comes to the matters of

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akhlaq, the matters of akhlaq and ethics, are

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these flexible or fixed, jamaat?

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Fixed or flexible?

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Will lying ever be okay?

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Hypocrisy, would that be considered cleverness?

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I mean this time, yeah, it is.

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But for a believer or a Muslim, these

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things will never change.

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What's wrong is wrong.

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What's right is right.

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Because Allah said so and the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam said so.

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So Imam Ibn Qudamah, rahimahullah, he's putting it

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right now clearly to you.

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Look, you want to have good companionship with

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the people?

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What do you need to work on?

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Your akhlaq, your manners.

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Simple message.

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And that's what he, rahimahullah, began with this

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chapter to define whatever is going to be

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coming next is based on this principle.

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Good manners bring you peace and tranquility and

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good brotherhood and good interaction with the people,

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which means bad manners would lead to what?

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Disunity and differences with the people and many

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other problems would come from that.

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So that's the basic of this principle.

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This is simply because good character leads to

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mutual love, tahabbub, and agreement, tawafuq.

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While bad character only sows the seed of

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mutual hatred, tabaghud, and turning away, tadabur, from

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each other.

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I think it's self-explanatory over here.

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He says, look, because why husn and khulq

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brings people together?

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Because it breeds what?

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Breeds love for one another.

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Like when someone is kind to you, you

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feel enslaved to them.

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And that's an Arabic expression, by the way.

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Like the people, ya'asirhumul ihsan.

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Like they become captives to kindness.

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When someone is kind to you, you feel

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obliged that you have to be kind to

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them, you have to be nice to them,

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you have to, no matter what.

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Even back in the days, before Islam even,

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the people, they considered these values of highest

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value even amongst enemies.

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Like even if there is tha'ar, there's

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a blood between the people, if someone comes

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to you, and you know that this person,

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they owe you blood, and they come to

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you as guests, you don't dare touch them.

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Because for them, that's a husnul khulq, that's

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a character.

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So basically, you don't touch them in that

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time, because they're guests right now.

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Until they leave, they're going to go after

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them.

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But the idea is, they have certain akhlaq

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and manners over here.

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Similarly, when bad manners, bad character breeds what?

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Tabaghut and tadabur.

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You start hating each other, you start holding

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grudge against each other.

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Like imagine, imagine something as simple as bad

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jokes.

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As simple as bad jokes.

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If someone starts ridiculing you, and being very

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sarcastic, and he starts calling you names, and

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all that kind of stuff, even though this

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person is supposed to be your friend, right?

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How would you feel about that?

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Doesn't that breed hatred and grudge against this

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individual?

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Today we call it bullying, right?

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These are bullies right now.

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And that kind of bullying leads to the

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tadabur, and all the bad qualities of disunity

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amongst the people.

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So the basis to husnul suhbah, wal ukhuwah,

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wal muasharah, is husnul khuluq.

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You want to be a good friend to

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this person?

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Then deal with them with good manners.

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You think that this person is a bit

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aloof and distant from you?

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With acts of kindness and good manners, that

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might change everything between you.

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So it's extremely important that you do that.

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With good manners, you bring each other together

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inshaAllahu ta'ala.

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Yes?

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The virtues of good character are obvious, and

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there are many traditions about this.

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And he's going to be sharing a few

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hadith that would lead us to, and of

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course we already probably know, how valuable husnul

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khuluq is.

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The reason why Imam Ibn Qudamah emphasizes this,

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with the evidence from the sunnah of the

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Prophet ﷺ, is to show you the importance

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of this principle.

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And if you look up here, how big

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is the principle he established up there?

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For the meaning of good character, good brotherhood,

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and good companionship.

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One paragraph.

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But to support that, he brought you many

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lines of hadith.

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This is how valuable this principle is.

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So let's see some of the hadith that

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he mentions over here.

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It is narrated from Abu'l-Darda radiAllahu

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ta'ala anhu, that the Prophet ﷺ said,

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Nothing weighs more in a believer's scale on

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the day of resurrection than good character.

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Did you guys hear that statement from the

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Prophet ﷺ?

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Nothing weighs more in your scale on the

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day of judgment, more than your husnul khuluq,

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your good character.

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What does that mean?

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If you remember we talked about this also

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from before.

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There is a difference between being religious, and

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being what?

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Spiritual.

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So being religious, what does that mean?

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You pray, you fast, you wear the hijab,

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you come to the masjid, maybe you pray

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in the first line of fajr even, sometimes.

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This is all religiosity.

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Unfortunately, if that practice does not translate into

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your heart, so that the heart starts commanding

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your body to act in accordance to that

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ibadah and ta'a, then your akhlaq and

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your masjid will be horrible.

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How many people, they look religious, but when

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you deal with them, unfortunately, there is no

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sense of samaha in them.

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You don't see that sense of spirituality and

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serenity dealing with them.

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So it's not just a matter of being

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religious.

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What matters is to be religious and spiritual

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at the same time as well.

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And here's the Prophet ﷺ is telling us

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this in this hadith, nothing weighs more than

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husnul khuluq.

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Now that doesn't mean you stop doing tahajjud

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and ta'a and ibadah.

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No, because doing tahajjud and fasting Mondays and

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Thursdays and doing tasbih and adhkar, hopefully, will

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be the incentive for you to behave better.

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Because these ibadah are supposed to make you

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more knowledgeable, closer to Allah and you become

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better with the people.

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So that's something that's important, ties together.

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And nothing weighs more in your ibadah better

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than your good manners.

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Now, next.

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Another hadith says, Those of you whom I

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love the most and who shall sit nearest

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to me on the day of resurrection, are

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those with the best character.

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Those of you whom I hate the most

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and who shall sit farthest away from me

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on the day of resurrection, are those with

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the worst character.

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What do we call that seat, ajma'ah?

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This seat in Jannah, what that would be

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called today?

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VIP seating.

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You want to be in the VIP seating

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area?

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In Jannah?

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Like there are many, many people will be

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in Jannah.

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May Allah make us among them, Ya Rabbil

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Alameen.

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Less and probably few will be in Al

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-Firdaws Al-A'la, the highest ranks in

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Jannah.

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May Allah make us among them, Ya Rabbil

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Alameen.

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So now those are the best of the

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best, right?

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Is there any group that is elitist among

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those people?

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Absolutely.

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And who are these people?

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Those who spend their day and night in

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ta'a and ibadah?

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You expect that, right?

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But the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam says,

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No.

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The best in character.

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You want to be among those VIP people?

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Work on your character, your akhlaq and your

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manners with the people.

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Work on that.

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That's the most important thing.

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Just like the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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says, And those who will be farthest away

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from me, those with bad manners.

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Now what do you understand from that second

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category, ajma'ah?

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The Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa sallam says, Those

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who will be farthest away are those who

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have bad manner and worse character.

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What is he talking about, Prophet shallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam?

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Is he talking about kuffar?

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Non-believers?

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No, he's not.

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They're in Jannah.

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And they will be around the Prophet shallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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But how far are they going to be?

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Way far away from the Prophet shallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam.

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In Jannah.

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Still it's pleasurable to be in Jannah.

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But can you imagine being as close as

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possible to Rasulallah shallallahu alaihi wa sallam?

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You just enjoy being in the closest of

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the company of the Prophet shallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam.

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Subhanallah.

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Subhanallah.

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The closest to this feeling that we had

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in this dunya is when we go to

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our beloved mushaykh and ulema.

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Like I remember when I used to live

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with Shaykh al-Uthaymeen rahimahullah ta'ala.

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Shaykh al-Uthaymeen rahimahullah, he was so beloved

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to his students.

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He was like a father figure, more than

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just a alim wallahi.

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He was very kind, very caring, very loving.

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Unbelievable.

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That's why the students will always chase after

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the Shaykh wherever he goes.

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And we try to be as close as

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possible to his seating.

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Subhanallah.

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Alhamdulillah we're very privileged when you go and

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live there in the masjid or stay closer

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to his masjid.

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That you'll be able to be in the

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first line, second line, closer to him.

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So that you avoid all the distractions that

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happens behind you.

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But then I remember the pain.

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I remember the pain when we used to

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go for Ramadan, during Ramadan for the last

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ten nights in Mecca.

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Because the Shaykh, he spends the last ten

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nights there in Mecca.

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He does classes from after taraweeh all the

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way until tahajjud time.

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So if you would love to go and

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be there close, you have to be very,

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very early.

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So you can find a seat right in

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front of the Shaykh.

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Like thousands, like waves of people.

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You can't even see the Shaykh.

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You barely can see the seat from far

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away.

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And you know he's sitting there because you

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can feel the movement and you can hear

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him speaking.

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Rahimallah ta'ala with the speaker.

