Wasim Kempson – Live Ask Eman – June 12th

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The host of a show discusses the importance of understanding the message of Islam and being clear in one's Islam, as it is often confusing and causing confusion. The importance of fulfilling obligations and good deeds, praying, investing in praying, and trimming one's nails is emphasized. The segment also touches on the distribution of wealth and the use of social media during quarantine, as well as the importance of fasting during meal times. The segment ends with a reminder to stay on the line for questions and a recap of the segment's format.

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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Brothers and sisters. Welcome to today's episode of Oski.
Man Well, good to be here with you live for the next hour to take your questions and get them
answered by our shift today in Sharla. So, the number is Oh 203515076 lines call us on to ask your
questions. You can also send your questions our WhatsApp number, email address, and if you're
watching along on Facebook live on YouTube on our live streams, you can leave your questions at the
comment section inshallah. So I'll be your host for today. And journalist is email with him Kempson
assalamu Alikum. Chef Welcome to the show when it comes down to low water kettle. Thank you for
		
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			joining us today. As we start every show I'd like to ask you for a short reminder. And then we can
continue with some questions from our viewers and shawl. Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi
Rabbil Alameen wa salatu salam ala Ashraf, Colombia he will say that mursaleen while early he was
Herbie he Jemaine and my bad.
		
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			Well praise belongs to Allah, I made a peace of blessings of Allah be upon his phone messenger
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi salam, and upon all the prophets and messengers who preceded him or him
solo to attend Mata Salim.
		
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			Now it is well known that the book of Allah subhanaw taala was revealed over a period of 23 years or
so.
		
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			And there are many HECM there are many wisdoms behind the quran being revealed over this extended
period of time. 23 years is not a short time, it's a long time.
		
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			And within this time, you find
		
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			that the revelation is put into two main categories. There's different perspectives or different
ways of looking at it. One of those ways is the monkey period and the other one is the medieval
period. So you find that there are monkey verses and then there are Madani versus
		
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			And the way that Allah subhanaw taala addresses and revealed in both times is is clearly that there
is a difference. In general there is
		
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			at the beginning of Islam, the establishment of Eman talking about the past nations previous
nations, and what happened to them because they disobeyed Allah subhanaw taala talking about
remaining firm and relying and trusting Allah subhanaw taala. And then in the Madani period, after
about 13 years or so, you find that there is an establishment of rulings, social kind of
interaction, and so on and so forth. This is to, to develop the individual. Now, once the revelation
was complete the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam along with the companions, and they took that
on, in how to teach people how to
		
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			how to bring people up in Islam, so that they understand Islam in the correct way. And this is a
gift.
		
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			It is a gift, in that you find when the Companions when they would teach, when their students they
would teach and they would pass on the Quran and the Sunnah, and they would teach these teach the
revelation to people, it would be in line with the people's understanding, it wouldn't be that
delivered to the people in a way which was confusing to them, bearing in mind, that the vast
majority 99% of the most Muslim population are laymen. So, therefore, the message has to be
delivered to them in a way which is palatable, which is understandable, which is clear, which is not
something that causes confusion or causes doubts. Therefore, you find that there is a great
		
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			responsibility upon the theory upon the scholars to address the matters, which are pertinent and
important to the to the general people and that it is addressed and delivered to them in the
appropriate way. If they were to talk about confusing matters, if they were to talk about things
which they weren't, when I said that I weren't meaning the lender, general layman. If they were not
to understand this issue, then it would cause much confusion within themselves. And they would be
you know, causes of fitna amongst the people. And Allah subhanaw taala tells us in the Quran first
lol ethically in controllata, alimony ask the people of knowledge, if you don't know then in turn,
		
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			the people of knowledge 101 will then give the knowledge in a palatable and clear manner and to the
people who so that they can start practicing their their Islam. Yes that there are elements in which
are require research. Yes, there are elements of the deen which are kind of at a high level, a
higher level of understanding is needed. And that
		
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			ultimately we know that this is the deen of Allah subhanaw taala there's no confusion there is no
hiding.
		
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			But it requires a certain amount of understanding. You know, sometimes you find non Muslims, they
quote certain verses, kill them wherever you find them is a common quote from those who have
		
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			issues with Islam and the Quran quoting something completely out of context, having no knowledge at
all, is causes a problem for them Nakia Muslims, they have not necessarily on the same issues, but
on other matters of the deen where they have very, very shallow knowledge concerning that, and that
it has not made clear to them, then it will cause confusion within them. This is why there is a
great responsibility upon a halo regarding the people and knowledge, to speak about things in a
manner which is clear to the people not to cause confusion, but rather to be there to allay any
doubts really, to you know, put to one side any things which are
		
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			in the Muslims mind something is happening now with the Black Lives movement and so on and so forth.
What's the Islamic perspective of that?
		
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			Or for example, with with COVID-19? How do we view that within Islamic you know, lens? How do we
understand and get through these issues? If we don't have
		
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			qualified wise people of knowledge at these particular times, then a difficult situation becomes
even more difficult. So we ask Allah subhanaw taala to allow
		
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			us to find have contact with real people of knowledge to understand the situation, we're able to
deliver the message of Allah subhanaw taala to the people in way in ways that doesn't cause them
confusion. And we ask Allah subhanaw taala to allow us to remain firm on the deen of Allah Subhana
Allah Allah. I mean, thank you so much for that. We're gonna go to our next Call of the show, or our
first call of the show, actually As Salam aleikum to our brother or sister on the line. Welcome to
the show. What's your name?
		
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			And where are you calling from? Salaam Alaikum My name is Howard I'm calling from wrong foot please
welcome to the show sister and your question right so my question is I you know as a woman in mind
when you are in your maintenance they are not allowed to touch but this has been bothering me
because I have a lot of different Quran app on my phone so sometimes I don't feel comfortable when
I'm in my menses excuse me to say that but so I wanted to shake to Amin told me his idea on that
because they something that has been bothering me
		
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			Okay, so thank you for your question. Do you have any other questions? And no please
		
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			thank you, you can stay on the line to hear your answer or you can watch along on your TV and shop
		
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			thank you
		
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			so the vast majority of the aroma are of the view that a woman who is on her mind says that she
should not physically touch the most half
		
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			this is something which
		
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			the mother who are they all in a much agreement that they shouldn't touch the muscle physically hand
on the most half however
		
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			with regards to the phone does this take the ruling of almost half
		
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			with regards to applications that you can open
		
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			what seems to be close as that you do not actually call the phone animals have it doesn't take the
ruling of a Muslim so if you open the application on the phone then you can recite from inshallah
Tada which is albeit a minority view but it is there's no clear evidence to say that you cannot read
the Quran is the opinion of Ramallah Ramallah you can recite the Quran while on woman is on her
monthly cycle. If you need to turn the pages, just to be like, you know, on the safe side is that
when you're going to flick turn the pages on the application just to at the bottom of the screen not
actually touching the muscle of the Quran. But at the bottom where you're not touching the writing
		
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			the Arabic writing, you can change, you know, look over the pages by doing that. And Allah subhanaw
taala is best. Thank you chef. For everyone watching at home. You can give us a call on oh two or
35150769 to ask any questions you may have. And you can also send us your questions to our WhatsApp
number 107422398833 If you're watching along on YouTube, then you can leave your questions at the
comment section inshallah. So our next question shift is going to be from WhatsApp. And the question
is a Salam Alikum Is this a authentic Dawoud
		
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			Allama Sunday ana Muhammadan.
		
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			Nabi you owe me. Ye Wiley Wiley he were Berdych, wa salam
		
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			by if you're talking about the road, and that what you want to say in your Salah in your prayer.
		
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			Then the way to set is quite well known Allah Allah Allah Muhammad and while early Mohammed commerce
or later Allah Abraham while early Ibrahim Wilhelmina in Naka, Homido Majid
		
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			and there are other integrations with Abdullah Al Amin and also Allahumma barik, ala Muhammad, that
is what he said your Salah if somebody wants to simply say their salutations upon the Prophet is
like a day like now, which is of course a very special time for us in the week, your melodrama, in
which that the Prophet alayhi salam said that there is an hour on the table Juma deliver abd the
servant makes dua at that time it is hoped that Allah Allah, Allah would answer that person's
supplication. And many of the elements of it is after salata, Lhasa, maybe a short while before a
lot of negative which we are falling into right now. So as a reminder for myself and yourselves to
		
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			make lots of dua to Allah subhanaw taala with regards to what you have said.
		
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			Yeah, I mean, it is a salah upon the profit area, so cerami sending a piece Salah salatu salam upon
the Prophet alayhi salam the meaning seems to be correct, Allah mesmerist that's outside of Salam
		
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			Thank you Sure.
		
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			I was gonna ask you if we if we don't take part or we don't not take part if we don't perform the
Sunnah of the day of Jamar
		
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			our kind of letting it pass by you know, we don't reach out to care if we don't do the Donald you
know salutations on the profit. Are you missing out on on Joomla now, and no doubt
		
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			the person leaves the sooner than a person is avoiding or staying away from lots of good
		
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			sending salatu salam upon the Prophet sallallahu Sallam extra and more on The David Juma was
something that the prophets that Allah said Lim encouraged us to do. So if a person doesn't do that
they've missed out on a great deal of reward.
		
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			Similarly,
		
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			the other stolen or recommended acts at least because the issue of social calf whether it's from the
sunnah or
		
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			From the one of the companions that are the align, who is a discussion amongst the scholars, but
something Nonetheless, if a person misses out, then they miss out on the the reward or the virtue
that is attached to that particular action. And as Muslims, yes, we have, you know, the Ferraris we
have the obligations that we should all fulfill, and not look to just stop there.
		
