Yahya Ibrahim – A Fresh Start

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The importance of the Prophet Muhammad's redemption program is highlighted, as it provides opportunities for individuals to rewind their life and end the negative cycle. The importance of forgiveness is emphasized, along with the need for daily prayer and self-life. The speaker emphasizes the importance of hardship and forgiveness, as well as finding the ease of success and forgiveness. The importance of humility and forgiveness is also emphasized.

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			Always we begin with the praise of Allah.
		
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			We are thankful to Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala for the opportunities
		
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			of the life that we have been given,
		
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			the blessings that we are able to be
		
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			thankful for and recognizing
		
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			of our need of them from Allah,
		
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			and also for the blessings of that which
		
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			we are absent in mind and are unaware
		
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			of them as blessings in our life.
		
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			And I pray that Allah
		
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			makes you and I from those who are
		
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			Those who are foremost
		
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			and quick to that which is good.
		
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			Allah
		
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			is the 1 who has made it as
		
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			a part of the qadr of you and
		
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			I as human beings.
		
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			That it is a sunnah ilahiya, a sunnah
		
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			of
		
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			Allah to give you and I an opportunity
		
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			to be regular in establishing
		
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			a mindset of redeeming ourselves to Him.
		
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			And 1 of the special qualities that we
		
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			have been provided as Muslims, as an ummah,
		
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			that is from the specialities
		
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			of the Prophet Muhammad salallahu alaihi wa sallam's
		
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			community of faith,
		
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			is that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala opens to
		
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			us
		
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			an opportunity for a fresh start
		
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			each and every day,
		
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			each and every week, each and every month,
		
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			each and every season, each and every year.
		
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			And this is something that other faiths
		
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			are not privileged
		
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			to be provided.
		
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			In fact, for us, the concept of tawbah
		
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			and redemption
		
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			is a very unique concept within Islam.
		
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			That it's just between myself and Allah that
		
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			I can set right what I have tarnished,
		
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			that I have brought to ruin.
		
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			And each and every year, Allah gives special
		
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			seasons
		
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			for redemption.
		
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			The season of Ramadan,
		
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			followed by the season of Dhul Hijjah,
		
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			followed by al Ashhor Al Haram,
		
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			followed by the opportunities
		
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			in the days and in the nights
		
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			when Allah nears His creation and descends in
		
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			the majesty that is befitting to Him and
		
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			invites to us,
		
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			Is there anyone who seeks my forgiveness that
		
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			I may forgive them?
		
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			Is there anyone who seeks a new beginning
		
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			and a return to me that I may
		
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			provide it?
		
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			And the mindset of a believer is 1
		
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			that invites them to return to Allah.
		
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			1 of the things that we take for
		
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			granted as believers
		
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			is the opportunity
		
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			to press pause
		
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			and rewind
		
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			our life with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Wallahi. It is 1 of those opportunities
		
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			that those who have gone into the next
		
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			life
		
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			hope and will and wish that they have
		
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			that opportunity.
		
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			Rabbir ji'un. Oh, Allah, just let me go
		
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			back.
		
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			Just give me 1 more chance.
		
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			Let me have 1 more fajr prayer.
		
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			Give me 1 more Ramadan.
		
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			Give me 1 more chance to spend from
		
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			my wealth to take myself and family to
		
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			Umrah. Just give me 1 more opportunity
		
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			to put a little bit of sadaqa in
		
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			the mouth of a yateen.
		
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			Let me look past my home and my
		
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			family.
		
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			Just give me 1 more chance to be
		
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			better in my hijab.
		
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			1 more chance to end the haram discussion.
		
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			1 more opportunity
		
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			to ask someone I know I have wronged
		
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			in my heart to forgive me.
		
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			Rabir J'ool,
		
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			oh Allah, send me back.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			You and I, as we sit here in
		
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			this blessed day of Jumu'ah, have been given
		
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			numerous opportunities
		
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			just in this day.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says,
		
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			The most magnificent
		
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			day that the sun ever rises on is
		
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			the day of Jumuah.
		
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			It's the day that Allah created humanity. It's
		
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			the day that we were brought down to
		
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			earth. It is the day when our resurrection
		
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			will be held. It is the day where
		
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			Adam asked Allah for forgiveness and was forgiven.
		
