Waleed Basyouni – Is Halloween Permissible for Muslim Families

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The celebration of Halloween is a popular celebration for children, but there is some debate about its origins. The speakers discuss burying children during celebrations, discomfort in giving children candy, and the use of decorations to avoid imbalances. The speakers also touch on discomfort in giving children candy during Halloween celebrations, and the importance of protecting children from the event. The speakers emphasize giving children candy and mention a model for children to play with, while also asking for guidance and protection for their family.

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			.com As-salamu alaykum, Shaykh.
		
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			Wa alaykum as-salam.
		
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			So we're coming to the end of October,
		
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			and you know, this is the time for,
		
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			you know, a celebration that the society here
		
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			celebrates, which is Halloween.
		
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			And so what should we do as Muslim
		
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			families, and we have kids that see other
		
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			kids go around the neighborhood collecting candy, wearing,
		
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			you know, weird costumes, it's all fun and
		
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			stuff.
		
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			That's how they look at it.
		
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			So what is the permissibility of participating in
		
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			something like this?
		
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			What if you're not participating, but you're in
		
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			your home, and kids come and knock at
		
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			your door, and they want candy?
		
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			What do you do?
		
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			And how, if you don't want to do
		
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			that, what do you advise?
		
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			Very good.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Halloween is basically a very well-known celebration,
		
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			you know, a season for fun, for costume,
		
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			for, you know, in modern days.
		
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			And there is a lot of debate on
		
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			the original, where it's originally coming from.
		
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			It's celebrating the souls of the dead comes
		
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			back and celebrates them.
		
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			What this has to do with, you know,
		
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			some people referring back to satanic worshippers and
		
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			things of that nature, and you can see
		
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			the amount of images associated with blood, killing,
		
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			witches.
		
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			Vampires.
		
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			Vampires, stuff like that.
		
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			I'm always wondering, Shaykh, can you imagine if
		
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			Muslims' Eid, associated with blood and killing, and
		
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			head chopped off, or like, scallops, like *
		
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			stuff like that.
		
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			What is going to be the news?
		
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			How * Muslims, they love, thirst you for
		
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			blood, they are terrorists, they are this, they
		
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			are, all the ugly things.
		
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			Images of beheading and stuff like that.
		
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			All was associated with violence.
		
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			Why Muslims are so violent and love blood
		
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			and love, like, you know, killing and stuff
		
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			like that.
		
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			But when it comes to other culture, no,
		
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			it is cool.
		
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			It is like, you know, it is so
		
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			biased.
		
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			But anyway, regardless.
		
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			So, the question is, is it today is
		
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			still associated with this kind of belief, the
		
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			Halloween?
		
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			Yes, in certain parts of the world, you
		
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			know, it looks like Halloween is still associated
		
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			with the satanic worshipping.
		
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			It is still associated with this kind of
		
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			haram and kufr beliefs.
		
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			But definitely in the general society here in
		
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			America and other places in the world, it
		
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			is not.
		
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			Like, when kids go out, nobody thinks about
		
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			what Shaykh is a satanic worshipper or anything
		
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			like that.
		
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			Definitely it is not.
		
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			So, and I am saying this because not
		
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			to say it is halal or haram, but
		
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			also because if you do this as a
		
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			part of satanic worshipping, it is a kufr.
		
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			If a Muslim participates, it is a kufr.
		
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			But if it is not associated with that,
		
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			it is not related to that, you are
		
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			talking about things which is makrooh or haram
		
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			or things of that nature, but it is
		
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			not a kufr that take the person out
		
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			of the fold of Islam.
		
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			And by the way, some Muslim country, they
		
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			do Halloween, but not the way it is
		
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			here.
		
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			But they go out for candy.
		
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			In some country, they call it gargan and
		
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			stuff like that.
		
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			And in some Gulf country, it could be
		
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			a culture or something that they adopted from
		
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			the British when they colonized the east side
		
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			of Arabia in the Gulf country.
		
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			Maybe, I don't know the root of it.
		
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			But it is interesting, like I grew up
		
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			in the east side of Arabia, and they
		
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			used to have that in Bahrain and Kuwait
		
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			and in some areas.
		
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			They have that in October.
		
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			They bring like candy for kids and stuff
		
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			like that.
		
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			But it is nice.
		
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			They said, Something like that.
		
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			The kids make dua for you.
		
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			If you give us candy, may Allah let
		
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			you go to Mecca to make hajj.
		
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			Here, they stone your house if you trick
		
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			them and you don't give candy.
		
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			But anyway, going back to the topic.
		
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			So, also this is something, the way it
		
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			is celebrated today, is not part of Islamic
		
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			culture, Muslim culture, not part of the religion,
		
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			obviously.
		
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			So, celebrating it will be something that it
		
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			is between something that's haram, forbidden, not allowed.
		
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			Or those who will be more lenient with
		
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			kind of celebration, non-religious celebrations, and they
		
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			define this as a non-religious will be
		
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			highly disliked, something that is disencouraged.
		
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			Obviously, there is other issue related to Halloween,
		
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			which is the concept of how dangerous is
		
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			not safe in many times.
		
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			Also, the concept of going and begging and
		
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			asking people for things, which is not something
		
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			in Islam encouraged, a habit, associated with all
		
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			these waste of money.
		
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			And also, a costume that is not allowed,
		
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			the costume of which that's haram, sihr, magic,
		
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			killing, and all these things that is not
		
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			permissible in Islam, actually, as a costume.
		
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			And it promotes and make things which is
		
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			kufr, like magics and sihr, as something cool,
		
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			which is not right.
		
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			Or killing people, drinking people's blood as something
		
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			okay, that's not allowed in Islam.
		
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			And making it in the mind of the
		
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			kids as something that's okay, cool, it's not
		
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			something right in our religion.
		
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			So, I do believe the Muslims should not
		
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			participate in celebrating Halloween, in that sense, in
		
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			this sense, by initially going out and putting
		
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			costume and going to home and houses and
		
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			stuff like that, buying pumpkin and crafting it
		
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			and putting it out with candles and stuff.
		
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			I don't believe that's allowed for a Muslim
		
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			to do that.
		
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			But if some kids or people come to
		
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			your house and ask for candy and you
		
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			happen to have a candy and you give
		
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			it to them, is that celebration?
		
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			I don't believe it's a celebration.
		
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			You are allowed to give them candy if
		
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			you have.
		
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			People asking you, this is good.
		
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			I don't think that's participation from you.
		
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			You don't need to give them lectures about
		
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			Islam.
		
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			Kids, there's little kids, when they ask for
		
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			a candy, they don't want you to give
		
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			them a book about, you know...
		
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			How it's not permissible to...
		
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			No, or Islam and how to be a
		
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			Muslim, you know, something about Islam.
		
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			That's not the right time for da'wah.
		
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			It's not a da'wah opportunity.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			I think I agree with you.
		
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			Yeah, so that's my personal opinion.
		
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			It's not about haram, but that's my personal
		
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			opinion.
		
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			I think it's too much.
		
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			Yeah, you know, you don't have almost a
		
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			trick.
		
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			You can treat if you want, you know,
		
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			if you happen to have.
		
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			Is that celebration?
		
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			I don't believe...
		
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			Celebration, if you go and you put a
		
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			candy outside in a format, the way we
		
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			put it out, the people who are celebrating
		
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			Halloween and putting it out.
		
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			Another thing will be, I want to mention
		
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			this because a lot of people ask me
		
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			as well, in businesses, am I allowed to
		
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			put this kind of decorations, you know?
		
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			If you have employees who are not Muslim
		
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			and they do this around their desk or
		
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			front desk or that's...
		
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			It became part of marketing your businesses.
		
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			I don't believe it's in the haram area,
		
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			like sin and not allowed.
		
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			First of all, this is their space.
		
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			This is their...
		
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			Yes, you are the business owner, but this
		
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			is her desk.
		
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			This is her cashier.
		
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			This is her clothes that she wear.
		
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			And that's part of her culture is not
		
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			a Muslim.
		
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			It's up to her.
		
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			You know, sometimes there is a seasonal, like
		
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			there is a pumpkin pies or a pumpkin...
		
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			But that's related to the season, not to
		
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			Halloween.
		