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			But rather we look at the student acts, and to see the virtues and blessings that are also attached
in in doing those. And
		
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			as you know, servants of Allah subhanaw taala, none of us are in a position where we can
		
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			feel sufficient with that what we do with regards to Fatah, I mean, if you do your best on that,
then, as we know in the famous Hadith in Sahih, Muslim and boy, that a man and RRB he came into the
master of the message, the master of the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and asked number of questions
about what obligations were upon him, he said, I'm not going to do any more, I'm not going to do any
less than that. That the Prophet saw him said, if you want to see a man for the people agenda, then
look at the individual. So yes, if you do fulfill the obligations and for right and inshallah This
is a means for you to
		
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			to reach the paradise both through our last pantallas mercy, but we shouldn't just be people who are
looking at that, but rather, each individual is in need of the Mercy of Allah subhanaw taala to do
as many good deeds that you can. So therefore, I would say that any pseudonym that you find that you
can do on your Joomla or any other Sunon for any of the days for that matter, then don't take it
lightly, but rather do as much as you can from it.
		
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			Thank you Sure. We're gonna go now to our next caller of the show, As Salam Alikum to our brother or
sister on the line. Welcome to the show. What's your name? And where are you calling from?
		
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			But I was calling I'm calling from Peterborough. Welcome to the show, brother and your question. My
question is, when you're reading a lot
		
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			when you're reading and you might you you're reading to whatever
		
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			your mind tends to wander when you know your conscience and stuff constantly you get thoughts in
your head or the only way to how they shake or his experiences about that.
		
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			Okay, you can stay on the line but the short answer your question now inshallah. Thank you.
		
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			Yeah, so there are times occasions for all of us for that matter, that the SharePoint may come to us
and try to busy us with, you know, matters of the dunya whether it's to do with the work or money or
family, children or something just to distract you from from the prayer. I think it's important to
remind ourselves that you know, when you begin your Salah, that you stand in front of Allah subhanaw
taala Bula alameen and secondly, that in your Salah, that there are particular things for you to
see.
		
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			It's understandable that when you're following the Imam and maybe you use suffice yourself with the
minimum of that what you said in the Salah, so there's there's times in your prayer where there's
you know, some silence or some pause you're not think of anything that that allows your mind then to
kind of wander to a different place and start thinking about other things. So way to combat that is
not just to say, you know, after sort of defer to have very you know, a very short sword or like
Call of Allahu Ahad but rather tries to choose a longer Surah that busies you in the Salah, which
then stops you refrains you from you know, your mind wandering off.
		
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			So, this is something that you can try to Turia to try to do when you're in your Salah to stop your
your mind kind of thinking about other things. Also, understanding what you're saying in your prayer
is allows you to
		
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			feel and understand. To know what you're saying what you're asking for how you appraising a loss
punter, this will help you a great deal isn't related. Another thing you can help you is to change
the things that you say in your Salah.
		
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			So
		
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			you might recite Surah Fatiha tried to change different chapters that you recited the Quran, you
might say well, I haven't memorized that very much. Okay, make an effort to try and memorize maybe
one or two new solos that you can recite in your Salah. Likewise, try to remember or memorize a
couple of duras that you can make while in Morocco.
		
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			Cebu, one could also serve both and could do sort of Bulma ICA to roar. This is something you can
say as well as saying Subhanallah be lousy while you're in record bearing down. Similarly you can
say that in sujood try to memorize a couple of new hours that you will say no security which will
keep you busy. And the fact that it's new allows you or it makes it easier for you to for you to
concentrate in your branch on a tattoo but ultimately this is something that the shutdown will try
to
		
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			to busy you with you throughout your life if you'd like by
		
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			Do you must you know try your best to
		
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			to combat that with the practical steps that I mentioned to you. And also under beat Elisa, Salah
mentions and advice to us, the shaytaan may come with evil thoughts to you, that is allowed for you
the individual to
		
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			kind of do an action that on the left, that there's an action, which is kind of like to blow three
times.
		
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			If you're
		
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			in the gym, okay, you're known as people on your right. And yet, there's somebody in your left that
is that you don't turn your left on your left and then blow into the person. That's not That's not
how it's done, but rather as you're facing the Qibla, but rather, your head is just then just under
left, and you look just to the left, and that's how you do it. Like, like that. Oh, okay. Okay. And
all the way to the left, because as a person, yeah, yeah. But just look slightly down just to your
left and to do the action there. Yeah. And this is something that the Prophet alayhi salam advised
us to do if a person is
		
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			bothered by some evil thoughts from from the shaytaan analyst pattern is miserable to see you know,
to seek refuge in Allah. Allah, Allah. Yeah, because I'm used to seeing people turn towards me. And
yeah, that's my
		
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			issue. Thank you.
		
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			Our next question is from WhatsApp and the question is Salam Alikum. To pay off debt, quickly, is
there a worse?
		
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			Is there any way or anything I can read to help me pray? pay it off quicker?
		
