Yaser Birjas – Asr Khatirah – Seeking Safety In A House In Jannah
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The importance of the Jeunarian book for providing guidance for those close to their spouse is highlighted, including the example of the woman of Noah and the wife of Lut who were married to one of their steam partners, but the relationship was not beneficial. The speaker emphasizes the need to find guidance and not bl wonder oneself for circumstances, and to avoid blurring oneself into circumstances. The speaker describes the difficulties of obtaining a house in Jannah and a constrained or loud house, as well as the difficulty of obtaining a house in a clean house and a loud house.
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What a beautiful start and end, SubhanAllah.
Start of this day or this is and
the end of the month of Ramadan, the
last Jumah
with brother Robert Gabriel Shahadah right now.
And our dua, hopefully matches his journey,
is the dua of the wife of the
that we have in the dua of the
Quran today inshallah
is from Surat Al Tahrim
chapter 66,
aya number 11.
Aya
again, that's aya number 11, chapter 66.
Before that, I wanna take you an aya
prior to this. At the end of Surat
Al Taherim,
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he shows us a
contrast of 2 images or two two examples.
The examples of those are truly faithful,
and the example of truly the opposite of
that.
Here, he says,
Allah
says over here, Allah sets forth an example
for the disbelievers,
The wife of Noah and the wife of
Lut,
each was married to one of our righteous
servants yet betrayed them.
So their husbands were were no were of
no benefit to them against Allah's
whatsoever.
Both were told enter the fire along with
the others.
So, the first example Allah mentions, subhanahu wa
ta'ala, example of these believers
telling us that look,
if your heart is not clean, if your
heart is not prepared, if you don't open
your heart for guidance,
no one can help you.
No one can help you no matter how
close you are to them.
I mean,
how close can you get to
any person more than being close to your
spouse?
The most intimate person you are with them.
You are the one who they know that
the private life, the public life, that the
ins and outs of everything.
They're very close to you, and still, that
kind of proximity,
that closeness
never resulted in them finding guidance
because their hearts were never there.
And specifically the example of, Nuh, alayhi salam,
al jamaah.
Why is that?
How long did Nuh alayhi salam give dawah
in his in his community? For how long?
950 years. You talk about a millennial of
dawah.
950
years
constantly
giving dawah.
Like, you know what? If anyone if anyone
has given you dawah for a few hours
and a few days, maybe you're just gonna
say, you know what? Fine. Give me the
shahada.
Right?
And here, now a 150
years,
now a 150 years,
and his wife she still chose to be
with the disbelievers.
And Allah Mustaan, she also inspired Huwajima?
Her son.
Right?
So Allah says
if the heart is not pure, if the
heart is not open, nothing can help you
here.
So he says, subhanahu wa ta'ala,
the example of disbelievers
are the example of these people,
the wife of Nuh and the wife of
Lut.
They betrayed their husbands, meaning they did not
follow their paths and that's why Allah
submit them to jahannam Allah protect us from
that. Now, the contrast to this, the opposite
to that is being the wife of who?
Faraun.
The wife Faraun.
And who was Faraun al Jama'am?
The greatest tyrant.
The worst example that ever been set in
the Quran for us in regards to this
belief.
Baru Hu, his wife was one of the
best people of Jannah.
So what Allah is telling us here,
don't blame your circumstances.
Alright?
Don't tell me my family,
my husband,
my wife, you know, my job, my this,
my that.
You can find your way
out of all this misery, out of all
this situation, and you can find guidance still.
So don't blame it on your circumstances ever.
You need to make the effort no matter
what the situation is. You can't say my
husband was than Fir'aun.
You can't. And you can't blame the imam,
for example, if laqaddaAllah, his family chose another
different path.
You can't. If the guidance is not in
the heart, if the heart is not pure
and ready for that, it's not gonna happen.
So here, Allah says
and Allah sets forth the example for the
believers,
the wife of the pharaoh, the pharaoh.
She said she prayed, my Lord, build me
a house in Jannah near you.
Why she's asking for a house in Jannah
Ajamah?
Because she wants to leave what?
The palace of the pharaoh.
I mean how fancy was her house in
in in Ortejema?
How fancy was it?
Amazing.
She was the wife of the feraoun, so
she was basically the queen of the entire
world that time, back then.
And still it mean nothing for her.
I need a house.
She didn't say a mansion.
Right? What did she say? You Rabbi, give
me a house, a room somewhere there near
you.
And You Allah deliver me from
and his evil doing
and save me from the wrongdoing people.
So she said, my Lord, please bring me
near you even if it was a small
house
In Jannah with you. And you Allah protect
me and save me from the wrongdoing of
Firaun
and his people, the trans the transgressors, the
wrongdoers.
Now that's a profound dua that she asked
Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to give her that.
And if Allah grants her that wish, Jima,
what does that mean?
If she was given that that wish granted,
where would she be?
In the highest fanciful jannah, Alfred Rasulallah.
Right?
And, if she's there in the highest
what kind of house is she gonna get?
Cardboard?
It's different than what we have here in
this dunya. So that's the dua
you make if you're in a constrained situation,
if you're dealing with people that are causing
you troubles. You ask Allah all the time,
You
Allah, deliver me from the misery of my
house
to the house of peace with you.
SubhanAllah, when Allah honored Khadija
He honored Khadija
and he gave a salaam to her, through
the prophet
What was the gift that was given, the
glad tid and the good news that was
given to Khadija at that
time. When the prophet said to her, kal,
You Khadija in najibril yukriqris
salam. Jibril
is sending salam upon you.
Allah himself. His peace and peace come from
him. And then he told her, and
he's given you the good
news.
He's given the good news and the
that you shall have
like a pearl,
beautiful pearl house made from a big pearl.
And it has no sahab, no nasab.
Before even I translate those two words,
what do women usually complain about the most
when it comes to houses?
Cleaning.
Cleaning? The chores.
Right?
Chores. What's the other one?
The noise.
The noise. Like keep it down. Quiet. Kids
go in the backyard. Right? All are yelling
at each other. And these are 2 things
Allah subhanahu wa'ala told her, says,
no noise,
no trouble, no arguing,
and no nasab, no fatigue, no no work,
no chores.
That's Jannah on earth for any woman,
right?
Imagine how it is gonna be in Jannah
on the day of judgment.
So she was given that. So if Allah
blessed you with a house in Jannah, Jamaa,
Allahu Akbar,
no fatigue, no work, no chores to worry
about, nothing, it's always pure, clean,
it gives you that serenity, that peace and
tranquility. It's nama. That's nayim. So that's what
Allah has given and promised
the wife of the frown in this ayah.
And then the last ayah Allah adds to
us the example of Maryam, ibn Ata Imran.
The Maryam, the daughter of Imran,
who kept her chastity and guarded her chastity.
So Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, he commanded to
the the the the the Rooh, which is
in this case
the the soul of to
breathe it into their wombs,
and she believed
and testified the truth about the words of
her Lord and the scriptures and was one
of those sincerely devout.
But the dua that we have here is
a dua of the wife of the frown.
May Allah
grant grant us all house
So