Channel: Waleed Basyouni
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said his companion to him and he was conversing with him, Do you deny Him Who created you from dust then from a drop, then he made you a perfect man.
As for me, I believe that Allah is my Lord and I do not associate anyone with my Lord.
Why would you enter your garden? Did you not say everything is as a low wills, there is no power acceptable law.
If you see me inferior to you and wealth and children, then it is likely that my Lord will give me what is better than your garden, and we'll send it to a punishment from the heavens and it will become a barren land
or its waters will sink deep in the earth so that you'll never be able to search it out. And its produce was overwhelmed by calamities and he stood wringing his hands in anguish over what he had invested in it. While it was falling down on its Chelsea's, and he was saying, I wish I had not ascribed any partner to my Lord. There were no supporters for him, for him beside Allah who could come to his help, nor was he able to defend himself.
That is where the power of protection rests to a law, the true God, he's the best and rewarding and best in recording. Give them the example of the worldly life is like water we sent down from the sky, then the vegetation of the Earth was mingled with it. And then it turned into a chef that is blown by the winds and Allah is powerful over everything.
wealth and children are the embellishment of the worldly life and the everlasting virtues are better with your Lord both in rewards and creating good hopes.
Epsilon hamdulillah salat wa salam ala rasulillah while he was so happy, human, whatever
here, the other half of the conversation between the believer and the disbelief. And we talked last week about who they are and the different opinions about who are these two individuals? Exactly. I know you said that what I never told us men whom And who are they nullified. There is no benefit from knowing their names or which country from the point is to learn that what happened between them. So the believer now telling to the disbeliever, who was so arrogant, who was so
blinded by his wealth, power, children, servants, power status osuna follow all these. This word nefer it means children family status, you know, Dr. Amin Kamara, I have more money than you have better position in the society than you. So it was so arrogant to the extent that he said, I don't think the day of judgment is coming. And if it comes, I will have even better in the Day of Judgment.
So the believer here telling him Did you disbelieve in the one who have created you?
Basically, from nothing out of dust, He created you out of dust and we talked last week, how this is very good example because when he reminded him that dust which is worth nothing, so you whole thing worth nothing. Don't be arrogant. Don't be showing off. Don't let your money tempt you because you started from nothing. And so is you can go back to it also, if you think that has no direction, because people die and turn to dust. Allah brought you from dust. Can we have a modern insanity the motto
if the person mixed with the sand and the ground hollows, nobody can resurrect almost what I created from the same thing, from this land from the earth. We know that Allah created Adam, Allah subhana wa Tada. He took for a handful of dust or clay from the four core from four corners of the earth. Okay, north, south, east west, mix them together and from that mud, Allah subhanaw taala created Adam from that month that was taken from every basically present every site in the earth, Adam was created and fashion his body anyway so last month reminding him here this man of the weary come where you came from. And also not only that, that's the far beginning. But closer than that, that
you came also from filming not fat into muscle waka Raja that then out of notify mixed drops of male and female sexual discharge. So he made you out of this to take that arrogant away remember where you started from something lowly sperm as my daughter of one set it and fashion Do you into a man? So I lost my daughter who is the one who made you as a man so you should not deny him subhanho wa tada
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Kelly met a quote I say that who Allah hora be what should you be? He is my Lord and I don't commit your identity to other Obama. Apparently I need this person who have nothing who have very little but still moment still a believer.
I also asked myself this question who has who more who you think more should be grateful and thankful to Allah?
The one who is so poor or the one who search
you would assume that the one who has so much you will think he will be more grateful to Allah more closer to Allah. That's it expect? Unfortunately, sometimes people became arrogant and they don't see that you don't see it that way. So he said as for me, Allah is my Lord and He will not associate
other with a loss of Hannah who Adana a nun show I associate as a partner with my Lord. What are your hobbies?