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			Yeah, so with regards to debts, then lots of dua to Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			It is very important if you go to
		
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			personal Muslim, the fortress of the Muslim, there's a couple of duras that you will find it in the
in paying off gets, okay. If you don't have the physical booklet itself, you can download the
application to your phone, you can find it on a search engine, the fortress of the Muslim, we
download that and you can see the two hours which are there for paying off debts and have trust and
reliance in Allah subhanaw taala I hope and Allah, Allah Allah, and he will help you to pay off
those debts without circular Hersha
		
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			we're gonna go now to our next caller of the show, As Salam Alikum to our brother or sister on the
line. Welcome to the show. What's your name? And where are you calling from?
		
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			I'm calling from London. I just have about two questions. One is
		
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			men allowed to pray in okay wearing trousers, because I read somewhere that they're not allowed to
have to cover their shoulders. And when another question is, I have a 10 year old, the study
commences and she goes to my dresser like she reads Quran she goes to the Islamic Studies. Does she
have to stop going to my dresser when she has her menses because she has to hold the Quran? Oh, must
be ruling.
		
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			Okay, you can either listen to your answer on the phone system, or you can watch along on your TV.
		
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			Thank you. So
		
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			the first question was, the first question slipped my mind I remember the second one. Yeah. Okay, we
start the second one. The men premium invest in shortens. Yep. So lots of there first. So you read
correctly, there is a view amongst some of the earlier that when a person is praying that their
shoulders should be covered.
		
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			And praying and the rest is really not befitting remembering that you're going to stand in front of
Allah subhanaw taala the role of the worlds you wouldn't stand in front of
		
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			you know, your work manager or work colleague and invest, okay, you may be at home, there's some
relaxation, what you're going to wear, but nonetheless, there should be some element of honor. And
how you present yourself in your Salah and wearing a vest isn't really honoring yourself, therefore
you should cover yourself appropriately in shadow Tyler.
		
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			If we're talking about even you know, quote unquote, borderline what's valid and what's not valid, I
mean, you can go there if you wish, whether it's valid for you just have one of your shoulders
covered even. But what I'm saying is that you're standing in front of Allah subhanaw taala, where
something which is
		
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			huge honoring your Lord, and that is that you really should not pray and invest. And secondly, with
regard to
		
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			the one who is on her monthly cycle, there's two issues here. One is as entering the masjid
		
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			the second one is touching the most half.
		
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			As we're touching the most half then it is not permitted for the child or for the one who's on a
monthly cycle to physically touch the most half.
		
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			There are ways around that in that if they wear gloves that serves as a barrier between the them
touching and touching yourself. So wearing gloves. Wearing gloves is a suit
		
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			solution for that. Or if it is placed upon arrest of Quran rest, and and the pages are turned with
hen or whatever it's turned with not the physical hand, that's also another solution.
		
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			Now with regards to the head or the menstruating woman going into the masjid,
		
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			then the horror of the view that she shouldn't enter the masjid
		
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			or get it as a matter of health. Now,
		
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			if it is something which she's this is where you get to kind of exceptions to the rule. So what I
would say is that in general terms that you know, the height does not I don't get to too many other
separate issues, but in general, we had all the menstruating woman does not enter the Masjid. Now,
last pattern.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			Our next question is from our caller, who's on the line right now. So as salam alikoum to our
brother or sister, welcome to the show. What's your name? And where are you calling from?
		
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			Hey, my name is Dr. Malik. I'm calling from New York.
		
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			Where are you calling from brother?
		
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			I'm calling from New York. Okay. Welcome to the show. How are you today?
		
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			On the law, Murray, how are you doing? I'm well, thank you so much for asking, and your question.
		
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			So as long as we share, so my question is, so we know as Muslims that there's a gardening that
whispers in our ear, and gardening tells us to kind of do things, bad, bad things so that we can
kind of stray away from the path of Allah. My question is kind of like a two part question. So the
first part is
		
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			the gardening whispers in our ear. So you know, the conscious if you break it down into like, a
scientific way, a lot of people and scientists have concluded that the conscience we can hear it,
but then also as Muslims, we, you know, think it's the Guardian whispering in our ear. So my
question is, number one, can we physically hear the Guardian because at times, they'll be, I'll feel
like that I'll hear like a friend of mine, say something, but obviously, it'll just be me in the
room, but then I'll hear their voice. Exactly. You know what I mean? I do a lot of stuff beyond I do
pray five times a day, you know what I mean, on the law, but so so that's the first question. So the
		
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			second question is, can we hear the melodica also, because we can if we hear you know, the green
then you know, I would think that we can hear them a light too. So you know, it's kind of like a two
part question. And
		
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			thank you so much my brother. May Allah will do thank you for your question. I think the brother was
calling from New York Mashallah. I didn't hear it very easily. So the as you had shared he asked
about hearing the Korean Are you able to and the melodica Yeah.
		
