Waleed Basyouni – Is Sending Your Child To A Private Christian School Allowed to Avoid Public School-Ask The

Waleed Basyouni
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The host of a program discusses the importance of protecting children from harm in public schools and advises viewers to purchase the Bible to learn from it. The host also emphasizes the importance of having a strong foundation in one's being before starting to look at other sources for information.
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As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullah, welcome to a

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new episode of Ask the Imam, a program

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Center.

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As-salamu alaykum, Sheikh.

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Wa alaykum as-salam.

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We have a long question, and it's really,

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it's a very difficult question for me to

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read.

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So I'm going to read it as it

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was written.

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So this sister is asking, is sending your

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child to a private Christian school allowed, trying

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to avoid public school?

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The child was suspended from the Islamic school

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in the area.

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And regarding the Christian school, one of the

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requirements is to take a class in religion,

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studying the life of Jesus, peace be upon

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him, based on the Bible.

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And of course, a weekly service every Wednesday,

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which requires also that the child will be

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in the church attending that service every Wednesday,

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I think, afternoon.

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And then she's asking, is purchasing a Bible

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allowed in this case?

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So how do you tackle a question like

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this?

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No doubt, the most important thing to protect

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and to take care of when it comes

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to children is their deen, their faith, their

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aqeedah, their belief, their creed.

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And that's more important than any degree, more

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important than any diploma, nor more important than

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anything else, education, whatever.

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So by putting your child in such environment,

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I see there's a very high level of

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risk for this child to be impacted and

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confused, the least we can be saying, and

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also to be participating in things which is

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not allowed.

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So if you tell me I'm going to

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put him in a Christian school, but you

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know what?

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He's not going to be required to participate

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in going to church or to pray to

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Jesus or to services or to do some,

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you know, theological studies and anything like that.

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No, they will allow him to be excused

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because some Christian schools do that.

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Even in Middle East, I know people who

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study in Christian schools and in Jordan, Egypt

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and Palestine, stuff like that.

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Here in some Catholic school, good private school,

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but they will accommodate a Muslim or a

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Jewish person, so they will respect their theology.

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If that's the case, you know what?

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Maybe we'll say if there is really need

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for it, it's okay.

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But with what you're describing, no, I don't

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believe it's allowed for you to send your

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child there, put him in public school, put

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him in an online school, like homeschooling, you

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know.

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And this is a message to also to

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the Islamic schools.

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I'm not going to judge them because I

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don't know why he was suspended.

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Maybe he's not behaving good enough, but I

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just want us in Islamic schools and Muslim

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organizations to understand sometimes when we take a

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strong decision like that, we might push people

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to go to a very, very extreme, you

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know, choice in life.

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So I am for being following the rules.

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I'm, you know, sometimes that's the right thing

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to do, to dismiss somebody or to suspend

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them, sorry, suspend a child.

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But I hope this was done for the

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right reason.

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And may Allah make it easy for you

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and your family to protect your child and

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all our children.

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She's asking about purchasing a Bible.

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Purchasing the Bible.

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You are allowed to purchase the Bible to

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learn from it.

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It's like any book of knowledge.

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You purchase it for that purpose.

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But if this been said, you have to

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make sure that you have already a good

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foundation and aqeedah.

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Because when the Prophet saw Omar, and that

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was the beginning of Islam, according to many

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of the scholars, and Omar was looking at

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like a chapter, like in his hand, part

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of the Bible, and Bible in a general

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sense, like it could be the Jewish Torah,

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Old Testament.

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Or you have a doubt about what we

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have.

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And that's because the Prophet wanted to protect

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the religion from being mixed with anything foreign

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to the message of the Prophet at that

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time.

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So there were strict rules.

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After the Prophet died, we see there is

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a leniency from the sahaba, later sahaba, involved

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in like reading the books of Ahlul Kitab,

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acquiring them and stuff like that.

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But from this we learn something.

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It's important for someone has to be, make

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sure that you have a very strong foundation

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in your being before you start looking at

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other sources when it comes to theology and

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aqeedah.

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Very good.

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That's the bottom line basically.

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Yes.

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Thank you.

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You're welcome.

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Thank you very much for your questions.

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We'll see you next episode.

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