Tahir Anwar – Ramadan Reminder Lighten the Load & Burdens of Others

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The speaker discusses the importance of lightening the load of others during the month of Easter, and encourages people to be kind to people and forgive those who do not want to do things. They also emphasize the importance of doing small things, such as praying, to make small impacts. The speaker emphasizes that small things can be small, and that everyone is doing small things to receive results from Allah.

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			We have,
		
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			you know, entered into our first weekend of
		
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			Ramadan I'm hoping and praying to Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala that for those of us that
		
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			might have been slightly busy during the weekday,
		
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			we're able to maybe get some rest Insha'Allah
		
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			and get in some Ibadah and worship, you
		
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			know, extra Ibadah and worship, you know, extra
		
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			Ibadah and worship during the weekend insha'Allah
		
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			we pray to Allah
		
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			for his blessings, his ease, and his protection
		
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			brothers and sisters there's a hadith
		
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			you know, and I shared this hadith earlier
		
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			the prophet
		
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			in instructing us about Ramadan mentions
		
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			that we should lighten the burden
		
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			of the person that works for us. In
		
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			other words, if you have a laborer,
		
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			you know, you should ease their burden, light
		
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			lighten their load
		
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			during the month of Ramadan. Brothers and sisters,
		
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			this is crucial, but this is not just
		
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			about lightening the load
		
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			of,
		
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			you know, lightening the load of someone that
		
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			works for you. We should also
		
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			look into
		
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			lightening the load of the people that we
		
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			live with.
		
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			Right? We all have we all share certain
		
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			responsibilities
		
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			at home,
		
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			and some of us may do certain things
		
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			and some of us may do other things.
		
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			Let us let every and this is what
		
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			I really wanna share today is that let
		
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			us all of us look around our own
		
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			household, our own family members and see what
		
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			is it that I can do to lighten
		
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			the load
		
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			of a family member. If it happens to
		
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			be your spouse, if it happens to be
		
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			your parent, if it happens to be your
		
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			child, if it happens to be a sibling,
		
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			whoever it is, right, let's lighten the load
		
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			for them. Let's do things. Right? Some of
		
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			us have maybe a little bit of extra
		
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			time on the weekend. Some of us may
		
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			have a little bit of extra time in
		
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			the evenings or the mornings.
		
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			Different people are on different schedules. We need
		
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			to do we can't just simply say, well,
		
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			I'm doing my part and I'm not gonna
		
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			no. We we are all in this month
		
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			of Ramadan together. And so when the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wasallam reminds us to lighten the
		
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			load, and those exact words as translated,
		
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			It's not just about someone that works for
		
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			us. Think about it. Right?
		
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			And and at the very least, be kind
		
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			to people. Right? What kind of a fast
		
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			are we doing if we can't be kind
		
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			to those around us, if we can't be
		
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			caring to those around us?
		
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			Right? We we choose to fast the month
		
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			of Ramadan. We choose to fast during the
		
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			days, but some of us, all we're doing
		
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			is refraining from eating and drinking. Other than
		
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			that, there's really no quality to our fast.
		
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			We're still spending hours
		
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			or maybe not hours, but we're spending, you
		
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			know, wasting time on social media. We're wasting
		
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			time listening to things that we shouldn't be
		
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			listening. We're wasting time seeing things we shouldn't
		
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			be seeing. That's not what Ramadan is about.
		
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			What's the quality
		
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			of our fast if that happens to be
		
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			the case? Right? What's the quality of our
		
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			fast?
		
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			And so let us truly
		
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			make our fast meaningful.
		
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			And in addition to that, one other thing
		
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			that I want to share that I mentioned
		
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			in the Khutba was that
		
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			We want to make our fast special in
		
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			the sense that
		
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			we want to do something
		
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			Right? We expect
		
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			grand results from Allah in Ramadan Yet
		
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			we won't do grand things.
		
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			And when I say doing grand things, it's
		
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			very easy at times to worship Allah. Like,
		
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			you tell someone to pray tahajjud, or pray
		
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			this salah, or pray this Quran, easy.
		
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			Yet,
		
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			we're not so quick to forgive people, right?
		
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			If someone has done something wrong,
		
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			this is the time
		
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			to forgive them, like right now in this
		
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			moment,
		
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			right? Contemplate
		
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			and say, I forgive that individual. And if
		
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			you forgive them, let them know.
		
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			If someone has a haqq on you, a
		
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			right on you, and you happen to be
		
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			in a position to forgive them,
		
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			forgive them and let them know.
		
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			If someone owes you money and you have
		
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			intended that you're not gonna take it back
		
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			from them, yet for some odd weird reason,
		
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			you're waiting until they reach out to you
		
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			to pay you back and then tell them,
		
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			no.
		
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			Be be kind. Be merciful.
		
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			Go out of your way.
		
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			Sometimes,
		
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			you know, not it's diff it's it's so
		
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			much harder to not do things, you know,
		
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			things that we're supposed to not do, refrain
		
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			from.
		
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			So if there's someone that owes you money,
		
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			forgive them, if you can. I'm not saying
		
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			that you have to, but if you happen
		
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			to be an and let them know.
		
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			Right? Do some big things.
		
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			Do some big things this Ramadan for those
		
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			closest to you,
		
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			and then expect grand results from Allah
		
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			Let us make this month
		
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			count Let us make these days and nights
		
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			count May Allah bless and reward us all