The Prophet’s Beautiful Character

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salatu salam ala rasulillah Allah Allah He was a Bahama, wala and hamdulillah It's a pleasure to see the monsters filled with such light such radiant faces feels like is Ramadan, a Juma and Ramadan? Mashallah. And hamdulillah we're here because of the topic. We're talking about the life of the greatest man that ever lived. The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and it's a good sign that his remembers brings people out to the masjid. And it's a great honor. We have one of our instructors in our shoes that's beloved to this community shirt. He asked her bridges doesn't need much of an introduction. We all know him, and we love him. And this is testimony to that fact. He's

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teaching a class this weekend, tomorrow night, Saturday and Sunday. And we're here to hear some words about the Messenger of Allah sallallahu wasallam from shady Yasser, just forget.

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salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Candler, galamian salatu salam,

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ala alihi wa sahbihi wa seldom at the Sleeman kathira

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before I begin talking about the flock of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I just want to make another comment as usual when I come to this community, Mashallah I'm really surprised with the beautiful reciting of the Imam over here. Amazing, amazing citation, speaking about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam from the words of the Divine Allah subhanho wa Taala in the Quran. If you've noticed what the citation was about, it was about Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam as he was mentioned in the Book of Allah azza wa jal, Allah subhanho wa Taala testifies for the applause of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah and Allah Subhana Allah says about him. We're in Mecca

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Allah Allah, Allah Allah Nazim indeed Yeah, Mohammed in Mecca Allah Hi, Luca Nadeem, you are at a great standard of character.

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The kind of character the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, displayed in his life became the example that Allah subhanho wa Taala praised him for.

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And if Allah azza wa jal testified for someone, there is no doubt that now beyond any testimony, it's from Allah subhanho wa Taala. There was Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam as he was described in the Quran, Allah Hara shared for this beautiful recitation.

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I showed the Allahu taala on her one day she was asked about a flock of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. People, they come to her shed once Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, and he asked her how was her lacuna? visceral awesome. How was his his you know, his kind of course of conduct? How did he deal with the people? You know, we always focus on the answer. Every time we hear that story, just like now I'm talking to you. Most of you already know that story. You know that Heidi, and you always know the conclusion. She said Ghana hollowcore. On his manners is a flat word. The Quran itself, it'd be Cathedral himolla hotel and interpretation of this hadith. He said that as Laval

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Quran, that means bill Emery when he which means whatever command that was there in the Koran, he was the first person to follow any prohibition that was mentioned on the Koran. He was the first person to abstain from we all know that. And perhaps you understand the interpretation of the ayah. What is so surprising is not really the answer as much even as the Inquisition over the Sahaba the Allahu anhu, about the lack of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. How many was even thought about why even they ask the question?

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Why would people go to Archer said, How are they gonna be? sallallahu wasallam? I mean, don't they see him outside? Don't see him in the middle when he comes outside. When they see him when he walked in the streets sallallahu wasallam haven't been narrated to us all these stories about him being in the battlefield, but him being in the matchmaking salon. Nevada, why then would they go to ask

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about his luck? For a very secret thing? People usually they have two phases. One, it's public. I want us private, either any husband here in this message? To be happy if I go and ask his wife, how's your husband at home?

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Each one of you gets gets a little bit nervous. Why? Because we all know why. We're not the same people outside. And we're not the same person when we go home. At home, we're more relaxed, kind of you know, just get a little bit laid back. And we start getting relaxed and some of the rulings. Why because I'm at home I'm just chilling. I'm enjoying my time. I'm not gonna stress myself out. But when you go out in public, you deal with the public face. So when the people went to Ayesha, and they asked her how was the clock and Avi sallallahu wasallam. They will not ask

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about him in public, because I have seen that they were asking her house Rasulullah Salah Salem you know at home is he is he the same as when he's outside. It's very hard to see someone inside the house equally though they are outside the house, extremely hard to do that. But Rasulullah his selasa was the man. He was the one that displayed this face salatu wa Salaam on a inside his house and outside his house. He was the same person. He didn't have double faces. He didn't have that that personality complex. Many people would have his a flock sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the Quran itself. He was the interpretation of the Quran in real life. salatu wa salam Ali. So when you talk

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about interpretation of the Quran, there are two kinds of interpretation. You have an actual interpretation, which is in the allot of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and you have the regular repeat interpretation, which is what you read in the Tafseer. What's your translation of the Quran? Rasulullah has Salalah some Allah and manners what the actual interpretation of the Quran in real life which means if you want to know what the Quran says, You need to check his law, his and his life Salawat Allah He was allamani so his love sallallahu alayhi wa sallam were praised in the Quran. When Allah Allah Hulu Nadeem, you are indeed at a very high grade standard of character

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Salah la sala Allahumma salli wa sallim wa barik ala nabina Muhammad Ali wasabi wasa limita Sleeman kathira

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Miriam Sofia rhodiola

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She was the daughter of one of the leaders of the Jewish tribe haven after

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I won the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her. Now she was the daughter of one of the great leaders of her own people. She's married now the Great Leader of the oma Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. What would she expect from that, in that culture, maybe one you know, become victorious over a nation you take your daughter, their spouse, their children and so on. You might think that you're going to be enslaved. But this woman she's sort of sort of law his sallallahu alayhi wasallam, marrying her freeing her and marry her, which means elevating her status. And now the way he treated her sallallahu alayhi wasallam. She was so surprised that she said Mara, Asana

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Hello cannon Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, I've never seen anyone more behave in terms of a plot and character than Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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One of the ways he thought he treated her that maybe impressed her so much, that when she used when she wanted to go on the common thread on the camera, he went down sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he himself, he kneeled all the way down, placing one knee up for her, and then allowing her to use this as a step. So she stepped on his knee, so she could go on the camera. And while she was doing that, he was covering her with his with his job, so that when she raises one foot, the other would not be revealed. And you could see that in a moment. Imagine that it's a panel Ah, beautiful.

