Jummah Khutbah 2012 11 30

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And

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what

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may or may not

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yeah you

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Karen Coronavirus,

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had a Mohammedan Salama Solomonic.

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Magic brothers and sisters are tired of wrongdoing.

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wrongdoing and would like to quit. Many people, they just keep going on with misbehaving over and over again, not that they want to do that. It's just that they have no way at least that's what they

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have no other way to live their lives for memory, they just cannot quit.

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Are you tired of trying and trying and trying and you're never successful, you know, you've done and what you've done was wrong, what you said was wrong, you know that for sure.

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And even if you try a loss of

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data, but in some other,

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whatever format here, that every single human being,

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which means, you know, better.

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You have witnesses for your own selves, you know, better know what you did was wrong, or was right. What are

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all your excuses? You know, deep in the heart, you know, what's wrong? There is indeed,

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do you feel hypocritical, when you walk around the people face to faces, you know, the public faces all of that.

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But the private one is the one that is really stressed out this trust, knowing that you just cannot get out with that face in front of the people. Do you feel?

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And are you afraid that people will know about this, that you're going to be exposed the only thing that's going to catch up with you?

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Don't you know that there is always a second chance for the last?

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You know,

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today, as you've watched the news, there's so many things going on in the world. People that those times are very right now, a new milestone

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in Syria.

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But if you even when I tried to speak about these beautiful events in the life of many, many people, then you receive one or two text messages, sometimes on Facebook, or emails, that hits home, from brothers and sisters in the community and around, not just here, everywhere else. And this is an immediate threat. This is an immediate threat when people they come to you. And they complain about their own personal wrongdoing.

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They're afraid to be exposed. They're afraid that their families

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and even sometimes they're married and have children.

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And the reason they're married is not because of sins committed by one of them.

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And it's almost not that they have to go to divorce. For me, that's an immediate

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for those who

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are moving on into the future of this expansion.

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We cannot have a strong community unless we have

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we don't have strong criminal justice we have some families and we cannot have that unless we have strong relationship between us and the law. So

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that is the meaning of your service.

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And only

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after however, still, we are

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and those who are seeking perfection, they need to understand

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there is no such thing. There is no such thing as perfection, unless it is the human perfection. It is a perfection equivalent to that to the angels that don't make mistakes and you don't commit sins that you will be doing. For the couples who are not willing to forgive. They're not willing and they cannot even forget by law. So

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have

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accepted that Toba under repentance, Washington?

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Why should we forgive one another?

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Why shouldn't we accept that repentance and forgiveness? And also accept those who come to us? asking for forgiveness? Allah? Allah, Allah.

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Allah.

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All my sermons. Yeah, that includes the believer.

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That includes the center and the most it includes everyone.

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All my servants, regardless how much you go away, far away from me.

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Yeah.

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Those who are active in extravagance, extravagance in the sense that they were in their 70s, and they're disobedient still luck.

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You know, somehow, some people that become become artists.

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Even the monarchy even is so clever, there was still a loss of power.

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And staying away from me this obey, Allah says,

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Allah, never despair.

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Never be desperate, have the

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last

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word, forgive the sin, it is what it is

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to forgive.

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I received all these requests for people to talk, but I don't want to come up and say this is me. I'm okay with.

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But it's really something serious, we have to be aware of that it does happen. All this says that you cannot imagine will happen in the Muslim community. It does happen. To forget about fornication, or adultery. I'm talking about addiction to harm things, including drugs.

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It does happen. And

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it even happened, the rich will happen even among those variables, and perhaps even more slides

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after although

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I'm willing to accept that I accept them. I don't judge them, even though

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I will not judge them. Say How could you do that?

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mind because even in the most righteous committed, which we make, like an ideal society, or ideal society was the society and the community.

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There were among those who were around the process of

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seeing the Messenger of Allah walking amongst them, they have words coming fresh from the wall to the mountain.

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As it was delivered from Allah subhanho wa Taala, to be

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heard, frequently, and constantly, you might say if I were there, I would be like an angel.

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Even though

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they made mistakes, and that's the beauty of this society, there is a perfect idea that we can see, we can see you know, examples of how to deal with this situation.

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or become a victim of one of these scenarios situation. Some of those.

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They committed adultery, and they can see seeking His forgiveness and ask him to be purified.

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The man was mad

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at me,

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I want you to do, which means I want to be punished. He knew that the foreigners was capital punishment. But he came volunteering.

