Yaser Birjas – Ask Allah For Taqwa

Yaser Birjas
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The importance of guidance and guidance in shaping behavior is emphasized, including knowing what to expect, managing, and staying within the path. The use of Qayush Qayran as a protective measure against the virus is also discussed, along with avoiding shyness and the idea of being rich or successful. The speaker emphasizes the need to ask for guidance and stay within the path of guidance, as well as avoiding shyness and the idea of being rich or successful.
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Alright, Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, Assalamualaikum

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warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, that's more like it.

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Bismillah alhamdulillahi wassalatu wassalamu ala rasulillah.

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Tonight inshallah wa ta'ala we're still continuing

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from hadith from the book of Taqwa, Riyad

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al-Saliheen, the chapter on piety and righteousness.

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Short hadith, a dua from the Prophet salallahu

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alaihi wa sallam to teach us about Taqwa.

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In this hadith number 71, In

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this narration, Abdullah ibn Mas'ud, the Prophet

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam used to say in

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the translation, O Allah, I ask you for

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guidance, piety, chastity, and self-sufficiency.

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Four things, I ask you for guidance, for

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piety, righteousness, for chastity, and self-sufficiency.

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Why are these so important that the Prophet

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam mentioned in one single

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line?

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And the fact that the Prophet salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam asked Allah azza wa jal in

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one single line for these four issues, four

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matters, that shows the value of these things.

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The value of guidance, the value of piety,

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the value of chastity, and the value of

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being self-sufficient from the need to anybody.

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So these are the four matters.

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Number one, al-huda, guidance.

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I mean, I don't have to emphasize the

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importance of guidance, because we ask Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala for guidance every single day

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and every single raka'ah of your salah.

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Don't you say in surah al-fatiha, guide

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us to the straight path?

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Enough emphasis on the meaning of that.

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And what is guidance over here?

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Some ulama specifically, they said guidance means knowledge.

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What does that even mean?

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Because if you have the knowledge for something,

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you've been given the guidance about it.

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If you have the knowledge about who Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala is, how to worship

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Allah azza wa jal, how to fear Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, then you have that

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guidance.

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So some ulama specifically said it's knowledge.

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And it's the only thing that Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala commanded the Prophet salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam to ask more from.

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When he says, Ya Allah, increase me in

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knowledge.

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So that's the only thing he was asked

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to ask more from.

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And here when he says, I ask you

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for guidance, means the knowledge that will give

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me that guidance.

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That's one interpretation.

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But the other interpretation which is more inclusive,

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like guidance in every aspect of my life,

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in everything.

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When I make my decisions, I want to

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have guidance.

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When I pray, with guidance.

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When I learn with guidance.

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When I deal with my enemies, with guidance.

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In all aspects of my life, Ya Allah,

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I ask you to give me guidance.

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So you ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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for guidance.

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And obviously if you're guided, what does that

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mean?

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The result of guidance is what?

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It's khair in everything.

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The result of guidance is khair in everything.

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We spoke about different categories of guidance.

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But if we would like to emphasize on

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one thing, knowing that guidance also, it's something

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that you need to keep asking Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala for, until you die.

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Never stop asking Allah for guidance.

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Why is that, Jamal?

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Because in any moment, what could happen to

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you?

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Al-qalb, called qalb, why?

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Which means, because it keeps flipping.

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Qalb ya taqallab, which means, actually it's vulnerable,

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and it keeps flipping.

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So therefore, today, subhanallah, we are on the

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path of guidance.

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Tomorrow, Allah musta'an.

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We just switch paths.

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Somebody who is completely misled, and then subhanallah,

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in one moment, their heart flips, and Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala gives them guidance.

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You need to continue asking Allah for guidance.

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That's why Imam Ibn Qayyim, rahimahullah, he said

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that guidance comes in three categories.

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Al-hidayah ilas sirat, wal-hidayah fis sirat,

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wal-hidayah alas sirat.

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So you need to ask Allah guidance ilas

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sirat, to guide you to the straight path.

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And to guide you alas sirat, to stay

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on the straight path, not to leave it.

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And to guide you fis sirat, which means,

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as you walk through it, you know where

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to go, not to go to different, actually,

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other ways, on the path.

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So you always ask Allah for guidance.

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That's number one.

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Number two, wal-tuqa, piety and righteousness.

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And the ulama, they define righteousness, here usually,

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the translation says, fear of Allah azza wa

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jal, when they say taqwa.

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But actually, taqwa is much more than that.

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The word taqwa is a preventive measure, which

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means you have a barrier between you and

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everything that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has

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made prohibited.

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And also, making sure that you always stay

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within the limits.

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That's what taqwa is.

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That's why when Talqa bin Habib was asked

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about taqwa, what did he say?

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He said, have you ever been on a

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path that was stony, and you have all

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these bushes around?

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He goes, yeah.

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He goes, what did you do when you

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want to walk through?

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He goes, I grab my thobe, I grab

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my thobe, and I watch where I put

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my steps.

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Like, I don't want my thobe to get

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attached to any of these shrubs.

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And I watch where I put my feet.

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He goes, that's taqwa.

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That's the definition of taqwa.

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You're always careful where you put your words,

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where you make your actions, where you put

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your eyes, what you listen, what you do.

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You always watch where you put your steps,

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in that fashion.

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And taqwa is, again, a shield that protects

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you from violating Allah's rules and limits.