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It just like a mother and techniques people today use when you open the door for your wife, and you hold the door for her. And just be courteous, be gentle, and being kind and nice. She saw that. And living with him. She knew how will behave is Aflac Salatu was Salam ala. So hi, Mara, I can never I've seen never anyone like this. There are no sort of Allah His sallallahu alayhi wasallam. When people usually think of Allah and manners, specifically in our time, why do we always now why do we focus so much on the subject of a lot? people, they come to me just even yesterday, someone came to me and was talking to me about the subject of a class, how can I make sure that my kids will grow up

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with good character,

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it has become a very, very important subject and so dangerous subject these days. Why? Because the reference, the point of reference of US law is changing, completely changing. The culture of individualism that we live in the West over here, makes people develop their own character based on their own preferences. So there is no set of rules how to behave. Yes, society gives specific guidelines. But these might be loose, and people even can do whatever they want to just develop their own character. So the subject of point of reference for the US law has become so loose, and that's why parents they come and say, Oh, my God, my kids go to school, and they learn these things.

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They go to go home even and they spend some time over the internet and they learn some new law. You know, even today, people are complaining about kids when they go to holiday, or an even

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I cannot even have my kids being safe here or they're everywhere. So karma

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What is the problem? The problem is that we lost the compass that moral compass. What kind of a lot are we looking for? As the people? What kind of a plot are we looking for? It seems that we have a problem in almost every aspects of the law. When you talk to some people, they complain that Muslims, they lost their sense of justice, even though they're wrong, but they're not fair. They want to give me my hakama, right. Women complaining about their husbands being so harsh, means there is no mercy. There is no kindness. Kids are complaining the parents are yelling and doing this and that and so on. So there is no that tenderness in the house. When it comes to courage, asking

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Muslims to go and step for their own rights, they complain, they say, we can't do that, we have to keep things quiet. So we lost courage, we lost generosity, we lost so many things.

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So almost almost gone. And so many people are doing much really to bring these back to the community. And if we would like to have set of rules of law, manners, example role model, you can find in any word accepted and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. In this lecture, inshallah hota barakaatuh Allah, I'm going to talk to you about some of the general law of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. Of course, I can never give the true heart of for the lack of Rasulullah sallallahu. In a few minutes, I can do that will lie we can even do it in one seminar, you need seminars or seminars just to speak about one holiday at a time. One example of the manners of

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Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam at a time, this for us, just to bring at least to our own perception, understanding the concept of human perfection. Of course, as human means we understand we know we cannot be perfect, such as you know the angels, we can be like that. And the professor himself he said that you can be like angels never. But we can be we can reach that human perfection and abuse alcoholism says in the Hadith, Campbell Amina Rizal katha many men reach perfection, human perfection

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wamena Nyssa. As for women, he mentioned fue by name sallallahu wasallam. That means there is something called human perfection, we know that human perfection exists in the way human behaves. So if you make a mistake, how do you become perfect? You're going to correct that. Repent Allah subhanho wa Taala. If you have done anything that is unjust, you make justice. If you have just done something you feel it was not actually right, you go and you correct that. That's how you become a perfect person in that sense. So let's see some of the flaws of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam.

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And by the way, the subject of US law is very, very important. Maybe for some today, specifically young generation guys, you might not think that's very, very important to you specific if you're still in school, but it becomes extremely dangerous for you when you become serious about getting married.

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When you start thinking about getting married, that's when you start going to shutter open other says please can you give me a test key? Can you tell the people that I'm good I come to the masjid in sha Allah, you know, you would like now, people to testify that you have good character Why? That's what most people look for. Maybe after you know being a doctor or an engineer or whatever, and then it's the house the flood.

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But Rasulullah has Salalah Some even he mentioned either jayakumar de Bona Dena, who was a widow, if someone comes to you, and you're satisfied with their Deen and Allah, then accept them in marriage. Give them your daughter's amount. Why did the Prophet salla sam mentioned these two things Dino mahalo calm. Our Villa, they actually translate this how the auditor interpret this hadith by saying this is your as luck with Allah subhanho wa Taala, the creator and your Allah? Will Allah subhana wa tada his creation, people.

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So when I say Dino, how is your relationship with the creator?

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And he says, well, Hulu has manners character, how was your relationship with the creation of Allah zildjian and when was your sort of law, his philosophy on both ends his relationship with the creator and his relationship with the creation, you will see that great standard of character of sallallahu alayhi wasallam Let's begin with his o'clock with his family sallallahu wasallam. I have of course you guys all know that last, the love notes and we have a whole chapter on that love of Rasulullah his solar system with his wife just to just to refresh your mind and your memories and being some of the stories of the prophets of Allah some of his wives First of all, he sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam said something, it is just like a banner is something like a slogan. That should be actually the slogan of every husband in his life with his wife. And also the law his son was Adam says hi, Rocco, Cairo clearly one of

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the best among you and also best to their families particularly speak about wives to his wife and his

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said well, Anna Hello, Camilla Holly, and I am the best to my family.

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What does that mean? To the best among you, not the best in terms of charity this or that he says the best of their families, and I am the best to my family. He's telling us if you want to follow the example of the best example with your family, follow mine. Look at me, how do I treat my wife? How would I behave at home? That's what you need to learn for me. And when she said kind of Hello call for an Look at him at home. sallallahu wasallam. It's exactly the same thing. He follows the example of the Quran, and every halal and every aspect of processes would be the first person to do the halide and abstain from the Haram salatu wa salam ala rasulillah salam wa sallam who'd be so

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nice and gentle when he talks to his wife, even harsher de la Donna closer by these beautiful nicknames. You know, when you have your wife and she has a very long name, you don't have to mention the entire name. You can just give her a nickname. And I showed her the profit center. So I'm used to call her ish. Just like saying I use these days.

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So when you call her by these nicknames, it's a beautiful thing. And this is rasulillah his awesome talking to his wife. This isn't the Arabic language course for him. When you shorten the sound, for the sake of making beautiful we just make it as a nickname over here Rasulullah sallallahu Ala Moana used to eat he used to help even around with with the food sometimes he will do it with his hand some of them help. As I showed a lotta she said cannot sell Allah Allah wa sallam.

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He used to milk the goat for the family salado and bring it to them.