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But it's too far.

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You know how early you need to be

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there so you can actually catch first lines

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in front of the Shaykh?

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In Ramadan.

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Can you imagine how early you need to

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be there?

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Before Asr.

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You have to be before Asr.

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And I remember one of those days.

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That in Ramadan, the heat of the sun.

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I remember going by the seat and I

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saw a few people just already camping over

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there so I camped with them.

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And honestly I camped for about an hour

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or so but the heat of the sun

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killed me.

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And then subhanallah after all this time, we

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were told it's going to be raining.

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So they're going to move the class downstairs.

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And subhanallah we went running down there to

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go and actually catch a space or a

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place downstairs.

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And we sat down there waiting, waiting, waiting

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for the time.

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And after Salah subhanallah they said we started

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hearing the Shaykh speaking.

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And alhamdulillah.

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What?

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The Shaykh was upstairs.

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So we went all the way back up

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there but there's no way you'd be close

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sitting subhanallah close to him.

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That the joy, I can't really describe that

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to you.

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You have to live it so you can

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feel.

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But the joy of being there in the

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company of a Shaykh rahimallah ta'ala.

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And with those beautiful students who are like

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-minded.

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They all want to be as close so

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you can benefit and enjoy that moment.

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Subhanallah spending those hours was pleasurable.

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Was pleasurable.

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Imagine this in Jannah.

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Forget about dunya.

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Forget about Shaykh al-Khatim rahimallah ta'ala.

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Forget about Rasulallah ﷺ right now.

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How beautiful, how pleasurable that is.

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And who is going to be competing with

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you to be close to the Prophet ﷺ

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in that moment of Jannah?

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Ulama, scholars, righteous people.

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Heavyweight mashallah people.

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So you might say well I can't compete

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with these people.

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You know maybe with knowledge.

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Maybe with knowledge you might not be able

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to compete with them.

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But I can guarantee you.

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You can surpass many with your akhlaq and

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your manners.

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You need to show those best akhlaq towards

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your brothers and sisters.

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Towards your spouse, your children, your friends, those

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around you.

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Show them those akhlaq and I can guarantee

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you.

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You will surpass a lot of people of

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knowledge.

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Because again not everybody who has the knowledge

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has the good akhlaq and the good manners.

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May Allah make us among those with the

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knowledge and the akhlaq and the manners of

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Rabbil Alameen.

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Yes.

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When the Prophet ﷺ was asked what allows

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people to enter paradise the most, he said,

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Fear of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and

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good character.

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Mashallah.

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That's what the Prophet ﷺ said over here.

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That what lets people enter jannah the most,

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taqwa Allah wa husnul khuluq.

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The conscious of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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and good manners.

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And remember taqwa of Allah that helps you

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in your relationship with Allah or the creator.

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And your good manners that helps you in

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the relationship with whom?

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The creation.

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So these two areas you need to focus

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on.

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Your relationship with the creator and your relationship

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with the creation.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and the people

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around.

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With regard to love and muhabba for Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala's sake, it occurs in

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the two sahih from Abu Huraira r.a

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that the Prophet ﷺ said, There are seven

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whom Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will bring

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under his shade on the day when there

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is no shade but his.

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These include two men who love each other

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for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's sake.

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They came together upon that and separated upon

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that.

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This is the very famous hadith of the

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Prophet ﷺ in regards to enjoying the shade

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of Ar-Rahman when there is no shade

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but his subhanahu wa ta'ala on the

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day of judgment.

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May Allah make us among these who are

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under his shade.

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And the Prophet ﷺ mentioned seven categories.

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One of them had to do with the

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good akhlaq and manners.

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He says, qaar rajulan, two men.

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But ulama they say two people.

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What does that mean?

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It could be actually two men or it

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could be two ladies.

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tahabba iftama'a, they got together for the

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love of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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For the love of Allah azza wa jal.

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And when they separated, also for the sake

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of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Not because, oh I don't like him anymore

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or he's boring right now.

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No, they separate for the sake of Allah

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and they stay for the sake of Allah.

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Can you imagine now how valuable that is

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on the day of judgment when everybody is

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feeling alone and lonely.

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Because Allah says on the day of judgment

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that, And each one of you is going

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to be coming on that day, which means

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alone.

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You know how lonely that is going to

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feel when you'll be just standing there with

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millions and billions of people around you.

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But you're alone and lonely because you're scared

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from standing before Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Imagine all of this and Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala gives you comfort of a companion.

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Someone will be standing next to you under

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the shade of ar-Rahman.

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And both of you sitting next to each

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other giving each other assurance.

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Why don't you need that, jama'ah?

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So find that body for you in this

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dunya.

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Find that person with whom you love them

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for the sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta

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'ala.

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They always encourage you to do well and

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they improve your akhlaq and your manners.

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Bring you closer to Allah azza wa jal.

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Imagine this quality of a person that you

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find in this dunya.

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And if you find someone like this, hold

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on to them.

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They're very special.

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Very rare.

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But they're very, very special.

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I need those in the dunya and in

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the akhirah.

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Make sure to have someone in this dunya

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that you can count on for that moment.

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May Allah make us some of them, ya

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rabbal alameen.

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In another hadith, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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says, My love is necessary for those who

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love each other for my sake.

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My love is necessary for those who give

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gladly to each other for my sake.

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And my love is necessary for those who

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visit each other for my sake.

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This hadith is hadith qudusi.

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Which means Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is

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saying to us, That my love is now

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necessary for those who truly, truly love for

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my sake.

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And give for my sake.

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And visit the sick for my sake.

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Look at these three qualities.

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Good akhlaq and good manners.

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So number one, they love each other for

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the sake of Allah azza wa jal.

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Not because they're funny, they're rich, you know,

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I can benefit from them.

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No, no, no.

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They love them because for the love of

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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He is mashaAllah, He is righteous.

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I feel safe around Him.

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She's amazing.

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I always benefit from her when she talks

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to me, alhamdulillah.

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She brings me closer to Allah azza wa

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jal.

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So we love them for the sake of

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And they're very generous.

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They give for the sake of Allah azza

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wa jal.

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Regularly, always give for the sake of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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So they give, and they give for the

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sake of Allah azza wa jal.

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And also, they think about their other brothers

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and sisters who are sick.

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They're missing from the masjid.

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Missing from the gathering.

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What happened to him, what happened to her?

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Or they're sick.

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I should go and pay a visit inshaAllah.

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If you couldn't, at least pick up the

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phone.

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Call them.

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Hey, I haven't seen you for a while.

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Are you okay?

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Making sure that you do this for the

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sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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And, I'm doing this because I want Allah

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to love me.

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I want Allah to love me.

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It's good akhlaq and good manners.

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And you see Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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He loves those who have good manners and

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good akhlaq.

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Yes.

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Another hadith says, The firmest handle of faith,

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iman, Is that you love for Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, And hate for Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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Yes.

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There are many hadiths to this effect.

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So, this hadith, This hadith, the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam said, This hadith is extremely

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important, jama'ah.

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Especially in times like ours.

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When you see right now that loyalty, Loyalty

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in this dunya, is to what?

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To self-interest.

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Self-interest.

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We live in a society which promotes self

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-interest, Promotes extreme and radical sense of individuality,

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And personality.

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Everybody is for themselves.

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And nowadays, even on the scale of nations,

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Every nation is now for itself.

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No one is talking about the whole world,

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We're all one village, Everybody is like, hey,

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I come first.

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My nation comes first.

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Right?

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That extreme level of individuality, Is leading people

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to have loyalties to their interest.

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But here, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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says, Your loyalty should be in accordance to

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what?

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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When you love somebody, you love them for

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the sake of Allah.

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Not because they serve your interest.

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And when you hate them, Not because you

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hate them for selfish reason.

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It's because, I know that they do the

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thing that displeases Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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So my connection with the people is in

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accordance to that.

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That's what we call al-wala'u wal

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-bara'.

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That you have that sense of loyalty, To

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the people who brings you closer to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, And stay away from

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those who bring you farther away from Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Know that whoever loves for Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala and hates for Allah, After all,

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Know that whoever loves for Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala, Also hates for Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala.

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After all, if you love a person because

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he's obedient to Allah, You will certainly hate

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him for Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, If

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he disobeys him.

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There is actually a hadith related to this

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matter, Which was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said, In this beautiful read, in authenticity,

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Is that, Know

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two people, Know two people, Who get closer

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to each other, And then they separate, Except

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that somebody, Start disobeying Allah subhanahu wa ta

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'ala.

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Like, know two people, Get together for the

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sake of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, And

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then they start separating, It's most likely somebody

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is now getting farther away from Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala.

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Because if you truly love them for the

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sake of Allah, Now, their disobedience to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, Will put a barrier

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between you and these individuals.

