Yahya Rhodus – Our Relationship the Quran #10

Yahya Rhodus
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The third etiquette of Islam is to recite a book and stay present in relation to the person being recited or present. It is important to be serious when learning and finding a better time to read the Quran. Consciously working on one's inner speech and finding a better time to read the Quran is crucial to achieving purity of their heart and avoid war. The importance of reciting the Quran and working on one's internal actions to change their heart is also emphasized.
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Salah more Allah because

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Allah

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Muhammad Rahim FMG lo salatu salam ala Rasulillah while early or

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Sahabi woman Wila

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as we continue our journey in studying book eight of your

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healing the dean, the book on the etiquettes of recitation of the

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Quran, with intention of strengthening our relationship

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with his book subhanho wa taala. We have now reached the third

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internal act, interact in our etiquette, that hooded s&m,

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Yamazaki wants us to know. And just to briefly recap, the first

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two, the first interact is for us to exalt the Quran and to realize

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that it is from Allah subhanho wa taala. And closely related to that

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is the Talim. The exaltation that we have in a heart for Allah, the

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multicolumn, the one who is speaking to us subhanho wa taala.

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And all of these other etiquettes will build upon these first two.

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This is the foundation. So we want to get in the habit of when we

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start reciting a lot out his book, or when we're listening to his

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book subhanho wa Tada is that just before we start reciting, we bring

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to heart. This is the canal of Allah. And we have Talim and our

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heart for the Koran we have titled Iman, our heart for our Lord

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SubhanaHu wa Tada. And this is one of the great aspects of our dean.

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Our dean teaches us to have Geraldine Malamala what gear Maha

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Corolla but Allah Tada has deemed to be great, we have to have a

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theme in our heart for that we exalt that, what Allah subhanaw

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taala has belittled and what ALLAH SubhanA wa Donna has not deemed to

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be great. That's not reflected in our heart. If Allah does not deem

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something to be great, like this world in which we live, it's not

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something that you and I should have Tallinn for an exalt.

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And so we want to exalt what Allah Azza Tada has exalted, and we want

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to be little what he has been a little subhanho wa taala. This

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third etiquette, a 30th? Is her daughter calm.

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It's about maintaining presence of heart. How about if Ludo in Arabic

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language is to be present, and Hodor means presence. And if you

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look at the linguistic meaning of this word, someone is there with

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you. But then they're no longer there. So when they're no longer

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there, the what takes place, when you're with that person can no

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longer happen, because they're not present. They're with you.

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And just as someone could be physically present, but their mind

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is in a totally different Valley. They're thinking about something

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else. And we've all experienced that when we're with other people.

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And you're sitting next to them, you won't even be talking to them,

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and they're somewhere else. Are you there with me? Can you hear

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me, and then they kind of come back. And like we're Where are

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you, we joke with him all times, and so forth. And this is the

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nature of the human being

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is that we are where our heart is. And if our heart is preoccupied

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with something else, mentally, we might be in that place, our

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thoughts might be drawn towards that place, or that person, or

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that thing. And this is why there's different degrees. And the

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very best degree of all, is where the outward and the inward is

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combined. So your physically pleasant present, where Allah to

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Allah wants you to be, whether it be prayer, or whether it be in

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gatherings of goodness, whatever it might be, you're physically

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present, if you're able to do so. And you're also present with your

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heart, you're internally present, you are present in relation to

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your bringing to heart the meanings that should be brought to

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heart in relation to that particular gathering. So if it's a

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gathering of knowledge, you're focusing intently on what has been

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said seen, trying to understand that knowledge, seeing how it

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applies to your own self making intention to put it into practice,

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and so forth. If it is recitation of the Quran, you are present with

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those meanings that are being recited to you. And so that's the

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highest degree of all. And then there the second degree, is

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actually to not

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physically be present, but to have your heart be present, and what a

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blessing you and I have, that you and I can't imagine to be in the

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very best of places, even if those places physically are distant from

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where it is that we are you and I can imagine right now that we're

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making tall off around the Kaaba,

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you and I can imagine right now, and then we enter into Madina

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Munawwara and then we pray to the cost and the mission of the

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Prophet Salah license in order, and then we go in front of them

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water Sharifa and we send surrounds to him, Salah low idea,

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disabuse, you and I can imagine that we're in places of learning

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that we're with special people. This is the an amazing gift that

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LaTonya has given us the power of imagination. And just as you and I

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can imagine, being in gatherings of knowledge, we convene, imagine

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being in gatherings of the righteous, and this is something

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that we can intend as well, let's all make the intention to be

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present, and all of the gatherings and knowledge, wherever they're

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taking place on the face of this earth, let's make an intention and

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be in the presence of all of the righteous people wherever they

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might be on the face of this earth. And Inshallah, if we do

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what we can outwardly, Allah is the most generous of all of those

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who show generosity, he is the most mercy of all those who show

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mercy, He will give us according to our attention, Subhana who had

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to add. And so this is the second theory. And it's actually a higher

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degree to not physically be present, but to have your

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heartbeat present, then for the third degree, which is the person

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who's physically present, but their heart is somewhere else.

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Their mind is somewhere else. They're thinking about other

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things. They're not concentrating, and some even wish that they might

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not even be there. They wish for it to end and so forth and so on.

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There's degrees after of course, and there are people that can go

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back and forth between being present and being heedless. But

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this is the third of degrees and from the Mercy of Allah Tada, when

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it comes to Majelis, gatherings of different sorts, knowledge, the

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remembrance of Allah to Allah, even the person who didn't come

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for a good intention, with the right intention, even they will

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receive mercy because when people come to sit for his sake, and to

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learn for his sake and to remember for a sec, there's a blessing that

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encompasses everybody who's there, even though when it came for some

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other need in didn't even really intend to be there. There are

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people lie Yes, Cobham, Julissa, whom they will never be miserable.

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If you sit with you'll never be miserable. If you sit with the

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right people, you'll never be wretched, you'll never be damned.

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And this is why you and I should want to sit with the muffler Hain

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with the people of success. And as people who came before us used to

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say anyone who wants success has to see someone who has already

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succeeded. Success comes from being in the presence of unseen

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people who have succeeded. And this is a quote on that command.

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Oh, you who believe that you will either I'm going to talk or law

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have Taqwa of Allah. Be mindful of him. Well Kunal, Masada clean in

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be with the people of truth.

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Because when you're with them,

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spiritual osmosis, you start to be like them. And even if you're not

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like them, and even if you don't even make the right intention, yet

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you still benefit Holman ACOEM liar's club him Jalisa. So, we

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want to be from those though who are physically present, but also

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we have presence of heart and presence of mind and this is what

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herget to Assam is going to discuss in this etiquette Hodor

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club. And so he adds another part to this chapter heading, as in

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that he previously didn't mention when he was listing them and the

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first part of the section

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and what Taku Hadith enough's

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and refraining from letting one's inner speech, get the best of

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them. So, you can overcome overcoming your inner speech. So,

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having presence of heart maintaining presence of heart and

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overcoming inner speech.

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So, he begins by saying appeal if it tips here, it is said is an

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opinion that one of the meanings of the verse yah yah yah hoo the

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Kitab baby oh Wha Oh yeah, here take the book who the Kitab take

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the book with Kuba strongly with strength. A B GID. Den, which they

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had one of the meanings of that is vehicle work

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with seriousness and with hard work,

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when you take the book and an all of

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The meanings of taking it, you do so in a serious fashion, and with

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hard work.

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And the amazing thing about the righteous people that the sinful

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soul has been blessed to see and have been must have been around.

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They are the most serious of people, yet the most gentle,

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the most serious of people, yet the most gentle.

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And this is something that you and I must bring into our lives.

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seriousness. And yes, it's good to be light hearted at certain times.

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It's good to be easygoing, going when you're with people. But all

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of that has to be what has to underlie all of that is a

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seriousness that this matter is of the utmost importance. This matter

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is real. You and I are going to die. We're going to meet our Lord

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Subhanallah data. And the more that we really reflect upon the

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higher them that the endeavor of all pleasures death, the more will

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realize how we really need to be serious here on Earth. But it

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doesn't mean that we walk around frowning, because this is the

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amazing thing. The only are the most gentle and the Most Merciful.

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And you tend to find them smiling more than anyone else, despite the

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fact that they're serious. And they know exactly what it is that

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they're doing in their different states. So one of the one of the

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meanings of this verse, yeah, yeah, who will keep up with the

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call when we heard that verse recited. It should inspire us to

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be serious in our deen in our approach to learning the Quran,

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establish in relationship with it, and have each Jihad work hard

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towards that because we have to work hard with our relationship

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with the Quran. Quranic Arabic is not something that you can take a

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six month course and then all of a sudden understand what's in the

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Quran. Yes, you can start understanding what's in the Quran.

