Yaser Birjas – Facing Trials With Patience

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The speakers stress the importance of punishment in Islam, including hardship and evil actions as rewarded actions. They emphasize the need for testing one's love for Allah and finding out who it is. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of patient and content within the heart to avoid punishment and the negative impact of negative experiences on people's health and well-being. The speakers stress the importance of showing patience and not giving up, as well as the need for people to consider their position and reward when facing hardship or punishment.

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			If if something happened to if Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala punishes somebody in the dunya,
		
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			is it better than to get their punishment
		
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			for the wrongdoing in the dunya or the
		
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			akh? What do you guys
		
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			think? Duniya is better. Right? Because if it's
		
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			a akhah, what is it gonna be?
		
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			I mean,
		
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			Lamastan, jannah.
		
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			And then whatever punishment you go through, in
		
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			comparison to what's happening in the Akha, it's
		
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			a different thing. So let's hear how does
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala do it with the
		
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			Ibaat, with his servant.
		
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			Hadith number 43
		
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			In this narration, Anas
		
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			reported the messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
		
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			saying,
		
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			when Allah wills good for his slave,
		
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			he punishes him in this dunya, in this
		
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			world. But when he wills an evil for
		
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			a slave, he does not hasten to take
		
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			him to ta to task, like he delays
		
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			that,
		
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			but calls him to account on the day
		
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			of resurrection.
		
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			So here he's saying,
		
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			that if Allah subhanahu wa'anahu wa'ala,
		
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			what does that mean? Allah, aza wa'al,
		
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			all his actions
		
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			and all his wills are what the jamaa.
		
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			All of
		
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			it. Including the things that we might perceive
		
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			to be evil.
		
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			Because there is when Allah when we come
		
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			to Allah's actions,
		
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			absolute evil is inexistent.
		
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			Everything that Allah will
		
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			has higher embedded with it, Whether whether we
		
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			perceive it or otherwise.
		
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			We could see it, we couldn't see it.
		
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			Sometimes, you know, it doesn't happen right away.
		
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			But with patience Allah
		
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			revealed
		
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			the outcome in some other time as Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala said in the Quran.
		
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			Perhaps you,
		
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			and you wish for something
		
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			and you desire something. Allah would put so
		
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			much
		
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			so much share in it. And sometimes it's
		
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			the opposite.
		
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			Things that you dislike, Allah will put so
		
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			much in it. So here, the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam said if Allah was good
		
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			for somebody,
		
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			then this person will be punished for their
		
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			sins or for their errors and mistakes in
		
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			this dunya. Like what?
		
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			Falling sick,
		
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			losing their job,
		
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			financial constraint,
		
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			concerns,
		
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			sleepless nights.
		
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			God knows what they go through. So all
		
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			these things could be sometimes
		
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			expiations for their sins.
		
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			But how do 1 of this is a
		
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			considered an expiation, this
		
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			considered, test from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala or
		
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			punish from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. We don't
		
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			know. But our ulama they say, usually you
		
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			look in in in matters of yourself, you
		
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			look at it as if it was a
		
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			punishment.
		
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			But when you think about Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala, always have you have to have has
		
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			not done.
		
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			That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala was was good
		
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			for you. That even what you go through,
		
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			when you think about about this from Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala, maybe Allah's testimony.
		
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			So Allah wants to purify me, remind me.
		
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			But when you think about yourself, maybe I
		
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			earned that. I deserve it because of something
		
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			I've done. So that's how the believer think
		
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			about these matters.
		
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			If Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, wills
		
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			for somebody
		
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			to go through hardship and difficult and evil
		
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			evil and things,
		
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			he will delay their punishment until the day
		
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			of judgment.
		
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			And when that day comes, he will take
		
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			them with the with the punishment, with with
		
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			the details of everything, and that difference is
		
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			gonna be severe.
		
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			Now there's an extension for this hadith, narration
		
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			in in Surat al Surat al Simeon says
		
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			That
		
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			that the amount of reward you receive
		
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			is compatible with the amount of hardship you
		
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			go through.
		
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			So the the bigger the the test,
		
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			the bigger the reward.
		
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			The bigger the test, the bigger the reward.
		
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			If
		
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			Allah loves some some people, he will love
		
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			someone,
		
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			he will put them to test.
		
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			Like, Allah's gonna test your love.
		
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			You claim you love Allah as the wazal.
		
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			Alright. I'll test you.
		
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			You know, sometimes happen to your husband and
		
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			wife. Right?
		
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			And if if if you would like to
		
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			express your love to your spouse, what do
		
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			they say? They put you to the test.
		
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			You see? I know that you're not true
		
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			about it.
		
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			They test you sometimes with that, and that's
		
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			between human beings. And the last of has
		
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			the best example. So if you claim that
		
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			you love Allah,
		
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			he will test you. As he said,
		
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			Like,
		
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			what people will be left to say, we
		
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			believe, and they're not gonna be tested. So
		
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			no. No. No. We're gonna test you just
		
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			like we test this all before
		
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			you. So they scrutinize, those are truthful, those
		
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			are not.
		
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			So here it says
		
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			that
		
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			that the harder the test,
		
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			the greater the reward. That should give you
		
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			a sense of solace, sense of peace.
		
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			So that when when people go through some
		
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			hardship and difficulty,
		
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			endure that with beautiful patience
		
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			and you shall be fine.
		
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			Your reward will be great for that.
		
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			Those who,
		
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			are content, meaning if you accept that from
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala test, from
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will be pleased with
		
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			you. If you're pleased with Allah, Allah will
		
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			be pleased with you. And
		
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			those who don't, if you reject that, Allah
		
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			will reject you.
		
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			Like, he would not take that. You won't
		
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			be serious about being a true believer to
		
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			Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. So
		
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			showing patience in the face of
		
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			AAA tragedy, a calamity, a hardship, a difficulty
		
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			is extremely important.
		
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			And I think is to remember the different
		
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			categories, how people
		
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			did their position from this test between complaining,
		
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			being patient, not saying anything wrong,
		
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			being, content within the heart, and even being
		
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			grateful to the highest level. So may Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa'ala will make us some of those
		
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			who are truly grateful to Allah
		
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			Any question?
		
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			So to what extent are we allowed to,
		
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			judge people
		
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			if other people if they're going through a
		
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			test or they're being punished?
		
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			We can't.
		
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			We do, we cannot.
		
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			But we perceive it, like, for example, if
		
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			you know somebody's life was sinful life
		
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			and then they were tested with somebody.
		
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			You might say, you know what? I mean,
		
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			they have it coming.
		
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			Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala did this in
		
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			the Quran, the son of the prophet sallallahu
		
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			wa sallam, he taught us to condition things
		
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			like, you know, that if people extend their
		
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			their sin,
		
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			Allah will bring them that it wasn't for
		
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			the from the people before.
		
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			So, yeah, we start perceiving things as being
		
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			punishment. Like, for example, COVID, for example.
		
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			I know a lot of people, they would
		
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			say, you know, that's a test. That's a
		
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			that's a punishment.
		
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			Honestly, it could be
		
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			because the prophet mentioned that in the in
		
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			the if the and the sin sinful life
		
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			becomes, you know, evident in the life of
		
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			a people, Allah
		
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			will expose them to,
		
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			trials and tests and disease they've never seen
		
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			before.
		
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			So that was mentioned in the hadith as
		
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			well too. So anything that was mentioned in
		
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			the hadith,
		
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			we accept that in general terms,
		
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			but none specifics.
		
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			Yes,
		
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			sir.
		
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			I can barely hear you, by the way.
		
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			I can't hear you if you skip you
		
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			speak up a little bit.
		
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			Can someone convey the message for me?
		
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			I'm sorry. Never mind. When it takes me,
		
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			I never.
		
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			Is it it's just a young age?
		
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			Oh, death at a young age?
		
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			Death at a young age to be a
		
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			punishment?
		
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			Well, sometimes they're relief, Youqeulillah.
		
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			It depends really on,
		
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			yeah, on the circumstances. There is no indication
		
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			of this to be actually a punishment or
		
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			otherwise. When it comes to to life,
		
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			it has been determined by Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			Has nothing to do with them being punished
		
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			or being rewarded.
		
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			And some people who die
		
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			relatively young age in our perception they died
		
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			young.
		
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			But with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala died when?
		
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			When their time expired. Is
		
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			it? That's how Allah gave them qadr.
		
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			Similarly, people they live 60, 70, 80 years.
		
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			That's
		
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			Allah extension of their live of their life.
		
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			And even Aisha,
		
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			her she she, lived lived to become an
		
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			older lady.
		
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			And as she was aging, all the Sahaba
		
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			because she was young, obviously.
		
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			So all the other Sahaba before her were
		
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			dying ahead of her.
		
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			So she's seeing everybody's dying,
		
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			and she said a very famous kind like
		
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			I
		
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			said, like, those who deserve to live among
		
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			them are all gone,
		
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			And I'm left like a a sore or
		
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			anything in on the skin. I'm I'm just
		
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			living in a crowd that I don't know
		
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			who they are anymore.
		
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			This is sometimes how stranger she felt in
		
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			her lifetime.
		
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			So, yeah, there's no meaning of saying it's
		
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			a punishment or otherwise.