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However, there are different categories, And he's going

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to explain some of these examples.

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Now, Like

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if you love them for money, And then

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they stop giving you money, What is going

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to happen?

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You're going to hate them.

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If you love them because they're funny, And

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now they're boring, You're going to hate them

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for that.

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If you love them because they look nice,

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Whatever that is, And then they change that,

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Whatever reason besides the love for Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, That's going to change.

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So that's why he says, it's going to

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happen.

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You're going to leave them.

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Now, Is that

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even possible?

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Can you love somebody and hate them at

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the same time?

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Like, can you tell your wife, I love

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you, but I hate you at the same

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time?

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You'd be dead, right?

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No, but seriously, If you talk, Can you

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hate somebody and love somebody at the same

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time?

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So, to say, love somebody and hate somebody,

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That's a bit, you know, tricky question.

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But you love them from one angle, And

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hate them from one angle, Which means you

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don't hate the person.

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You hate them for specific qualities.

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Not because of who they are, But what

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these qualities are.

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What does that mean?

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I love this individual because, mashallah, He's always

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in the masjid, Dedicated for da'wah, so

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and so.

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But you know what, unfortunately, You know, he

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had this bad akhlaq and manners.

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The way I see him speaking, for example,

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With others, I don't like it.

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So you have that kind of cautious reaction,

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Or interaction with the individual.

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Or you love somebody because, Like many subhanallah

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people, In terms of being Muslims, Alhamdulillah may

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Allah give them thabat and their iman.

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They practice the deed, But they have a

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lot of sins.

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Some they drink, some they watch something haram.

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Some, you know, they work in a haram

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place, Like with riba and so on.

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So I love them for their Islam.

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But I hate what they do.

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I hate that what they do.

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So that's part of what we call The

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hadith of wara.

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That's an expression of the hadith That we

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recited earlier.

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Because you need here, in this example, You

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need to differentiate between Your love for them,

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for being Muslims, But at the same time,

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I'm not going to compromise my value Because

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of your sins and your mistakes And your

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errors.

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You keep that clear.

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You must love a Muslim for his Islam

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And hate him for his disobedience And observe

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a middle way with him Between total avoidance,

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And complete disobedience.

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If his sin is just a slip And

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you know that he will regret it, It

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is better to overlook, And conceal it.

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But if he persists in it, One must

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manifest his hate, Both by turning away, Keeping

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distance, And employing harsh words.

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According to the harshness Of the sin, May

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Allah protect us from these scenarios.

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So when he says, You need also to

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look for the person That you're dealing with

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over here.

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Yes, you love them for their Islam, But

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you need to make sure That you have

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that hate in your heart For their sin,

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for what they're committing.

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But you also need to be easy with

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them.

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What does that mean?

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If someone does something out of mistake, Let's

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say, they're known to be Mashallah good.

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But then they had hafwa, Which means they

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tripped.

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Which is really inappropriate.

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Should I just cancel this individual altogether?

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The answer is no.

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Because it depends.

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If that person seems to be remorseful, Regretful,

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They hated what they've done, Then we should

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give them a slack.

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We still accept them, And try to help

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them Mashallah recover, And become better.

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But if the person is committing their sins,

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And they are so proud of it, And

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they post about it online, And they talk

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about it publicly, Mashallah, That is the person

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you need to practice What he says here,

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Stay away from them, And distance yourself from

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them.

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That's what it means over here.

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You stay away from them.

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Because why?

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If you stay close to them, They might

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drag you into that same lifestyle.

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And that's going to be dangerous.

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You'll be doomed, And they'll be doomed at

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the same time.

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So make sure to realize that If you

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deal with someone, You should be careful.

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So this is basically the introduction to the

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subject.

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Next week inshallah when we come back, He's

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going to be dividing the categories To three

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categories.

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That's going to come next inshallah.

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But we need to discuss that next week.

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The point now from this introduction Is to

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understand what?

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That what is the base of the good

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companionship And brother and sisterhood?

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Before that, Good character.

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Good character comes from where?

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From the love of Allah SWT.

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for good companionship comes from akhlaq and manners.

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And where the good manners come from?

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It's Allah's subhanahu wa ta'ala criteria, to

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please Allah azza wa jal.

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So I need to please him subhanahu wa

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ta'ala by doing the thing that Allah

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asks of me to do and stay away

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from.

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That is the base of our deen and

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our akhlaq.

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So remember this, so when you deal with

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people, you deal based on your standards, not

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their standards, wallahu a'lam.

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So we're still reading hadith number 30, hadith

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number 30 which is hadith Abu Thalaba al

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-Khushani radiyallahu ta'ala anhu wa arda.

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In which the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

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said, qal inna allaha farada fara'ida fala

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tuday'uha.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, he prescribed obligations

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so don't break them, don't waste them, don't

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ignore them.

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wa hadda hududan fala ta'taduha.

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And he set limits, don't cross them, don't

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exceed them.

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wa harrama asha'a fala tantahikuha.

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And he made things prohibited so do not

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violate them.

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wa sakata'an asha'a rahmatan bikum.

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And he remained silent regarding certain matters.

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Rahma, out of mercy, not out of forgetfulness.

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Fala tabhathu anha, don't go and investigate these

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things, don't keep questioning these matters.

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So we know that from this hadith, and

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the ulema they mention about this hadith is

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one of the greatest in terms of explaining

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the basics of our deen.

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So there are certain obligations to do, prohibitions

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to stay away from, limits not to exceed,

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and of course some matters of silence, the

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sharia silent about, stay away from it, don't

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even try to investigate that matter.

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So we covered the first category.

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And if you remember, we said some of

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the ulema, some of our ulema, they worry

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about calling something fard, right?

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They worry about calling something fard.

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And therefore they always kind of like be

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careful to call something fard or wajib.

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And also sometimes they worry about calling something

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sunnah, even though it is sunnah, out of

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fear, when you say sunnah, what will people

00:31:09 --> 00:31:09

do?

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When you say this is sunnah, what people

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might do?

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Skip it.

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Why is that?

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Because if it's not binding, why not?

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That's why people they say, is that wajib?

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So no, it's sunnah.

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Okay, alhamdulillah.

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So what does that mean?

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Alhamdulillah, don't want to do it.

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That's what they mean by that.

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That's the wrong thing to practice.

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If it's sunnah, that's what you need to

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do.

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So this is what we covered in the

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first category.

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And now, inshallah ta'ala, we are going

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to be talking about al-muharram.

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Bismillah.

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Bismillah wa alhamdulillah wa salatu wa salamu ala

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rasulillah.

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The author, rahimahullah, says, As for those things

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which are forbidden, there are those which Allah,

00:31:53 --> 00:31:56

exalted is He, protects and prohibits their being

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approached or committed or violated.

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The matters which are decisively haram are mentioned

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in the book and the sunnah.

00:32:05 --> 00:32:08

Such as in his saying, exalted is He,

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

Qul ta'ala wa atlu ma harrama rabbukum

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alaykum, alla tushriku bihi shay'a, wa bilwalidayni

00:32:15 --> 00:32:19

ihsana, wala taqutulu awladakum min imlaat.

00:32:20 --> 00:32:23

Say, come and I will recite to you

00:32:23 --> 00:32:25

what your Lord has made haram for you.

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That you do not associate anything with Him.

00:32:28 --> 00:32:31

That you are good to your parents.

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That you do not kill your children because

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of poverty.

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Up to the end of the third ayat.

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Which I want to actually share the ayat

00:32:40 --> 00:32:41

with you.

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If you give me a second inshallah ta

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'ala here.

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Because this is very important.

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Surat al-an'am.

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Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, in surat al

00:32:49 --> 00:32:54

-an'am, Allah, exalted is He, says, Qul

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

ta'ala wa atlu ma harrama rabbukum alaykum

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alla tushriku bihi shay'a, wa bilwalidayni ihsana.

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So these three ayat here in surat al

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-an'am, they are like you could call

00:33:03 --> 00:33:04

them the ten commandments.

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The ten commandments for the Muslim ummah.

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

What Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, has commanded

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

you, or prohibited at least for you, and

00:33:12 --> 00:33:15

commanded you to do, summarized in these three

00:33:15 --> 00:33:16

verses.

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Imam Ibn Rajab, rahimahullah ta'ala, he is

00:33:19 --> 00:33:22

setting these ayat as an example for what

00:33:22 --> 00:33:25

is clearly haram and everybody agrees on.

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Why this is now everybody agrees on it's

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

clearly haram?

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Because it's been mentioned through the text with

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clear prohibition.

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How do you know this is haram?

00:33:35 --> 00:33:37

All these things that are considered haram.

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How do you know it's haram here?

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For which word in the ayah?

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Harrama.

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Like the Prophet was being commanded, Ya Muhammad,

00:33:46 --> 00:33:49

tell them, come to me so I can

00:33:49 --> 00:33:51

recite to you what Allah had made haram

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

for you.

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Like it's obviously clear, straightforward, haram.

00:33:55 --> 00:34:00

So a true believer, if you really worry

00:34:00 --> 00:34:04

about crossing the line and violating Allah, subhanahu

00:34:04 --> 00:34:05

wa ta'ala's Muharramat, what do you need

00:34:05 --> 00:34:06

to do when you read these ayat?

00:34:07 --> 00:34:12

Pause, and read, and see for yourself if

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

you are one of those who violate these

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

principles of prohibition.

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So the first one was, You don't associate

00:34:20 --> 00:34:21

partners with Him.

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Number two, that you need to be kind

00:34:25 --> 00:34:25

to your parents.

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So what is haram over here?

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The opposite.

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Being unbeautiful to your parents.

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

Don't kill your children out of poverty or

00:34:35 --> 00:34:35

fear of poverty.

00:34:37 --> 00:34:39

We'll provide you one point for them.

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Don't come near the fawahish, which means these

00:34:45 --> 00:34:45

awful indecencies.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:48

What is apparent and what is private?

00:34:49 --> 00:34:51

Something you do it privately or do it

00:34:51 --> 00:34:52

publicly.

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He said, Don't kill the innocent soul or

00:34:58 --> 00:35:01

person unless it is due by the truth.

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

Which means, for example, it's a punishment for

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

killing somebody else or something like that.

00:35:06 --> 00:35:10

He said, Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, advised

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

you in this manner so you'd understand.

00:35:12 --> 00:35:17

And then he says, Don't near He said,

00:35:17 --> 00:35:19

Don't come near.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

He didn't say, don't take or don't use.

00:35:22 --> 00:35:26

He said, Don't come near the wealth of

00:35:26 --> 00:35:30

the orphan unless you're trying to make it

00:35:30 --> 00:35:33

better, which means invest for them and use

00:35:33 --> 00:35:33

it wisely.

00:35:35 --> 00:35:36

Until they reach their age, which means give

00:35:36 --> 00:35:37

it to them.

00:35:39 --> 00:35:42

When you trade with people, scale right.

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

Make sure that you weigh right.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

To the best of your ability.

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

And when you speak, speak what?

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

Fairly and justly.

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

Don't lie, don't hide, don't manipulate.

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

Even if it was against someone who's relative

00:35:59 --> 00:35:59

to you.

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Which means you need to be honest, not

00:36:01 --> 00:36:01

to be biased.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:05

And you need to make sure that you

00:36:05 --> 00:36:08

fulfill Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, which means

00:36:08 --> 00:36:08

what?

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The covenant.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

That the covenant, if you make an oath,

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

if you make a yameen, that you observe

00:36:13 --> 00:36:13

that.

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And then he says, This is my surat.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21

That's a mustaqeem.

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It's going to be straight.

00:36:22 --> 00:36:23

Follow it.

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So, if you want to be on the

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

straight path that you keep asking Allah for,

00:36:27 --> 00:36:32

which is Here is a list of things

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

you need to think about and always to

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

watch for.

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And if you do so, as Allah describes,

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

subhanahu wa ta'ala, I hope it defeats

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

you and keeps you on that straight path

00:36:42 --> 00:36:42

to Allah.

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

He says, follow it.

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

Don't go away from this path.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:52

Otherwise, you'll go straight in every other direction.

00:36:52 --> 00:36:53

Beside the direction that leads you to Allah,

00:36:54 --> 00:36:54

subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:36:55 --> 00:36:58

That requires righteousness from you.

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

May Allah make us among those who are

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

righteous.

00:37:00 --> 00:37:02

So as you can see, that's the meaning

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

of this principle here for us.

00:37:05 --> 00:37:09

Now, Up to the end of the third

00:37:09 --> 00:37:10

ayah.

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Wait a minute.

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Actually, I skipped that to the other page.

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Here we go.

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Go ahead.

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Up to the end of the third ayah

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and also in his saying, exalted is he,

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قُلْ إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ رَبِّيَ الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا

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وَمَا بَطَنَ وَالإِثْمَ وَالْبَغْيَ بِغَيْرِ الْحَقِّ وَأَن تُشْرِكُوا

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بِاللَّهِ مَا لَمْ يُنَزِّلْ بِهِ سُلْطَانًا وَأَن تَقُولُوا

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عَلَى اللَّهِ مَا لَا تَعْلُمُونَ Say, My Lord

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has forbidden indecency, both open and hidden, and

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wrong action, and no

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authority, and saying things about Allah, you do

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not know.

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So in this ayah, Allah subhanahu wa ta

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'ala also says, قُلْ إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ رَبِّيَ الْفَوَاحِشَ

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So here, Imam Ibn Rajab rahimahullah said, look,

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this is a straightforward statement from Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala that this is haram.

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As simple and clear as it can be.

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There's another category.

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The second category of haram is what?

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Some forbidden, he said.

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Some forbidden matters that are specific to a

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category are mentioned in some ayat.

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Which means, the previous category, they're very general.

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Like Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, you

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know what, we need to be fair.

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When you trade, trade fairly.

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He didn't mention any details of riba, haram,

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cheating is haram.

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He didn't mention all the details.

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In general.

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Now he is going to mention some prohibitions

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that are specific, to specific categories.

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Like what?

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That are specific to a category are mentioned

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in some ayat as, for example, the mention

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of foods that are forbidden in a number

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of places.

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For example, he's saying, exalted is he, قُلْ

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لَا أَجِدُ فِي مَا أُوحِيَ إِلَيَّ مُحَرَّمًا عَلَىٰ

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طَاعِمٍ يَطَعَمُهُ إِلَّا يَكُونَ مَيْتَةً أَوْ دَمَن مَسْفُوحًا

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أَوْ لَحْمَةٍ زِيرٍ فَإِنَّهُ رِجْسٍ أَوْ فِسْقًا مِنْهِلًا

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لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ بِهِ Say, I do not find

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in what has been revealed to me any

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food it is haram to eat except for

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carrion, flowing blood, and pork.

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For that is unclean, for some deviance consecrated

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to other than Allah.

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So here's an example of what Allah made

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haram in terms of food.

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And the examples are many.

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He mentioned multiple ayat.

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Another example, we go down to the next

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page Insha'Allah ta'ala There is a

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mention of marriage, subject of marriage.

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The top of the next page, the third

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line There is mention of the women who

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are forbidden in marriage.

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There is mention of the women who are

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forbidden in marriage in his saying حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمْ

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أُمَّهَاتُكُمْ وَبَنَاتُكُمْ حَرَمْ فُرْيُّ أَرْيُّ مَوْذَرْسٍ أَوْ دَوْتَرْسٍ

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And the ayah is long by the way.

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So Allah mentioned all the prohibited kins for

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marriage.

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حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمْ أُمَّهَاتُكُمْ وَبَنَاتُكُمْ وَخَوَاتُكُمْ وَعَمَّاتُكُمْ

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وَخَالَاتُكُمْ All the details like your aunts, your

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maternal, your paternal aunts mentioned them all to

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be prohibited for you.

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So he was very specific here about the

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subject of marriage.

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The third category There is mention There is

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mention of earnings which are forbidden in his

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saying وَحَلَّ اللَّهُ الْبَيْعَ وَحَرَّمَ الْرِبَى So he

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mentioned three examples over here.

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So what has been prohibited in specific categories.

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Food and subject of marriage and also in

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earnings which means trade.

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Allah made haram for you riba and made

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halal for you to trade and sell and

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deal with people.

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So he is just an example.

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Those examples were from the Quran.

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Haram that was mentioned in the Quran.

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He is going to come to another category,

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second category right now.

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The haram that was mentioned in the sunnah

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of the Prophet s.a.w. As for

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the sunnah As for the sunnah there is

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mention of many things which are forbidden in

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it such as in his saying s.a

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.w. Allah forbids the sale of wine meita,

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pork and idols and his saying whenever Allah

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prohibits something he also prohibits its price i

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.e. to sell it and then consume or

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use the money received and his saying every

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intoxicant is haram and his saying your lives

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literally bloods, your properties your honors are haram

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to you.

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So as you can see from the hadith

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of the Prophet s.a.w. he used

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the term what?

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Haram clearly so he used the term haram

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clearly s.a.w. Then he is going

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to bring right now another category so he

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is going to summarize the first category by

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saying whatever is openly whatever is openly declared

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haram in the book in the sunnah is

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haram.

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That's the first category.

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So if it was if the term of

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the word haram was mentioned clearly in the

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

Quran and sunnah of the Prophet s.a

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.w. it's clearly to be haram.

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Is there any other way that if we

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read it in the Quran or the sunnah

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we will derive prohibition and haram from it?

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The answer is yes.

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Here is another example One can also derive

00:42:21 --> 00:42:24

the sense that something is haram from wordings

00:42:24 --> 00:42:30

which indicate prohibition along with containing threats and

00:42:30 --> 00:42:33

underlining the seriousness of the matter.

00:42:33 --> 00:42:36

Like it's not explicitly the word is not

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explicitly haram but the different terminologies that would

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do that.

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If you study usool al fiqh if you

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study usool al fiqh they call them alfad

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

al tahreem meaning the words of haram what

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are the different expressions used in the Arabic

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

language, in the Arabic grammar also in the

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

statement of the Prophet s.a.w. in

00:42:56 --> 00:42:58

the Quran that would indicate haram So from

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some of these examples is giving threats to

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

certain specific act.

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

Threatening if you do it that this will

00:43:06 --> 00:43:08

happen to you for example Another is when

00:43:08 --> 00:43:10

Allah s.w.t or the Prophet s

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.a.w. used an nahi clear nahi.

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Like do not do this don't come near

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this.

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Right?

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So these are also expressions of prohibition.

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So he said there are many expressions of

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prohibition.

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He's going to choose one example here Underlining

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

the seriousness of the matter such as in

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

his words s.a.w. such as in

00:43:27 --> 00:43:49

his words s.a.w. s

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.a.w. You who have iman, wine and

00:43:54 --> 00:44:00

gambling stone altars and divining arrows are filled

00:44:00 --> 00:44:04

from the handiwork of shaytan avoid them completely

00:44:04 --> 00:44:08

so that hopefully you will be successful shaytan

00:44:08 --> 00:44:11

wants to stir up enmity and hatred between

00:44:11 --> 00:44:14

you by means of wine and gambling and

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17

to debar you from remembrance of Allah and

00:44:17 --> 00:44:21

from his salah will you not then give

00:44:21 --> 00:44:21

them up?

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So what is the word that you see

00:44:23 --> 00:44:26

here in this ayah that will make you

00:44:26 --> 00:44:27

realize it's haram?

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Because a lot of actually people who wants

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

to act smart they say look the ayah

00:44:31 --> 00:44:37

doesn't say it's haram stay away from it

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

so if the ayah tells you to stay

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

away from it what does that mean?

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

Touching it and holding it is haram.

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

Like one smart guy one time he said

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

if I have it far away from me

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and I use a straw to draw the

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

wine would that be okay?

00:44:54 --> 00:44:55

You must be high in that moment probably

00:44:56 --> 00:45:00

but definitely trying to manipulate the words of

00:45:00 --> 00:45:03

Allah because they don't understand the implication of

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

the Arabic language there's another indication by the

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

way here in this ayah that also tell

00:45:08 --> 00:45:09

you it's haram.

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

What is it?

00:45:11 --> 00:45:14

Ridz Ridz, filth.

00:45:14 --> 00:45:14

Also what?

00:45:15 --> 00:45:17

Min amal al shaytan the acts of the

00:45:17 --> 00:45:17

shaytan.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

What else jama'ah?

00:45:20 --> 00:45:22

The shaytan wants to use this to do

00:45:22 --> 00:45:22

what?

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

To sow and plant seeds of what?

00:45:25 --> 00:45:30

Of hatred and animosity like turn away from

00:45:30 --> 00:45:31

dhikr of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

00:45:31 --> 00:45:34

All these words all these statements in this

00:45:34 --> 00:45:38

ayah and they just completely ignore that and

00:45:38 --> 00:45:41

they say Allah didn't say it's haram Allah

00:45:41 --> 00:45:44

didn't say it's haram so Imam Ibn Rajab

00:45:44 --> 00:45:46

Rahim another way Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

00:45:46 --> 00:45:49

would show us what's haram by showing the

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

threats or the punishments or the implication of

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

using it something to do something to become

00:45:54 --> 00:45:55

bad and so on so that's one of

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

these examples and like I said they're different

00:45:57 --> 00:46:00

also wordings and expressions that would indicate haram

00:46:00 --> 00:46:02

that's something you study in usool al fiqh

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

over here.

00:46:03 --> 00:46:07

There's now a third a third actually category

00:46:07 --> 00:46:10

but it's disputable he's asking the question about

00:46:10 --> 00:46:13

it right now as for mention of prohibition

00:46:13 --> 00:46:17

alone as for mention of prohibition alone i

00:46:17 --> 00:46:21

.e. do not which is the standard expression

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

of nahi or prohibition in the Arabic language

00:46:23 --> 00:46:26

like when you want to when you want

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

to tell somebody to stay away from something

00:46:29 --> 00:46:32

we say laa taf'al that's what we

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

call the expression of nahi the expression of

00:46:35 --> 00:46:38

prohibition so no, do not and then there

00:46:38 --> 00:46:42

is the present verb about the action itself.

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

Do not do this for example.

00:46:45 --> 00:46:47

So he says if the hadith or the

00:46:47 --> 00:46:52

ayah probably openly says do not as every

00:46:52 --> 00:46:57

expression or statement of nahi constitute haram, that's

00:46:57 --> 00:46:58

the argument over here.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:02

As every expression of do not laa taf

00:47:02 --> 00:47:04

'al is considered haram.

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

Now so we can understand the concept over

00:47:07 --> 00:47:09

here let's talk about the difference between the

00:47:09 --> 00:47:10

two categories.

00:47:11 --> 00:47:12

So when it comes to the subject of

00:47:12 --> 00:47:15

haram if you guys remember when we defined

00:47:15 --> 00:47:17

al-wajib or al-fard what did we

00:47:17 --> 00:47:18

say?

00:47:18 --> 00:47:25

It's commanding it's actually demanding a command that

00:47:25 --> 00:47:30

is binding demanding a command that is binding

00:47:30 --> 00:47:33

that's what we call wajib and in terms

00:47:33 --> 00:47:37

of reward and punishment doing it, you'll get

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

reward for doing it and there is punishment

00:47:39 --> 00:47:44

if you don't, that's the wajib now demanding

00:47:44 --> 00:47:48

a command that is not binding what do

00:47:48 --> 00:47:48

we call that?

00:47:49 --> 00:47:52

Mustahab, recommended if you do it, you get

00:47:52 --> 00:47:57

reward if you don't, no harm so this

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

is now in regard to the obligation, the

00:47:58 --> 00:48:01

command let's talk about the prohibition right now

00:48:01 --> 00:48:03

so to understand the prohibition in these two

00:48:03 --> 00:48:07

categories the same thing demanding a prohibition that

00:48:07 --> 00:48:11

is binding demanding a prohibition that is binding,

00:48:11 --> 00:48:12

what do we call that?

00:48:13 --> 00:48:16

the haram demanding a prohibition that is binding

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

it's haram.

00:48:17 --> 00:48:20

In terms of reward and punishment, if you

00:48:20 --> 00:48:23

do it you'll be punished and if you

00:48:23 --> 00:48:24

don't, you'll be rewarded.

00:48:25 --> 00:48:27

So there is reward for staying away from

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

it and there is punishment for doing it,

00:48:29 --> 00:48:32

the opposite to al-wajib now what about

00:48:32 --> 00:48:34

al-makruh the one that is disliked how

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

would you then define it?

00:48:36 --> 00:48:41

demanding a prohibition that is not binding that's

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

not binding, that becomes makruh so here's the

00:48:43 --> 00:48:46

question that he's asking Imam Ibn Rajab is

00:48:46 --> 00:48:50

if there is a standalone statement of prohibition

00:48:50 --> 00:48:53

what's the standard understanding from it?

00:48:53 --> 00:48:57

Does that constitute binding prohibition so it's haram

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

right away or is it not?

00:49:00 --> 00:49:03

and if it's not what type of prohibition

00:49:03 --> 00:49:04

would we call that?

00:49:05 --> 00:49:07

what type of prohibition would we call that?

00:49:07 --> 00:49:09

he says, or at least we're going to

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

come to see inshallah ta'ala, they call

00:49:11 --> 00:49:16

it nahi irshad nahi irshad, that's basically it's

00:49:16 --> 00:49:19

more of like a prohibition of guidance which

00:49:19 --> 00:49:22

means it falls under the category of adab

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

and etiquette, that's it adab and etiquette, so

00:49:25 --> 00:49:27

that's what the discussion is going to be

00:49:27 --> 00:49:31

here go ahead as for mention of prohibition

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

alone i.e. do not, then people differ

00:49:33 --> 00:49:36

as to whether or not one should derive

00:49:36 --> 00:49:39

the sense that the matter is haram it

00:49:39 --> 00:49:44

is narrated of Ibn Umar that he repudiated

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

derivation of the sense that it is haram

00:49:47 --> 00:49:53

from it Ibn Mubarak said salam Ibn Abi

00:49:53 --> 00:49:58

Mutia told us from Ibn Abi Dukhaila that

00:49:58 --> 00:50:01

his father said I was with Ibn Umar

00:50:01 --> 00:50:07

and he said the messenger of Allah forbade

00:50:07 --> 00:50:10

raisins and dates, meaning to mix them so

00:50:10 --> 00:50:13

a man behind me asked me, what did

00:50:13 --> 00:50:13

he say?

00:50:14 --> 00:50:18

I answered, the messenger of Allah made raisins

00:50:18 --> 00:50:22

and dates haram Abdullah Ibn Umar said you

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

lie so I asked did you not say

00:50:25 --> 00:50:31

that the messenger of Allah forbade it and

00:50:31 --> 00:50:36

so it is haram he answered, do you

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

witness to that?

00:50:38 --> 00:50:41

salam said, it was as if he were

00:50:41 --> 00:50:45

saying there are those things which the Prophet

00:50:45 --> 00:50:48

salallahu alayhi wa sallam forbade, which are a

00:50:48 --> 00:50:51

matter of courtesy and discipline so again, this

00:50:51 --> 00:50:53

becomes a matter of adab, give an example

00:50:53 --> 00:50:56

the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam prohibited the

00:50:56 --> 00:51:00

messenger of Allah from fasting on Saturday the

00:51:00 --> 00:51:03

Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam forbade us fasting

00:51:03 --> 00:51:09

on Saturday unless it is considered obligatory so

00:51:09 --> 00:51:11

based on this statement right now, and the

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

statement of prohibition, which means forbade, is in

00:51:13 --> 00:51:16

the hadith so what's the ruling on fasting

00:51:16 --> 00:51:17

Saturday alone?

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

should be from this statement, what do you

00:51:20 --> 00:51:20

infer from it?

00:51:21 --> 00:51:25

it's prohibited because clearly he forbade salallahu alayhi

00:51:25 --> 00:51:29

wa sallam, however there's another hadith in which

00:51:29 --> 00:51:30

the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, one day

00:51:30 --> 00:51:33

he entered the house of his wife Hafsa

00:51:34 --> 00:51:37

on a Friday and she was fasting that

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

day, so he told her salallahu alayhi wa

00:51:39 --> 00:51:41

sallam he says, did you fast yesterday?

00:51:41 --> 00:51:44

she goes, no he goes, are you planning

00:51:44 --> 00:51:45

to fast tomorrow?

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

which would be, what day would that be?

00:51:47 --> 00:51:51

Saturday she said, no he goes, ok, break

00:51:51 --> 00:51:54

your fast why did he ask her to

00:51:54 --> 00:51:55

break her fast?

00:51:55 --> 00:51:58

because he also forbade us from fasting Friday

00:51:58 --> 00:52:00

alone right, you need to fast the day

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

before day after, so he told her are

00:52:02 --> 00:52:05

you fasting the next day which would be

00:52:05 --> 00:52:07

Saturday, what does that mean right now?

00:52:09 --> 00:52:12

that you can fast Saturday but not alone

00:52:12 --> 00:52:15

so what would that be mean when the

00:52:15 --> 00:52:17

Prophet says, don't fast Saturday unless it's a

00:52:17 --> 00:52:20

fard on you adab and etiquette and irshad

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22

nahi irshad, it doesn't have to be nahi

00:52:22 --> 00:52:25

tahrim, so if you do it, there is

00:52:25 --> 00:52:28

no harm but if you avoid it there

00:52:28 --> 00:52:30

is a reward for you, that's the definition

00:52:30 --> 00:52:32

of the makruh, so that's the category that

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

we're talking about over here, next we have

00:52:34 --> 00:52:37

previously mentioned we have previously mentioned from some

00:52:37 --> 00:52:40

of the scrupulous people of knowledge such as

00:52:40 --> 00:52:44

Ahmed and Malik they're being cautious about using

00:52:44 --> 00:52:46

the term haram for those things about which

00:52:47 --> 00:52:53

there is no uncertainty no certainty that it

00:52:53 --> 00:52:56

has been made haram i.e. those things

00:52:56 --> 00:52:59

which are of the kind which are ambiguous

00:52:59 --> 00:53:02

or about which there is disagreement so that's

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

one of the things we mentioned last time

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

if you remember, the ulama they hate to

00:53:06 --> 00:53:08

use the word haram because they're scared of

00:53:08 --> 00:53:11

it because if Allah did not mention it

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

clearly explicitly with the term haram I can't

00:53:13 --> 00:53:16

say that word so they avoid it, but

00:53:16 --> 00:53:18

they say we don't like it and back

00:53:18 --> 00:53:20

then when they say we don't like it

00:53:20 --> 00:53:20

means what?

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

it means it's haram so stay away from

00:53:24 --> 00:53:26

it but they just don't dare to use

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

the expression haram that was in the early

00:53:28 --> 00:53:31

generations later on when the ulama they organized

00:53:31 --> 00:53:34

and codified the code of usul al fiqh

00:53:34 --> 00:53:37

that the kind of like confusion, ambiguity of

00:53:37 --> 00:53:40

the words were removed, so now using haram

00:53:40 --> 00:53:43

for what's haram is clear and using makruh

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

for what's makruh is also clear and so

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47

on, so that's in regard to this matter,

00:53:47 --> 00:53:48

let's move on to the next part inshallah,

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

to the bottom of the page some of

00:53:51 --> 00:53:59

these things on the top of the bottom

00:53:59 --> 00:54:02

of the paragraph some of these things which

00:54:02 --> 00:54:06

are verbally prohibited are a matter of courtesy

00:54:06 --> 00:54:09

and instruction and that's what we explained already

00:54:09 --> 00:54:11

so the third category right now so we

00:54:11 --> 00:54:15

covered al fard we covered al haram and

00:54:15 --> 00:54:17

now the third category al hudud the limits,

00:54:18 --> 00:54:22

ok as for the limits of Allah transgressing

00:54:22 --> 00:54:25

which is forbidden then what is meant by

00:54:25 --> 00:54:28

that is the sum total of that which

00:54:28 --> 00:54:31

he has permitted to do whether that is

00:54:31 --> 00:54:35

by way of being obligatory recommended or permitted

00:54:35 --> 00:54:40

and the transgression is going beyond that and

00:54:40 --> 00:54:43

perpetrating those matters which are forbidden so here's

00:54:43 --> 00:54:46

the thing, the first the imam of rajab

00:54:46 --> 00:54:48

rahimallah he mentions that these limits there's a

00:54:48 --> 00:54:51

kind of different definitions of these limits there's

00:54:51 --> 00:54:53

a different ulama some they define these limits

00:54:53 --> 00:54:57

by collection, the sum total of all what

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

Allah made halal and haram that's what it

00:54:59 --> 00:55:02

means so all the sum total what Allah

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

made halal and haram so if Allah swt

00:55:05 --> 00:55:09

he forbade us from fasting for example the

00:55:09 --> 00:55:13

day of Eid and somebody fasted 30 days

00:55:13 --> 00:55:15

of Ramadan on the Eid day he said

00:55:15 --> 00:55:17

you know what, that's not enough for me

00:55:18 --> 00:55:20

I want to add this extra day inshallah

00:55:20 --> 00:55:22

what do we tell the majma?

00:55:23 --> 00:55:26

absolutely not, that now is crossing the limits

00:55:27 --> 00:55:29

because Allah said this is haram you can't

00:55:29 --> 00:55:31

fast that day, doesn't matter how you feel

00:55:31 --> 00:55:33

about it, so this is haram and somebody

00:55:33 --> 00:55:35

would say you know what I'm going to

00:55:35 --> 00:55:37

pray tahajjud inshallah but I'm going to pray

00:55:37 --> 00:55:41

tahajjud standing on one leg what do you

00:55:41 --> 00:55:42

guys think of that?

00:55:42 --> 00:55:43

isn't that impressive?

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

of course not that's bid'ah and it's

00:55:48 --> 00:55:51

not acceptable because I'm crossing the line it's

00:55:51 --> 00:55:53

ok to pray tahajjud but if you're going

00:55:53 --> 00:55:54

to go and tell me you're going to

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

stand on one leg because you would like

00:55:56 --> 00:55:59

to prove that you're mashallah better than the

00:55:59 --> 00:56:02

prophet so absolutely not this is now crossing

00:56:02 --> 00:56:04

the line so the sum total of what

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

is fard what is haram and what is

00:56:06 --> 00:56:10

halal and so on as he says, exalted

00:56:10 --> 00:56:19

is he those are Allah's limits and anyone

00:56:19 --> 00:56:24

who oversteps Allah's limits has wronged himself and

00:56:24 --> 00:56:27

what is meant here is anyone who divorces

00:56:27 --> 00:56:30

in another way from that which Allah commands

00:56:30 --> 00:56:33

or permits so why did he say those

00:56:33 --> 00:56:34

are divorces, why is that?