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			And the simple answer that we don't know we don't there's no like decibel is that the Korean makes
North America that we will hear that this is something that is not measured in a physical sound that
we can hear. But it is a whispering an internal sound and whispers from from the shaytaan
		
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			which is you know, his name is cut in
		
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			the shape and assigned to every human being did you will hear that internally it's not something
that if I'm sitting next to you, I'll her I'll hear the Shetland whispering to you I won't hear
that. We won't hear that Okay. From from one another. But you will hear it you will hear it.
		
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			So that answers the question shall it's not something
		
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			is you know, you can hear externally like that, but it is rather and yourself.
		
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			And Malayaka the same we didn't hear anything from them because as a word of the unseen
		
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			circular Fisher thank you so much.
		
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			Okay, so our next question shift is
		
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			I just want to find out if women are allowed to go to the graveyard and recite Quran for their loved
ones, but we've reached our break so we'll go to our break and then we'll come back to that question
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			Salam alikoum rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh brothers and sisters Welcome back to today's Ask you man
live show. We're going to be with you for another 30 minutes here to take your questions and get
them answered for you by our shift today in man was seen Clemson Salam Alikum chef Welcome back to
the show. So let me welcome back after the break. Welcome back to the show to our viewers. We're
gonna go straight to our next caller that's waiting on the line. And then we'll come back to the
question that I asked from WhatsApp before the break so as salaam alaikum to our brother or sister
on the line right now. Welcome to the show. What's your name? And where are you calling from?
		
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			I'm calling from London. And my question is
		
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			I'm traveling, so
		
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			it is really late. It's like a leather bag.
		
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			Can I
		
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			can I join a show in love
		
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			while traveling? Yeah.
		
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			I'm not sure is it? 1130 you said?
		
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			Yeah. Okay. All right, then. Do you have any other questions?
		
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			All right, you can stay on the phone to listen to your question and then maybe you can
		
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			ask question after it if it's not clear, or you can watch along on your TV Inshallah, okay. Okay,
thank you.
		
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			So, when a person is going on a journey,
		
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			it is allowed for us to shorten and join our press. So the hook will be joined with salata Lhasa and
shortened. So though NASA birth to raka H, and you have the choice
		
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			while on your journey, when you've left the outskirts of your city,
		
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			then you can start
		
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			shortening and joining your press.
		
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			So if you want to pray them both in dorm time, so you pray acid and the whole time, or if you want
to delay, so if I go for the nostril time, you can do that. Similarly with Margaret Venetia. So once
a lot of money that comes in, you mentioned she's quite late. So immediately after that, you can
press a lot in Asia to rocker, as you are a traveler, traveler, and that's allows you to do that for
the duration of your travel until you reach your destination.
		
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			When you reach your destination, I don't know how you didn't mention how long you're staying, there
is a completely separate issue, but during your journey, you can shorten enjoy your presence. Thank
you Sure.
		
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			Does that answer your question? No, I meant like when I'm already at the place.
		
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			Okay, when you're when you've already reached your place, you're going to Yeah, and you're on
holiday? Is that what you mean?
		
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			Kind of kind of like you've gone somewhere, you're gonna stay for how long?
		
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			Two or three weeks.
		
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			As a known return, you know, when you were turning?
		
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			Yeah, either two or three weeks.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So if a person
		
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			arrives at their destination, so on your journey you can shorten if you're at your destination.
		
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			Now, if you're staying for two or three weeks,
		
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			you have a fixed date that you're returning, you know, when you're returning, then for that amount
of time, then you're not considered a traveler. Okay? That's like 14 or between 14 and 21 days.
		
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			The gym holder see that anyone who stays more than four days, not including the day that you arrive,
		
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			or you leave your four full days there, anything less than that you will be considered myself and
you can shorten and join your prayers, but you're staying there for that amount of time, then you
will take the ruling of a resident so when you arrive there, you pray your prayers in their time in
Sharlto. Okay, thank you, Chef. Does that answer your question?
		
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			Yeah, yes, thank you. Okay, thank you so much for your call Zack like it. We're gonna go to our next
caller. Now. Cinema Alikum to our young brother on the line. What's your name? And where are you
calling from?
		
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			Hello. Hi, I can hear you. What's your name? Where you calling from?
		
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			My name is Amanda can I'm calling from Hi,
		
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			my salah. And how old are you? I'm 11 years old.
		
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			How was your Ramadan? How's your eat? Ramadan?
		
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			How was your handloads good. I really enjoyed it.
		
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			How's your
		
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			becoming a distant memory now?
		
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			It's so well known.
		
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			That will allow you to ask this question. Yeah, I know I should go.
		
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			You obviously had a good day.
		
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			Hamdulillah I new question. My question is, what is the sun? What are the summers of cutting your
nails? And like when are you allowed to cut your nails? Okay. Do you have any other questions?
		
