Tammam Alwan – Whats your vision

Tammam Alwan
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The importance of Allah's guidance and forgiveness is discussed, along with struggles of individuals to achieve their dreams and a historical prediction about the success of the United States in achieving peace and justice. The speakers emphasize the need for individuals to have a vision for themselves and work towards their goals, citing narratives such as the destruction of a plant, realizing their goals and plans, achieving spiritual and physical transformation, and pursuing financial and social goals. They ask why am I now? Why do I stand? Why do I happen to be in this job? Why do I happen to be in this part of my life or pursuing this degree?
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All praise and thanks are for Allah.

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We praise Him and we thank Him. We

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seek His assistance

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and we seek His forgiveness.

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We take refuge in Allah from the evils

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of ourselves and from the sinfulness of our

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actions.

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Whomever Allah guides,

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none can misguide.

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And whomever Allah misguides or allows to go

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astray,

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none can guide.

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I bear witness that there is none worth

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worshiping

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but Allah

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alone

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with no partner and I bear witness that

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Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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is his servant and his final messenger.

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Allah says in the Quran,

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in the Noble Quran,

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O you who believed, have taqwa of Allah

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with the taqwa that is due to him

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and do not die except as Muslims, except

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in a state of submission to him. And

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he also says,

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O people,

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have taqwa of your Lord who created you

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from one soul and created from its mate

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and dispersed from both of them many men

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and women.

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And have taqwa of Allah

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through whom you ask one another

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and the wounds.

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Surely Allah is ever over you an observer.

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When the Muslims were preparing

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for

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for the battle of the trench, the Nabi

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salallahu alaihi wa sallam

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had asked them to dig

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a trench

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Something that was so difficult for them in

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that time relative to all the technology we

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have nowadays to dig and to construct things.

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And they were doing it with their hands

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and with simple tools, spades

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which are basically shovels

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but they have pointed ends so that they

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can break rock and get go into it.

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And we know the famous hadith that reflects

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the hunger of the

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and

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the

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during that time, during that precarious situation

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where they didn't exactly know what was going

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to happen.

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When so many tribes

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from amongst the enemies of Allah and the

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enemies of the Muslims were gathering

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to attack them and lay siege to the

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city.

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Yet despite the hunger

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and despite the fatigue, despite the exhaustion,

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despite the seemingly desperate situation,

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they continued digging

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and digging

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and digging

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until in the famous narration and this comes

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from imam Ahmed's Musnad and also in Nasai

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mentions

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it. Ibn Hajar al Asqalani in Fathulbayr he

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says that this chain is hasan so it's

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a good chain in terms of a hadith.

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Al Bara'ubnu

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Azaib

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says, We came across a big rock like

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a boulder. And in other narrations there's a

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description of how huge it was, how difficult

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it was. And he says, As much as

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we tried to break it to continue the

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trench, we couldn't.

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And at a certain point we kind of

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gave up.

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And he says, We complained to the messenger

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of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. We complained

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to him. There's this big rock. What do

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we do?

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And so then Abi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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puts puts his clothes

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aside.

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He jumps down into the trench

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and he picks up one of the spades.

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And as he prepares himself

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to strike it, he says Bismillah

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in the name of Allah.

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And the Arabic narration says Bismillah

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With the first hit,

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he destroyed about a third of it

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and broke it into small pieces.

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And he says, I swear to Allah,

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I have been given the keys of the

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Levant of ancient Syria, Bilad al Sham.

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And I can see its red palaces

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from my place right here. I can see

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them.

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And then he picked up the spade again

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and he struck for the 2nd time. And

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he said, Bismillah.

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He hit a second time.

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When he struck it a second time

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he said,

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wallahi, I swear to God. I've been given

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the keys of Faris, the keys of Persia.

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The Muslims are only in Madinah right now.

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But he's talking about something so far away,

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so distant, so grandiose, so lofty of a

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goal. And he's saying, I've been given the

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keys

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of Persia.

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And I see Al Mada'in, the ancient metropolis

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of Al Mada'in. And I see its white

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palace from my state right here in this

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trench, I see it.

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And lastly, he picked up the spade for

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one last and a third time

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and he struck that boulder again.

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And he said, Bismillah

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in the name of Allah.

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And he says,

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When he struck it for the last time

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he destroyed the remainder of it into small

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pieces of rock and dust.

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And he said, By Allah,

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I've been given the keys

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of in Yemen and I can see its

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gates before me now from my place here.

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And one other narration says, In this time

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at this very moment. And yes,

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you know,

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we can say of course and this is

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true that the Nabi is Nabiun,

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right? He's a Nabi. He's a prophet and

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so he's giving us a prophecy here. He's

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telling us a fact of what's to come.

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But at the same time, what is he

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doing to the Sahaba?

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To their hearts,

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to their emotions?

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He's giving them a vision of the future.

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He's giving them a grand plan. He's telling

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them, yes, you may seem like you're in

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a desperate situation now. You may seem like

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you're tired and you're hungry and this is

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just gonna be the end of it and

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we're gonna be swallowed up because after all,

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we're just in Medina right now and these

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enemies are coming upon us to lay siege

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to our city. We're gonna be destroyed.

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But he's telling them that there's something else

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that we're working towards. There's a long term

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plan and there's a vision of the future.

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And he described it so well with such

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detail that it's as if they could see

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it too.

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And eventually this would happen because salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam, he's giving us a prophecy.

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And although in his lifetime

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there were part Yemen also was opened

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in terms of establishing peace and justice during

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the time of Abu Bakr.

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We had parts of Sham and during the

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time of Sayyidina Muhammad radiAllahu anhu arba, all

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of it would become a reality.

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However, the key here is that he's teaching

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us a lesson. And one reflection is he's

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teaching us a lesson of how we can

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have a vision for ourselves and the importance

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of realizing it.

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And that that requires

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literally seeing it as if it's before your

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eyes. And I ask the brothers to please

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move up

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to make room for others and fill in

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the gaps.

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To begin on our own personal paths

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of our own visions, we have to ask

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4 essential questions which are

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where am I now?

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What is my current status?

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Where do I stand? What is my status

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check-in terms of something? And we'll go into

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different examples and different lenses by which we

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can view ourselves and where we are in

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our standing.

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And the second question we have to ask

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is

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why am I here?

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Why am I in the masjid today?

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Why do I live in Dallas

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right now?

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Why do I happen to be in this

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job?

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Why do I happen to be in this

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part of my life or pursuing this degree?

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Whatever it may be,

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what is the purpose behind it?

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And the third question we have to ask

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ourselves

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is where do I want to be tomorrow?

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What do I see for myself? And we

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shouldn't just write down anything when we do

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this exercise but we should actually sit down

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and narrate where am I in the future?

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What is the ideal state that I wanna

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achieve? What is something lofty that I can

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strive towards? And remember then Nabi said,

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if you ask then ask for

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Don't just say, You Rabb, give me just

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a small piece of Jannah, I'll be happy.

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Give me the lowest piece. Let me be

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the last person who enters Jannah like the

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hadith but ask for the best and so

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strive for the best and have lofty ambitions

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for yourself. And the last question is, what's

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the next step for me to get in

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that direction?

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What can I do to get there?

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Different angles. And we'll end here by just

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stating

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some different angles we can look at. We

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can be comprehensive and include all of them

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or just include one part.

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1 is spiritual. My salah,

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going to the masjid. My fasting, my recitation

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of the Quran. My anger, my arrogance, my

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envy toward others. A second is physical.

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How much I can lift?

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Bench press, dead lift, pick something.

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My body weight percentage or even my body

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weight, my diet, what I'm eating, my carbs,

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my macros, whatever it may be, my sleep.

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A third angle might be financial.

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How much charity I want to give? How

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much I want to save for my children's

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education?

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What kind of home I'd like to have

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for the safety and comfort of my family?

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Relationships

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with my spouse or even getting married for

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those of us who are single. My parents,

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my children, my siblings.

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Education in terms of a degree or a

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skill set we want to achieve. Work in

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terms of a raise, a promotion, a specific

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role, working in a particular company or even

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social in terms of the people that I

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want to associate with, that I want to

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be friends with. And then the 8 steps

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that we can take practically to achieve this

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are 1,

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purify your intention. As the Nabi says

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that all actions are based on intention. Let

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it be for the sake of Allah

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Anything we gain if we say I want

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a nice car because I want everybody to

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look up to me or I want this

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position because I think it's really prestigious.

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The moment that we lose that validation from

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other people outside of ourselves,

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we lose that trying to satisfy Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala is gonna be the moment when

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we don't get up in the morning to

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go work out. The moment when we we

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see that donut before us and we're like

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forget it. Forget the diet. I was doing

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it for this person or that person or

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this or that. But let it be intrinsic

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and let it be for the self and

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let it be only for the sake of

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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2, set actual goals

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and track those goals which is number 4.

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As Umar says,

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he says take yourself into account before other

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people. So actually track. And what that does

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is it helps us feel motivated and positive

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about the work we're doing. 3,

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begin.

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Actually begin. Actually put in the effort.

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As the Nabi sahih alaihi wa sallam says,

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Just start to take action. Say, if this

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is something I want to do for myself,

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whatever you're thinking about, whatever you're contemplating about,

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just start. And that's the very first step.

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Next is 5, monitor the results

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and track them.

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6, be patient. It won't happen overnight. Just

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like those palaces that the Nabi sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam mentioned, it took several decades. And

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when he mentioned

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Constantinople, that took centuries to happen. But still

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the Muslims were striving for that from the

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Sahaba to later generations.

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7,

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stay focused. As Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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When you make a decision and you say,

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I'm gonna tread this path,

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Then go ahead and be firm and rely

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on Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And a) be

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consistent. Whatever it is when you're working towards

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this.

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The best and most beloved actions to Allah

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are those that are the most consistent

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even if they're few. As some of us

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stand here before, you know, before each other

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today, we might have had New Year's resolutions

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that have since fallen through.

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You know, no progress on them or we

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did something and then we kind of stopped.

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And as we're preparing for Ramadan, we're thinking,

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Okay, I want to pray isha in the

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masjid every day. I want to do fajid.

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I want to prepare myself for this. I

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want to read the whole Quran

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or do several

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in Ramadan.

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Let's remember these steps

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as I remind myself and I remind you

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all and just a cautionary remark which is

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beware of publicly

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announcing your individual

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personal private goals.

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Then a bee was functioning as a leader.

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And a leader needs to make that vision

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clear so that other people can have that

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buy in and can join together.

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But there are so many studies and just

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anecdotally,

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we know that when you say, oh I'm

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going on a diet, it's not gonna last

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very long because you get pleasure and you

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get joy just from announcing it before anything

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tangible has been done towards it.

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And with that we say,

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