Tom Facchine – No Limits- Israels Growing Atrocities and Global Indifference

Tom Facchine
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The speakers emphasize the importance of balancing awareness and control, learning the history of Islam, and finding one's own success in a situation. They stress the importance of following plans and adjusting plans to establish habits and achieve success, including the use of umirability as a tool for um purposes and the importance of consistency in umirability. The speakers briefly touch on the umirability of the world and the um cultural and environmental design, as well as the use of umirability as a tool for um purposes and the importance of consistency in umirability.
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A trap. What do you think is the best strategy would be right now?

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Do you think the US would support them in a larger war, even though

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they said they wouldn't? That's the thing. I mean, like, I think

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that obviously this is comes off of Netanyahu, who's visit to the

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United States. He had private meetings with both Trump and

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Harris.

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We don't know what took place in those meetings. We don't know what

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kind of

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guarantees that he sort of received or possibly threats, if

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any politician views Israeli policy as too damaging to their

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own credibility. We have seen instances such as with Ronald

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Reagan, where they have basically said even Biden early on, not post

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October 7, but you know, in the beginning of Biden's

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administration, saying to Israel, look, you have to cut it out. You

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have to stop it now. This is bad, bad for popularity and bad for

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politics. So we don't know what was said behind closed doors. We

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do know that Netanyahu was testing how much support he has and

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whatever he saw, whether he's right or he's wrong, he is betting

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on having enough support, which is, if he didn't think that, then

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there's no way he would engage in this escalation. Now, what will

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the US do? Will the US, especially We're just a couple months out

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from an election, it's hard to see people willing to escalate before

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an election. Participation in a foreign military conflict where

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the United States interests are not really sort of affected is not

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a very popular move. However, Biden is a lame duck president,

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and so he can kind of do whatever he wants. So that would be up to

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him. Now, when it comes to the next elected President, that is

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another story entirely. So all that to say it's complicated, and

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we're not really sure exactly what is going to happen. I don't see

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personally, I don't see the United States allowing itself to get

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involved more. However, definitely the narrative within Congress that

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is strongest to get involved, if you pay attention to the rhetoric

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from the right, from the Republicans, is always anti Iran.

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So definitely, that's got to be in Israel's thinking when it's trying

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to escalate with Iran. And I'm sure that it was intentional to

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try to assassinate Hania in Iran, because now Iran feels more

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responsible for having allowed this happen on their own soil,

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it's tempting them into a response. Many congressmen have

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explicitly said that they want to go to war with Iran, or they want

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to do something to Iran. This is something, I think, that is in

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their calculus. What happens next? We'll have to wait and see.

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Aisha nashiro says, can you explain more what they did in

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Sudan? Yes, Israel has its hands in what's going on in the Civil

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War or the massacres in Sudan. They are arming, along with other

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sort of collaborators. They are arming

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the belligerent groups and the mercenaries that are operating in

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Sudan. So we see that Zionism has

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Zionism has extreme effects across the globe, not just in in occupied

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Palestine.

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Yes, thank you, Seamus. They support RSF.

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They definitely have an interest in destabilizing Sudan. Sudan has

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been the heart of

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Islamic political movements for some time. So there's definitely a

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an interest in destabilizing Sudan, which is a shame, because

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the people of Sudan are some of the most lovely people in the

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world. I mean, I there were so many Sudanese that I benefited

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from, including professors. When I my time in Medina,

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I was actually many people don't know this. I was actually planning

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on doing my master's degree in Sudan,

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but then the political situation deteriorated there. There was a

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lot of protests over the food, the prices for basic food stuffs, and

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then covid happened. So I wasn't able to do that, Alhamdulillah,

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but that was how close I was to going there.

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Let's see what else we have. Yes, yes. Also the UAE is involved in

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that. Your 100% right there.

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Failed State is right now, 100% right.

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Shakira, why they come? Saddam one off the law he would've got

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to Irvine California. Welcome Amin.

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Oh, we've got Zulu from France while I am Saddam

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Ra, see who else we have. Yes, UAE are also very involved. 100% we

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could get into it. Seamus. It looks like you're pretty well read

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on this.

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It wouldn't it definitely wouldn't be possible without collaborators

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from the inside. And that hooks up to our next topic, which I'm going

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to get through the rest of the chat for a second, when it comes

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to the state of the nation states, the post colonial nation states

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that sort of control the Muslim world, that have been installed

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since World War Two. I.

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This is a very, very important central structural component to

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all of what's going on. It has diminished the capacity of the

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Ummah to do anything or to come to the aid of the Palestinians. Alagm

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Saddam, Minami, Islam Khan, we're just about to talk from Dhaka,

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Bangladesh. Yes, and we definitely are here for you in DUA and in any

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other way possible, we'll be talking about what's going on in

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Bangladesh. Very, very important things and heartbreaking things in

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just a second.

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Sada asks, Where do you think this will end? What can we do? Well, we

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don't have a crystal ball. Well, we can't see what's in front of

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us, and Allah only asks us to do the right thing. So raising

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awareness is the very, very least that we can do, attempting to

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influence if you're someone like me, you're in a Western country,

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the United States is the one who sort of dictates foreign policy

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for a lot of the world, attempting to get involved and to change the

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foreign policy the United States is one of the most important

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things you could do to help your brothers and sisters across the

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ummah. If you're not, if you're in a different place, then it would

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depend on the specifics from where you live. MD Farhan Ahmed says,

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Why Middle East countries threatening to a withdrawal from

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Abraham accords.

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Abraham accords were a horrible idea. That's why the Abraham

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accords were basically slow genocide. You get either slow

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genocide or fast genocide in Palestine, with the occupation

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from Israel and Abraham Accords, was just slow genocide that Israel

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did not adhere to any of the conditions or stipulations of the

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Abraham accords. They were slowly taking over the West Bank in

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Jerusalem. They were not listening to any of it. So it was the slow

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annexation of the whole two state solution, the whole peace process,

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it was all a ruse to buy them time, to basically take more and

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more and more land from Palestinians.

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Angela link, yeah,

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100% You're right. Why are we still giving money to these evil

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people? We should do whatever we can and exercise our political

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power to stop it, to stop giving money to these horrible regimes.

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Faizan asked, What are your thoughts on nectar now his

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ministry using nukes on Gaza? I don't see that as a I think that's

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more bluster, right? You have to really separate between rhetoric

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and policy.

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I think that most Israeli politicians, even though they're

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very arrogant and even though they're very evil, they still

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recognize that there are certain things that are beyond the pale

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that will really make them a pariah state very, very fast. And

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that's probably one of them. That's probably the one thing that

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they won't actually do. But there is a certain political effect to

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to

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saying that you would do it right, just like the United States. How

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many times do you know people in Congress say we need to nuke Iran,

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or we need to nuke these guys, or nuke these guys? They know that

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they're not really going to do it or get the chance to do it.

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However, the rhetoric does something when it comes to

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the audience and other things.

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Why are good Muslims not able to rule along? Well, that's because

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the garrison states that have been set up across the Muslim world

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from after colonialism and after World War Two are controlling

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everything. That's why Imran

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Khan asked an interesting question, how do we understand

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Iran? And I'll say what Sami Hamdi says. And it's true, Iran is its

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own nation state with its own interests, right? Sometimes we

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think very sort of sloppily or categorically. Of you know that

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either they're heroes, right, of the resistance, or that they're

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the most evil thing. They've never done anything good, or that any

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seemingly good thing that they do is, you know, in reality, evil.

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You know, that's sort of simplistic, right? It's a nation

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state. Nation states have their own interests. They have interests

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in being portrayed in a certain way, as being portrayed against

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Islam, against the United States being portrayed as supporters of

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Palestinian resistance, but they also have other interests as well.

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It's a good point about the UAE they are but they do have a lot of

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support from Israel as well. Emad, or whatever the name is,

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Abdul Wahid, yes, very good.

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All right, we got we're going right into the political

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questions. Sahib says, Any updates on the Houthis? Do you think of

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Iran attacks? Will it be through Hezbollah or directly? Do you

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think Lebanon is going to is going to get involved as well, since the

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attack on Beirut,

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I don't know. Again, nobody has a crystal ball. Nobody can see into

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the future. There's definitely, you know, there are some reports

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that are saying Israel is running out of munitions. Israel wants an

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escalation. It probably can't handle an escalation unless the

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United States getting gets involved. I heard, I think I read,

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before jumping online here, that you.

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Now they are meeting today that there's many sort of, what they

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call the access of resistance, are meeting today to determine

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basically what they're going to do. I don't think that you're

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going to see a full out attack scenario, response scenario,

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because that would give Israel what at once, and that would

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provide sort of a justification for the United States to get more

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involved. However, I would expect something probably from Lebanon,

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but Allah knows best. We'll see.

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Yes. NAF says the ICJ also ruled the diplomatic accords weren't

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legal, which they weren't.

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That's true. Seamus, they are already a pariah state. Halafa,

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life. That's true. That is true. Amina, I think I'm Saddam

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raftallah,

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oh, that's a good question. Have you seen gotten the chance to

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respond to some of the criticisms surrounding your recent blog posts

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on Western voices and liberation movement? I haven't really,

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because I've been I've been traveling. There are a few things

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that I'm going to respond to it at certain points in different

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WhatsApp groups and things like that. However, I have not seen, I

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haven't really seen much valid criticism, to be frank. And that's

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not just to toot my own horn, like, you know, I'm a very self

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critical person. I like to think, and I have mentors that would tell

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me, you know, hey, it's like, this is a little bit out of line, or

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whatever. Most of the criticism that I've seen of it either

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overestimates what the left has done for the Palestinian movement

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and for Muslims in the West, or is very sort of fear based, or is

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very leftist based, meaning identity politics. You know, pipe

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down their white Imam, this sort of thing, which isn't our way.

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It's not our way to be frank. So I'm happy to engage with anybody

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who's who's critical of it. I know there's people that I respect a

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lot that don't agree, which is fine. I don't claim to have it all

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figured out,

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but stay tuned. There'll be more of that. Inshallah, you.

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Okay,

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Tala says, why don't all the Imams and all masjids gather all the

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Muslims and show them the power we hold? Why are we just talking?

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Well, I'll tell you. What can I say that? Because the messages

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don't function like that. Tala, the masjids are facilities that

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are often Okay. Let's say this yakin Institute. We have our own

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study that we did when it comes to masajid and Imams. And I'll just

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speak the United States, over half of the masjids in the United

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States don't have full time Imams. We have not prioritized personnel.

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When we do get good personnel and masjids, they are usually

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micromanaged. They are usually

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they're treated as just employees. They're not treated as community

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leaders. We have a structural problem with the message. So it

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would be nice if we imagine that all the Imams, but all the Imams

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are overworked and underpaid. All the Imams need a weekend off to

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themselves, all the Imams. You know, that's the situation we're

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in. So these things do have consequences, right? Not being

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able to have a an Imams union or a licensing sort of for Imams that

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creates standards both for the Imams and for their employers,

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creates a scenario in which imams are actually very weak and

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messages are underutilized. So sure got a vibrant conversation

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going on today.

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Yes, people are pointing out the brutality of the herties. That's

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an important

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Touche, Seamus, touche,

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it is important to not minimize the butchery of the Houthis. A lot

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of people, unfortunately, when their only lens is politics,

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sometimes they forget nobody is this isn't a comic book. Like

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nobody are, like 100% heroes and 100% villains, like there's a lot

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of dirt to go around, right? So it's important to keep those

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things in mind and realize that in the realm of politics, sometimes

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you have good actions that are done by compromised actors, right?

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We're not taking away from any of the good that was done, but we

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also can't be romantic, you know, romantic about it?

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Um, Shayna, great, great question, how has nationalism we can support

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for the causes of the Muslim ummah? Well, living in Al Maghrib,

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you know that, for example, if Al Maghrib and Al jazair were to team

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up, they would be quite a force. But we don't have that. We have

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nationalist sort of ambitions, and we have

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the way that borders were drawn, who was installed in power, who

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was supported? It's unfortunately, a very, very sad situation across

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the Muslim world that the governments care about themselves,

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that they're only looking out for their own survival. They're not

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looking out for what's in the best interest of the ummah. Thankfully,

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the Muslim ummah.

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Self is still fairly intact, despite the governments that rule

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over us and that try to steer us in certain ways. However, it is

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true, the nationalist sentiment is a very big obstacle, maybe the

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biggest obstacle, we were in when we were in Malaysia. I'll give you

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another example, Shema.

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Some of the people asked really great questions, because we were

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there for the umatics conference, and we're actually trying to build

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up this sort of umatic feeling that we feel together as one, as

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an ummah, as the Prophet sallallahu Sallam wanted us to

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feel, however, in Malaysia and in Indonesia, they had a problem

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where they received Rohingya refugees from Myanmar, and there

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was a lot of bigotry against them. They weren't necessarily welcomed,

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or they were treated as guests, but guests in the sense of like,

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okay, so when are you going to move on and go somewhere else? So

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they were complaining like, Yeah, this is an unrealized ideal.

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Sometimes the nationalism is what stops us. Compare that to the

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attitude of the unsolved when the muhajireen came to them from Mecca

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that the Prophet sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam, took those two

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groups of people who were completely foreign to one another,

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and made more Aha, bayna Huma, and made them brothers, made them

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inherit from one another, made them live with one another, and

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they were fine with it. That's a very anti nationalist type of

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attitude, right? So we see the barriers and the obstacles that we

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have to get over, and nationalism is one of the primary ones,

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chieftain.

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How can we overcome the feeling of being completely overwhelmed by

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all the hurt we are witnessing around the Muslim world? But let's

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keep growing country after country. I agree, and I feel the

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same way Subhanallah,

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we really you do need to pace yourself. You don't want to become

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incapacitated, right? Because the strong believer is better than the

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weak believer. We want to have capacity. So if you're putting

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yourself in a situation where you're bombarding yourself with

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awareness of so many things that you can't even do anything, and

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it's diminishing your capacity to do anything, then perhaps it's

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best to turn off the internet and to put your phone down and to

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focus on what are the local issues that you can actually contribute

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to. That is a very, very important ingredient, right? We don't want

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to become we want to be aware, but we don't want to become crippled,

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right? So balancing between those two things is very, very

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important. Saladin asked, Have you ever considered making your own

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channel so you can go hard on some of these topics, so you're not

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restricted by by one c3,

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I think about it all the time. However, I would, I would need

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

people to take care of it. For me. I don't want to have any social

00:37:40 --> 00:37:43

media presence in my name, I would want it to be a collective effort,

00:37:43 --> 00:37:47

and other people sort of running it for me and that sort of thing.

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So it would have to be an arrangement like that, so that I

00:37:50 --> 00:37:53

can focus just on what I'm trying to do.

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And there's only so much time in the day, so we'll see. Who knows

00:37:57 --> 00:37:58

I'm open to it.

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Blogging, blogging. Thoughts, who are the Druze?

00:38:02 --> 00:38:07

How much time do you have no say? Because salamander, we are, we are

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

lucky to have you here. Thank you for joining up. Elias,

00:38:12 --> 00:38:14

if I'm allowed to speak about this, thank you for the qualifier.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:19

Is Afghanistan going to get involved? I don't see that as

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

happening. There was talk a certain brigade from the Taliban

00:38:21 --> 00:38:25

get ready to go to Gaza. Go to Gaza. I mean, anything's possible,

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

but I don't necessarily see that happening, but I could be wrong.

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Aisha asks, What can we do this presidential election to show our

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

solidarity against all the oppression happening in the world,

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especially what is happening in Palestine, you can make sure that

00:38:36 --> 00:38:39

that's your issue. You can vote. And I can't tell you who to vote.

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

You know, as

00:38:41 --> 00:38:44

the brother was saying, I can't on a Yan platform tell you who to

00:38:44 --> 00:38:48

vote for, who to not vote for, however. You need to ask yourself

00:38:48 --> 00:38:51

one question, how much is Muslim blood worth to me? And let that

00:38:51 --> 00:38:54

dictate your vote. Don't allow yourself to be scared into voting

00:38:54 --> 00:38:58

for x or voting for y just because you're running away from this or

00:38:58 --> 00:39:01

running away from that. If you act in a principled way, then,

00:39:01 --> 00:39:03

Inshallah, it will be better.

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

Let's see. Let's see. Let's see. What else do we have? Let's do it.

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

Let's deal with all of them. Let's go

00:39:19 --> 00:39:22

Halal fit. Life brings up something that a lot of people

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feel. And, you know, I know it's not PC, but let's just put it out

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

there, because I know a lot of people have had the similar thing.

00:39:27 --> 00:39:30

Perhaps it's not very PC of me to say, but what can we say when only

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

the Shiites are willing to help? Because,

00:39:33 --> 00:39:36

again, we have to distinguish between the people of the Ummah

00:39:36 --> 00:39:40

and the governments. But it's certainly true that this the Sunni

00:39:40 --> 00:39:42

lands are more

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oppressed and kept down by their governments,

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in the sense of not having any capacity to do anything

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

to help the people of Gaza or Palestine.

00:39:56 --> 00:39:59

There you go. Seamus plugs, belonging theology. Shout out to

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Paul.

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Williams blogging theology is a great channel. You can go there

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

for some of the more theological topics you all are asking about,

00:40:05 --> 00:40:09

Raihan chaudhalah from Toronto,

00:40:10 --> 00:40:14

same answer to Rux. That's where the Muslim armies are, because

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they're all Garrison states that were set up by the Western powers.

00:40:17 --> 00:40:20

We can't really expect anything from them. To be honest with you,

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they're they're doing exactly what they're designed to

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do, how the Ummah can be united. I'm glad you asked.

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Okay, a lot of good stuff. Amina

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says, What advice would you give to Muslims who want to remain

00:40:41 --> 00:40:45

steadfast in western colleges while studying Islam theology

00:40:45 --> 00:40:48

within departments previously known as Oriental Studies? Yeah,

00:40:48 --> 00:40:51

well, I wouldn't study Islam or theology within those departments,

00:40:51 --> 00:40:54

because you're not going to actually learn Islam or theology.

00:40:54 --> 00:40:58

You're going to learn, you know, Western religion, which is a whole

00:40:58 --> 00:41:01

different animal. It's good to study the history of ideas, and

00:41:01 --> 00:41:05

it's good to understand ideology, but all of these departments are

00:41:05 --> 00:41:08

ideologically situated. All these departments are based off of

00:41:08 --> 00:41:12

certain premises that are not based in our episteme. They're not

00:41:12 --> 00:41:16

epistemically Islamic, right? So if you understand sort of the

00:41:17 --> 00:41:21

architecture or the anatomy of those things, that's the best way

00:41:21 --> 00:41:25

to stay steadfast is that you actually understand. You don't

00:41:25 --> 00:41:30

take these things at face value as self evidently true, that you

00:41:30 --> 00:41:33

actually see them for what they are. This is how they think about

00:41:33 --> 00:41:36

religion. This is how they think about Islam, etc. But it's a

00:41:36 --> 00:41:42

really important question. Ruslan raftola, we have nurio waiting.

00:41:42 --> 00:41:45

Saddam raftola from Uzbekistan. Hope you're well, let's

00:41:53 --> 00:41:56

see what Shakira. Imam Tom, what do you think about this coming

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

elections for us Muslims living in the US? Should we vote? Please

00:41:58 --> 00:42:01

advise, there's only so much I can tell you on this particular

00:42:01 --> 00:42:04

platform, you can check my other things. Actually, we just dropped

00:42:04 --> 00:42:08

when we were in Malaysia, we recorded for Islam 20 1c if you

00:42:08 --> 00:42:12

don't know Islam 20 1c go subscribe to Islam 20 1c Dr Salman

00:42:12 --> 00:42:16

and I recorded a nice little video there. You can get my election

00:42:16 --> 00:42:16

advice there.

00:42:21 --> 00:42:26

Okay, what else do we have? Atica, A salaam, talabom, rijo,

00:42:27 --> 00:42:30

Asmaa, still benegracia,

00:42:31 --> 00:42:35

thank you. Toppos, one that's obvious. Bono, thank you very

00:42:35 --> 00:42:36

much. May Allah, bless you.