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			In this day, there is an hour,
		
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			a section of time
		
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			that no 1 asks Allah for forgiveness in
		
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			it, except they are forgiven.
		
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			Subhanallah. The opportunities
		
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			abound or plenty.
		
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			Anytime he would read anything from the Quran,
		
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			the moment he would finish it, the first
		
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			thing that he would ask of Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala is his forgiveness.
		
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			In fact, the moment you and I say,
		
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			after this salah or any salah you perform,
		
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			The first thing you will say,
		
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			taught to us by the prophet salayahu alayhi
		
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			wasalam is astaghfirullah
		
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			astaghfirullah.
		
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			Not because you were committing any wrong,
		
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			but because you have a heart, a mind
		
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			that is meant to be trained
		
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			on anilbhu
		
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			ilaaradiqum,
		
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			anilbhu ilallah, return to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam would set
		
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			this as a powerful mandate.
		
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			In fact, each and every day the Prophet
		
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			salallahu alaihi wa sallam would say,
		
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			I ask Allah for forgiveness, and I turn
		
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			back to him in repentance
		
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			each and every 1 of my days more
		
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			than 70 times a day. The istighfar of
		
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			the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam was istighfar for
		
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			you and I.
		
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			The, ahlil sunnah wal jama'ah, our belief as
		
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			Muslims is that the prophet salallahu alaihi wasalam
		
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			was Ma'asul.
		
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			He was 1 who was protected once prophethood
		
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			arrived.
		
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			When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says to him,
		
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			that
		
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			Allah may forgive for you, It
		
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			is on behalf of your ummah as a
		
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			representative what you ask me.
		
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			He teaches you and I to return
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			See, the opportunity
		
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			is lost when 1 does not believe that
		
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			they are foul and in error with Allah.
		
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			And that is the discussion that I have
		
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			with you today.
		
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			The mindset of a believer is 1 of
		
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			always indulging in correction,
		
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			not 1 indulging in
		
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			and assuming Allah's grace will eventually find it.
		
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			The mindset of a believer is the 1
		
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			that Allah speaks to.
		
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			Allah never speaks to the criminal in the
		
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			Quran and says repent.
		
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			Allah does not speak to the sinner in
		
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			the Quran and say ask for forgiveness.
		
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			Allah does not say,
		
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			Oh sinful people return to Allah.
		
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			Rather Allah only
		
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			and exclusively
		
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			and uniquely
		
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			says,
		
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			Because it is only the believer,
		
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			1 whose heart is awake
		
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			of the complexities
		
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			of their life,
		
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			that understands
		
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			the necessity of being regular
		
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			in asking Allah for help
		
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			in doing what is good,
		
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			and in help in staying away from what
		
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			is error, which is the essential element of
		
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			tawba.
		
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			The essential element of seeking istighfar.
		
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			Each and every 1 of us, we have
		
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			this great hope.
		
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			As you sit in front of me as
		
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			a heart that is waking and awoke with
		
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			Allah,
		
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			You have the hope insha Allah, you will
		
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			live till the next Ramadan.
		
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			You have the hope if you have not
		
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			performed Hajj, that Allah will carry you to
		
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			Hajj. You have the hope if that you
		
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			were in Hajj, that Allah has accepted your
		
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			Hajj. Why? What is the sum value?
		
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			What is it that you were seeking of
		
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			Allah in the month of Ramadan?
		
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			You make it all the way to Hajj,
		
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			spent all that wealth,
		
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			donated all that time and energy and effort
		
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			to go all the way there. For what
		
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			purpose? Is that you hope
		
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			that you have been given a Hajj that
		
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			is Mabur,
		
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			that you return back
		
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			home, As if you were just newly born.
		
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			Fresh start.
		
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			But the fresh start is with you now.
		
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			The opportunity is here.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam would say,
		
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			The 5 daily prayers,
		
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			completing
		
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			them. And praying Jumuah,
		
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			and then the next Jumuah, 1 week
		
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			in between 2 jumu'ahs.
		
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			Ramadan, ila Ramadan,
		
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			and having a good Ramadan,
		
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			and living and completing a year, and having
		
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			another Ramadan. Your
		
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			sins that are minor in regard are forgiven
		
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			by Allah if you stay away from the
		
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			calamities, the major cities.
		
