Wael Ibrahim – Halal Intimacy #09 – Oral Sex

			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was
Salam ala Rasulillah he sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Welcome back Brothers and Sisters in Islam and
everyone to Hallel in Tennessee. Apologies for the delay. There has been a lot going on
Alhamdulillah lately in a good way in short, la you'd be informed about new projects coming up in
the light Allah may Allah subhanaw taala make it easy. Please make dua for me in sha Allah. But for
now let's get back into the book of study Abdul Latif Abdullah, he Halal intimacy, I skipped a few
chapters, which I found them to be related to the previous episode about seduction. So I'm not going
		

			to repeat that or add all those steps. I would advise you kindly to go purchase the book and read
them for yourself in sha Allah. But today in sha Allah, Allah is a very, very essential topic which
oftentimes couples reach out asking for guidance and clarification around it and that is oral *.
So let's get into it in sha Allah and see what Islam says and told about this very, very important
topic.
		

			First of all, my dear brothers and sisters in Islam within the Sharia within the Quran and the
teachings of the Prophet Muhammad wa sallam, there is no direct prohibition regarding oral *.
However, the scholars of Islam have classified it as mcru or disliked by Allah subhanaw taala
because of a moral and health reasons for more reasons, because Muslims should conduct and behave in
certain expected ways that Allah Subhana Allah has revealed in the Quran, and it was demonstrated in
the life of the prophet Muhammad SAW Salam in the early generations, and for health reasons, because
there are a lot of medical reports and research that have shown the danger and the harmful effects
		

			of oral * on our health. Not only that, but some people may even develop sexually transmitted
diseases as a result of oral * in the same way how other people who indulge in unprotected sexual
activities may carry the same diseases. Even though experts have argued that transmitted sexual
diseases is higher in unprotected * than oral *, yet the chances are still there. That's why the
majority of the scholars would go with the opinion that it is absolutely haram completely
prohibited, or mcru. highly discouraged at the mouth and the tongue my brothers and sisters in Islam
were created for a higher purpose and that is to remember Allah subhanaw taala much to pray to read
		

			the Quran. So how could that same mouth do other things which are looked at as morally low. That's
why my brothers and sisters in Islam when the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam was approached by a
man, telling him that the fatwa the obligatory duties of Islam became too much upon him, he couldn't
bear the obligations anymore. So he was asking the process and to simplify things. So the Prophet
Mohammed Salah Lysa, and told him what, keep your tongue moist with the remembrance of Allah
subhanaw taala This is why the tongue was created to remember Allah much. So the scholars will would
look at it from that perspective, how could that same tongue go that low and indulge in activity
		

			that is not befitting for a believer is not befitting for a person with that higher standard and,
and high expectation of Allah subhanaw taala that, that the tongue should be always moist, not for
atheists, other than the remembrance of Allah subhanaw taala and speaking that, which is good Sheikh
Salah had frozen had recognized that there is no specific or clear cut evidence from the Quran or
from the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad SAW Selim that prohibited oral *, he recognized that, but
he said that this is also an act of a dog of an animal. And this is exactly what dogs do before
approaching the mate and we are higher higher beings we are we are created better and higher than
		

			any other creation. The Kohala canal in Santa Fe asks Anita Queen Allah subhanaw taala create human
beings in the best mold ever. So how could we go to this level and indulge in such activities, but
please also bear in mind the scholars who have taken mcru as the valid opinion regarding this issue,
and let me remind you what is micro macro is an act that if you indulge in it, if you performed it,
you are not sinful Allah is not going to punish you for it. However, if you abstain from it is way
better and much rewardable those quarters have taken that opinion. They allow couples to engage in
oral * provided of two things. Number one, no partner should force the other on any of these
		

			activities. So long as both partners are in agreement, then it is permissible. Number two, no
partner should ever swallow or concern
		

			All the liquid that may come out of the private parts of either of the spouse. So it's very, very
important to keep this in mind that even those colors may allow or give a room of permissibility of
engaging in oral *. There are conditions that you should also look into, so that you can maintain
your dignity respect as human beings as that higher being that Allah subhanaw taala mentioned in the
Quran, it is the best of all creation, but I want you to see how the scholars looked at the meta
view it wrote about it, talk about it in the lectures for our own guidance. For example, Chef
infozone mentioned that if * itself, if * itself is permissible, between lawful husbands
		

			and wives, then whatever less than that whatever less than the * itself, the penetration
should be also permissible. And as a result of this, he took the opinion that oral * is actually
permissible, and this opinion is actually taken from Toby, and in his tafsir on salsa. So if
* itself is allowed between spouses between lawfully married spouses, then anything less
than that the kissing the oral *, would be also or should be also made permissible. emammal
portobay May Allah Subhana Allah have mercy on him. When he was asked about lustful speech between
spouses, he said, If * again, if * itself, if penetration of the private parts
		

			is permissible between a husband and wife, then anything less than that is also permissible. So last
full talk, go back to seduction episode to just understand how these things could spice up a little
bit the relationship between spouses for the benefit of the halal part of the relationship so that
we don't look outside the boundaries of marriage. The main problem for me personally, my brothers
and sisters in Islam is that there are many people Muslims married, lawfully married on the
Judiciary of Allah subhanaw taala, are engaged in these oral sexual activities, because they've
learned it from *. And if that's your main educator regarding *, then you definitely
		

			will end up in a very unpleasant place. So this is the problem if we can educate ourselves about the
activities that can enhance our sexual relationship, enhance our health as well. And maintain our
dignity and respect as Muslims. No one should force the other on any act that insha Allah Allah will
find pleasure in every move. But if you are influenced by *, then everything associated
with it will be haram or Hezbollah. May Allah subhanaw taala protect the soul I hope that this
episode has shed some light on one of the always less talked about subjects among the Muslims
especially so I hope that this have offered a little bit of guidance, but it's not everything that
		

			you need to learn you need to enhance your knowledge in this area as well to seek out scholars
regarding this matter. Don't just take my words for granted. This is just sharing the knowledge of
what has been written about the subject sharing perhaps experiences with people who have suffered a
lot as a result of not being able to function sexually in an appropriate Islamic manner. So may
Allah subhanaw taala keep us safe. May Allah subhanaw taala protect our homes and inshallah to Allah
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			already. And we'll see you next episode in sha Allah Allah Allah make dua for me as Salaam Alaikum
warahmatullahi over again