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And if you're being given taqwa, what does

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that mean?

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That's the ultimate success.

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Allah said in the dunya, that eventually, the

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end result will be in favor of the

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mutaqeen.

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Allah accepts only from the righteous, the pious

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one.

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So taqwa is what you really need to

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accomplish in this dunya.

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Then he says, chastity.

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And chastity comes in regards to staying away

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from everything Allah subhana wa ta'ala made

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haram.

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Whether it's fornication, zina, drinking, anything that's haram.

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But specifically, usually comes actually, avoiding that which

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is concerned of the lowly actions, sinful actions.

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Like, you know, just kind of like, cheating,

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stealing, petty thefts, for example.

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Committing zina, fornication, watching stuff, and all these

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kind of things.

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And you need Allah subhana wa ta'ala

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to give you afaf, chastity against all these

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behaviors.

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Also, as zina has all its formats, because

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the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the

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eye commits zina, the ear commits zina, the

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hand commits zina, and every action it might

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be falling into, some of those actions might

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lead to the actual fornication or adultery.

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So therefore, you ask Allah to protect you

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from all these actions that might lead to

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the actual fahisha, and then may Allah protect

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us from the Lord of the worlds.

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And al-iffah gives the person what?

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Shining light in their face.

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When someone is, mashallah, afif, is chaste, they

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don't really commit these things, they don't look

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at these aspects, they're always, alhamdulillah, have the

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good manners, you can see it in their

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face.

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You can see it in their face.

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But if they all will pursue their desires,

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what happens?

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That light is taken away from them.

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They're always feeling guilty, remorseful, they're feeling shy,

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they're feeling embarrassed, you don't see that shyness

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on their face.

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So if you would like to have that

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shyness on your face, avoid these things, and

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will give you

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that light.

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And Allah give us all that light, ya

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Rabb al-alameen.

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And the last one is qalu al-ghina.

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The last one, al-ghina.

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And al-ghina, to be self-sufficient, which

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is the translation of the literal translation for

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the word ghina is what, jama'a?

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To be what?

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Rich.

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What does being rich mean?

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When you're rich, what does that mean?

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You don't need anybody.

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How can you be, you know, in a

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situation where you don't need anybody?

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That means you have so much enough that

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you don't need anybody.

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Especially when it comes to wealth.

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Wealth, finances, physical ability, alhamdulillah, mental ability, strong

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with personality.

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In many ways, I need nobody.

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Although it's like impossible for human beings to

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be at that level, but self-sufficiency is

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everybody what they look for.

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Because you don't need anyone to have a

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favor upon you.

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Otherwise you feel enslaved to them.

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And I don't know if you remember, we

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mentioned about Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, when

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Allah calls himself in that regard, what does

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he call himself?

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Al-ghani.

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In Arabic language, there are two words for

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wealthy.

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There is ghani, and there is thari.

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Thari from tharwa, while ghani min al-ghina.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala never called himself

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thari.

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But he calls himself what?

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Ghani.

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Al-ghani.

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Why is that?

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Because al-thari comes from wealth.

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Means you define yourself through that wealth.

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But that wealth, even though you have so

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much of it, it might not give you

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the satisfaction to feel self-sufficient.

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You're always afraid to lose it, you're always

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freaking out if people are going to steal

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it from you, and you don't feel confident

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that this wealth is going to help you

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with this.

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So that wealth doesn't help at all.

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Yes, you have all the money, but they

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don't feel satisfaction.

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And sometimes people unfortunately end their lives because

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of that.

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Not satisfied with that.

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So al-thari doesn't necessarily mean they're ghani.

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But if you're ghani, even if you have

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nothing in terms of cash and money, you

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still have that kind of self-sufficiency and

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independence from the people.

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And that's what we ask Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala for.

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However, you have to keep in mind, you

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can never be completely and absolute in life

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of self-sufficiency.

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Because Allah designed us in a way to

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need each other.

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You need to get married, so you need

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your spouse.

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You need to have the desire to procreate

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and have the satisfaction of being a father

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or mother.

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The need for the people to work with

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and work for you and work for them.

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They need to save something, so we need

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each other.

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So that self-sufficiency is not in terms

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of needing people in that regard, rather in

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the heart.

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Like, I still need your help, but I

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depend on Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to

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facilitate that for me, not you.

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That's how you become self-sufficient.

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My attachment is to Allah azza wa jal,

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even though I still need that money from

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you or that work to be done by

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you, or finishing my job here and there.

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I still need that from you, but, alhamdulillah,

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my attachment, my heart is tied to Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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May Allah azza wa jal give us all

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al-huda, al-tuqa, al-afaf, al-ghina.

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Let's repeat this dua together, inshaAllah.

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Allahumma, inni, al-huda, al

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-tuqa, al-afaf, al-ghina.

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Allahumma inni as'aluka al-huda wa al

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-tuqa wa al-afafa wa al-ghina, Allahumma

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ameen.

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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

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Yes, the definition of, someone contemporary definition of

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the word taqwa is to be mindful of

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Allah azza wa jalla at all time because

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if you are mindful of Allah that becomes

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like a barrier for you to violate any

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of these rules.

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So that's one of those contemporary translations.

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Before it was always most like fear Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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But in reality it's actually being mindful of

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Allah azza wa jalla.

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Of course.

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Al-iffa to be not in need of

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these desires through the people.

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True.

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