Waleed Basyouni – Excellence and Flaws Series 06
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The speakers discuss the importance of fulfilling and avoiding harm agreements in various political environments, including those where promises are broken or misrepresented. They stress the need for people to fulfill their own guarantees and avoid harming others, and emphasize the importance of avoiding promises in certain political environments. The segment also touches on issues such as divorce, and the potential consequences of sinister and false accusations made by people in public. The speakers emphasize the need for people to trust and avoid harming others, and highlight the negative impact of media power on people's lives.
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Carnaby hora de la one who Kala Kala Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. I told Mona Lisa that either had the Takeda Allah for either to me and Han.
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the Hadith that we were talking about it the burden of the law and the prophets of Salaam said three are there are three signs of hypergrid. When he speaks, he tells lies. When he makes promise he broke, he broke it or he breaks it.
And when he entrusted he betrays his trust
report by Buhari will Muslim and Abdullah member of the National race in the Hadith, but with the addition set forth for or or there are four signs of hypocrite about
any minute nifa and what did he add? He added what either house or not fair job and when he disagree with you.
He is abusive, abusive.
So this is basically or behave in very insulting and abusive manners.
We talked about flying
Luna Mara Himalaya, Tara Vitali Phil Kelly, debated what is the definition of Kevin
and I look at my ask you guys
military, what is considered lie?
How would you define lying? What's lying?
What that means
when you say something is not true.
Okay?
And how would you define truth
different than reality? Is the truth is the truth. What's different than reality? Or what is different than what you believe?
When you say lying is not saying the truth. Any lying is to say something different than the reality
or it is different than what you believe.
Or do you think is reality?
For instance, if I say nobody in my office right now
okay, because I locked my office there's no way I'm outside
but we found out that somebody there right now Hollywood Dean went inside a show by him just walked in to look at the book.
Did I committed a light
No, but based on your definition I did because I said something different than what the reality is.
So
where did that
name come from Kevin
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some people said is to tell something different then what's the reality is this is you cannot define this as mad means everybody can that can be lie. in a general sense, and it means a mistake.
What does that feel Overton Allah? Al Qaeda? Any aha
for Sierra documentary kept your part. NEH
Mahal KDB Magna Massey with them. That's why you find in several generations between the Sahaba and someone will say to someone you lied. And the meant by lying. You made a mistake. They don't mean you lie, which is the sin the bad man that we'll talk about here. You lie and you said something different than what is the reality as you're wrong.
You gotta but the lie that is harm and sin is to say something different than what you believe is the truth.
I know.
There is somebody in my office right now. I saw them when I'm coming. But I tell you my office is empty.
That's why
because I believe that it is someone there.
You see the difference
as far as it can unfalsifiable nullified
Is there is any benefit from this debate?
Or
it has
it has a benefit
obviously there is a benefit what's the benefit? The benefit is
would you consider fiction books lie
on how long to write fiction books never happen
movies
write
jokes
because all these are made up that's right not true. So there is some people actually said How are you not allowed to have fiction books you're not allowed to there is a you cannot act and you cannot have a drama in a script you cannot always hold on hold on why? Because for them the lying is too
high they said did it happen? No didn't happen. So you're lying.
Let's not lie, the lie is to tell what's different than what you believe is true. And when I say this is a fiction book you and me understand immediately that this is
a made up story I'm not lying.
I never believed that there is somebody who travel and did this and that that you know when I see when I do this script of for acting or something like that everybody knows just an act is not true.
Okay, so when they say joke everybody knows that this joke is made up is not really there is someone from this particular you know,
did this or did that everybody knows just a joke. So it might be how long but not because it's a lie. It might be held on for other reasons because make fun of religion or making fun of someone or people are raised this different case. Okay, but I'm talking about just the definition of life and that's something interesting to keep in mind.
And
by
I did not I didn't mention this last week, so I thought it would be beneficial to
share it with you so the lie is to tell something different than what you believe is true.
Okay.
Or also what other people think or assume it's true because that's a deceiving and it's affordable flying.
By
the second
character trait that it was mentioned in the Hadith that he sets a lot is when he makes that person when he makes a promise he breaks it. Who laughing What
if laugh at what
is keeping a promise. Why do you
like if I promise you something Do I have to fulfill it?
I promised Kalahari a sushi
he says no sushi no sushi. Okay, nothing and I'm not gonna go you know do like $50 sushi. I'm not gonna keep my promise is that how
did I come medicine god he said yeah, absolutely what major censure
it's a major sin.
So, is that is keeping the promise logic or not?
Some of them said yes, it is logic. Some said it is only wajib if breaking the promise will cause harm.
But if it is not gonna cause any harm, it just recommended for you to fulfill it.
Okay, so for instance, somebody would say come to me and said, share
I wanted to Okay, you know what, inshallah I will get you this book.
It's not like your life depended on that book. I didn't get it. I just, you know,
I forgot I didn't put it as priority is not like something I feel it's I must have to fulfill that promise. Okay.
For instance, so they said if the breaking the promises not going to cause harm, it just recommended to keep it.
