Waleed Basyouni – Misunderstood- 4 Common Issues & Hadith Regarding Women

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			Today's session, so if you are curious, thank
		
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			you.
		
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			I see someone has dropped already into the
		
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			chat the link to the registration for this
		
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			class.
		
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			It's at amaghrib.online. So please do make
		
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			sure that you take time to register for
		
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			the class.
		
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			I cannot stress for you enough as a
		
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			woman or as a human, as a Muslim
		
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			active within the community, you need to be
		
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			able to have this knowledge and you need
		
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			to have this clarity on the important topics
		
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			that we cover in this seminar.
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Now I just want to confirm for those
		
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			who are coming in on YouTube and Facebook,
		
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			hopefully you guys are now able to see
		
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			us.
		
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			Let us know in the chat.
		
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			I'll check in with you guys as we
		
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			kick off the session.
		
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			But without further ado, I know Sheikh Waleed
		
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			is with us now.
		
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			So I want us to jump into the
		
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			session.
		
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			And yes, it's being recorded, all that fun
		
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			stuff.
		
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			Anyway, just to go questions, drop them into
		
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			the chat.
		
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			We will, we'll answer them as they come
		
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			along.
		
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			Without further ado, welcome Sheikh Waleed Basiyouni.
		
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			Assalamualaikum warahmatullah.
		
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			How are you doing today?
		
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			Oh, hold on Sheikh Waleed, I didn't give
		
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			you access to unmute yourself.
		
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			There you go.
		
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			Second time's a charm.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.
		
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			Welcome you all.
		
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			Thank you for your kind words.
		
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			And I would like to welcome everyone in
		
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			this webinar today or session, the online session
		
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			tonight.
		
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			And may Allah subhana wa ta'ala guide
		
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			us to say what is right and to
		
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			make us among those who hear the speech
		
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			and follow the best of it and forgive
		
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			whatever wrong or mistakes that we might say.
		
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			There's no doubt this is one of the
		
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			important course I believe that I am teaching
		
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			at Al-Maghreb Institute.
		
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			And Al-'Ulama Rahimahullah have spoken a lot about
		
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			the concept of Ahkam-ul-Nisa, the rules
		
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			related to women, because of the importance of
		
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			it, because sometimes the complicity of it, because
		
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			of the misunderstanding in regard to it as
		
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			well.
		
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			And it is quite a big topic, quite,
		
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			you know, there is a lot of sophistication
		
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			in it.
		
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			And it is absolutely a joy for Institute
		
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			of Knowledge to study these issues.
		
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			And also there is a nuance to it.
		
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			And when it comes to women issues and
		
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			modern women issues, you will find always there
		
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			is extremes and reactions to the extreme.
		
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			People who became in the very strict side
		
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			and people who will be extreme on the
		
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			other side, who is too liberal.
		
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			People who would like to understand the text
		
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			in the light of the modern context.
		
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			And people who would like to understand the
		
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			modern content in the light of the text.
		
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			In another word, they will look at, some
		
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			people look at the text and try to
		
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			make them, bend them in a way that
		
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			fits what is happening.
		
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			Instead of us changing and try to change,
		
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			you know what, we're trying, it's much easier
		
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			to change the ruling and bend it and
		
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			to play around it, so it will fit
		
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			our desires.
		
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			Also, some other people would like to ignore
		
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			completely the role that the culture or the
		
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			context play when it comes to defining some
		
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			of the rulings.
		
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			And that's required from the person to be
		
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			a person of knowledge, a person of understanding
		
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			of fiqh and how it works.
		
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			What leads me in the end of the
		
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			days to say that's allowed or not allowed
		
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			is not how popular this opinion is.
		
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			No, it is how strong the evidence are
		
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			when it comes to the halal and haram.
		
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			It comes with what Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala have mentioned in his book or Muhammad
		
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			salallahu alayhi wa sallam have mentioned to us
		
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			and reported in the sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			salallahu alayhi wa alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			And I'm saying this because we cannot do
		
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			things because this will please certain people, regardless
		
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			of what people.
		
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			Let's say unique here, some people try to
		
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			take a certain position to please, for example,
		
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			those who are ultra-liberal, okay, or very
		
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			liberal minds when it comes, or a very
		
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			liberal approach to the issue, or some, you
		
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			know, liberal feminist type of movement members in
		
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			our community.
		
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			Other people also try to take strict position
		
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			so they will not be called liberal and
		
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			afraid if I say this, oh, I will
		
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			be like, you know, seen as part of
		
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			this camp or part of the liberal camp
		
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			or part of the strict camp.
		
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			You know what, that's not how the deen
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, it's not
		
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			a politics, you know, it's not about popularity,
		
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			it's not about winning your approval, it's about
		
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			what Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, I believe
		
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			is the strongest opinion and the strongest, you
		
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			know, position regarding to what I see from
		
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			the evidence.
		
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			And when a person do this and they
		
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			are sincere in this work, I think their
		
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			work will be appreciated, Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala will give to their work.
		
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			And over the years, we'll find among the
		
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			scholars, there are different positions been taken, some
		
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			of them strict, some of them are moderate,
		
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			some of them are very lenient.
		
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			That exists, and I think it is exist
		
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			in our life today.
		
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			And alhamdulillah, as long as we deal with
		
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			these differences of opinion, and we motivate it
		
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			by looking for what pleases Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala the most, and what we believe
		
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			that it is closer to the haqq, not
		
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			closer to what I desire, not closer to
		
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			what I feel, you know, it is the
		
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			most, you know, suitable opinion to my desire,
		
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			that's not how we should be motivated.
		
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			And that's not the foundation and the principle
		
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			that we base our position on.
		
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			I want to remind each and every one
		
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			of us, as we start talking about these
		
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			issues, our fundamental issues, which is Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala says, Ya ayyuhan nas, O
		
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			mankind, inna khalaqnakum min dhakari wa untha.
		
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			We have made you, or created you, from
		
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			male and female.
		
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			So we are all sons and daughters of
		
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			a male and a female, Adam and Eve.
		
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			It's not only male, it's not only a
		
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			man who had favor upon, it's a man
		
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			and a woman.
		
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			And that's how this life started, and that's
		
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			how this life will continue to be.
		
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			Between these two creation of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala, the male and the female, these
		
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			two humans, who are the beginning, and it
		
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			will continue to be the case until the
		
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			day of judgment.
		
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			You cannot have a society with one of
		
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			them only.
		
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			You cannot have a community or a party
		
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			where you cannot have one of them.
		
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			The relationship between men and women, always viewed
		
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			in the Qur'an and the Sunnah of
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ, is not a relationship of
		
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			competition.
		
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			And that's a very different lens that we
		
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			have and we put when we look at
		
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			the relationship between men and women.
		
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			They're not in a competition, which one is
		
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			better, which one is dominated.
		
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			That's not how it works.
		
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			The relationship between men and women is that
		
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			Adam was not complete without Hawa, and Hawa
		
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			is not complete without Adam.
		
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			And you're not complete without your mother, and
		
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			you cannot complete without your father.
		
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			The perfect model is when they complete and
		
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			complement one another.
		
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			The believing men and women, Allah says, ba'duhum
		
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			awliya'u ba'd.
		
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			Ya'muruna bil ma'ruf wa yanhawuna alimunkar.
		
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			Allahu akbar.
		
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			They are awliya'.
		
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			They are supporters for one another.
		
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			They support one another.
		
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			They advise one another.
		
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			And both are responsible for spreading goodness in
		
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			society, and forbidding evil.
		
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			The responsibility falls on the shoulder of both
		
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			of them.
		
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			Both of them.
		
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			When we look at the role of women
		
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			in the Prophet's ﷺ society, in a society
		
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			that women was sometimes, by some tribes, not
		
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			all the tribes in Mecca, some tribes like
		
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			Bani Asad and others, used to bury a
		
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			woman, a girl, a female.
		
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			When he get a female, he will put
		
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			her in the ground and would rather to
		
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			have her dead than to raise a female.
		
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			From the beginning.
		
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			Because shameful, because she will not make money,
		
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			she cannot work, and she cannot produce and
		
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			contribute to the economy, so they get rid
		
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			of her.
		
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			And we see this today in some countries
		
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			and, you know, where they get rid and
		
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			you will see something similar to that existing
		
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			today in China and India, unfortunately, you know,
		
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			as you all may be aware of.
		
