Tom Facchine – What’s The Purpose of Life

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The importance of understanding oneself and one's purpose in order to overcome potentialities is emphasized in Islam. It is a hierarchy of potentialities, and gratitude is transferable to everything. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being grateful to Allah for creating a better world and creating a successor or stewardship, as it is crucial to achieving spiritual success.

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			So Al Arab al Suhani leaves us hanging
		
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			with this kind of idea of, okay, you
		
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			need to know Allah and you need to
		
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			know yourselves and you need to know what's
		
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			your capacity, what's your nature, but also what's
		
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			your purpose. So the first thing he's got
		
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			he tackles is, okay, what is the purpose?
		
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			And if you ask, you know, the the
		
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			average Muslim what's the purpose of life? Why
		
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			are we here? They're going to give you
		
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			kind of the the Sunday school answer. Well,
		
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			we're here to worship Allah. Okay.
		
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			Technically true. Right? Sort of that, yeah. So
		
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			then Allah says that he only created us
		
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			to worship us. True.
		
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			But that's not the only reason we're here
		
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			And the Uragu al Asfihani
		
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			goes into the Quran
		
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			to extract other
		
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			purposes.
		
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			Why Allah placed us here in the in
		
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			the first place? Why are we created and
		
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			why are we created like this? Right? Not
		
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			just why do we exist, which is one
		
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			question, but why do we exist as we
		
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			are
		
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			or why don't we have an original sin
		
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			to overcome?
		
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			Why
		
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			do we have to do good works? Why
		
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			do we have to believe? Why do we
		
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			have why are we created as almost like
		
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			a clean slate with all these sort of
		
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			potentialities,
		
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			that aren't realized, that require development? What's the
		
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			point?
		
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			And so,
		
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			Arag al Sohani, he identifies 3 main purposes
		
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			to human life and they're they exist in
		
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			a hierarchy.
		
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			Right? So there's, kind of, like, your
		
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			beginner level
		
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			training wheels,
		
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			purpose to life and then there's kind of
		
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			an intermediate level and there's an advanced level
		
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			for the elite
		
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			who are able and willing to get there.
		
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			So the first purpose and the the beginner
		
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			level purpose of human life is 'imara',
		
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			which has to do with just
		
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			settling on earth. Right? Your your needs, your
		
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			livelihood,
		
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			you know, family, you got your kids, you
		
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			got your friends, you got your job, you
		
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			got your car, your house, your electricity bill,
		
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			all the sorts of things that you need
		
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			to just barely survive and to have a
		
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			decent life. And this is something universally recognized,
		
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			but it is a purpose of our lives.
		
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			Right? It's not,
		
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			we're not here
		
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			solely for spiritual existential purposes. We're also here
		
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			for some material purposes and that's a pretty
		
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			foundational one. But that's not enough.
		
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			Right? You can't
		
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			just get,
		
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			if a human being comes as a somewhat
		
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			of a clean slate and is mostly potential
		
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			or capacity,
		
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			for somebody to get stuck at level 1
		
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			is is embarrassing,
		
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			because there's
		
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			higher levels decline. And so the second second
		
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			level is exactly kind of the the Sunday
		
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			school answer, which is worshiping Allah. Ibad.
		
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			Worshipping Allah. Why? Why is that a higher
		
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			order
		
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			purpose than simply Imara? Because people can have
		
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			any
		
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			intention
		
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			when it comes to
		
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			establishing their livelihood. You can have the most
		
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			righteous person on earth. He is
		
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			going to work for the sake of Allah
		
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			and he's making money for the sake of
		
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			Allah and everything he does is halal and
		
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			he's just, like, absolutely exemplary in his interactions
		
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			and transactions with other people. People are, you
		
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			know, accepting Islam at his hands and by
		
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			his example, like, in droves. Right? That's like
		
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			best case scenario.
		
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			And then you have the dude who, you
		
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			know, he opens up,
		
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			you know, a casino
		
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			and he sells drugs and he'd whatever. Both
		
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			of them are taking care of their livelihood.
		
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			Okay. One of them has an intention to
		
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			please their creator and the other person doesn't
		
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			have any intention like that whatsoever. They're just
		
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			about the money. What's the bottom line? What's
		
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			my number? What's my profit?
		
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			The second level are a bad that has
		
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			to do with gratitude.
		
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			Okay. So the difference between level 1 and
		
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			level 2 is that now we're not just
		
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			talking about livelihood, we're talking about gratitude. You
		
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			come into this world and there's 2 types
		
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			of people. There are people that come into
		
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			the world and they see the fact that
		
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			they are in debt
		
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			and there's other people who don't recognize that
		
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			they're in debt, which is why Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala in the Quran, he compares
		
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			obedience to parents
		
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			with obedience to Allah or if he doesn't
		
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			compare it per se, he puts them right
		
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			next to each other
		
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			Because there's a transferable
		
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			spiritual skill that's going on there. You come
		
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			into this world. You didn't choose to be
		
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			born.
		
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			You didn't choose to have your parents. You
		
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			didn't ask them to change your diapers. That
		
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			you didn't ask them to spoon feed you
		
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			or to wipe up your vomit or to,
		
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			you know, nurse you to stay up with
		
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			you all night when you were crying because
		
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			you're having teething pain. They did it and
		
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			you didn't have a choice.
		
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			It's very against today's society. You want everything
		
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			that I chose, I chose, I chose. I'm
		
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			gonna choose everything about myself. No. You have
		
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			a debt to pay to your parents because
		
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			they did things and you couldn't even consent.
		
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			They did good for you and you couldn't
		
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			even consent. So to be grateful to your
		
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			parents
		
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			or to, is to try to pay off
		
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			that debt is to recognize that debt. That's
		
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			a virtue. First of all, to recognize the
		
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			debt at all is a virtue and then
		
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			to strive to pay it back or at
		
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			least to
		
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			be grateful for it if we can't pay
		
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			it back is a second virtue. And so
		
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			that's completely transferable to to Allah, Right? In
		
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			not in in degree, but in kind. Right?
		
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			The amount that we're in debt to Allah
		
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			is it can't be calculated.
		
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			We come into this world that we've got
		
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			fruit
		
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			hanging on branches towards us. All you have
		
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			to do is pluck it off. We've got
		
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			food
		
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			growing up under our feet.
		
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			Right? The Earth is easy to walk on.
		
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			The water is pure. Everything is made just
		
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			well. It's like, it's like sitting down to
		
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			a table and the tables already set for
		
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			you.
		
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			Are you gonna be grateful?
		
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			That's the second level, Ibadah, to be grateful.
		
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			Recognizing, first of all, that there's a debt
		
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			to pay. 2nd of all, even if we
		
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			can never repay the debt, to at least
		
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			be grateful
		
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			and thankful for this situation that we didn't
		
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			ask for, but we've been given. It fell
		
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			into our laps. But there's a level even
		
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			beyond that. There's a level beyond Ibadah and
		
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			that is khirafa.
		
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			And this is also from from the Quran.
		
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			Various parts. Obviously, Allah says in Surat Al
		
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			Baqarah when he's talking to the angels that
		
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			we're going to feel audi Khalifa. That he
		
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			tells them, like, I'm going to place on
		
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			earth a Khalifa.
		
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			So there's our purpose right there or one
		
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			of our purposes is to be
		
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			a Khalifa. Is to be a
		
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			well, how can we translate it, a successor
		
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			or a steward or a guardian
		
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			or somebody who comes after somebody else to
		
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			manage things, to take care of things, to
		
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			make sure that things are as they should
		
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			be according to the one who kind of
		
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			put you in that position.
		
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			Hey, that's the highest level.
		
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			Because gratitude
		
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			is about
		
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			expressing something for yourself.
		
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			It doesn't necessarily
		
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			transfer to others.
		
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			Okay. If you're grateful to Allah for creating
		
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			this world and the way he did for
		
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			you recognize the debt and you try to
		
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			be thankful, that's good. It's going to be
		
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			transformational for you, but it's not necessarily gonna
		
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			help the guy next to you. It might,
		
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			but it might not.
		
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			Whereas, once somebody realizes their role as a
		
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			Khalifa
		
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			and that human purpose, the highest purpose for
		
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			human beings is khilafa,
		
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			is stewardship, is doing the work of Allah
		
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			in creation,
		
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			doing what pleases Allah in creation, managing the
		
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			creation
		
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			in a way that pleases Allah.
		
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			That's the highest level. Now you're not just
		
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			expressing gratitude for yourself. Now you're taking care
		
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			of everybody.
		
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			Right? The fish are safe because of you.
		
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			You're the Khalifa.
		
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			The air is pure because you're the Khalifa.
		
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			The water is cleaned because you're the khalifa.
		
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			Every single creature, every single,
		
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			part of creation
		
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			is grateful first to Allah and then towards
		
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			you, because you are affecting and establishing a
		
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			society, a just society, a righteous society, where
		
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			everything is taken care of. That's the ultimate
		
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			purpose of a human being.