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And when he eats with his wife, he wouldn't be the first person to eat even like today most of the husband sitting at the table waiting for the food to come. And once the hairs his plate is in front of him, he starts digging in. Before even his wife sits on the other end of the table. Subhan Allah was Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he waits for Russia to begin, and after she eats something who should drink something he says handed me this over give me this. And then he got that cup sallallahu wasallam and he drinks from the same spot where she had her lips are the law of the land her showing a kindness kind of touch or gesture for his wife salatu wa salam ra

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Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam used to even help himself in the house, knowing that his wife You know, just like anybody else you might get tired. She might not have asked you that maybe that time for it. So he wouldn't really bother to go on course, why don't you fix this for more to do this for me? If he had the time sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would sit down fixing his own shoes. Can I ask if

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he would fix his own sandals, sell a lotta sell them with his own hand. I want you to just visualize that. He is the great man Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the great messenger of Allah 1000s and hundreds if not even actually 1000s of people at that time we're hearing of him, whether they like them or not, but they knew who was he as a great man. Salawat Allah was allamani sitting there in his house, grabbing his own sandals, fixing it with his own hand. You might say some holla he had time to do that. Absolutely. He had time to do that sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So he was this handyman around the house. And he was also that man who would help his family and show His love and

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His kindness to his family. Salatu Allahu wa salam O Allah.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He was fair and just and he would specifically to show His justice, particularly in the house, you know, I know outside the hospital, they might tend to be more you know, accepting to this but furnace with their spouse becomes an issue of dispute between a husband and wife. But here's Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he follows that that's rule of kind of furnace. One of these Extra examples which might be

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a funny story that comes with it when I showed the allow that on her. She received Rasulullah saw some with a guest. He said, Do you have any food? I want to just give to the guest. She said I don't have anything ready by I can fix something. So while she was fixing the food, the profits are some he sent to the other houses. It says if you had any food, bring it to the house of Arusha. Now how could one other woman bring food to the house of Irish it's my house How could you feed somebody you know from someone's else food, so she could very jealous will own selama she brought some food. I showed a lot and she broke it that dish and the profits awesome. He could get upset if he wanted

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today. If this happens in someone's house, that would be the end of the marriage.

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But Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he didn't feel you know that she did anything wrong in that sense. He just felt that she was extremely jealous his smile Salah salon, he started collecting the food. And then he told he told the people that he says a lot of Tomoko Machado she became so jealous. And then he gave another actually played

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To Anselmo de la Donna, perhaps some sentiment when she was looking at the plates he was surprised. There wasn't the one I sent to the profits at a loss and of course, maybe later on, she knew what happened. But the time Rasulullah has ensured that fairness and justice but you know, just even a matter of plate, give it back to him, sell him one of the olana

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Allah, Allah Allah Allah Sam used to talk.

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He used to talk nice and nicely. When he speaks he speaks slowly sallallahu wasallam hijo de la she said my Coronavirus sort of La his sallallahu wasallam yesterday the server kumada he doesn't speak like you, you know continuous talking Look at me I'm talking continuous right now.

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Maybe time has changed. But when the professor some wasn't that the best timing, he would speak slowly and speak to the people to understand from him. Ghana tequila masala la hora de Kalam and fossil leaf man, he's very decisive clear message. So people can understand from Rasulullah, sallAllahu wasallam. And even many of them, like even mustard on the ladder and even our bus instead of the time of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. People they spoke less and did much. And that's why there was so much Baraka in their time and their efforts. And at the time of the Sahaba after the term Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam which means now when the new generation starts coming, and many of

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the Sahaba now disappearing, so they start talking too much and doing less.

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Imagine after 400 1400 years what happened to our time Subhana Allah now actually, we don't even we don't talk and we don't do anything.

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So no talking nothing just You keep quiet and you just let everything happens. It's not my business. At the same time, there is no much actually done. Unless we go back to the example of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam Rasulullah sallallahu the kids since I'm seeing kids right now actually here, so that you guys don't get upset with that Prophet sallallahu Sallam he had a beautiful example with the children has and the communities. His children, for example, when he used to do the hot one, the number I know for some people, this number is something sacred. So the members of the member when they get very annoyed if something wrong happens in the hotbar but here's Rasulullah

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sallallahu wasallam, given the hotbar and he says it hasn't come in a child plowing through the crowd. When a child coming through the crowd starts tripping and falling. The professor of law Sam could not stand seeing his child, his joint young activity child during the fall basically falling in between the crowd. So he stopped the hookah. He stopped her bottle Juma stepped down, went and he picked up a lesson came all the way back to the number and then he put him on his side on the side and start continuing with the hotbar. Now knowing that the people were looking at him as he was doing that, he says he never knew he had to say, you know this child of mine, he's a master. He's a

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leader. Well, Allah knows the heavy rain if you're attending the meeting now. muslimeen perhaps one day, Allah subhanho wa Taala will use him to reconcile between two conflicting parties. And it happened many years later, he was the reason for the Muslim Ummah to get back together in one Gemma when the conflict of the earth and a sham ended by him considering the long term.

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So the property is stopped the hunter hobo is so important to pick up his grandchild sallallahu wasallam Mama, the daughter of his daughter's a nebrodi Allahu taala. She was a young girl as well. When he prayed sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. There were many reports he would hold her in his Allah salallahu alayhi wa sallam on a young girl. What could be younger doing? You know what her grandpa as he's praying, and he's holding here.

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Now, of course, the height it doesn't show any details. But I'm assuming like any father, if you had a child and you've ever heard your child and salon, your child perhaps will be playing with your beard, messing up your turban on your turkey, or maybe wants to get down and then come back again. And I believe that women will do the same thing. And Rasulullah sallallahu when he goes to the ruku he puts her down when he comes back from the suit. He picks her up rhodiola. Dianna was Allahu wa sallam.

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Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he used to walk in the streets of Medina, and he would see many of the young kids of the community and he would give Salaam to them. Kids are playing in the parking lot over here. Why don't you as an adult, show them an example of respect, say Salaam Alaikum kids

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instead of just passing by just as if you see nothing, they're completely disconnected from each other, the older generation from the younger generation. And don't worry, nothing's gonna happen and shallow data no one's gonna comment anything wrong. Just say something comes to the kids to the children Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam used to do that, and it was reported even that sometimes he would be playful with them in the streets of Medina in reality

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Medina when the kids see adults, what do they do? They run away. And the professor doesn't start running away. He sometimes play with them by tapping them here and there.

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He will talk them so that they will just say, Oh, so was playing with them, but a beautiful spirits of kindness, looking how how the profits are awesome is now leaving these beautiful memories for these young ones so that when they grow older, they remember Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam like mahamudra neurobiological and he said, I still remember when I wasn't a boy a toddler. I still remember Matt jet and Madonna bu sallallahu wasallam, Fiji, the prophet SAW Selim, he actually splashed water in his face. He said he was playful with him. And he splashed water in his face, you know how kids love water. So he did that. And he was he would became an adult. And he would remember

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from our Sorolla, his Salalah, Sam, that incident, what an amazing things to remember from our pseudo life. So I sent him a moment of kindness and mercy.

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Rasulullah sallallahu, wasallam.

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He was very forgiving, extremely forgiving.

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And is one of the subject that's effective becomes very hard for people to accept, you know, people don't like people to take advantage of them, right? Anyone would love to be taken advantage of. No one would love to that people take advantage of their kindness, right? So if someone being kind to somebody, and in return these people, they actually act in a harsh or rude manner towards them. So how are people they lose their minds over this? So after I've done for them, that's how they reward me Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he was very forgiving. So total one sort of like the law he was said on Monday. Now the backup.

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Linux is at a loss and he had never got upset for something that was for himself. Never. But unless something about the dean that was violated, that's when he gets upset. So he gets angry.

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When he came to Medina Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, he needed to pay some debts for somebody. So he borrowed something, he bought some dates from a Jewish man in Medina. And that Jewish man actually, after some time he came after the Prophet sallallahu Sallam asking for a payback. Now he wants to take advantage of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam being a newcomer, and him very well established, you know, in his Jewish tribe and so on. He came and he arrogantly grabbed the Prophet selasa former scholar, and he grabbed him harshly and he says, Yeah, Mohammed,

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Mohammed pay me back. In the Crimea, Masha. evany Hashem common motto is Ubuntu Hashem, you always delay your payments. Visa, you are known to be basically people who always delay payments. So remember, Hopper was there. Now, you know, when Omar is there, what happens?

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Somewhere, he says, Yasser, Allah more than a Vauxhall rasa. Let me just give me the camera and I'll finish him, I'll chop his head. But the professor as he said to him, he says Yama should have actually asked me to pay him nicely and on time, and asked him to ask gently, that's it. Which means if you look at it from above, if you just take yourself out of that emotional, you know, kind of anger that had happened because of this. Now, as you listen to the story, you feel so angry, how dare this man do that? So the law salon, or civil law, his civil law system, he took himself above these, you know, human interaction, he took some of that, and we looked at it says, you know, you

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That's right, I should have paid you earlier. But you still needed needed, you know, to ask me, you know, in a gentle way, so Omar when he was told that the professor said go and pay him that much, and add him 20 more 20 like saying 20 pounds more, because you skirt him

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somehow not paying him extra money, because you scared him. So he deserves to be rewarded. You know, just for him being patient with you. I want he gave this to her to the man he says no, I got my money and I got I got enough says no, the professor Sam says, You deserve more because I just I scared you because of what I said.

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And for that reason, this man said I shadow Allah Allah Illallah Muhammad Rasul Allah. The prophet SAW Allah some was never sent as the judge to go and judge, you know, between people in that fashion. No, he wasn't there to judge them. But he was there to help them to guide them, to bring them to Allah subhanho wa Taala and the law will judge between them on Judgement Day, even with his servants, and so they allow that I'm a young boy who served the Prophet sallahu wa sallam. 10 years. He said the Prophet sallallahu Sallam never macaroni while Anna Harney, he never yelled at me. He never scolded me. Why? mokara lelisa infanterie muffaletta wallichii intellectually Matata? He never

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even told me for something I've done. Why did you do that for for something I haven't done

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Why didn't you do that?

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One time the prophets of Allah and he sent him for something. He said, Go and fetch something for me. So as being a boy, young boy, he went out and as he was, you know, going after the need of the prophets of Allah salam, he passed by some of these others, he finds a group of kids, when you see kids and kids is passing by a group of kids who are playing, what expect this kids to do. Their kid definitely is going to be walking in and stop looking at them. And suddenly he stops watching. He's interested in engaging right now. Then he sits down, and he finds himself playing with them.

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The Rasulullah and solace. And after a while, he says nsec after a while, I feel someone grabbed me from behind. He grabbed him from his neck. Then he said, I looked it was sort of like as I'm smiling in my face. He goes, why did I send you miss remember what I sent you for? Because I get it right now. Yeah.

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That was it.

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No yelling, no screaming? No, you're fired. Nothing.

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Just did I send you for something? Did you do that? He says no, you're just going right now. And he went and he did that. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Even with that, man, I mean, if something, maybe these examples, you could tolerate that at some point, but let's assume

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non Muslim, or Muslim comes inside your Masjid.

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And they check this corner over here. And they start urinating in that corner.

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What would you do to this individual?

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This individual,

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you probably crucify him outside them as in maybe

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at the time of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, a Bedouin came into the masjid. And they were not used to the fancy bathrooms and these things that we have today and a lot of Brahmin. So he came into this place and he looks around this corner has some people sitting there with Rasulullah hacer la sala, that kind of was empty. So he goes to the corner hiding himself and he starts urinating, the Sahaba they jumped over him. The professor said, Let's remove that so you don't hurt him just leave him leaving leaving for now. Which means let's you know keep keep the janazah contained for now. So just keep it there. So eventually, when the man finished the prophets of Allah Sammy said call him

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just bring him to me. And he asked him to go and put some water on this just so they purify the corner in the area. And then he taught this man he says listen, he says these places are not for these kind of things, you know, is our for lists. alati will a karate karate cola. So this place are for Quran for Salah for remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala this man, he was so overwhelmed with this kindness and mercy for sort of Allah has said Allah Salaam. So seeing of course the difference between rasulillah construction and the attack the almost in a vicious attack of the Sahaba was this guy, thought Allah Mohammed, Mohammed, voila hamana or Allah have mercy on me and Mohammed and

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nobody else.