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not sure I can be. And that shows that any form of shirt, it will never happen for me. That's a very general statement, had the act of the heart attack de la ishara can be had choreographic khadem ii assylum and co removed. So here he denied any form of shirk. Law OSHA Rico, B la OSHA could be a had, I had Ava Nikita to feed her mom, anyone. So that means this statement of the man shows you two things to think to learn. Number one, there is multiple form of shirk. And I will never commit any one of them. Huneck Anwar, I'm going to shift Leia Carmen hashy minima. So I will not have shirk and alasa Ruby, being the creator of being this, I will not have shirt when it comes to shirk admin
Exactly. Sure. The word shirt means to associate other than law, a shirt who couldn't hire a law, the law to associate other than a law with a law can kathira minute element B pay attention to this. A lot of scholars, when they write about check, the Miss, understand the concept we should completely the think of shirk, who attests, we're
the thing, a shirt is to make someone similar to Allah. And that's absolutely not correct. not correct, linguistically, nor islamically.
a shirt never meant that you make someone similar or not to the same level. No, just associating something with a law in one of Allah special qualities that shirk even if you don't believe they are equal.
That's why when an OB saw Salama asked one of them shrieking how many gods you have? He said Seven, six and earth and the earth and one in the heavens. He said, Who's the one that you rely on the master you believe in the most he said the one in the heavens
so he never actually believed that those one equal to the to a lot but he's still missionary. You know, if you ask a Buddha, Buddha have all these guys, all those we should have came during the time. McKenna had minimum Aberdeen etiquette none of them ever believe that Allah is equal to the gods and their deities and their statues never.
They used to make and had their tail via the said that Baker law firm and a bake and a baker law Sheree. Kanaka Illa Sheree can rock Merrick Tahoma Monique. They used to say we don't associate partner with you, except a partner who you own and he doesn't own you. You own a lot this partner and you control him and that person don't control you. So they know for 100% sure that alcohol is higher level than anyone else. Anyway. So here when he said no form of sugar in any in any areas, and no sugar which is minor or major. What are Shrek? b or b I had with my lord anyone that one could be an angel could be a prophet, could be a rock could be any form. Anything that people will
take with Allah subhanho wa jhana
Then he told him well I will if the halter genetic it was better for you to say when you enter your garden, Masha Allah, yes.
The word Masha Allah, the tea and Allah
my lord is none sorry that you should say that which
that Allah subhana wa tada that which Allah wells will come to pass. Masha Allah, Masha, Allah hirakud or Manoj Misha nyaka he's saying the word Masha Allah means that you admitting that whatever Allah wells will pass What happened? And whatever he never wells will never happen.
And this is part of our belief in Al Qaeda,
that you always know that everything happened in the world. It is because Allah allowed it to happen. And if nothing happened in the world, it didn't have it because I'll never allow that to happen. I have a question for you. Why this man choose this fact, to explain it to the disbelieve.
Why he told him about martial law? Why he didn't say anything about why he choose martial law?
Why he didn't say tequila, Fear Allah whatever. Why did he say Masha Allah?
Whatever Allah wells will pass well then rose Yes.
Yes Allah. So what you have what you possess, it is because Allah allowed it to happen. And if a lot didn't allow that to happen, you wouldn't have it. And that shows, Kenny met Masha Allah, Timothy McLaughlin Audra honey lab that you don't possess an absolute power over things
that you as a human being, whatever you will, it doesn't happen doesn't necessarily have to happen. Why the American decal on the car, you don't have the power to say anything I will it will happen you don't have the power.
Right? If I say I have the world, I have the world to a world to lose weight
didn't happen you can see that. Okay, I had the well but is struggling. I had the wall I have the well to walk tomorrow. I didn't didn't happen. I have the work to do this. Not to do that but still happen. So what I'm saying here, you don't have absent in order for you everything you will happen. You have to have what an ultimate power, absolute power, which is something you don't possess a love possess that that's why whenever he wills he allowed it to happen. So here he reminding this man to get into his knees and to remember Allah Subhana Allah spavor upon him.