I'm coming at four o'clock to your house. You are in your house. Are you going anywhere? No, I'm staying the whole day. I'm not doing any of that. You know what my house is for 15 minutes to four. I know it takes 10 minutes. You know what? I got six sons. He's staying at home all day. And I didn't call you anything. I break my promise. I broke my promise. Because I told you I'll be there for I can five or shut up six
some
So as long as there is no harm to the person is not a good man is not a good thing but it's not a sin. You're not. You didn't commit a sin. Other men said no you committed a sin. Because you made a promise and you did not fulfill those who said it's it's wajib they said because Allah subhana wa tada ordered us to fulfill any promise, catalyzed and selected Isra verse 34.
What are takanobu man and Nia teamie lability son had Diablo Why should there have
been in the can Ms.
in Ibiza Salam said, Allah subhanaw taala said, watch out for Bill act, fulfill any promise that you make
your promises. Your prompt your promise is something that you will be asked about
in the law, the economist or any promise you make you since a law will ask me about it. It means it is
the law will only ask you about what he made it obligatory upon you. Not what is recommended. You're not going to be asking the Day of Judgment. Did you pray the sinner Why didn't you pray the sinner know what why didn't you pray Lord awesome and so forth. What is watch okay.
So, here they said that's verse show you that we're fallible at watch or ingested word watch. Also they said, Allah subhana wa tada
said in the Quran and sort of the tober verse 77, speaking about the hypocrites like this, have you thought about hypocrites, also this verse talk about hip hypocrites for acaba, omniva Pon de PUE, being Eli O'Meara, Kona Bhima Hola. Hola, Hannah do mobymax the boon because Allah subhanaw taala have put hypocrisy or made their heart full of hypocrisy as a result of what breaking their promises with a law.
So he made one of the breaking promises lead to what to
hypocrisy and a sham 100 raha Rahim Allah he used this verse to and he mentioned that breaking promises one of the major sin in Islam
john and flattered mineral cabana, either Norman Anwar al Qaeda.
But
also they said since the problems it's one of the clear sign of hypocrisy or hypocrite so that means it is hard to have this
character trait. Other scholars said no only it is how if it causes harm to someone, otherwise it is from the good manners and adopt and etiquettes and generally speaking, these are recommended act. Okay.
And remember, no Rahim Allah said there is an agreement.
Just pay attention to this and know your rahimullah when he say regimental hollyburn deoxit mX shafia em and Jamal
when he said they agree, or there is a consensus many times when he used this term, he would be referring to the shaft to the sharpest colors because he use a sharpie or a hematoma. Almost that is something in the context shows you that he meant all scholars from all different schools. And the men were either insane and che and Lisa Romanian and family and you review it while daddy Khawaja Mr. Happy laugh. Nevertheless, it there's a difference of opinion if fulfilling the promise watch or not as long as the promise is something good not something harmful or about. He said a Shafi and Abu hanifa and the majority will do more Parliament homes to have the senate just recommended not watch
fellow Tanaka who further and further if you did not fulfill it, he just waited it missed opportunity for reward. And it is highly dislike act but there is no sin. But you mean hate who a whole lot. And if he meant to harm someone by that he meant to cause harm to someone he is sending by breaking the promise. And if for example, I told you, Steve Wait for me at four o'clock and I know I'm not coming four o'clock or I didn't care to show up because I want you to you know just to ruin it for you just to miss your weekend that I am trying to harm or for example yashi What am I gonna close the deal on a car tomorrow?
Can you help
You know, if I did not close the deal, I will lose my down payment which is $500 on the car. Sure, what do you want? He said, I want you to lend me $5,000 Okay, I can get you $5,000 no problem. You get to give it to me. Yes, I will give it to you.
That's promise. Okay, by the way premise doesn't mean I have to say the word, I promise you, I promise you. Is that how the old office like, doesn't need to be like any sign language or anything like that.
So
I know if now if I didn't give you the 5000 you're not gonna be able to get the call what's gonna happen to you you're gonna lose your down payment. That's that's harm.
I should tell you, I cannot do it.
But that's harm. And that's how long haven so that's what the law said. If it cause harm, then no, your hammer law said well, they have a Gemma and Hawaii and another group of scholars said it is
among them. Omar Abdulaziz said anybody promise you make is watch
a lot of see and some of them said no. Like even miss root.
Any problem said no if it is harmful, know how the what I just mentioned earlier to then he said what kind of limits would lie do I then elaborate on in sha Allah hota anytime you make a promise, he said if Allah Allah wills, just in case he couldn't show up, he couldn't fulfill it whatever. So you will not be safer that shows as of a mustard field or take the opinion that it is watch it if you make a promise. But if you say in Sharla it's like I swear by Allah I have to fulfill that. But if you said inshallah, even if you break it, there is no penalty on you.
So many therefore human Metallica, this muffled white fella with them in the Rafah. He said if you make the other person feel that you 100% commit and you will do it. You should fulfill your promise. Unless you ask for an extra two for the person to excuse you or to forgive you. Because it became hypocrisy. It became hypocrisy and it's not right so that's what the luminaria Rahim Allah said.
Anil Bahati Rahim Allah mentioned
that, say even Ashura, Kaaba belied all by Heaven and avoid that say, Sure.