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I'm feeling so hypocritical so many people perhaps today.

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I can't just stand up anymore. I want to be here for so long. So

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is it possible that source merciful will immediately turn the space away from me?

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Which means I didn't just go back and repent.

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The man comes around to face the profits of a lot of southern

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India.

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I want to be good at three, I want to defer

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to the other side immediately. Again, give him a second chance. Give him a second chance. Just go

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go and repent.

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The man that he just insisted on also love your suit a lot in these,

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please don't turn your face away from me. I did that the proper still didn't want to talk to him yet give him a chance to vote. And

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they asked the people around them, some of them.

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So

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this is a okay.

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Which means there's something wrong with him. He might, you know, be this situation is just trying to commit suicide.

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Okay.

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And we know that the

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purpose

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is not

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to persuade him in a way to take him away from that position.

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Perhaps maybe, maybe you think

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maybe that's what you're

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trying to pursue. It wasn't what you thought. And the man kept insisting the promises. Maybe you just thought maybe you're just

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trying to convince them to leave.

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Massive Jalisco law I just did. There is no way you can change what happened I did it.

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And

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he asked him to, to execute.

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And another woman can at some point in her life, the same situation?

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Did

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you see it as sort of more than not judging?

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It didn't judge her exposure to the puppet. But the same thing turned away from her. She said

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are you trying to get to just you know,

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it just let me go.

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So then we'll

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come out. There's no escape. She said what?

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I'm telling you, I'm pregnant.

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I'm pregnant from that relationship.

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Another chance is there Okay, then just go back, go back. And

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given her perhaps maybe six months to change her mind. She's still she can back up.

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Months later, she still came back. Because the pain that she had because of what she's done, come back to us.

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None of us

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are coming back. Again.

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You know what, okay, fine, go nurse the child. Once you are in the child, and you're done, you come back to me? How long would that take? Two years.

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Two years, just go, which means just leave and come back.

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Two years later, she comes back the child looks to her she's walking with.

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The point is that when she came over and over, and over and over again, she was never

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she was never,

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you know, pointing to her fingers. And

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this is how

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we accept people are human beings, and they make mistake.

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Punishment, of course, not for me.

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That's for the system. That's for the system, which is willing to believe in the state of law over here. And we'll take this course in the court system, but for me, and you were willing, willing to accept I want this to be the message to the youth and parents and couples and people to understand you're not dealing with angels here. The reason I'm saying that because I'm telling you a lot, I'm very satisfied is from the member. But it's no longer something like isolated incidents

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that are happening so much.

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Unfortunately, I'm saying that because I just want you to be aware that it does happen, and perhaps being neglectful, or maybe being so relaxed with their environment and the rules in the house and so on. With all these things, perhaps you know, just because of all weakness of the man, we might fall into the traps and follow the steps I want you to do. You try to avoid this as much as possible. But if it does happen,

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forgive, there's always a second and a third and a fourth chance to kind of

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you know

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A man or a person will commit a sin, then he will

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be

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committed a sin

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and done something wrong,

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forgive

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others.

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After some time the same person doesn't understand again could be the same

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mistake.

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And then it goes upon is lot's of

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luck to them. I've done something wrong to him.

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And then after some time the person comes back to

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have done it again. Forgive me.

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And

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my surgeon knows that he has a law. Yes, he has a he has a creative

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and the law

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which means what?

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What really matters is that you are not at the loss of Hannah Montana is your major, your

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major mistake is wanting to forgive and you return back to them. So

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don't

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go into talk about

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the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,

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Muslim

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is much happier will be happier to see the service coming back to them until bla bla bla bla,

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without

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even allowing the hackers

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to see a certain man or woman coming back to him seeking repentance will

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be much happier than a person who lost his camera. Back in the day. When you have all your food and drink in the middle of the desert. And you ask them, What do you expect someone to lose his camera when he takes a nap?

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It means that

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you're in the middle of nowhere in the desert. How long can you survive when you come across periods without suffering the heat and thirst.

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And then this person after he realized that there is no escape from the

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tree, and he falls asleep when

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suddenly the man wakes up

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about

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how they expect the happiness of this individual. This individual just like someone who died, and he was going back again to life, just like me when you when you consider yourself dead because of a sin that we commit. And then you just have this window of hope that

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you come back to life, spiritual life. This man when he saw that he jumped, so excited, so happy owning this campus.

