This talk was delivered at the Clear Lake Islamic Center on May 28, 2017.
Ramadan 2017
Waleed Basyouni – Bulugh Al Maram – Book Of Fasting 02
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The importance of fasting and avoiding silly behavior in Islam is discussed, including the negative impact of fasting on one's health and reputation and the use of "ar passion" and "ar passion" as base for sexuality. The conversation includes discussions on the benefits of working from home, the impact of the coronavirus pandemic on the economy, and the importance of social distancing. The speakers also provide updates on the financial results and discuss the need for people to stay at home.
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from the old mustard they need to pick a new habit they can set on this wall here
so they can put their back against the walls and these pillars
Izod today a Mohammedan couple of others not used to that I'm just letting you guys know you can do that
and make sure that you remove these chairs so you can use the wall to set against them
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just as an option for you because I had some people sit on the floor and they told me later on we got sick and the floor is cold and they got
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narrated Abu hora de la Juan Abbas messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam forbade continuous fasting and a man said you fast continuously on messenger of Allah. He replied, who of you is like me? during the night my rock gives me food and drink. When they refuse to stop the continuous fasting. He fasted with them for a day and then another day, then they saw the moon. He then said, if the new moon had not appeared, I would have made you fast more. He seemed to want to punish them when they refuse to stop agreed upon.
Spill Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah hora de wasabi human
this hadith hydatid Mahatma Gandhi
in relation to a concept called louisana which is you continue fasting after a matter of you don't break your fast at Marvel. And they said Yasuda la palabra Judo mineral muslimeen.
So a man among the Muslims said, among the companion, a man said, unknown. We don't know who that person is. And that what we call in science of Hadith and move him. Remove him. Yeah, and he's someone who is unknown, been mentioned in that text, not as a narrator but as part of the story. So we didn't know who's that person is.
And it Rama, Rama, Rama la Tada. This is very loud.
Alert America ma ma ma ma Johanna wrote books on this on those people who are mentioned in the stories and never been named or mentioned who they are. Exactly. So a lot of books to explain who that person is. And among the famous books written in this regard, a book about emammal how people Baba da da da mo lo Tana.
And that
is my hammer. Mentioning all these narrations that mentioned someone that she did he did he asked we didn't know who that companion was. So this book will explain to you who that person is. As well as other America mama law said that as we might come across later on.
So this person is never been mentioned by his name or her name. Why?
Why do you think sometimes the narrator will not mention the name of the person?
He might said something not like not appropriate. So mentioning his name will be kind of
negative, you know, and criticism and they don't want to do that. And here in this had he actually it is in the visa Salam said do not continue fast then this person come and argue said no we want but you you're a sort of law fast continuously we want to be like you said this person sounds like someone who's arguing with the process of them is this a positive things or negative things negative. So sahaabah the ally don't don't like to mention the negative actions of each other's
and that shows you the quality of those great men and woman and then aerators that they don't expose each other. So some of them then something bad, they don't mention his name. They just make him anonymous. So he will not be exposed and that's a very good luck very good manners. Also, sometimes it could be an exposure of something not appropriate. Like the Hadith in Nevis Allah Allah Allah Buhari, that he was once traveling with one of his wives and had induration never said which wife Why? Because while they are walking the camel through so his wife fall off the camel and get exposed
and palha and Anna's the so this and this other person fall on the floor injured. So what do you think the Sahaba did? Immediately they run to the Prophet sallallahu wasallam because the safety of our Salah is number one priority. So when we came to the prophets of Salaam
inhibition dooner Kumara Duna Kumar, even in episode didn't mention who she is even if you mentioned who she has, he doesn't want to expose her because she fell off and exposed. So he said a woman covered the woman covered the one fall hazard I took my radar
My ears are sorry, the upper garment I put into my face
like this. Then I start walking towards her. And when I heard her voice I throw it on her to cover her I said cover yourself when she cover I basically rushed make sure she's okay then I rushed back to the profits assignment so until now we don't know who that woman is. They never mentioned her name why because they don't want to expose her maybe something improper happened to the person so they don't want to expose the person
anyway so this man he said to the prophets Allah Larson and that was jasola you
continue fasting
so the Prophet said to them do not continues your fast but this man came together so lava do you continue then he said and Who among you like me
I spend the night yes I never I didn't eat anything in the night but a lot provide food and drinks for me
so the insisted in the process of you absolutely want to continue faster we want to be like you
faster, there is a greater reward in it. Okay, so we want to fast more. So in addition, sometimes you want more Okay, fast you want more tomorrow? No no breaking fast. So now you can imagine 48 hours nothing. You want more large fans? Then they saw the new moon the eighth comes on third night. He said if the healer wasn't seen I would have continue just to teach you a lesson. Kill Muna kill at home and you're preventing me was angry at them some a lot of your audios under this heading and Buhari will Muslim if you divide in Buhari on low mood there be a shadow lava salt to his son and yet
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if the month would have continued I would have continued forcing you and pushing you too fast with me continuously for the rest of the whole month. Until you learn the lesson never ever
be strict. And what I'm not any someone who is going deep or going beyond that. What is easy.
So I will not gonna let you be so strict upon yourself. Like until you learn your lesson. Never act like this again.
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when he sets a law to sell them
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told them a lot provide food and drinks for me I live in America mama said what this means? It means that individual Salam literally Allah give him food and drink
some of them I said yes a lot bring him food and drinks from gentlemen the tea feed him and he quench his thirst with water from gentlemen and food from and fruits from General. But this opinion in my opinion is not a very strong one. Why?
Because if in a B cell allow Alibaba to sell them literally eat from Jenna and drink from Jenna, he would not be
fasting
and the whole point that they want to continue fast can you assume salasar lips so wouldn't be literally can call him fasting person.
What that means it means that the loss of Hannah would Allah provide food and drink, I replace the effect of food and drink on the body by providing him certain high spirituality providing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with a connection, a special connection with the last panel to honor that he doesn't think about these materialistic things anymore, that he's so into the rebound so into the draft, so into the dicker say so into the year after that he doesn't feel the pain of the dooney he doesn't need what people need in this dunya anymore. It's like when you hear the story and berhadiah him a whole lot. Just this is an example of something beyond way beyond Prophet
sallallahu sallam, or less than the process of amendment.
Al Bukhari you suddenly enjoying his Salah so much. He realized later on that he was stung by a scorpion several times. I will lie I'll head to Napier it
I didn't even felt it because I was reading
so sometimes when you are spiritually so high so connected, you didn't even feel what normal people feel. Okay, so the Prophet sallallahu Sallam here saying that a lot provide me What? as a replacement like a food and drink, but not physical like tangible liquid you have in dystonia, but something very different.
Also an obese have a lifestyle of like not like us, in a sense, his strength for England nebia Salalah to suddenly overturn Athena badulla. appeal.
His strength equal to 30 man 40 man sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when it comes to a bar with a bad deal in the world, Korea, who what that Athena medulin Hello bar, Tara port. Alberni Rajan Allah, this person is basically be giving the strength of 3040 man when it comes to the worship of Allah subhanaw taala that's why I used to pray and the night long prayer, not average person can do that something special about the prophets of Solomon's body that is not shared by others. So that's why he was able to fast several days continuously without drinking or eating. In the early time in Islam,
Nabi sallallahu alayhi wa he was in the early time in Islam. If a person if a person Miss if part time you miss a part time, you cannot eat until next day.
If mother comes and you don't break your fast you cannot eat until next day
in the beginning of the ruling,
so a man was sleeping after our solicitors while waking up for a spot. He overslept.
And he was so tired already.
So when he missed a spot, he said Wally yeah and What a loser I am today.
faster by no show, nothing in the night. By the midday he fell unconscious.
After that, Allah subhana wa tada made the rule work Kuru
Mata Museum in LA.
A lot tell them to eat from the time of the edk recognize the light of the morning, from the night from the darkness of the night until that, the brightness of that
so the whole night they can eat and do whatever they want.
So we know that it's hard for people so for some people to say we want to continue the fasting in obese or sunlamp want to teach them the lesson by learning
And fast for several days. So what's the ruling in regard to continuing fasting
and Odin? Oh well the first opinion it is forbidden and that's healthy for him molars opinion and Matic and Shafi and if you fast after you committed a sin because in Ibiza Salam forbade them from fasting and because in order for us a clear order to hasten to if bar okay and he said so Allah Salam when the night comes from here and the day goes from there the daytime goes from there the alphabet lady woman haha well I mean Hannah after aside the fasting persons his fast ended
so that's because of that lm acid hollows
it means it's forbidden and Hannah did a poodle no it is disliked but it's not how long how
why and Hannah Bella would say it's not forbidden it's only dislike kiobel Cara Why?
Because in the B cell Allah seldom refuse for them to continue their fast rotten bacon
out of mercy to make it easy on him so that description out of mercy out of rock might means not something must just recommend number two because in the Bissell ally send them said okay let's fast they didn't let me sell sell them let them fast continuously a day until
they didn't do that. That's right if continuing fasting is how long I wouldn't let them do the Hara.
And Hannah Bella said no.
You can make them do the macro but not the Hara. So the said since in the bizarre salami let them fast with him continuously tonight. That means it is only McCrone
and he made the point that you should not do that.
There is a third opinion based on integration. And I believe
Rahim Allah mentioned that and what's one wedge in the shafia that didn't be so solid we kept asking him and begging him had I been in a home build with Sani illa acclivity Sol
he allowed them to continue fast until such time. So you break your fast and at time at 3am
so not a joke anymore. If you find someone said I'm fasting in the night.
It can be another joke. Okay. So but is this a good thing to do? Now, the best thing is to break your fast model and I don't think I need to spend much time on this because I don't think anyone here planning to fast after macro.
But closer to this, there is an issue, which is
hunger strike
is hunger strike allowed?
Because that means you're not going to eat or drink. Okay, continuously. So if in Nabhi Salalah, Selim forbade the companions from continue there fast. We can we drive from this rules to what known today as hunger strike.
Just for the record, hunger strike is not something new.
It is something known in history and say Muslim, the famous story side of nebulous when his mother said Carla to a law healer, Obama, Obama and Russia, Russia Robin Hood petrochina Mohammed, she said well I will not drink anything. I will not eat anything until and I will not stay in the shade until you leave Mohammed's religion. Then he told her yo ma Locanda leukemia to Neff siemenpuu Sahaba Nuff said Nuff said
if you have 100 soul that I see them department your body one after another, and you die 100 times I'm not going to leave this religion and he is known to be very good to his mom.
What do you guys think of sides reply to his mother?
was good.
was good.
I forgot your fasting was good or not?
Good. Do you think it's rude?
Do you think it's not appropriate?
Do you think there is any comment need to be made on it? Allah did a lot of reveal verses in the Quran that when he said until today
or signer incense incentive UID. He said that Allah Subhana Allah ordered us to be good to our parents or saw him Boomer for dunya MANOVA
Mr. Mr. law said that a lot after the see order side and the rest of the Muslim to be good to the parents and not because you are firm in your deen and you're saying no I'm not then make this lose that softness in your heart towards your mother or towards your parents
anyway
Maha serene have two opinions about hunger strike. This modern scholars first group said it's not allowed Why? Because if it is a solemn forbade continue fasting of Ramadan because it harms because it's not healthy, it's not good, it's dangerous. The same thing we can do it for any political reasons that you are stands you might take also the set because Allah Subhana Allah said what I took with the embassy from electronica do not cause what cause do not take yourself to thing that will cause destruction, and they don't kill yourself.