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But every year of your life you have to increase in understanding

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the Quran, you're going to study for a lifetime.

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And then you're still going to be only know a tiny portion of its

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meanings. But everything we're permitted to know is great. And

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it's a blessing from ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada. This is why one of the

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Imams even my daughter has been Ahmad have she wanted of the great

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emails of huddle remote.

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He used to say that the new zone of the Quran in Qatar, the descent

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of the Quran been revealed has ceased that ceased, obviously,

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with the return of the prophesy zone to the Most High. But the Xs

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isn't a lot to either inspiring his righteous servants with

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meanings and understandings in his book remains. And that has

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extended beyond the time of the prophesy centum will remain until

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Allah Tala lifts the Quran from Earth. There are people who have

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renewed understandings who have new understandings of Allah to his

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book, and the same imam who was known to have such a great

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relationship with the Quran, especially in Ramadan.

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He used to say every year Allah gives me new understandings in his

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book, every year, I understand more, and I understand more, and I

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understand more. And this is way that we want it to be we want to

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every year that passes increase, wherever we are, don't let

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yourself get overwhelmed because it could get overwhelming.

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Learn a little bit, little by little, little by little, little

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by little increase your knowledge of his book. And there's many ways

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that we can do that. So that's one of the meanings of that verse.

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What Octo Wajid, so he knows that he's going to explain one of the

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meanings of taking the Quran with GID with seriousness is what and

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you're calling let the judge read and lo and the clearer it

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is that you are freed up from anything that will prevent you

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from reflecting upon its meanings and being present with it when you

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are reciting it. Hmong Saudi for him mochila he and Haiti he

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focusing your aspiration on it, and not being distracted by

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anything else. And this is why we really shouldn't have Koran on

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when we're having conversations at Iftar time that Quran, I was a

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biller, we cannot treat it like background music.

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Background music is something that people have playing in the

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background while they do work. And while they do other things know

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when Quran is not we cannot treat it like that. That's bad other

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with Allah's book, the Quran should not be playing in the

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background. When the Quran is playing, we should be listening

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carefully and remain silent. We should not be speaking and if no

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one else is present, and you have for instance, Koran praying while

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you're cooking. That's one thing as long as you can concentrate on

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the meanings, but you don't

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don't want to speak over the corner or have it just playing in

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the background. When the Quran has been recited, we should be

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devoting ourselves entirely to it. And ideally, we should free

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ourselves up so that we're not looking at our phone. We're not

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having other conversations. We're focusing on its recitation. And we

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should try to find a time where we're not distracted to recite a

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lot of other code that is book. If there's a time that we know our

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kids are going to be coming in and out or people are going to need us

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to ask us questions or to text us or something. We should try to

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find a better time to read his book subhanho wa taala.

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So Masada offered him a beautiful way of stating it, we just

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completely direct our aspiration towards it. And then he gives us

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an anecdote located the battle to him. One of them was asked one of

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the righteous eat up caught up third quarter and two had the

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Sunnah of submission. When you recite the Quran, do does yourself

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speak to you? Literally, ie, does your inner speech distract you?

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Farrakhan our che on a hub La Mina Quran who had YouTube enough? See?

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Is there anything that's more beloved to me than the Quran, such

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that myself would speak to me about it.

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Now, Allah and this tells us about something very important about the

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psychology of the human being, we have what is called Hadith and

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knifes inner speech, and your enough's is you.

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Your enough's speaks to you, our nerves, our own selves speak to us

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all the time, all throughout the day.

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What is our inner self speaking about?

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What does our inner self desire? What is it in meshed and entangled

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with? How pure is it? What are the things that are saying?

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Are those is are those those words? And the the speeches and

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all of the things that it says to us? How pure are they if we put it

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out on a plate? If we would voice it? What would people think? What

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would people say? We should be embarrassed to claim any level of

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piety, that anything that comes to our heart, any speech that we

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speak to ourselves with, would be against the sacred law or that

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other people would wonder why it is that we have that in our heart.

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And Allah knows everything as well, we can't fool ourselves. We

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don't have false piety, let's just all admit that we all need working

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on. And this thank Allah, that he's veiled us,

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and is not going to take us to account unless it moves from here

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to here. But once that word moves from here, and it's gone, it's

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gone.

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And sometimes, we can repair that other times we can't,

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as long as it's here, and as long as it hasn't come out, and we're

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not comfortable. If it's not something that's good. It's an

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atonement for but the purity of our inner speech ultimately is a

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sign of the purity of our hearts.

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And the only way to move towards purity of interspeech and purity

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of heart is to struggle and to work on yourself. This is the

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jihad Akbar. This is the greatest you had of all. Because you are

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stuck with your own self, you can't separate yourself, yourself

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is you.

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And you have to do this in a way where you don't get tied out in

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the first round.

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And no matter how many times you get beat down, no matter how many

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times you get pen to the ground, no matter how many moves your Nef

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does on you, and gets you in chokeholds and you're about to

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submit don't submit.

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keep learning, keep coming back, take a little bit of rest, go back

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to the war with your own self.

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And nothing is more and more important for us to do than to

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wage war against our own selves. The knifes your ego will ruin

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everything.

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It will ruin your life in or ruin your afterlife, your worldly life

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and your hereafter and it will ruin everything else. It will ruin

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a family. It will ruin a community. It will ruin a company

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it will ruin everything. The knifes can ruin everything.

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Think about how many wars have been fought, because of egos of

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individuals. How many people have been dragged into war and fought

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wars of other people because of the egos of individuals. Just

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think about that.

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The ego is a Bethmann Sabina ship on

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the ego your knifes is worse, more vile than 70 Shit lawns than 70

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demons.

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And we all know that we need working on. But we have to then

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collectively help one another to work on our own selves. And if you

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want to establish a relationship, you think you can get married

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without being aware of your own knifes. You think that you can

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have a family with out with without working on your own knifes

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I think you can have a community or an organization anything, the

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knifes will ruin everything. But as long as we're committed

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to mujahed it enough waging war against our own selves, and

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blaming our own selves, remaining introspective, seeing what what it

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is that you and I could do better, not blaming other people blaming

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our own selves, if we can be committed to that, we'll be

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successful. And we make mistakes, we have to admit it.

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We have to admit it. And we have to rectify the situation. And just

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as it's a mistake for someone to act upon his nerves and to not

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apologize. It's also a mistake for someone who does apologize for

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someone else not to accept their apology, that's serious.

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When someone's sincere, and apologizing to you to not accept

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their apology is serious. And the fear there is is that same thing

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is going to happen to you in the dunya in this world, and then

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you're welcome when you return back to a lot of other cortada.

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This is why these books are so important. Because he mumbles a

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speaks about the most important things that you and I need to

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attain salvation in the next world to meet our Lord to gotico data in

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a good state. So this righteous man and he's teaching us a lesson

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here. And even if we're not there yet, the purpose of this is not

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to, oh, that's a lofty station, I can attain that. Why am I reading

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this?

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It's a ridiculous assertion. We're learning this for a reason.

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When he says here this righteousness asked is that does

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yourself speak to you? When you recite the book, he says anything

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more beloved to me than the Koran such that myself would speak to

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me. In other words,

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your inner speech stems from what it is that you love.

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Your inner speech stems from what it is that you love. So it shows

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the importance of love in this whole matter. It shows the

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importance of love. And this is why we have to focus on love, not

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in some goofy, Sufi way that people think in like it's just all

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about love. No, in a very real way. We have to focus on love.

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This is why this is what our teachers teach, and environments

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that they create. This is why they interact with you in the way that

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they do. Because nothing motivates us more than love. And if you You

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can love Allah and His Messenger, in without fully being instead of

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obedience and fully following the prophets, Allah Assam, the come

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out of muhabba the perfection of love comes from following what you

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can absolutely have love for Allah and His messenger. And then you

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work on yourself. And that love drives you to work on yourself. So

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that slowly, you do better and better. And you work on yourself

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until you actually become pure. And then there's degrees of purity

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that come after that. But your inner speech stems from what it is

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that you love. So if we can love the Quran, this is why we have

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sessions like hosted embedded session where we learn about the

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virtues of the Quran. Because once you learn about the virtues of

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something, you come to love it. And once you love the Quran, in

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here deep love, where you find intense intimacy, when you recite

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its meanings.

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Then how could yourself even intimate anything else internally,

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when you have such a degree of intimacy with Allah to add his

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words, and he's going to use the example of there's someone you

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really love? Are you thinking about other people when you're

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with the one that you really love? If there's something you really

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like to do, or you thinking about other things that you want to do

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when you're doing the thing that you love most? Whatever it is.

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So in other words, the Secret To Overcoming our inner speech is

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coming to love Allah and His messenger and the afterlife, in

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good in deen and beauty and light and so forth and so on. And once

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that comes to dominate the

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apart everything else comes easy

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and more could be said about that. What kind of other sort of either

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Clara sorta lemmya conical, goofy ha ha didn't add hernia. So some

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of the righteous if they would recite a chapter of the Quran and

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were they to realize that their heart wasn't present

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they recite the chapter a second time.

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Well how the Acebo to toe Allah do. I'm Kubla Hammond at all in

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this trait ie being present when we recite Allah's book, overcoming

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our inner speech comes after someone has the exaltation in

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their heart that was mentioned. And so the two most important

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things is titled theme and muhabba. Talim is a difficult word

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to translate. I translate it usually as exaltation, exalting

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the Koran. Perhaps we don't know what that means. But it stems from

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a verse in the Quran woman new algorithm shouted Allah, whoever

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exalts the sacred symbols of Allah, for Anam and Tuckwell Kuru

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it is from piety of the hearts. So it's a lemma you're a liberal, is

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to respect something, it's to magnify it, it is to recognize

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that it's great, and to exalt it.

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And so

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we can only truly be present with the Quran. If we realize the

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greatness of the Quran and realize the greatness of our Lord. Then

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we'll be present with his book subhanaw taala for an animal

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kingdom and lady at the low who is step she will be well yes, that

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needs to be he or you Stephanie so Hola, yo, Hello, Anna. Because the

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one who exalts the Quran, the Quran, the eternal speech of Allah

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that he is reciting, and finds great joy in it and finds intimacy

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in it is not going to be in a state of heedlessness fulfilled

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Qurani Myos that new Sobey helical you will find no Quran, that which

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the heart finds great intimacy in and once you taste the sweetness

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is the word uses. Yes, steadiness. ance is intimacy.

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And that intimacy is with the meaning of what it is that we are

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reciting. You find intimacy in it, because you realize it fulfills

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you at a level that nothing else can fulfill you at the deepest

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level of your existence. This is what you were created to do. This

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is why you were gifted a tang and an AKA and an intellect in a heart

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in the first place. By doing this, there's, there's no greater way to

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show gratitude to Allah. Because by reflecting on his book and

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reciting, you are showing gratitude because this is what

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these limbs were created for.

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Nothing fulfills you more than this. And if we still don't know

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what that means, it's too obscure. We find ourselves distance from

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it. Don't give up. Strive.

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strive

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and struggle with yourself and make an intention to want to know

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and don't listen to anyone else that thinks that this is too

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difficult for you to attain a Saki Balki Allah can give you what he

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wants to give you a how he wants to give you when he wants to give

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you Yes, even 1400 years after the time of our Prophet Salah liason,

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there will still be more Qatar being in Serbia again. And this

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time,

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there will still be even though there are a few in the later times

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than not a multitude like the times it came up for us. But there

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still will be the foremost and those who are close to Allah even

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in our tongues. Why do we present prevent ourselves? It's not about

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you and I.

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It's not even about our effort. And yes, we should still put in

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effort.

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The greatest advice that anyone can give you is to turn to Allah.

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Turn to Allah, in all of your states with all of your problems

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with all of your issues, with all of your struggles, with all of

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your frustrations, with everything that bothers you with everything

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that you just can't stop doing with everything that is that you

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want to do.

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The elixir of all elixirs the secret of all secrets, the

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foundation of all foundations is to turn to Allah subhanaw taala.

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And there's no better time than right now in this blessed month of

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Ramadan, and a time of mercy and forgiveness and being released

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from the fire and all of the means of releasing

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and as long as our spirit is shackled by our enough's.

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We won't truly know what it means to be human.

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As long as our spirits are shackled by our knifes, we won't

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truly know what it means to be human.

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And this is why we have to work on ourselves. We can't blame anyone

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now.

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If you blame anyone now, you should really only be blaming your

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own self. If you get angry now blame your own self. If you get

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bothered by things now, blame your own self. If your heart is still

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inclining towards evil, and you have bad thoughts, blame your own

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self. The Shayateen are locked up. And of course there's different

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meanings there. But in in general, the shale Tina locked up, it's

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your knifes and if it's still in kind sorts evil, one of the

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explanations is it's because you've gotten yourself so used to

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following the west of Associaton that it's just who you are, you're

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left with yourself right now. And so Ramadan is a madrasa that

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teaches us to confront our knifes.