Masha Allah, La quwata illa Billah yes Allah and he said there is no power but with Allah subhana wa Tada. So if Allah Subhana Allah give you power, it is part of his power, the power to make money the power to make decision the power to
to achieve success, the power to even the power to help all this it is because almost wanted to enable you to do otherwise. Allah subhanaw taala if he didn't lot It will not happen. Who now must Allah for those who benefit from it? I had a similar Gemma, they believe and nimesh utter Rob that Allah could be called limo dude wakulla madam, what a socket Kula moto. We know that Allah as well is related to everything that is exists and none exist. A lot of people think
that Allah will only has to do with the thing that exists, even things does not exist. It is because Allah never welded that's why it's not exist. They when Allah Subhana Allah to Allah will something or didn't well something in Namibia shot with
Hekmati his will, it is following his wisdom and his wisdom is based on his ultimate absolute knowledge. perfect knowledge, Heckman.
I know what are
so some scholar said that whenever you see something you like, and you love so much, you should say like what this man told the cafr to say. Whenever you see something you'd like so much you Say what? Masha Allah houda illa Billah other Emma said no, you should say tabarrok Allah. Why because it nebby sallallahu Sallam told the man when he saw something he liked it so much. And unfortunately he gives that person an evil eye and he fought for SOHCAHTOA but he fall on the ground
in the vsas almost angry when this man said wow, this is like like he gave him like he looked at him and he was like surprised by how fair color his skin anyway. Then in episode when you see something like that the shades of j Tabata Kala tabouleh I was watching a video earlier last week, okay, have a beautiful horse and horseman coming. And this guy, it's in a wedding. And they were like he's showing off the groom coming on a horse. Okay, and the guy sitting next to the one we're taking the picture. Then he said like, Whoa, you know what a horse. Immediately the horse collapse and the guy fall off. The horse broke his legs just immediately out of the villa. Some people are like
unbelievable. They're their eyes is just evil. Yeah.
Money comes out anyway. So in the interviews have told us, man holla but what you should say Tabata cola. You should say Tabata cola. And
is there a contradiction? No, you can say both you can say to botica lies in Masha Allah, La quwata illa Billah. And so he said in Tony Anna, aka lemon commando another, yes or no? He said,
If you see, okay, it may be that
he said it was.
It may, it may be that my Lord will give me something better than your gardens, and we'll send a span now.
Then he said, if you see me less than you, and wealth and children, okay, it may be that my Lord will give me something better than your garden and you're
basically sons and children in Tawny Anna upon lemming, kanalen weleda. Now he covered the issue of heat and the Shere Khan denying the Day of Judgment. And now he talked about the personal thing. And this is very interesting point. If you notice, he didn't start with the personal thing. So nobody think that this conversation is personal, about me having less, no, having less children or less.
Just, it's okay. He's old.
Just in a nice way, just tell him.
So he starts with the issue of to heat up the last panel or the last rites, about to heat the no shirt. Then now he talked about his him personally. He said, If you think and you have more much more children and more wealth than maybe our last panel data, will give me better than this for us or be at any higher among genetic. He said, so Allah might give me better than your garden, and your children. Question for you guys.
Mail. Maybe Allah would give me a better than your garden and your wealth and you
here referring to it?
And he gives me more better than your garden? In the dunya? Or on the alpha?
Both Yes or no? Excellent. That's what we're looking for. Both.
this here, something to learn. It's not wrong, that you wish, in the dunya that you have gardens and wealth and money and it's not something wrong. There's nothing wrong to wish to have. You know what I wish to have ranch I wish to have a villa I wish to have the best cars I wish to have, you know, a lot of wealth. This not fun at all. He said fastball up, but you didn't hire me genetic. Maybe Allah will give me better than what you have. So there is nothing wrong with you to wish something from this dunya. And also in the US. Wow.
This is an early America mom, a lot of scholars and Tafseer talked about did he made a deal? Or he just made a wish. I don't see the big deal here. Because at the end of the day, even if it's a wish, it's a wish a form of request. Yeah and wish in a form of so it could be both who Elijah and who do out one or the other and Noma motivated him in
any motor party back.
Then he said after that,
well, you will see that he has been a menace amount to be house or heathens and
it's very strange what he said after that. So he won better than his garden. But he said something very strange, he said and we'll send on it his ban tournament.
punishment of fire destroy, you destroy your gardens from the sky. Then it will be as a barn slippery error burns slippery air. That's very isn't that somebody said? Isn't that very evil?