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			The heart of the believer
		
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			that is attached to their prayer place,
		
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			that is attached to the masjid for Jum'ah,
		
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			that is attached to a body that seeks
		
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			to be subdued and fast to Allah correctly,
		
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			internally,
		
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			and mentally, and externally,
		
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			is 1 that is focused on that very
		
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			aim.
		
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			I want to speak about the strategy
		
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			that is taught to us by the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wasallam, the psychology of redemption, the
		
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			psychology of redemption and repentance.
		
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			What is the mindset you and I seek
		
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			now as we wake up to this recognition
		
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			that it's not just
		
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			Allah forgiveness that descends without our involvement.
		
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			It's not just that we wait and hope
		
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			and think and assume
		
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			that somehow
		
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			Allah will redeem us.
		
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			In fact,
		
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			the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, 2 separate
		
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			suhadah,
		
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			hear from him a wondrous hadith
		
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			that is full of hope,
		
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			but is full of caution.
		
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			Abu Hurayyah as well as Mu'adib lijabal, they
		
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			report that the prophet salaisedale and both of
		
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			them hid this hadith.
		
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			Both of them did not share this hadith
		
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			until the end of their life.
		
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			Until the final moments of their life, they
		
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			said, just because it is knowledge shared by
		
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			the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam, I don't
		
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			want to keep it with me and return
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			The prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam said that the
		
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			1 who says La ilaha illallah with truthfulness
		
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			from their heart will eventually make it to
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			When Umar heard this,
		
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			and Abu Hurayrah was narrating it, he came
		
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			to the prophet
		
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			and he said, you Rasulullah,
		
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			perhaps,
		
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			perhaps people will just hear this and they
		
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			will just assume, say,
		
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			Allah is merciful. I believe in only 1
		
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			Allah Everything is good.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi and Abu Hurayrah understood
		
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			from the words of the prophet hold this
		
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			saying with Muadh ibn Jabal. Muadh ibn Jabal
		
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			radiAllahu anhu on his deathbed
		
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			is when he shares these words of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			of great hope.
		
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			Al Imam al Hassan al Basri, he would
		
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			say,
		
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			Iman is not a whimsical wish.
		
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			It's not something you wish and say, oh,
		
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			I wish Allah gave me more iman.
		
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			I wish I was a better Muslim. I
		
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			wish I prayed more. I wish my kids
		
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			prayed Fajr.
		
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			I wish my daughter observed better hijab.
		
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			I wish my family was more observant of
		
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			this.
		
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			Iman is not a wish.
		
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			It is something that is in your heart.
		
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			And then the truth of your words and
		
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			actions put it into effect.
		
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			That if it is in your heart, it
		
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			becomes
		
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			an aspect of your iman with Allah
		
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			It begins to take form. And all of
		
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			us are on the spectrum of return.
		
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			The psychology of redemption begins first with self
		
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			criticism.
		
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			It's not about what others see of you.
		
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			It's not what others think of you.
		
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			It's not what others know about you, good
		
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			or bad. It is that you within your
		
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			heart, you have that some value. I know
		
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			my place with Allah.
		
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			I know where the Quran is valuable in
		
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			my life and where it is not been
		
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			present in my life.
		
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			I know
		
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			how halal my income is. I know
		
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			what I spend in, what I save in,
		
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			where I spend, and how much I give.
		
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			I know
		
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			what my calculation of Zakah is involved.
		
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			I know
		
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			the sum of my being,
		
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			the hatred and anger I have towards another
		
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			human being.
		
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			I know who I am.
		
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			So I begin to take note.
		
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			This muhasaba,
		
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			this accounting of yourself
		
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			is a powerful powerful motive in our faith.
		
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			It is balanced between being 1 who is
		
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			compulsive and obsessive,
		
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			that everything in their life they feel themselves
		
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			wrong.
		
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			And it is 1 where they do not
		
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			assume all hope and all promise is given
		
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			by Allah without action.
		
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			Is that we live life, do the best
		
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			we can, and ask Allah for where we
		
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			are negligent.
		
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			Ask Allah to fill the gaps in our
		
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			life and seek to make incremental,
		
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			if not giant steps
		
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			of righteousness
		
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			in our very being with Allah.
		
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			The first step is self analysis,
		
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			self assessment,
		
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			self criticism,
		
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			self blame, a nafsulawama,
		
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			a soul that looks into the inner parts
		
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			of its life and that of its family.
		
