Yaser Birjas – Dua For Parents

			When the birds when they strike with their with their wings, sometimes they do that to defend the
cheeks, the defensive to their babies, and sometimes when they want to fight and therefore they want
to scare another animal, what did they do? There is the wings high and they spread themselves. So
all of this Allah Subhan says don't show them any arrogance. It's not about showing off with your
beautiful wings. It's not about harming them with those wings, you need to bring them down. Because
these birds, the mummy birds will come to the to the eggs and to the birds. What does she do? She
comes and she lowers her wings and put the winds around, you know the babies basically. So all of
		

			that immediate, lower your wings of, of humbleness or humility to your parents. It's not about
showing off isn't about insulting or hurting. Rather it's about showing your humbleness and humility
to your parents. Why is that? Allah says because and then you ask Allah for mercy for them. The
Quran bit hung Houma yeah Allah have mercy on my parents Kamara by Anissa. Lira the way they have
raised me young. So ALLAH SubhanA has demanded from us that we ask Rama for parents and what does
Rama mean obviously, is mercy and whose mercy you're asking for the parents of Allah Subhana Allah,
what are the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate? And if Allah subhana wa Taala shows us mercy
		

			upon somebody when they're alive. What does that mean? There is provision, safety, and Allah
extension of wealth and prosperity and many, many things Rama of ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada in many, many
things, that safety that's that peace of mind that tranquility and live the family that ever to be
secured. That's part of the Mercy of Allah subhanho wa taala. Sonia asked mercy for your parents in
the dunya. That's what it means. Similarly, if they were if they pass, may Allah have mercy and
Amira Brahmin, what does that mean when I say Rahim, Allah, same thing you asked for Allah's mercy
for them, if they pass that Allah as well take them under his care subhanaw taala by keep them safe
		

			from the punishment of the grave, the punished of Johanna that they've been the people will Jana,
for your loved forgiveness, forgiveness for them. All of this falls under the DUA when you ask for
your parents by saying Rob Durham, Houma Kamara, Bernice Avira. Obviously, ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada is
being the right now, a reminder to us, why do you owe this to your parents? Come on Rob Bayani
sorry, Rob, the way they've raised me young. Now bring in that particular period of life, what does
that mean? That's an indication to others, your ma, your time when you were most vulnerable, the
weakest when you're most vulnerable at that time. So they take care of you. They raised you, they
		

			help you to grow to become who you are today. Now, obviously we're talking about in general,
sometimes there are exceptions, but eventually say that when you re when you were young, you're
weak, you're vulnerable, and it took care of you. Now that age, when you're the one who's adult,
mashallah and strong, and capable of doing many things, what is their condition in this moment,
probably, they're the ones who are weak and vulnerable.
		

			So just like they raise you when you're weak and vulnerable, and those ages when be young, make sure
that you take care of them as well, when they're most vulnerable and weakest in their life. Now,
what does that mean exactly? When we say take care of them or have that mercy on them? Obviously, in
that what is considered reasonable, because sometimes as our parents age, may Allah subhana, Allah
have mercy on them or Bananaman, they start sometimes it's kind of like their demands might be a
little bit, not so great. They demand things from you that might not be in the best interest of you,
or you or your family, or even them themselves. So therefore, it becomes your duty and
		

			responsibility to also filter the request in a way that is most beneficial to them before anybody
else in the dunya and the Astra and also to your family as well, but that that we all need to do to
our parents who say Rob Rahama Kamara burns Siberia, Allah have mercy on them, the way there is me
and now something interesting to see in the Quran to observe in the Quran. There are so many verses
in the Quran that ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala is asking is asking the children to be dutiful to their
parents, many, many verses in the Quran. But can you imagine how many out there in the Quran asking
parents to be dutiful or to take care of their children? In terms of the ratio, there is a much
		

			nothing almost zero, almost you could say, why is that? Because Allah subhanaw taala he knew that
parents taking care of the children that's fitrah that's natural. You don't need to have any
religious intervention or, or divine intervention and command from Allah to make you care for your
children that happens by by natural inclination, but to care for the parents. It's not easy. It's
not that easy. For some Alhamdulillah it's very simple because they love their parents. They care
about the mashallah the relationship is amazing. No problem with that. But not everybody has the
exact same beautiful relationship
		

			Have other parents and that's why Allah subhanaw did not leave it for us to choose. He said, No, no,
you need to care for your parents. And there are many words in the Quran that ask us to do that in
different ways. One of them is this idea by at least making dua for them. Now, when we make dua for
our parents do is do we exclusively just make this dua and only this dua for them? Obviously not.
But that's just an example. Allah subhanaw does bring in an example of a dua that you need to make
for your parents. And to add more, what should I ask for Allah Subhanallah for my parents, whatever,
ask for their mercy for the Rama for the month of May Allah make it may keep them safe, you know,
		

			give them health and wealth, whatever you want to make dua, just make dua in the best for them in
the dunya. And in the ACA. So the first draft that we learn from the answer to the surah it's again,
chapter 17 Ayah 24, the ayah Allah Sanchez, biwako, Rob Durham, Houma, Kamara, Bernie Sameera and
say you're Allah have mercy on my parents, the way they raise me young the DUA that will be practice
if you look at the screen and sha Allah Allah, we taken that from this idea, so we're gonna say
Allah Houma, there Hammadi, they come out of Bayani Saphira. So we're gonna repeat that together and
shallow Tara wants to repeat after me Allahumma
		

			or hum. While in a coma. Rob Dyani Saavedra, Allah Houma there hum wa la de Gama Rob Bernie Savera
Allah Houma there hamari de
		

			Kamp Rob Bernie sadirah
		

			Shala every day we're going to be repeating the DUA and adding more of these to the Quran. Hopefully
by the end of Ramadan, you have a wealth of data you can use in Charlotte throughout the year. May
Allah subhana wa have mentioned her parents are blind I mean, the way we were raised as young we ask
Allah Subhana Allah for the month Farah, we ask Allah subhana wa Taala for the protection or but
Allah mean of the past we ask Allah subhana wa Taala to admit them genitive with us or Alborada Neil
hamdulillah also Allah wa salam ala kind of you know, Mohammed Mala
		

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