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In order to do so, you have to be courageous.

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But if we cower away

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and let our knifes get the best of we will lose in this world and in

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the next world.

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So he says here

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fulfill quote animalistic needs to be helpful.

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But you will find in the Quran that which the heart finds

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intimacy in in Canada tally. Linda who if the one reciting is worthy

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of it he's done his job to recite how it is that he should recite to

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reflect how does the he should reflect for K for yet a little bit

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on smell flickered for Haiti, he will Hua Medina Zan, amata,

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virgin.

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He said, is that how could someone have thoughts other than what he's

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reciting come to heart? When he is in a beautiful garden? When he's

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in the very best of all, he's what he's experienced is the very best

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thing of all.

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How could you do so and he goes into mentioned a metaphor for us.

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And just again, imagine, if you're in the most beautiful garden,

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you're in one of the most beautiful places that you've ever

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seen in your life. And you're just walking around and just marveling

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at all of the different flowers, and all of the different blossoms,

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all of the different colors. It's a beautiful day, the temperature

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is just right, and so forth and so on. Are you going to be thinking

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about being in some cubicle somewhere?

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If you're experiencing intense beauty, if you're tasting food

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that is extremely delicious. Are you going to think about the meals

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that didn't suit your tastebuds previously? If you're with people

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that you love, are you really going to be thinking about the bad

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interactions you've had with other people. I'm not talking about

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conditions of trauma, but in general No. And this is his whole

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point. For in order for our heart to be present, we have to know and

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understand the also of the canal, the origin of the speech, and the

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speaker, who is speaking to us subhanho wa Taala and have Tallinn

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for his book and of Tallinn for him Subhana wa Tada so that the

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heart will then be present.

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And when the heart is present, that means our inner speech is not

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dragging us into other things. And just as I say this tonight, when

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we stand up to pray, tada we be in the night data, we will find that

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our inner speech drags us to think about different things. And we're

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in the middle of nowhere. And who knows what we're thinking about.

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In the middle of totally

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bring your heart back, make your heart present. And if you don't

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know Arabic, still stand in prayer. And if you want to repeat

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the Quran, your heart over and over again, and just repeating La

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ilaha illa are repeating occur in your heart over and over again.

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Something to keep your mind present, bringing to heart that a

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lotta had a seizure at all times, and so forth and so on. That is

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legitimate if you don't understand all the details of what has been

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recited, but keep your heart present and use it as a time to

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work upon yourself internally. And if you would just be in a state of

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vigilance ie maraca while you're in total we're and

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bring to heart that you are reciting the kingdom of law or

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listening to the kingdom of Allah. And Allah is addressing you that

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in no self is enough, even if someone of your siding for two

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hours fixate your mind on that. Don't let your heart stray about

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anything else. If you can't understand the individual

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Denise and fix it your mind on that. And the beauty is our

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teachers have told us if you do that with Salim and your heart for

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the Quran, Allah will inspire you with meanings of the Quran that

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the person adept in the Arabic language will not understand.

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And it will change you at the core of your being. Because it is not a

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prerequisite to be impacted or transformed by the Quran that you

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understand all of its meanings. Yes, we should learn outwardly as

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I mentioned, but just hearing a laws, book be recited, changes you

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at the depth of your beam, a lot of adequate data, bless us to

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implement these predicates and these internal acts, and to bring

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our hearts to life with them. And may you and I already have Hello,

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and be present when his book has been recited. Subhan Allah to

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Allah, and may we be given Tofik to overcome our inner speech, and

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that may the Koran become so Beloved to us, and our Lord and

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the Prophet sallallahu Sallam become so Beloved to us. When we

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are reciting his book, nothing else comes to heart, that when we

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are mentioning his name, nothing else comes to heart. When we're

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sitting inside of watch upon him, then nothing else comes to heart.

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May Allah to animate our hearts to be from the very best of hearts.

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And despite the time in which we live in, where so many people have

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turned away from so much beauty, in turn towards so much ugliness,

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may Allah to political data, revive this in our hearts in Allah

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to Allah blesses to put this into practice, from the blessings of

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this blessing book and the blessings of this blessing author

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and for the blessings of this person month, behind what for Avia

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will solve a lot I think Mohammed and while earning wasabia Salam,

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Al Hamdulillah, Herbert enemy

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