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			This cannot remain
		
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			in that stage
		
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			if 1 seeks to be successful with Allah
		
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			until they make the second jump,
		
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			which is now I know that there are
		
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			gaps. Now I know that there are problems.
		
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			Now I know there is a mis salah.
		
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			Now I know that I have not prioritized
		
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			badjib. Now I know I'm absent from the
		
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			Majid. Now I know that the Quran is
		
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			not present in my life, in its translation,
		
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			in its reading, in its sound.
		
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			Now I know.
		
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			The second leap,
		
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			the second stage
		
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			is self control,
		
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			is to take ownership
		
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			of one's decisions.
		
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			And that
		
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			is an important teaching of the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			A man,
		
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			the Prophet says to him, sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam, Look at the offer of Rasulullah
		
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			He says to him, if You Miqdad, ask
		
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			me now.
		
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			This is a moment of Allah's mercy. Meqdad,
		
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			ask me now
		
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			for anything and I will invoke Allah for
		
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			you
		
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			and Allah will grant it to you. Imagine
		
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			Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says, right now,
		
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			whatever hope you have, whatever dua you have,
		
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			tell me and I will make it for
		
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			you right this minute. Allah will answer it.
		
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			Miqdad simply says, you Rasulullah, I need nothing
		
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			of this dunya
		
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			except that you and I are together in
		
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			Jannah,
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. I just want to
		
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			be with you in Jannah.
		
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			Although Allah has already said to the Prophet
		
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			salaihi wa sallam, the dua will be answered.
		
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			And Miqdad, you and I as people of
		
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			Sunnah, we assume him to be from the
		
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			people of Jannah.
		
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			Even though he's been promised his dua has
		
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			entered, listen to the words of the prophet
		
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			salallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
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			He makes dua that Allah joins them in
		
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			Jannah and then he says to Miqdad,
		
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			Miqdad,
		
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			help my dua for you
		
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			by increasing your prayer.
		
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			Nothing
		
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			is given for free.
		
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			Jannah is not for free.
		
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			Jannah is hidden behind trouble and difficulty and
		
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			patience.
		
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			Jannah is not for the weak of heart.
		
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			Jannah is not for the 1 who slumbers
		
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			and sleeps and is lazy with Allah.
		
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			Jannah is not for the 1 who does
		
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			not seek to endeavor
		
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			when they know that they have fault and
		
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			blame.
		
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			Help me
		
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			to achieve this for you, oh Miqdad, by
		
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			increasing
		
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			your prayer.
		
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			Beginning to develop the root of self control
		
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			and self accountability
		
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			leads you to the 3rd and final stage.
		
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			The 3rd and final stage, which I will
		
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			address with you after is
		
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			self sacrifice. What will you give up to
		
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			achieve what you see?
		
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			Self sacrifice.
		
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			Nothing worthy
		
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			of attainment
		
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			is ever granted
		
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			without hardship.
		
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			We read these beautiful verses in Surah Al
		
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			Duha, 1 of the Surahs
		
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			that was loved by the Prophet salallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam, a surah full of hope.
		
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			The Allah would
		
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			say to the Prophet
		
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			that I will give you the good
		
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			and I will give you the ease.
		
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			The Surah that comes immediately after it
		
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			describes how to receive it.
		
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			I want rida of Allah. I want to
		
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			be happy, O
		
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			Allah. How do I achieve it? In the
		
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			next Surah Surah Al Sharuh,
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says
		
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			And Allah
		
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			says to the prophet
		
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			That with the hardship,
		
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			you will find the ease that you are
		
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			seeking and praying for. Most of us, all
		
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			of us, we like to hear the second
		
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			word, yus.
		
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			All of us, we want the yus. Nobody
		
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			wants the yus that is necessary to achieve
		
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			the yus.
		
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			There is no 'usr without 'usr
		
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			Look at the life of Rasulullah salAllahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam His whole life Allah says, I
		
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			will give you what will please you after
		
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			usr.
		
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			Without the usr in your life, there is
		
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			no usr.
		
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			Because how do you appreciate the good
		
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			if you did not earn it?
		
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			The prophet
		
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			would say about Dawud alaihis salam
		
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			that he never ate a meal except that
		
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			his hands had earned it, and he was
		
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			a king and a prophet of Allah.
		