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			Yeah, to the business.
		
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			Is it allowed?
		
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			Yes, it's allowed to do all this kind
		
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			of business related to it, in my opinion.
		
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			And part of where the...
		
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			Especially, I'm talking about people living in the
		
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			West.
		
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			But if you're living in, for example, Saudi
		
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			Arabia or Egypt, and you do that, that's
		
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			not allowed because that's a clear imitation for
		
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			the purpose of imitation.
		
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			Because that's not part of the culture in
		
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			Egypt or in Syria or in Saudi Arabia
		
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			or this country.
		
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			But being here, that's part of the marketing
		
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			season, part of the culture that we're living
		
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			in.
		
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			You are allowed to allow this kind of
		
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			things in your businesses for the need because
		
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			it's the purpose of it.
		
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			It's a business.
		
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			And there is nothing in it haram.
		
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			Just avoid the images and the pictures that
		
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			it's haram in itself.
		
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			But if just a spider and trench coat
		
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			and stuff like that, that's fine.
		
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			I hope that helps people to navigate the
		
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			holidays.
		
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			And also, when your kids have this kind
		
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			of the...
		
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			I just want you to know, for your
		
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			kids, it's not a logical thing.
		
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			You don't give them a debate or a
		
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			lecture about how the original of Halloween is
		
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			Kufur and shaitanic worship.
		
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			Kids are not going to see that.
		
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			They don't understand that.
		
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			It's an emotional thing.
		
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			For them, it's about fun.
		
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			It's for them about having a good time.
		
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			So when you lecture them, you don't win
		
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			them.
		
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			What you need to do, you provide something
		
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			else to do fun activity.
		
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			Hey, let's do this before or after.
		
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			I promise you guys we're going to get
		
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			some costume calls when they go on sale.
		
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			And we'll do that later on.
		
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			We'll have it.
		
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			Some masajid do some activity around that time.
		
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			I think we have here a click and
		
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			treat.
		
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			And it's not to celebrate it because...
		
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			It's click, not trick.
		
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			Click, yeah, not trick.
		
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			I think that's something that makes our kids
		
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			involved.
		
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			And we don't allow costume.
		
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			But we do some activity, some work, because
		
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			the kids need something to fulfill them.
		
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			This model is not needed in a country.
		
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			They don't care about Halloween.
		
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			They don't know Halloween.
		
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			But it is, in my opinion, something that
		
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			can help our kids to have fun, to
		
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			have a good time.
		
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			And I really appreciate that effort put by
		
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			parents, organizations, to provide a good alternative, halal
		
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			alternative for people.
		
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			We're not trying to say halal Halloween or
		
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			halal Halloween, whatever.
		
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			It's not about that.
		
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			Halloween is not about Halloween.
		
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			It's about my kids.
		
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			It's not about celebrating the Halloween.
		
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			It's about protecting my kids.
		
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			These people who, you know, like they go
		
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			at us and say, oh, you have click
		
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			and treat, you might as well call it
		
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			halalween.
		
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			Yeah, halalween.
		
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			No, it's not about the Halloween.
		
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			It's about our kids and supporting our kids
		
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			and protecting them and providing something for them.
		
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			Because, again, it's not a logical debate with
		
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			the kids.
		
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			It's an emotion.
		
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			And you have to make sure that you
		
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			win them and you appeal to their emotion
		
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			to the fun part that they want without
		
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			doing anything haram.
		
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			We're not talking about doing anything haram here.
		
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			You know, so that's my position in this
		
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			area.
		
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			And Allah knows best.
		
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			And I ask Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			guidance and protection for all of us and
		
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			our family, our children.
		
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			So my younger daughter, not the youngest, the
		
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			younger one, Zaina, she came to me and
		
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			says, I know we don't celebrate Halloween.
		
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			We're not going to.
		
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			But I'm asking for an avocado costume.
		
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			Can you buy me an avocado costume?
		
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			I said, yeah, when it gets on sale
		
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			after Halloween, I'll buy it for you.
		
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			Wow, that's a very specific avocado costume.
		
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			That's interesting.
		
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			Okay, that's nice.
		
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			Thank Allah.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum.