Tariq Ramadan – Chronicles of Ramadan #05 Bad Memories

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The speaker discusses the importance of letting go of past experiences and the negative consequences they have on one's life. They emphasize the importance of having a clear understanding of the meaning of the past to bring back the positive aspect of life. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of fasting to achieve one's goals.

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			With the legacy
		
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			we receive from our parents and from our
		
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			family.
		
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			That's important because,
		
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			as we said,
		
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			this is the way for us to deal
		
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			with our own self
		
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			and to deal with
		
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			what came to us. And sometimes we are
		
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			are not responsible,
		
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			of what we are,
		
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			bearing in our life. Now we have to
		
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			have a
		
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			a a more
		
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			open angle,
		
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			angle, a wider
		
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			understanding
		
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			of this issue.
		
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			And it has to do with our bad
		
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			memories, our
		
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			the bad things that happened to us in
		
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			our life. The past,
		
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			but not the past with all what we
		
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			receive. Because very often, we receive and we
		
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			are happy and we thank God and we
		
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			thank,
		
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			the people we love.
		
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			And this is sometimes a way to forget.
		
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			In fact, when you receive, you can
		
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			be heedless. You can be,
		
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			sometimes arrogant and sometimes not aware
		
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			of the very essence of life.
		
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			Now
		
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			the bad memories,
		
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			the failures, what happened in the past, the
		
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			separation,
		
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			and sometimes the
		
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			the relationship that,
		
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			that are,
		
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			that has been broken out of time and
		
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			because you you lost your brother, you lost
		
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			your friend.
		
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			All this is helping you to come back
		
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			to the very meaning of
		
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			the past,
		
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			and what is and in which way you
		
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			are educated
		
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			out of despair.
		
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			And
		
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			the point here is to remember
		
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			that
		
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			bad memories
		
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			have
		
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			a very
		
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			important role to play in your life,
		
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			is to bring you back
		
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			to
		
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			the relationship
		
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			to yourself and the relationship to god. In
		
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			order to understand here that
		
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			what did not
		
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			when go well in the past. What did
		
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			not
		
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			happen the way you wanted it it to
		
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			happen in your past
		
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			is a way for you to
		
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			ponder,
		
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			to meditate about the very essence of your
		
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			life. Because
		
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			if
		
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			you
		
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			are dealing with
		
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			all these,
		
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			failures,
		
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			all these bad memories,
		
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			And the bad memories of the past are
		
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			not going to prevail
		
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			if you have a deep faith in the
		
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			present.
		
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			And to rely and to be and to
		
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			trust God is very much this,
		
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			is very much to understand that nothing happened
		
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			in my
		
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			life without a meaning.
		
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			And the point for me is that when
		
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			I come back to this past, and when
		
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			I come back and try to understand what
		
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			happened to me, it's for me to understand
		
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			that I have to translate this
		
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			into,
		
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			a school, into a personal,
		
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			best the bad for the bad from the
		
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			past
		
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			could be the way for you
		
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			towards the better in the future,
		
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			everything into
		
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			the meaning
		
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			of faith and to the meaning
		
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			of your closeness to God. That's the way
		
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			it should be and that's the way it
		
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			is. And while we are fasting,
		
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			we have to remember
		
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			that this is also the very essence
		
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			of fasting. Don't forget to tell the people
		
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			you love that you love them. Life is
		
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			fragile.