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			The Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam
		
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			was 1 who taught us about the necessity
		
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			of giving up to achieve.
		
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			He would
		
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			give
		
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			from his time, from his energy, from his
		
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			wealth,
		
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			from his home,
		
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			from his fame, from his reputation,
		
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			to shelter the ummah of the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			salallahu alaihi wasall.
		
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			Remember that verse, my dear brother. When times
		
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			grow dark,
		
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			and things that are plentiful in your life
		
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			do not seem as plentiful as they as
		
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			you would seek them.
		
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			When what you think into your hand may
		
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			not be enough, look at it and say,
		
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			That if I hold on, if I'm patient,
		
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			that I will find with Allah the relief
		
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			and the ease.
		
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			The prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam had to
		
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			make hijrah from Mecca to have Madina,
		
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			and it's only through being expelled from Makkah
		
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			that he conquers Makkah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			It is only being put away that 1
		
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			finds ascendency.
		
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			Allah
		
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			has made this a sunnah in my life
		
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			and yours.
		
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			So begin to calculate for what are you
		
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			willing to give up.
		
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			What hours of entertainment in the evening for
		
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			you and your family are you willing to
		
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			give
		
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			up that you wake up all for fejr?
		
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			What hours
		
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			are you willing to give up my young
		
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			my young man, my young student in our
		
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			school or in others? Are you willing to
		
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			give up so that you can achieve the
		
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			career that last 40 years?
		
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			What are you willing to give up?
		
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			What are you willing to spend
		
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			so that you can gain
		
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			that which lasts longer
		
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			and is which is more plentiful?
		
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			My dear brother, what are you willing to
		
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			give in your home with your wife and
		
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			your children,
		
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			of your time and your energy,
		
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			of your effort and just your presence
		
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			that pays off dividends.
		
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			Sometimes people say it in error.
		
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			They say things like, I spent
		
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			time with my family. You didn't spend anything.
		
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			You saved your family with the time
		
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			you were with
		
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			them. May Allah
		
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			keep us as homebodies, as the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam was. May Allah keep us
		
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			united as communities and as people of faith.
		
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			Allahumma ameen. I pray that Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala sends his light and his guidance and
		
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			his hidayah into my heart and yours, into
		
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			our home, into our schools, into our children's
		
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			hearts. That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protects our
		
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			staff and our students, our parents and our
		
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			teachers. That Allah leads our board and principals
		
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			to that which is pleasing to Him. That
		
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			Allah allows this institution
		
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			to be a place of learning, not just
		
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			of the secular studies, but of Allah and
		
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			the sunnah of his Nabi Muhammad salallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam.
		
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			I pray that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			allows us the opportunity and honor to be
		
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			of those who redeemed themselves to Him,
		
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			who recognize the favor of Allah allowing us
		
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			to ask Him for help and forgiveness. That
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala allows us a mindset
		
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			that returns to Him ultimately
		
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			each and every day. I pray that Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala favors you with the khair
		
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			of the dunya and akhirah, and protects all
		
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			of us from the punishment of jahannam. I
		
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			pray that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala allows the
		
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			gathering that we have assembled
		
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			to not depart unless it is marhoom and
		
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			forgiven. That Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala makes our
		
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			hearts enlivened with the sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			Muhammad sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam.
		
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			Security that they deserve of you, You arhamaruhammeen,
		
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			that they seek from you, You Allah. We
		
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			ask you, You Allah, to forgive us our
		
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			inability to help them in more meaningful ways.
		
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			You arhamar rahemeen, we ask you to make
		
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			us from those who are the first to
		
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			quell the fear of others,
		
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			and the hunger of others. And that our
		
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			wealth and our charity and our zakah and
		
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			sadaqa reaches
		
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			the homes and the bellies and the clothing
		
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			of the forefins and the needy. Allahu ameen.
		
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			I pray that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala favors
		
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			us with the light of iman and the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			Humble yourselves to Allah
		
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			Turn your bodies completely towards the qiblah, keep
		
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			your eyes at the place of your sujood
		
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			Find your humility and your stillness and your
		
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			quiet in your salah.
		
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			Consider this could be a final prayer for
		
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			you.
		
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			Inshallah once again next week, salatul jumuah is
		
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			also available here at our school 1 more
		
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			week inshaAllah during the school holidays.