Yeah, and he, he he basically made a watch his watch it to be fulfilled. And he said that this is an opinion of a group of scholars from Alibaba. And he'd like to Shana Sherman, I think mirror him a whole lot. Set. One what a laughable idea for how long
to break your promises. How long is a sin, you must fulfill your promise. If you promise them money, or help or anything, you should you have to fulfill your promise. That's why when someone say I meet you in this place at that time, okay, and you became late
You should ask for forgiveness from the person and you should not just don't didn't care.
And he said, It is such a word it means that it is sad that in our culture today, some people said are you coming and coming I promise you then the person who said why didn't Gliese
he said it is like,
like a British promise.
It's an culture and Middle East and some Middle Eastern countries like I know that an Egypt is Arabia and some country, you know, like, more, I think Louisiana it is an hour
promise of a British person, it means a promise will never be broken. When a British person promise you something, they will be on time Exactly. on the spot, that just kind of culturally known to be that way. I don't know about that. But anyway,
but in Western culture in general, there is a respect for promises. That's a good culture and some other culture. No, there is no respect for for promises at all at work. You know, work ethics, you work with a lot of people, they don't care about breaking promises and certain culture or timing, you know, it doesn't matter. You know, even we have the Arab Standard Time. This is standard time.
You know, we have all this kind of Muslim Standard Time, unfortunately otherwise shown that we are homeless. And that's sad, because the Muslims are the one who have been asked to fulfill the promise otherwise, it's a form of hypocrisy can i upon
effort to move a healthful white hole forward?
What really damage your character the most is breaking your promises.
You know, I know that also as a person who work in dour. So many times people like give you promises, promised you to come to volunteer and they don't show up,
promise you to do whatever tasks that you give them and they don't drop the ball.
It is very, very annoying. People do promise you, for example, to come to conference to give talk and the chef doesn't show up.
know whether it's really damaging.
Not even there is no even sometimes sorry.
And it happens. It happens from all kinds of people. So it's not only the average Muslim, even some of the special people who would consider them role model unfortunately.
Breaking promise of two kind.
Remember, Roger Brahim, Allah said that and that's a beautiful point. On snaffled wide identify two types huduma Ania Fini at La.
He makes the promise and he knows he's not going to fulfill it.
I will help. I will come and I know I cannot come
out of a shuttlecock that's the worst one.
Even if he said in sha Allah and His intention not to show up. He is lying. And it is a lie. And it's breaking promise as an amendment. I was at a loss it
the second one. And yeah, it was in the 80. And he Effie.
He made a promise and his intention to fulfill a promise
to my abdulah then something comes up and he changed his mind has planned. So for your money for formulario de la COVID.
Then he basically would break his promise without a valid excuse. And that's also wrong. That's also wrong. But if there is a good excuse for you, you can just say hey, I am excused. I am not like
I can do that. And I cannot show you ask for forgiveness. But what if the promise is a favor?
Okay. is asking you to forgive me a breaking a promise.
Me, I promise
that I will give him
a $500.
On I did not.
You know as a help. I said to him, I'm sorry. I don't think I want to do that. Like medicine?
No. If I told him I said, Hey, I cannot give you the $500
when I said I don't get him pharmacy. Now he's engaged with us. Like if I said I cannot give you $500 I promise you but I can't I'm sorry. I told him
that I could is that a sin?
If it's caused harm, if it's going to cause harm and he know that this is harm, harmful? It would be a sin, go back to the to the to whatever it's not going to cause harm. What about those who Siddons obligation?
They will truly know you have to give him unless there is a valid reason why you don't want to give him because he wastes the money he is this is that. And I do believe in a case like this. You're not sending Why? Because almost $1 pot or Madden machine I mean,
if you want to do a favor to someone, you're not obligated to, to do some to use it, but it's not a good manner. You should keep your word.
I was once with somebody in the car in Starbucks. So he said,
You know,
I will I'll pay for the car behind me.
And he's
great, Mashallah. Then he came to this, hey, I want to pay for the car behind me. How much is it? The lady said $13. He said No, thank you. You know, there's a lot of money.
He has the money to pay is not like gonna break him or anything like that. But he thought it'd be two $3
then he stopped and he said
You know what, I made this promise I'm not gonna break it and he paid for it.
Then ask the person you made the promise to who? He said to myself until law
you know, I'm not gonna break it out of the shape line
because our breaking a break because a ship on your income will fuck. Chapin is the one who told you to be stingy.
So he said, I'm not gonna do that I'm gonna pay for it.
See, that's, I don't need to say why job and Harmon said you should be motivated by the good manners and the end. It's a good character trait that you always your words, control you. I give you my word. I'll do whatever to make sure my words stay. That's a very good that's a very good quality.
But
yeah, hello human darrick mawatha Allah for me.
If there is something prevented you and valid reason, that's not the breaking promise. I lost my money. I got X and I couldn't come You know, something like came up. This is an excuse a valid excuse. If you promise somebody to do something, it is haram. It is haram to fulfill the promise. You must break the promise.
by one of the things that we learn from this Howdy.
By the way, among the aroma who said it does not sin if basically they make a promise and a legend. I think you know what?
I think not changing my mind. I don't think I want to do that. I don't think I want to commit to this. And you know, I can't come I cannot control and you make an ask for forgiveness. That's not a sin. If unhedged Rahim Allah said that.
One of the thing that we learned from this hadith don't make a lot of promises.
Because as you heard a lot when I said your promises, something you'll be asked about. And you don't want to be asked about all this. Just don't make too many promises.
You know, a lot of people make a lot of promises in their life. Don't make very few promises and your life.
Also, part of the promises is never
to make a promise with Allah.
Allah, I promise you to do this. And no doubt this is one of the promises that it is what the most important promise to be fulfilled. Which is the promise with our last panel. Yeah, and era. I promise you to do this. And be careful because some people make promises they cannot keep.
I know a man or I know Yeah, I know him. He told me his story himself. He made a promise to Allah Subhana Allah, that if Allah give him a million dollars, he will give 50% of it for his sake
every year
as long as his income above million 500,000 oh god donation.
I mean, that's very hard promise to keep
it's to give $500,000 is a lot of money.
It is it is hard to keep that 50%
almost like give him 500,000 I'll give him a million dollar. He said Jeff I give the first year the 500 I donated three checks or two checks give it to the organization hamdulillah I'm so hot.
Second year, I think I get like 4035 25 and every year my money goes more on my soccer was less.
And he was crying telling me I don't know what to do here. Should now 100 like me a lot of money is because very hard for me 2.5% is hard.
Not easy.
So sometimes you be careful what kind of promises that you make, especially with a loss pinata.
Then in Derby sallallahu Sallam also mentioned another quality of the hypocrite, which is and when he entrusted he betrays his trust with either
muscle loss.
Training is such a bad quality
and it is close to the breaking promise. Okay.
We're either interested and he make he made the ad it means like, I make an absolute promise to be trusted with this. arbitrary you
and these basically
promises that is based on trust. It is between you and ally between you and the humans. And Allah subhana wa tada said in Medina Sharon a big law he was a man him feminine Padilla. Those who are willing to break their promises with a law for a cheap game
cheap game
Allah made the promise they took a promise from them that they will protect the religion they will deliver the religion but you know what because I want to please my boss my president my king, my culture my whatever I change the message I change the dean
will not he calahorra home Villa Hello What are you calling him on La what I am boo la me Oh pm. What are you the key him Ramadan le Allah will not talk to them or not look at them will not? No, purify them. And they have the most severe painful punishment. A love problem. Praise the believers and sort of mineral in the sewer of the believers. Verse eight, the previous one sort of La Milan verse 77. And this one sort of remote maneuvers, ate a Lost Planet Allah said one lady in our whom Leanna de moi de Muro
de Caro Corona, Del Mar Bella man or actress whether Monica clean and Neville Salah here also they keep the promises and when they entrusted with something they keep it
and sort of the nahan Allah subhanaw taala said so to not have verse 91 Watch out for the delay
when you make a promise with the last panel tada and even trusted a lot of something make sure that you fulfill that what are often called a man about the turkey dia and if you make a We swear you make an oath by a lot Madonna named you should not break that promise that you made with a last metallus name so while I will do this you don't break them
Allah subhana wa tada ne there's many verses that's enough physical body will Muslim from behind Muslim and
they allow on that didn't abuse us a long time. Luckily harder in liwa yo Pia mature and Stiamo pm
each one who betrayed betrayed his country, his society
the army like and the war time those people there will be a flag attached to them in the day of judgment and that flight basically start from there behind where they're behind are all the way above their heads in the Day of Judgment. Why? Because everybody will look at him will be because in the division man no sign no flag you also see this guy with the flag
and why it is as behind out of Kenny showing his our and exposing him like seeing the worst of him because that's the worst thing you can do. Because the betrayal what he does, you are our customer or our balance our time when somebody betrayed his country like treason or betray the army in the in the war, what he does he told people about the hour of that, basically or that the week or the area which is you don't want your enemy to know about but that person who betrayed his country or betrayed his his army, the army he told people about the area where nobody wants to
where you don't want their enemy to know about and the same thing you're our white call our because you don't want anyone in two seats private you want to cover it. That's where the word hour comes from. So in the Day of Judgment, Allah expose him and lead people on our last one of us let people see from him what he doesn't want people to see. Anyway, the point that you will be exposed he will be identify in the Day of Judgment. Look at another Hadith or listen to another Hadith where the prophets of Salaam said man Katara nafsa ma hadden ma hidden if you kill a Christian or a Jew or someone live in a Muslim country who live under the protection of the Muslims. Okay, let me urahara
heterogenic we're enoree had a huge boom in Maserati or ballerina Buhari mean Howdy, Abdullah
Latina be salatu salam said and doesn't care if you kill one of the non Muslims who live in the Muslim community or among the Muslims. And he been giving you know that a man which it means like he is in treaty, he's living with them not expecting any harm. It's not like a war.
zone like like now like you take a visa you enter a citizen you enter the country we're living together nobody expecting somebody we're not in a war with each other. If you kill such person in Ibiza Salaam said the killer will not see or will not even smelled the fragrance of Jenna even though you can smell the fragrance and the from a 40 years of distance and you can imagine the distance that you cover and 40 years of traveling
that's what hundreds of 1000s of kilometers or miles 40 years of traveling millions of miles that's how far this person is from gender.