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Which means these people don't deserve that nurse just me and Mohammed, me and this man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam his

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service and which means you're making something he was so tight.

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Which means this is actually so broad, don't tighten this, the mercy of Allah is so broad. So now, even a condition like these, you need to show kindness and mercy. I don't know a massage, we have regulations, we have specific rules and so forth. Some people that are really ignorant, they have no idea that it's not permissible for them to come into this place with shoes on kids, they don't even know that you shouldn't shouldn't be doing that, or this and that and without blaming their parents for it, and so on. I agree. We have to have specific discipline and people they need to teach their kids how to be a massage. But at the same time, if you're going to be taking things in your hand,

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please do it gently, like a sort of law, his sort of law on him and send him that kind of sort of law his subtle as an extra nudge it allowed on he was so humble. Salalah Holly was so humble. He could own the entire world adonia but he preferred sallallahu Sallam to live a very humble lifestyle. You know, sometimes

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people they're forced to live a humble life. Why because they cannot do any better. Which means if you're Allah subhanho wa Taala God that Allah has done that your your risk would be a little bit tight, you might not have enough to live a luxurious life. So this kind of forced life of humbleness. And if you accept that, you definitely show a great deal of good character. But those whom Allah bless them with wealth and riches in this dunya and they choose to humble themselves and lifestyle, not being stingy though. It's not a matter of being stingy. It's about being so humble. Mr. Allah, no arrogance when dealing with people and others and so on. Well, sort of La hustle

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awesome was that man, it was always so humble. So a lot of it was anomaly and when people used to come before

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him some of them would come shivering, Calhoun and a theology like a man came to visit the prophets of Allah Salaam. When they brought him before the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah, he thought he was coming before a king or something. So he was basically trembling and shivering. The Prophet salla Sam says how when and how would it take for a man abroad in Canada, taco queda, the mecca ama man, the son of a woman who used to eat I'll call it the mecca for the Big Mac, which means that the kind of insignificant food that people they say, just regular food just like anybody else, so you just take it easy. And the Prophet sallallahu sallam, he always said that in Santa Ana,

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that I am slave of Allah, I am a slave to Allah subhanho wa Taala. So call me Abdullah sudo and call me the slave of Allah and His messenger. And even when the Bedouins and the Arabs used to come to Medina, and you see the Prophet sallallahu, wasallam, some of them out of arrogance, they would say, Why is he acting like a slave?

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Why is he doing that? why he's sitting with the with the people with the poor like everybody else, why he just, you know, sits down and it's like everybody else, as if they're expecting him to be someone who eats like an arrogant person should be. But there was the example of Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. One day he was sleeping on his side. And

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to me the throw mat, left marks on his side sallallahu sallam, the sun was attached to his body, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.

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He saw that and he cried. And the professor said, Well, what are you crying for?

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Karla rasulillah look at the Persians and the Romans, how their kings are living in such a luxurious life. And you are the Messenger of Allah. Look at you, even the hustler is actually affecting you. So the prophet SAW some sacred comacchio is your mama your mother loves you. It's a common expression of kindness, though. It says What are you talking about? It's like a common Rajaratnam. Dunya These are people whom Tibetan means that the the rewards was given to them in this dunya which means our reward is with Allah subhanho wa Taala.

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When the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam used to sit down, he used to sit down like anybody else, even in the masjid one time a man came in.

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And then he was looking around to see whether it was a real sort of loss, muscle or loss and he couldn't tell. He could not tell

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because he was just like anybody else. So when I was asked, who was Mohammed, he said, you know, see that that white guy, white man over there, you know, the one who was lying down says that your man, the one who was lying down.

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He was leading on sites of alojado Salah, any public city like anybody else would say sallallahu alayhi wasallam

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when it comes to his Riba and his love for his creator, subhanho wa Taala Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam was the example in

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moderation, but moderation of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam for some today is just like idealism that you can never reach.

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You see the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would maintain fasting, even after Ramadan. For us, for some fasting happens only in the month of Ramadan, which means there is no more fasting after the modan is over. That's it. But for Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, Mondays and Thursdays, perhaps even sometimes months will pass and also the law has assembled almost the entire month, almost the entire month. So Allah Allah will send them

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and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with prayer to Yama lay every single night. It's not for us to do that, though. But for him Salalah Salaam, he would do to emulate every single night had that at the footer of Adama until his feet starts falling. Which means cracks to him long standing. When a man restarts and satara we hear if the moment starts one page per rack are people starting agonizing and crying and say our chef told us to make it too long? solavei Could you please make a little bit shorter? And here's the sort of law hasta la San reciting, just after just after Jesus, even Ayesha, she said, Yasser Allah, why do you do that? Why do you keep doing that when Allah

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subhanho wa Taala has forgiven all your sins, Allah. If Allah akuna abdon Shakira, shouldn't I then become abdun shakoora thankful and grateful servant.

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So his dedication and devotion. It's not that he's doing an obligation. his devotion, dedication, is being thankful and grateful to Allah subhanho wa Taala. For us people, they come and they ask, what's the ruling on Dr. Merlin night prayer. So yeah, it's, it's, it's highly recommended that you do that. So this is so it's not formed

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which means if it's not

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I don't have to do it right. So no, it's not for

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me.

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We became so lazy to that extent, that if it's not for that means don't do it. That's how I understand it not for don't do it.

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If it's for that's the thing you need to care about. And here's Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam not being obligated Actually, he will do that sort of Waterlow ceremony, being grateful to Allah azza wa jal when the Prophet sallallahu wasallam he used to pray, he would cry.

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And he would when he'd cry, he would cry. So Allah said him from his heart Salawat la Samadhi she in the Hadees that she said Casa la sala de la Misha here Actually, she said that you could hear the voice or the sound of groaning and moaning in the chest of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam like a boiling pot, boiling in his chest. Salawat Allahu wa Salaam Ali,

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when some young men to show that kind of moderation when young men they came to a sort of like the house of Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam asking about the level of his regatta. And they when they were told, they can on takala Xena somehow this is too little for me. Maybe because the prophet SAW some he was forgiving his sensor. He doesn't need to do that. So but for me, I will devote my days for fasting. Other than he said, I'm going to devote my nights for prayers. And other said, I'm going to completely abstain from the pleasure of this life. So I'll practice celibacy. And when also the law has sort of lost and I'm here about that. He says Emma Inuyasha Camilla, what Kakuma are the most

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fearful to Allah subhanho wa Taala. But when it comes to Reba, I fast and I break my fast. I pray and I get some sleep. What does over genocide I marry like everybody else. Come on, Rajiv and sumati Felisa many. So the best example of the Avada is the son of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, anyone who goes away from my platform die sooner is not from my true followers. Salawat Allahu wa salam O Allah.

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Now even with his with his joking and his humor salata Leo ceremony, I mean, usually a man, we think that being a perfect man should always be serious. And that's why some people they just always serious, they don't smile. They just cannot even smile, if they try to exercise that act your facial muscles, it wouldn't actually help them smile,

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because they've never done that. So their brand lost actually, you know, that kind of signals they don't actually go up always goes down.

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But also de la hasta la la sallam, he would laugh and he would joke but when he laughs He doesn't actually go in and loud in his left sort of lives and if he doesn't laugh, loud, his laughing is just big smiles. Cannot settle awesome. L'Aquila Matata Suma, when he laughs He laughs by smiling hottub una Mojito until his back teeth actually can show which means this will be the biggest smile biggest laugh of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam.

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If you see the professor sound like this, he is really really actually enjoying. He's loving salatu wa salam RA, and he would do that. And he himself even sometimes he would provoke the jokes on a lower level Salam is not his ruling from someone to make something funny in front of them to laugh about it. He would actually start down like the woman who came to him and she said to Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, she was an old woman. And she said, Yasser Allah, Allahu Allah Jin, am I gonna go to Agenda she was an old woman. He said Salah Salem all the women don't get into Jenna.

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So she said, You know, I told you know all women don't get into agenda there are no there are no old women agenda. So the woman she got very frustrated, she's such cry, almost crying. He then also says it said Listen, this is Hold on a second says Allah subhanho wa Taala said that in the answer and inshallah inshallah Jana, Carla is when they go to agenda, they will be all young and maiden means you're not going to go into agenda in this form of old age. So that's when she says, Ah, and it was actually a moment of amusement for them. Another woman, she came to Rasulullah, his Salah, some asking her, you know to visit she was interceding for her husband jasola. Could you take my husband

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with you for this expedition? We don't know if she was actually trying to get rid of him. Or maybe she was trying to get her to intercede for him. Because sometimes men don't like to initiate some girls work. Why don't you go and ask him, I'll see what he tells you. But eventually she went to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam and she said jasola would you take my husband with you? And then I probably said is that the man who has that white thing in his eye? She goes, well let him I know him, but there's nothing wrong with his eyes. There's no no he's the man. I know him. He's the one who has actually that white thing in his eye. And she said jasola maybe I know Him and His eyes are

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okay. There's nothing wrong with his eyes. And the poverty insist No, I know him. He's the one who has that white thing in his eye. Right? But then he told her Listen, not Don't you see that everybody has that y thing in his eye.

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We all have that widens in our eyes. And again, it was a source of amusement and joking with his

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companions salatu wa salam RA, even he was joke with these old women. The old women of his community still alive and and bringing some sort of happiness and joy to their life Salawat De La Hoya ceremony. There is so much we can say about a flattened Avi sallallahu alayhi wasallam and that's how we did the killing the whole actually weekend. A whole seminar about Aflac and obesity alcoholism in which you're going to be talking about his person, even how he looked like, how he walked, how he talked, how he slept. Salalah Ceylon, how we how he stood up salata lower senemo how everything about him so they could visualize and try to see and imagine that in real life. And we

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will talk about as a flock and as manners and the Salawat Allah NaVi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. The last thing I would like to conclude with is the subject of US law. For some as we talk about the Falcon Heavy solar cell and everybody now in the back of your mind, maybe you're saying, Wow, this was really amazing. Please keep going. Keep going. Don't stop. I'm enjoying this. Why? Because it's just like a time machine. Perhaps you forgot that you're living here. Now in New Jersey. You said that you're already in Medina hearing these beautiful stories of the life of Rasulullah sallallahu wasallam. But imagine if you could bring this to your own life. How could you do that? Don't say

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that this is too much. I cannot really achieve that level. Yes, you can. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Actually, he said enamel Allah with them. Were enamel helmet with the hollow.

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In the middle with Allah knowledge is by studying how they become knowledgeable. By learning and studying. We're in them and help a bit to help them forbearance patience is by training.

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Which means if you say if you always say that, you know I'm always angry because this is generic. My father was like this My grandpa was this all the family is so grumpy. So eventually I'm just like one of them. No, no, no, you're wrong. Because it'll sort of La Han Solo. Sam says you can be patient and you can train yourself to be patient. If you do practice, one number helmet with the helm. Some people Yes, they are born with a handler generic a flop. Like this Manisha Abdullah case, when he came to Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam from a long journey. He sent his tribe forward. And he wanted he took a shower, and then he came refreshed or sort of La has sort of lost them to meet him

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when he's refreshed. So when the prophet SAW that he liked it, he goes in Africa hustle attain, you have the Houma la hora surah you have two qualities, so beloved to Allah and His Messenger sallallahu wasallam. And he said, Al Hellman, Anna is forbearance and being so actually in taking your time and things when you do things for galera Sorolla host latonya, Giovanni la holla, holla, holla holla TV are these things Allah subhana wa tada created me like this, or did I learn to be like that? He says, No, it's a loss of harness creation, which means you are now in you by design from Allah azza wa jal. So So hamdulillah lady Jabulani Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Ameen, grateful

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to Allah that He created me in a way that is pleasing Him and presenters messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so that Allah manners come in two kinds, some inherited and some are acquired.

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So if you're not, if you're not given the good of luck by inheritance, don't lose hope you can train yourself to be so and if you came equipped with that by design, that doesn't mean that is a guarantee that you're going to continue like this because you could untrain yourself and start acting differently. So you make sure that inshallah terracotta Allah make commitment that you act upon a flock of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wasallam learn one hell of a time and start practicing this for a whole week. Teach Yourself one at a time generosity for an entire week. Kindness for an entire week. love and tenderness for entire week and go one after the other for shallow down until

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you acquire the whole set of a flattened Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and if you do so, I hope in Allah hittar Baraka wa Taala that will be rewarded what the prophet SAW Allah Sam promised you a crab cuckoo mini Yama, Yama, Timothy, listen, those who are going to be closest to me in judgment day, do you know who they are?

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The most behaved well behaved, those who aren't best character. So if you would like to be close to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and you don't have much, much wealth to give in charity, and donations and fundraisers and so on, if you don't have that physical power to do things and help others and so on, at least have the good athalon good manners brings you so close to the sort of law here Salalah, Ceylon, I asked Allah subhana wa to help us all following the example of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and I asked Allah azza wa jal to make us among those whom he loves. And I asked Allah to help us acquire the quality that Allah subhana wa Taala loves and as messenger

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sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and I asked Allah azza wa jal to make us among those will be

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Closer to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in destiny obey the law of law. And in the absence of being close to him in majlis an invitation or handler of galantamine or aloha Nabina, Muhammad, Ali or savasana.

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Just a law of shape, shape, he asked for bridges with His permission, if we can take a few minutes just to take some QA, if you don't mind. So we'll have a few minutes, you can raise your hands. Any questions related to this topic? character. And also this history is if they have questions,

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you can write them and pass them forward. We'll try to answer them as quickly as possible. We also have a mic we can pass back to the sisters if they have questions.

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Any questions? Smaller Any questions?

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Mashallah, everybody wants to go home before the storm, right?

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Yes.

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Yeah.

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No,

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no.

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Question.

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Someone was basically when you invite somebody to follow the example of the professor of law seven emulate his example. Some people might tell you, but you know, I can't do that because he's the Messenger of Allah and I cannot be like the Messenger of Allah. This is the question. So there's, that's their excuse not to do what the professor said, because you know, he's the messenger, we cannot do that. Well, the answer is in the Quran, actually.

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Allah subhana wa Taala says coal in Nevada,

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say to them, I am a human being, but then they're gonna tell you but yeah, but he's not like me, you know, and that's what Allah says, After that immediately, myth lucam. Just like you,

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which means stop whining, and stop nagging about this issue. He was a Bashar, a human being just like you, you have a who receives revelation. So when it comes to the subject of humanity, he was a human being said a lot of a sudden.

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And when these people they came to the prophets of Allah Samson, they're gonna do example, they're gonna do things more than what the professor was immediately due. He said, No, no, no, no, no, don't do that. Just follow my example, from Roger Bannister development, many those who don't follow my example, not from my true followers. So this is a claim that is false. In the Quran, and the Sunnah of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, Allah subhanho wa Taala says in the Quran, Pauline continue to heaven, Allah say Mohammed to them, that if you truly love Allah, what was the response? But we only follow me. So we follow him. So Allah Allah, Allah Subhana, Allah says, Allah takamura, certificado,

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manakamana vinto whatever he presents, you take it, whatever he commanded to abstain from to abstain from it. So we have the example of Rasulullah Hassan presented to us, so there's not an excuse that you say he was a different human being at different level, in terms of him being a great messenger of Allah. Yes, he has specific what we call them hot sauce. Hot Sauce means that exclusive qualities of the Prophet sallahu wa sallam, we're going to explain that in details inshallah, in the class.

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Now, any question?

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Yes.

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I like him, sir.

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in a corporate environment, I try to help your colleagues and

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sometimes they try to use yourself

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if some of the questions if someone if someone actually was,

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you know, in a team team, or it's a team work, for example, maybe let me give you a real example from the massage culture. In a measured culture. We asked for volunteerism, people, they come volunteer, you have 10 volunteers, you end up one doing the work. The rest of them are just talking on the phone, you know, doing other things, sidewalks and so on. He's the one who's doing that. And he's being patient so much. First time, second time, third time, and he's doing it for the sake of Allah subhanho wa Taala Chemin de la Sol, La Sol, La Sol and people taking advantage of this. What should I do about that subject? Well, it's up to you. First of all the profits are when we deal with

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people, we don't deal with their Ashleigh. We deal with the flock that we know is the flock of Rasulullah sallallahu sallam. So if they take it, they try to take advantage of this and you're doing the right thing. It doesn't matter. But if you if you're truly doing things that not necessarily from the flock of sola sola Salaam, in this case, I would say, then you should go a little bit actually high with your animal, their attitude with them in a sense that you make them understand

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firmness, sometimes firmness is actually should be put in place and that's also gonna be sola, sola. When the professor Sam was in Mecca. He was making tawaf still in Macarena under oppression. And under under suppression of the people of Mecca. He was making tawaf one day and the leaders of Mecca was sitting in a hedger. So when he was making a lot they were mocking him Salalah salon. First time he came around, they start you know, talking about him out loud learning just for him to hear what they're saying about him and the professors and kept quiet so he went back again he made another circle. Then when he arrived there, they start on talking about him again. Then for the third time,

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for the third time when they said it again, he stopped and he came approaching them and he spoke to them directly with a very very firm language that even they got skirt. They said how we allocate our costs and take reasonable costs and takers you know, these are foolish guys talking about you. Just Just please please don't don't don't take that seriously. And then he went back salado center, so sometimes they are firmness is actually part of the flock of Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam, but you need to use it wisely. Which means when there's less when you need to do any firm talk firm attitude with people you should you should play that role on display that but when it's not the place for it

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just be so kind be tolerant before giving wala wannabes awesome says And Allah talara mcelligott Allah, Allah azza wa jal always gives you any good results when you're kind of nice, rather than being gruff and rude. Now, yes.

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Can you repeat the question? Because actually some of these fans have

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any books? Or are there any books component that a lot of unavista lasala? Yes, there are actually inshallah, we're going to be sharing the information on the class. One of these books is a midterm, it is famous book called Ashima al mohammedia. The novel characteristics of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, it's available online, you can buy it in Charlotte, Atlanta, and it's written in both Arabic and English. I don't know if they have another language for it, but I'm sure it's there in Arabic and an English language called a shimelle mohammedia. The novel characteristics of an abyssal de la sala by Imam at tirmidhi. Rahim, Allah tala.

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I know this is a hard question. You guys give them a microphone. Okay. If they have a question, just turn the microphone on. Ask your question. Yes.

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It's very difficult to visualize in terms of time management.

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I mean, nowadays in the society that we live in,

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not spending time with each other. Can you explain a little bit in terms of

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when the question is when you read the state of the Prophet sallallahu wasallam. And you see him being an all over the place, then you you still find see that he has time to sit with his family, with his grandchildren with his wives, somehow, I mean, how could this happen in terms of time management, what exactly had happened? You see, technology is Baraka, there is no doubt about it. There is Baraka for this Baraka came so much evil.

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In the past, they didn't have cars.

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And if you don't have car, how far Could you go if you want to go anyway?

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Not that far, right? If you even want to go to the other side of town, you have to plan it ahead of time. And people when they used to leave home to go and work in the fields, they only come at the end of the day. So they have one focused duty or subject or whatever they're doing at the same time. That's one thing. Second, us having all this technology around us, it's easier for us to waste time than actually saving time. How is that you're sitting at home, working on a very serious subject, whether you're writing an article or doing something, maybe maker research, whatever, and then you feel hungry. There is nothing in the house. So what do you do, you're going to buy it from outside,

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right, you drive your car, you go for half an hour, just to go and grab a bite that's gonna take you 10 minutes to finish, half an hour, going half an hour coming back on the way you talk over the phone, you get distracted. So when you come back, once you get back to the mood, so us two hours just to get 10 minutes bite. Sometimes this technology actually has so distractions, that we lose the sense of time. And I believe this is common Actually the problem people at the end of the day, they always think, Wow, it's already a matter of time, I didn't do anything wrong. You're going to check your paper or research you just only wrote maybe a couple of lines. That's it. We didn't

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achieve that much during the day. That's a very common problem because we don't do the time management, whether a sort of law has sort of lost and of course the Sahaba back then their work was very focused on their time was very, actually very

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Maintain, besides for them, the day ends with matter of Salah almost, when it's when sundown. We don't have this now.

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This basically this, the lights and electricity that makes us start our day after solid manner.

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So I would say do your time management by try to observe what really kills your time during the day. If you shake your schedule very well, you will see that you're doing so many things. We're not supposed to be doing them at all.

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Well how to deal with a question from the from the sister side, how to deal with a family member who is nice to others, but misbehaves to family

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cry

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alone. I mean, I hope that this lecture is enough incentive really for people to understand that if I was asked about a sort of law, his sallallahu Sallam when he was seen in always in public, he was always seen in public and she was still asked about his efflux Allah Allah says that means people they really they're interested in knowing how he behaves at home. And she answered by saying check the Koran you'll see the flock salado. So that's it. So I hope that is an incentive for all of you guys that you shall allow them to come together to follow the example of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and know his cancer is a flaw with Allah azza wa jal and if that family member is not

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actually just registered for the class that's coming this weekend, inshallah you make sure he comes in attempt inshallah. Tana, let's bring him tomorrow evening. I guarantee you been the law you will love this class. I mean, can you imagine staying one whole week and living with a sort of law, his cell, Allah said him as if you see him, we're going to be describing him completely, physically, law, manners, everything. So you see as if you really live with Rasulullah, sallAllahu wasallam.

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If you have a child, and you are trying your best to teach the child good of luck, but there is this continuously, what should parents do? This is actually a complex question. It's not that simple. Because the subject of learning of love is not just about you giving instructions, it's more than that. And usually kids learn through copying, learning through seeing others. And if you're not your role, their role model means if they don't love you, to the extent that they would love to do everything you do, then there is a problem that you hit in the relationship with your kids, it's not solving the problems then I got to be by tell them, it doesn't matter. If you're a lost Kannada,

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it's not gonna happen that way overnight, it's gonna take a while. But the best way of making sure your kids are actually doing their love is that you'll be the best person for them. So if you want them not to lie, you'll be the person that will teach them to be truthful, if you want them to be can you do this to them and so on. So you'd be the best example for them. And

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the other thing actually, I've given them part of the another class on how to teach kids

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specific a slot and, and manners. And usually you only teach kids actually a flag and manners. Again, as I said, example, repetition when they see that they follow that example in shallow data. Also, it's a it's a challenge, which means don't expect your kids to behave

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well just you know, because you asked him to do so it's going to take a while it's a big challenge. And you're going to have to be careful with that do your best and Allah subhanaw taala make it successful with that last thing about this issue? Da

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da da every day and every night I off how often do you make art for your children? They Brahim Elisa man he's who is who was I brought him on in Santa he would still make the Arab Anunnaki masala cumin de terre Bharata kambalda My lord is animoca masala make me and of my offspring those who perform a Salah that was about him on his channel. So if Rahim did that on a regular basis, why shouldn't we do that? So I would say make dua for children NPM online, when you break your fast when you fast in your Salah winnemucca sujood every time there's a good chance for to do the Darfur children Sean.

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You mentioned that when when that you talk arrogantly to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he was patient and only asked the man to be gentle. In today's day and age. What is one to do if a person talks arrogantly talking wrongfully about the Prophet

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illallah wa sallam will cover that in the class in sha Allah, Allah. We have a section on this issue, defending the Prophet sallallahu Sallam against this vicious attack. So we will learn some of the techniques in sha Allah and some of

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the other one how to handle this issue. When you hear the prophet SAW Sam being abused by some ignorant or arrogant people, so we'll discuss that later in sha Allah azza wa jal during the weekends, but hummed a lot of Brahmin Solana Vina Mohammedan Allah Allah Samuelsson.

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zachman la,

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la reward to share for his patience and time with us and May Allah reward everyone here for a bit there patience and listening. May Allah give us the dolphy to benefit from what we hear today and always