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			But even this is in the time of
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			That's why Allah said, وَلَا تَقْتُلُوا أَوْلَادِكُمْ خَشْشَةِ
		
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			اِمْلَقٍ Don't kill your children, fear of poverty,
		
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			because they think women bring poverty, because they
		
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			don't work, they don't make money.
		
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			And if they want to work, they think
		
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			of, she work in prostitution, or work in
		
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			things of that nature, or she can, you
		
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			know, bring shame to her family.
		
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			So that's why they used to get rid
		
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			of her.
		
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			That's how, from day one, some Arabs deal
		
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			with her.
		
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			I'm not going to even talk about other
		
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			than Arabs.
		
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			You know, come to a society where a
		
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			woman is inherited, the actual woman, when her
		
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			husband died, she would be inherited by his
		
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			children, like a piece of furniture, or a
		
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			camel.
		
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			A society where, in many times, women are
		
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			not respected, not, you know, appreciated.
		
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			And again, not all of them, but in
		
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			general, abused, because of the nature of her
		
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			creation, that she is not necessarily masculine, she's
		
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			not masculine like men, strong like men.
		
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			So what happens?
		
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			Men take advantage of that, and start abusing.
		
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			Islam came to defend her from the day
		
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			that she was born, by saying, يَهَبُ لِمَن
		
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			يَشَعُوا إِنَاثًا وَيَهَبُ لِمَن يَشَعُوا الذُّكُورُ Allah blessed
		
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			you with children who are female and male,
		
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			started with the female, honoring the female, with
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ saying, whoever Allah bless them
		
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			with, these female daughters, three or two, and
		
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			non-racial, one, even if he was Asr
		
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			Salih al-Sadiq.
		
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			And take good care of them, will enter
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			And another hadith, or their sisters, take care
		
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			of their sisters, he will enter Jannah.
		
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			Was not mentioned in regard to boys, for
		
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			daughters only.
		
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			All this to appreciate her, okay, appreciate her
		
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			from the beginning.
		
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			Then it continued to see her in the
		
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			time of the Prophet ﷺ in every step
		
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			in the way.
		
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			You will cite women among those who were
		
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			tortured in Makkah, and some of them were
		
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			murdered, like Sumayyah, رضي الله عنها وارضاها.
		
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			They were there in the company of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ on his journey.
		
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			They were seen learning in the masjid, buying
		
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			and selling in the market, helping their families
		
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			in their farms, or in their own farms,
		
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			tending sheep, celebrating Eid and victories in public,
		
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			participating in every area of public life in
		
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			Madinah.
		
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			They were not isolated.
		
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			From the beginning, when the Prophet ﷺ built
		
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			the masjid, he made sure that they have
		
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			their own place, they have their own entrance,
		
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			they have their own place, respected.
		
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			And he said, you're not allowed to stop
		
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			women from going to the masjid anytime they
		
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			want to go.
		
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			We see them become scholars, learned, writing and
		
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			documenting.
		
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			As a matter of fact, one of the
		
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			most trusted documentation ever in history of Islam,
		
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			which is the Mus'haf, the original copy
		
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			of the Mus'haf, was in the hand
		
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			of a woman, Hafsah رضي الله عنها وارضاه.
		
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			One of the greatest women in Islam was
		
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			Aisha رضي الله عنها وارضاه.
		
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			And I can keep going on and on
		
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			in so many examples of how women contributed
		
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			in many different areas.
		
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			In da'wah, in education, in spreading knowledge,
		
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			in society at large, basically in workforce.
		
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			Umm Sulayq رضي الله عنها وارضاه, one of
		
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			the companions, used to make qirab, which is
		
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			the water skin, and sell it.
		
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			As Ibn al-Bukhari رضي الله عنه reported.
		
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			Umm Shariq رضي الله عنها وارضاه, she basically
		
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			used to own and run a guest house,
		
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			as Ibn Abdulbar mentioned in Kitab al-Isti
		
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			'at.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ, when he stood up, it
		
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			was built by a woman, a carpentry business.
		
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			She had someone work for her as a
		
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			carpenter, and she said, Ya Rasulullah, I will
		
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			make it for you.
		
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			Ibn Mas'ud رضي الله عنه, his wife
		
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			came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, Ya
		
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			Rasulullah, I work, I make money, and my
		
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			husband is not working.
		
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			Can I spend on him?
		
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			Can I give him from my money?
		
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			You know in Sahih al-Bukhari رضي الله
		
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			عنه, it was mentioned that Al-Zubayr رضي
		
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			الله عنه, his wife used to work with
		
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			him, Isma' ibn Abi Bakr رضي الله عنه,
		
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			used to work with him in his farm.
		
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			She will carry the stone dates, and she
		
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			will feed the animals and the cattle, and
		
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			she will take care of the business work
		
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			with her husband.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ, he saw her one
		
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			day, on a very hot day, and she
		
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			was walking and carrying all the stone dates,
		
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			or the seeds to feed the animals.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ put down his camel,
		
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			he said, Do you want a ride?
		
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			She said, Give you a ride.
		
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			And she said, I remember how jealous my
		
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			husband is.
		
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			He said, No.
		
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			And he said, Wallahi, Al-Zubayr رضي الله
		
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			عنه, when he heard about that, he said,
		
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			Wallahi, carrying this on your shoulder was harder
		
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			to me than you riding with him.
		
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			Because people see you like working hard like
		
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			that.
		
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			He doesn't feel, he wished that he can
		
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			save her the trouble.
		
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			She feels that he needs help, and she
		
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			is there to help.
		
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			Until Abu Bakr رضي الله عنه, gave her
		
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			a servant to help.
		
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			I mean, I can go, one of the
		
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			Sahaba said, I love Friday, because on Friday
		
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			they used to go to a place for
		
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			one of the Sahabiyat, she used to make
		
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			for them food.
		
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			It's like a restaurant, what we call it
		
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			today.
		
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			And they said, I love Friday for that.
		
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			Every Friday when we go to the Prophet's
		
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			Masjid, we go eat at this outside her
		
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			house after Salah.
		
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			Jabir رضي الله عنه, his aunt had a
		
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			farm, used to grow things in Shari'ah
		
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			رضي الله عنه.
		
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			Can I attend my farms on my waiting
		
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			period after my husband died?
		
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			Can I go and attend my farm and
		
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			look after my business?
		
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			He said, Yes.
		
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			My point is, this image of women playing
		
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			this major role in the time of the
		
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			Prophet صلى الله عنه, should be something that
		
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			we understand something from it, which is the
		
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			importance of the role that she played.
		
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			In the house, in the Masjid, in the
		
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			society at large, in her role with her
		
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			children, her role with her husband, her role
		
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			with her family members, her role with the
		
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			sisters and the women in society, her role
		
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			with the society at large.
		
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			Each one of these levels, there is a
		
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			level of participation and contribution.
		
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			And there is no contradiction.
		
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			And the Shari'ah have given a lot
		
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			of guidelines.
		
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			And sometimes I feel people mix between cultures
		
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			and religion.
		
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			Certain things that's culturally not acceptable.
		
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			Sometimes cultures is recognized in Shari'ah.
		
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			But there is a difference between the recognition
		
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			of a thing that's not appropriate, not right,
		
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			and something to such haram.
		
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			Haram, it means everywhere all the time.
		
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			But that's not appropriate in certain in certain
		
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			time and certain place.
		
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			I will, I know I talk too much,
		
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			but I hope you know, I found it
		
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			interesting that how the women understood their, it
		
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			comes from you understanding your value.
		
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			And I don't want you to have this
		
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			empty words.
		
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			No, I want this to be translated to
		
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			action, translated to reality.
		
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			And I'll tell you sisters, I will end
		
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			with this.
		
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			It is so important for our Muslim sister
		
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			today to learn piety, to learn taqwa, to
		
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			have fear of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			to have an absolute absolute love for Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala, to be among those
		
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			who pray on time, to pray the volunteer
		
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			prayer, to be among those who fast.
		
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			Before we talk about workforce and participating in
		
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			politics and stuff like that, you know what?
		
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			The foundations for all this is a good
		
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			iman, is a strong submission to Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala.
		
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			I want us to, as the Prophet ﷺ,
		
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			build these foundations in women.
		
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			As they grow, they keep these foundations strong,
		
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			because that will carry you as we go
		
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			and face all these fitna and all these
		
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			challenges in life.
		
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			That will be the light for all of
		
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			us and the guidance for all of us.
		
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			You're welcome.
		
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			Let's go into, I know I'm trying to,
		
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			I'm trying to avoid your hard question.
		
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			I heard a lot.
		
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			I know there's, so I was going to
		
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			say Sheikh, it's very important to set the
		
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			stage because we want to know the context
		
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			that we're coming in from.
		
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			And especially nowadays, I feel like, and we
		
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			don't have time for all the topics and
		
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			all the things.
		
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			Sure, but that's basically why I think this
		
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			course is important, because that's when I go
		
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			into details over all these things related to
		
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			women.
		
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			To build this foundation, to deal with these
		
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			challenges today, hopefully shallot will benefit my sisters
		
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			and my brothers as well.
		
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			And we need to know what framework that
		
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			we're coming in from and how we're understanding
		
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			it, because I think nowadays we're losing a
		
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			little bit of that essence, especially with the
		
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			prevalence of things like for the, on the
		
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			male side, the red pill kind of theology
		
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			and that bandwagon.
		
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			And on the woman's side, modern feminism, I
		
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			find there's a lot of this like war
		
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			of the sexes that comes into some of
		
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			these discussions around the topics of women.
		
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			And more so, I feel like even, you
		
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			know, you've taught this course multiple times over
		
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			the years and Hamza, it's been a lifetime
		
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			access course.
		
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			So I think students have seen the discussion
		
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			evolve over the last 2020, 2021 to 22,
		
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			et cetera.
		
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			And now I feel like these talk, this
		
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			discussion is even more current.
		
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			It's even more kind of like, I guess,
		
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			highly charged.
		
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			I remember when I was listening, someone was
		
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			mentioning some of the topics that we mentioned
		
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			for the webinar.
		
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			I was feeling like personally, like my blood
		
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			pressure was rising a little bit.
		
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			This brings back a lot of really painful,
		
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			you know, dialogues and conversations that we're used
		
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			to hearing.
		
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			I just, in general about women being, you
		
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			know, incompetent to some degree, their level of
		
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			intelligence, their weakness, their whatnot, all the things
		
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			that make us less than men, as opposed
		
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			to having it in the context of the
		
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			situations that we're discussing and actually understanding the
		
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			Hadith that are behind some of these, you
		
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			know, lectures and conversations that we're hearing.
		
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			So some of the hot button topics, I
		
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			don't know how many we'll get a chance
		
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			to cover, but I want to jump into
		
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			it.
		
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			And one thing that I want to maybe
		
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			like just touch on, I don't, I won't
		
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			speak about my personal kind of opinions on
		
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			and I'll bite my tongue here, but you
		
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			yourself in America, you guys are going through
		
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			an election.
		
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			And I know that, you know, you have
		
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			the, for the first time for, I don't
		
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			know, for a while, I don't, you have
		
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			a female leader on the ballot and ignoring
		
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			all the politics and the issues with her.
		
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			It's interesting that some people have an opposition
		
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			still to this point about a woman running
		
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			for, you know, a role in office of
		
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			that high degree.
		
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			And I know there are Hadith kind of,
		
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			you know, backing or giving that they're an
		
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			impression that this is not acceptable in a
		
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			nation that has a woman leader, I think
		
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			will be unsuccessful, et cetera.
		
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			Can you shed some more light?
		
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			Can you give us some clarification on that?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So the only good thing about this kind
		
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			of question, whoever asked him this question, it
		
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			means they want success for the society.
		
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			So that's, that's a good thing at least,
		
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			you know, that's why we care.
		
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			But also it's ironic that this is the
		
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			only thing you have a problem with, with
		
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			this candidate is that her gender.
		
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			But again, regardless of what is your position
		
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			of her policies and stuff like that, that's
		
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			interesting because I got, I got some little
		
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			actually phone calls of people asking me, and
		
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			is it allowed for me to vote for
		
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			a female as a president?
		
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			You know, and that's, there is two sides
		
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			for this is talk about women.
		
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			Is it true that Islam, women not allowed
		
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			to have a leadership position, you know, over
		
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			a group of men and women, you know,
		
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			because over women, everybody agree.
		
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			But the problem is, if she's in charge
		
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			of men and women, group of men and
		
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			women, that's where some of the debate can
		
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			be, can come up.
		
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			Then the other issue is related to America
		
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			related to a non-Muslim country.
		
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			So let's get the easy one part, the
		
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			easy part out, which is in relation to
		
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			the non-Muslim world.
		
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			You know, our rules as Muslims, we don't
		
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			enforce it over Muslims, over non-Muslims.
		
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			So my rules is related to me, related
		
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			to my community, my society, my country.
		
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			I don't force that over other people.
		
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			So it's not a sin.
		
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			If you think, if you think this is
		
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			the best candidate and she will do the
		
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			best thing for the society, you're allowed to
		
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			vote for her because she's not supposed to
		
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			adhere to our rules.
		
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			We're not supposed to, she wears hijab.
		
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			She's not supposed to be, she's not a
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			She's not been asked to do all this.
		
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			So for me, I'm voting.
		
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			I want to interject on that point.
		
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			One is that if, would it be different
		
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			than if she was a Muslim running?
		
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			Like you have some Muslims also in parliamentary
		
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			or other positions, I guess.
		
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			I will come to that.
		
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			But we're not talking about a Muslim country
		
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			here.
		
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			So don't apply your rules, which is you
		
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			have, you apply to a Muslim country, don't
		
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			apply to a non-Muslim country.
		
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			There is two different things.
		
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			And so this situation, if you think that
		
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			she really, this female who's running for president
		
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			or prime minister or whatever, she will be
		
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			the best choice for the country, the best
		
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			choice for the society, and she will do
		
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			a better job than the other candidate or
		
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			that is more good or evil.
		
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			That's what you conclude.
		
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			Her gender is something relevant here in this
		
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			discussion, because she is not, that's not a
		
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			non-Muslim, that's not a Muslim country and
		
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			a Muslim country that you apply our Islamic
		
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			ruling to it.
		
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			She's not going to rule Sharia anyway.
		
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			You know, that's even a much bigger issue
		
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			than, you know, she's a female or a
		
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			male, you know, or anything of that nature.
		
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			So that's, let's get this out of the
		
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			way.
		
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			The issue, the original issue is this.
		
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			Is it true that Islam did not allow
		
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			women to have a leadership position?
		
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			So al-Ulama rahim Allah and al-Fuqaha
		
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			rahim Allah, in the past, there is an
		
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			agreement among them, okay, that women are not
		
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			allowed to have wilaya amna, which it means
		
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			to be the khalifa, the person who is
		
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			in charge of the khilafah, in charge to
		
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			be the khalifa of the Muslims.
		
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			And there is ijma' among the ulama, I
		
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			mentioned this ijma' by consensus among the scholars,
		
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			by many scholars, one of the conditions that
		
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			must exist in a khalifa, that has to
		
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			be a male, okay.
		
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			And the only, there is only maybe al
		
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			-khawarij, some like deviant sects have said something
		
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			different.
		
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			I don't know even if they said that,
		
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			but in their history, they have appointed a
		
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			woman to lead them at one point, Ghazala.
		
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			In any case, that's in relation to the
		
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			why.
		
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			There is, you know, there is a consistence
		
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			in sharia, and that's something important to keep
		
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			in mind.
		
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			That's why I said Islamic ruling in a
		
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			Muslim country is different than non-Muslim country,
		
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			than non-Muslim, different situation.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because Islam look at the khalifa to play
		
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			different roles that when you think about president
		
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			or prime minister today.
		
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			A khalifa, it means the one who lead,
		
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			when he is there, he lead the salah.
		
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			It means he lead the hajj.
		
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			It means he is the wali when a
		
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			woman do not have a wali.
		
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			He basically in charge of that.
		
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			He is the one who lead the war,
		
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			you know.
		
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			And all of these roles, as you know,
		
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			will not fit a female in an Islamic,
		
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			you know, based on Islamic ruling.
		
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			She cannot lead the salah, she cannot lead
		
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			the hajj, she cannot be the wali because
		
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			she herself need the wali.
		
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			Also, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said, Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala when he said that
		
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			there is in the household, that the women,
		
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			when they're home, they must be recognize the
		
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			authority of the husband as well.
		
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			So if she is the ultimate authority on
		
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			the country, that means she is in charge
		
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			of her husband, which is he has to
		
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			obey and to listen to her.
		
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			And that's different than the way envisioned, the
		
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			way the house works.
		
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			One thing I do want to clarify, just
		
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			before the chat goes wild, is that this
		
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			is in no way an endorsement of anybody
		
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			based on their gender.
		
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			Not at all.
		
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			Especially because, you know, we don't want to
		
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			speak about this openly or we don't want
		
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			to deal with any cancel culture issues.
		
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			But this is not a candidate or we're
		
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			not speaking about the specifics of US politics
		
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			right now.
		
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			We're just giving the example of people having
		
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			an issue with someone running for a political
		
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			role solely because of their gender, solely because
		
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			she's a woman.
		
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			Yeah, yeah.
		
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			Like what I said, it's talking about, is
		
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			it allowed in Islam to vote for, let's
		
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			say, prime minister running or a minister, like
		
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			a president running for a country, you know,
		
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			a non-Muslim country.
		
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			Gender is a relevant discussion in this case.
		
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			The case has to be based on, is
		
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			this the right person or not?
		
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			It doesn't matter what this person's gender is.
		
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			And again, it's not an endorsement for her
		
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			or against her.
		
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			That's something you can discuss outside this format.
		
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			And also, we're a non-profit organization, so
		
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			we're not supposed to endorse any candidate per
		
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			se or any candidate in particular.
		
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			But again, going back to my discussion, going
		
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			back to the issue of that in Islam,
		
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			is it allowed for just hypothetically, just looking
		
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			at it from an Islamic, pure Islamic perspective,
		
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			is she allowed to be the khalifa, to
		
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			be the imam for the Muslim?
		
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			As I said, there's a consensus and that
		
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			comes from established based on looking at how
		
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			things are consistent in Sharia.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Also, so there is an agreement among the
		
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			early scholars on this issue.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Some of them even said that would be
		
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			expanded to any kind of, you know, governor,
		
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			like the governor of Egypt.
		
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			Even if it's not the khalifa for the
		
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			whole Muslim world, it's the khalifa for one
		
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			particular country or region.
		
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			Because still he played that role as the
		
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			ultimate authority figure in that the country or
		
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			that region.
		
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			In modern days, in modern days, this issue
		
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			is not something of consistency.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			There is some scholars have challenged that position.
		
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			And they said, that position is based on
		
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			a certain view of how society is built.
		
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			But in modern society today, they said, these
		
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			things that you mentioned are not necessarily in
		
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			the hand of the president.
		
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			In some country, the president is even not
		
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			the one who makes decisions.
		
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			It's the prime minister.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And even if the president or the prime
		
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			minister, they don't make one, like the final
		
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			decision.
		
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			So for example, not necessarily the khalifa of
		
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			the Muslimin has to lead the hajj.
		
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			Today we have a mufti, a grand mufti
		
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			who can lead the hajj.
		
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			The khalifa can assign or the governor or
		
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			the emir of this region can assign someone
		
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			to be the judge, the chief judge, supreme
		
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			court.
		
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			You know, he doesn't need to lead that
		
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			army.
		
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			There is a defense minister who can be
		
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			the person in charge of that.
		
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			So it doesn't mean that the woman has
		
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			to be in charge of leading the army
		
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			and wearing the uniform and having the mixing
		
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			and the khalwa and all this.
		
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			You can get, you can avoid all this
		
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			by dividing these responsibilities to different sections today.
		
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			So they came and they argued back saying
		
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			this, and they said that the reason that
		
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			when it comes to the issue of husband
		
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			and country, she said, yes, she is in
		
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			charge of the country.
		
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			But when it comes to her inside her
		
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			house, in a personal life, it's still al
		
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			-qawamah to her husband in charge.
		
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			You know, and if there is a conflict,
		
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			it can be somehow sorted out.
		
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			They tried to twist that.
		
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			And they said in regard to hadith of
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ, there is, people will not,
		
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			when he heard about the purging, when the
		
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			Kisra died and his daughter became in charge,
		
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			they said that the Prophet ﷺ said, people
		
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			will not achieve success if a woman lead
		
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			them.
		
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			They said that has to do with this
		
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			particular incident, with this particular woman and those
		
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			particular people.
		
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			But the vast majority of the scholars, even
		
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			in modern days, they said, no, the hadith
		
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			is general.
		
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			And the hadith talk about, again, this woman
		
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			became the ultimate authority in the country.
		
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			And they said, you can't just say that
		
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			because of the change of the situation, yes,
		
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			but in the end of the day, that
		
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			person will be in charge of making the
		
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			ultimate decision, the war, the expecting from him.
		
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			A woman can be, they said, if she
		
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			became in charge and the ultimate authority, how
		
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			can you combine this between this and a
		
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			woman to play as a role as a
		
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			mother?
		
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			She has to take care of her children,
		
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			she has to take care of her pregnancy
		
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			and delivery.
		
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			And they said, this particular position, in particular,
		
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			does not fit the nature of, that's the
		
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			argument, okay?
		
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			They said it doesn't go alongside with the
		
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			consistent position for a woman and does not
		
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			mean in any case or any form that
		
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			she's less or in the sense she is
		
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			bad or disqualified or anything like that.
		
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			But it's because of the nature of her
		
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			position, the nature of her role.
		
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			It's like when I say a woman cannot
		
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			lead the prayer, cannot lead Jumu'ah prayer,
		
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			not because she doesn't have knowledge, not because
		
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			she doesn't know how to recite Qur'an,
		
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			not because she doesn't know how to pray,
		
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			but that's not a position for a woman
		
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			to do.
		
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			Simple.
		
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			That mind, that infusing mind, that background that
		
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			it is so clouded with the issue of
		
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			everything, if we say no, it means because
		
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			you are bad or because you're not good
		
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			or because you're not qualified, that's not something
		
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			that was in the back end or in
		
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			the head necessarily of the Sharia or at
		
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			least in Nabi ﷺ and the Sahaba, not
		
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			because they look down upon women and they're
		
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			not qualified, no, because it does not fit
		
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			the role, this role does not fit the
		
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			way that women play a role in society
		
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			at large.
		
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			Jazakallah khair, Sheikh.
		
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			Sorry.
		
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			No, no, no, no, no, this, importantly.
		
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			Last part?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			No, no, this is important.
		
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			Can we say that this applies to every
		
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			leadership position?
		
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			First of all, I lean towards the majority's
		
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			opinion, just to tell you what's my position,
		
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			and I lean towards the majority opinion in
		
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			this issue.
		
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			But part of what we learn is to
		
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			learn the argument on both sides, you know,
		
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			so you have a respect.
		
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			Don't think that those people who allowed women
		
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			to do this just because they feel, you
		
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			know, they just want the woman to be
		
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			out, and they have also their argument, their
		
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			evidence that they use.
		
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			And there's more evidence you will learn in
		
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			the class that they have from the Salaf,
		
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			from the early generations as well.
		
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			You can look it up in the modules,
		
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			inshallah ta'ala.
		
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			They used some of them, Aisha radiallahu anha,
		
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			Umar al-Khattab, he appointed women to be
		
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			in charge of the market.
		
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			But I think most of the evidence that
		
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			was used and the incident was used is
		
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			to lead me to the important following point.
		
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			There is no consensus or agreement when it
		
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			comes to women have a leadership over a
		
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			particular department or business or entity, because the
		
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			reasons behind the khilafah does not apply here.
		
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			She's not doing hajj, not the ultimate authority,
		
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			you know, blah, blah.
		
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			All the reasoning that they brought does not
		
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			apply if she's in the principal of the
		
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			school, or she is the head of the
		
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			education department or ministry, or she is the
		
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			head of the company, or she is whatever
		
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			position in society.
		
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			So I do believe that this is only
		
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			restricted to one position only in the state,
		
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			which is the khalifah, the khilafah.
		
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			Even I have my own, you know, not
		
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			strict about it when it comes to an
		
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			individual country, you know, as a governor of
		
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			a country or a state or something of
		
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			that nature.
		
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			The only thing I'm 100% positive about,
		
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			it is the khilafah, the khalifah, the role
		
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			of the khalifah.
		
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			This has to be, you know, for a
		
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			male, as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			said, the khilafah of the Quraysh, and many
		
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			ahadith from the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
		
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			and the ijma' of ahl al-ilm, that
		
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			this has to be a male when it
		
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			comes to that position as the khalifah, which
		
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			is the head of the whole entire Muslim
		
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			world.
		
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			This is basically important to understand, because some
		
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			people said, oh, she's not allowed to be
		
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			a principal.
		
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			No, she's allowed, and there is no proof
		
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			to prevent her from doing that, or in
		
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			charge of the business, or in charge of
		
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			a community, or a head of a board,
		
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			or something of that nature.
		
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			There is nothing at all to prevent her
		
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			from such a thing.
		
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			I hope that clarified this position a little
		
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			bit more, and may Allah subhanahu wa ta
		
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			'ala make it easier for all of us,
		
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			and give us success.
		
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			Jazakumullah khair, Sheikh.
		
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			I know that's a heavy one to tackle,
		
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			and to do justice to, without getting flamed
		
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			online, and also with being able to give
		
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			all the nuance, and all the explanation of
		
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			what the scholarly discussion is behind it.
		
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			So, jazakumullah khair for giving a lot of
		
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			time to that discussion, and not brushing past
		
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			it.
		
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			I know we had some other intense topics
		
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			and questions that we wanted to discuss for
		
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			today.
		
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			One thing that has come up, that causes
		
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			a lot of confusion and frustration sometimes with
		
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			women is that, I believe it's a hadith
		
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			or something, that is that the majority of
		
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			people that are in hellfire are women.
		
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			And that's something that can be very kind
		
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			of, not just scary, but really kind of
		
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			sad to hear as a woman, that we're
		
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			more predisposed to going to hellfire.
		
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			And I'd love to hear your clarification, and
		
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			your explanation of that hadith, and of that
		
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			understanding, inshallah.
		
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			I have a question for you.
		
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			For me.
		
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			If I tell you, okay, the majority of
		
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			people who get in a car accident, or
		
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			end up dying with this cause, are youth
		
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			between this age and that age.
		
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			What do you understand from a statement like
		
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			that?
		
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			There's some kind of factual, or some kind
		
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			of statistical connection between the way that youth
		
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			from that age to that age.
		
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			So, what do you think the purpose of
		
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			me saying that?
		
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			Is to just statistically give you a warning,
		
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			to be more careful with kids?
		
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			Exactly.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Exactly.
		
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			You know what?
		
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			Moral people, warning.
		
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			So, in Nabi ﷺ, when he said that,
		
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			or Islam told us that, it's not to
		
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			condemn, it's to warn you.
		
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			Don't take it in the wrong way.
		
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			When Islam told you, be careful, a lot
		
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			of women go to hellfire.
		
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			So, be careful.
		
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			Don't be among those.
		
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			It's not saying, you guys doomed them bad.
		
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			No.
		
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			You're not saying all women are going to
		
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			hellfire.
		
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			A lot of women will be in hellfire.
		
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			So, that's the first step, that when you
		
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			hear that, because Allah ﷻ and his Messenger
		
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			ﷺ, first question, is this hadith authentic?
		
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			Yes, it's authentic.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Is this something the Prophet ﷺ said?
		
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			Yes, yeah.
		
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			Right.
		
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			Second thing, we have to understand Allah ﷻ
		
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			loves us, and Muhammad ﷺ loves us, and
		
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			he cares about us.
		
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			So, he said this out of love and
		
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			care, to warn you, be careful.
		
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			And he said, why?
		
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			And he said, because a lot of women
		
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			curse, a lot of women are ungrateful.
		
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			So, be careful.
		
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			Don't be like that, and you will not
		
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			end up there.
		
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			So, this hadith came from a position of
		
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			love and care and warning.
		
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			This is the first thing I should care
		
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			about, and that should be my focus.
		
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			How can I avoid being among the people
		
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			of hellfire?
		
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			Not to say, oh Allah, why are you
		
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			saying this about us?
		
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			What should we do?
		
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			Yeah, he told you, but nobody's going to
		
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			enter hellfire because of their gender.
		
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			You enter hellfire because of your action.
		
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			So, and the Prophet ﷺ warning us.
		
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			I want to raise a point, something that's
		
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			mentioned in the chat a few times.
		
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			I think the issue is not often just
		
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			with the hadith itself, or like our perception
		
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			or understanding of it.
		
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			It's the fact that it's used often to
		
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			weaponize against women.
		
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			You know, men, specifically Muslim men, will then
		
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			make that as a critique of like, see,
		
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			look at you, Pete, you know, you women
		
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			are like this, or you women are like
		
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			this.
		
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			It's because of this.
		
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			Absolutely.
		
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			Once in a conference, you know, it is
		
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			one in a conference once, a brother was
		
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			like, you know, there's multiple speaker, and the
		
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			emcee was a sister.
		
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			So, she did not manage the time well,
		
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			you know, like many other people.
		
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			So, he got like less time than we're
		
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			supposed to.
		
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			And starts his speech with the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			said the truth.
		
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			Any people let their affair led by a
		
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			woman, it will be corrupted.
		
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			He is angry at her.
		
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			He is mad at her management.
		
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			It's not her fault.
		
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			It's the speakers, your own, your male speakers
		
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			that's next to you, are the one who
		
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			messed up their time, did not listen.
		
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			Okay, now he take his frustration, what, how?
		
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			By using the evidence.
		
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			That's a very bad way of using evidence,
		
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			you know, against your sister.
		
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			You know, exactly, you know, it might be
		
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			a little bit out of line, but I
		
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			still think it is perfect.
		
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			You know, there is this brother who made
		
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			this sign.
		
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			And it says, the Prophet ﷺ said, when
		
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			you do, Allah loves it, when you do
		
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			something that you do it correct and perfect.
		
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			He put it for his wife in the
		
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			kitchen.
		
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			Then she took it from the kitchen and
		
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			put it somewhere else.
		
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			Yeah, now, to get him back, you know,
		
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			and you know what, he deserve it.
		
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			I should have known there's some way you
		
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			would sneak a dad joke into this, into
		
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			this.
		
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			It's not a dad joke.
		
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			It's a true story.
		
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			You know, so what I'm saying is, you're
		
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			organizing the evidence into a personal level.
		
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			This is mocking the religion.
		
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			That's haram.
		
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			Okay, it's like for me, when I talk
		
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			to a woman, about is it allowed for
		
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			a man to give salam to a woman,
		
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			a woman to reply to salam?
		
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			Yes, it is allowed.
		
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			But if someone use this as a way
		
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			to hit a woman, to seduce a woman,
		
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			you taking the religion for your personal desire,
		
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			that's haram.
		
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			That's absolutely law.
		
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			And it's not acceptable.
		
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			So this is just sad when you see
		
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			people you do that.
		
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			Going back to what we're saying earlier, in
		
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			regard to the issue that you mentioned in
		
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			regard to the, what was your original question,
		
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			the original point, the second question that you
		
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			have in regard to the hadith, people of
		
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			hellfire.
		
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			So it's an advice.
		
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			Also, the reason there is more women in
		
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			hellfire than men, okay, it is because the
		
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			number of women will be way more than
		
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			the number of men.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said for every woman will
		
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			be 50 women and one man.
		
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			And we know in the end of the
		
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			days, closer to the Day of Judgment, the
		
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			overwhelming majority of people will not be Muslim.
		
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			So that's why there's so many women in
		
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			hellfire, you know, in numbers, because their numbers
		
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			is much, much bigger than men, especially in
		
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			the end of the day.
		
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			And you know, Hafsa, Abu Huraira r.a,
		
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			they were asking him, the Sahaba were debating,
		
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			is there is more women in Jannah than
		
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			men or not?
		
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			And actually, whatever I said, yes, there is.
		
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			Yeah, so it's not only to women, so
		
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			there's, you know, more female in Jannah than
		
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			men.
		
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			So it goes also in another way.
		
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			And there is a whole discussion over this,
		
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			you know, because also Hur and Ain are
		
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			female, you know, and so many things like
		
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			this, al-Ulama r.a have mentioned.
		
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			So Allah ﷻ is not against or in
		
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			favor of anybody, favoring someone or discriminate between
		
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			us based on our gender.
		
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			This is not the case in Shari'ah.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Jazakum Allah khair for that clarification, Sheikh.
		
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			Again, we can't do justice to every topic,
		
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			but I hope that gives some clarity.
		
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			And it's important, I think what the one
		
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			point that you said earlier, which was that,
		
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			you know, mocking women using hadith and weaponizing
		
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			religion is haram, you know, using...
		
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			Zuhra, Zuhra asking, I just said, Abu Huraira
		
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			r.a, there was a debate happened in
		
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			front of him and he was asked, some
		
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			people said the majority of people in Jannah
		
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			are female and also more than, there is
		
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			more female than male.
		
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			Okay, then Abu Huraira r.a mentioned that,
		
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			yes, for every man, there will be like
		
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			two women or, you know, so that means,
		
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			or two women, like referring to al-Hurain,
		
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			so that means there is more female than
		
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			male in Jannah as well.
		
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			So, you know, again, it's the issue of
		
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			there's more number of women than men.
		
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			It has not to do with the gender
		
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			itself.
		
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			Awesome, Saas.
		
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			Jazakum Allah khair, Sheikh, for that clarification.
		
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			I do challenge you guys, especially those who
		
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			are feeling, you know, like it can be
		
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			a very triggering kind of environment or topic,
		
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			that I challenge you guys to actually register
		
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			for the class for Complicated Online, the A
		
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			to Z of Modern Women's Book, that is
		
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			the basis of this discussion.
		
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			And, you know, go through all the modules.
		
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			We cover everything from the beginning of a
		
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			female's life, all the fiqh, all the rulings,
		
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			everything that has an impact on her existence
		
00:46:38 --> 00:46:40
			as a Muslimah, all the way to the
		
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			very end of her life.
		
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			And you'll find, especially as you delve deeper
		
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			and you have more time to ask questions
		
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			and to find the responses, that this will
		
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			be the course that's the answer to all
		
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			of your prayers and all your frustrations as
		
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			a woman.
		
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			So, inshallah, I look forward to you guys
		
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			continuing that discussion with us, inshallah, inside the
		
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			course and getting a chance to do justice
		
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			to this conversation.
		
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			Another thing, Sheikh, that is a little interesting,
		
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			that this is still prevalent, or this is
		
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			still a conversation point, or this is brought
		
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			up, is this discussion around, what do you
		
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			call it, around divorce, and specifically because the
		
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			divorce statistics, as we, you know, at this
		
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			module in the course, and we discussed it
		
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			as well, are pretty high, but that women
		
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			who initiate a divorce do not smell the
		
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			fragrance of Jannah.
		
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			And this, I believe, is also from an
		
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			authentic hadith that a woman who is the
		
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			one who is initiating, she will not go
		
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			to Jannah as well.
		
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			This is linked, I guess, to the previous
		
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			topic we just covered.
		
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			Can you give us some more clarification on
		
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			what this means and what that actually is
		
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			meant to, you know, express?
		
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			The hadith of the Prophet, peace be upon
		
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			him, about a woman who is asking her
		
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			husband for a divorce, asking for a divorce,
		
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			will not smell the fragrance of Jannah, said
		
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			that, if you take this hadith, the way
		
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			it sounds like that, just like the sound,
		
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			it will contradict a rule in Islam, which
		
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			is called khul'a, which is a woman
		
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			asked to divorce her husband, and she is
		
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			allowed to ask for a divorce.
		
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			And the Prophet, peace be upon a woman,
		
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			without her permission, her daughter, he asked her,
		
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			he said, you have a choice to reject
		
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			this marriage and to nullify the marriage, because
		
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			you never were consent, were never taken.
		
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			And if you want to consent to what
		
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			your father did, it's up to you.
		
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			So that means she can initiate.
		
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			He said, no, I don't want this marriage.
		
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			I was never, I never gave my consent
		
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			to it.
		
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			So if this is the case, there is
		
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			a contradiction.
		
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			So al-'ilm, rahim Allah, said that in the
		
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			hadith that she will not find the fragrance
		
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			of Jannah.
		
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			If a woman asks that because she has
		
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			a boyfriend hidden, because she just married for
		
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			the sake of, you know, just spend coming
		
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			night with him, or take his money and
		
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			leave, you know, she's not really committed to
		
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			the marriage.
		
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			She took the marriage as just a mean
		
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			either to fulfill her desires, or to make
		
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			money out of the guy, or because she
		
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			has another boyfriend and relationship, you know, or
		
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			a boyfriend on the side, and that's why
		
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			she want to leave the marriage for that.
		
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			That's what it is the hadith talking about,
		
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			for a woman who does that for that
		
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			purpose.
		
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			But if a woman don't, she, some people,
		
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			I had a divorce case recently, and the
		
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			guy was telling me, what's the base for
		
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			khuluq?
		
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			I mean, why she wants to make khuluq
		
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			for me?
		
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			I said, she doesn't want to be with
		
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			you.
		
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			He said, that's not a base.
		
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			I said, it is.
		
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			She just said, I don't want to live
		
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			with this man anymore.
		
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			Is that enough?
		
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			Yes, enough.
		
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			A woman came to the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			See how the Prophet ﷺ, a woman came,
		
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			said, Ya Rasulullah, I can't, I don't want
		
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			to do something which is part of the
		
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			kufr, to be ungrateful, to be, you know,
		
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			not cooperative, not to, you know, ring your
		
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			husband.
		
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			That's not good.
		
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			She said, I can't do that.
		
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			I can't stand this man.
		
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			I can't even look at his face.
		
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			And in some narration, he was not attractive
		
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			at all to her, you know.
		
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			So she said, I can't, I don't want,
		
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			that's the only reason, nothing.
		
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			She said, I do not have anything against
		
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			his deen, his religiosity, or his khuluq.
		
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			He is very well-mannered, he's very religious,
		
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			but I just can't stand him.
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ didn't say, shame on
		
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			you, what's the base for this?
		
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			No, he said, just give him back his
		
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			mahaf, and let's just call it off.
		
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			Sheikh, I have someone asking for clarification.
		
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			So I think some of what's causing, like,
		
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			the frustration is, how come the hadith wasn't
		
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			clear on this?
		
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			Like, why does it require so much context?
		
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			I know that we have other hadith that
		
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			give us so much explanation.
		
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			That's how the nature of every speech, this
		
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			is the nature of talk.
		
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			That's why we don't base, that's why you're
		
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			not supposed to make a rule.
		
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			You're supposed to ask the appeal of the
		
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			scholars.
		
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			That's why we combine things together.
		
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			We don't take one evidence by itself.
		
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			So that hadith will remain for those women
		
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			who, divorce for them is something, like, easy.
		
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			Every, like, there are some people, like, every
		
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			couple of months, oh, I divorce him, and
		
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			I take another one.
		
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			I divorce him, I take another one.
		
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			That hadith will apply to somebody like that.
		
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			It scares the person, you know?
		
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			You know what?
		
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			Don't commit to marriage, unless you're really committed
		
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			to it, too.
		
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			But if it's happened, alhamdulillah, shari'ah give
		
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			you also exits, and give you way.
		
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			You're never going to live with someone you
		
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			can't live with.
		
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			Shari'ah cannot force you to live with
		
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			someone that you don't want.
		
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			I think this is why...
		
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			That's why we have a rule called khul.
		
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			The woman have the power to terminate the
		
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			marriage.
		
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			Divorce in the hand of the man, to
		
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			terminate the marriage.
		
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			Man does not need justification for the divorce.
		
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			If he said, I don't want divorce, I
		
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			don't love this woman anymore.
		
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			You know, I don't make an investigation.
		
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			I try to make solace between him and
		
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			her, so he can say, no, no, I
		
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			don't.
		
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			And also, termination of the marriage can come
		
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			from a judge.
		
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			Let's say the woman said, I don't want
		
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			to do khul, I don't want to give
		
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			him his mahr back, and he is not
		
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			willing to divorce me, and he's abusing me.
		
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			The judge have the power to tell him,
		
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			you divorce her.
		
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			He said, no, he said, I divorce her
		
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			in your behalf.
		
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			Forgive me if I'm wrong.
		
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			You don't have even to consent to it.
		
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			Because I protect the rights of people here.
		
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			So a lot of people think that there
		
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			is kind of ultimate power.
		
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			There's no ultimate power.
		
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			I think this is why it's important when
		
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			we take hadith in their singularity.
		
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			And hadith can be something that's authentic, that's
		
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			recorded in a specific context.
		
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			And this is why we have ulama.
		
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			This is why we have shuyukh to explain
		
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			where the applications are, a legal application, where
		
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			it's actually relevant, and where it's specific to
		
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			a specific situation.
		
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			Because I know there's so many hadith I've
		
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			learned from you, and in the course of
		
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			this class, the complicated course as well, in
		
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			terms of the different scenarios in which a
		
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			woman can ask for divorce, and through our
		
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			Q&As and all the clarification that we
		
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			received.
		
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			And there's such a breadth of openness.
		