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			Nope. Okay. So, yeah. So
		
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			the trimming of the nails,
		
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			both on your hands and your feet are from the matters of FITARA personal hygiene, personal practice
that we should have.
		
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			In general, you can do it anytime. It's not for example, or you can't do on a Friday, or you can't
do on a Saturday. You could do any day you'd like there's no prohibition on that the only time that
you shouldn't do any nails is when you are in a state of Iran. If you're going to perform Hajj or
Umrah and you're in a state of Iran, that's when you don't you know, trim your nails or remove any
hair for that matter. Other than that time that it's free. You can choose you know trim your nails
at any time. The hadith of anastomotic Radi Allahu Anhu which is a Hadith in Sahih Muslim in which
that the professor said that it would not be there shouldn't be left beyond our own. There should
		
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			not be left beyond 40 days. We don't know. And that's a really long time. So as Muslims you don't
have really long
		
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			nails not perfect thing for Muslims to have these really long nails, brothers and sisters, by the
way, okay? Because there is
		
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			a kind of habits and practices that people have very long nails, which in some costumes in some
ways, which is maybe seen as beautiful and it's okay it's okay looking after your nails, go to a
person you know you want to get rid of the cleanup the cuticles and you clean your nails and things
like that's important personal hygiene is very important. But remember that if a person has
extremely long nails, okay, then the question is asked, How do you keep kind of little bit
sensitive, but how do you remain clean when you go to the bathroom if you have such long nails? So
		
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			wasn't directly asked, but these are side dishes, which are always important to mention. Okay. So
these are rulings when you do trim your nails, you can just simply throw them away. You don't have
to have
		
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			a special place in your garden when you have to bury them and you know, you have to hide your nails.
You can just you know you can dispose of them in the bin as you would. Okay.
		
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			So,
		
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			we've also been asked, Is it true that it's not advised to cut your nails during the nighttime?
		
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			Video at least? I don't have any evidence to say that. Trimming your nails at nighttime. You can't
do that you do in the daytime. There's no evidence for this Lakeisha thank you so much. We're gonna
go to our next caller now. Salam Alikum to our brother or sister on the line. Welcome to the show.
What's your name? And where are you calling from?
		
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			Salaam Alaikum. My name is
		
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			your name? My name is Ahmed war, my salah. And where are you calling from? I'm calling from
Stevenage masala. And how old are you? I'm 11 years old. Masala Hamdulillah. And what's your
question?
		
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			My question is
		
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			about the handshaking. Yeah. When we breed?
		
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			Yep.
		
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			Before when the Coronavirus started earlier when
		
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			they started shaking their hands with their elbows.
		
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			But what does that mean appropriate by now? Or would have would have to be inappropriate that then.
		
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			Okay, so are you. So your question is, can we shake hands now? Or should we still continue just
bumping elbows? Because all you're asking? Yes. All right. Do you have any other questions?
		
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			All right, and thank you so much for your call, you can stay on the phone to listen to your answer.
Or you can watch on your TV. Okay. Okay. All right, thank you so much for your call.
		
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			So, the current guidance, as it stands at the moment is that he will not from your household, there
should be a two meter social distancing implemented.
		
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			So, you know, elbow bumping is, you know, you will be breaking that, so you really shouldn't do
that.
		
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			So as the guidance stands at the moment, that's given to us.
		
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			Elbow bumping would be
		
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			not adhering to social distancing, as the advice is given to us. So that may change in the future.
If it changes in the future, of course, then you can, you know, do what is in line with that. But as
it stands at the moment, if you're within your own household, there's no need to shoulder you know,
shoulder bump or elbow bump, you can shake hands in your own home, there's no problem, but people
from other households.
		
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			And it's something that to be honest, it is changing quite frequently, I would advise you really to
just look at the latest guidance concerning if you get a visitor from another, another household,
the kinds of things that need to be adhere to. So this is not really strictly an Islamic question.
		
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			This is a question which, you know, Muslim, non Muslim is kind of
		
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			required to follow and this kind of government guidance on that. So, I would probably refer you to
the latest guidance on that.
		
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			If you can make heads or tails of it.
		
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			I just found last year when you mentioned that, so you know, you shouldn't do it now. I remembered
driving down the show one time or two times. We did a couple of times. I thought to ourselves panel
that was that was before the social distancing came about feels like it was ages. Once it goes
Panola went so quickly. Thank you Sure. For the onset. We're gonna go to our next question now from
our next caller. Assalamu Alikum to rather target I believe, how methodic if that's correct, welcome
to the show. How are you today?
		
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			Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh to yourself.
		
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			I am how you both mashallah
		
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			and welcome
		
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			my question is related to such day tilava during the session are we allowed to make
		
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			any offer our personal need? Or should we just restrict to ourselves to Subhan Allah and
		
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			he has to make what can we make any dua for our customers even like for more children and things
like that yeah
		
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			thank you so much. Yeah so the board is mentioning about sledge due to tilava the prostration that's
made
		
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			with regards to certain aid when we reach that we prostrate there are the option of you saying
simply Subhanallah BL Isla is also the the option that you can also make the DUA which is also
authentic reported in
		
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			while Institute
		
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			there's nothing prohibiting there's nothing stopping you making your wild Institute. If you wanted
to make other than that, then
		
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			it's permitted for you to do that.
		
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			Thank you. Sure.
		
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			Thank you. Our next question is going to be from WhatsApp chef and the question is
		
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			I broke my fast for three days in Ramadan because I was sick. So now what should I do? What do I
have to do? Yeah, so if somebody missed some days in Ramadan because of a sickness that refer them,
then quite simply just need to make those days up in sha Allah Tala. When they're able to when they
feel that they've recovered.
		
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			As soon as that's now and if it is not may last month give you Shiva.
		
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			Whenever you're healthy again, you just fast those days. There's nothing else upon you just to force
those days and make up a shot.
		
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			Thank you. Sure. Our next question is about the beard. And is Islam does Islam allow trimming or
not?
		
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			So there are a number of a hadith concerning the beard, different phrases that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said with regards to the growing of the beard
		
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			very famous scholar, emotional Konya. Rahim Allah has a book called Neela delta. And when he talks
about the narrations about the beard has about five or six different wordings that the prophets
Allah Salim said in with regards to the beard, leave the beard, grow the beard, look after your
beard. Okay, all of these
		
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			first and foremost established the growing of the beard
		
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			and the forbidding of shaving it.
		
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			Now we are on top of that we have the practice of some of the companions of the messenger Salallahu
Alaihe. Salam from them Abdullah Ahmed and Abu hereditarily Allah in Houma that they would trim
their beard and how that would be done is is authentically integrated from them that they would take
the hands like this and place it from the chin and what they would extend beyond the cup the handful
that they will trim that off, which
		
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			shows the permissibility of of trimming the beard in this manner.
		
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			So we can if you like
		
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			if there is a need to trim and make your beard look tidy in shadow does permitted for you to do
that, but shaving is not okay.
		
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			Then, you know, there are those who want to ask further questions as to what is the very least that
I can do to have? Am I allowed to have a shadow beard? Okay, and where is that? What is the
definition of the beard?
		
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			In that if I was to draw a line, what am I allowed to keep and what you know, or what am I allowed
to get rid of and things like that, which has its own discussion is maybe not the time to do that
now. But in general, a Muslim man grows his beard is forbidden to to shave it. If you need to trim
it, then it's permissible for you to do that.
		
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			Hola Hola. Zakat, aka chef, our next question is
		
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			please explain generally, how inheritance should be divided between families. And also if someone
has a step brother, or sister how should we share the wealth with them?
		
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			Okay, so inheritance, and the distribution of one's wealth after death is something that's taken out
of the hands of us. You and I don't have a say over that.
		
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			And this was there's a great Hekmat there's a great wisdom behind that. And that is so that an
attack can happen quite often and quite easily that one relative will oppress wrong, another
relative and think that they will get nothing from me even though they may be a son, or a daughter,
or brother or
		
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			system. Therefore, we find these rulings concerning the distribution of one's wealth in the Quran.
		
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			A very made very clear in Surah Nisa okay towards the beginning of Surah Nisa, the rulings of
inheritance and distribution of wealth is made very very clear. Now, who gets what? Well, because it
is an issue which depends on who is alive and who is who's related to that deceased is advisable to
go to a specialist. So that the situation can be explained to them given to them and they will work
out for you. Now, as for non blood relations, stepbrother or stepsister, then they're not direct,
they're not inheritors, that are inherited from the deceased.
		
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			But it is permissible
		
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			that the deceased can right I will see you and that is to bequeath
		
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			some of their wealth maybe to other relatives or for a charity project or something, and that can be
up to a no more than 1/3 of their wealth. Okay.
		
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			So this is in general how it works.
		
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			Thank you. Sure. We're gonna go to our next caller now. Salam aleikum to our brother or sister on
the line. Welcome to the show. What's your name and where are you calling from?
		
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			Caller Well,
		
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			my name is Tom Jade kudu and I'm calling from London. Masala therm Alikum. Tim, do you How are you
today?
		
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			Handy lamb okay. I'm Dylan. How old are you?
		
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			I'm nine years old. Martial law. Do you have your parents permission to be calling us?
		
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			Yes, martial law. And your question?
		
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			Is the question from my dad. Is it? Is it permissible to color the beard? Okay, masala. And do you
have any other questions?
		
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			No, no. Okay. So you can stay on the phone to listen to your answer, or you can watch on your TV.
Okay.
		
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			Okay. All right. Okay, so in general, it is allowed for the man to dye their beard a different
color. Whether it's with henna, or another dye, other than black black is not permitted. But if they
want to dye the beard if they have some
		
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			gray hairs and things or not to pull them out, but to diet
		
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			brown or a dark brown or whatever color they feel a suitable for the for their beard and it is
allowed even their hair as well. You can use henna, or some dye in your beard or your hair. That's
fine. Charlotte had no problem.
		
