Tom Facchine – How A Wise Person Worships Allah

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The speaker discusses the importance of converting daily habits into worship, rather than just getting used to them. They also talk about the ethical dimensions of spending one's money and the reward it brings. The speaker emphasizes the importance of having a decent livelihood to live a decent life and mentions the potential reward for spending one's money into something handcrafted.

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			People need to get used to the idea
		
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			of converting their everyday habits into worship. This
		
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			is something Ibn al Qayim, talks about a
		
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			lot. For the person who's kind of heedless,
		
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			their worship becomes habit. Right? Mechanical motions. Tasbih
		
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			but for the wise person, their habits become
		
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			worship. So let's say, for example, you go
		
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			buy gas. How many times a week do
		
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			you buy gas? Probably at least once a
		
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			week, maybe. Maybe at least once every 2
		
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			weeks, maybe more. Where do you go? What
		
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			are the factors that shape your decision for
		
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			where to go buy gas? Are you just
		
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			going to the place that has the cheapest
		
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			gas? Is there one particular gas station that's
		
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			owned by a Muslim and one that's not?
		
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			Would you choose the one that's owned by
		
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			a Muslim over the one that's not, even
		
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			if it was more expensive? If there's one
		
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			that's owned by a Muslim and he doesn't
		
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			sell lottery tickets or alcohol, would you prioritize
		
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			that one over the other 2, even if
		
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			it was more expensive? Right? Very, very easily.
		
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			How we spend our money has ethical dimensions.
		
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			We are
		
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			too caught up in, usually in North America,
		
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			North American Muslim, scene into just getting the
		
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			best deal. We want, especially if it comes
		
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			from another Muslim, oh, we want the feasibility
		
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			discount. We want the brother
		
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			we're brothers in the faith, you know, I
		
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			should get it for cheaper. Instead of thinking
		
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			I have the opportunity to worship Allah with
		
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			my money and help this person earn a
		
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			livelihood, keep this person in business. We're too
		
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			selfish for that right now. We think, what
		
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			can I get? What am I getting out
		
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			of it? What's my bottom line? There's an
		
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			amazing story of Abdu lalaim n Abbas,
		
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			where
		
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			he sends his slave to the market to
		
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			buy a horse for him.
		
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			And the slave, he goes and he negotiates
		
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			a price and he negotiates a really, really
		
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			good price. He he haggles. He talks him
		
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			down, and he comes back to Abdul Lebahn
		
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			Abbas, and he tells him, look. I got
		
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			this great horse. I haggled the price way
		
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			down for you. Okay. Abdul Lebahn Abbas says,
		
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			okay. You did a great job. Thank you
		
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			very He comes to the market to collect
		
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			the horse and to deliver the payment. He
		
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			sees the horse and he tells the seller
		
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			of the horse, he says, what did you
		
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			agree to pay for this? And he tells
		
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			him the price that he had agreed to
		
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			and he said, that's too low. Said I'm
		
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			gonna give you more. I'm gonna give you
		
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			this much. And the buyer is like, okay.
		
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			Well, that's crazy, but sure. Right? Okay. I'll
		
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			I'll agree. Who's gonna turn down extra money?
		
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			Abdul Eberl Abbas kept on saying, that's not
		
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			enough. I'm gonna give you more. That's not
		
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			enough. I'm gonna give you more. And he
		
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			kept on bumping up the price, bumping up
		
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			the price, bumping up the price until it
		
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			was more than the seller originally asked for.
		
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			The the seller was embarrassed at a certain
		
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			point. But Haftel al Adnan Baz, he said
		
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			that the reason he did it was because
		
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			if I had your horse, this is what
		
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			I would sell it for. This is what
		
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			I think it's worth. Haftala ibn Abbas was
		
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			worshiping Allah with his money. That's his Muslim
		
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			brother. His Muslim brother has a family to
		
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			support. His Muslim brother has kids to feed,
		
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			kids to put in school. He has a
		
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			a wife at home. He has all these
		
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			sorts of different things. Why are you gonna
		
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			squeeze out of him a few extra dollars?
		
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			Why wouldn't you be happy to pay the
		
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			extra
		
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			in order to let him live and have
		
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			a decent
		
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			livelihood and have a decent life. And if
		
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			your intention is
		
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			to seek Allah's pleasure, then you're also going
		
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			to get rewarded in the afterlife for it.
		
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			There's a lot of places, you know, like,
		
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			I was recently at ICNA, and you see
		
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			a lot of different vendors and stuff like
		
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			that. And some of the stuff is very,
		
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			like,
		
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			I don't want to say cheap quality, but
		
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			you can tell it's just like, you know,
		
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			it it it doesn't have sustainability in mind.
		
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			Mass produced,
		
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			synthetic materials,
		
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			you know, produced in a factory somewhere, shipped
		
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			around the globe. Okay. Is it permissible? It's
		
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			not permissible. That's not what I'm talking about.
		
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			I'm talking about what's ethical. What is the
		
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			best thing that we could be doing? Whereas,
		
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			if you put your money into something that
		
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			is handcrafted, it's from people that you can
		
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			actually go and visit and and see the
		
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			individuals who are making this and ensure and
		
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			ensure that they have a decent livelihood and
		
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			that they're paid well and that to the
		
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			end of it. Are you gonna pay more?
		
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			Of course, you are. But if you have
		
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			the right intention, you'll be worshiping Allah with
		
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			your money.