00:42:37 --> 00:42:41

Okay, what else do we have? Okay, we finally got to the end of it, I

00:42:41 --> 00:42:44

think, yeah, we're gonna, we're gonna talk about Bangladesh right

00:42:44 --> 00:42:45

now. Exactly. Glad you mentioned

00:42:52 --> 00:42:55

it. Good point by Mojo. Thanks for bringing that up. Okay, let's talk

00:42:55 --> 00:42:58

about Bangladesh. So we have, let's bring up the media guys. I

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know we've got something

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all right. So there have been,

00:43:03 --> 00:43:06

there's an ongoing, unfolding situation in Bangladesh that is

00:43:06 --> 00:43:11

very, very hard to watch, where the garrison state, right, the

00:43:11 --> 00:43:15

post colonial government that has been set up, we see as doing sort

00:43:15 --> 00:43:19

of the evil work that it is designed to do yet again. So there

00:43:19 --> 00:43:23

was a quota system that was sort of in place in Bangladesh, where

00:43:24 --> 00:43:29

if you were the descendants of people who had fought in sort of

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the Revolutionary War, the War of Independence, then you would have

00:43:33 --> 00:43:36

easy access to government jobs. And obviously in a lot of these

00:43:36 --> 00:43:39

sort of corrupt Garrison states, government jobs are the best jobs

00:43:39 --> 00:43:43

to have with the best benefits and the best pay. So there was a lot

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

of corruption around that. I've been told by Bangladeshis that I

00:43:45 --> 00:43:49

know that there was a lot of people faking that they were part

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of it, and younger people were frustrated that they were not be

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

able, they were not given opportunities based off of merit,

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to the point where there were people who are valedictorians,

00:44:00 --> 00:44:04

people who are very, very qualified, who aren't able to get

00:44:04 --> 00:44:07

the best jobs because they're being taken up by this sort of

00:44:07 --> 00:44:12

archaic quota system. And so there was protests, and from what I

00:44:12 --> 00:44:15

understand, they were very peaceful, but the government

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reacted in an extremely brutal and harsh and barbaric crackdown.

00:44:19 --> 00:44:23

People have been kidnapped, people have been shot, people have been

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killed. And this actually increased the agitation and the

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demonstrations and the activism of the people of Bangladesh against

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

the government now, not just calling for the removal of the

00:44:35 --> 00:44:39

quota system, but also calling for the resignation of Sheik Hasina of

00:44:39 --> 00:44:45

the PM, the ruling party as well of Bangladesh. So this is a very,

00:44:45 --> 00:44:48

very important thing. Now what's wild is that the United States

00:44:48 --> 00:44:51

will pride itself off of being supposedly a first world country

00:44:51 --> 00:44:54

and different from all these other countries. But this is a very,

00:44:54 --> 00:44:58

very similar thing that happened with the encampments in the United

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States that we see.

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That the governments that are in power today, they exist for their

00:45:03 --> 00:45:06

own survival and their own interests, that they do not

00:45:06 --> 00:45:10

represent the interests of the people, and so they actually call

00:45:10 --> 00:45:13

upon the military and the police against their own people. You had

00:45:13 --> 00:45:18

universities in the United States called the police to come in with

00:45:18 --> 00:45:22

guns drawn against their own students. For what? For protesting

00:45:22 --> 00:45:25

something peacefully, for not wanting their university to be

00:45:25 --> 00:45:30

financially culpable, tied to the Israeli occupation of Palestine.

00:45:30 --> 00:45:33

And we see a very, very similar thing in Bangladesh, where we have

00:45:33 --> 00:45:38

the government that is only interested in its own survival.

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When there are any protests, it calls in the police, it calls in

00:45:41 --> 00:45:46

the armed forces, and tries to put it down that it is the government

00:45:46 --> 00:45:49

against the people. So if you want to know, many of you have wanted

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

have wondered, why can't the Muslim armies do anything? Why

00:45:52 --> 00:45:56

can't the Muslims do anything for azer Palestine? This is exactly

00:45:56 --> 00:45:59

why. Because the Muslim governments are against their

00:45:59 --> 00:46:03

people. They are not for their people, and they're operating in a

00:46:03 --> 00:46:08

way to keep them in line. So we ask Allah subhanahu, a to make it

00:46:08 --> 00:46:12

easy for us and to make us triumph and to make us do what is pleasing

00:46:12 --> 00:46:16

to Him, and our DUA and our solidarity go out with the people

00:46:16 --> 00:46:17

of Bangladesh. A

00:46:20 --> 00:46:20

a

00:46:25 --> 00:46:28

commentary brings up some points about living in New Jersey and how

00:46:28 --> 00:46:33

difficult it is sometimes with the pro Israeli narratives, may Allah

00:46:33 --> 00:46:34

make it easy for you

00:46:37 --> 00:46:39

and bro ducky while I am Saddam raftallah

00:46:42 --> 00:46:43

Yazid

00:46:45 --> 00:46:48

yes, no. Seba, another good point, the government literally had the

00:46:48 --> 00:46:51

internet shut down for almost a week. We couldn't reach our

00:46:51 --> 00:46:55

families that whole time. These are the these are the dirty tricks

00:46:55 --> 00:46:58

that they play, right? So you ask yourself, Is the government

00:46:59 --> 00:47:01

for the people? Is it serving the people, or is it actually

00:47:01 --> 00:47:04

weaponized against the people? And compare that, and here's where we

00:47:04 --> 00:47:07

get to, you know, again, as Muslims, as people who care what

00:47:07 --> 00:47:12

Allah thinks, compare that to the khulafa or Rashidun al mahdien.

00:47:13 --> 00:47:17

Compare that to Abu Bakr radi Lahu, to Ala Anu, when he was

00:47:17 --> 00:47:21

given the authority over the Muslims. And what did he say to

00:47:21 --> 00:47:24

the Muslims? He said, If I do something wrong, straighten me

00:47:24 --> 00:47:28

out. He didn't even just say to tell me. He said even to

00:47:28 --> 00:47:32

physically straighten me out. And when AMR RadiAllahu, anhu, when he

00:47:32 --> 00:47:36

was the Khalifa, that he would pace the streets at night to make

00:47:36 --> 00:47:40

sure that everybody was taken care of, Islam is for good governance.

00:47:40 --> 00:47:44

Islam is for governance that takes care of the people. As the Prophet

00:47:44 --> 00:47:50

sallallahu said Kula Kumar in WA kulukum as Yeti, right, that every

00:47:50 --> 00:47:53

single one of you is a shepherd, and every single one of you is

00:47:53 --> 00:47:57

responsible for his flock. And he compared, he said that the leader,

00:47:57 --> 00:48:01

the Imam or the Amir, is responsible for the entire flock,

00:48:01 --> 00:48:08

everybody who is under him. So how can we compare this, the paradigm,

00:48:08 --> 00:48:12

the example that the Prophet SAW set out for us, compared to what

00:48:12 --> 00:48:17

we see now is the Government of Bangladesh acting as if the people

00:48:17 --> 00:48:21

that it is like a shepherd over the flock? No, they are using

00:48:21 --> 00:48:24

weapons and shooting and killing, and they're acting as if they are

00:48:24 --> 00:48:29

the enemy of the people. So we see such a vast difference between the

00:48:29 --> 00:48:32

good governance that Islam came, came to give accountability,

00:48:32 --> 00:48:38

responsiveness, right that we find in the pious predecessors, the

00:48:38 --> 00:48:42

Salaf, versus the complete aloofness and animosity and enmity

00:48:43 --> 00:48:43

that we find

00:48:45 --> 00:48:49

with the garrison states that rule over our Muslim brothers and

00:48:49 --> 00:48:50

sisters throughout the world.

00:48:57 --> 00:49:00

Ruslan says, would love to visit Malaysia more someday we are

00:49:00 --> 00:49:04

neighboring Singapore. Yes, I highly recommend

00:49:06 --> 00:49:08

same Seamus, giving us more history. Mashallah, Sheamus,

00:49:08 --> 00:49:11

you're well read. Maybe you should give us some book recommendations.

00:49:11 --> 00:49:14

Hasina buried hundreds of Dayo, Bandi, ulama in 2013 and mass

00:49:14 --> 00:49:16

graves wouldn't put it past her.

00:49:20 --> 00:49:24

Samiha, yes, we couldn't even call bangladesc directly known as for

00:49:24 --> 00:49:26

five days straight along must die.

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

It is heartbreaking. Kagura,

00:49:38 --> 00:49:41

Internet came back yesterday, apparently no sabe was telling us

00:49:44 --> 00:49:48

also Minami confirms that May Allah help the people of

00:49:48 --> 00:49:48

Bangladesh.

00:49:51 --> 00:49:55

Yeah, now shame, I agree completely that comparison, it

00:49:55 --> 00:49:59

does Shatan and fuck right. How different are the two things?

00:50:05 --> 00:50:09

Okay, very good. So let's proceed. So that's all for the news, except

00:50:09 --> 00:50:13

one last thing, which is the Olympics. And we, I think we've

00:50:13 --> 00:50:16

got some media to show here. Now, every four years or so, the

00:50:16 --> 00:50:22

Olympics comes around, and we've seen the pageantry. There's a lot

00:50:22 --> 00:50:23

of sort of

00:50:24 --> 00:50:27

chest beating. I remember, you know, the United States, it likes

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

to advertise, if it's winning in the gold medals, it'll show the

00:50:30 --> 00:50:34

gold medal count. If it's not, if it's only winning in total medals,

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

it'll only show the total medals count. There's a lot of, you know,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:40

competition and things like that. However, this Olympics has been

00:50:41 --> 00:50:45

one of the most controversial in memory, and that is because we had

00:50:45 --> 00:50:50

a very, very provocative display at the opening ceremony where a

00:50:50 --> 00:50:54

bunch of transgender individuals sought to recreate the Last

00:50:54 --> 00:50:59

Supper, mocking Risa Ibn Maryam, alaihi salam, mocking Jesus, the

00:50:59 --> 00:51:04

Son of Mary. And this was a it was an insult. It was tremendously

00:51:04 --> 00:51:08

insulting. Now, there's a couple points to make here. One is that

00:51:08 --> 00:51:12

the Olympics is something of a scam. Everybody should realize

00:51:12 --> 00:51:17

this in that these are athletes who make very, very little, if

00:51:17 --> 00:51:23

any, money off of this, you know, this event, they're basically

00:51:23 --> 00:51:27

taught that they are competing for pride and competing for national

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

sort of, you know, patriotism and glory and these sorts of things.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:36

However, in the Age of Television deals and streaming deals, etc,

00:51:36 --> 00:51:39

the people who organize the Olympics make a ton of money, a

00:51:39 --> 00:51:43

ton of money, billions of dollars off of the labor of these

00:51:43 --> 00:51:49

athletes. Okay, now, when people tune into the Olympics, they want

00:51:49 --> 00:51:53

to see the sports. They want to see people competing. They don't

00:51:53 --> 00:51:59

want to see transgender, whatever, mocking religion. And yet, the

00:51:59 --> 00:52:03

people who are organized in the Olympics are trying to capitalize

00:52:03 --> 00:52:08

off of this moment, in order to force this ideology down people's

00:52:08 --> 00:52:12

throats, in order to normalize this sort of thing, and in order

00:52:12 --> 00:52:16

to make a mockery of religion. And how fitting apologies to our

00:52:16 --> 00:52:19

French brothers and sisters, but how fitting that this is all

00:52:19 --> 00:52:23

happening in France. So we see that sports are just as political

00:52:23 --> 00:52:26

as anything else. Don't let anybody tell you that sports are

00:52:26 --> 00:52:30

political. Look at how when Russia invaded Ukraine, it was

00:52:30 --> 00:52:35

ostracized, and look at how much worse Israel has done to

00:52:35 --> 00:52:39

Palestine, and yet somehow Israel is still still in it. Tell me that

00:52:39 --> 00:52:42

sports aren't political. Tell me that the Olympics are neutral or

00:52:42 --> 00:52:49

not political. We see that the open mockery of a prophet of

00:52:49 --> 00:52:53

Allah, subhanaw taala, is on display. So again, show me how,

00:52:53 --> 00:52:57

where's the neutrality. Show me what, where this is something that

00:52:57 --> 00:53:03

is not political. There are always very, very significant political

00:53:03 --> 00:53:06

messages that are being conveyed through international sports,

00:53:06 --> 00:53:09

especially the Olympics, especially FIFA, all these big

00:53:09 --> 00:53:16

organizations. And what we see is that 2024 it's almost as if this

00:53:16 --> 00:53:20

is the year that the West lost moral legitimacy, if you didn't

00:53:20 --> 00:53:24

realize it before that, we see that with the international

00:53:24 --> 00:53:30

institutions, okay, such as the UN and the ICJ, and every single

00:53:30 --> 00:53:35

institution that has allowed the genocide in Gaza to to continue.