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

because the ayah is in the context of

00:56:40 --> 00:56:42

divorce if you look at the ayah, it's

00:56:42 --> 00:56:45

in the context of divorce so Allah speaks

00:56:45 --> 00:56:48

about how people divorce and so on and

00:56:48 --> 00:56:52

unfortunately nowadays Allah al mustaan the people they

00:56:52 --> 00:56:54

want to marry in the masjid and they

00:56:54 --> 00:56:57

want to divorce somewhere else and they rip

00:56:57 --> 00:57:00

each other apart because of that and Allah

00:57:00 --> 00:57:04

says this is how you do it you

00:57:04 --> 00:57:08

do it with ihsan these are the limits

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

of Allah azawajal but when the ego kicks

00:57:10 --> 00:57:13

in and everybody tries to fight for their

00:57:13 --> 00:57:15

own thing and so it becomes horrible and

00:57:15 --> 00:57:16

that's what Allah was warning us in this

00:57:16 --> 00:57:29

ayah he says, exalted is he these

00:57:29 --> 00:57:32

are Allah's limits so do not overstep them

00:57:32 --> 00:57:39

those who overstep Allah's limits are wrongdoers let's

00:57:39 --> 00:57:41

move on to the next inshallah where hadith

00:57:41 --> 00:57:42

an-nawas ibn sam'an do you see

00:57:42 --> 00:57:44

it in the middle of that page this

00:57:44 --> 00:57:47

hadith is very important and I hope that

00:57:47 --> 00:57:49

you guys can truly and genuinely memorize the

00:57:49 --> 00:57:52

hadith I want you to really memorize the

00:57:52 --> 00:57:54

hadith because this hadith there are so many

00:57:54 --> 00:57:57

gems in there and you can use this

00:57:57 --> 00:57:59

in your khatiras you can use it in

00:57:59 --> 00:58:01

your khutbas you can use this for yourself

00:58:01 --> 00:58:04

and reminding others as well it's a summary

00:58:04 --> 00:58:06

of what does it mean to be a

00:58:06 --> 00:58:09

true Muslim and adhering to the limits of

00:58:09 --> 00:58:11

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala a very famous

00:58:11 --> 00:58:13

hadith known as hadith al-sirat it's known

00:58:13 --> 00:58:16

as hadith al-sirat which is, go ahead

00:58:16 --> 00:58:19

an-nawas ibn sam'an narrated that the

00:58:19 --> 00:58:23

Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Allah strikes

00:58:23 --> 00:58:26

a similitude a straight path and on its

00:58:26 --> 00:58:29

two sides are two walls in which there

00:58:29 --> 00:58:32

are open doors and over the doors are

00:58:32 --> 00:58:36

loose curtains over the door of the path

00:58:36 --> 00:58:40

there is a crier saying people enter the

00:58:40 --> 00:58:43

path all of you and do not deviate

00:58:43 --> 00:58:47

there is a crier calling out above the

00:58:47 --> 00:58:51

path whenever anyone intends to open any of

00:58:51 --> 00:58:54

those doors he says woe to you, do

00:58:54 --> 00:58:58

not open it for if you open it

00:58:58 --> 00:59:01

you will enter it the path is Islam

00:59:01 --> 00:59:03

the two walls are the limits of Allah

00:59:03 --> 00:59:06

azza wa jal the open doors are what

00:59:06 --> 00:59:10

Allah has forbidden the crier at the beginning

00:59:10 --> 00:59:12

of the path is the book of Allah

00:59:12 --> 00:59:15

and the crier above the path is the

00:59:15 --> 00:59:18

admonisher of Allah in the heart of every

00:59:18 --> 00:59:21

Muslim Imam Ahmad narrated it and this is

00:59:21 --> 00:59:26

his wording of it and in his Tafsir

00:59:26 --> 00:59:30

and at Tirmidhi who regarded it as a

00:59:30 --> 00:59:33

Hasan Hadith the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam

00:59:33 --> 00:59:36

had given a similitude of this faith because

00:59:36 --> 00:59:39

Islam is like one straight path along the

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

side of Islam there are walls and these

00:59:41 --> 00:59:45

walls the doors are open these doors are

00:59:45 --> 00:59:47

covered with curtains, the word curtain or you

00:59:47 --> 00:59:49

could say just like a piece of cloth

00:59:50 --> 00:59:51

what does that mean?

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

it's easy to open, that's what it means

00:59:53 --> 00:59:57

it's not locked, anyone can peek through by

00:59:57 --> 00:59:58

just removing that curtain to the side, that's

00:59:58 --> 01:00:01

it, as simple as that so people start

01:00:01 --> 01:00:03

walking through the path there's a caller at

01:00:03 --> 01:00:05

the end of that path telling them keep

01:00:05 --> 01:00:09

going straight don't don't get distracted by these

01:00:09 --> 01:00:11

doors because behind these doors and behind these

01:00:11 --> 01:00:15

curtains you see lights flashing, you hear noises

01:00:15 --> 01:00:19

and laughter and stuff fun stuff probably maybe

01:00:19 --> 01:00:22

and the person gets curious so they're going

01:00:22 --> 01:00:24

to just go closer to the door and

01:00:24 --> 01:00:26

maybe try to listen only, say no I'm

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

just going to listen I'm just going to

01:00:28 --> 01:00:30

check the light that beams from behind the

01:00:30 --> 01:00:34

curtain and that's how they fool themselves and

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

then slowly and gradually what do we do?

