Yaser Birjas – Being Watchful In Major And Minor Things

Yaser Birjas
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The men's retreat and collection discusses the holy grail of Islam, with a brief recap of the main messages and a discussion of the meaning behind the term "the spirit of Jannah." The importance of the holy grail is highlighted, along with the struggles of the generation after the prophet sallahu alaihi wa sallam passed. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being careful with what one considers to be "offense" and reminds listeners to be careful with their words and actions. The importance of avoiding offense at certain times and not to be too lightly considered is also emphasized.
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So our greeting to them,

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and all these announcements also apply to you

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guys. Brother Omar Raza is there at the,

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BRC North. He's the one who have all

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the information about the men's retreat and also

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the collection,

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So if you're there,

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make sure to talk to him.

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Alright.

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Ready?

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Okay.

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That's the spirit of Jannah. Still,

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a few more hours until Fajr, Insha'Allah.

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Hadith that we have tonight is very short.

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It's still we talk about the concept of

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Almoraqabah,

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the chapter of on,

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on surveillance

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and watchfulness

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and being watchful of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala's

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limits.

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And this hadith number 63 and the other

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saliheen,

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says

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and Anasir

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In this hadith, Anas

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reports the messenger of Allah, salallahu alaihi wa

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sallam, saying,

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you, means people in general,

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you indulge in bad actions,

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which are more insignificant

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to you than a hair

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while we consider them at the time of

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Allah's messenger, sallallahu alaihi wasalam, to be great

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destroying sins.

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Anas is saying

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to the people around him,

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after the time of the prophet, sallallahu alaihi

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wasallam, because you people are doing things, you

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consider them lightly. Just like you do things

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you don't even consider any any importance,

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Means of bad deeds. Because at the time

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of the prophet, sallallahu alaihi salam, we used

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to call them almubiqat,

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means destructive matters.

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So what does that mean to jamaal?

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How is that related to the subject of,

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being observant and also watchfulness?

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You see, nowadays, and subhanallah, if Anas is

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speaking about this concept

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of,

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concern to what you do

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in the generation right after the prophet, sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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And the generation after the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam is including Hadith and Nabi sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam in the Sahih Kharas sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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He said the best of pea the best

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people,

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he said, is my generation

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and the one that comes after them and

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the one that comes after them.

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So the one who came after the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam was still considered his

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generation.

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And in that generation,

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and as he says,

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look. You guys are doing things.

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You don't be considered to be of any

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so dangerous to you. But at the time

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, we

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consider them destroyers of good deeds, like major,

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major issues.

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And,

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these things happened,

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too early even sometime in the history of

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Islam because it's a matter of, you know,

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the the,

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what do you call it? It's just like

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the the the worship of the heart, the

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heart,

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really. You know, how much your heart is

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attached to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to the

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din of Allah

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And obviously when there is when there is

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a an incentive

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to you,

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it becomes more attached and becomes stronger.

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And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, his

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presence at the time of the Sahaba was

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one of the greatest incentive.

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Do you remember hadith palha

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when he was walking and Abu Bakr said,

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how are you doing today? He goes, I'm

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a hypocrite today.

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And Abbaq al Sadiq is just like,

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What's going on?

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He said, I'm sorry.

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Is what's wrong with you?

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He goes, well, we come with to the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. We listen to

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him. He talks to us, and we feel

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as if we're watching jannah and jannah with

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our own eyes.

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Like our iman is so high, we feel

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already we're already over the clouds.

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But then the moment we go home and

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to mingle with our families, we figure a

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lot of that stuff.

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So Bakr said, look. I feel the same

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way. And the prophet told him it's okay.

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The hearts, they're always

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at that similar energy.

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So that's the time of Rasulullah salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. But when the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam passed,

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when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam passed,

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Anas, the narrator of this hadith right now,

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he said,

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When the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam arrived

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in Madinah,

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he

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said, Like, Madinah becomes illuminating and shining with

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light, which is why we call it.

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Right? Shining.

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Because everything was exciting.

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People were so happy. Just the fact the

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prophet is living amongst us is just exciting

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thought itself. You could just go to the

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masjid to see the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam. You could hear his voice everywhere you

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go. It was such a blessed

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place.

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He said,

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Like, we barely buried him. We just finished.

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We even taken dust of our hands still.

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We start feeling it in our hearts.

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Like, we missed him already in our heart.

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We can feel it's not the same thing.

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It's not the same feeling. Imagine now,

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few decades after the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam, Anas is talking to the generation that

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comes after him.

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Because Anas when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam passed, can you guys guess how old

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was he?

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How old was he when when his mom

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brought him to the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam upon his arrival to Madinah

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So by the time the prophet passed, he

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was around

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20.

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But

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he survived

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until he became one of the last of

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the companions of the prophet to pass.

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Why? Like, I bet he passed a 100,

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by the way, in terms of his age.

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And

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the they say the reason why because,

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his mom

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brought Anna to the prophet at some point.

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Your servant, could you please make dua for

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him? So Allah made dua for him, says

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You Allah, give him long life.

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And,

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and

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give him offspring.

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And they said he buried almost a 100

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of his offspring during his lifetime.

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Like, kids and grandkids and so on. They've

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had died in during his lifetime.

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And also, was Sarfirsk, oh, give him provision.

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So he was among the people who lost

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it long, radiAllahu an. So that's why he

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says after you can imagine,

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perhaps, you know, 60 years later, 50 years

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later

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in life, Now the generation that comes after

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that time had no connection to the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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They haven't seen the beginning of Islam and

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the struggle they had to go through it.

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So for them,

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they take Islam for granted,

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and that's why they were not as serious

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as Anas wants them to be. Imagine if

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Anas,

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he comes to to our time today. What

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would he do with Jema?

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He probably would would invite us to Islam,

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So imagine that. So what it means over

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here is that you need in your heart

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and your mind

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to be careful what you consider to be

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halal and haram. And if you guys remember

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yesterday, last night, we were talking the class,

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and we were talking about Imam Ahmed

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how careful they were calling something haram

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because they're they're so scared.

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If Allah didn't call something haram, didn't call

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something halal, they wouldn't dare calling it that

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way. So they keep saying, well, I don't

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know. I mean, I don't like it. I

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wouldn't do it. But they don't dare say

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haram, for example.

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This is how much they watch what they

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say and how they they,

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and they they they put their words into

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it. Can you imagine to be at that

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level so careful? So in this case, instead

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of many people nowadays, they say, it's not

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haram, then it's okay. You can do it.

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Who said that?

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And don't get yourself indulged in matters to

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be on the halal side simply because they're

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just halal. Because the and the we talked

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about is also in the,

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the degree of righteousness.

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Right? So that one of those things of

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righteousness is people leave that which is halal

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out of fear, that if they indulge too

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much in it, the the the path to

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the haram becomes easier afterwards.

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Like if you consume everything halal, you'll never

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start desiring something else.

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And if everything halal has been used and

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consumed, it's gonna start desiring something wrong and

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something haram. So that's why you need to

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be careful. Always watchful of what you say,

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what you do. Don't consider this something to

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be very light. You could probably say things

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that you think is they're not not significant,

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but to Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, they are

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very, very dangerous statement.

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So may Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, those who

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listen to the speech and follow the best

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of it, you're

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Any question Ajamal?

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Yes, sir.

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No.

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By the way, I could barely hear you

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from there.

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I I know you you you have a

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very loud voice, so help me out, man.

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Uh-huh.

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Yes.

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No.

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Yes.

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Okay.

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No.

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So what's the difference between

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and haram?

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Now,

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like I said, the sometimes

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they would be careful giving specific labels

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if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala did not label

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something in particular. But

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these are now some of the major

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like the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam when

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he talked about

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allah,

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what do you call a kabar,

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the major sins. And he counted 1 hadith,

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10 of them. And the prophet salallahu the

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala mentioned also al kabar

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in Surat,

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Al Anam.

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And the last the last portion of Surat

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Al Anam or Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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counted. Many of it, this.

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Come, let me tell you what Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala has provided for you. So these

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are major sins. And I'll move your card

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concern from some of the major sins as

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well too.

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And many, many people that think

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all these major sins only like fornication, adultery,

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drinking, alcohol.

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It's much more than that.

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Backbiting counts as one of them as well

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too. It's something people take lightly these days.

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Or mocking other people thinking it's okay to

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do yeah. They're they're they're they're okay with

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that. I mean, they don't have any problem

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with this. Be careful

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Ajima or maybe cursing or using the f

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word nowadays and just like as if we're

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saying salan to somebody.

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Although the believers as the prophet mentioned,

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the believer is not someone who curses or

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someone who's vulgar.

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So these things are serious matters, but many

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people today just think it's a culture. So

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who cares?

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