00:53:35 --> 00:53:40

And we also see it culturally, all of the Nobel Peace Prizes and all

00:53:40 --> 00:53:44

of the sort of the posturing that the Western world was the most

00:53:44 --> 00:53:47

moral, the most enlightened, and this is what we have at the end of

00:53:47 --> 00:53:52

the day. What's at the end of it? The end of it is mocking Jesus,

00:53:52 --> 00:53:57

the son of Mary, alaihi salam. We see that who are the people that

00:53:57 --> 00:54:00

are left to defend Isa? Who are the people that are left to defend

00:54:00 --> 00:54:03

Jesus. The Muslims are the only ones left. Not even the Christians

00:54:03 --> 00:54:07

will defend Jesus's honor in the way that the Muslims will. As

00:54:07 --> 00:54:10

Allah subhanaw taala says in the Quran that he is the servant of

00:54:10 --> 00:54:13

Allah and the bearer of the Gospels, one of the five greatest

00:54:13 --> 00:54:16

messengers. We've actually got this. I think if we can link to it

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

and show it on Yaqeen Institute, who is Jesus in islama blog post?

00:54:19 --> 00:54:22

It's a very, very important one. This is by far one of the things

00:54:22 --> 00:54:25

that will shock Christians. If you're ever in the situation to

00:54:25 --> 00:54:29

talk to Christians about Islam, most of them have no idea that we

00:54:29 --> 00:54:32

believe in Isa, or that he's a prophet, or that we respect him,

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

or anything like that. So this is a very, very,

00:54:36 --> 00:54:40

it's very, it's very important opportunity to take this, because

00:54:40 --> 00:54:43

there are going to be people that are outraged. I know some people

00:54:43 --> 00:54:45

like Kagura are saying, I'm surprised that the Christian

00:54:45 --> 00:54:49

population wasn't more outraged. Well, they've been socially

00:54:49 --> 00:54:53

engineered to be not outraged. But yes, there are some people that

00:54:53 --> 00:54:56

are very outraged, and this is a very, very important opportunity

00:54:56 --> 00:54:59

for Dawa. So you're outraged by this. Guess what? I'm a Muslim,

00:54:59 --> 00:54:59

and.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:03

I'm outraged by this too, that no prophet that we believe, that

00:55:03 --> 00:55:06

Jesus is a prophet, he should not be mocked. Religion should not be

00:55:06 --> 00:55:09

mocked like this. This is completely inappropriate, that the

00:55:09 --> 00:55:12

so called, and we saw this with Charlie Hebdo and everything else,

00:55:13 --> 00:55:18

the so called right to free speech is, in reality, a political

00:55:18 --> 00:55:23

maneuver to taint and mock everything that is sacred, to

00:55:23 --> 00:55:27

taint and to mock everything that people find holy, morality,

00:55:27 --> 00:55:31

virtue. And so this is something that is not neutral. It's not just

00:55:31 --> 00:55:35

about free speech, because as we've as we know and as we've seen

00:55:35 --> 00:55:38

the last nine months, you can't say everything. There's certain

00:55:38 --> 00:55:40

things you're not allowed to say. But when it comes to making fun of

00:55:40 --> 00:55:43

religion, we're always allowed to make fun of religion. To make fun

00:55:46 --> 00:55:51

of religion. Yes, good point. Minami, Islam Khan and the hijab

00:55:51 --> 00:55:56

is banned at the Olympics as well, because, again, France so we see,

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

nothing is ever neutral. There's no such thing as neutrality.

00:56:00 --> 00:56:03

Nothing is a political there's no such thing as not being political.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:07

Everything has a political dimension to it, and politics is

00:56:07 --> 00:56:09

on display once again, 100%

00:56:11 --> 00:56:14

Yazid. If it was the Muslims committing a genocide, it would be

00:56:14 --> 00:56:17

front page every day.

00:56:18 --> 00:56:19

We wouldn't hear the end of it. I

00:56:23 --> 00:56:26

uh, Irina asked a good question. I can't get what's the relation

00:56:26 --> 00:56:28

between Jesus and the Olympics? There is no relation to it. They

00:56:28 --> 00:56:32

had to bring it in there because just they wanted to be provocative

00:56:32 --> 00:56:34

and mock it and make fun of it.

00:56:36 --> 00:56:40

So honestly, if I were you, and I do realize that we have people

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

from Palestine that are participating in the Olympics, and

00:56:43 --> 00:56:46

there's some people who, you know, I know there were some Algerian

00:56:46 --> 00:56:50

athlete who refused to go up against an Israeli athlete, and

00:56:50 --> 00:56:53

there are admirable moments like this. But if you were to put me on

00:56:53 --> 00:56:57

the spot, I would say that, if you're a Muslim, don't watch the

00:56:57 --> 00:57:02

Olympics. Don't give them that money from their advertising,

00:57:02 --> 00:57:05

their commercials and the TV deals that they've got. I think that

00:57:05 --> 00:57:08

it's high time that maybe the Muslim, and this is we're thinking

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

about unity. We're thinking about an ummah. Maybe the Ummah needs

00:57:10 --> 00:57:15

its own Olympics, right? Where we honor the prophets, where we wear

00:57:15 --> 00:57:19

hijab, where we have these sorts of things. Maybe we need our own,

00:57:19 --> 00:57:21

our own cultural institutions. Yep.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:31

A lot of people putting out the hypocrisy, 100%

00:57:41 --> 00:57:46

yes, range, I completely agree it was not family friendly

00:57:46 --> 00:57:50

whatsoever. And that is one of the crazy things,

00:57:52 --> 00:57:55

is how aggressive it is towards children, honestly, like you, you

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

you take these things and you can't, you don't even want to go

00:57:57 --> 00:58:00

outside anymore. Subhanallah, like it, puts you in a scenario where

00:58:00 --> 00:58:03

you just don't even know what you're going to be looking at,

00:58:03 --> 00:58:04

some sort of very sexually explicit

00:58:06 --> 00:58:08

thing. But people, as we're saying, people have been

00:58:08 --> 00:58:11

desensitized to it, and the desensitization is actually a

00:58:11 --> 00:58:14

social engineering project. This is something that's very

00:58:14 --> 00:58:17

intentional to get you to be desensitized to it so that you

00:58:17 --> 00:58:18

won't be offended.

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

Oh, I see is another point. Yes. Toothless,

00:58:25 --> 00:58:28

very good. Okay, so let's transition now. We're going to

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

talk Kitab Asia. We're going to talk what Sahih Muslim, the

00:58:30 --> 00:58:36

chapter of Asir, or the Kitab Uji had. We've got a very interesting

00:58:36 --> 00:58:40

Hadith today talking about meeting your enemies. And so the question

00:58:40 --> 00:58:43

will pose to everybody, yes or no question, it'll make it easy.

00:58:44 --> 00:58:49

Should we hope, as Muslims, to meet our enemy in battle? What do

00:58:49 --> 00:58:51

you think? What does Islam have to say?

00:58:54 --> 00:58:57

Should we hope to meet? I know a lot of the young guys out there

00:58:57 --> 00:59:02

and be like, man, like I want to let me add it right. They're

00:59:02 --> 00:59:07

raring to go. Should we hope to meet our enemies in battle? There

00:59:07 --> 00:59:11

you go. I like it. No. Seva, Muslim nation, Cricket World Cup,

00:59:12 --> 00:59:14

the Ummah soccer tournament.

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

Sorry, we'd have to call it football. I know, I know

00:59:20 --> 00:59:22

Rick Rashid,

00:59:24 --> 00:59:27

okay? Minami Islam Khan says, Yes, I think that you're responding my

00:59:27 --> 00:59:30

question, Should we hope to meet our enemies in battle?