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One.

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So my Lord, You are my servant, and

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he made that mistake out of extreme happiness and excitement. He could not speak right, because so excited that he just said those words.

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You are my Lord am your servant in the opposition.

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And

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in this book, my dad has said in his report, the story

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that was witnessed by one of the writers on this album was walking on the streets of the city or small town. And then he said Suddenly, there is a child running, dashing outside the door of his house running, running and his girlfriend just going skating as far as possible. Then he noticed a woman coming after him. She wants to visit your grandmother.

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And that was his mother.

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So the same thing, the child was running away from his own mother.

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And his mom was telling him if you come back, I'm gonna do this. And

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then she goes back into the house and the chef and he sat there watching what would happen.

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So then he said that the mother she got into the house, she locked the door

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and the baby sat somewhere away, away from the door. And he was just sitting there crying, didn't know what to do. But find

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his nose scale other than

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going back again to that standard.

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Going back again to his own model

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Another door was locked. The door was closed. What did they do? Child young child just sat down underneath that door. And as he was waiting for his mom to open the door, he fell asleep, imagining maybe four or five years old child sleeping. And

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then after some time, of course, the mother is a mother.

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So sometime later, she opened the door to see where the needle.

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So when she opened the door, she sees that the baby was sitting there he was sleeping at the gate, that she was about to beat him up, she kicked him out of that door, the same door. But she went down, she grabbed him kissing him and crying for him. And then when the baby woke up, and he saw himself in the hand of his mother, he didn't resist

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it. And

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then his thoughts, his moms are saying, My child, please, don't let him mean to them, don't let me invest and punish you, because of this event.

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So the

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lecture on that story, and

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that's exactly how the situation is between you and the boss.

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regardless how much Allah subhana wa puts us in trials, and difficulties and situations, and then there is no same from Allah soldier.

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As a professor of

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law,

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there is no return there's no escape or refuge from a loss of power.

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to him.

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last

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rule in a law, the word federal, which means escape from federal rule in a lot he didn't say usually said federal Amen. You said firm, which means escape or run

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away from but if this is the federal law, you run away, back home,

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you run away. But back to

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what the honor about the law. This is a scenario that we should all keep an eye on. The gates of Toba will always be open.

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And if Allah subhanho wa Taala, accepts that a lot accept the return of the service,

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regardless of the sender, I know for us,

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because you just cannot imagine yourself walking out the door, again, coming to the masjid meeting with the people with that same exact face. When you know what you've done, behind closed doors.

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This is how we feel. But there's no loss of

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lost power that knows that.

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We are going to make mistakes, but he wants from us to come back over and over again. And that's what we mean by lost power

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in

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the world,

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which means forgiving.

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forgiving, one time after the other one time after frequent forgiveness is always awkward when a law firm

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says I'm not willing to forgive one time after the other demands are always come back to me returns to me repentance,

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willing and capable of forgiving

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when you try to maintain righteousness and good deeds, as soon as

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you try to make that mistake again, you know that a lot of

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these

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whenever we see someone making a mistake, please don't judge that person don't judge many of these people they did. They prefer to escape and hide and withdraw, which is one of them more and more, because there's afraid that

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they're going to meet

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their human being after all, and they're also brothers and sisters in the community.

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At

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a lot

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of your salary

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are protected. Now

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and for those who have done something wrong

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want you to know that they will

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have

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a lot of mercy beyond your expectation.

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For those who think that their sin is much greater than be forgiven, I want you to know that you're wrong. And Allah subhanho wa Taala is willing to forgive anything except for one.

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And he is willing to forget anything besides

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anything that includes whatever.

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It is not the shirt associated with

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Allah willing to accept your Toba undertone to them do not look at how great the sin is, rather look out as great a loss if

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you look at the grid

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and you will see that these things will become little when you come in.

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However, that doesn't mean you

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don't make this plan. That's one of the biggest mistakes that many people do.

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So he will forgive. No, that doesn't mean that that's

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what

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I was willing to forgive over and over again for those who repent. But then once they have faith

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as much as they can, it's not like they go back.

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Now, you need to own the responsibility of your mistake. Make sure that you don't blame anybody else.

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Don't

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don't blame them.

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Don't blame anyone if you made any mistake. You made Edison Don't let anyone but yourself. If you own this, then

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you have

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to own your families and your children.

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Powder makes

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a lot more.

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A lot more.

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Got a lot in

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common