So it's a way of saying the T's vary and if you are very far away from gender that means Where are you
in a very deep place in Hellfire
a scary part
okay
so that's basically
siana laughing
and in one of the narration way that to minahan if you entrusted him with something he will betrays you or he will betray the trust and one of the wording of the Hadith
Amana is what I trust you with something
and a lot trusted us with things what Allah trusted us with the first thing he trusted us with this religion it's a trust that Allah has given us What is he tried and trusted us with the religion to do what to protect it to explain it to people to deliver it okay to support it.
That's something we've been entrusted with in albanel, Amana Tata, semi lot you will have they will give alpha of a hammer and inside
this amount of this trust, which is the religion, something that we are carrying, it is our responsibility to protect it, to deliver it to explain it to share it, blah, blah, blah. So that's one of that thing that a lot entrusted us with, we should not betray that trust. Also, Allah subhana wa tada
said, Yeah, you had leadin Amanullah tahunan la hora su what the whole No, I'm Anna de como
tal amoun don't ever betray
someone after you've been entrusted from that person.
To not betray while you are not only know knowing that
last month, I was in Elia morrocan and to Abdul MNF Illa Allah, when somebody interested you something you have to give it back to them.
Yeah, he's had a lot and I couldn't think of a better example than loans.
Yeah, I trusted you. And I give you my loan should to pay me back. I never see you. You never pay me right. Or worse than that. I trusted you with my daughter.
I give you my daughter. I trusted you with my son.
And you betrayed that trust. Or I trusted you to leave the community.
I trusted you with my money. I trusted you with my album my honor my family and you betrayed the trust.
All these are haram anime in the sin in Islam is to betrayal these trust the trust that you've been entrusted with calling the visa salon and this is beautiful Hadith.
called deal a man at illimani Tamarack
while at the Hahnemann harnack.
The process of them said if someone entrusted you with something, give it back to them when they ask you.
And don't ever betray those who betrayed you.
We don't deal with people according to how they deal with us. We deal with people according to our standard, not to their standard.
So if somebody betrayed me, I'm not going to betrayed them.
If somebody lied to me, I'm not gonna lie to them. If somebody cheated me, I'm not gonna cheat on him or cheated him.
I have principle that based on it. I act according to my principle, not according to your standard error principle. And that's very, very important. That's why it's beautiful. When somebody said when people go low, you go high.
You
Didn't go lower
and be so solemn also said and this hadith in Lima Mohammed Rahim Allah
Allah Eman and the mela amanatullah. There is no Eman there's no faith. For those who have no Amana you cannot trust them.
That's why Nabi sallallahu Sallam said is not a moment the one who's neighbor can feel trusted can trust him or I don't feel safe from you.
You can be a believer and your neighbor can even feel safe from you.
Or trust you.
I mean, if my neighbor is just crazy, that's his problem, but I'm talking about normal thing because you're so suspicious. You're always break promises. You always do this. So people really you have a very bad reputation. That's a sign of a very weak Eman.
When the President Allah Eman as an Imam, Rahim Allah sir, and min min Amana who NASA Allah embassy him what I'm wanting from an honohan Lamia can come in an email. And movement is trusted by people. They trust that person with their family, with their selves and with their wealth. And if you betrayed them, that's a sign of weakness of email.
And emammal Debbie Rahim Allah mentioned this as one of the major sin in Islam is betrayed the trust and the Hornet Amana and he mentioned it as number
34 in his book, The major sense
buy
one also have the
format, one of the format or the manifestation of portraying the trust that I trust you with secrets and you explosive?
Yeah, I was married to you. And you know, my secrets, my private. And you got to tell people, I'm your counselor, and you go tell people
I trusted you and I open my heart to you and use this against me.
between spouses or between friends. You know, this email was a private conversation, this chat was a private conversation. You take it and you put it in social media.
And unfortunately, we chill stuff like that, on social media,
which hear that when people are trusted, you know what I whatever it is, it is this is one sin, let's say I have a conversation which is not appropriate.
That's a son in itself or whatever it is. But also exposing that to people. It's another sin
on you.
And we should recognize that and we should not encourage such behavior.
Okay, nw sasaram thought Amana meetings or trust trusted.
So if I have a meeting with people, and we discuss things in that meeting, you know, we were discussing, you know, for example,
should we give him a raise or not?
Should we raise him give him a shot? Come on me and Kabira and, you know, Azad or talk about you know, let's have the board meeting, whatever. Let's see, can we give rise to Cobra imageshack command. I said, You know what, I think check him out. should be taken money from him.
Ask him what he is. Yeah, no, should be reduced to whatever I said. So then imagine then some of the people in the meeting goes to shovel and chicken myself, Alicia, Holly, do you think that you guys should you know, be fired?