00:59:31 --> 00:59:36

Abdul sama says, No, we have khilaf s a no. Irina says, should

00:59:36 --> 00:59:39

we I don't know, that's what I'm asking you. Shayma says, No, we

00:59:39 --> 00:59:42

shouldn't. Abdul sama says there's a hadith,

00:59:43 --> 00:59:47

and that is the hadith of this particular chapter. Yes, the

00:59:47 --> 00:59:51

prophet Alayhi Salatu was Salam. He said, specifically, let me get

00:59:51 --> 00:59:57

it up here. La Taman no Leq Allah Adu, what either a tomo HUM

00:59:57 --> 00:59:59

faspiru, the Prophet sallallahu, sallam, said.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:06

Do not hope to meet the enemy, but when you meet them, then be

01:00:06 --> 01:00:09

patient. And there's another there's another rewire, there's

01:00:09 --> 01:00:13

another version of this hadith, which is also correct letter the

01:00:13 --> 01:00:23

manolika do was ALLAH, hello and Al Jannat, tahta, Villa Raf, very

01:00:23 --> 01:00:28

similar. Don't hope to meet the enemy and ask ALLAH SubhanA wa

01:00:28 --> 01:00:33

Taala for a well being. That's a very important addition. And if or

01:00:33 --> 01:00:39

so, if you meet the enemy, then be patient and know that Jannah is

01:00:39 --> 01:00:42

under the shade of swords. We don't have time to explain all of

01:00:42 --> 01:00:47

that, but one of the important things here is that we're taught,

01:00:47 --> 01:00:52

and we're taught to not hope to meet the enemy. Muslims don't go

01:00:52 --> 01:00:55

looking for trouble. That's the the main takeaway from this

01:00:55 --> 01:00:59

hadith. We don't go looking for trouble. We don't we're not

01:00:59 --> 01:01:04

aggressors. We're not looking for a fight. This is not the way of a

01:01:04 --> 01:01:08

Muslim, okay? Because, as the or the mat, who have explained this

01:01:08 --> 01:01:12

hadith, note that is associated with vice and with

01:01:13 --> 01:01:17

non praiseworthy, we say blameworthy qualities such as

01:01:17 --> 01:01:21

pride, boastfulness, recklessness, right? These are things that you

01:01:21 --> 01:01:24

would associate with somebody who's just all the way looking for

01:01:24 --> 01:01:28

a fight, like some of the nations who occupy Palestine are acting

01:01:28 --> 01:01:35

like, okay. Now that's not to say that the only type of military

01:01:35 --> 01:01:39

activity or sort of fighting in Islam is only defensive. That's

01:01:39 --> 01:01:41

not strictly true either. I know some people have tried to make

01:01:41 --> 01:01:45

that claim popular in recent years, in light of 911 and sort of

01:01:45 --> 01:01:49

the War on Terror discourse, that there is room within fiqh for

01:01:49 --> 01:01:52

things like preemptive strikes. You can see it if you go into the

01:01:52 --> 01:01:56

fiqh and the Sira, the Prophet sallallahu, sallam. However, it's

01:01:56 --> 01:01:59

very, very calculated. It's very rules based. It's very, sort of

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

animated by all the rest of the rules that we've talked about and

01:02:02 --> 01:02:05

that we will continue to talk about, it's not the same thing as

01:02:05 --> 01:02:09

aggression, right? There are situations where you need to

01:02:09 --> 01:02:13

display a deterrence power, but even the display of deterrence

01:02:13 --> 01:02:18

power is only to stop the evil of your enemy, and that is if you

01:02:18 --> 01:02:24

want to tie everything in Islamic sort of the rules of war. It's all

01:02:24 --> 01:02:27

about stopping the evil of your enemy. Right? Is that we want a

01:02:27 --> 01:02:32

situation in which a just peace prevails, but sometimes you have

01:02:32 --> 01:02:36

to do things to establish that just peace. It's not going to just

01:02:36 --> 01:02:38

happen by itself. And unfortunately, there are evil

01:02:38 --> 01:02:42

people in the world with evil plans, and evil does not rest. Now

01:02:42 --> 01:02:45

the second half of the Hadith where the prophet said, if you

01:02:45 --> 01:02:49

find yourself in that situation, then the most important virtue

01:02:49 --> 01:02:53

that you can take with yourself is patience. And certainly, nine

01:02:53 --> 01:02:58

months into a genocide, we see the people of Gaza displaying immense

01:02:58 --> 01:03:02

patience. That patience in the middle of this thing is the most

01:03:02 --> 01:03:05

important virtue to have. It's what's going to get you through to

01:03:05 --> 01:03:08

the end. It's a very, very difficult. It's extremely hard.

01:03:08 --> 01:03:12

You will ask, just like Allah says in the Quran Mehta and Asra Allah,

01:03:13 --> 01:03:17

when will Allah's help come? But Allah subhanaw taala has a plan,

01:03:17 --> 01:03:20

and as long as you're doing what Allah subhanaw taala wants, then

01:03:20 --> 01:03:24

we have good hope in Allah. We believe that Allah is with the

01:03:24 --> 01:03:27

believers. We believe that he is with the righteous. We believe

01:03:27 --> 01:03:32

that everything that happens Allah is showing us something. He's

01:03:32 --> 01:03:36

showing us something, and he wants something from us. He's showing us

01:03:36 --> 01:03:40

who are the traitors. He's showing us who are the people that don't

01:03:40 --> 01:03:43

value Muslim blood, who are the people who don't value Palestinian

01:03:43 --> 01:03:48

lives, who are the people who are ready to sell out the Ummah just

01:03:48 --> 01:03:54

to get a position in a cabinet or in a campaign? Right? So maybe we

01:03:54 --> 01:03:57

say, well, why does it have to last so long? Well, Allah

01:03:57 --> 01:04:00

continues to show us things, and so pay attention and notice what

01:04:00 --> 01:04:05

he's showing you, and try to learn and do what and do what

01:04:06 --> 01:04:07

Allah spun Allah would want us to do.

01:04:14 --> 01:04:15

Okay,

01:04:16 --> 01:04:20

here we go. Sa, Ada, you have a point. Yeah, you'll be a martyr or

01:04:20 --> 01:04:23

your win. That's correct. But when it comes for hoping for the actual

01:04:25 --> 01:04:28

encounter, then the Prophet saw him said, No,

01:04:29 --> 01:04:32

but if you find yourself in that situation, then exactly right.

01:04:35 --> 01:04:39

That's a good point to Yazid about the Muslim French sportsmen such

01:04:39 --> 01:04:40

as Zidane and Benzema.

01:04:41 --> 01:04:45

Unfortunately, as we've seen, I mean France, I think, I think it

01:04:45 --> 01:04:49

was France that they sacked the footballer for even tweeting and

01:04:49 --> 01:04:53

very, very minimally in support of Gaza. So imagine what they would

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

do if you, you know,

01:04:55 --> 01:04:59

tramped on, trampled on what they think is sacred. Ah, wait a

01:04:59 --> 01:04:59

second, we're not sacked.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:01

Are neutral and tolerant anymore.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:08

Good answer. Salma, correct. Arena, correct,

01:05:09 --> 01:05:09

okay,

01:05:14 --> 01:05:17

okay. Azita has to go to work. Thanks for joining us today. You

01:05:26 --> 01:05:30

uh Minami Islam Khan says it's not about fight or being reckless, but

01:05:30 --> 01:05:35

shouldn't we sometimes meet face to face for negotiations or other

01:05:35 --> 01:05:38

discussions? Yes, that's a good point. That's not what the hadith

01:05:38 --> 01:05:41

is talking about. So when the Prophet was saying Allah Adu, he

01:05:41 --> 01:05:42

means on the battlefield.

01:05:43 --> 01:05:47

He doesn't mean meeting in the linguistic sense of just any

01:05:47 --> 01:05:50

meeting, like a negotiation or anything like that. Rick Rashid,

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

we talked about Malaysia earlier, gonna have to watch the recording,

01:05:53 --> 01:05:54

because it was awesome.

01:06:00 --> 01:06:04

Muna Mara from Montreal, Ozil

01:06:05 --> 01:06:09

also is a good point. Yes, 100% he was silenced.

01:06:14 --> 01:06:16

Yep. May sage, your 100% right.

01:06:18 --> 01:06:21

Okay, very good. And with that, we'll turn to our last segment for

01:06:21 --> 01:06:25

today. We've got a really, really specific and interesting segment

01:06:25 --> 01:06:28

of our personal development section. We're going to talk about

01:06:28 --> 01:06:32

atomic habits. Now, you all had homework. Does anybody remember

01:06:32 --> 01:06:35

what it was? It was two weeks ago, a long time ago?

01:06:36 --> 01:06:38

Oh, yes. Do you remember what it was? No, he doesn't remember what

01:06:38 --> 01:06:41

it was. Nobody remembers what it was. Okay. Whoa. Chart, right?

01:06:43 --> 01:06:46

Yeah, yeah, okay, to track, remember, just to become aware of

01:06:46 --> 01:06:51

your habits. That was step one. Step two was to rate them, plus

01:06:51 --> 01:06:56

sign, minus sign, equals sign. And we said that we were going to come

01:06:56 --> 01:07:01

today with a habit that we were doing over the last two weeks, and

01:07:01 --> 01:07:05

one example of a plus, one example of a minus. Okay, so work on that.

01:07:05 --> 01:07:07

Hit us up in the chat. What did you get? And we're

01:07:08 --> 01:07:12

going to do stuff with that today. Now we said that there was a stage

01:07:12 --> 01:07:15

three that the author was telling us that we're talking about

01:07:15 --> 01:07:18

speaking or naming or calling out that this was actually a really

01:07:18 --> 01:07:23

important tool to increase our awareness of what we're doing. So

01:07:23 --> 01:07:27

he had given the example of just like, Okay, I am now drinking a

01:07:27 --> 01:07:27

cup of water, right?

01:07:29 --> 01:07:32

This is something that draws attention to the things that you

01:07:32 --> 01:07:34

do, because sometimes you don't even notice your bad habits,

01:07:34 --> 01:07:37

because you do them so automatically. So when you're Doom

01:07:37 --> 01:07:40

scrolling on your phone, right, you don't realize you're doing it.

01:07:41 --> 01:07:44

You then you look up at the clock and 30 minutes have passed and you

01:07:44 --> 01:07:46

haven't done anything. You were supposed to be doing your

01:07:46 --> 01:07:48

homework. You were supposed to be doing other things, right?

01:07:50 --> 01:07:50

So

01:07:52 --> 01:07:55

that is really important to sort of being able to put yourself in a

01:07:55 --> 01:07:58

position where you're able to intervene, that if you don't, if

01:07:58 --> 01:08:04

you're not aware of your habits. You cannot put yourself in a

01:08:04 --> 01:08:07

position where you can intervene in your habits. Swarming asked you

01:08:07 --> 01:08:10

believe the state of Israel has a right to exist under any borders?

01:08:10 --> 01:08:13

Habibi, no state has a right to exist. What

01:08:14 --> 01:08:18

do you think this is? States aren't people, nobody, no state

01:08:18 --> 01:08:19

has a right to exist.

01:08:21 --> 01:08:26

Okay, so I'll lead off, since I don't see a lot of examples in the

01:08:28 --> 01:08:28

in the chat,

01:08:30 --> 01:08:30

let's

01:08:34 --> 01:08:38

see Abdullah positive decaf Mashallah.

01:08:40 --> 01:08:42

One of my habits is drinking coffee. Okay? I drink three

01:08:42 --> 01:08:47

espressos a day. Okay? I think that's a plus. I'm totally,

01:08:47 --> 01:08:48

totally fine with that.

01:08:49 --> 01:08:52

What's one negative habit that I that I put on sometimes I

01:08:52 --> 01:08:55

definitely Doom scroll with YouTube,

01:08:57 --> 01:09:01

and that is something that will have a lot to say about sort of

01:09:01 --> 01:09:04

the habits that come about with the phone as well, because the

01:09:04 --> 01:09:06

phone is really, really,

01:09:08 --> 01:09:10

it's really bad for our habits. We talked about it a little bit

01:09:11 --> 01:09:14

before YouTube shorts, Abdullah, that's you.

