Tariq Ramadan – Ramadan Chronicles #30 Language

Tariq Ramadan
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The speaker discusses the importance of resisting negative comments and mocking others, which is essential for their spiritual journey. They explain that this resistance is not something that occurs in small ways, but rather a collective movement. The speaker emphasizes the need to master the words and phrases that can be used against others, and to avoid insulting and mocking others in public.
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We have been talking about all these resistances

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over months.

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And there is one

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resistance, which is, in fact,

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at the starting point as well as the

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end of this journey that we have to

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to get as something which is essential, which

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has to do with our

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way of, with our taqwa, with our,

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reverential

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love and piety towards God.

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And it has to do with our tongue.

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It's a it has to do with silence,

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resisting

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talking too much,

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resisting

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our words, our insults, the way we deal

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with our brothers and sisters, and even with

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our own self, the way, we are,

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dealing with

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people around us.

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We have in the Quran

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a verse which is once again talking about

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the collective

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take and its collective dimension.

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Oh, people who believe,

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do not

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don't let people the people should not insult

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and mock another

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set of people, another

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community. And women should avoid insulting and mocking

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other women. It might be that they are

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better than than themselves.

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So this

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reaction, this way of dealing with other people,

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avoiding insult,

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avoiding, mockery, avoiding,

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any words that could be hurtful. This is

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the starting point of the way we deal

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with people

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to the point that we we have in

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the Quran as well as and even the

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the the companions of the prophet, peace be

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upon him, were asking, is it possible that

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with our tongue, we can

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be lost and that we can,

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end up in hellfire, for example? Say, yes,

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with your head the first if you are

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not mastering your tongue. This is why the

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prophet was saying,

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master your tongue. Master your tongue is resisting

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this very easy way of talking because to

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talk it's easy. It's very, very easy,

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and you have to master your tongue through

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your own consciousness and your understanding of what

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could be said and should be avoided.

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And we have in the Quran, yeah, you

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had.

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Oh, you who believe,

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avoid, and be careful with anything which has

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to be doubting and suspicion towards your brothers

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and sisters because

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part of suspicion

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is,

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sin that you have to avoid us. And

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to the point also

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and avoid against to spy on one another

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and avoid insulting and using bad words towards

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towards,

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the others, to one another.

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Because at the end, what you are doing,

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it's as if you were eating

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the flesh of your dead,

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the the your dead brother

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or sister,

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and then you detest that. And what we

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need to get here is that this relationship

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was silence, this relationship with mastering words, it's

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so important.

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Many brothers and sisters

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are completely obsessed with what they are eating.

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It should be halal, but they are forgetting

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what they are saying, what is getting out

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of their mouth, not what is coming

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in their mouth, which this,

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when it comes to insulting, could be as

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if you were eating

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the dead flesh of your brother and sister.

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That's essential in our spiritual journey to avoid,

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speaking

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bad words, insulting,

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mocking the people,

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learning silence,

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mastering our words. It's a resistance that start

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with our own heart, our own mind. It's

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individual, but it has an impact on our

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social life.

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That's also to be considered while we are

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fasting,

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not drinking, not eating,

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and sometimes it's very good and very important,

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not talking too much.

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Remember to tell the people you love that

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you love them. Life is fragile.

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