And by not eating and drinking that can kill you.
Also, they said because this is an abuse of samsa, blah, blah, blah, you cannot harm yourself. This is a general rules in Sharia, and by hunger strike you harming yourself to the extent that you cannot do certain act of Warships. Like what standing up, you have seen some of the brothers and sisters who go on hunger strike, or some prisoners, they can't even stand up anymore. So we we put tube in their mouth, they sit so they put themselves in a state that they cannot stand up for the solid economic socio economic Sala sometimes even order our anything like that.
And they said this has not no basis in religion. And it is not something came from Islam or Muslims. So that's why they closed that door.
There is another group of scholars said it is permissible,
it is allowed.
And among them, Chef Yusuf Al qaradawi, heavy the whole lot. And chef, Sol hinfo Zan and also some modern scholars lecture Sandman nosler model, and some of the students of knowledge and roadmap of our time as well. They said it is permissible.
What's their proof? They said, because this method, sometimes it is the only effective message and loud voice can hurt.
When it comes to people who treated unjustly,
like many of the prisoner, Palestinian prisoner in the Israeli prisons, nobody would ever hear about them. If they didn't make the hunger strike. in Guantanamo, we wouldn't hear about so many of what's gone on there a violation of human rights if they didn't go into hunger strike. So many of what's happening in
Iraq is government, the Egyptian Government today and all the abuse that they do to their prisoners will never be hurt if they didn't go to hunger strike.
If they pray all night making their own I considered that will not help the case.
But this hunger strike made people forced and that's reality the reality is the case became getting attention public attention. So, they said that since this Maxim is correct, this goal is correct and acceptable and shittier Sharia so there were Sita also should take the same ruling since there is nothing to forbade
this particular methods and they said yes, we know that don't kill yourself and all these things. But this isn't the net in the normal situation. Not in situation like this. But what's interesting that those colors put a cap on to be sharp, allow you at the ILA and abroad to be him.
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the precondition those colors that with the condition that you do not harm yourself
is that if you add this condition, you don't harm yourself, you contradict yourself.
That's right, because you cannot go to hunger strike without harming yourself.
For the sisters, they can come in the same as yesterday of the one. Okay, so if we cannot, hunger strike definitely will harm you. But it should not harm you in a way that it will cause maybe death or near death. That's maybe that's what is. Some of the roadmap might be better if you put it that way.
I don't have a choice in this issue personally I don't have to undergo to it I don't have to. But I just want you to be aware there is to respected opinion among that amount in this area. And I just presented to you everybody's perspective
at this Hadees shows you that the default rules that we all should share the same rules in Islam that's why the Sahaba said yeah, so since you continue fast, we should continue fast.
Okay, and that defeat that idea that some saints some shoe some people a special should have special worship special about the special the special that you know, this concept is not correct,
unless there is a proof for the prophets of Salaam to make him distinguished from others. Also, it shows you some special quality of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that he is not like the rest of the humanity when it comes to the ability to fast several days without eating or drinking.
Also, the Hadith shows us the permissibility of Mirage It
was so that it is okay to ask the scholar to ask the Mufti to challenge the speaker.
He said, Yasser Allah and you
continue fast. So why can't we? he asked.
There's nothing wrong some people, for them the shield or the Mufti or the person said something, it's like Carlos, or animism. It's like a Koran. Now, you can ask and you can basically question and say, what's the proof for that? As long as it is with good manners? luck with the Sahabi dead.
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one, who upon Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah is Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam
means
malam Yaga cola zoo. While I'm Alavi. He was Jehan Felice la la hija de la cama who was yarrabah overhill Buhari wha Buddha, who will love to LA who narrated Abu huraira la to LA one Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if one does not abandon falsehood and action in accordance with it, and foolishness, Allah has no need that he should abandon his food and drink reported by Hon Hari and a Buddha would
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narrated Abu Khalid or the long line, Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, if one does not abandon falsehood and action in accordance with it, and foolishness, Allah has no need that he should abandon his food and drink reported by Al Bukhari in Abu Dhabi.
This Hadith at the moment Buhari Rahim Allah reported in his book and either an Abu Dawood
in a very interesting chapter, a Buddha would report this hadith in the chapter of Babel.
Allah Reba and
he said, this is the chapter in regard to backbiting for the fasting people.
The brother read the Hadith twice. Did you hear in this head if anything has to do with LIBOR with backbiting?
No, he said, if you don't leave azu falsehood, saying what's false, what's lie zodac means lie. If you don't leave if you don't stop lying. Okay, Zoo line, and also you don't stop acting with ignorance gehad and you act or whatever act associated with ignorance and lying and falsehood. There is no need for you to leave your food and drink. But a Buddha would report this hadith under the chapter of Babel Terkel, Riba and aside when the fasting person should not backbite
why because
as Zoo falsehood, okay, or lying can manifest stated in many ways, and one of it is a Libra. So the worst form of active ignorance, the four the worst form of act or the most common, not worst, common way of practicing ignorant or act of ignorance or act of Zoo falsehood is through backbiting. So that's why Buddha Rahim Allah put it
Under that chapter or under that title, because it happened a lot. That's what mmm Rahim Allah said, no kind of coolum of tabara Julian radula wawasan him after nabati I hadn't saw email.
He said if every burst backed by someone during CME, that means that your CME is invalid, it means no one will be left fasting, most of us are fast will be any invalid.
And remember how that IMO law never backed by it, by the way, it is not a backbiting person. If somebody is saying the reality of people, the reality is people will do these kinds of sins. But he wants to say that it doesn't mean that it will break your fast completely or invalidate your fast. Anyway, let's go back to the Hadith those who do not leave mellem yada, yada, yada, truck live.
Now why da da da da da, da da, da da da, da da, Yanni it didn't leave you.
So leave what Zoo which is lying. That's why I lost my that I said, well, the de la luna Zoo do not witness lies. What I do in a zoo, the can be Don't be in a gathering of Zoo which is there is lies in it. Okay. And among that is to give a false testimony.
Or to give a false statement to sell to buying an accord or so it's all about basically lying. ignorant, the act of ignorance what ignorant, ignorant is that it is ignorant here means the opposite of knowing. Knowledge
is the opposite of knowledge. ignorant, the opposite of knowledge? No.
Because ignorant, being ignorant of something while you're fasting doesn't affect your fast. So alcohol here is the opposite of
the opposite of good manners, the opposite the opposite of patient. And gentle it means when you don't have self control. Like what he said in the famous poetry. You remember this, or I don't know if you know the story or not. One of the Arabs was invited by one of the king in Iraq.
So while he's sitting, the mother of that poet, and he's a master of his tribe, his mother was humiliated by that King's mother. Why the king's mother told her serve me the grapes and for the Arabs. If you're a guest, you don't serve you should be served. It's a it's a disrespect to be asked to serve if you're a host, if you guess so she said well, I'm wrong.
What is Yeah, oh, oh, we are humilate he took the sword and he caught up the head of the king in front of his own people.
He felt he knew that his mom was humiliated, he will never tolerated that. And while the blood gushing he said this beautiful poets that later on written and inside the camera.
Allah Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah Jalla, focaccia alija, Elina if someone act with ignorance with us, we are more ignorance toward us. Mara, Baba tava and Noah
Safina Eva Bella Bella Philippa, Madonna Sabine
babirusa Dina.
He said we filled the land with our tribe and our horsemen. And we filled the sea with our merchants and and business you know trade and, and sailing everywhere. When our kid when our child finishes breastfeeding, start eating that the time when the rulers and the kings and the great men of the world mixes do it to him.
Yeah, and the moment you finished breastfeeding, you became a great king great man that you deserve that people will mix it up to you.
It's a long
poetry long a lot of lines. So this is how ignorant This is. It just said something about your mom you killed the poor guy.
This ignorant no self control. So when Debbie saw Salim said do not leave ignorant, it means you don't leave that if you don't have a good self control over yourself. And we see during Ramadan, sometimes we lose it
now and then I put the rock podra turkey Johanna you will lose it with our friends, with our family, with our co workers with people to work for you. You know, it was
driving your car
and all those because sometimes you can't control yourself or reaction. There is people during Ramadan cannot control the reaction and when you don't control your action, you cause a lot of trouble for yourself.
And you cause a lot of problems others as well.
So this head is telling us that the fasting person should watch what they say what they do, should have a good control over themselves as the present prevent themselves from eating and drinking, drinking during during fasting, they should prevent themselves also from saying what is evil or bad
question.
If somebody didn't, somebody lied, somebody backed by somebody did all this evil thing.
Would that invalidate his or her sin?
The Jew Moodle, Rahim Allah the majority of them said no, it would reduce your reward but it will not invalidate your fasting.
Accepted Imam
and Eman Ibrahim and
Al Eman have been hasn't said if you do that, that will invalidate your CRM and your Sims in balance. So you have some took that literally and said that will invalidate the CRM. But that's not correct that while environments if every Rebbe will invalidate your CRM, nobody will be faster, or we will the same will be invalid. But he meant that Rahim Allah to Allah just to show that it does not invalidate, but it would reduce your cm.
Also, in one of the narration, if someone Curse you, somebody acted ignorant with you, you should say in the sign, I'm fasting.
But remember, Allah said don't say I'm fasting out of arrogant, fasting, you know, I'm higher than you. Because if you do that you became like him? No, it means you say I'm fasting as a reminder for him to control himself. So when you say some amount of help, Sam, we are fasting. So you know, I'm fasting So please, is kind of reminder for the person to control him or herself.
The next heading is good.
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in the chapter of Adam,
Warren v Bobby,
ne and zoo. He reports it under in a book called adept in his story. The chapter the sub chapter is for bidding saying what is false hood?
One eyeshadow rhodiola one ha all at Cana Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam ucop villu or whoever saw him while you bash you or whoever saw him while I can who can unlocker commonly lb Mata Hakuna la will love to Li Muslim was the theory wire fee Ramadan narrated eyeshadow the long line had that Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to kiss and fondle while he was fasting. But he was the one amongst you who had the most control over his sexual desires agreed upon. Another version of Muslim has In addition, during Ramadan
Yeah, this Hadith of the lower anha in the end, he said and he is the one who have the most control over his
brother Reddit, Airbnb,
which is correct with sukoon. But also there is another way to be narrated, it was narrated and pronounced the Arabic bill fat. What's the difference with sukoon? It means sexual desire.
Or up
it means his genital.
Okay, but the way he he read it is the most appropriate one. And we prefer that narration over the other one. Why? Because it is more respectful. Okay.
It'll be
or the allaby. So that's more respectful to refer to the sexual desire than to refer to that, to the
genital itself any control over his genital penis, this is wouldn't be the most appropriate way of describing the Prophet sallallahu. It was setting them but in the end of the day both have the same meaning, which is controlling his sexual desire. Yes, it is reported by Bukhari and Muslim and in one narration says
what in Ramadan and another narration also, that he used to kiss one of his wife while he's fasting and
She used to laugh
and they would laugh with each other's it shows you how close the each other the kiss each other why the laughing smiling together so a lot is on them and this woman is eyeshadow the lava and Wallah as was mentioned in on some of the Heidi. So what kissing we understand what the kissing is, but what about you Basha the word you Basha literally mean touch.
He translated bundling, Zoho translated
fondling
you bash it in Arabic language means touch, but touch and or it could mean sexual *.
Allah Subhana Allah to Basha with Noah and Tamaki food FL massage do not have intimate don't intimate with them while you're on domestic making it you can
file an abashiri hoon, which after Mahara Okay,
you can
yeah and he touched them It means sleep with them what Tahoma Khattab Allahu lukou
so is that what it means here that the process of used to intimate have a sexual * with his wife while he's fasting Ramadan absolutely no
by consensus by Mr. Robot that's not what meant in any mobile Shara here means what? And mubasher here it means touching. In the touching
it you there is a sexual meaning behind it which it means the hugging the kissing the whole thing. Okay, so that's what this word here means. But that's why she followed up by saying but she's the one who who is who has the most control over her sexual desire. Also the word mubasher of touching in Arabic language team means skin against the skin without something in between latter Cooney mobile shall be hired. And mobile shall have an Arab it means skin against the skin. So that means basically his skin touching it, he touched her hand, he put that in her back method and stomach or her neck would she's not covered her neck or her back. Like
so.
Okay, well.
As I said it could means that desires, okay? Or an error, it means the genital
is the desire. Arab is the genital or the
body part which is referring to the penis. And as I said it the first one is much better, which is the sexual desire. But what's the ruling in regard to kissing while you're fasting?
Can you go back of this class kiss your wife while you're still fasting and she is fasting?
The first opinion it is permissible for the person to kiss his wife to you know touch her hold her you know
as long as they know that this will not lead them to *. They know they can control they know stop stop where to stop
that's why when a man said yeah sure what is allowed for me from my wife on it cool Lucia Illa for
everything and her except her private party.
That's thing you cannot touch.
So anything else you can
and when in the Bissell Allah is Allah was asked, Are you come below saw him? This is interesting.
With the fasting persons can kiss. He said ask this. Ask her. And he referred to miss Ella. Then he went to Mr. Adam, he said, Can he kiss? He said he kissed me while he is fasting and I'm fasting.
She answered them.
So in the basis of them refer asked her Yanni to give you the answer in a very practical way. And
I'm always surprised by
this durations and similar to this, how this site is so pure,
and how the relationship between men and woman is so casual in a sense, and a very respectful as well.
Today somebody came to me after telling me Sure, yeah, and how come I walk on I see a woman.
I say
one line, this is exactly how
somebody was saying, How can I walk and I see a woman.
I said, What do you want to see?
I mean, what that means like
it is this people kill a strange guy as if you're anyhow without him but a lot
of these creatures not be exertion you should not come across. I said where this guy came from didn't come from the street did he come from? He should check. Is this going to be the same as the mall? I said is it
come on be fair is this like look like the mall?
is what you see here the same thing you see the mall, that means you didn't go to mall?
Or you don't know.
It's sometimes people make taboo and sensitivity. And they think that attitude, in my opinion caused more harm than good.
In my opinion, make people more harm than good.
It causes more harm to society than good. Anyway.
So, in nubby sallallahu alayhi wa sallam A man came to me said Yasser Allah was beautiful. He said, Ursula, if a
Romani allowance sorry, came to the Pollyanna sola and fasting, and I did something terrible. And Navy said, What did he do? He said, I kissed my wife while I'm fasting. And we know in fasting, you should avoid sexual desires. Like the desire for food, avoid the desire for sexual desire. I kissed her listen to what the processor color are it intimate, not terrible now.
What do you think if you rinse your mouth with water?
Would that harm you? He said no. He said the same thing with the kissing.
What's the analogy?
When you drink water, what is the water goes first?
To the mouth. Then if you push it, you drink but if you spit it out, it didn't call drinking. So putting the water inside your mouth is the intro to drinking.
You will not be cold drinking until you swallow the water. So the drinking in itself had the same thing with the kissing. The kissing is the intro to if you are a gentleman is the entry to intimacy
That's right. So since this is that
inter you didn't yet reach what is haram? So like the water in your mouth, the reach yet what is drip consume, they said the same. So since this a lot this will be a lot. So in the visa seller made this beautiful analogy for Omar or the Allahu Anwar Allah. That's why the majority of the human would love to Allah like Abu hanifa Rahim Allah and then even I met and a Warren, number of scholars in the past, take the position. Another said no, it is dislike for young or old. Why the magic he said that? Because he said the Prophet was the one who control his desire the most, since he's the one who controls the most no one else can control it. So that's why we should not allow.
That's the mannequins position. But
to be honest with you, this can be refuted by saying that Omar didn't
an immensity also law What do you think of it and he said ask her so that means it never give permission to other than Him to and he approved the kissing of other than himself Allah. So that's why the Maddox is wouldn't be very strong, even more stricter than the Maliki those who said it is how long completely and they didn't recognize this ahaadeeth Okay. And they said that there is one narration from one of the Sahaba said, somebody kissed he said both broke their fast, but these narration are weak and contradict the authentic hadith in Bukhari Muslim and others. Some of them are human would love to hear that. And that's a very famous madhhab or a famous opinion among some
Hanafi Shafi and Hamdan Pardo and even Maliki
they said we allowed it for Old Men but not for young men.
A sharp The young man not allowed 20 years old, just got married now 18 years old got married. No.
They said no. But if you are old,
like 70 years old, it's okay.
from you, they said you know 30 know the basically start looking into them. There is What's the date exactly said it that's why I've been a boss.
A sharp It is okay. But the old man in the shop is not okay Allah, you're not allowed. And for the old man he said you can, but even at best doesn't take that position. I'm not so young man telling he, he thought maybe if you open this door, it's designed for that particular case you cannot generalize. I think it's much better to say those who have controlled because you might be 50 and your sexual desire is very high.
And you might be 20s and you have very good control over yourself. So that's not true. And let's see Emma she was 18 years old when she was married to the prophets of Solomon he died. So she's still young woman.
This Hadith we learn from it the permissibility of kissing while you're fasting, controlling your desire controlling your sexual desire and Elmo Bashar even hugging and holding hands and always it is permissible as long as the person control him. So
they might somebody asked, What about
if they will have foreplay, foreplay that it will lead to *
but without having *.
That is stimula any * or something like that?
Would that
be
will broke the person faster? The vast majority of the heart said yes. And a man by the Shafi the Hanafi Maliki the humble he said absolutely yes.
The only one who this who had different opinion is even hasm and in Albania Rahim Allah to Allah. They said it will not break the fast Why? Because what is only a lot allowed is the *. But if other than * took place, even if it is in a form of * to each other, or for self deceit, it will not break the fast but I don't agree with that at all. Why? because it'd be so seldom said in the Hadith. bootsy acaba de OSHA what a holy entity, he leaves his desire his sexual desire for me, I no doubt when you reach the level of exhaust yourself to reach to the level of climax and reach to the level of *, *, that's shower that's fulfilling your
desire.
The fulfilling the desire is not just the penetrating the soul frenzy is when you reach that level, but you *. So that's why I never had it said he leaves his sexual desire for me. He leaves his desire for food for me. So that's why I do believe that this is not a law. But what about if someone kissed his wife touch his wife some people might shall lie it
like like this touchscreen, very sensitive. No, some people like if he do that, we'll have some discharges comes out of them. Just just we're in the regular touch we call the Smithy if you remember this will not invalidate your CRM or your CRM will be valid. The What about when dream
when dream will not invalidate your car even if it happened during the daytime.
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wine wine apnea best you know the Allahu Allah and Homer and then a be your son Allahu Allah Isley he was settled and while Obama for him. Gemma who saw him after Eben has a
has a very interesting opinion. Not not only some of them
have very interestingly he said that.
Yes, I do.
have been hesitant. He said that.
It's recommended to kiss your wife while you're fasting. When I thought this is very strange opinion any independent Burnaby South Salam didn't do it as part of the ritual of the car too fast. It just instantly happened. The trickiest part is fasting. So I just want to show you how far some people can go. Now. Some people said How long
were I named the apostle of the Allahu taala on Houma. And then the beistle Allahu alayhi wa sallam after Gemma Hua Hua Muharram y de ma Hua saw him, Rahul Buhari, narrated Ibn Abbas with the Allahu anhu ma the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had himself kept when he was wearing the alarm. And also when he was fasting, reported by Buhari
Yeah, even though this hadith in Sahih Bukhari it's one
Hadeeth Mr. Heyman would like talked about in relation is that a statement from an ambassador of the alarm? And is that headed has it been a bust or not? Because it was narrated without mentioning in advance was narrated as most like the successor said, The Prophet said that without mentioning bass at all in the middle, and we know the middle son has, it's considered a part of the week because of this difference of opinion. This is really a bass mentioning god bless name is correct or accurate or not. That led me to criticize this handy consulting Bahati. That's what my Muslim never narrated. This Hadith is Muslim, his Muslim and he didn't do it because of this problem. And it no pm Rahim
Allah Ibn taymiyyah Rahim Allah also criticized this narration in particular because of this reason.
And in rahima hola ba fo Eva didn't accept it because he believed that this is Heidi Marcel is not from an Ibis, but on the other hand, Al Bukhari Rahim Allah reported it as a hadith from a basketball suit, through bonobos to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and it took me there as well and even Habana as well that that's why it happened to be the hijab Rahim Allah comment on this debate. And he said, called Whoa, Hadith I'm sorry for memory atrophy, we should not have a doubt about the authenticity of this narration.
And hijama and headjam means hijama it means suck when you suck something. So you'd like this this hijama in Arabic language. That's why we call the baby when he suckle from his mother had an affair do Oh, me. Yeah, and he suckling from his mother's
breast? That's why a lot of your colon masasa demap. Have you ever heard if you'd even some Arabic dictionary books? The call masasa the map? The blood sucker
whose blood sucker
Dracula
recall whose blood sucker
I had jam?
The one who does the JAMA cupping
The one who does copying the column blood sucker because what it does is suck your blood. You know how the cupping is I don't know if you guys seen copying. I never did copying except
I'm not sure I did it once in England, so I don't remember another England one how it was. But all my life the hijama I did is just like, bring a glass and it has like straw. And this straw covered sealed with
camel skin. Anybody knows why camel skin.
camel skins has something very unique. That's why camel never did not camel didn't have big Pharaoh and they're back. That's right. And they live in desert very cold. If you cannot skin has a one way go through. So it goes this way, but it never comes back. So the air that's why don't not feel the cold. So basically, it's if you do like this with the with the blood, no air will go through it to your wound. So that cup basically empty you suck all the air out. So when you suck it out the air you suck it out, it's like it's like it out that skin of the camera will not allow the air to come back into that cup. And the cup is against your head. So the more it can stuck stuck more and more
and more and more and more. And when he make these cuts in your head, so the blood will come because the pressure Okay, this empties high pressure so two comes from your body into that cup because it's empty. That's how they do it so they literally suck your blood like this.
Anyway, so this Hadeeth were
read the one next to that as well send me
one shot dad in the house in red wine shot dad in the ocean or the Allahu taala and an obeah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah Rajan in Bilbao. Well who was yesterday movie Ramadan for call. Afternoon Hi Jim. When Matthew Robin Hamza inlet remedy was saho Ahmed Hussein my web they have been
narrated, should that been out for the long run? The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came across a man in Albuquerque who was
kept in Ramadan he said the one who cups and the one who is kept have broken their fast reported by a Hamsa except that remedy effort even Hosea and have been graded sorry. So you look this two headed contradict each other and remember him all abroad them so we can understand the fifth of them. The first one says that about the present made hijama What is moharram and while is fasting, by the way, not in the same time in is not Muslim and fasting at the same time, like two different incidents. Okay.
And this one it shows it's permissible to have hijama while you are fasting.
By the way, many said that this particular in the hegemon, the way when you suck the blood, but if you make a cut, like confessed, let's say you have an area where there is like a bus or like the blood gatherer and you just want to make a cup to release the blood out. They said he called us first in Arabic language, it just will not break your heart, the only one that break the fast and hijama which means the cupping.
That's the action that will only allow consider one of the things that break your fast or not. Anyway.
So the first Petey shows the permissibility of doing hijama while you're fasting the second one says that he so in episode he was with the prophets of Salaam and he saw two people one making hijama one doing a copying to another person who said both her break their fast. This Hadith both break their fast. Yes, it's not an Al Bukhari, but it's reported in the books of Sunni and this hadith. There is a whole entire debate over its authenticity as well because most of these narration that came in Khalid Sheikh dad was narrated by a large number of people guys today. This story narrated by
many companions 16 companions narrated the same statement the presence of Darren Hardy and my job the one who did the cabin and the cabin done to both break their fast 16 companion that's why I seal the hydrometer watch this heritage mutawatir
but even with this, all the narrations all these narrations, none of them is pure, authentic narration that's why Muslim let me look at the wider the Muslim so the Hadith and he left it all
and Abraham murase Allah He said all his problems none of them are acceptable. You haven't mentioned none of them is by itself is a strong to be relied upon. So indicating but others like Adnan Medina and Rahim Allah with daddy me said it is acceptable even in Bahati himself.
And the
who's the person that the process of them so doing that in another generation, it was Jaffer of nebuta liberal the Allahu wa Alba.
And it will come and this is somebody it was mentioned in the writing data book neurohumoral, lozada. And Iraq, he wrote a book as well about the movie. I mean, the people who mentioned in this night without mentioning the names, and he mentioned that this was Jaffa via pod. It had been said mapping had been seen on but Jaffa is more authentic. Some people said should that have now's but that's wrong, because she said that the person holding my hand while walking, so impossible to be sure that the one had the hijama happening to me, the curbing Harbinger and Bhakti we were walking in. A lot of people think Alibaba is the cemetery. That's not accurate. And Bhakti is a neighborhood
part of it was designated as a cemetery. It's like when we say Alameda
doesn't mean that all our immediate area is cemetery. No, but part of Alameda area, our cemetery. That's right, same thing. So Albuquerque is the east side of the message. Rasulullah saw some small portion was taken and designated as cemetery. The first person who was ever buried there was Earth Man in the Moon. And the second person was the prophets of Salaam, son, Ibrahim.
Okay.
And this is shows how the process I'm very nice holding the hand of should dad and maybe some sort of one thing about him that you're always trying to make people special holding their hands, let them right behind them. I know it may be here in our culture today in America. It sounds weird to hold a man's hand. Something not acceptable culturally.
But I remember one of my friends the man one of the Imams and the media. We were in Los Angeles and we were together. So walking is
holding my hand. So as a child, I don't think it's a very good idea to hold hands like especially in this city, you know, he said Why? I said because culturally here when two men, especially wearing long dress like yours looks like a dress, okay?
Hold hands with another man can have can be misunderstood. And he insisted, so I had to tell him what that means. Oh, he started laughing that he saw hugging me and kissing me too.
As a great he just proved the point that he didn't care about culture
anyway,
but then they'll be so seldom used to make people special if inhabitable, Himalayan said I looked at the people who used to ride with the process of them in the same camel or the same horse in the bishop let people ride with him in the same camel. Why? To feel close
to a comment in Roger that, I found more than 40 companions in the Hadith. I was with the prophet in the same camel I ride with the prophet in the same camp I was with the path riding with him. It shows you how close they are to the Prophet sallallahu.
Anyway, so
and I saw the flower and he said
he told us the story of Jonathan he said and he Gemma was disliked for the fasting person because Jeff would have never thought he was doing he Jama was doing cupping while he's fasting and in the B cell ally sell them sell him and he said after aha that those have broken their fast Okay. Then in a B cell allow you to sell them later on listen that what what an asset, then it may be later on said it is permissible for you to do cupping. Okay. And that's why NSE used to do cupping while he is fasting reported by a company and it is authentic.
The
real American law said about copying, I'm not going to get into details. But this is a good example of how to understand two texts contradict each other's kind of similar dilemma said and he Jama copying will not break your fast. It doesn't matter, you the one who performing it or receiving it. And that's the majority of the companions, even Massoud even Omar ns have been abuzz about salaried misalignment and the greatest among the successor so at the mercy of
the great imams a Shafi Malik Abu hanifa and they would avoid it, and it can go on and on a long list of American law took that position. Why? They said because Hayden bass is later on came had it bnab Bass was young companion, and and I saw the alarm specifically said it was later on made up allowed for people to do a gamma copy.
Also
asset is it true that the profits or sell them for beta gamma for the fasting person. And I said only because it might make you weak.
So it is allowed, but if this is will cause you not to be able to fast or to be physically in danger is not allowed. So has nothing to do with the copying itself. It's the result.
Anyway, if there is many Heidi it'll actually
give her permission or permission to have hijama for the fasting person a permission it means it used to be not allowed, then it became allowed. That's why all the hottie that says not allowed was obligated by the Hadith that it shows you it is permissible.
Second Opinion, they said no, the JAMA
will break the fast of the one who receiving it and Rowan who are performing it. And that's the position of Rahim Allah, and it's happened not on Hawaii, and some of the Sahaba like eliminated be part of Abu hurayrah Sharia law. And we took the hadith of of Patil, * makhdoom, that the person who performed pajama and receive pajama are basically authentic and you see him didn't accept the authenticity of the hadith of nobis he doesn't believe it's authentic. So that's why he was left with one Hadith which is for debate or shows that it is. It will break the fast
by
Mr. hemella said the head is the person who perform hijama and receive the gem amid f bar can be understood in the same Hadith when the Prophet said those who backbite heed the process Allah passed by people backbite and he said those have broke they're fast. It means they're fast, agile became less so the hijama make your agile less.
Okay? So that's how the
Welcome to the third opinion which is my position that I choose, which is the position of it has an imbecile Rahim Allah and I've been serene the said it is dislike and hijama is disliked but it is permissible. It is allowed but just not recommended. Some Rama Rama la said he Jama break the fast of the person who received it, not the one who perform it.
Why the process seldom said that the one who performed the hijama break his fast.
They said because when you suck
the blood, there is possibility the blood will go into your throat so you rake your fries. I always read that I never was convinced because that accident even if you swallow water by accident while you brush your mouth will not break your forearms.
But it looks like in them he said that as a form of punishment for the person. But again, he did not really do anything that breaks your fast. That's why it could be just reducing the agile and that will empower the opinion that it doesn't mean literally break their fast but the fast is less agile.
By the way, even taymiyah believe that hijama break the fast of the one who receive it not the one who perform it. The what I care about this the most is this.
What about donating blood?
What about donating blood?
What about blood tests?
How's the ruling in this blood test will not break your
blood test or not break your role. And donating blood donating blood according to the opinion, who said hey, Jama will not break your sorry, break your fast Sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry, break your fast. So blood test will not break your fast donating blood that's a bigger quantity. blood test a small but donating blood. The owner who said hey Gemma will not break your fast, they will say directing blood will not break your fast. They will Hannah Bella who said it will break your fast with the consider blood donating blood break the fast.
I told you earlier even those four cards said that it has to be copying, if it's not copying, it will not affect. So even according to those anabella, they will not consider donating blood something to break the fast. And that's the federal of Chevron Chevron bars and scholar in Saudi Arabia. Most of them are hand bellies, they don't consider donating blood something to break your heart, especially when it's needed.
But you should not do that. Because it might make you way more dehydrated. And it makes you weak. And
that's why it might be a better idea to avoid donating blood while you are fasting.
And the last thing that I want to end with there is a hadith in nebby sallallahu sallam, he mentioned that he would cover what how he does it good.
Discussion again, it's a type it's like.
It's like a type of mascara table. But for men not for a woman. They used to put it in their eyes in the old days and some culture, they still do that. It comes from a very famous rocket called estimate. And I want to make a point for those who traveled Saudi Arabia and the sea in many places they still estimate or in certain country in Pakistan and some places, there's still something called it's a rock, they break the rock. And this estimate it's supposed to be something that you people in the old days they used to put it around their eyes.
Many of these
rocks that sell in the market are not true estimate. So that's natural stone is very rare. And most of what you see in the market are just something made up and even I saw some reports from doctors and pharmacists saying that it is not safe to use it. So a lot of people use the religion too just to make their person very popular. So be very careful when you use that. But anyway, in the visa Salah, put that at the top of Mascarenhas is sallallahu alayhi wa sallam while his fasting. So that shows you that anything above the skin that you use, it will not break the fast. So fasting will be broken if you consume something into your stomach. That's why we say consuming something to the
lungs.
And I mean by that that's why we
A inhaler, for example, will not break your fast. But if you put something inside your stomach or go through your blood, like the IV, it'll take the same ruling of eating and drinking that will break the fast that person need to make up this day later on. But anything above the skin like creams or you know, makeup will not break the fast.
Anything like
inhalers will not break your fast any insulin, any shots. It will not break your fast drops like no air drops or eyedrops will not break your fast because that's not how you drink or you eat.
So those people who need this kind of medication, they are allowed to use it like the shots that I said earlier.
I know it's been very long I kept you guests for a very long time. So next,
we can share a lot.
We might have a class on one is day so we will have one is day and the weekend as well. So in Sharla when his day is 530 how's that sound? Can you guys make it when is day 435 31 is day?
How about tomorrow? Yeah, tomorrow Tomorrow is off. Tomorrow we'll do tomorrow. 530 inshallah. Very good. Yes.
The Koran class will be available as well.
Do you have question from the online? Yes. Okay.
Is it mandatory to have completed all the facts of Ramadan in order to fast during the one week of
Oh, show one.
Okay, no problem.
If you miss days and Ramadan and you want to fast the six days of show what do you have to make up all the days that you missed on Ramadan first, before you do the six days in the following month,
the majority of the Muslim scouser Diaz, I really don't go with that opinion.
Because I think you can make them up in any diamond the year and you still can make the six days of show while as well.
So I would say you can do the sixth show while and you can make up the days later on. But if you want my advice, do this the days from Yvonne as soon as you can.
There are more important than fasting six days in chawan.
Yes.
Can you combine the intention now you can because the prophets are some of them said if you fast Ramadan and you follow it with six you add six to Ramadan, some Milan and six days it's equal to fasting the whole year. And another narration he said 30 days like 300 days, 10 times double each day and six days double 10 that will make it 60 360 days. But if you do if you do the intention, both you don't get it 360 days.
Anybody else?
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