Tamara Gray – Fasting in Shawwal

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The speaker discusses the importance of fasting for women, particularly when pregnant or nursing. They also mention the need for women to make up their fasting habits and offer photo prayers. The speaker emphasizes the importance of fasting for women, particularly when it comes to their health and well being.

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			When you come off of Ramadan, if
you are a woman, you have probably
		
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			six to seven days that you need to
make up. Some will have 10. Some
		
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			will have 15. As we go into Shoal,
you will have another six or seven
		
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			days or 10 or 15 that you can't
fast. So for some women, it is
		
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			literally impossible to make up
all of your Qatar fast in Shoal
		
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			and do the six sunnahs.
		
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			So the question is, what is what
are we going to do? Then, how are
		
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			we managing our fast? And I've
also realized that a lot of women
		
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			are not making up the fast from
one year to the next, and so they
		
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			are piling up fasts. And then some
women even are are doing Sunda
		
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			fast, but not making up their
fast. So all of this has really
		
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			motivated me to talk about and
talk about this and really think
		
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			about this. And how are we
interacting with our fasting? How
		
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			are we interacting with other
fasting? How are we interacting
		
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			with sunnah fasting? And what does
that mean for us as women,
		
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			especially a lot of women have, on
top of the week or so of Ramadan
		
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			to make up, they have days of
		
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			a whole ramadans From the time
that someone told them they
		
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			couldn't fast when they're
pregnant or nursing, and so they
		
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			have all these days.
		
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			It's a lot of days, and it's a,
it's a, it's a difficult thing for
		
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			so many women. We are losing our
understanding of the importance of
		
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			funneled losing our understanding
of the role that fuddled has in
		
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			our lives.
		
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			Now our funneled fasting, I'm
going to we have fuddled fasting.
		
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			We have photo prayers that need
making up. I'm only going to talk
		
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			about fasting right now our
followed fasting is something we
		
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			owe God. We have a debt to Allah
		
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			and a very beautiful opportunity
to pay it back, and that can be
		
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			paid back at any time. Followed is
first before sun. It is the most
		
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			important thing, and as many women
have many days to make up, I
		
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			suggest that you don't worry about
Sanna. Leave it to the side right
		
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			now, do your kada fast and yes, as
quickly as possible. Now, if you
		
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			can do those kada fasts in Shawal
and gain the benefit of shawan.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, maybe you do six of
them. Maybe do six of your and
		
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			show what. Because you're saying
to yourself, you know, I know the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu mentioned six
days of shawar. I want to just
		
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			have a nod to that. I know a lot
of women who make up their fast on
		
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			Mondays and Thursdays. They make
them up in the days of the Hijjah.
		
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			That doesn't mean they're
combining two intentions. It means
		
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			they understand there's blessing
of fasting in those days, and so
		
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			they're fasting on those days to
make up their.