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			And there's a reason why this is something
		
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			that, it may be of the disliked of
		
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			the things that Allah allows, but it's definitely
		
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			something that's allowed.
		
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			So it's important to get your reason.
		
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			You know what's interesting?
		
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			Recently, somebody asked me to come to the
		
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			court, to give a testimonial over what a
		
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			woman in divorce in Islam deserve financial, her
		
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			financial rights.
		
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			He thought that he, if he go with
		
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			sharia, he gonna end up like paying like
		
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			some, like maybe $2,000 and get out
		
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			of it.
		
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			You know, okay, you have $500 for that
		
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			three months, that's $1,500 and $500 more,
		
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			maybe I'm out.
		
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			Then, yeah, so when I came and I
		
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			explained exactly what she deserved financially, he found
		
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			out it's cheaper to go with that American
		
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			law.
		
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			So he flipped, he flipped.
		
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			He said, I don't want the sharia.
		
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			And it isn't look, people have this like
		
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			thinking like, unfortunately, and people twist things just
		
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			for, I don't care if it is more
		
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			or less, that's not how I look at
		
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			it.
		
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			I look at it what Islam have given,
		
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			what Islam has been just with everyone.
		
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			So it is important for us to learn
		
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			our deen.
		
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			And we have to learn, there are certain
		
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			things you might not like in the religion.
		
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			But that's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in
		
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			the end of the day, he is, he
		
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			knows what he created.
		
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			If he says, a woman cannot do this,
		
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			cannot do this.
		
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			He said, woman not allowed to do this,
		
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			woman not allowed to do that.
		
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			He knows you better than yourself.
		
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			If he said, men not allowed to do
		
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			this, men are not allowed to do that.
		
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			Because he know you better.
		
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			And we have to learn how to submit
		
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			to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala as well.
		
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			And to trust him too.
		
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			JazakAllah khair Sheikh.
		
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			I know I want to recognize that we're
		
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			a little bit past the hour and we
		
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			haven't had a chance to cover everything.
		
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			I know there's a lot of very specific
		
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			questions coming in about people's personal situations and
		
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			their scenarios and what would connect and relate
		
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			to their relationships.
		
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			I do implore you guys to make sure
		
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			you check out at the very least go
		
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			to complicated.online and check out what the
		
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			course is about.
		
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			But there's so much more nuance and there's
		
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			so much more specific, you know, situations that
		
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			we discuss through the sessions and in the
		
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			live Q&As where you can ask questions
		
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			and we have an entire hour just dedicated
		
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			to questions that we're answering for you guys
		
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			inshallah.
		
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			I know we won't be able to take
		
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			all the dozens, mashallah, that are coming in
		
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			publicly and privately in chat.
		
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			So I want to make sure you guys
		
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			have an opportunity that you don't leave this
		
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			session without an avenue of getting those questions
		
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			answered.
		
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			With that said, the last thing I want
		
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			to touch on, I know we had some
		
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			intense kind of topics.
		
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			We'll keep it kind of light as we
		
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			close off because it's not as common, I
		
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			don't think, in the Muslim community right now.
		
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			But something that has become a bit more
		
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			popular in the West and a bit more
		
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			like you maybe see in celebrity culture and
		
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			things like that is surrogacy.
		
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			And I know when we were discussing this
		
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			topic, Sheikh, you mentioned that even Pope Francis
		
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			came out earlier this year and he put
		
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			out a very strong statement against the topic
		
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			of surrogacy.
		
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			And he said, like I quote, I deem
		
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			deplorable the practice of so-called surrogate motherhood,
		
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			which represents a grave violation of the dignity
		
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			of the woman and the child based on
		
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			the exploitation of the situations of the mother's
		
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			material needs.
		
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			That's very strong wording.
		
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			And I know some European countries have their
		
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			own rulings on it.
		
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			American states deal with it independently.
		
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			In Canada, you can't pay for it, but
		
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			it can be done altruistically.
		
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			What is the Islamic kind of mindset around
		
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			this as adoption, as fertilization of eggs and
		
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			egg freezing and things like that become more
		
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			common?
		
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			Where is our stance on surrogacy?
		
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			Absolutely.
		
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			First of all, I just want to say
		
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			Qur'an and Sunnah, the hadith of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ is authentic and sound, is as
		
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			authority as the Qur'an, no different level
		
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			of authority.
		
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			And as some verses are ambiguous, are not
		
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			clear, some hadith are not clear, some ayat
		
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			are obligated, some hadith are obligated.
		
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			You know, and so we have to understand
		
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			both in the light of knowledge, how the
		
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			early generations have understood the meaning of it,
		
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			and applying this to our modern life, this
		
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			has to do with the scholars.
		
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			And that's why this course is about fatawa
		
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			more than laying rules.
		
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			Like there's about 400 something questions I answer
		
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			in this course.
		
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			So it is very go down to every
		
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			day kind of situation.
		
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			What I do if I have to go
		
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			study, for example, on abroad in another state,
		
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			and I leave my family, I'm allowed to
		
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			do this.
		
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			I'm allowed to have a night shift to
		
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			work.
		
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			So it's a very specific to, not just
		
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			work rules are for women, one, two, three.
		
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			No, we deal with real issues in the
		
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			course.
		
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			So, but as the rules, I just want
		
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			to make sure to understand that.
		
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			Surrogates, it means that you ask a woman
		
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			to bear the child.
		
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			And surrogate woman can be the baby's, basically
		
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			the woman egg fertilized by the husband.
		
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			So the mother and the father are married
		
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			to each other, but the fertile eggs will
		
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			be taken and put it in a third
		
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			person's womb.
		
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			That's haram by the consensus of the Muslim
		
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			scholars today.
		
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			Okay, because still the child will be fed
		
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			and will be nurtured by the blood of
		
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			the surrogate woman.
		
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			And that will make her a mother to
		
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			that child.
		
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			And it's not allowed because Nabi salallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam did not allow for a man
		
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			to put his sperm in somebody else's womb,
		
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			which is not halal.
		
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			It's not wa'if for you.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			And this is will be khalq lil-ansab,
		
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			basically mixing between the lineage.
		
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			And it is not allowed by the consensus
		
00:58:42 --> 00:58:43
			of the Muslim scholar today.
		
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			And that's where I stand with the ijma'
		
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			of ahl al-ilm today.
		
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			So it's not allowed.
		
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			And we have to come to a terms
		
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			that, you know what, He creates some of
		
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			us, gives some of us female, some of
		
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			us male, some of us, we use a
		
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			wudu in the Quran when we have male
		
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			and female children.
		
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			And some of us will not have children.
		
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			Even al-ulamah said among prophets and messengers,
		
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			some of them had male only, some have
		
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			female only children, and some of them had
		
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			male females, and some of them had no
		
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			children at all.
		
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			You know, like they said, he did not
		
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			have a child, children.
		
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			So even among the prophets themselves, to show
		
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			that this is how Allah Subh'anaHu Wa
		
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			Ta-A'la created people.
		
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			In any case, so whenever Allah Subh'anaHu
		
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			Wa Ta-A'la did not allow you
		
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			to have children, for wisdom, be grateful to
		
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			Allah Subh'anaHu Wa Ta-A'la.
		
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			Obviously, if the egg from the surrogate woman
		
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			and not related to you, and you just
		
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			take her eggs and fertilize it with the
		
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			sperm of the husband and put it back
		
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			in the woman, that's even more haram, you
		
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			know, clearly haram.
		
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			So in any scenario, surrogate woman is not
		
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			allowed in Islam.
		
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			But if somebody will fertilize the egg outside,
		
01:00:06 --> 01:00:11
			like an incineration children, or you fertilize the
		
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			egg of the wife in a lab, take
		
01:00:14 --> 01:00:16
			a sperm from the man and the egg
		
01:00:16 --> 01:00:18
			from the woman, and they are married to
		
01:00:18 --> 01:00:20
			each other, and you fertilize outside in the
		
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			lab in a tube, then after several weeks
		
01:00:24 --> 01:00:27
			or whatever, they transfer it to the mother's
		
01:00:27 --> 01:00:31
			womb, to your wife's womb, that's allowed, that
		
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			is permissible.
		
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			Freezing the egg, freezing the egg or the
		
01:00:36 --> 01:00:38
			sperm, is something that the ulema in modern
		
01:00:38 --> 01:00:39
			days debated over.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			Some of them said it's allowed, some of
		
01:00:43 --> 01:00:43
			them it's not allowed.
		
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			I lean towards the majority of the scholars
		
01:00:47 --> 01:00:48
			today said it's not allowed.
		
01:00:49 --> 01:00:51
			And most of the fiqh council said it's
		
01:00:51 --> 01:00:52
			not allowed.
		
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			If it is, we'll be freezing it.
		
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			Let me just retract this back, because you
		
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			have the general fiqh council in the Muslim
		
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			world said it's not allowed.
		
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			You have a fatwa committee in Egypt, for
		
01:01:09 --> 01:01:10
			example, said it's allowed.
		
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			By looking at, there is a detailed discussion
		
01:01:14 --> 01:01:16
			about this in the course, especially the course
		
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			about entrusted fiqh of children, more detailed discussion
		
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			of those.
		
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			But the position that I lean towards, it's
		
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			kind of middle between the two.
		
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			Because one of the major reasons that the
		
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			scholar said it's not allowed, because they said
		
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			there is a possibility for this frozen egg
		
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			to be used by someone else.
		
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			There is possibility.
		
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			And that possibility is a possibility to be
		
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			used by, he said, even, even I asked
		
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			some Western scientists and doctors, he said, yes,
		
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			there's rules and regulations, but even the possibility,
		
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			it still exists.
		
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			And there is even incident.
		
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			If you look and you read about this
		
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			issue, there is incident of, you know, a
		
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			mistake been happened.
		
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			So Sharia looking for protecting the leader.
		
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			So they said, but I believe if it
		
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			will be protected for a short period of
		
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			time, and that's, many scholars said that.
		
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			Let's say, you know what, because you take
		
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			samples and you're going to try to do
		
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			artificial, you know, personalization in it too.
		
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			You need multiple samples.
		
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			So you freeze them instead of every time
		
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			you take and you extract and it's like
		
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			expensive and you freeze them.
		
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			And when the things succeed, you get rid
		
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			of the rest.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			That's allowed.
		
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			And also it became something also very, let's
		
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			say there is a woman, worry that she
		
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			is, if she find a way to guarantee
		
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			a hundred percent that this egg of her
		
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			or this sperm of her will be safe
		
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			and secure a hundred percent or like, like
		
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			95% over time, like something like that,
		
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			like I'm very sure it'll be secure and
		
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			it will be terminated by the time she
		
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			died.
		
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			I believe it's allowed.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Let's say there is a sister.
		
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			Her age is 34.
		
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			She's not married yet.
		
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			But what if I don't marry until my
		
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			40, maybe my 40, I do not, my
		
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			chance of fertilization became less.
		
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			Or the quality of your eggs decreases as
		
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			you age.
		
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			Decrease or amend.
		
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			So I want to freeze this.
		
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			So when I get married, in case it
		
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			did not succeed, I can use that.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			I am, for example, going to go through
		
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			chemotherapy and let's say the side effect of
		
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			it, it will prevent or some kind of
		
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			operation that the side effect will prevent me
		
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			from producing your, an egg that can be
		
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			fertilized or my sperm will not be anymore
		
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			because of chemotherapy treatment will not be able
		
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			to produce children.
		
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			So I, you know what, I'm going to
		
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			freeze this.
		
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			When I get married, I can use this
		
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			for my wife and I can make a
		
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			very assurance that this is, would be the
		
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			case.
		
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			I believe it is.
		
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			And as for this rare incident of accident,
		
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			we cannot generalize rules based on a rare
		
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			accident in Sharia.
		
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			In Sharia, always, النادر لا حكم لها.
		
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			Something rarely happened.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			You don't base the rules on it.
		
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			طيب ما هو؟
		
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			There is accidents happen in mixing babies in
		
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			hospital.
		
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			That's right.
		
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			Can we say, rule, you're not allowed to
		
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			have children in hospitals and to be in
		
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			the nursing, like a place and all, because
		
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			there is a possibility of mixing children.
		
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			No, you don't base rules on a very
		
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			rare situation like that.
		
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			So as long as there's rules and regulations,
		
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			it will guarantee you to be protecting this
		
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			eggs.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Also, I don't believe it's allowed for a
		
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			person to freeze the sperm or for the
		
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			husband.
		
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			Then she injected on herself after the husband
		
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			died or after the husband divorced her.
		
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			You know, I still got you.
		
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			You have to pay child support.
		
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			Don't have your sperm.
		
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			It's not allowed.
		
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			So, yeah, that will be not allowed.
		
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			So you see, that's what led the samskara
		
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			to close that door and said, you know
		
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			what?
		
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			Just close the door because what if after
		
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			he died, then she injected herself on that
		
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			and now she has a child.
		
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			Now he won't share or can he inherit
		
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			or cannot inherit.
		
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			These are all these things complication.
		
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			So let's close the door for this.
		
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			I see that.
		
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			But as I said, that scenario that I
		
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			gave you, I think it is reasonable.
		
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			It is somewhere in the middle between this
		
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			opinion and Allah knows best.
		
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			This is a very interesting topic.
		
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			I know it's not as, you know, common
		
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			or whatnot, but it's important for the community
		
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			to have this kind of guidance and to
		
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			have this resource that we have through this
		
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			course.
		
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			For being generous with your time with us
		
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			and to everyone else who's, I know people
		
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			are sharing some of their own personal struggles
		
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			with some of these topics, some of their
		
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			own challenges and, you know, issues that they've
		
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			had throughout their lives when they've been, you
		
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			know, you know, spoken to and not the
		
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			best way or not the most nuanced way
		
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			when discussing these things.
		
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			So does that come up here for being
		
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			here in this space?
		
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			I hope that you guys all found benefit.
		
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			And I know there's so many more questions
		
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			that have come up around IVF, around freezing
		
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			eggs, around a lot of the other topics
		
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			that we discussed already around divorce and all
		
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			these kind of nuance, all these specific questions
		
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			about things that you guys are struggling with.
		
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			I do encourage you guys once again, register
		
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			for Complicated Online, the A to Z of
		
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			Modern Women's FIC.
		
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			The course is a lifetime access course, inshallah.
		
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			So as soon as you register, you get
		
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			access to everything and you can start to
		
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			take it at your own pace.
		
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			We have a Q&A that's scheduled at
		
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			the end of this month, September 24th.
		
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			So I think that's also a Tuesday, inshallah,
		
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			around this time.
		
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			So you can submit questions that you didn't
		
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			find answers to in the class and make
		
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			sure that you are fully satisfied leaving the
		
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			course, inshallah.
		
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			I do recommend you guys make that part
		
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			of your experience and the course is dropped.
		
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			The link is dropped into the chat and
		
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			the price varies depending on the country that
		
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			you're coming in from so that we make
		
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			it more equal to folks who are coming
		
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			in around the world where, you know, they
		
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			don't, maybe don't use the US dollar, et
		
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			cetera.
		
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			So please do check on the link so
		
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			that you can find out more details.
		
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			Please forgive us for any of our shortcomings
		
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			trying to squeeze in such a heavy topic
		
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			in a short period of time to do
		
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			justice to it, to lay the groundwork and
		
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			then to cover a lot of heavy things
		
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			is not easy to do.
		
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			So may Allah reward the shift because I
		
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			wouldn't have touched it with a 10 foot
		
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			pole if it wasn't there, alhamdulillah, with us
		
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			to make sure that we got the proper
		
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			guidance and the proper understanding.
		
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			Inshallah, and when we start the Q&A,
		
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			we will entertain back some of the comments
		
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			and comments on them, inshallah.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Thank you very much and you're always welcome
		
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			and looking forward to see you guys.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
		
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			That was Sheikh Waleed Bassioni, our instructor for
		
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			Complicated Online with Al-Maghrib Institute.
		
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			from everything this course has to offer.
		
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			Jazakumullahu khair for your patience here in the
		
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			chat and for everyone who's been, you know,
		
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			spreading positive energy throughout this webinar.
		
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			It should also be on YouTube, inshallah, shortly.
		
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			So either way, you guys can benefit there.
		
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			And again, if there's anything that you didn't
		
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			get a full satisfaction of, the answers to
		
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			this, you know, in this session, the answers
		
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			to a lot of that is going to
		
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			be in the Complicated Online course.
		
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			Once again, that's al-maghrib.online is where
		
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			you can find out that course and more
		
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			We look forward to seeing you there.
		
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			For now, take care, stay happy, stay healthy,
		
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			And assalamualaikum warahmatullahi