Maybe somebody said that. And he wish it is it. May Allah give me a better than your your house. mela destroy your house.
Even some people might say, isn't that envy? Because what's the definition of envy, your division really to have what other people have from what you don't have and you wish that they end up not having what
Do you have
that nVs? To wish that to have what other people have? and mail? Yeah, and distribute them from it. So he wants him to be stripped from this garden from all this world, and he will have it and better. And here and remember him Allah said, No, this man when he said, and send a punishment to your garden from the heavens, and had a whiff.
He was warning him, not making against.
He like as he made a wish for himself. He was making a warning for that, man, be careful that things can change. Those who was rich can be poor. And also for can be rich. Maybe I will be rich tomorrow, and maybe you will be destroyed tomorrow. Maybe you will be poor tomorrow. It's like when I say, Hey, we are in America. We have to be careful. If we don't pay attention, we might ended up like what's happening in Europe is not making dry again. It's my my place. Oh my god. No, I'm just warning that Be careful not this to happen to you. So he said a
ban Amina sama. And his ban had been a bath said Allah that term. That's why he translated this way, a punishment something that will destroy. And not only that Hispanic, anybody had minimum income? Yet if also kilometers span?
Can you think of the root of the word Hispanic?
There is another word familiar to the word Hispanic, yes.
But what has he been? What's the word happy SAP hazard calculating?
hazard hisab sub calculation. Okay, so what's the connection between either tournament and calculation?
Why, why, why these two words, even though the meaning are completely different, comes from the same route.
Isn't that interesting? They have carried two different meaning, but they come from the same exact route
the punishment of Allah is well calculated isn't is not is not a punishment that any just like that, no, it is well calculated. And the word has been here it means that Allah Subhana Allah He will bring a punishment to your place and to your garden wall calculated wall plan. That's why an out of the say in who yummy businessman
when you have the error, and you put it in the cabinet posts and bow and you stretch and you aim carefully, then you let it go the COVID his ban, because you calculated very well. So the word Hispanic it means some of the setup said it is rocks, cold fire, but tournament is something very general actually cover all these examples that have been mentioned by some of the Sahaba and the Tabby in undiscovered. But it is well calculated and that give fear in the heart. Any Be careful that our last panel Diana ki calculate he will calculate exactly. And he will exactly give you what you deserve.
from the sky. Why is it from the sky?
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yellow Garside today why he said from the sky You think?
Why he didn't say he will send punishment to you from the earth or without? from the sky? What? What gives you?
coming from Allah LMS said when he referred to Sky to tell him it is coming from Allah subhanho wa Taala
also, it is known that this is the one that you disbelieved in him. He's the one who's gonna send you that send down the the punishment in you and usually what comes from the sky. You cannot push it back
Yeah oh man is that
what comes from the heavens cannot be light you cannot fight
Okay, just think about that.
Think about everything comes from the sky can you protect yourself from
it just rain a train you can't stop the rain. Hey, hold on let me pull it back
is you can build dorms and stuff like stop the sea. You can stop the rain
you can't stop the thunder. Whatever comes from the sky, you can't stop. huge big. Can't stop the wind blowing you you can stop that.
As paralyze it's amazing how it just put that fear in the heart for to speak outside. He then xalapa He said it's interesting. Let me see if he how he translated those. Then he said
it from the sky. It will be as Varun slippery Earth.
Here he didn't put the word he said for to speak.
Yeah, and you will find it in the morning. A burned land slippery.
Why he said in the morning.
Why he put that word in the middle. For two speakers laden xalapa way they say it will be entertaining. Yes.
The question is a lesson in the Quran fatos Bahasa Aden xalapa Yanni in the morning you found your land, like burned and slippery nothing in it after all this gardens and rivers and why did he say in the morning?
what's the what's the point for mentioning the time of finding out about that punishment? Uh huh.
It is more scary. When you hear the bad news when we first wake up
even it's a cultural thing I don't know about other culture but like where I grew up yassa
you know it's almost like in the morning after fudger I always girls like to some brothers who said hey after budget by the way of fundraising for America so we just started the day was fundraising you know it just people usually in the morning not in the mood to get all the bad news that's why it's very bad idea to
that exactly example
sorry. Okay. That's how they feel about it. I don't feel okay.
So anyway, you tell people about bad news in the morning it's scary you just wake up and the bad news so here then our coffee masiva photos fotospeed house laden Yanni in the morning you you go to sleep feeling so comfortable you control everything your garden is perfect. And you got sleep you wake up everything destroyed.
You go to sleep healthy you could sleep your kids safe you wake up everybody dead. Everybody's sick. What happened just last night everything and he was telling him that it is just a matter of you wake up and that's it and everything young
it's very powerful way of saying it. We used to be him and
then he said all the water therefore of the garden becomes deep sink. Underground.
What's the point he tried to make? Because of there's no water no life? No garden will use the hammer will hora alone It is something you cannot reach with hand nor with de la labral ad well I know you can dig it
and make a well you can.
So it goes in the sink on sucked by the earth you can reach it at all. It's impossible to reach. I used to be Hannah hukum hola familia de Lima in May. Allah says in the Quran. If your water goes on the earth, no one can bring it back to you. It's amazing how he reminding him of different scenarios can happen to your garden that it will lead lead to the destruction of your garden.
Hear the dialogue stop.
What he told me to marry
him Oli said what she thought that is how to fear God Wow.
And he had no
he didn't say and he said so his fruit were basically
his fruit were destroyed. What he loved the family, it really matter him Allah said magic before he fell he would you chose you that between the conversation between the conversation and the punishment was a period of time.
You know if he said, Oh, hey Tommy Tabitha Marie fat, it means immediately the punishment came. But what it means later on, and later on that what happened to him? Why is Allah give him even more chance after the reminder to see what you will do to see if he's gonna change? Okay? Also, so you don't link the two together, that the destruction of his garden was the result of the drought of the believers. And that is that
it is because of the disbelief of the person. Pay attention to this, I said one more time. So you will not think that a lot of destroying the Garden of the disbeliever because of the wish of the drought of the believer, no, a lot destroying it, because of the disbeliever disbelieved in a lot because of this disbeliever arrogant because of his added, because of that Allah Subhana data destroyed him what he comes, the word a hapa it comes from all surrounding. So basically Allah subhana wa tada Allah said,
he possessed, destroyed, and he mentioned the fruit as an example.
You follow? And some said no, it means all the fruits were destroyed. Even the fruits that can survive the harshest
climate like date also destroyed.
Isn't it? However, imobie manically with thermal juice, European cooled out of a thermal cooling. So here another model him omalo data set this to opinion said that last one destroyed everything he has. Guys, if I say Allah destroy everything he has, or Allah destroyed the fruits of his garden, what's the difference?
What's the difference between the two statements Say that again? Because might say
different sounds the same, they are completely different.
Allah destroyed his fruits,
the fruit and the vegetables
that he has in his garden or you say a lot destroyed his garden.
So saying destroying the garden, that means that the the, the fruit, the the trees, you know, the water, the soil is everything destroyed.
But the fruit it means he still have the garden, he still have the trees, but only thing destroyed was what?
The fruits so he can reproduce again later on. These two opinions between the scholars. There is everyone has a point to be honest with you. But what it looks to me to allow Adam is that wood was destroyed only the fruits not the garden itself.
And that's out of Allah's mercy to give him a chance to come back and to repent to Allah Spano Tata go ahead
as I said so those who said his fruits only destroyed a Lost Planet Allah give him another chance it's out of a loss Montana's mercy and you can see this work because next what the last panel data set
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He said when he saw his garden destroyed, I wish I did not associate other with a lot. So that means the man realized that he was wrong. So that second chance worked with him. Other LMS said no Allah destroyed everything he has. And actually when he so all this destructions when he said I wish that I did not associate with a law. He said that he said that in hellfire. Yeah and a lot telling us in the Koran what this man will say in the hellfire. He actually continued in his cover until he died and he said that in the Hellfire I wish I could not I did not associate with him question
those who said he said that in the Hellfire
What have you got that from any mean Angel of a car? The nl can mpj and
there is nothing in the vs. talks about him dying and going to Hellfire then he says in the Hellfire I wish I didn't see
why there is someone interpreted this way.
Nobody helped him that but this is the second verse. This is odd came after? Yeah, he said nobody helped me nobody had offered him help or protection to protect his garden from a loss punishment. But why did the say the tea will say that in hellfire. The key point is cold. Yeah, Lee Tawny
and Kelly met later had offered him dinner and an emptiness.
And he because he it means he never ever came back to the dough sheet.
But to be honest with you that understanding it's not a very strong because it antenna antenna and international family and he he did not believe in Allah subhanaw taala when he was reminded and he was sorry for that. That's why I believe the strongest opinion that this is in the dunia he said that and he basically do like this openly because he basically had his hand like that. And this is a showing a sense of what
loss is this in every culture
like this, when you do like that, how about let's say in DC culture?
Is that only to like us all? How about in Trinidad
now like when you lose everything
that's all destroyed man. Do you do that? Now, how about African
Okay, how about India?
Ah, what are you doing
Like this Like Yeah, okay, good.
America Hispanic anybody
and American culture is that Oh my God, that's all gone doo doo dee doo.
This is okay.
Anyway, that's an expression that Ron mentioned, it's very common in Arabic culture that they do the hit their hands like this when when they feel so sorry and regret what they have done and the last pilot data set and he had no group of men, these children, his followers to help him against a law nor could be defend or saved himself with all the wealth that he has with all the power that he claimed. At that point. That point. Basically, you remember that Allah Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Allah even react? Lv Leia, who not only can we lie to the law, and it's like the word Wakata we can build fertile castle. Okay, who nalley kallu Allah to de la Hey, I'll help there is
another camera and helpful so I'll help as a description to Ahluwalia. Okay, or I'll help description to Allah. That's why once MK surah and once more for anyway and the basically the victory the support because what's Eli me Willie, it means supporter, it means one defend the one who give eight so that this only from Allah subhana wa tada to those who deserve it and who are how you don't tell up and what how you run.
Yanni Allah subhana wa Tada. Basically, when
he gives, when he support when he word that is nothing similar to his reward or support Hannah who was
then a Lost Planet, Allah said after that, and put forward for them examples of life and we will talk about this. But let's drive some lessons from the story of these two men. Number one,
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being grateful and thankful to Allah smart Allah one of the reason for your blessings to continue
anytime the Korea carrot amateur movement in the idea disco Raja it's an it's a village that live in safety, peace, tranquility, it wasn't in the Quran. The provision comes to it from every corner for kafala omiya for either Kahala holy basil hope you will do the disbelieved in a lot anila destroyed them.
And by the way, I don't want to say this on on record, but there is no nation and there is no one Allah subhana wa tada will destroy and we'll make them suffer like this, unless they have shown a certain level of being ungrateful
because why do I say this America because some people can connect two together and became
any misunderstand the point?
Well, if the other Bukola in Jakarta as Eden accom what an Inca photo in Adobe, Lucha de if you disbelieve in me after what I gave you, my punishment is severe. And being grateful to Allah appear in three ways in your heart, you inside your heart, you grateful to Allah, you always enter your heart, you know what might be coming at him from in Allah, every blessing that you have is from Allah. With your tongue, you always say hamdulillah hamdulillah hamdulillah. Before you say I study hard, he said hamdulillah I got a mic on my exam. Before you say you know, I succeed I did handle it. That amount of loss of data comes first before anything anyone else. Also through your action.
How can be grateful to Allah and your action shows absolutely the opposite. You never donate anything for the sake of Allah. You never help people. You never show any humility you don't show any form of gratitude to Allah subhanho wa Taala. Another lessons dialog is a manager abahani it's something I'll call and teaches us that we should have an open dialogue with people who disagree with like the dialogue took place between the movement and the capital.
And it should be according to what Allah said in the intro, Elizabeth
bakeable hickmott you all know about the Asana, what Gianni loom bility is, and when you argue with someone make the best of the speech. So the best of point, the most logical one, the most effective one the most, you know, the touchy one the best language and so forth. And even unfortunately, today, we don't talk, we find
any look at the Muslim world today. 28 civil wars in the Muslim world. Almost, in almost every corner, every region in the Muslim world, there is a war.
Look at the Muslim community in general, they don't know how to dialogue. They don't know how to speak to each other. They don't have they don't know how to argue to argue their point to disagree with each other. They fight with one another.
Look at parents look at family look at spouses, we need to learn how to dialogue, how to have a civil dialogue, a civil conversation, and back and forth, talk to each others not at each other. Number three, dialogue, give you an opportunity to think, to re evaluate dialogue, bring us closer to each other. Because so many times we have all these misconceptions about each other. But when we start dealing with each other, talking to each other, this misconception goes away. Many times with many out of many groups with many activists with many religious groups or or political groups. When we start the dialogue, things melt down, we feel that there is basically not that big of distance
between us and many others that we at one point considered them the most enemies of us. Also,
whenever we have a dialogue, we should have a noble goal. Anytime we start a dialogue with the community, we have to know what's the what's the purpose of the dialogue? What's the head f? What's the goal that we want to achieve? The dialogue must be clear and clear goals and with clear language. And if you notice this dialogue between the believer and disbeliever, it was very clear. And sometimes he's very soft, very firm, you know, and dialogue, it doesn't mean to give up the truth, dialogue, it doesn't mean you compromise your principles. Dialogue doesn't mean that you change what you believe in. That's not what dialogue for also, one of the lessons that we learn that
an argument toward the outcome was for them.
And the story is very clear about that. Not for those who have money, not for those who have followers, not for those who have status, not for those who are famous, know what the real victory comes in the end for those who depend on Allah subhanho wa Taala. One of the lessons there is no harm to wish
something from the worldly life like what he wished the gardener there is nothing wrong with that. By the way, he never wished
that that men's garden to be destroyed. The bigger I didn't mention that. It's not hazards, not envy. He didn't envy them. And the proof for that, that in the beginning of the conversation he told him go to your garden say Masha Allah otter illa Billah his stilling him and teaching him what will protect his garden and we'll make it continue
producing with any fruit, which is being a believer, so he never wished for him to lose his garden. But he was warning them from the punishment of Hamas matar also
that the one of the biggest thing in the story, it tells us about two fitna two trials, which is fitness will man or fitness will balloon, the fitness of wealth and the fitness of children. Allah Subhana Allah said later on in the surah Allah man will ban Luna Xena to hire the dounia Wolbachia to Sony has to
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home Houma, Xena well, Isa Kima and inside your wealth, and your children are something Allah bless you to beautify you something beautiful to have, but that what not that's not what identify who you are.
A few kids are the best kids in the world doesn't make you the best person.
For your kids, the worst person in the world that doesn't make you bad.
If you're if you have the whole entire wealth of the world doesn't make a good person, if you're poor doesn't make a bad person, because this nut payment that's not who you are, who you are determined by your actions
determined by what do you do with your kids? What do you do with your wealth for the last panel data have given you
and if this is the case, that should how we look at children, we look at family status, we look at lineage, we should look at wealth. In this way, we see it as a tool that leads us to good deeds lead us to come closer to Allah subhanaw taala and a lot older than the one that I'm wanting to come while I would love to come bility to caribou come and then I don't think your children your wealth will bring you closer to Allah subhana wa tada in Lamin M and our formula except those who believe in Allah and do good deeds.
So your children, if you see them an opportunity to invest in them, that in a way bring you closer to Allah that's fine, like what it may be so solemn said when you die, your deeds stop except from three, one of it a righteous son.
Then he said, Allah Subhana Allah also warn us from this fitna, because at some time sometimes these fit these the children and the wealth can be the reason for us a Salafi
to neglect our Deen
so many times, these two specifically children and
wealth can be the reason for so many wrong thing we do in life. People will take the money why my children?
people stop giving sadaqa why college education
people stop doing his wife is bad. Is that the Billa all for the sake of children. Her husband is terrible.
But for the sake of children
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these duration from a setup and there is a plenty of them saying that children can the reason for destroying your good deeds
and all the good deeds that you have, you basically wasted it because became and there is an example in the province of Southern time when people did not migrate to Medina just because you want to stay with the children.