01:09:16 --> 01:09:19

Alhamdulillah, thankfully I don't scroll shorts, because you can't

01:09:19 --> 01:09:21

control what's what comes up, you know.

01:09:22 --> 01:09:28

But I, you know the main sort of thing, Saddam patience, okay, Rick

01:09:28 --> 01:09:31

Rashid, is his patience? Doom scrolling, the bad news, yeah,

01:09:31 --> 01:09:32

that's true.

01:09:35 --> 01:09:38

Okay, so let's get into it. Maybe you'll think about some of your

01:09:38 --> 01:09:41

things. Okay, here we go. Shayma, thank you sleeping after fajr.

01:09:41 --> 01:09:45

Okay? Negative, excellent. Great example. Great example. Great

01:09:45 --> 01:09:49

example, plus arena walking instead of sitting for a long

01:09:49 --> 01:09:52

time, excellent. That's exactly what we're talking about. Great

01:09:52 --> 01:09:52

examples.

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

Muni ware, Salaam raftola from India, noseiba, so.

01:10:00 --> 01:10:03

Scrolling YouTube while talking to my mom on the phone. You're so

01:10:03 --> 01:10:05

honest. May Allah, bless you for your honesty and help you with it.

01:10:07 --> 01:10:10

Attika, I completely agree. Espresso is dilisio so and lasim

01:10:12 --> 01:10:15

Fatima Valley, also with the YouTube Amina says negative habit

01:10:15 --> 01:10:18

checking Twitter for news instead of real articles. Yeah, that's

01:10:18 --> 01:10:22

part of why I got off of social media, because they really, really

01:10:22 --> 01:10:25

do, hack your brain, and they hack into your habits. You end up

01:10:25 --> 01:10:27

wasting so much time on them as well.

01:10:29 --> 01:10:30

Alright, good.

01:10:31 --> 01:10:34

Keep them coming. We'll get into some of the techniques, and we'll,

01:10:34 --> 01:10:37

we'll, we'll, we'll circle back. So today

01:10:40 --> 01:10:43

we're going to talk about the best way to start a new habit. Okay,

01:10:43 --> 01:10:46

you're going to like this, because it gets into very specific things.

01:10:46 --> 01:10:50

The best way to start a new habit. Now, he cites a study, and it's a

01:10:50 --> 01:10:54

really, really interesting study. It was an experiment that was done

01:10:54 --> 01:10:59

with three groups of people, okay? And the the idea of the goal the

01:10:59 --> 01:11:04

study was to see what would get people to exercise more? So they

01:11:04 --> 01:11:07

divided people into three groups. The first group was just the

01:11:07 --> 01:11:12

control group, okay? The second group of people were exposed to

01:11:12 --> 01:11:16

videos that were showing them why it's a good idea to exercise. What

01:11:16 --> 01:11:19

are the consequences of not exercising? So it's only focusing

01:11:19 --> 01:11:24

on motivation, okay? The third group gets the same thing that the

01:11:24 --> 01:11:29

second group has the videos the motivation, but then they're told

01:11:29 --> 01:11:34

and they're handed a pen and paper to make a plan for exercising. All

01:11:34 --> 01:11:39

right, you see the setup here. Now the the results are shocking. The

01:11:39 --> 01:11:43

results are actually shocking. There was no difference between

01:11:43 --> 01:11:44

group one and two

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in how much they exercised between 35 to 38%

01:11:50 --> 01:11:53

that means that receiving motivation

01:11:54 --> 01:12:01

is not effective at all. Statistically. It's statistically

01:12:01 --> 01:12:04

the same as not receiving any motivation without a plan. So

01:12:04 --> 01:12:08

that's the main takeaway from the study, is that the plan is really

01:12:08 --> 01:12:12

the thing that is going to push you over the edge to be able to

01:12:12 --> 01:12:17

develop a new habit. Now think about this group three. So we said

01:12:17 --> 01:12:19

group one and two were both like between 35 and 38%

01:12:21 --> 01:12:26

35 to 38% of them exercised the way that they wanted them to. What

01:12:26 --> 01:12:29

do you think the percentage was for the third group that not only

01:12:29 --> 01:12:33

received the motivational videos, but then were actually put in a

01:12:33 --> 01:12:35

position where they had to plan on how they were going to do it?

01:12:36 --> 01:12:37

91%

01:12:38 --> 01:12:45

91% of them exercise according to what they wanted to do, which is

01:12:45 --> 01:12:51

amazing. Okay, like so we see that the takeaway is that motivation is

01:12:51 --> 01:12:55

not enough. Motivation, honestly, is not very effective when it

01:12:55 --> 01:13:02

comes to establishing habits, that it is mostly about having a plan.

01:13:02 --> 01:13:02

See,

01:13:07 --> 01:13:10

we got a couple trolls here in the comment section and some other

01:13:10 --> 01:13:12

people as well. Amanda Walker, while they're

01:13:14 --> 01:13:17

healthier, diet, very good

01:13:19 --> 01:13:22

sleeping before he shot. I mean, yeah, I've had to sleep before he

01:13:22 --> 01:13:25

shot when I came back to the US because my body was still on

01:13:25 --> 01:13:26

Malaysian time.

01:13:27 --> 01:13:30

Okay, so we see that we need a plan. And this is what's called

01:13:30 --> 01:13:33

implementation intention, all right, that is the word for it,

01:13:33 --> 01:13:38

implementation intention that the strongest cues, if you're looking

01:13:38 --> 01:13:44

to start a new habit, the strongest cues are time and place.

01:13:45 --> 01:13:49

Time and Place are the strongest cues to establish a new habit.

01:13:49 --> 01:13:52

They did this. They This is why, if you go to sort of political

01:13:52 --> 01:13:57

action committees and people that are involved in elections, one of

01:13:57 --> 01:13:59

the things that they always do when they got you on the phone,

01:13:59 --> 01:14:03

they say, where are you voting? How are you going to get there?

01:14:03 --> 01:14:07

Because they know that that last question making somebody think,

01:14:07 --> 01:14:12

well, my local polling spot is there, and I need to take the bus,

01:14:12 --> 01:14:16

or I'm going to walk, or I'm going to get a ride, that that

01:14:16 --> 01:14:19

dramatically increases the likelihood that the behavior is

01:14:19 --> 01:14:23

actually going to happen if you don't do that, if you don't make

01:14:23 --> 01:14:27

your implementation intention, that you're leaving it to chance,

01:14:27 --> 01:14:31

you're leaving it to chance. And a good amount of the time we won't

01:14:31 --> 01:14:35

follow through, right? We'll get distracted. We will get busy with

01:14:35 --> 01:14:39

something else. Sometimes we'll just forget. And this is not due

01:14:39 --> 01:14:43

to a lack of motivation, like we're often told, it is actually

01:14:43 --> 01:14:47

due to a lack of planning. So we are going to do an activity

01:14:47 --> 01:14:48

together right now.

01:14:50 --> 01:14:55

We're going to, I want everybody to make a statement, okay, an

01:14:55 --> 01:14:58

implementation intention. You're going to think about a new habit

01:14:58 --> 01:14:59

that you want to have. You.

01:15:00 --> 01:15:04

You're going to write it down in this form, okay? You're going to

01:15:04 --> 01:15:10

say, I will blank. That's the behavior, the action that you want

01:15:10 --> 01:15:15

to do at blank. That's the time when you're going to do it in

01:15:15 --> 01:15:17

blank, and that's the location where you're going to do it at,

01:15:18 --> 01:15:25

okay, so you need to have three ingredients. I will x at y in Z, X

01:15:25 --> 01:15:29

is the behavior that you want to do at is the time when you want to

01:15:29 --> 01:15:34

do it, and z is the location where you are going to do it. So let's

01:15:34 --> 01:15:34

see.

01:15:35 --> 01:15:39

I've been practicing my Malay So, but I've been very sporadic at it.

01:15:39 --> 01:15:43

So let's I'm going to do one right now. I will practice Malay

01:15:44 --> 01:15:45

at,

01:15:47 --> 01:15:50

let's say immediately after I pray Lord

01:15:51 --> 01:15:53

in location.

01:15:56 --> 01:15:58

Let's say in,

01:16:00 --> 01:16:04

in the car before I go. Let's say I go to the masjid for Doha, I say

01:16:04 --> 01:16:08

in the car before I go home there. So I've gone and I've prayed

01:16:08 --> 01:16:12

though her I come back to my car, I'm in my car before I turn the

01:16:12 --> 01:16:15

ignition key. Or maybe because it's super hot here, I'll turn the

01:16:15 --> 01:16:17

ignition key and put the air conditioning on. And before I

01:16:17 --> 01:16:22

leave, I'll do I'll work on my language study, that's the sort of

01:16:22 --> 01:16:25

example that we're looking for. Let's see what you can come up

01:16:25 --> 01:16:26

with.

01:16:32 --> 01:16:33

Oh, I like the habits here,

01:16:35 --> 01:16:39

less junk food, very important core and effort in the morning.

01:16:39 --> 01:16:40

Yep. So uh oh,

01:16:43 --> 01:16:46

we're gonna get to that arena. What if we have difficulty in

01:16:46 --> 01:16:49

following plans? That's an extremely important question.

01:16:49 --> 01:16:55

Thank you for asking it. We are going to get into why do we have

01:16:55 --> 01:16:58

difficulty following plans? It's not your fault, believe it or not,

01:16:58 --> 01:17:01

arena, it's not your fault that you have difficulty following

01:17:01 --> 01:17:05

plans. We just need to adjust those plans. There's something

01:17:05 --> 01:17:08

about the way that you're making those plans that makes it hard to

01:17:08 --> 01:17:12

follow those plans. We're going to look at that and figure out how we

01:17:12 --> 01:17:16

can make better plans so that following them becomes easy.

01:17:19 --> 01:17:23

Yeah, most of us do. Shama, we often leave things to chance. It's

01:17:23 --> 01:17:27

even sometimes something that we like subconsciously do on purpose,

01:17:27 --> 01:17:30

because then we can kind of get out of it, actually, if you want

01:17:30 --> 01:17:35

to go be really crazy about it. Shayma, there's an example of this

01:17:35 --> 01:17:39

in the Hadith, an exchange between Ali ibn Abi Talib radila Huan and

01:17:39 --> 01:17:42

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam, where I'm trying

01:17:43 --> 01:17:46

to remember the exact scenario. I think it was about taking a

01:17:46 --> 01:17:51

certain means to wake up at night, okay, for night prayers. And

01:17:52 --> 01:17:55

the Prophet sallallahu, sallam, he mentioned this particular thing,

01:17:56 --> 01:18:02

and Ali radila Anu indicated the gist of it was that I'm going to

01:18:02 --> 01:18:02

rely on Allah, that

01:18:04 --> 01:18:07

he wasn't going to take the means that the Prophet saw them was

01:18:07 --> 01:18:10

suggesting. And so the Prophet saw them walked away, and he was a

01:18:10 --> 01:18:14

little bit frustrated with Adi and saying that. And he actually

01:18:14 --> 01:18:18

quoted one of the ayat the Qur'an about being, you know, Ekta Roy in

01:18:18 --> 01:18:21

jadalah, that, you know, people are prone to dispute and to argue.

01:18:22 --> 01:18:25

So this is something that people do, and it's a trick of the

01:18:25 --> 01:18:28

shaytaan to leave things to chance, because it lets us have a

01:18:28 --> 01:18:28

way out.

01:18:30 --> 01:18:33

Shakira says, I have no Facebook, but I watch just YouTube for

01:18:33 --> 01:18:36

learning corn or cooking. That is habits. Yeah. I mean, YouTube is

01:18:36 --> 01:18:40

very useful, but, like anything, it can be used against us as well.

01:18:41 --> 01:18:42

Here we go.

01:18:43 --> 01:18:47

Al Ishmael says I will continue to read Quran between Asr and Maghrib

01:18:47 --> 01:18:49

at the masjid. Good, nice.

01:18:53 --> 01:18:56

Rick Rashid says I will try to be more patient with my family on a

01:18:56 --> 01:18:59

daily basis. Okay, I don't think that's specific enough, but we'll

01:18:59 --> 01:19:03

get to why. Abdullah says I will go for a walk after lunch at the

01:19:03 --> 01:19:06

park across the street. That's nice and specific. Excellent.

01:19:07 --> 01:19:12

Fauci Magali says I will clean my room at 8pm Nice work. Arena says

01:19:12 --> 01:19:15

I will read a page while riding on the train in the morning.

01:19:15 --> 01:19:18

Excellent. See, we're pros.

01:19:19 --> 01:19:23

May say, says I will exercise five times a week after fajr at home.

01:19:23 --> 01:19:27

All right, nice. Hamda says, After breakfast, I will memorize a surah

01:19:27 --> 01:19:29

and do my Arabic course in sha Allah.

01:19:31 --> 01:19:32

Okay, you didn't say where though.

01:19:34 --> 01:19:37

Amina says, not in the mood to is the new code name for this? Yes,

01:19:37 --> 01:19:40

we're all guilty of it. Amina not in the mood too. And that's

01:19:40 --> 01:19:43

exactly the point. Is that this whole idea of looking at the

01:19:43 --> 01:19:50

architecture or the anatomy of our plans doesn't surrender it to our

01:19:50 --> 01:19:54

motivation or our inspiration. Because anything that you do

01:19:54 --> 01:19:57

sometimes you're going to be highly motivated to do it, and

01:19:57 --> 01:19:59

sometimes you're not going to feel like doing it. And so basically.

01:20:00 --> 01:20:03

Want to create a scenario in which it's not subject to those

01:20:03 --> 01:20:07

fluctuations, that the plan is foolproof enough that we're going

01:20:07 --> 01:20:10

to follow through on our habits even when we don't feel like it.

01:20:12 --> 01:20:15

Saba says, I will stop YouTube scrolling whenever my mom calls,

01:20:16 --> 01:20:20

maybe take out what? Why YouTube from the phone. Tried it before,

01:20:20 --> 01:20:23

but got it back again. See, this is good though, but you're

01:20:23 --> 01:20:26

thinking about, what are the structural design elements that

01:20:26 --> 01:20:28

you need to in order to we're going to talk more about that in

01:20:28 --> 01:20:32

order to achieve your goal. Omi says, I will read 100 salawats In

01:20:32 --> 01:20:34

the morning when I take my daughter for a walk. That's nice

01:20:36 --> 01:20:38

arena. Says, What about people with difficulty in focusing?

01:20:38 --> 01:20:41

Because, like me, I can't focus too much, or I'll be prone to

01:20:41 --> 01:20:44

overthink, and eventually the plan will flop. Not gonna lie.

01:20:45 --> 01:20:48

Maybe I don't know. Need to know some more specific details. I

01:20:48 --> 01:20:50

think before I can comment on that,

01:20:51 --> 01:20:55

one school of thought would say, Well, why is there a difficulty on

01:20:55 --> 01:20:58

focusing? Are there too many distractions? Are there

01:20:59 --> 01:21:03

elements within the space that you're at is the space that you

01:21:03 --> 01:21:06

live in your environment that'll be next chapter, designed in a

01:21:06 --> 01:21:09

distracting way. Oh, that's a really, really important one. So

01:21:09 --> 01:21:12

maybe it's the way that your environment is designed. We will

01:21:12 --> 01:21:13

talk about that next

01:21:14 --> 01:21:18

what if you have other things Fatima Kali says to do that will

01:21:18 --> 01:21:20

interrupt the habit? Yes. Well, that's very important. That's

01:21:20 --> 01:21:23

going to be in later chapters where we talk about that.

01:21:28 --> 01:21:33

Okay, Muna says, I will stop looking at my phone after father

01:21:33 --> 01:21:36

prayers at home. That's an important one too many of us, as

01:21:36 --> 01:21:37

soon as we

01:21:38 --> 01:21:41

as soon as we're on the salah Salaam Alaikum, Salah Salaam

01:21:41 --> 01:21:44

Alaikum, style for Allah, stop for us. Phone,

01:21:45 --> 01:21:48

and we say, well, yeah, I can do my Dicker and stuff while doing

01:21:48 --> 01:21:50

it, but doesn't really work out very well.

01:21:52 --> 01:21:55

I actually did that range. I turned my history off as well.

01:21:58 --> 01:22:02

Aisha says, Try finishing Surat Al Baqarah after fajr every day. Wow,

01:22:02 --> 01:22:05

that's that's ambitious. May Allah make it facilitate that for you.

01:22:09 --> 01:22:10

Nice. Emma, okay,

01:22:16 --> 01:22:19

good. Shakira says, I'll recite Quran after fajr time and pray.

01:22:19 --> 01:22:20

Duha, nice.

01:22:22 --> 01:22:25

Create a sense of urgency for the habit 100% okay? Abdullah says,

01:22:25 --> 01:22:28

Would you consider some habits to take greater priority over others,

01:22:28 --> 01:22:30

like sleeping habits? Or Yes, I would, and that's where we're

01:22:30 --> 01:22:36

going to get into it now. Okay, so we have a general structure for

01:22:36 --> 01:22:41

how to make a habit that we want to tie it to a time and a place. I

01:22:41 --> 01:22:46

will do this at this time in this place. Now let's go to an advanced

01:22:46 --> 01:22:50

technique. Okay, an advanced technique is

01:22:52 --> 01:22:56

what they call habit stacking. Okay, so rather than trying to

01:22:56 --> 01:22:59

come up with a new habit, and many of you already did it, rather than

01:22:59 --> 01:23:02

trying to come up with a new habit out of thin air. You're going to

01:23:02 --> 01:23:05

take the new habit that you want to do that you're not currently

01:23:05 --> 01:23:08

doing, and you're going to stack it on top of a habit that you're

01:23:08 --> 01:23:13

already doing. Okay, so you take something that you already always

01:23:13 --> 01:23:18

do, and you tie a new habit to it. So it might look like, let's say,

01:23:18 --> 01:23:25

every day you pray the hur. After the hur, I will read Quran. Okay,

01:23:25 --> 01:23:28

you're not reading Quran right now. You're always praying the

01:23:28 --> 01:23:31

hur. And so that's how you do it. Many of you already did this,

01:23:31 --> 01:23:35

right? But the key, and some of you asked about this, the key to

01:23:35 --> 01:23:39

the success of this method, is selecting the right cue,

01:23:40 --> 01:23:45

the right cue after the at lunch, after lunch, whatever it's going

01:23:45 --> 01:23:49

to be. And there's two things you have to keep in mind. One of them

01:23:49 --> 01:23:53

is that the cue has to occur at the right frequency. So for

01:23:53 --> 01:23:54

example,

01:23:55 --> 01:24:01

if you said, I don't know like I'm going to like, if you let's

01:24:01 --> 01:24:04

imagine you had a problem brushing your teeth, like you didn't brush

01:24:04 --> 01:24:09

your teeth enough. You said, Whenever I watch Imam Tom live

01:24:09 --> 01:24:12

stream, I will brush my teeth. That means you're only brushing

01:24:12 --> 01:24:15

your teeth once a week, right? That's not enough. So you want to

01:24:15 --> 01:24:20

have a cue that's going to be the right frequency for the habit that

01:24:20 --> 01:24:22

you're trying to establish. The second thing you have to keep in

01:24:22 --> 01:24:27

mind is the cue has to be highly specific. Okay? And this is

01:24:27 --> 01:24:30

probably the biggest thing that you need to keep in mind if you

01:24:30 --> 01:24:34

want your habit to work, that the cue has to be extremely specific.

01:24:34 --> 01:24:39

And he gives a great example of one that he tried to do that was

01:24:39 --> 01:24:43

not specific enough so he wanted to start a push up habit that

01:24:43 --> 01:24:45

started doing push ups. So he said,

01:24:46 --> 01:24:51

at lunch, I will do push ups in my office. And what he found was that

01:24:51 --> 01:24:57

his cue was not specific enough. Well, am I doing push ups before I

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

eat my lunch after I eat my lunch?

01:25:00 --> 01:25:04

Like it actually failed. The habit failed, and so he had to go back

01:25:04 --> 01:25:08

and look at why did the habit fail? For him, the habit failed

01:25:08 --> 01:25:11

because the cue wasn't specific enough. There was too much

01:25:11 --> 01:25:16

ambiguity in his plan, to allow for distraction, to allow for

01:25:16 --> 01:25:20

procrastination, to allow for it just to be left to chance, right?

01:25:20 --> 01:25:24

We're saying or left to inspiration. And so he made the

01:25:24 --> 01:25:30

cue much more specific. He said, Okay, when I take my laptop and I

01:25:30 --> 01:25:35

close my laptop to break for lunch, I'm gonna do 10 push ups.

01:25:35 --> 01:25:39

So that cue is specific enough that there's no room for

01:25:39 --> 01:25:41

ambiguity, there's no room for distraction. There's no room for

01:25:41 --> 01:25:46

procrastination. You know exactly the moment that you're going to do

01:25:46 --> 01:25:51

that thing, and so that is what a successful habit looks like. So

01:25:51 --> 01:25:56

let's try it out. Our homework assignment will be to try to start

01:25:56 --> 01:26:01

one new habit for the coming week, to do it according to the method

01:26:01 --> 01:26:04

that we said, Either you're going to come up, come up with it out of

01:26:04 --> 01:26:06

thin air, you will do certain thing at a certain time in a

01:26:06 --> 01:26:10

certain place, or you're going to stack your habit onto something

01:26:10 --> 01:26:14

else that you're already doing. Experiment. Don't worry if you

01:26:14 --> 01:26:17

fail. If you fail, come back next week, and we'll talk about why it

01:26:17 --> 01:26:21

failed. Was the cue specific enough? Was there something

01:26:21 --> 01:26:24

distracting? I think the next chapter is about environmental

01:26:24 --> 01:26:27

design and the other sort of distractions that might be around

01:26:27 --> 01:26:30

you that might make your habits fail. We'll talk about it. But the

01:26:30 --> 01:26:33

point is, everybody, think about one habit that you want to start.

01:26:33 --> 01:26:38

Start it this week, and we'll check in, and we'll see if how we

01:26:38 --> 01:26:38

did you

01:26:43 --> 01:26:46

let's see what we got here. We'll run through any final comments,

01:26:46 --> 01:26:50

questions or concerns, put them in the chat now and then we'll wrap

01:26:50 --> 01:26:53

up. Halafa, life uses a timer. A lot of people have success with

01:26:53 --> 01:26:54

timers.

01:26:59 --> 01:27:02

Farha, Farooq says reciting Surat Al Baqarah and Saima istiq and

01:27:02 --> 01:27:03

durude Ibrahim,

01:27:04 --> 01:27:09

okay, oh, arena, I'm sorry to hear that. I don't know. I don't have

01:27:09 --> 01:27:12

any expertise with schizophrenia or any mental health training, so

01:27:12 --> 01:27:14

I can't really answer you there. Sorry about

01:27:16 --> 01:27:20

that. Ct nuriati says, I find using tespe helps me to focus on

01:27:20 --> 01:27:21

my dick. Yes, I've also found the same thing

01:27:23 --> 01:27:27

adeshmaya said before reciting Quran or starting wudu. I will use

01:27:27 --> 01:27:31

MS wek, and that's a nice one. I would, I would suggest that you

01:27:31 --> 01:27:35

choose one of them, or you're saying both, I think, by or before

01:27:35 --> 01:27:38

either or both reciting Quran or starting with i

01:27:43 --> 01:27:47

Okay, thumbs up. No. Say, but says listening to restating Orientalism

01:27:47 --> 01:27:50

on blogging theology made me think how English has become a global

01:27:50 --> 01:27:53

language, and if having this makes us submit to colonization, if so,

01:27:53 --> 01:27:56

how should we communicate globally? That's a great question,

01:27:56 --> 01:27:58

very deep question. I don't, I don't, not surprised by that. And

01:27:58 --> 01:28:03

save always has good questions. I think that

01:28:04 --> 01:28:07

somebody said that if you were to take every Muslim in the world

01:28:07 --> 01:28:11

that speaks English, we would be the fourth largest group of people

01:28:11 --> 01:28:12

in the world.

01:28:13 --> 01:28:18

English truly has become a language of Dawa and a language of

01:28:18 --> 01:28:22

the ummah. I don't think that the

01:28:23 --> 01:28:28

language that we speak is so deterministic as to limit us in

01:28:28 --> 01:28:32

very, very problematic ways, like you might be suggesting, right? I

01:28:32 --> 01:28:38

don't think that using English alone necessarily makes us submit

01:28:38 --> 01:28:42

to colonization. It can if we view it as this prestige language, we

01:28:42 --> 01:28:46

look down on other people for speaking Urdu at home or Arabic at

01:28:46 --> 01:28:49

home, or whatever, and we want to speak French, we want to speak

01:28:49 --> 01:28:52

English. That's that's being colonized, right? But if we don't

01:28:52 --> 01:28:57

have that inferiority complex, if we look at it as a tool, then it

01:28:57 --> 01:29:00

actually can be a very, very powerful tool for the ummah.

01:29:00 --> 01:29:04

Because where we're at right now is that we have a ton of Muslims

01:29:04 --> 01:29:08

that speak English. So if that is something like a trade language or

01:29:08 --> 01:29:11

a lingua franca between us, in addition to the other important

01:29:11 --> 01:29:14

languages of the Ummah, that this could be something very, very

01:29:14 --> 01:29:17

important for communication that the things that happen in the

01:29:17 --> 01:29:21

English language have, maybe we say even just English and Arabic

01:29:21 --> 01:29:28

and Urdu have a wide, wide reach. And so it becomes very important.

01:29:28 --> 01:29:28

Actually,

01:29:32 --> 01:29:36

Dr Farhan made a good summary lesson of the day. Don't leave it

01:29:36 --> 01:29:40

to chance. Atica, how is food? Malaysia? It was delicious. I love

01:29:40 --> 01:29:44

Malay food, except for desserts. No offense, sorry, my Malaysian

01:29:44 --> 01:29:48

friends, I don't, I don't find the desserts to be very appealing to

01:29:48 --> 01:29:51

me, but that's okay, because the other food is so good that you

01:29:51 --> 01:29:54

don't even need desserts. Now, people asked me if I wanted to eat

01:29:54 --> 01:29:58

durian, and that is the sort of very, very controversial fruit,

01:29:59 --> 01:29:59

and I'm not. I.

01:30:00 --> 01:30:02

I do not like durian, but I was happy to learn that there are many

01:30:02 --> 01:30:06

Malays that don't like durian as well. So I didn't feel didn't feel

01:30:06 --> 01:30:07

so bad for that.

01:30:09 --> 01:30:12

May sage asks, What if I tried super specific method before and

01:30:12 --> 01:30:15

it didn't last. It worked for a time, but eventually was it up.

01:30:15 --> 01:30:17

We're going to look at that may as we get through the book, like for

01:30:17 --> 01:30:20

example, next chapter is about environmental design.

01:30:21 --> 01:30:24

Having a super specific plan is only one element. There are other

01:30:24 --> 01:30:25

elements too,

01:30:26 --> 01:30:28

analyzing your habits, so maybe next week, why don't you bring

01:30:28 --> 01:30:30

exactly what that habit was,

01:30:32 --> 01:30:35

and we'll try to analyze its design.

01:30:36 --> 01:30:40

Omi says, How do I create a solid habit that I want to do throughout

01:30:40 --> 01:30:43

the day. Should I start with one time? I definitely think that you

01:30:43 --> 01:30:46

should start with one time. Oh, you continue. You say, I struggle

01:30:46 --> 01:30:49

with creating habits around so that time due to coming on my

01:30:49 --> 01:30:52

menses. Yes, that's I was thinking that Omi, when we were talking

01:30:52 --> 01:30:55

about reading core n, if you tie it to the prayer, then women,

01:30:55 --> 01:30:59

obviously you're going to have about six or so days, depending on

01:30:59 --> 01:31:03

your cycle, where you're not doing that. So it might be better to tie

01:31:03 --> 01:31:04

it to something else.

01:31:06 --> 01:31:09

Yeah, and if it's you know, it sounds like for you that it's

01:31:09 --> 01:31:13

longer than than than many others. So yes. So then it should be tied

01:31:13 --> 01:31:17

to something else. I would suggest tying it to one start to one time

01:31:17 --> 01:31:20

of day. You can try to

01:31:21 --> 01:31:24

you can try to up it after that, but at least to start small, we're

01:31:24 --> 01:31:26

going to get to that's a later chapter as well, starting small

01:31:27 --> 01:31:31

and consistent, which is not, ironically, the guidance of the

01:31:31 --> 01:31:35

Prophet saw that Allah loves the thing that is small and consistent

01:31:35 --> 01:31:38

more than trying to do. Let's see, one day you do like 1000 salawats,

01:31:39 --> 01:31:42

okay, but then you fall off quickly and it doesn't last. It's

01:31:42 --> 01:31:46

better for you to do five salawats, but you do it every day

01:31:46 --> 01:31:51

for years, right? So our outlook is trying to find that

01:31:51 --> 01:31:51

consistency.

01:31:53 --> 01:31:57

So I think if you try to implement the method that we talked about

01:31:57 --> 01:31:59

today, extremely specific queue,

01:32:00 --> 01:32:03

a very specific time and location. Then, Inshallah, hey, how about

01:32:03 --> 01:32:06

you make that your your attempt on me

01:32:07 --> 01:32:10

try to do it for this coming week. We're going to be back at the

01:32:10 --> 01:32:14

regular time next week. So Wednesdays, 8pm New York time, 8pm

01:32:14 --> 01:32:16

eastern standard time in the United States. We'll be having a

01:32:16 --> 01:32:22

live stream this coming week. That's Wednesday night. So let us

01:32:22 --> 01:32:22

know how you did.

01:32:32 --> 01:32:34

Yep, we do May, that's 100%

01:32:36 --> 01:32:39

right? Yes, Attika, I do like gulab jamun,

01:32:42 --> 01:32:42

uh huh.

01:32:43 --> 01:32:47

Zhan says I don't know or do as a Pakistani, I can only speak

01:32:47 --> 01:32:49

English. I've had so many people find it so bizarre and frankly

01:32:49 --> 01:32:53

disrespectful that I don't know or do well, maybe we can both learn

01:32:53 --> 01:32:54

Urdu,

01:32:55 --> 01:32:57

though I found it very difficult. I found learning Urdu harder than

01:32:57 --> 01:32:58

Arabic, but

01:33:00 --> 01:33:03

we can get there. I would love to learn all the languages of the

01:33:03 --> 01:33:05

ummah. The Ummah is a beautiful we have a beautiful Ummah with

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beautiful languages, beautiful cultures, and we should stay

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grateful for that.

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So that's the end. Let's see. Amina says, If speaking a colonial

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language made us into maintainers for colonialism, then half of the

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world would fit into that language can be a retrospective tool to

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decolonize as much as it has been a weapon that is perfect. Let's

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just end on that. I think you really hit it on the head. Amina

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couldn't have put it better myself.

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Uh, human *. Will there be live streams throughout September? Yes,

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we might adjust times, but right now it's just going to be on this

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time forever. Amina gets the last word. Appreciate everybody's

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participation. Was a great session, and we'll see you next

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week. Inshallah, tada, so panic. Salaam. Alaikum. Off to LA.

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