Wael Ibrahim – POPCORN ADDICTION- Is It Really An Addiction #01

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The host of a video series discusses the potential for pornography to impact addiction and relationships, but acknowledges that it is not a addictive behavior. The host emphasizes the importance of research on the potential impact of pornography on the brain and suggests seeking professional help to overcome addiction.

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			My brothers, my sisters in Islam and everyone,
		
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			Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, Bismillah ar
		
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			-Rahman ar-Rahim, Alhamdulillah, wassalatu wassalamu ala Rasulullahi
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wasallam and welcome to this new
		
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			video series titled Popcorn Addiction or as it
		
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			is commonly known * Addiction.
		
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			So I thought to Inshallah ta'ala launch
		
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			this series and answer some of the most
		
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			common questions that I always receive almost on
		
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			a daily basis regarding popcorn addiction.
		
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			So I'd like to clear the fog of
		
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			the first question on the list right away
		
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			and before wasting your time.
		
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			And the first question is pertaining to the
		
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			nature of the behavior itself.
		
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			Is * really an addictive behavior?
		
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			And how does it compare to other addictions?
		
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			So the short answer to the questioner whether
		
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			* is addictive or not is yes, yes
		
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			it is addictive.
		
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			But the answer is much more complicated than
		
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			that.
		
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			While * addiction is not officially listed or
		
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			recognized as an addictive behavior in the DSM
		
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			-5 or the diagnostic and statistical manual used
		
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			by psychologists and psychiatrists to diagnose mental illnesses,
		
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			there is mounting evidence suggests that actually *
		
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			shares a lot of the characteristics of other
		
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			behavioral addictions.
		
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			So let's break it down to understand it
		
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			even more Inshallah ta'ala.
		
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			Addiction in itself is characterized by compulsive engagement
		
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			in a rewarding stimuli despite a negative or
		
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			adverse consequences.
		
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			So you know that the substance or the
		
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			behavior is harmful and despite that you do
		
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			it anyway.
		
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			With * we see very similar patterns to
		
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			what I just described.
		
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			Users report difficulty in controlling their behavior they
		
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			escalate to more extreme content and they continue
		
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			to use despite the negative impact that they
		
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			have experienced on their lives, relationships, on their
		
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			loved ones, on their career, on their religion
		
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			and so on and so forth.
		
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			Now neurologically and I advise everyone to visit
		
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			your brain on * where there are plenty
		
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			tons of research on how * could change
		
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			the chemistry of the brain but there are
		
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			plenty of research out there which shown that
		
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			* activates the same reward circuit in the
		
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			brain as drugs or gambling.
		
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			You can check out the Cambridge study regarding
		
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			this or even the Indonesian study that I
		
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			have witnessed by myself which have shown the
		
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			impact of * consumption on the prefrontal lobes
		
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			and the changes that the physical changes we
		
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			are talking about the physical changes that *
		
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			can have on the physical reward circuit of
		
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			the brain.
		
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			Now what is really more important to understand
		
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			here is that is it really impacting you
		
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			negatively?
		
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			Is it really interfering in your life?
		
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			In your day to day activities?
		
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			Or not?
		
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			If you are happy with it, I have
		
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			nothing to tell you I have nothing to
		
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			convince you with.
		
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			It's all up to you.
		
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			It's your life.
		
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			But what really matters here is that if
		
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			* consumption interferes in your relationship, in your
		
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			work, in your studies in your faith, then
		
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			you've got a problem that you need to
		
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			resolve.
		
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			There are many people who are still debating
		
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			this issue up until today whether * is
		
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			addictive or not and so on and so
		
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			forth they say that it can never be
		
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			addictive because there are no chemicals introduced to
		
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			the human body.
		
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			But by the same token we can argue
		
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			that gambling shouldn't be considered as addictive because
		
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			it is also behavioral there is no chemicals
		
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			introduced into our body yet.
		
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			According to the DSM 5, gambling is listed
		
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			and recognized as addictive behavior.
		
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			There is a whole study about gambling addiction
		
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			so why not * is listed or recognized
		
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			as such if it shares the same exact
		
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			patterns, the same exact cycle so the debates
		
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			will continue there is no doubt about it.
		
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			But for those who are struggling, for those
		
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			who are going through *, labels really doesn't
		
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			matter anymore.
		
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			In fact, labels matter way less than the
		
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			impact itself.
		
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			So if * is haunting almost every good
		
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			thing in your life and impacting you negatively
		
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			in every step of the way and that
		
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			you're finding it very hard to stop, to
		
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			quit on your own, then you've got an
		
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			addictive behavior that you need to sort out.
		
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			So the short answer for me would be
		
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			it doesn't really matter whether * is addictive
		
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			or not.
		
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			Is it impacting you negatively?
		
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			Then it is worth looking for professional help
		
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			to support you and to get you out
		
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			of that maze.
		
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			Call it addiction, call it compulsion, call it
		
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			whatever you want to call it if it's
		
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			impacting your life, then you need to change.
		
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			And the bottom line is you will never
		
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			be able to unstuck your life from this
		
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			cycle by yourself.
		
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			So I believe that * is absolutely an
		
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			addiction that needed to be treated as a
		
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			disease because addiction itself is a brain disease.
		
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			May Allah SWT cleanse us all from any
		
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			addictive behavior whether drugs or other inappropriate activities
		
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			and may Allah SWT enable us to overcome
		
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			these challenges.
		
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			Ameen, Ameen, Ameen Jazakumullah Khair.
		
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			Please don't forget to drop your questions in
		
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			the comments below.
		
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			Perhaps I'll create a specific video to answer
		
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			your questions with Popcorn Addiction series.
		
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			Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh