Tariq Ramadan – Chronicles of Ramadan #05 Bad Memories

Tariq Ramadan
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The speaker discusses the importance of letting go of past experiences and the negative consequences they have on one's life. They emphasize the importance of having a clear understanding of the meaning of the past to bring back the positive aspect of life. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of fasting to achieve one's goals.
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With the legacy

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we receive from our parents and from our

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family.

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That's important because,

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as we said,

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this is the way for us to deal

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with our own self

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and to deal with

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what came to us. And sometimes we are

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are not responsible,

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of what we are,

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bearing in our life. Now we have to

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have a

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a a more

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open angle,

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angle, a wider

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understanding

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of this issue.

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And it has to do with our bad

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memories, our

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the bad things that happened to us in

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our life. The past,

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but not the past with all what we

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receive. Because very often, we receive and we

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are happy and we thank God and we

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thank,

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the people we love.

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And this is sometimes a way to forget.

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In fact, when you receive, you can

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be heedless. You can be,

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sometimes arrogant and sometimes not aware

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of the very essence of life.

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Now

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the bad memories,

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the failures, what happened in the past, the

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separation,

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and sometimes the

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the relationship that,

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that are,

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that has been broken out of time and

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because you you lost your brother, you lost

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your friend.

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All this is helping you to come back

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to the very meaning of

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the past,

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and what is and in which way you

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are educated

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out of despair.

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And

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the point here is to remember

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that

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bad memories

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have

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a very

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important role to play in your life,

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is to bring you back

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to

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the relationship

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to yourself and the relationship to god. In

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order to understand here that

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what did not

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when go well in the past. What did

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not

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happen the way you wanted it it to

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happen in your past

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is a way for you to

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ponder,

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to meditate about the very essence of your

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life. Because

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if

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you

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are dealing with

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all these,

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failures,

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all these bad memories,

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And the bad memories of the past are

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not going to prevail

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if you have a deep faith in the

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present.

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And to rely and to be and to

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trust God is very much this,

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is very much to understand that nothing happened

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in my

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life without a meaning.

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And the point for me is that when

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I come back to this past, and when

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I come back and try to understand what

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happened to me, it's for me to understand

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that I have to translate this

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into,

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a school, into a personal,

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best the bad for the bad from the

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past

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could be the way for you

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towards the better in the future,

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everything into

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the meaning

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of faith and to the meaning

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of your closeness to God. That's the way

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it should be and that's the way it

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is. And while we are fasting,

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we have to remember

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that this is also the very essence

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of fasting. Don't forget to tell the people

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you love that you love them. Life is

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fragile.

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