Don’t Get Angry!

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we begin with the praise of Allah.

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We praise Him

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we seek his help.

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And we ask his forgiveness.

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Whoever Allah guides, there is no one that can miss guide him. And whoever Allah misguides there is no one that can guide him.

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And I bear witness that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah alone and with no partner. And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the slave of Allah.

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His Messenger we asked a lot to exalt is mentioned and grant him peace into his family and his companions and all those who follow them until the last day or you who believe have Taqwa of Allah as he deserves for you to have tapped out of him and do not die except as Muslims. All Mankind have tapped what have your Lord who created you from a single soul and created from it, it's made and created from them both many men and women and have tough whatever law the one whose name you ask by and fear Allah with regard to your relatives, allies, always watching all the you, all you who believe have Taqwa of Allah and speak a word that is true, he will correct your deeds and forgive

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your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has indeed achieved a great success, to continue the best speeches, the Book of Allah and the best guidance is the guidance of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the worst of matters in this religion, our newly invented beliefs and practices. And all of these newly invented beliefs and practices are innovations and all innovation is misguidance. And all misguidance is in the Hellfire as the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam said,

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from the miracles

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that our messenger Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was given his the miracle of Jawaharlal Kalam

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he spoke with very few words,

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very few words. But those words had very powerful and deep meanings.

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from among the shortest of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam,

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a hadith which is just two words long.

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Just two words.

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And some of the scholars of Islam they said Ha, ha, de Tunis for deed.

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And some of them said reuber deed. This Hadith is half of your religion, and some of them said it is a quarter of your religion.

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And this heavy theory is only two words. The Hadith is narrated by Alabama who Hurry up so he

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and Abby hora de Allah

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And now our jhulan at an obeah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam have a call rasulillah oseni a man he came to the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and he said O Messenger of Allah give me advice.

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And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam responded to him with two words. Call Allahu Allah, Bob.

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He said to him, don't get angry.

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In Arabic two words law tells Bob Don't get angry. The man he repeated the question, your rasulillah oseni or messenger of Allah give me advice, call a lot of Don't get angry.

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For camera whom you're on and he kept on saying it again and again LA, blah, blah, talk about Don't get angry.

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And have a little hedgehog

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for him a hula hula Allah He said, I thought about this hadith.

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He said I thought about this hadith.

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And when I thought about this Hadith,

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I realized who I thought that all of the problems you have, it comes back to this.

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All of the evil all of the shoe in a person's life. It comes back to alcopop, it comes back to getting angry.

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And when a person gets angry, they might ruin their dounia and the euro.

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As for the dounia then they ruin their relationships with people. You've see doing either karate him.

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They ruin their relationships with people and perhaps a person might even divorce his wife, or perhaps a person might make his children run away. Or perhaps a person might

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break up between the members of the family because he became angry

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and perhaps a person might ruin his religion. So he comes into our volume whether it be

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One and he oppresses people and he transgresses against them because he got angry.

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Perhaps he hit somebody, perhaps he insults somebody. Perhaps even he would say a word that will bring upon him the anger of Allah subhanho wa Taala for fire Hindu Allah He robber Rob So the anger of Allah comes upon him because of his anger.

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Allah azza wa jal praised in the Quran the people that conceal their anger

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while cow the mean I look I will feed Annie nurse will love who you are a bull Marcin. Allah loves the people who conceal that anger they control their anger.

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They control their anger

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and they forgive other people. And Allah loves the mercy in in Allah called the mercy Nene

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because they control their anger and they keep control of their anger.

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In the hadith of ebihara, Allah who and the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said in another Hadith lays a shedding it will be so

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he said the strong person is not the one who wrestles

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in machete to Lady m Li Khun epsa who were in del hub, but the strong person is the one who can control themselves when they become angry.

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The rewards for controlling yourself when you are angry are great in the sight of Allah.

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In a hadith

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narrated from the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he said, Man kalba ma one wahoo is delta u and Nunez Fida. There are hula hoop vuyo malkia Mati Allah Sinhala had you Haiya houfy al rudisha.

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He said, whoever controls their anger at a time when they are able to to to be angry, they deserve to get angry, but they control their anger. Allah will call them in front of everyone to choose whichever of the rule end they want.

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Look at the reward for the person who controls themselves when they are angry. How many people ruin their dunya and they ruin the euro. Because they became angry, and they said things and they did things which caused them harm in their life, and cause them harm in their religion.

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And how many people will enter Jannah because of the fact that they didn't get angry. The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said in an authentic hadith. Tell Bob, while ecogen Don't get angry, and you will be from the people of gender.

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It's very easy for a person to get angry. Getting angry is part of the nature of a person, it's normal for a person to get angry. And so we have to teach ourselves to forgive and to overlook.

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As we find in the famous statement,

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You can only get knowledge when you learn. And you can only learn to forgive and pardon when you practice it. You have to try to train yourself to be somebody when you feel that anger rising inside of yourself. You control that anger. And you control what you say. And you control what you do because it's bad enough to see someone lose their dunya because of their anger. But how about the people who lost their art here are because of their and

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perhaps they said a word

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that took them into jahannam 70 years of depth. So this hotpot today my brothers in Islam is all about controlling our anger, the importance of it, the severity of getting angry, the value of controlling it, and how we can be a people who control our anger. When we get angry or cool. No matter

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Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen.

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When are people truly Mottaki?

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What will suddenly what will suddenly more Alma Ruthie Rashmi attended alameen Nabina Muhammad, wa ala alihi wa sahbihi edge mine.

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My dear brothers in Islam,

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we are talking about the danger of getting angry. And the Hadeeth of the overseer of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam in the hadith of ebihara when a man came to him and he said you're rasulillah oseni, or messenger of Allah give me advice. The prophets I seldom said to him, Allah tell Bob, don't get angry.

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The question I want us to ask ourselves is how do we control our anger? The prophets I seldom told that the person who controls their anger, they will choose from whoever they want from the hood on aim. Allah praise the mercy Nene who control their anger. The prophets I seldom advised us to control our anger, but how do we control our anger?

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The first thing is that the person needs to recognize

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when the anger comes because it doesn't come from zero to 100. Slowly the person feels that anger inside of themselves. And the very first thing they need to do is to ask Allah to keep them safe, and protect them from a shaytani r rajim.

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Man

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was sitting with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and they saw two men that was swearing at each other that were cursing each other.

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And one of them his face became red.

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And his neck started to bulge. He started to get a lump on his neck from how angry he was

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for color, Nabeel sallallahu alayhi wasallam in Nila Alamo Kalima lo Carla ha ha ha harbor I'm boom aged. He said I know something. That if this man said it, everything would go away from him the redness in his face and the lump in his neck will go away from him.

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Low color Ruby laheem in a shade on the harbor and womb aged prahari the Prophet size lm said if he said our odo Billahi min ash shaytaan

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I will do Billahi min. Ash shaytaan or he said I will do B la him in a shaytani r rajim. He wouldn't have got angry and it would have gone away from him. So when you feel yourself starting to get angry, the very first thing you do you say RO Billahi min ash shaytani r rajim.

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The second thing is, you remain quiet. Whatever you do when you get angry, don't talk.

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The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said in a hadith narrated by Lima Ahmed, either, Robbie but I had to come fella Yes, good.

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If one of you becomes angry, be quiet, don't say anything. How many people he got angry with his wife. He said Auntie Father, you are divorced and she left him.

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He got angry with his children. He said Get out of my house and he doesn't see his children again.

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He got angry with his friends or he got angry with the people in the masjid he left he doesn't come back for the jamara

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He ruined it for himself. When you become angry, be quiet. Don't say anything. Because maybe you will say something your anger will not be accepted as an excuse. And in the matter of talaq. Many of the people have knowledge they said even when the man is angry, his collar counts.

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So don't speak.

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Don't speak.

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The third thing is if you are standing

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Sit down. And if you are sitting lie down because of the Hadith of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, either way, but I had to come wahoo moon Valley Angeles, for in the harbor and we'll wrap up we're in La saleor Tajiri

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if one of you gets angry when he's standing up, sit down

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and if it goes away from him, that's fine. And if it doesn't go away from him lie down.

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And if you got angry, and you're standing up, sit down,

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and if you're sitting down and you're still angry, lie down.

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Some of the people of knowledge they mentioned

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that from the things which caused the anger to go away, is to make Voodoo and this is not a hadith

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it's not a hadith lemmya spot and in Nabi sallallahu, alayhi wa sallam

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had his own

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filmu angel hub. But

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many of the people of knowledge recommended it fell out that's a biggie. There is no harm in it. If a person when they become upset,

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and they make withdrawal.

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And the anger goes away from them.

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From the means of getting rid of this anger is to remember the advice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam law talks about

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Don't get angry. And from the means of getting rid of this anger is that you remember the reward in Jenna for the person who conceals their anger

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and from the important things here is that if somebody reminds you and says to you, you're

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my brother Don't get angry then don't get angry with him.

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say to him just cola hire me May Allah reward you with good that you reminded me

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to be like those people that Allah said about that what either appeal Allahu tequila Allah that will or is that to bill is the hospital who jahannam will sell me hot. Some people when you say to him, yeah, tequila, my brother fear Allah. He gets so angry with himself and so much pride. He keeps on doing the same and he doesn't stop because somebody said to him, he tequila Please brother stop.

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So he got angry, and he kept on doing it. And Allah said for high school hold your hand and this person will go to Johanna mala sell me hard and what a terrible place it is. The last point that I will mention regarding this, and this is something we have to train ourselves to do what we have to advise each other to do

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is that there is one kind of anger which is not included in this.

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There is one kind of anger which Allah loves.

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And that is that anger, that is for the sake of Allah within the limits that are set by Allah.

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That anger which is for the sake of Allah, Allah Babu lilla, he is the virgin in the limits

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in the hoodoo that Allah subhanaw taala set for it. For example, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam when he used to give the Hoot biomol. Juma.

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magala to his face used to go read, and he used to raise his voice. Like he was the captain who was commanding the army. This anger is for the sake of Allah and is limited to what Allah commanded. This anger is okay.

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But as for a person to get angry beyond that, it will not bring you any good. And think about what a half a dozen Hagel said. Think about it today. All of you, every one of us. You think about this.

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You reflect upon it.

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He said for either edge now shall Roku level

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all of the bad things that happen to you. They happen when you get angry

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and it gives the shaitana control over a person. So the purpose of this hotpot is to remind myself and to remind you of the advice of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and for each of us to help each other and to help ourselves with the help of Allah azza wa jal to be from the

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People who are a little cow we mean

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the people who conceal their anger will afina and in us and the people who overlook other people's mistakes and to be from the mercy need

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