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			Thank you, Chef. Our next question
		
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			is going to be from WhatsApp and the question is
		
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			there's two questions. Is it part of the sooner to do blockier on someone? And number two, if you
want to fast on a Friday, do you have to add another day? So Thursday and Friday or Friday and
Saturday?
		
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			Okay. So performing rakia is something authentically established and found in the Sunnah of the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
		
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			And that is done by reciting using the Quran
		
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			and sound authentic narrations or do as from the Prophet sallallahu. I do some specifically. So this
is sound practice.
		
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			Now there's the first question.
		
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			The second question was second question was about if you fast Friday do you have to join those deals
okay with it.
		
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			So, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in the sun Hadith Bukhari Muslim that do not
isolate or single out yo mille Juma to too fast, except that if you do fast Friday,
		
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			then you fostered the before it with it. So Thursday and Friday, or you forced a day after it so
fast Friday and Saturday. Now, let's say for example, a person and that is because the person is
singling out Joomla for because of the Joomla. That's what you're not allowed to do. You shouldn't
do that. Should you single out too fast for Joomla because there's Joomla Okay, however,
		
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			if a person has days to make up from Ramadan, if a person is fasting one day on one day off, as an
easier example a day like the soma, the fasting of the elderly, SLM, the person wants fasts one day,
and then doesn't fast the other day. Ultimately, you will, you will find the day that you're going
to single out Joomla for that. Now you're not singling out Joomla because it's the Joomla but what
		
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			There happens to fall on the drummer. But the reason for the fast is another reason, okay? Because
you're forcing one day on one day off. So if you happen to fall on the drummer like this, it's not
must for you to foster Thursday and Friday with it, or the day after. Or let's say for example,
		
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			a person is making up some days from Ramadan, they have some obligatory fasts. And they happen to be
like, you know, Friday night, and this is you know, on a faster more, because the objective is to
make up that thought of, it wouldn't be allowed for them to foster Friday alone. It's not a must for
them to foster a day before after, obviously, the day before it's gone, but one after that is better
if you can differentiate between the two. What the professors have told us not to do
		
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			is and is disliked to do if a person even wants to do on a Friday, it's disliked you to do that,
meaning that the force would be valid. But you're not fasting today because of the day itself. But
rather than the verb or the objective behind is something else. So it's an obligatory fast you're
making up if it was a damn show world that you're fasting, especially now, then you could do that.
Okay. It's not a must have you too fast the day before, after, but to single out Friday, because of
the Friday is something that we should avoid.
		
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			Like last year, we have two callers on the line. So we're gonna go to our next caller As Salam
Alikum to our brother or sister on the line. What's your name? What's your question?
		
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			Salam Alikum Hello, can you hear me?
		
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			Hear me? I can hear you. Yep.
		
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			lie to
		
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			you, most of you and everyone in the studio at the moment of time. Thank you. So my question is, is
it permissible? Is it permissible to perform Salah with eyes closed?
		
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			All right. Do you have any more questions? Yeah, I got your question. Do you have any other
questions?
		
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			Okay, thank you so much, my brother. We're gonna go to our next caller just because of time and they
will answer both questions afterwards inshallah so As Salam aleikum, to our brother or sister on the
line, welcome to the show. What's your name? And what and where you calling from? Flowers? I'm
calling from London.
		
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			Welcome to the show, brother. How are you? I'm not too bad. How you handle Um, well, exactly like it
and your question. My question is, I've lost my wife lost the baby free with two days.
		
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			Premature
		
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			thinking. She wanted to Okay, she prayed after
		
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			40 days
		
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			between birth. And another question is
		
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			I've heard people say from assets McGreevy shouldn't be here moment that
		
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			you shouldn't be what? Sorry? No eating. Not eating. Okay. Yeah. So could I may ask about about
coffee? At what stage was the miscarriage how far into the pregnancy
		
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			she she came in Estonia. For three weeks. Free. Two days. She came premature. So she came into your
four months.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So your wife gave birth after four months and then the baby was awake alive for a few weeks and then
then she died.
		
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			Two days. They see she she born four months before? She bowled on the six month and the six month
okay.
		
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			Okay, I'll make
		
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			Yeah. Make it easy for you. i We have 30 seconds left of the show. Okay, well answer the question.
Lastly, Shana. Tell us about the nose.
		
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			So if the if your wife stops bleeding before 40 days, okay, she has hosel and then she starts
praying if he reaches 40 And she's still bleeding, then she performs a horsell at 40 days and she
starts praying Millis Panther make it easy for you and go on to children. Thank you Sure. We're
gonna have to finish their brothers and sisters in terms of the those who have asked questions we
haven't gotten to them. We'll be back tomorrow at the same time. We'll start with discussions and
inshallah for now as salaam alaikum.