Or should be or vice versa? That's how long you can if I say an opinion a meeting, you cannot put it out or you got your Walid said that you guys need to be having a raise and you know, you're underpaid and Neela lalala and you tell me you know, you can't that why this leaking information to the media that you hit in politics?
Is it islamically correct? No. If you've been trusted with that you can betray the trust.
And there is no means don't justify a goal don't justify the means in Islam.
And the last character which is mentioned in the Hadith will fool from Osama when you disagree with that person, that person will be very aggressive
will be very insulting
the reaction will be unpredicted.
And this is very, very hard to see.
And it is very very common unfortunately with a lot of people which it shows you that sign of hypocrisy are common
for children especially when a divorce take place.
Oh my god unbelievable.
Unbelievably willing to say anything.
He will lie she will lie about everything about the finance about that doesn't matter anymore.
Um, plot and will do unexpected things.
You know, he will do whatever it takes to hurt her the most. Take your kids away. She's crazy.
She's this she's this she's that.
You know, recording him.
And, you know, making him so angry. And she knows that you're gonna lose it. And when you lose it, she got the camera. She set him up.
He goes and he you know, claim things that doesn't belong to Him. Sulaiman for jeuveau Kusama. It's a sign of hypocrisy.
very aggressive.
You know what?
You For example, I have a case against you. Let's say you hit my car.
I bring every single problem with the car before and I put it in you. And you know what, I need this, I need this and I need I need a solid amount of $200,000 for my neck for my back for my legs for my misery Ah, for future for psychological damage, which is narrow. If it does happen you deserve but there's nothing I just taking advantage of it.
For June for consola
we disagree in business
in a way what you don't have any papers to prove what you claim. Okay, but we disagree. You know what I'll give you $200 what
you should give me $20,000 now $300 Take it or leave it.
I By the way, I know cases like or similar to these numbers close to these numbers.
Somebody's got a fight with his wife and they go to the court
and she said to the judge, he shifts power. She said to the judge, he is adulterer.
adulterer What do you mean adultery he has another wife in his life. He commit adultery
yeah but after he gets separated he married someone else.
No but it technically by law he should not do that until you know but she called them adultery
within Islam around noon work Samba Xena Kabira to claim someone who was just as adult that's a major sin in Islam, but doesn't care
as long as you give me $50,000
for what otherwise I'm not going to make you suffer
for juvenile Soma, any unbelievable.
And it's unfortunately it is very it's a common thing. And it's a very clear sign of hypocrisy.
After we are best friends let's say we disagree even in fact,
it happened in filk opinions I disagree with you. Oh my god I make you
Yeah, anyone move we'll move today. I made you all the evil names you can think of and description. I just put it on you. Just because we disagree with each other.
I'm talking to someone I have for example, an opinion about certain things.
Even if politically very controversial.
Okay.
I don't know if I should give example or not
out of mind, but I just want
everybody hamdulillah you guys know me
but I want to
tell you, like, let's see
the political change that happened in Egypt that's a real example.
Okay, somebody's pro the new president, somebody's pro the old president.
I can debate that I can explain my position, but for you to come and accuse me
with things that I knew know that I'm far away from it.
You're a terrorist. You're this you don't love your country, your betrayal, you you only hate your country. I'm not like that.
Or the vice versa, you know, because Oh, you are just you know, hater. You're killers. You're a baby killers. You're this. I'm not any, it is sometimes for juvenile Soma.
Or somebody try his best to run an organization. It didn't do good job. He lost his his became the worst organization in the world and we start attacking them.
That's not right. And I can think of many many example what is exactly alpha julho. sama means alpha judo. So my and you go beyond the limit. So you start lying. You start making accusations, you start following assumptions. You start you making things way bigger than what it is real. The real issue is, and this is one of the clear sign of markers. And this is can be in the dean and the dunya.
Bullying
people. Its former Fujio from Kosovo.
Current NaVi Salam manha Sommerfeld bouton way mo Lamia selfie so the La tenza
when I am arguing with you are being aggressive even I know I'm wrong you are you are basically at that point at that time hated by a lot until you stop
woman Anna and a whole slew
of other men Allah or I help you
to have that to do to insult people to whenever they disagree i helping you
I'm aiding you even though I know you you you basically have crossed the limit
like for instance today there is people for example accusing this assignment groups of this with the Muslim Brotherhood people not happy with them that is for juvenile Osama there is like all evil in the world habit because of them yeah, you don't like them you don't agree with them. That's your you have the right to criticize them but to bring every evil in the world happening because of them and you start making things up No.
Hold on
even the cafr we don't do this with them. And Fukushima with anyone Muslim non Muslims you know enemy or friends we don't do that.
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denisha de la Salma the most hated one by Allah the one that you disagree with he go so aggressive against you. I became so aggressive against you
can have a barrage of Rahim Allah and for sure and yada yada and it helped them there
was what you say you wrote about them and all about
why they made really Hill Kelly
is that for Judo being aggressive and and cross the limit? Whenever you disagree with someone by making the truth falsehood and falsehood is truth.
Especially if you have that ability. Some people are bullying some people by they have that strength have very strong personality.
They can just you know be so aggressive against the other be especially if the other person is calm and like not a week.
And some people have this ability when they talk they make you sound oh he's right. And actually is not.
He is lying.
Also, yeah. And he shared with me about him Allah said, Allah who soon jofa sama
by a what is here hate it is not that you argue with those who disagree with you.
It is when you argue argue with falsehood that you argue with insulting and aggressively and you go beyond the limit and what is appropriate.
But arguing for when I disagree and argue for my right, that's okay.
Also, like I give you an example also of when we disagree with each other, I don't fulfill the rights. Like I had a very bad experience with my wife
hypothetically
because she's listening. Okay, if I have a fight
Okay, if we had a fight, so I would say you know what, hey, listen,
sister. Okay, you know I'm not giving you any money
why am i right now?
You know what? You're not allowed to leave the house
you're not going to see your kids
what Why? Just because I disagree with you. See, I'm start using my right and forced I'm going beyond the limb that's that's not a lot. That's a sign of hypocrisy
part of Fukushima. I make up stuff
like complete lies. I mean, you know what? I don't like you I disagree with you. We break our partnership or we work together we don't work together anymore. I go around you know what he used to steal he's this he's not trust and all this like, had a minute for juvenile kusuma
also from for juvenile Soma. It did nice.
Well, Bhutan so when we disagree with each others, I go to the social media or in the media. And let's say I'm I don't like republican or I don't like Democrats. You see it clearly. You don't like Biden or you don't like Trump they don't like each other. You do see what they do to each other sometimes on the media
that's an Islam if there is a good Islamic etiquettes that will not be allowed that's haram
to assassinate his character
this this this not acceptable in religion.
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fudo sama and Terra del have new cosmic
Jani I don't accept the truth just because I don't like you. Even though what you're saying is correct. And I rejected
you know what, I don't want it from you.
I'm going to deny just because you said it.
That's part of the alpha joyful hustle. That's part of the beat going beyond the limit of when we disagree with each other. Also, among that the human part I make it so big.
Even though it is minor or small.
You know, maybe it's just it's a it's a minor bidder I emitted as the biggest goof around the world
as of the worst sin in the world.
No, come on, put it in the right size.
Also, it's up to one zero cost me Melania exam will be razani only. That I always you know, when I disagree with you, I will always think the worst of what you say and understand it in the worst format.
Okay, oh, and you see this in social media and unfortunately see it from sometimes from people
who supposedly to be
so quote unquote, stupid knowledge or drought or after
somebody
sent me not something he put a message out there on Twitter. So, why you are saying that the Sahaba committed coupon
always in the Sahaba file, or making sure
what, when did I say that? You need to know how to respect those the hub
and spoke the Sahaba before you know what Sahaba means.
Before you get to know what's the habit or what's the what's the definition of Sahabi
but there's another point why
How can I say that one of my top that I started about something in my head when I said that my hope was that mistakes can happen from people of knowledge and people who are very well respected and stuff like that. So however they allow nomorobo, even they said things which is considered a shark, when they said, Yasser Allah, and when you say the Sahaba, I don't mean everything also Javi mean about that particular incident, it's obvious unless you really don't understand language.
You know, when some of them said, Yes, a lot, we want a tree to bless our soul like this, we will have a tree and in it, and I said that, and I said that, that does not
undermine the level of the Sahaba at all.
It's still they have the respect.
So even normal people can make mistakes. So the actual the example to prove that noble and high status, people can make a mistake. So for you to bring this in to say, oh, you're trying to put down the Sahaba. I'm giving them as the model like, like the noble.
So some people you didn't assume any See, you see clearly, but because you have something against the person or you want to make yourself to make something out of nothing, or you you basically have to focus on you became you, you you basically you go beyond that limit. And when we disagree with each other.
A lot of people
I can make you bear, like for example, type somebody did something wrong or wrong. Sure, honey, approve the shitter cannot prove the wrong. Why? Because we were sitting there and had our Muslim who said that I proved.
Maybe I couldn't maybe I talked about it, but you didn't hear me.
Maybe I said something about it, you didn't know about it.
Maybe I can't say anything about
you may don't have the power to do that.
And you're not only saying that I didn't speak now you're saying that I approve it.
What would you say?
And that's very common. Today hadn't been for June Fukushima.
And it's one of the sign of hypocrisy.
You know what you guys promote? It's like, when you disagree with me, you try to make me
are you trying to say that because this necessitate that. So that means you believe in it that doesn't work, Laszlo coalescer bellossom for more guidance.
Lazio coalescer bellossom Fatah classical philosophy cannot be louder. So,
what that means it means when I say something or I do something, if somebody said, your statement necessitate that thing, that thing that my statement necessitate? necessitate. You cannot attribute it to the person directly.
And remember Allah agreed upon you cannot say because that necessitate that. It means this is my opinion. That's only allowed in the Quran and the Sunnah, but human beings know.
Why. Because in human beings, we have roughly Are we not aware?
We forget we not we're not thinking about what my statement can necessitate.
But that's not how Allah subhanaw taala isn't sure you
go ahead
out one form of Fujio from kusuma which means that you basically, when you disagree with someone, that your disagreement leads you to go beyond what is acceptable, what is correct what is right what is morally correct, and you start
being abusive and transgress against the person that is to Carnival at bat was so fun. And he wouldn't disagree with you. Because I have a lot of followers on a star bullying, you would willingly with my followers,
hey, by cut the guy don't allowed him
I use the power to abuse you
and threaten you.
