Yaser Birjas – Patience In Face Of Trials Is Purification

Yaser Birjas
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The speaker discusses the trials of trials and how they can be difficult on a personal, social, and financial level. They emphasize that trials are different in each area and that patients need to be patient to get rewarded for their crimes. The speaker also warns against asking for more information and advises people to be patient and be patient at the beginning of trials.
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We're still reading from the book of Asaba,

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the book of, the chapter on on patience

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from read us salihin,

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hadith number 49.

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This hadith is more like a bringing peace

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for the believers,

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especially as we go through this dunya. We

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go through many trials.

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Trials come from all over the place and

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come in different shapes.

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Sometimes financial, sometimes family issues, all that kind

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of stuff and so on. What could bring

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peace to the believer

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as he or she going through these trials?

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Let's see what the prophet

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says in this

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In this hadith, the messenger of Allah sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam says, a Muslim, male or

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female, man or woman,

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continues to remain under trial in respect of

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his life,

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property,

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and offspring

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until he faces Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, they

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exalted with no sin record,

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like all their sins being wiped out.

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Haydruha Tirmali. So what does it mean

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here?

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So

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the prophet

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said that the believer,

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male or female, they'll be subject to trials.

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Is that a secret Ajima, or that's something

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known to everybody?

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Known to everybody.

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So the the trial not only befall the

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the the man, also the woman as well

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too,

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which means

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for us,

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men and women, we need to keep that

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in mind. We're now both of us are

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struggle for the sake of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, and we're in competition for their work

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from Allah

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So not just the man who's going through

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difficulties,

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also many go through difficulties.

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What kind of difficulty he

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said Like, first of all,

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means personal.

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What kind of personal, you could say, a

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trial a person can go through Jema? Like

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what?

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Health issues,

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getting sick, for example,

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injury,

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stuff like that. On a personal level,

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stress,

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You're going through all those and anxiety. These

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kind of things. So all these are considered

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part of trials.

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So this is something on a personal level.

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Children, like what?

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Loss of children, for example.

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Absence of children, not having kids at

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all. Or if you have kids, they

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wanna be beautiful to you as much as

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you would love them to be. Right? So

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the difficulty comes from that side. So there

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are many things people can see trials through

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their children.

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And also through their wealth and property.

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What does that even mean now?

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The loss of properties,

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losing their jobs,

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money value goes down,

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losing business, whatever that is, something of that

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nature,

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or losing their car or their house, whatever.

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So the trials are coming all different shapes,

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on a personal level,

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social level, and also financial level.

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And again, that's not a secret because Allah

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subhanahu says in the Quran,

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He said we shall try you. Allah says,

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very, very clear. You are going to be

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tried and tested in many things.

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With some fear, Some,

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diminishing of health and wealth and properties

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and many things. And he say

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give the good news for those who persevere

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in patients. So the prophet says over here

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that the bala the trial will be go

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the believer will be going through all the

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trials

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until

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and no records of sins on your books.

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Like, they'll be like, if they said, like,

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wipe out the sins completely.

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A question right now.

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Do you have to accept these trials to

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get the reward for effacing these sins?

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Or just by by default.

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Any trial you go through, you're gonna have

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to you're gonna basically kinda, like, get some

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of your sins being eliminated. What do you

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guys think?

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Like, if you don't show patients, like, so

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you're going through trial.

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Someone lost

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their job.

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They start yelling and cussing and cursing, and

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they say, why me, and so and so.

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Are they gonna still have their reward for,

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for that trial they're going through?

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They lost

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it. Because the prophet said,

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you have to be patient to get that.

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You have to be patient to get that.

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Being patient doesn't mean you cannot complain.

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Like, you can say, oh, this hurt me.

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This hurts.

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Oh, Allah, I'm so scared. You Allah, help

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me out with this. It's okay.

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But you don't complain about Allah for

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the trial you're going through. Because once you

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start complaining about Allah

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you lost your chance, you lost your opportunities

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for

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that. Making sure that those trials don't go

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wasted.

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And, again, we are gonna all be going

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through trials. May Allah protect

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us. Now is it smart thing for someone

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to say, oh, Allah, if that's gonna, erase

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my sins, I should ask for more.

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Would that be smart to say, Ajima?

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Absolutely not. Because even the prophet salallahu alayhi

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wa sallam himself, when he used to make

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dua, he used to make dua for what?

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He always asked

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Allah for safety and protection in his body,

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in his sight, in his hearing, in his

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dunya and in the akhirah. So even the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he would say,

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protect me from any trials.

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So never ever wish for a trial because,

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say, I messed up so many things. I

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need to make dua. I need to make

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dua for more trials. Don't ever ask the

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Allah for this. But if Allah, subhanahu wa

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ta'ala, wills and he will

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choose to test you, Be prepared and be

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patient, and may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect

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you all.

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Any

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question?

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Yes.

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So some of the questions, someone lost their

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job as a trial. Right? They started complaining

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and whining about it and so on. And

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then later after a few days, they came

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back to their senses, and they start kind

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of becoming more remorseful.

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Do they still get the reward to officiate

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their sins? I hope so. However, remember,

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the full reward is at the beginning.

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And as people start complaining and whining, they

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lose in some of that reward until whatever

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is left for them when they come come

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to their senses, whatever is left, that's what

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you get. So if you wanna get the

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maximum reward, be patient at the at the

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first strike.

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