01:00:36 --> 01:00:38

just you pull that thing and then above

01:00:38 --> 01:00:41

that straight path he said there's another crier

01:00:41 --> 01:00:44

that the admonisher that tells you hey be

01:00:44 --> 01:00:50

careful if you dare pull that curtain you're

01:00:50 --> 01:00:53

going through so no matter how much you

01:00:53 --> 01:00:55

think you're strong he goes it's easy for

01:00:55 --> 01:00:59

people to cross these limits I want you

01:00:59 --> 01:01:03

to understand that what he says in the

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

sharh of the hadith over here he says

01:01:05 --> 01:01:10

there is nothing there is nothing beyond what

01:01:10 --> 01:01:11

Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has made of

01:01:11 --> 01:01:14

his limits anything other than what is considered

01:01:14 --> 01:01:18

haram so basically transgressing against his limits will

01:01:18 --> 01:01:21

take you to the haram as simple as

01:01:21 --> 01:01:23

that let's move on right now to the

01:01:23 --> 01:01:27

next page where he says the word hudud

01:01:27 --> 01:01:28

it's in the middle of the page, hudud

01:01:28 --> 01:01:32

limits hudud limits may be used to mean

01:01:32 --> 01:01:35

the same thing as the matters which are

01:01:35 --> 01:01:37

haram so that's the second category or meaning,

01:01:38 --> 01:01:40

so the first meaning for the word hudud

01:01:40 --> 01:01:42

is the sum total of everything that Allah

01:01:42 --> 01:01:47

made prohibited fard, mustahab, halal in general, so

01:01:47 --> 01:01:49

these are the limits keep those limits, the

01:01:49 --> 01:01:52

other definition the other definition if you don't

01:01:52 --> 01:01:56

mind come this side please and the second

01:01:56 --> 01:02:00

definition is al hudud means the prohibited only

01:02:00 --> 01:02:03

al haram the prohibited yes and at that

01:02:03 --> 01:02:06

point it is said do not approach the

01:02:06 --> 01:02:09

hudud of Allah as Allah exalted as He

01:02:09 --> 01:02:15

says these are Allah's limits so do not

01:02:15 --> 01:02:18

go near them by which is meant the

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

prohibition of perpetrating those haram things which are

01:02:21 --> 01:02:24

prohibited in the ayah with respect to fasting

01:02:24 --> 01:02:28

and itikaf in mosques so that's the second

01:02:28 --> 01:02:31

meaning and we explained what muharramat and nahi

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

earlier and before moving to the third meaning

01:02:34 --> 01:02:36

on the following page what he says at

01:02:36 --> 01:02:40

the top of the page the preventative punishments

01:02:40 --> 01:02:43

which are applied in particular amounts for severely

01:02:43 --> 01:02:47

haram actions have been termed hudud so this

01:02:47 --> 01:02:53

means by what by these predetermined specific punishment

01:02:53 --> 01:02:56

for specific crimes like for example for stealing

01:02:56 --> 01:02:58

for theft there is a crime for it

01:02:58 --> 01:03:01

for drinking there is a crime for it

01:03:01 --> 01:03:05

for slander there is a specific crime and

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

punishment there is a specific punishment for it

01:03:07 --> 01:03:09

each one of them has a specific punishment

01:03:09 --> 01:03:12

for it those punishments well we call them

01:03:12 --> 01:03:17

hudud and usually nowadays when we discuss fiqh

01:03:17 --> 01:03:20

hudud is more of the overall sum total

01:03:20 --> 01:03:24

of the amal but when it comes to

01:03:24 --> 01:03:27

talking about the legal system when we say

01:03:27 --> 01:03:30

hudud we mean by them those punishments so

01:03:30 --> 01:03:33

the terminology sometimes changes from one speaker to

01:03:33 --> 01:03:36

another or one faqih to another the hadd

01:03:36 --> 01:03:41

punishment for adultery the hadd punishment for theft

01:03:41 --> 01:03:45

and the hadd punishment for drinking intoxicants an

01:03:45 --> 01:03:47

example of it is the saying of the

01:03:47 --> 01:03:51

prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to usama do

01:03:51 --> 01:03:56

you intercede in a case which is one

01:03:56 --> 01:04:00

of the hudud punishments of allah meaning concerning

01:04:00 --> 01:04:03

the amputation of a hand for theft this

01:04:03 --> 01:04:05

is the best known usage of the term

01:04:05 --> 01:04:08

hudud in the technical terms of the people

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

of fiqh so what would it be what

01:04:10 --> 01:04:13

would mean then exceeding the limits of allah

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

subhana wa ta'ala in regards to this

01:04:15 --> 01:04:18

punishment so the second two paragraphs will explain

01:04:18 --> 01:04:20

that in details for you i'm going to

01:04:20 --> 01:04:21

summarize because we need to move inshallah forward

01:04:22 --> 01:04:25

the summary of that he says if you

01:04:25 --> 01:04:27

exceed the punishment of allah subhana wa ta

01:04:27 --> 01:04:30

'ala like if allah made the punishment for

01:04:30 --> 01:04:35

drinking let's say lashes on their back then

01:04:35 --> 01:04:39

you cannot hurt them beyond that if allah

01:04:39 --> 01:04:41

subhana put punishment for capital punishment for certain

01:04:41 --> 01:04:44

crimes for example then you cannot just you

01:04:44 --> 01:04:47

know do the capital punishment and then burn

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

that for example that individual that's not what

01:04:49 --> 01:04:51

allah subhana described in terms of the hudud

01:04:51 --> 01:04:53

so you cannot cross these or even cancel

01:04:53 --> 01:04:55

the hudud of allah azza wa jadat also

01:04:55 --> 01:04:58

is considered prohibited as well too so that's

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

the meaning of the limits and the hudud

01:05:00 --> 01:05:02

and the fourth meaning will be at the

01:05:02 --> 01:05:05

bottom of the page inshallah ta'ala as

01:05:05 --> 01:05:07

for that on which he has been silent

01:05:08 --> 01:05:12

it is those matters whose judgment whether permissibility

01:05:12 --> 01:05:17

obligation or prohibition is not mentioned so that

01:05:17 --> 01:05:20

it is pardoned and there is nothing against

01:05:20 --> 01:05:24

somebody who does them it is this which

01:05:24 --> 01:05:27

these aforementioned hadith such as the hadith of

01:05:27 --> 01:05:31

abu thalaba show so the fourth category that

01:05:31 --> 01:05:33

was mentioned in the hadith so we talked

01:05:33 --> 01:05:35

about the fard we talked about the haram

01:05:35 --> 01:05:36

we talked about the limits and the hudud

01:05:36 --> 01:05:39

and the fourth category what the shara' remains

01:05:39 --> 01:05:43

silent about didn't say anything about these matters

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

as an example the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa

01:05:45 --> 01:05:50

sallam one day he says Allah made hajj

01:05:50 --> 01:05:53

obligatory upon you so you should perform hajj

01:05:54 --> 01:05:55

then a man out of nowhere he starts

01:05:55 --> 01:05:59

saying every year and the prophet sallallahu alayhi

01:05:59 --> 01:06:02

wa sallam remained silent and the man insisted

01:06:02 --> 01:06:05

every single year and the prophet sallallahu alayhi

01:06:05 --> 01:06:08

wa sallam remained silent again every year and

01:06:08 --> 01:06:09

the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said if

01:06:09 --> 01:06:12

I say yes it becomes obligatory you won't

01:06:12 --> 01:06:13

be able to make it and he says

01:06:13 --> 01:06:16

if I leave something without mentioning it in

01:06:16 --> 01:06:19

details don't ask me about it like don't

01:06:19 --> 01:06:22

be the cause of something to become hard

01:06:22 --> 01:06:25

and difficult for the people so that's basically

01:06:25 --> 01:06:27

what the shari'a remains silent if the

01:06:27 --> 01:06:31

shari'a doesn't say anything about it the

01:06:31 --> 01:06:33

standard is to stay away from it however

01:06:33 --> 01:06:35

if you look at the next page inshallah

01:06:35 --> 01:06:38

ta'ala in the second paragraph however something

01:06:38 --> 01:06:42

that ought to be known is however something

01:06:42 --> 01:06:44

that is ought to be known is that

01:06:44 --> 01:06:46

the mention of something in terms of making

01:06:46 --> 01:06:49

it haram or halal is of those things

01:06:49 --> 01:06:54

whose understanding may be concealed of texts from

01:06:54 --> 01:06:57

the book and the sunnah because the implication

01:06:57 --> 01:07:00

of these texts may be by means of

01:07:00 --> 01:07:03

the letter of the text and clear declaration

01:07:03 --> 01:07:05

and they may be by means of general

01:07:05 --> 01:07:10

and inclusive statements from which particular particulars can

01:07:10 --> 01:07:13

be understood or they may be by means

01:07:13 --> 01:07:17

of eliciting what is intended and drawing attention

01:07:17 --> 01:07:21

to it as in his saying before we

01:07:21 --> 01:07:23

proceed so what he is mentioning over here

01:07:23 --> 01:07:26

rahimahallah ta'ala these are in usul al

01:07:26 --> 01:07:30

fiqh known as dalalat al alfad textual implications

01:07:31 --> 01:07:35

textual implications dalalat al alfad and he mentioned

01:07:35 --> 01:07:38

that sometimes the shariah doesn't say anything about

01:07:38 --> 01:07:42

something particular however there are specific rules in

01:07:42 --> 01:07:44

the language that will make it clear for

01:07:44 --> 01:07:46

us that you should do it or otherwise

01:07:46 --> 01:07:48

or say it or otherwise like what the

01:07:48 --> 01:07:51

first example he says sometimes it comes in

01:07:51 --> 01:07:54

the clear textual evidence like the first category

01:07:54 --> 01:07:55

by means of the letter of the text

01:07:55 --> 01:07:58

that's called an-nassus sareeh in the Arabic

01:07:58 --> 01:08:03

language clear text the second category means of

01:08:03 --> 01:08:06

general and inclusive statements they call it umoom

01:08:06 --> 01:08:09

al lavd like a lavd aam is general

01:08:09 --> 01:08:13

statement that includes everybody as well too and

01:08:13 --> 01:08:16

sometimes is what is called fahwa al khitab

01:08:16 --> 01:08:19

what can be basically by means of eliciting

01:08:19 --> 01:08:21

what is intended in that like in the

01:08:21 --> 01:08:25

example of the ayah if Allah says don't

01:08:25 --> 01:08:28

say oh to your parents does it mean

01:08:28 --> 01:08:31

it's ok for you to you know to

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hit them I mean Allah prohibited only saying

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oh he says that's understood because if the

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bare minimum was prohibited then everything above that

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is also prohibited as well there's another example

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towards the end where it says that is

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called understanding derived from agreement meaning and below

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it what is considered contrary which means the

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prophet he said that like if the zakah

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meaning you only pay zakah on the animal

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if it grazes freely in the pasture what

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does that mean if you feed it there's

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no zakah on it or at least zakah

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will be less so some rules for that

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because now it's the opposite to that the

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last category there he says the category of

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analogical reasoning sometimes qiyas like the sharia didn't

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say anything about drugs did it nothing about

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drugs so it's supposed to be halal based

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on this example of hadith right now because

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the sharia remains silent but with analogical reasoning

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we know even the sharia is silent about

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this particular thing but we also infer from

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the sharia that is considered haram so these

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are some examples of this matter inshallah next

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week we will finish that part of the

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hadith and hopefully we can move into the

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next hadith inshallah tabaraka wa ta'ala so

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we stop here inshallah

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