Or I go to the government.
I know a guy
who is not a guy in Imam here in Houston.
After 911 I heard him in the radio station in an interview.
This email came in the radio station after 911 he said
the terrorists people, the terrorist was sleeping cells in our Houston. And those terrorists are the graduate from Medina. And the graduate from Saudi Arabia, those who are hobby terrorists, you know, amounts are the one who you should fear and the one who should go after. And you know, after 911 the whole government the whole country was like, angry and just looking for any scapegoat or anyone to like, punch them, you know, and this guy, just take this guy why because he has a problem, a theological problem between him and that school.
Now, every the new you know, because before the selfie of the bad guys, now that one of the bad guy, because I have a problem with that, what, what I do, I go to the governments that are the other one,
just to throw under the bus
as they move through Judah.
You know, in, for example, when I see the government gone aggressive, and I go through, and it's happened, like, sometimes you see it in reality, we have an incident in Houston, and Mr. Mustard, you know, did say something in one of this is also an example he used, he said to something in a sermon was not appropriate, politically incorrect, or whatever it is wrong, the way it was put out there. But he doesn't know very, he doesn't know any better. He doesn't mean any harm. What on some organization came out with a statement saying What? Oh, this Imam is not part of our organization. And this mustard is not part of our organization.
Why? Because there is a history of disagreement between them.
So what they do now and publicly, you know, do them
or I have a problem, you know, me and Kareem, for example, we have a disagreement or something. Then I made a mistake all of a sudden Kenny because he's used to being careful. You know, and he has a lot of connections with the media. He made a press release and bring all the interest stations share when he was found guilty with us on this and I expose him
and I use the power of government or the power of media power of followers against you.
I got once a phone call
from somebody and the FBI.
asking me about something very interesting since your holy dinos on social.
I said Do you know the chef, some somebody told us that ice gh harboring terrorists
and promoting terrorism, terrorism threat
Guys, we know how long time ago, something like that. I said no, is this a good? Good? Good? Why would we know is this good? We know that this kind of people, but this is very weird and it's coming from someone who's like earnings for this any history you can like, what's your thought about both?
Why is th hosted one person to speak, you know, and one of them aside.
And the person wrote an article immediately this he doesn't like HGH. So what he goes he goes to the FBI immediately making
email, whatever I sth invited this Shere Khan, this ship has a connection with the you know, with extreme views and ideas and blah, blah, blah. And he said, the Jews a Christian should be killed with Lola and all this kind of nonsense.
Luckily, I know the person that he's talking about, and I know this particular accusation, it was a false islamophobe take it out of context. And it's even Fox News once put it up and they apologized, because it was clear lie about the person. So I said, Hey, this is the link to that what happened and how they even watch his politics for this and this all made up? Lies.
This is just a personal thing.
How some venture?
Would you just because you have a problem with one organization.
Once I got here, a letter in the master
the judge wants to ask me about the creed and the ideologies of this must connected to extremism over the age. Why? Because in the Sunday school, that's few years back This family is not anymore here so nobody got to know who they are. But you know, few years back like maybe more than five years ago.
why somebody has a fight with this divorce divorce woman or wife. Then he goes to the court and he said she takes him to Clear Lake Sonic center run by some extremist Wahhabi Imam Muslim is ready this year
on my kids will be brainwashed.
fudge up
just because you have a problem with your wife, you accused the whole entire center
on the community who pray and listen. This is for juphal hustle.
Also sometimes is when you disagree with someone or there's disagreement. It doesn't stop at the person you go to the family
you know what is just between me and you? Why would you curse my father or my parents are my family and my whole entire country?
Why would you say bad things about everyone? And it goes to bother the children and no even your wealth somebody will go to your job that we have in disagree Why would you go to my work and expose me at my work ruin my whole life with my partners?
Sometimes also exaggerate in the punishment
I will teach them a lesson because he taught he did something wrong and you punished it no no no no. a villain the job Sam make I'm gonna humiliate them.
I'm going to break them know
when you disagree with something you go on, you expose their secrets and their history. All these are how
you just because it's agree with you, you go on you basically make false reports. Somebody Miskin somebody, you know, I fire someone from my work.
Oh, do you know that? You know, Brother Mohammed, or a murderer, or disease or disease whatever name it is
his business, he never filed tax he hide taxes. He doesn't know anything. He just made this up.
Why? Because he knows it's it's a nightmare to get out of it.
It costs so much money.
We just want to ruin your life.
So all this forms is very unfortunately common with comes when we disagree with each other is how we treat one another.
We should have respect, we should know the limit. And we can argue for our right we can punish those who have done wrong to us. But according to what is just unfair. We don't go beyond that.
Sorry if I go on too many examples. And so all these examples can be a little bit sensitive, but I want to make it as real as it
as possible. And unfortunately it's very real and we live that and we see that
In our life, clinic along Hendrick, I should learn to sort of nobody. Thank you very much