So sometimes we make a lot of decision for children, for family for spouses, which is wrong decision hurt us in the Day of Judgment, just because my spouse one that just because I want to please my children, you know, my daughter come cry to me, oh, I want to travel with Norma hamaji want this and she want that. And you just because of your weakness, you said go and you believe it's hot on and you take the sin of it. You know she said I want to go to school and you know Tom for you to do that, that this kind of loans or take this money, but you do just because of the kids
and you do that. So here the point it's a very interesting concept, that maybe other time we can focus on it even more.
One of the reasons for people to fail in this fitna not to pass this test the money, especially when this fitna settle in your heart ties after dinner, when the love of money is inside your heart. The money is not in your hand the money inside your heart.
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the right time will come and the person doesn't care. This money comes from halal or haram I don't care.
One of the reasons for people to fail in this fitna when the wealth and the children the family because something that you want to show off what
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Also, one of the things that protect you in this fitna the test of wealth and children that you have an absolute tawheed Lila zodion absolutely absolute love for our last panel.
That nothing above our last panel what odd in your heart in your mind. Also one of the thing, the lessons Always remember, Allah has power over you.
One of the lessons from this story as the moment told the disbeliever he said, Masha, Allah, Allah, Allah, always remember this. Every time you're in a situation where things not great remember that a lot above you and he is stronger than you
one of the lesson from this story that you should repent to Allah
even if the punishment falls upon you.
Where do we get this from?
Because the man when a lot destroyed his guard them, he still repented to Allah. Okay, so even if the punishment happened, you don't say hello, now, you repent to Allah subhanaw taala as long as you're alive, your repentance count. Also one of the lessons from this story to take a good friend who remind you who will advise you who will pull you back? He will give you the true advice a Sadiq man sadhak Lamin sadhak true friends are the one who tells you the truth
not to tell you what you want to hear.
one of the thing that we learned from this last story at the suddenly be man in the law and Shahada dounia that when he said Allah will give me better than your garden any sometimes when you see you know what this guy Mashallah have all this blessings and cars and and why and you know, I'm Marcy for example what did Mashallah Ahmad is hobby in a family as a wife and he said I'm single man I feel bad but we tell him you know be patient and shout Lakota lane in front of you you know so he
you know it's something help you to stay a stay of course. Okay.
Okay Bahama. So we tell the person that you know what you look at the agenda what it does it make you deal with this fit know that also from the lessons from this story you're allowed to make against the transgressor
that's why one of the thing that Elena said the teammate has tended to love destroy one of the opinion and so that also shows that it's possible but I want to tell you something, making against someone again someone is not the best option.
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because the concept of Dora originally Allah made it for you to invoke good to happen. Not bad to have any originally advice about Europe let good things happen. Not terribly bad things.
But you're allowed somebody transgressor you can make the organism shake on a ship and basil Rahim Allah every time somebody tell him about these rollers or transgressors, people doing bad, he has a very famous say he said, a llama did Oh, but did
Dr. Rob fix him or replace him? So very beautifully always pray for the person first. Then after that, may Allah remove him. Also,
I want you to pay attention to this. The disbeliever said in the Day of Judgment, I will have better
and the believer said I wish that Allah will give me better in the Day of Judgment. Did you notice? Both have hoped in the Day of Judgment, but once is false, and when is true? How did we recognize false hope from truehope
Raja own? Well here what we call it? How did we How did we tell the difference? Based on the actions in the dunya
the believers has hope did not stop them from believing the disbeliever his hope did not stop him from disbelieving in Allah. That clear, okay. Also arrogance lead to hypocrisy, lead to
arrogance. Make people rejected truth, insist and rejecting the truth falling away from the sun and arrogant as
distractions in itself. Unfortunately, I could not go over that next verse which is about the water I told you to do your anybody have looked the water? Just I'm curious to know.
Okay, you have one more week. Good job. Look at what's the what's the point? Or how our last motto and he said the example of this life like water, what's the relationship between water and dunia? Why the example of water was given to represent dunia? I said I have about like, many points. At least think about at least think about five