Waleed Basyouni – You And The Summer

Waleed Basyouni
AI: Summary © The importance of traveling for the sake of exploring and learning about creations and the world is emphasized. Traveling for the sake of creating Allah is advised and small things like jewews and sstands are suggested. The importance of connecting with people in different countries and praying during travel to motivate and benefit is emphasized. The speaker advises parents to use the app and pray during their time in the country to help children connect with family members and to be mindful of others' words and actions to avoid becoming a victim of lies and mistake.
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Peace be upon our prophet Muhammad, sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam,

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last and final

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messenger.

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My dear brothers and sister,

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Summer is their last day of school or

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next week is their last day of school.

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You know, problems comes with the summers. A

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lot of test and and try you know?

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So for some people, that's what summer is.

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And,

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you know, an ironic sight situation.

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Our children from

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very early age

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that,

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that basically

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no value

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for you.

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That time is like gold. He said, No.

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Time is not like gold. Time is cannot

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regain it. You cannot gain that time if

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you lose it.

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And that's what caught through you.

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These people speaking of

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doing nothing or, you know, I'm done with

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the school. Just the moment you talk about

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something of value because it's summer is to

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waste the time and not to benefit from

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it. Time is ticking. Has

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1 168 hours.

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That are 31

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and 40000

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minutes saw the hours and the days and

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the week.

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Seconds and minutes.

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And every second,

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how we spend our days?

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Our days

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is how we spend our lives,

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isn't it? How you spend your days is

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how you spend your lives.

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I asked your kids. I was talking to

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my kids this morning. I said, what's your

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plan for the summer? First.

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What's the plan for the summer? What you

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planning to do time

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when lack of direction is the real problem

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they want to achieve.

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Speak to them about this

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you keep them motivated.

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Make sure during the summer when it comes

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to their, you know, goals in the summer.

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And teenagers or twenties, you can also motivate

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them if by how when kids get older,

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they cease things only for kids. But when

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they became teenager, 18, 17, 9, you'd care

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more about Quran, care more about Masjid, care

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more about being a part of the Kamid,

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these things more than the kids.

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So make sure that you always go,

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and basically they make sure that they making

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progress.

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Is in the month of June, one page

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of the Muslim

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I have, for example, to them and be

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give them basically

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all kind of motivation,

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smart goals.

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You know, you those on business understand s

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stand for small.

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Make sure something that they will it's memory,

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Something that will

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be nice that they leave in the summer.

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The r stand for the r stand for

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relaxing.

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Something that you know what? It takes a

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a stance in

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taking them to jannah.

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Anytime you put or it is by the

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action itself that lead them to jannah.

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And before I start anything

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about traveling,

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you know,

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traveling awesome times and, you know, just make

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sure that you come down.

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Militone something, like, you know, to calm you

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down,

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you know, or Benadryl,

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if that's what you know? And I'm guilty

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as as, you know, as as many others,

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but I have to keep it positive.

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So make sure that you make.

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Beautiful thing in this world

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is the world.

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The most sure when you travel for the

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sake of explore,

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You wanna see the creations of Allah

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You go. You know, the rivers remind them

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of the power and the beauty of connected

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with the creation of Allah

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We are so attached to machines.

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Nature which is made by Allah, you will

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be

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even if it's a short hike.

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You know,

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I get to meet

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but not to meet people. I meet myself.

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View your life

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and to reflect upon your life. And you

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discover

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traveling is basically

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bring your kids in traveling. You get to

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know a lot about your kids in travel.

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She's like

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10 years old, something like that. I said,

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Yeah. You're gone in one day.

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I said,

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it's one day days.

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She said, Not my days, my your older

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sister days. You know how much $50 will

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lock on inflation?

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I was like 10 years old telling me

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inflation.

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God. To know something about your children,

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Another thing about traveling that I wanna make

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sure that we take full connect to those

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who connected to their family. And when you're

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connected to

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to in another country, you talk to your

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kids about the good intention that we go

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days just specifically to do that, do it.

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Also,

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one of them I might give a special

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hope about traveling.

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But just quickly, one of the common mistakes

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that I see when people in Fajr sometimes

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when we land

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in somewhere in Europe, or they pray Fajr

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al Buhr al Ay according

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to the time of Houston. You're according to

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the time pray If

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it's time in the time you travel and

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by the way, today there is

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so you can download one of these apps,

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and you will be able to,

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that basically, if it's I'll teach you something,

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make things a lot easier. So the is

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from

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the up from the east, north to the

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to the southeast.

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You don't have to be exactly if you

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can't in the in the

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airplane. That will be sufficient.

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That's the west.

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So you and you pray. And you pray

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in the airplane while you're sitting, and you

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pray the dhuh also

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to their food. You go to Japan, you're

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into Korea,

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you're South Korea, that's not halal.

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Okay? So in this case, you don't know

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where you are. Also, in some countries

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some countries,

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you know, in some you can reach to

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the atheist level into 70%.

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And I think he not even the majority

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Christians, the majority are, Christian Urdu,

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you know, I guess who you are allowed

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to eat from their food, you are allowed

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to eat the meat and the chicken and

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that to travel.

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I love you to you for to take

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your kids

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May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, in your zukaanahu

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wa yaku ilmenafiya.

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In the summer, it is important to be

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connected to the mastud, especially to the prayer.

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Nabi

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said,

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If you give your kid a car because

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he start driving, pray in the masjid more

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often. I didn't give you the car so

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you can go to just go go buy

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grocery.

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1 of the most and to pray there,

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Isha,

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and to pray there, Maghrib,

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and to pray fajr, and to pray.

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Also,

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make sure that you are fiddles for the

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adults themselves.

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You know, there is courses, there's programs, there's

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if the kids say, oh, about about summer,

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it's break. That's break. It's not only lecturing.

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There's a lot of fun. You need to

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as your time goes on, you have to

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grow which you don't expose your.

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Make sure you understand that men and

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women

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And also it is haram to touch the

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aura of someone else

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or to expose

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Maybe you can tell your kids that.

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Reading a lot of movies, you'll not be

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considered well reviewed or well viewed

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to play games. I said to my son,

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Dixar, I was telling him, man, I have

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a lot of lies in my game.

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You know, unfortunately,

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if you in your games, you have a

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lot

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You know, I'm not saying don't

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be involved,

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not how to do social.

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You know?

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I I yeah. It's when you talk to

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your kid,

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everything under the control.

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You know.

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I I'm it's okay, but excessive notes, not

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good,

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you know, and something beneficial.

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So you you need

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I've been too much on

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behind your back,

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we have a dream that one day,

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my mom and my dad will understand that

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all

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would this been said,

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not playing,

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praying.

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Compare this to playing game.

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Priority.

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Bugs and and and drinking issues and and

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data, but just make sure

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that, you know, that

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after judgement, when you meet Allah, to have

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less number of sins in your record in

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the day of judgment. Children to maximize our

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benefit in this summer, and to help us,

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and to fill our homes with righteousness, with

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goodness.

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